Aggravating_Tie4586 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
145	The SILENCE Here is DEAFENING		Aggravating_Tie4586	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/05/23 10:02 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	The SILENCE Here is DEAFENING So why are the (many dozens) of true MRP-congruent men on here not willing to post content then? Their silence is deafening too. You need to face the fact that you have created an ugly culture here that discourages even the veterans from taking part.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/05/23 02:50 AM
5	The SILENCE Here is DEAFENING And you think that approach actually works on a Reddit forum? I judge a tree by it's fruit. And the fruit here is "silence". The kind of silence that comes from being hammered mercilessly every time you open your mouth. You need to decide if you are running a Reddit forum or a "bootcamp" at Leavenworth prison. I feel like this place is slowly dying. And unless some mercy and grace starts being included in the approach here, nothing can save it.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/05/23 02:10 AM
4	The SILENCE Here is DEAFENING What happened here was that a small group of "pharisees" decided that the best way to teach men is to yell and snarl at them until they "get it right". Very little encouragement. Just a critical (often nasty) takedown every time. As I said, if I coached a football team that way, pretty soon that team would start losing because no-one would dare suggest anything new or even ask a question. Their entire goal would be to avoid a tongue-lashing from the coach. Risk-taking and healthy discussion woul…	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/05/23 01:40 AM
19	The SILENCE Here is DEAFENING OK - different analogy. This sub exists to "teach" men how to improve their marriage. It should be somewhat like a classroom. But have you ever been in a class at school where if anyone dares to put their hand up and say something - they are immediately jeered and called every name under the sun? Pretty soon no-one in that class will dare raise their hand at all. Silence will reign. And that is exactly what has happened on this sub.	/r/MarriedRedPill	31/05/23 12:47 AM
29	The SILENCE Here is DEAFENING To me it's a lot like coaching a football team. If all you do is yell at the players and read them the riot act every time a mistake is made, you end up with a bunch of robotic players who are scared to try anything adventurous. You are destroying all their "flair" and creativity. And you are making the locker room a miserable place. Many on here seem to think it is "manly" to call members "fag" and nitpick them to death over every little comment they make. There is nothing manly about that. It …	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/05/23 11:18 PM
15	The SILENCE Here is DEAFENING That is like a Bible Study group saying, "The Bible already exists. So there is now nothing more to discuss!" It is the very attitude I am talking about.	/r/MarriedRedPill	30/05/23 10:23 PM
5	STFU on a Group Level Actually, I think nobody posts new content on MRP because it is the most unforgiving of all the RP sites. I have been around RP for years and I've never seen a forum that rips guys heads off more gleefully than this one. It's kinda sad, because there is a lot of potential for real insights from some great veterans here. But I sure know why nobody would want to post anything new. And thus we have one of the "quietest" and least-posted subs with over 40k members on all of Reddit.	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/05/23 05:54 AM