Unfortunately, I am the child of a mail order bride and the sort of creep who seeks mail order brides. I am all for you going overseas for almost any reason. Less problems for me. Please, go elsewhere.
Female children are trained and socialized to be obedient and agreeable, which is why they do better in school. Maybe the male children should be trained that way as well. Instead, male children are raised to be animals (“boys will be boys”). RAISE THE BAR FOR MALES