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Or both.
/r/ExRedPill08/04/24 03:22 PM
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This. An Indian guy told me that in their culture, the boys are encouraged to get “practice” with western girls until they are ready to marry a woman of their own culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/22 08:00 AM
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A scrote reposted this in the r/facepalm subreddit and most of the comments are talking about how ungrateful OP is and how he had a lucky escape. I just want to know why women are expected to be all things to all people with little appreciation but men only have to “try” for his efforts to be rewarded 😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 11:56 PM
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It’s hilarious that she paints her job as this humanitarian, non-profit organisation that sets out to bring ‘joy’ to men who would most likely kill themselves if it a wasn’t for women like her. We all know sex work is the most degrading job out there, and those men will never respect you, no matter how much ‘joy’ you bring them. I volunteered at a charity that supported street sex workers, and it wasn’t the rosy picture she’s trying to paint here. Most of the women were raped as children, addict…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 09:30 AM
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I stopped giving men closure a long time ago. Just block and delete, no explanation needed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/22 06:40 PM
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My mum always told me that the first sign is playfighting and she was dead right. I met this guy at a party, within a few hours of meeting he jokingly lightly tapped my cheek. Straight away I remembered what my mum had told me and said “DONT EVER DO THAT”. After that night we continued to talk and maybe a month or so later he came to see me (we lived 2 hours apart). Whilst we in the car, I must have said something he didn’t like and I’ll never forget the look he gave me, like when a child is act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/22 08:48 AM
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Reminds me of the time I sent a picture of my dessert to an ex and he called me “miss piggy”. When I called him out he was baffled and told me that I shouldn’t take offence because I’m not fat. I learned that this is an early warning sign of emotional abuse. If you notice this behaviour, the process has already started
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/22 11:45 PM
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I think he’s tired of being his ‘representative’ and is ready to show who he really is so he can start getting what he wants from the relationship. He should definitely go ahead and ask her to visit the storage unit so she can see how much of a pig he is, and what her life will look like if she continues to date him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:21 AM
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I wish these two would give it a rest! They’re not even original, Angelina Jolie and Billy Bob already did the drinking blood thing. I’m sick of their desperate attempts for publicity to revive their careers when they clearly don’t have the talent to follow through
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/22 10:58 AM
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If a bank isn’t willing to take a chance on him, why would you? Good point
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/22 11:10 AM
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Ventures as in plural? Another 🚩. It sounds like a lot of shoulda, woulda, coulda’s if you ask me. Are you able to validate his claims of assets or previous business success from mutual friends? One way to know if his “ventures” are viable is if he has a bank loan since they will do a risk assessment before lending money. If not, maybe suggest it and see how he reacts. At this point just try and find out realistically if he has been honest and if he is likely to be successful. But be diligent, t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:57 PM
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100%! At 34 he should have been preparing himself for a wife and children if that’s what he’s wanted. HVM men make plans for their future and set goals to be ready when the right woman comes along. This man is not HV, he’s probably a sugar baby!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 11:49 PM
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I wonder if OP has validated these successful businesses with mutual friends. I personally wouldn't take his word for it. People don't usually sell successful businesses then end up broke, that defeats the purpose of selling. So a few successful businesses under his belt and nothing to show? No investments in stocks or property? If you take away any successful businesses he may have had, what's left? He's just another man with no stability, no career, no savings selling OP a dream. He's saying e…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 10:25 PM
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Right! Even worse now that they ask for nudes to share in their group chats. NEVER send nudes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/21 10:34 PM
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It's sex trafficking and the parents in some cases are involved because they want grandchildren EDIT: when I say grandchildren, I mean they want their family name to live on. It’s so fucked, and as usual it’s the poorest women that are used, abused and discarded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/21 09:50 PM
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“The wall” is another one of those lies they tell women to control them, much like calling Chinese women “leftover”. The best time for women to have kids is after 30 (from an economic standpoint). Like you said, 27yo women who have persued degree’s have barely built a career yet, meaning they are more likely to have to rely on the father for financial support.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/21 06:52 AM
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Or call 999 to verify he is in fact a police officer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/21 11:33 AM
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I believe it was OK Cupid data specifically. Correct me if I'm wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:37 PM
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He’s that toxic Red Pill PUA that encourages rape and misogyny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/21 07:48 PM
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The misogyny in the black community is shockingly bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 08:16 PM
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With a micro dick? So why call them overgrown clits?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:32 PM
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I read that Diddy was dangling marriage over her head like a carrot. What these women have in common is they had no standard for themselves and were happy to go along with his plan. We should know from history that most men act in their own interests. Stop giving the benefit of the doubt, lay your cards on the table and tell him what you want
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 06:34 PM
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Not if you want that. I'm not sure how many men would be interested in grinding in replacement of penetration but each to their own, no judgement here Porn does not teach you about real sex. Agreed
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:15 PM
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Oh dear, I wonder why they broke up. It goes to show that giving a man everything he could possibly want doesn’t necessarily pay off. Now she’s 35 having to start over again. This reminds me of Cassie and Diddy. He literally came out and said he should’ve married his ex Kim Porter after she passed away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/21 12:26 PM
