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You still hit no
/r/seduction24/03/24 10:35 PM
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I know what you’re saying is the truth but my mind always reverts back to that comparing mentality. When I see couples together I look away to avoid those comparing thoughts. Shit makes me feel inferior to be honest
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:51 PM
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I feel the same way but I work out and live on my own. If you don’t have success with women like some men do it can make me wonder what I’m doing wrong or am I not attractive, am I too skinny, fat, weird etc. I knew a guy who had so much success with women it wasn’t funny. He had a girl at least once a week while I was still a 24yr old virgin lol. It made me question myself. Still my success with women is pretty bad but I think it’s because I’m an introvert. He was an extrovert. I’ve been going …
/r/seduction10/03/24 04:49 PM
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I learned the hard way by trying it. I love my job but found out we’re all getting laid off so I shot my shot at a woman who I found out liked me. We talked for a week and I tried to get a date going but she started to flake on me. When I finally met her in person at work she was trying to avoid me. She was fake asf. Now I try to avoid seeing her. I used to love going into work but now I try to avoid her. Never again. I’m never messing with women in the work place again. Luckily this is the last…
/r/seduction05/03/24 03:40 AM
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I have the same situation with a woman my coworkers tried to set me up with. She works with me but on separate teams. I got her number and she talks alot on the phone but when I talk with her in person she shys away from me and it makes me feel a sort of way. I dropped all contacts with her because I feel like an idiot chasing a woman that doesn’t want me or isn’t ready to date. We flirt in the phone and she tells me a lot of her life and she was in an abusive relationship so I’m thinking she do…
/r/seduction29/02/24 09:51 PM
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How do you meditate? Do you use an app?
/r/seduction29/02/24 03:33 PM
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Wym like focus on her reactions?
/r/seduction28/02/24 11:03 PM
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How do we get out of our heads?
/r/seduction28/02/24 09:49 PM
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Omg
/r/seduction19/02/24 12:19 AM
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You should have asked her if you could go into her place lol. She seemed like she was faded tho
/r/seduction18/02/24 03:29 PM
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Just have fun with her but if she’s toxic don’t get in a relationship. As long as the two of you agree to have fun it’s all good
/r/seduction18/02/24 03:24 PM
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True
/r/seduction16/02/24 04:13 AM
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It’s funny how so many women put they want to hookup or have something casual in their profile but when you ask them if they’re down to have fun there usually never want to. Even if it says so in their bio 😂 Women will never try to act like sluts even if they are. It’s crazy you have to play games just to get to the sex. It’s just how it is. If you don’t play you don’t win
/r/seduction15/02/24 10:50 PM
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I learned a long time ago women never mean what they say. Always trust their actions more.
/r/seduction07/02/24 07:56 PM
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The girls at parties or bars etc are drunk. You’ll see most of the posts here involve some type of drinking or drug use. I’d like to see a game program for sober guys, from a sober guy 😂
/r/seduction05/02/24 03:45 AM
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It’s not uncommon. Most of the guys getting action have a plan to go to bars and get the women drunk. I hope someone invented a gaming plan for sober guys 😂
/r/seduction02/02/24 01:45 PM
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Funny how even smart dudes like engineers can’t solve the riddle that is a woman 😂 bro if you’re struggling out here I’ve lost hope lol
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:34 PM
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Bro it’s crazy out there. She seemed to be into you. You should have just had fun and hit it.
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:10 PM
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The idea of putting my rod in a dudes bum is unappealing 😂 trust me it’s bad where I’m at in terms of dating overall or maybe my game just sucks but I would be lying if I said I haven’t thought about it. I’ve been trying old and it’s almost all single moms in my area. I don’t go out much but I need to approach more
/r/seduction01/02/24 01:04 PM
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As a 29 year old who works out daily (mon-sun) but not too heavy on the weekends (for 3.5 years straight), has his own place, and learns a lot of new things I haven’t had a girl in 15 years. What works for you won’t work for others. I need to socialize more. I was a hermit even before covid but I’m going out more. When I mean go out more I mean not to bars because I’m 7.5 years sober from alcohol. It’s hard finding women with the same values which is what matters in the end. If I wanted to I cou…
/r/seduction09/06/23 03:40 PM
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Yeah you can do that but I’m going a different route. They could be like that because they were abused as well. Maybe if people accepted and tried to resolve their own insecurities they would realize “you know maybe I am a bit of a shit head.”
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:49 PM
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Yeah a solution to that would be to talk to mom who verbally abuses you and figure out why she’s like that. You can never change a person only they can do that. If they don’t stop the mistreatment then you have to move away from people who won’t help you grow. Move away from them when you can. You and only you know what you’re capable of.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:38 PM
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You’re gonna sleep with a strange woman you don’t even know. Other than that the stds that can fuck your shit up even with protection. Think twice before going this route guys.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:32 PM
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I believe it’s because I don’t put myself out there. I’m not great at socializing and for the most part I’m intimidated by women because of my past trauma/dealings with women. It’s a skill you can learn but my issue is actually going out there to places where women are at. It’s something you have to do constantly.
