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If my partner would even gain 10, there would be a diet. I'm the one doing the cooking, so that would be easy to do. But I'm super into sports, so I only date other people super into sports (because no one else would understand the need to spend at least half of your free time on it), and we are both in sports where your weight matters a lot, you have to keep your strenght-weight ratio reasonable. So it's rather a necessity, we can only "afford" gaining weight on our strength training period (= …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/15 10:28 AM
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I have trained quite a few dogs from rather stubborn breeds and after a while you'll see that it's not that different from treating people (since most training isn't done on the field, it's about the everyday interaction) - positive reinforcement, setting firm boundaries and all that. The rule in our house is that no dog eats before given permission and I decide who eats first and all of that - why do I have this rule? Because if they are willing to comply 100% when we are talking about food (on…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 10:09 AM
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My question might be a bit blunt, but do you just pick women who have "the right traits" or do you actually fall in love? Because I understand that you need some standards, we all have some, but I wouldn't see the point in dating someone just because they "tick all the right boxes" either. And for me, a big part of what creates the playful, almost erotic connection, is the pushing and pulling game, the fact that we can both tease each other - so for me it's really hard to empathize with TRP, bec…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 10:00 AM
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So first you break her mentally, so that she would never talk back, and now you are asking why she is "turning like her mother" and not giving any input? If she was already too submissive, she would have needed more encouragement, not constant putting down, it's not a fucking rocket science. Options: a) You want a submissive wife. Your input is RP. You get a submissive wife (or a divorce, which also works fine by their logic, because then they can find someone else, who actually is willing to be…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 09:05 AM
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It can't be the case that the end goal of married red pill is to find a woman who literally is no challenge to you and takes care of things at home. Are you kidding? That's exactly what RP talks about, it's the human quivalent of "how to train your dragon", they want to tame them and make them eat out of their palms, that's why everyone else dislikes them. Or you thought that dread game and amused mastery and other stuff like that that is aimed on making your wife more submissive, is just meant …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 08:47 AM
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They are interested in LTR and they think that RP is bad material for that (obviously), so their ideal man is somewhere between alpha and beta. Alpha enough to lead the marriage, but not RP, beta enough to compromise when necessary, to put the family first.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 08:45 AM
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Guess I was raised by a dragon then, because both me and my brother were told that no one wants to fuck a fat slob, no matter the gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 08:57 PM
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Did it by any chance also correlate with taking care of your looks and starting to put more work into yourself? If yes, then here's your answer - although you don't really need RP to tell you that, your mum could have done that 20 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/15 04:22 PM
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Oh, I have also dated hot men. I'm dating one now. Damn, TRP IS clever, I had no idea that they must all be part of TRP just because they are hot. And they have managed to hide it so well, treating me with respect and taking my opinion into account and shit. Damn, AMALT.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:24 AM
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A sincere question - is amused mastery, dread, negging and bs like that meant to be used when you are already in a relationship (and they are willing to give you a bit more credit, thinking that maybe you're not an asshole, just temporarily acting like one) or is it meant to be used to pick up ladies as well? Because I have seen so many guys trying to use it in a bar environment and although I believe that they score at some point, most people (women included) just think they are idiots. Negging…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/15 11:23 AM
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Is "romantic" only eating and candlelight and netflix? Then you might be right. For me any kind of spending time 1 on 1 with my bf can be romantic. For example our romantic Saturdays consist of working out together, just two of us, while teasing each other about our improvement or lack of it. I would even go as far as saying that the evenings we spend next to each other, working on our separate projects, are quite romantic, because during the breaks we either make each other hot chocolate and cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 02:03 PM
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Doesn't that logic say that at least at some point in life men with high count were putting a lot of effort in scoring - shouldn't any girl be worried then that he will secretly continue doing that while being in the relationship? Sounds like a risky business, compared to other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:53 PM
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I would assume that a person who has banged 200 persons is used to walking away and is used to do that whenever there is a problem - it's easier for them to just pursue a new relationship, just like they've always done. So that high count is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:49 PM
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If we would want a man who can do something that is hard to do, we would all be dating circus performance or bull riders. If I want to commit, I choose a partner who would be emotionally able and willing to do so, so obviously I judge him based on his past decisions (just like they judge me and just like TRP does, avoiding single moms etc) - if he has slept with 40 women, the chances are that he has never been that interested in relationships, isn't used to compromise and probably the chances of…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 01:46 PM