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As far as I know these men are living with their fellow cell mates. Women don’t aspire to date these men, in fact they would be terrified for their safety. I think the point about your looks has nothing to do with rapists and murderers taking all the women. Even if it were true there are plenty of single women in the world. I can’t respond to your point about your looks since I don’t know what you look like but it sounds like you’ve given up so there’s nothing I can say that will help
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 11:37 AM
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Being a rapist, murderer or war criminal are crimes, not flaws. And I don’t see a lot of women living with these men, especially since they’re probably in jail. It’s a completely different conversation and not really comparable to someone’s “ugliness”. Looks are subjective after all. Someone who is ugly to me may not be ugly to you. You may not attract a “good looking” woman but I’m sure there is someone out there willing to date you providing you work around your physical appearance to ensure y…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 10:56 AM
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🤣 that doesn’t invalidate anything I’m saying, actually you have proven their point. It’s no surprise you hate FDS because it warns against guys like you and it prevents you from preying on women. I can assure you that your toxic way of thinking will never work so good luck finding a woman with standards low enough to have sex with you. Bye incel
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 08:38 AM
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No. To specifically seek out a vulnerable person is disingenuous. Think about how you will analyse if a woman is vulnerable. Are you going to ask questions about her childhood and past relationships to see if she has experienced an abusive past? Those people, men and women deserve genuine love, respect and stability. Let’s be honest, what you are looking for is a woman who will have sex with you consistently, clean up and cook without expecting much in return so you can continue to be who you ar…
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 08:17 AM
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Because you are preying on someone’s vulnerability to get what you want. Instead of finding someone who is “right” for you based on compatibility, respect, chemistry etc with whom you can build each other up and grow together, you are looking for someone with low standards who has likely been mistreated and abused in some way. It’s the intention behind it and you’ve made your intention clear
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 07:59 AM
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Exactly! It’s predatory, so to answer your question no, theres no positive way. If you were a good catch with lots to offer you wouldn’t have to resort to preying on vulnerable women who may have low enough standards to consider you a viable partner, but you don’t see a reason to be better than all the other assholes out there
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 07:33 AM
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Ask yourself why you would specifically seek out a vulnerable woman
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 07:20 AM
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For a bi women why would a micro penis be a deal breaker if a clitoris isn’t? Weird take. How can you compare a micro penis to a clit? One you can scissor with and one you can’t. Gay and Bi women can use strapons and get more pleasure than a micro penis
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 07:10 AM
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Try to become the best version of yourself. You’re more likely to find someone this way. Some flaws can be changed or improved upon. People that practice LOA or go to therapy can go from being negative to positive. A flaw for someone might be that they have bad eating habits and are overweight - if a person changes their lifestyle and becomes a fitter version of themselves, they increase their changes of being attractive to others
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 06:50 AM
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Physical attraction for me is purely surface level. When I acknowledge someone is good looking it’s a different thing, and doesn’t necessarily mean I’m attracted. It’s basically reserved for women and men who are not my type
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/21 06:44 AM
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Everyone is different, everyone has flaws. It’s best to find someone that has flaws you can live with and that their good traits outweigh the bad. Even though you may think being cynical isn’t that bad, to me it is. I can’t deal with someone who looks at the world through a negative lends. It’s completely draining and nothing you do will ever be good enough. They will drag you down emotionally and are likely to be emotionally abusive. Try to look at things deeper than surface level
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 06:29 AM
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I can be physically attracted from the beginning but that can quickly fade once I get to know the dude on a deeper level. This can happen after the first few conversations, it depends how quickly those red flags pop up. It takes me a while to let my guard down to build an emotional connection even if I am attracted
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/21 04:40 PM
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He sounds like a narcissist. Well done for shutting down communication, he sounds like he could be dangerous and a potential scam artist. The more you stick to your boundaries, the easier it gets
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 03:53 PM
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Even without pronouns it obvious a man did this. There’s literally no limit to what a scrote will do
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 11:17 AM
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Exactly! When guys start asking you for certain things like cooking them a meal, tell him “that sounds like a girlfriend privilege” etc. Creating clear boundaries for levels of commitment will force him to commit in exchange for those benefits, or to do without. A lack of boundaries is the reason women get used and strung along
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:05 AM
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This. Same with the whole “masculine” thing, apparently we don’t let them live in their masculinity but when it comes to dating they want us to approach them, plan the date, book the date, and pay for half of it! Bro, if I have to do all this I am the dude. You can’t expect to be treated and nurtured like a child and then ask us to call you “daddy”……I’m “daddy” by the sounds of it 😂 As I write this out I’m realising how crazy their thought process is lol, they need to get it together
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 07:02 AM
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I think what you are describing is viagra with contraception which doesn’t really make sense. You say women would have the choice, but women now have the choice to take viagra or they could go to the doctor. Women would simply choose not to take the pill, and the public would have an issue with paying higher taxes for poor women to have more babies they can’t afford to raise.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:53 AM
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A lot of women don’t take birth control when they’re not actively having sex or in LTR. If they took this pill it would be because they are dating, so if their libido increased, it would only benefit the person they are with. Even if it increased libido it wouldn’t change attitudes to sex meaning that women wouldn’t be sleeping with multiple men, they’d either be in a relationship, find a fwb or masturbate more often
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/21 07:21 AM
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I have already acknowledged in this thread that some men struggle in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:53 PM