/r/seduction23/07/22 02:28 PM
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Try 10lb dumbbells, you’ll have better results lol
/r/seduction18/12/21 08:23 PM
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No way do I believe that. As a guy who rarely approaches woman, I’ve been rejected 90% of the time. The time I did have success was when a woman approached me. I saw she was interested and I asked her out. We only had one date and it fizzled out. Not the most good looking guy but I have a stable job, my own place and work out daily, etc. Woman looking for dates have it the easiest. They have many choices.
/r/seduction04/12/21 12:58 AM
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I kind of agree most of the times. Everyone is attracted to looks. I know it’s shallow but that’s the motherfucking truth. You need that or money most of the times with 10s. It’s not impossible to get a 10 if you click with them. IDK
/r/seduction01/10/21 10:22 PM
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Lol
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:52 PM
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I’m on the opposite spectrum. I’m skinny . I’ve been working out and eating 3k+ calories but my job is too physical so I burn more calories. Eating this much really sucks but I was at 135 now at 140 ish. Fml lol
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:50 PM
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How did it happen if you don’t mind me askin
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:48 PM
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How did it feel like?
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:47 PM
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I agree. I’ve seen model looking guys get approached like crazy. Made me think I’m ugly. I’ve been approached by women before but not like 9/10 guys. I work out daily (for 2 years now), keep hygiene in check, stopped watching porn (164 days)sober (alcohol, pills), stretch/yoga and this helps with daily stress. I frequent the forever alone subreddit but it’s like those people have given up hope. It’s sad but I won’t quit. I hope I don’t get to that point. But yeah man I learned that if you want a…
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:42 PM
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I’ve had 2 chances to lose my virginity but the the 2 girls that wanted to have sex have been around. One girl was at work and her husband brought her lunch all the time. I was not raised to be a hoe ass dude like that. The other was at a halfway house where this chick would grab a dudes package in front of everyone . I wanted to meet that special someone but now I realize that may be unrealistic. I can approach women but most of the time I have no interest too. I’ve been getting urges like craz…
/r/seduction19/09/21 07:30 PM
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The best advice ever…not
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:40 AM
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I heard approach anxiety comes from trying to say something smooth. My game with women is mediocre. I have approached like 3 women this year 😩. All you have to do is say hey what’s up. If she initiates conversation then you’re on. You have to hit on her from then on or else if you don’t you’ll end up in the friend zone. Get to the point of the interaction. a girl at a office max asked me if I needed anything. I said no. Then I thought she was cute anc went back to her and said yeah I do need som…
/r/seduction30/08/21 12:09 AM
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It don’t happen overnight fml
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:35 AM
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Let’s say you’re talking to a girl you’ve never met at the mall. There’s a pizza place. You ask her to go on a date at the pizza place.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:34 AM
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I totally understand the op. For me it’s anxiety and no interest to socialize because of depression. Anxiety does stem from depression. Anyway I sound like this guy. I read somewhere that approach anxiety comes from trying to have the perfect thing to say. All you have to say is hello or what’s up. Anything that gets a conversation started.
/r/seduction26/07/21 01:30 AM
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Hey bro I’m like you. Keep trying. We’ll make it there. Better yourself always and that should help with confidence
/r/seduction23/07/21 11:08 PM
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What’s the fa subreddit?
/r/seduction19/07/21 03:07 AM
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He could comment on her look and hint that he likes her.
/r/seduction19/07/21 12:33 AM
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I’ve had many interactions like this man but at least you tried right?
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:50 PM
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No it’s not bro lol
/r/seduction18/07/21 01:23 AM
1

Then on to the next one brotha.
/r/seduction11/07/21 02:16 AM
1

What brands do you guys go for? I like to dress minimalist and not super swagged out. Globe clothing is one of my favorite clothes stores. Anything cheap and minimalist guys out there? Not against the idea of spending a little more. The clothes at globe can get expensive sometimes too.
/r/seduction24/06/21 12:45 PM
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Wearing black makes you appear slimmer than you are when you’re slim, like myself, that’s not a good thing.
/r/seduction24/06/21 12:42 PM
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You live and learn brotha. You win some you lose some. Keep getting better
/r/seduction22/06/21 09:09 PM
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It’s a program. Go to Todd V dating. I didn’t buy it I pirated it 🤭. I might buy it because you get access to a lot of things idk
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:47 PM
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In the program he said as a beginner to just get her to start engaging with you. He said not to say something smooth. A “Hey how it going” her “ok” is good enough to start the conversation. He said approach anxiety comes from trying to think of something smooth/witty. If it comes to mind within 30sec to a minute for a particular girl use it. To keep a conversation going idk he didn’t really say anything about that.