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I used to believe that men by nature are just not that emotional and that they are definitely never interested in children other than their own - because that's how men act where I'm from. Then I visited Italy and Spain ... Made me understand really fast how much the culture affects what we see as manly or womanly. There it's completely normal that if a random child starts crying on the metro, random men start cracking jokes and are actively engaging, trying to cheer it up, even caressing it (th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/15 12:09 PM
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Yes, I agree, but it happens very often.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/15 11:41 AM
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Most things have been named, but in addition to learned helpness, which I truly detest, I think that the most toxic but common trait is backstabbing your own gender by saying that you are not like other girls:"I'm not like other girls because I don't like drama/I can drive really well/I majored in STEM field/I love sex/I can cook/whatever." It all just sends out the message that you think that women in general are not worth much and you, little unicorn, are the only valuable representative of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:41 PM
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That I can definitely agree with. You need a man who would be strong enough, but actually willing to put his family first in case of need (because I as a woman am willing to put my family first as well, it has to be a teamplay).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/15 03:21 PM
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Damn, this labelling is complicated. I didn't even know it goes that deep. :D I think that your AB is what I call "a normal person".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 01:03 PM
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"Happy wife, happy life" and TRP are just opposite ends of stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 09:24 AM
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I always thought that RPW are not after alphas (and definitely not after TRP-s) because they are not LTR material, so they prefer "higher betas" or some mix between betas and alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/15 07:52 AM
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Hmm, now that you say it, I don't get tired of foreplay per se, but it is true, that someone I'm in a mood for just a quickie and for my bf this was a really new thing since he is a kind of guy who ALWAYS takes time, no matter what he is doing. So now I cash in my quickies in the morning when we just don't have time for more and he has gotten used to that just fine (as long as he can take his time the next time). But you made me think that probably there's a group of people who really wish to be…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 03:32 PM
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You are still assuming that people always lie and hide their real emotions. That's mistake No. one, this behaviour is learnt, not all people do that. Mistake No. two is assuming that people want the same things in different relationships - it's not true for me and I have always honest it's not for others as well. With the guy I was engaged with, I was "average clinginess" = holding hands when we walked, cuddling a bit before falling asleep, when watching movies etc. With my last bf I got along r…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/15 06:00 AM
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I have honestly never approached relationships from this angle. I have never tried to be the best girflriend by someone's standard, after the end of puberty I have always tried to hook up with people who'd be naturally compatible with me, so that we wouldn't have to mold each other and play manipulative games to fit each others' needs. I have dated few alphas (by trp standards - individualistic, strong, career orientated, don't take shit from anyone; but let's clarify - alphas, not assholes, the…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 03:58 PM
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I don't really drink alcohol, just like Islam recommends, and YET I am not religious. My bf believes in equality, actually talking about your problems and feelings, discusses decisions that affect both of us (and some that only affect him, if he knows I care about the outcome), divides chores. He is shy and prefers to avoid conflict (although stubborn, both at work and in home situations, if he has made up his mind he just says quietly that the decision is made and there's nothing more to discus…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/15 05:42 AM
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Actually my bluebill bf is the best fuck I have ever had - he is one of those guys who enjoys working out and who medidates regularly so he is in good shape and can last exactly as long as he wants to. He is always willing to try different positions (initiates them at least half of the time) and likes to try kinky stuff - my experience says that quiet and shy ones are usually the kinkiest (for example he likes to have sex in public places every now and then). What I (as a bluepill woman) give to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/15 06:19 PM
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It's not about being halfa widowed. It's about illusion. If you break up with someone, you know their bad sides, if someone dies you can believe that it would have had perfect. My uncle (= MALE) married his first wife after only knowing her for few months and she died out of the blue when they had been together for less than a year. He has been together with his second wife for more then 20 years now, part of it my aunt was the only one working and supporting the family when he was out of job, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/15 07:11 PM
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Why would it be wrong to break up with someone over sex? It's perfectly normal to choose a partner you are sexually compatible with - if one of you is not ready for sex, but the other one wants to be sexually active, it would be rather stupid to be together. It IS wrong though to lie about staying together, if you only want to bang someone. But on the dread game working - aren't all bluepillers always saying that trp only works on insecure women? And you are saying yourself that this girl was ve…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/15 07:58 PM