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That’s fair. To add to your point about it being homogeneous, it seems as though RP comes as a solution to a specific set of problems like dating etc so overall the men are experiencing the same things. I agree that women are raised to be feminist by society (this is shaped by many things like politics as I said before) but feminism can pretty much exist alongside many other ideologies and religions etc which is why people don’t tend to disassociate in the same way you have described RP. I tend …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:31 PM
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Yea, there’s a woman who posted today who’s ex is red pill and is using the kids to hurt her. She can’t understand why he won’t move on with his life
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 07:11 PM
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I’ve answered this already. Both of these things are true. Your SO listening to you vent is very different from being a feminist and working towards workplace equality - BOTH ARE TRUE The fact that I have to explain this is crazy! I wonder how many of you actually go outside and talk to real people IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 07:05 PM
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It’s an online cult like any other. There are ‘prophets’ and pick up artists that monetize from these men on places like YouTube and Patreon. RP and BP are separate ideologies but people can easily transition from one to the other
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 06:49 PM
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So they can’t want both? Humans tend to want to be listened to. In addition, women also want solutions to societal problems
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 06:01 PM
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I could have explained that better - feminism is about general gender equality. But radfems, libfems, black fems, Asian fems etc have their own goals based on their experiences and challenges, so in short feminism is an umbrella term. RP ideology is a lot more straight forward and is easier to pin down the belief system which is supported by iron rules. From what I’ve seen, RPs blame feminism for a lot of things, hence my comment
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:59 PM
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The issue is what portion of men and to what degree. "Some" could cover anything from like 1 percent to a large fraction. I don't think any of us know the answer to that Hmmm, I haven't been in these subs for very long but I can believe it. Is TRP a solution for overcoming the dating disadvantage? Does it actually work for self improvement? I don't come across many posts about self improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:42 PM
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Oh my god what are we even arguing about? Of course people complain about trivial shit like the weather, this is not the same as men who are maybe out of shape, unattractive and spend most of their time online, complaining often about their dating disadvantage and how Chads are having all the fun
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 05:33 PM
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Feminism isn't an ideology and there aren't "iron rules" EDIT: My understanding is that there is a general disdain for feminism
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:52 PM
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"health at every size." I don't subscribe to this way of thinking, i've never even heard this phrase so i'm not going to defend it. I was thinking more about workplace equality People that complain aren't usually in the right mindset to "fix it". But if you think the RP is helpful to you and you can do both, good for you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:50 PM
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You people need to make up your mind, one minute you claim feminism is taking over and the next you claim women aren't solution focused
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:44 PM
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Depends what the problem is. From what I have seen and experienced, women are very solution focused and that's a good thing imo. Why sit around and complain if you are not willing to do something to fix it? I don't disagree with that at all. Women acknowledge that some men struggle in dating. When you read enough of the RP posts it starts to sounds like victimhood. I'm not saying women don't do the same, my point is we all do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:38 PM
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If this post / subreddit isn't reflective of a victim complex I don't know what is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 04:17 PM
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His LinkedIn page is shady
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 04:10 PM
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What's that?
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 04:08 PM
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Sounds like he's taking his hatred towards you out on the kids because they are easy targets and the only current way he can hurt you. This is so awful and mentally damaging to your children. I'm not too sure what he's saying and doing to the kids, but if you think it's bad enough, find out what you can do to keep them safe i.e. limit visitation. Ultimately he will pay for his behaviour when they get older and can make their own decisions about who they want in their lives. I'm sorry that you ar…
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 04:05 PM
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Good for you. If I were to do sex work it would be domination of some kind
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 03:09 PM
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People tend to become black pilled after following red pill and getting no results. The main difference (in my understanding) is that RP teaches "self-improvement" i.e. lifting weights, trying to pick up women etc. BP is when you accept your fate as an ugly person with no options and no hope
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 03:05 PM
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He sounds more black pill 🤔
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 06:11 AM
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Therapy is a resource that he needs and has turned down. Based on that, I’m not sure there’s anything more you can do. You can’t help people that don’t want it
/r/ExRedPill17/09/21 06:10 AM
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Right! I thought women were supposed to be the superficial ones
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 02:13 PM
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If a man can bed many women he’s not a slut, he’s desirable No, you’re still toxic by the looks of it
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 06:06 AM
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Correct and they don’t want help. A lot of these men need to talk to a professional before even thinking about getting into a relationship but they don’t want to hear that
/r/ExRedPill13/09/21 05:56 AM
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Please don't give up on your social life and friends. This will make you more anxious about her even more if she's the only connection you maintain. Going to pubs is about enjoying time with your friends, that's why most people go out, it's not to find a new partner. I think you have to admit to yourself that you cannot manage these feelings alone. If you can afford it, please speak to a therapist to find out why you feel so triggered by her going out, and how you can sustain a healthy relations…
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 07:00 PM
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What she's doing is normal especially if she is in her 20's. Don't make this her problem, find a way to deal with your insecurities rather than projecting. If you continue, you will lose her anyway
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:17 PM
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How old are you both?
