Aggravating-Copy-818 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	I've started the process		Aggravating-Copy-818	/r/Divorce_Men	23/04/26 07:39 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I've started the process Thankfully I'm reminded by her every day that I'm not good enough, well read enough, spiritual enough, fun enough, etc. Makes that last line easy to hold on to. For now, I play nice and play the game.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/04/26 01:52 AM
1	Made myself small for her I bailed my wife out of jail, paid for her attorney, and got the charges dropped after she got arrested for DV. You aren't alone, brother. It's a hard road getting out, but you can do it.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/04/26 07:03 PM
4	After 11 years, I finally filed. Here are the real reasons and they're not what anyone expects Honestly, kind treatment and affection gets under my skin more nowadays. At least the shitty treatment is somewhat consistent. Kindness confuses me and gives me a false sense of hope until the next split/blowup/incident. Shout out to my therapist for keeping my head on straight.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 05:31 PM
2	After 11 years, I finally filed. Here are the real reasons and they're not what anyone expects The last 10 days have been such a rollercoaster, I'm not even sure which way is up anymore. I just got done with a meeting with an attorney. Turns out, I've been doing the right things, and I have a really solid plan. Doesn't help the trauma bond and emotional anguish, but it gives me a path forward that I don't need to worry too much about. Now, what's going to happen when I get home today? Anyone's guess.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 04:36 PM
18	After 11 years, I finally filed. Here are the real reasons and they're not what anyone expects Abuse (emotional, mental, verbal, physical, spiritual), gaslighting, rewriting history, threats. That's the start of the list anyway.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/03/26 04:18 PM
1	“I need a man who will be man enough to let me kick him in the face.” This an entirely separate issue to the abuse. I do all the housework. She says, “when you’re home, I’m not responsible for the kids.” I never get time off. 60 hours at work and then all night at home everyday It's like our wives are twin sisters. I'm sorry, man. It's tough.	/r/Divorce_Men	07/08/25 10:38 PM
2	How many of us were actually abused? The Narcissists Creed.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/25 02:14 PM
2	How many of us were actually abused? I'm on the cusp of making the decision to leave, and I have a sneaking suspicion that my wife will weaponize my daughter against me. She's already told me that my daughter and 2 step sons don't like me, and don't want me living there. I'm anticipating a full frontal assault on the legal side. My work is pretty well covered, and I think I'll be ok financially, as I can leverage a few things against her if it goes sideways. On the bright side, she's already been arrested once for DV, and though my…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/25 02:13 PM