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My bf has flat out told me that he chose me because he likes how strong I am. He is very independent and he wants a girl who shares similar traits, not someone whose only ambition is to become a SAHM, ready to suck his dick on call, with no ideas and hobbies on her own. Also, honest interaction (without bullshitting or manipulating each other, be it shit testing or dread game or just any kind of taking your partner for an idiot) both on mental and emotional level (yes, guys CAN have emotions too…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 01:58 PM
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As someone who already is in an equal happy relationship, I suddenly realised that I have used all these tactics ... When I was training my dog. The goals obviously wasn't to get her to lick me, but to teach her to respect me. Why should I try to do it with my bf or why should he try to do it with me, is beyond me ... He doesn't have to ask for a blowjob, he gets them anyway. But speaking from past relationship - I just understood that someone actually tried the same "glass of water" trick with …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 01:49 PM
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When I was 17, my (Swedish) father promised to beat up my then 22-year-old bf and told me something along the lines "fuck people your own age, older guys either try to use you or he REALLY still is mentally on your level, hasn't matured at all and never will". Made me cautious, didn't fuck him and understood quite soon that he was right. And 40-year-olds hitting on 20-year-olds are just disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/15 01:31 PM
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I actually agree with the base line that says that you shouldn't be putting pussy on a pedestal - I think it goes for everyone everywhere, you shouldn't treat anyone like a god(dess). What RP guys call "negging" is in it's theory (i.e. as described by famous RP guys, not buy the guys who overdo it) just treating someone as a normal person, playfully, instead of taking them too seriously and treating them like their Holyness, before even knowing her. Unfortunately a lot of these guys haven't had …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 01:11 PM
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I don't think that life COULD be 100% equal. For me it's important to feel that both parts are doing their share. I usually cook, my bf usually cleans, the one who has the time, does the dishes. When we go out, we usually take turns in buying drinks or in paying (one pays this week and the other next week), instead of counting the pennies. Obviously we don't decide things for each other - we don't tell each other how to dress or who to hang out with. Lately I was offered to go abroad for a week …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/15 12:56 PM
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How they can be nonfunctional? Bigger muscles are for show not for work. If you look at the world's strongest men, then they don't look anything like bodybuilders, rather the other way around they look a bit chubby because they need only functional muscle and can't afford the additional weight that "only good for looking" muscle would bring. Same with calisthenics where they can move around their whole body mass, but have to keep the musclemass as small but yet functional as possible. Most sport…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/15 10:29 AM
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Yes, because so far informing them of his personality has been enough to shut it down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 10:15 PM
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No, you are being disrespectful if you aren't giving your current partner your full attention. If a guy has never done it before, he probably won't start doing it now.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 10:15 PM
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It's your own logic that it's the SMV that counts, not mine. And by that logic it's just how women are, always desiring for highest possible SMV. So instead of crying about shitty treatment, by this logic you have to work on your SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 10:14 PM
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In which way? As in "my little sister will NOT get a STD"? She will end up with someone who actually RESPECTS her? We all pre-select our partners on some basis. Telling my friends that someone is no good as a possible partner because this far he has never prioritized any woman he has been with, is totally reasonable pre-selection.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 07:12 PM
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I'm not doing him any favours when it comes to relationships (like I'm not lying to anyone to cover his ass, I just stay out of it), but I'm also not intervening when random girls just throw themselves at him because he looks good. If you go after the guy with the coolest tattoos and nicest abs without caring about any other characteristics, you know what your risks are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 03:20 PM
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Of course they are and I'm not telling them that they are not ALLOWED to do anything with him (my little sister is 21, she would freak out if I would try to control her like that). I just make sure that their possible consent would be VERY well informed, including how he usually is fucking several girls at the same time etc. Since neither my sister nor girlfriends are interested in being someone's plate, obiously they don't go out with him knowing what he is like.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 02:37 PM
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This lifting thing is so weird. For me a man who lifts is a red flag - and I'm into sporty men. Lifting is just the most boring of sports I can think of, it has no other goal than building nonfunctional muscle - as opposed to almost EVERY other sport that is more fun, has a goal and builds at least some functional muscle groups. So usually lifting = shallow personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:35 PM
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Well, it's not her fault that the other guy had so much higher SMV than you ...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:30 PM
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Well, that just goes both ways. One of my best male friends is a slut, I truly love him, we have been friends since childhood, I'll always have his back - and it seems that he seriously doesn't understand why I automatically shut it down when he tries to approach my female friends or (oh hell no) my little sister. They just deserve better than some fuck-them-all guy and that doesn't mean that I wouldn't still love him as a person and support him in his ventures when he is trying to fuck people t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:28 PM