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:15 PM
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Why don't you go out and start enjoying yourself also? Maybe sometime offline will do you good especially if you are trying to recover from RP
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 04:13 PM
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I can only speak to the U.K., but it’s the young people that struggle with finding jobs due to the fact that experience is respected. Retirement is no longer forced upon people and even then the age keeps extending. Older people here are very capable and often the highest earning
/r/ExRedPill11/09/21 06:17 AM
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What is your idea of dominant? Men were dominant and then feminism happened so that’s not true. Women like men who are confident and have leadership skills
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 06:27 AM
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Agree. Do these men even have leadership skills, can they manage a household and provide for a family? There’s a lot of responsibility even if by some miracle they could find a submissive woman.
/r/ExRedPill09/09/21 06:25 AM
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I think their point is that women will date men 40+ you were still young at this time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 06:08 AM
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We? Did you get lost on your way to another sub? Most of the men here are RP
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/21 05:58 AM
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Can’t you throw your life into your career or go to church on the Sunday’s? You may fall into an extremist group if you are constantly trying to fill a void
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 07:12 PM
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Lots of people want to belong to something but whats the purpose?
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 07:07 PM
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I have to agree. It must be difficult to attract friends as a whiny person
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 07:06 PM
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Oh my god, grow the fuck up. I'm not going to waste my time explaining real life to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:25 PM
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No shit you’re over 35
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:59 PM
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And now you fuck everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:52 PM
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Says the porn actress
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 02:29 PM
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This should go without saying but people who can afford to be picky are super attractive with lots of options. Others may have to take what they can get i.e. beggars can’t be choosers
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 02:01 PM
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It’s all subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:39 PM
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Dude! Asking what someone does for a living doesn’t mean sales pitch. Let’s just agree to disagree please, I’m begging you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 01:10 PM
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Youth? Doesn’t trp write women off from 30?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:41 AM
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I never looked at it like this, you have a point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:39 AM
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Surrogates can be as cheap as 30k in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:35 AM
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We’re going round in circles now but I say again, how would you find out they were lying? It sounds unrealistic and immature to be honest. Adults tend to not go around talking about how many people they’ve been with, keeping track of the number of outing their friends numbers. Anyway, that’s all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:25 AM
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I said if you are 15, I didn’t assume. You seem unfamiliar with adult conversation and by saying it’s boring sounds child like. People show interest in other peoples lives which include work. You don’t have to participate in that, I’m just telling you that is what adults do
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 11:23 AM
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Men do talk about women with daddy issues but my comment was about the history of men when it comes to the abuse of women. The red flag comment was that he has an issue with his whole family. It’s normal to have issues with one parent or a few family members. If you have other family members you are close with it doesn’t raise concerns about your ability to maintain relationships, conflict resolution or having a support system.
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 11:19 AM
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Sounds like you don’t have much going on from a professional POV. If you are 15 this conversation isn’t really relevant to you and I wouldn’t expect you to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 08:01 AM
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Asking what someone does is not about property, wages and taxes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:54 AM
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How would you know you were being told the truth? And if someone, man or woman says 20 even though it’s actually 100, you wouldn’t be able to validate that. I suggest you look beyond the number to determine compatibility since there’s no real way of knowing
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 07:52 AM
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You sound incredibly young and this would be the only justification for this comment
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:57 AM
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Women are taught to be wary of men who don’t have good relationships with their mothers. It can be a sign that they don’t respect women. Also can speak to your ability to resolve conflict. You don’t have a support system, and if you had children they wouldn’t know or grow up with your side of the family. Also it’s important for women to be wary of men with deep trauma as this could lead to many problems later down the line. I don’t know your situation personally, I’m speaking in general EDIT: if…
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 06:49 AM
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You turn everything into a negative. This is not how most of the population think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:44 AM
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This is true but I think there’s more to it since he had no girl friends at school. I mean, it’s pretty easy to make friends at 5 when there’s no concept of danger or attraction
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 06:40 AM
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This would be considered a 🚩
/r/ExRedPill07/09/21 06:38 AM
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When adults go on a date, one of the first things both will ask is what do you do for a living. It’s the best ice breaker. People around 30 will spend most of their time working, why wouldn’t this be the biggest topic of conversation? This is an extremely safe topic to talk about. People in this tread are acting as if women are asking about salary
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:32 AM
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How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:27 AM
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Women care about money because they want to raise a family. They need to consider the lifestyle of the children and how much time she will be able to take off work to care for them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:23 AM
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How would you know who has 100 bodies and who doesn’t? I don’t even think they themselves would know, surely they would stop counting well before then
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah looks are subjective. To me she's average and did a good job of selling that character. I literally googled it and didn't really recognise a lot of the movies mentioned, but Shallow Hal was mentioned, which backs up your point of there always being some transformation at the end. This has been an issue for decades and its not just movies, magazines, adverts, instagram etc. Below average women can't escape it, and spend a fortune trying to live up to the beauty standards. It's not good for m…
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 08:18 PM
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Now that you mention it, all this RP stuff sounds like envy
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 07:18 PM
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More than their actual personality - absolutely not. For example, the way you make being the village bike synonymous with being female tells me enough about you to make a decision. And I don’t even know your body count My point was that in most situations you wouldn’t know their sexual history so you wouldn’t be able to judge them on it. The missing context here is age. There is a big difference between a 20 yr old with 100 bodies and 40 year old with 100 bodies. People mature with age so any ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 06:47 PM
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Bridget Jones comes to mind. I didn’t realise these movies were so influential on young men. Generally young people tend to be more shallow so it doesn’t surprise me when you say average women were not on your radar. But it’s interesting because incels say the average women are chasing after chads.