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:45 PM
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I studied Todd Vs “The System” he has a bunch of openers. What op does is an advanced technique which beginners like myself shouldn’t be using yet. There’s super direct openers (no one should use) like “I have a penis it’s on offer.” Direct-man to woman openers(beginners start here) “I thought you were cute/sexy and I wanted to talk to you” General/friendly openers (beginners) “That’s an interesting outfit you got going on” something that says you’re interested but it’s subtle. I don’t want to p…
/r/seduction21/06/21 03:42 AM
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This is called an opinion opener.
/r/seduction20/06/21 09:05 PM
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I got a date at the park as well tomorrow. I asked her what she likes to eat and drink so I could bring that as well. I read somewhere to take a portable speaker and play some songs you and her like. That game a poster suggested is called patty cakes I believe.
/r/seduction04/06/21 12:29 AM
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Just hire a stripper or prostitute bro. Saying that is brutally honest and most women will probably reject you
/r/seduction31/05/21 10:15 PM
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All those guys who are great with girls, they weren’t born with that skill. Nobody is born with any skill. It’s all learned my friend. I too so not got game. Look up Todd V’s The System if you’re a beginner like me. Or you can do it the hard way and approach women after women and learn from that but it will suck being awkward but everyone sucks at something learning it for the first time.
/r/seduction31/05/21 09:37 PM
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I met this girl at a gathering that I was looking forward to meeting for the first time. I had been up for 15 hours and felt like shit (excuse?) But I still went. I talked to her and whenever it got quite she restarted the conversation. I couldn’t find shit to say because I was literally sleep deprived. I didn’t even ask for her number but I text her on FaceBook the next day. I’m nervous on her reply but at the same time I heard she wanted to meet me so I just told myself if she replies she repl…
/r/seduction29/05/21 04:08 PM
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See man. You got to keep trying. I have that self defeatist attitude at times too but I know if I stay in the fight (life or waking up not feeling in a good mood and not going to work or hitting on women even after it goes weird etc) I learn something about myself after I reflect on it. Another thing that helped me diminish that poopy pants mentality was to stop drinking, watching porn, smoking, caffeine and start doing exercise daily, stretching, reading, learning, my mentality changed slowly. …
/r/seduction17/05/21 02:06 AM
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Hey man I’m diagnosed with major depression and I can tell you that suicide is not the answer. I haven’t been in a relationship since I was 13. I’m 27 now. Not having ever held hands with a girl or kissed a girl isn’t the purpose of life. It’s about how you respect yourself. It’s an everyday journey. So everyday you should be improving yourself. I’m learning to meet women by reading some books (just to think outside the box). I’ve approached women in real life too and get rejected too but you ha…
/r/seduction16/05/21 11:38 PM
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You have to make it man to woman. Yesterday I talked to a girl at a gas station that was cute. I’d seen her many times before but never hit on her. I was looking at these candies in a pack. She asked me if I was looking for singles of that candy. I said no. I asked her if she ever tried these before and we got into a little conversation about cultures and what candy they like. What I should have done was when she asked me “are you looking for singles” I should have misinterpreted as her coming o…
/r/seduction08/05/21 01:50 PM
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Look up hims.
/r/seduction03/05/21 01:38 AM
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I’m reading that right now. Try reading “Can’t hurt me” by David Goggins. It will help with discipline
/r/seduction14/04/21 10:34 PM
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I think they are useful. These guys have years in the game and their knowledge can help if you apply it. You can learn it yourself yes but the programs can get you there faster. I haven’t bought any. Just torrent them. Look up The System by Todd v.
/r/seduction04/04/21 03:23 PM
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I agree. You have to go out there and practice BUT some programs have gold in them. If you’re a total beginner it is useful. I haven’t bought any. I just torrent them
/r/seduction04/04/21 03:21 PM
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Arms crossed means they are nervous. They are protecting themselves. It’s better to have your arms to the sides like you’re willing to take anything coming your way. Or have your hands behind your back like Jorge Masvidal does.
/r/seduction03/04/21 01:56 PM
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I have Todd’s “The system” and he recommended beginners give compliments or tell the girl she’s cute and ask her out. I did this to a girl on Friday and I did not notice she had a wedding ring finger on. I was nervous. Anxiety can slow the mind down or me and you are still too green. Everyone starts somewhere bro.
/r/seduction28/03/21 11:16 PM
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I say try everything and find what works. No excuses
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:38 PM
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I usually never hit on women but I got motivated with this post and said let’s go get rejected. I asked this one chick that she looked cute and asked her on a date. She said I’m married. I didn’t even look for a ring finger. That’s how green I am with women lol. Now I’ll learn from my mistake. It’s not so bad when trying to get rejected is the game lol.
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:33 PM
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It does look weird if a guy is going around to different women in a setting but be smart, Move to a different setting after like say 5 chicks. No excuses to not play this game
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:29 PM
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I call bull
/r/seduction26/03/21 10:25 PM
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Any books or programs you recommend? I deal with social anxiety because of my depression.
/r/seduction20/03/21 06:00 PM
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What do you think is better to learn social skills or “game”? Imho I lack in both
/r/seduction20/03/21 03:38 PM
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