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Some men are just idiots. My best friend is married to her second partner. They have been married for six years now, she REALLY likes sex and she REALLY likes anal. Isn't really a problem, because her husband also likes both of these things. But when they had a rough patch in their marriage, the husband (29-year-old grown man at that point) seriously threatened to tell everyone "what kind of slut she is because she likes to get it in the ass". The fact that he is the only man ever to put it in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 01:20 PM
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Well, I was never TAUGHT that I shouldn't text first or things like that - these things get to you from television and surrounding culture in general. Even from action movies, usually girls are the passive ones there. Even in your MMORPG-s, real women can play as characters but the game created people you meet - women are hurt and need saving or maybe working in a bar, they are more passive. I would think that most socially capable people pick these things up from their surrounding culture and d…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/15 10:49 AM
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Oh come on. That's just bullshit. Of course your mother tells you to be nice, because people are supposed to be nice (not doormats, but nice, there is a difference). I wouldn't even think that I should actually TELL my son that "but if you want to fuck a girl, you should let her know that you like her" - that's just common sense. If you want an apple, you don't wait for the perfect one to magically appear, you walk to the tree and pick it up. Waiting for a girl to notice you in a culture where g…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 07:54 PM
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So you are saying that natural TBP-s are better because they can get sex without trying that hard and TRP is for the ones who can't get laid without additional help? I do agree, but wouldn't have thought that you will say it out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 07:51 PM
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Call me naive, but I think that MGTOW virgins can be saved with pure love. And some pussy. But mainly pure love.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 12:18 AM
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I think that the main difference between just a confident guy and a douchebag is where their priorities lie - douchebags are usually honest (well, too lazy to lie, but by the end of the day it still means honest) and don't hide the fact that they only care about themselves. Just a confident guy has some moral boundaries, like he wouldn't fuck his friend's wife. Also, if you are not sure, you can always have sex with them - douchebags are lazy in bed as well and only care about their own orgasms,…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 12:16 AM
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I wonder if MGTOW has virgin members? If you don't want religious people, then you could try to win someone over from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/15 12:05 AM
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Yes, it's still a very good place to have babies, but makes you wonder if that is really the place where you want to raise them. It was, when I was little, now I'm getting my doubts. Oh well, every place has its problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 11:56 PM
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Your marriage laws are weird to say the least (and stem from biblical views, men have to take care of the family and women aren't really seen as complete human beings), but women are also in a weaker place from the second they decide to have a child, so they try to strengthen their position before as much as possible. Not that I would be totally happy with our system (in case of the divorce children often stay in one house and parents take turns moving in and out every week or two weeks - equali…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 11:45 PM
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I never lie to people I'm actually interested in because I see no point in a relationship if I have to lie. Although, I don't really have to lie to suit my "market". Here I have no interest in tying myself down, I'm leaving the country soon enough and I don't hide this fact, so it's obvious that no LTR will stem out of it, so in my mind they have no business asking these questions in the first place. Especially since some people ask it completely randomly, when it's not even a date, like at a di…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 10:47 PM
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Well, that should be common knowledge, isn't it? Just like I always say that I have had sex with only two guys whenever any Americans ask. Although American girls have told me that they usually go with 3-4 because that seems more believable. We all know our market before we choose the advertising methods.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:46 PM
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Okay, I'm obviously subjective on this matter, but I actually think that if you'd have a reasonable dating period before marriage and you two would actually like each other, that might be a good idea. I feel that I could never marry an American because the cultural differences are just so big and in long run they will matter a lot. And if you were raised by Indian parents in Indian community, the chances are that your core values really ARE different from average American lady. For example, I fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 08:50 PM
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Interesting, because I personally feel that life in general has tarnished me much more than my own relationships that have all been quite happy and ended amically with no one cheating or being an asshole. It's seeing the stuff that goes on around me that has turned me into the cynical bitch I am (for example seeing my former boss pretending to be a good husband and father while always having at least one mistress - and the shit they both started pulling when it all came crashing down). If you pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 08:42 PM