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 02:33 PM
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The scenario is so unlikely, but I tend to agree. How is it that the other guy is attractive with no emotional issues but is also an incel? Clearly he’s lazy and has no drive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:20 PM
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If you were to date again would you ask people their number?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:10 PM
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The question is highly flawed. It’s really just a question of whether you would prefer a virgin with no emotional / psychological issues or a Chad who has had 100 ONS and no interest in a relationship until you. Can you see how it leads you in one direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 02:03 PM
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The scenario is that they look exactly the same
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 01:48 PM
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Out of interest, where does the entitlement come from? Porn?
/r/ExRedPill06/09/21 01:21 PM
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Why would it be a dealbreaker? I said I wouldn’t make a decision based on their ONS count. And it’s highly unlikely that I would ever know that information. However, I would know before getting into the relationship that he had never had a gf before. That would be a red flag
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:57 PM
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I make decisions based on looks, personality and chemistry first and foremost. I wouldn’t know if a guy has had 100 ONS unless he told me, which would be weird. The missing context is that personality sets these guys apart since you said they look the same, why else would the second guy be an incel? These are two extreme examples but I will say for me, it’s not a turn on that a guy has had 100 ONS. That doesn’t mean I would pick the other guy though. I don’t think it makes sense to decide on a p…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 12:07 PM
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After everything she said, the police thing is all he got from it? This post is about how the opposite sex endangered your life, and he responded to someone else’s story with a story about abuse but the key point (about the police) was hypothetical. It could have been a standalone comment rather than a response to someone else. I stand by what I said, you don’t have to agree
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 05:54 AM
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That's not how I interpreted it and neither did the other person
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 10:06 PM
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I can't read messages before they've been posted. Did I say you weren't a victim? I didn't understand why you were conflating the two stories
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 09:48 PM
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I hate that these experiences are so common. Im glad you're ok :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:17 PM
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That's predatory........and they wonder why women stay away. I don't think that would be a good idea LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:15 PM
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How do they read stories of abuse and rape, then respond with a whataboutism? I swear some of these people are socially inept
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:07 PM
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It's interesting that you think you're generally lucky even after all of these things happened. Just goes to show how much women suffer. Men on this sub want to keep talking about false accusations to distract from the reality that women suffer
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:02 PM
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I'm so sorry you went through that! I definitely have been groped in public and at work and its so disgusting that men feel entitled to women's bodies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:58 PM
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Thank you for your service
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:54 PM
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How rich of the RP to call older women damaged. Talk about pot calling the kettle black
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 07:38 PM
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I went to community college then straight into work. In my career I am surrounded by people with degree's and it honestly means nothing as far as ability. I am super driven and have made a conscious decision to never let anything or anyone stand in the way of my goals. Maybe you should watch "the secret" and learn how to manifest and practice gratitude like the other person said
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 05:26 PM
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It's easy to make sweeping statements and sound correct when there's no context. What is the point in making this statement if you can't back it up with examples? I already see some red flags in what you have said i.e. limited experience. You originally said "females", and now you admit your experience is limited. Furthermore, women have the right to stop talking to you if they become uncomfortable. She doesn't owe you compromise, clearly you have done things to put women off. Try to figure out …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 04:21 PM
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This is a very general statement. Negotiate on what?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:29 AM
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Right! Why is this so hard to understand? They give a scenario but leave out the context - what was the comment or joke? Sexism has no place in a professional setting
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:24 AM
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No it doesn’t. And I’m sure those stereotypes are not ruining her dating options
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 08:06 AM
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I sense a strong bias in OP. If you believe any of the stereotypes you listed, you should do some research especially on the ‘uneducated’ part.
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 08:04 AM
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Thats online dating and doesn’t reflect real life. I imagine BW are a lot less likely to use dating apps in the first place. Stereotypes exist, beauty standards exist this doesn’t make them true. Anyone who is relying on media driven stereotypes to inform their opinions of BW is the real issue. They wouldn’t hold those opinions if they actually had personal relationships with black people. Men are visual, unless racist, they will be interested in any woman they find attractive regardless of race…
/r/ExRedPill05/09/21 07:52 AM
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I agree that people in general should take sex more seriously but once pregnancy happens, then what? Most women have abortions because they are not able to take care of the child, so what do you think is going to happen to the child if women is forced to carry? Yes, women are the victims where the government is making decisions about their bodies. My stance is we don't have the right to impose our values on others.
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 09:08 PM
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Then i'm really confused about your stance
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 08:32 PM
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I never said it was a significant number of abortions but t still impacts women who experience these things. Until you've walked in a woman's shoes, you should reserve judgment about what women do with their bodies and why. Ignorant people are quick to take the moral high ground and have convinced themselves the US gov cares about unborn babies. This is their way of controlling demographics. When these unwanted kids end up in care or abusive situations they'll have a new problem on their hands
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 06:35 PM
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You seem to be looking for a formula, but there's no one size fits all. Work on being the best version of yourself. Find a look that suits you i.e. hair, facial hair. Build your own self confidence because that is what will attract women. Keep fit and healthy, focus on your career goals, building stability and financial security
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 05:35 PM
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But it's not impossible so don't be discouraged. Treat them with respect like you would any other woman, and don't say anything weird or offensive
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:34 PM
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BW don't want to be fetishised
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 02:24 PM
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Would you tell that to victims of rape and incest?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 01:24 PM
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What is the point of this post? Most black women prefer to date within their race anyway, so they’re not concerned with being desired by men they’re not interested in. I personally have never ever had any issues attracting men from any race. I wonder where you’re getting your information from?
/r/ExRedPill04/09/21 12:06 PM
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It says white women 18-29 who are liberals not feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 09:46 AM
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Their personalities are lacking. Think more Obama, the way he carries himself with confidence and control is sexy. Women would talk about him a lot
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 08:13 PM
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Don’t focus on women, they will come when you are ready. Work on getting your life in order first. Most women find stability attractive
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 06:25 AM
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Women don’t necessarily want men with muscles but it’s good to be fit and healthy in general. You could join a local football team or try rock climbing. It’s not about lifting weights, that’s such a myth
/r/ExRedPill01/09/21 06:21 AM
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This went left quick! Funny how men get so defensive when you mention therapy. Where did “white incels” come from? I won’t get into a back and forth with you as you seem to be triggered but marginalised is not a word that comes to mind when I think of white men. There’s no difference between white men and white incels from societies perspective, because nobody knows who is incel and who isn’t.
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 10:02 PM
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I’m no psychologist but it sounds like you’re overcompensating for guilt and regret. If you’re in a position to get some therapy to deal with the loss of your friend, please consider it. I know men don’t always want to ask for help but I think you will benefit from grief counselling and learning to forgive yourself. I think it’s great that you are actively trying to help but I think this is more about saving your friend. Hanging in these backstreet allies for someone that might need your help, h…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 09:35 PM
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You might be getting me mixed up with the other person that responded to you. Its almost impossible to give compassion to incels who are RPs, especially as a woman which is why I’ve realised it has to come from other men. It can be really taxing on your mental health even to be in the same sub as them. As you say only someone who understands (from a male perspective) will be received well. Make sure you take care of your own mental health first if you find it’s taking a toll. These guys are not …
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:57 PM
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Right! Someone left the back door open again
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:43 PM
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Since you have been through it, what do you think the solution is? You mentioned being an ally and I think that’s key. Only someone like yourself is able to talk to these men and help them get to the place you are at now. Are you proactively doing this? Everyday men on these subs regurgitate the same RP talking points about feminism, how society doesn’t care about their feelings and how there’s no safe space. There’s plenty of safe spaces and if you disagree why don’t you create one? Men don’t s…
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 08:31 PM
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Is your brother still red pill?