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Hmm, why would you think that the girl would be significantly poorer? I have understood that Indian mothers would never bring a girl like that (poorer usually also means lack of education) to their son, they try to choose the girl of a similar social status. /u/SirNemesis are you considering marrying a poor Indian girl who would look up to you because you have money or someone culturally as similar to you as possible? Because I can understand the second one, but the first one seems a bit problem…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 08:33 PM
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You are not being pimped out - you trust your parents and believe that they are able to make the best choice for you since they have more life experience than you do. At least that's how the only two girls in arranged marriage I personally know, explain it. I don't know one of them much, but the other one seems to be really in love with her husband - she said that they were exchanging letters before they really met for the first time and she was already a bit into him because he was witty. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 08:26 PM
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Oh, I think that now I understood it - you think that it's the BREAK-UP that tarnishes the person, not the ups and downs of life itself? But in that case, shouldn't a girl with 2 previous long relationships be more tarnished than someone who casually fucked 20, so none of them broke her heart? (Really, I'm not trying to be ironic or anything, just trying to understand where you stand.)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 08:16 PM
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Come on, you are an Indian yourself, you should know that many of them are not awkward - I'm not attracted to the typical Indian bodytype, but I know so many completely normal Indian guys who are virgins. Good humour, work out, look cute if you are into them. They are just virgins because they seriously believe that first you finish your studies (for most of the ones I know, that means phD) and THEN you start focusing on girls, because before you need to get good enough grades to keep your schol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 08:11 PM
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I might not know what I want (because random dude on the internet says so), but I sure as hell know who has been able to access my pussy in the past and who not. I have denied more than few guys because I know their past lifestyle - I don't mind high count (it's a minus in my book, but I'm willing to look past it if I know for sure that he is leading a different lifestyle now), but if I know that someone has been hooking up with more than one girl at the same time, it's never going to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 07:59 PM
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My point was that every RP guy IS cynical at least to some extent (everyone who has some experience will become cynical at some point, because you will discover that no one is special - not you, not anyone around you, everyone is replacable, no matter how it feels) - and a cynical person will tarnish the other one fast. Unless you pretend really hard to also be nice and naive so that she can continue living in her own reality (and have a lifestyle that lets her be SAHM, so that she wouldn't see …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 07:54 PM
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It's an interesting coincidence because I was just chatting with an Indian friend today (to be fair, he grew up in Dubai and only visits India with his parents like once per year) and he told me that he would never marry an Indian woman. He is quite a traditional man, so I jokingly asked him if he doesn't want to marry a virgin - and he responded with "the shit that comes to the relationship with our culture is not worth that little piece of skin". It seemed impolite to pry more about what "the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 05:41 PM
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It's interesting how all these guys who think "hey, it's just talk" all suddenly disagree when they say "hey, I could bang this ass all for hours" and I respond with "that's what the mailman tells your mum every morning before". If you are just throwing trash around, some will come back, easy as that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:23 AM
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I was baffled as well, but I saw things like this happen on NUMEROUS occasions. Like a waitress walking away with him and we getting our food for free - things like that happened on a daily basis when hanging out with him. He was not handsome, he was not rich, all he was in my mind was funny and friendly (and supposedly into tantra and capable of fucking for hours when he felt like that, but these random hookups didn't know that). And we are talking about a guy who thought for instance that it's…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/15 09:14 AM
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Hear, hear! Couldn't have worded it better myself, but that's exactly how I feel about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 01:38 PM
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Hypergamy and hypergamy - by your description, you are pretty hard to put up with and she has her own bag of mental issues. It would be completely normal to run away and join a monastery without ever having sex. Even if she'd become a prostitute, it would just running away FROM you. Hypergamy means that she is going TO someone, because someone is better. "I've periodically tried to stalk her online as you do with exes eventually" - no. Stalking your exes shows that you are unable to let go. That…
/r/ExRedPill23/06/15 10:34 AM
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I have only met one sex addict so far and this guy was fat, had only half of his hair left and was in his early 40s - and yet he had such speaking skills that he could go out to buy milk and convince a random cashier to take a break to suck him next to the garbage can. Completely anecdotal evidence of course, but the biggest stud I have ever seen (he said he lost his count around hundred and he wasn't even 25 then), WAS indeed fat and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:26 AM
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I'd say USA is just weird in that. I am Swedish, grew up there and it is considered perfectly normal there to have casual sex when you are currently not in a relationship (at least in Stockholm, might be different in small towns, I guess) - because, you know, women have sexual needs too. Most people go through this hooking up phase in their early 20s. Then I came to USA to do my masters and the attitude is very different.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/15 07:16 AM
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