/r/ExRedPill31/08/21 09:40 AM
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🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:16 PM
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I wouldn’t be so sure. I believe gimpgirl555 is used by Vlad and Mary but mostly Vlad. That’s why most of the comments are shitting on women
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 09:13 PM
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What is your point in relation to sexual assault? That women are lying about how being raped / assaulted negatively impacts their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:29 PM
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What I mean is crimes come with individual max sentences so throwing eggs is unlikely to get jail time. So yeah you are entitled to go after the maximum sentence for that crime, regardless of what the crime is, thats how the law works You seem to have a lack of awareness for the impacts of sexual assault after the crime has been committed or a complete lack of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:23 PM
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Most women who are sexually assaulted or raped are done so by people they know i.e stepdads, family friends, male friends etc and a large amount of them as minors so it doesn't make sense to compare "walking down the street" as a way to invalidate the experiences of women. I don't care to go back and forth with you, I just wanted to say that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:08 PM
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Why are you conflating egg throwing (not a crime) with rape, which is the subject of this post? You knew what Harold meant when he said crime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 07:59 PM
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You're all over the place. You denied it being about levelling the playing field for dating but here you are talking about women taking a hit to their attractiveness. You also said you're trying to be objective, but I haven't seen it. You're just another RP guy trying to push solutions that control women based on your warped world view and self interest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:36 PM
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Funny how your narrative changes when you talk to different people
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 02:27 PM
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Society is divided into different communities and cultures. You talk about religion and that makes more sense to explain your argument. People are free to follow the religion of their choice and therefore follow the teachings of modest dress. This should no way be imposed on people that do not follow a religion. The fact that you say its narcissistic to dress in "crazy fashion" as an individual is where you have completely lost me. Everything you say is so subjective and based on your own judgem…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 01:46 PM
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I'm trying to relate to what you are saying about men and women's personalities being seen more if people weren't sexualised. As if nobody can function because there's so much sexual stimulation! Maybe for a sex addict but for real people living every day lives this is not a thing. Can you provide examples that show we're all consumed with sex to the point that something needs to be done?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:16 PM
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What is your idea of social control? Having a strict dress code against "sexy" clothes and makeup? That there should be a cost and time limit imposed on people? I'm not sure you have really thought this through. You talk about what should be done and you say "we'd all be healthier", this is very surface level. What do you mean by healthier? You've also failed to explore the implications of what you're suggesting. I think most people can agree that over sexualisation can dehumanise but you are ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 12:04 PM
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I agree that it isn’t good for society in the long run to over sexualise but it may have been better if you had led with the negative impacts rather than what you think the solution is, which is where I disagree. You may have misrepresented your argument by talking about women not being taken seriously in the workplace due to what they may be wearing (huge generalisation). Each country / industry has its own rules, culture, dress code and the subject in general is nuanced but these points were n…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 10:06 AM
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Oh so you’re trying to do women a solid by saving their time, effort and money? I’m not buying it. I think your reason has more to do with the unlevel playing field of attractive men and women having the best choices of partners and incels not being triggered by images of sex. There’s actually a lot of sexism in your post which is reminiscent of the taliban. What do you do for a living? I work in tech where we all dress professionally and I can assure you women are taken very seriously. It seems…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/21 08:35 AM
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Thanks for recommending the sub Ok I agree that we rarely see men being vulnerable on tv and dealing with mental health issues in a healthy way. Men need to change the narrative. Women used to only be portrayed as housewives, housekeepers, carers etc until they changed it. Men have to do the same and I hope it will be easier since most of the film execs and script writers are men. However, I don’t think that a lack in dating success on apps is a men’s issue. Even people who get a lot of matches …
/r/ExRedPill30/08/21 06:20 AM
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Right, so the issue isn't that you don't have safe safe spaces, it's that these spaces turn toxic? I would argue that all men would benefit from a safe space even when they're not in "pain", but men are less likely to talk about their issues. It's not that society doesn't care. If more men talked about regular life stuff online and held each other accountable and offered emotional support, maybe the RP men would be exposed to more balanced advice
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 10:33 PM
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Why don't men create those safe spaces? Men created RP spaces without the approval of "society", i'm sure the same can be done again
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 10:01 PM
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Why do you think men don't have a safe space?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 09:22 PM
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What are some of the mens issues your are referring to?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 09:20 PM
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Not sure if you are aware that there are a lot less women compared to men on dating apps, not to mention there are so many variables that could explain why a person is only getting 1-2 matches per month. I wonder what you expect in response to your post. Im pretty sure we all know that a lot of men are attracted to RP because they don't get attention from or are not successful with women. I agree with your post but the important question is what should be done about it?
/r/ExRedPill29/08/21 09:14 PM
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Whatever you say Vlad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 02:00 PM
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Wtf are you talking about Vlad? You wish! I didn’t know you existed until yesterday
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 01:23 PM
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You’re talking to Vlad
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 12:19 PM
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🤣 I think I’ll pass. The Reddit profile was enough for me
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:42 PM
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You don’t mean that 😂 Have you seen Vlad?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:20 PM
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I don’t think a majority of men see it as their friendships are ‘constrained’ because they can’t hold hands. If given the choice most men would not want to do this. Men just show their love differently is all
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 11:05 AM
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Right! This is such a reach! Let’s not forget men perpetuate these male stereotypes in their sons and in society. If a male friend judges you for being emotional take it up with him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 10:58 AM
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Blink twice if you need help
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:06 PM
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🤣The tea! Why would you live off your mother if you’re married? How do you know this?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 06:04 PM
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Don’t have to fuck who? Other men? If you ask most men what their idea of a traditional wife is I’m pretty sure they’re not going to say she fucks other people and does porn on the internet
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:14 PM
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When you think of traditional marriage you don’t think of a wife sleeping with other men and doing porn. You clearly don’t have a traditional marriage which is why I don’t understand your stance on feminism and tradition
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 05:09 PM
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Oh so he was already cheating on you with other women?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:59 PM
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Oh so you’re a masculine, porn star housewife in a loveless marriage, cheating on her husband. You seem to be an anti-feminist living the most modern liberal life. If you hate feminism and talk about how things were better in the past, wouldn’t you prefer to be traditional marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:55 PM
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You talk about men not wanting to marry a woman who makes bad decisions but yet you are a married woman with kids, who cheated on her husband throughout the marriage and is now doing porn. You’re like a walking contradiction. Can you make it make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:35 PM
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What do you do for work now?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:23 PM
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What about now? I see you’re online stripping for other men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 04:19 PM
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🤣 I’ve seen this person on other posts called out for being a dude but now I’ve looked at their profile it looks like a woman. There’s some weird shit over on there lol. Anyway I’d leave your comment as is
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:26 PM
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You’re talking to a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:18 PM
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I love money too and I love my job
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 03:14 PM
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Right! I remember the days before mobiles when you made plans with someone and had to trust that they’d show up. Anyway, I digress To your previous point, I think social media has changed the culture of society, rather than men and women making a conscious decision to change. In some ways, life was better back then. We can’t deny the negative impact of SM on young people in particular, but it’s a double edge sword because good things have come out of it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:14 PM
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How so?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:37 AM
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I think the biggest difference is we didn’t have social media / online dating 20 years ago. We had chat rooms but most people were not participating
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 11:34 AM
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I agree, but I think this can be said for all people i.e. take responsibility for your shit. I think the issue comes in when we start talking about violence of any kind. Men can be victims and this should be acknowledged and dealt with. I’m a feminist and I hate when women get away with violence i.e. Amber Heard. But that doesn’t take away from the fact that Women are the biggest victims of violence whether that be DV or sex trafficking. This is why women fight for these causes. Why do men think…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 10:08 AM
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Everything you said was correct and he has no come back lol. I’m glad these conversations are happening between men and women. I’m very objective and am open to the other side but once you start challenging men who have just come from the echo chamber, they fail to prove what they are saying
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 09:20 AM
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But I’m shocked that someone would get divorced over dish-laziness My point about there being more reason for the divorce is in response to this
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 04:09 PM
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I like how you skipped over all the possible ways I mentioned a guy might show appreciation Those are things you should be doing in a relationship anyway. Doing what you should be doing with the person you love is not showing appreciation. I’m just telling you that those actions do not translate with women as “appreciation”. Appreciation is doing your share of chores, cooking her a nice meal or taking her on a date. Surprising her with flowers or a spa treatment, that sort of thing. I imagine th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 03:57 PM
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Key word "entitlement" with nothing to offer in return! Women are looking for grown ass men, not lazy bums. Girl, cuddles!!! That's why I said this person doesn't seem to have had a LTR. If he's sick of being nagged at, he needs to take it up with his mum.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 02:03 PM
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Men who don’t show appreciation to their partner will get left. Argue it all you want. The least men can do is help make your partners life easier - that’s love. Women are not attracted to men with whom they have to treat like children. What practical benefits do you actually bring to the relationship if youre actually not doing your part day to day. If a man is lazy in the early stages of a relationship it will be 1000x worse once he gets really comfortable and kids come along. Men need to make…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 07:24 AM
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I feel like we’re taking over this post lol This feels like a deflection. Yes most of us want to be decent. I was really referring to where you stood with the RP, but you’ve now said you’re not RP so that’s helpful to know. Your issue seems to be with feminism specifically. I don’t believe anything is beyond reproach. I have no issue with people not being on board with feminism. I certainly don’t expect men to fully appreciate why feminism has been so important for women. What I would really lik…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 10:58 PM
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I see. Thank you for making it clear 😊 I saw woman 1 & 3. I had no idea about woman 2. Yeah I found out today they don’t pay these woman at all, only the men get paid. Well Anna showed messages of Myron saying she can’t come on the show unless she has sex with him so it doesn’t seem far fetched. I wish these women would stop going on this show EDIT: woman 2 talking about them https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=glE-bBCWqMM&t=337s
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 07:50 PM
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What side are you on? You seem to be sitting on the fence and it's difficult to gauge where you stand on this issue. Misogyny is the opposite of feminism and from what I have seen, feminism and sexual liberation have been blamed. It may not always be direct but it is implied. Maybe you don't believe that feminism = female equality? Fresh&Fit, Kevin Samuels are good examples on YouTube. KS tells women that their value is measured on what they can do for a man. There’s also posts like this: https:…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 07:38 PM
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Wait. Who is this woman? So there’s two women pregnant for him right now?
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 06:38 PM
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When I said vast I meant the ideology but I think you were referring to the number of men…? I think we have moved onto a slightly different topic but this is good because we’re actually getting to the meet and potatoes. I believe in critical thinking but I can tell you that a movement that takes issue with female equality has no merit. The same way I would tell you that a movement against race or sexual equality has no merit. Let’s not over complicate this. These men are upset that they can’t ge…
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 03:43 PM
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As long as it’s only the girl getting her feelings hurt
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 02:29 PM
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What did she lie about? There’s no love here by the way. Listen, you win some you lose some. Getting your feelings hurt is a part of growing up. It happens to everyone
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 02:27 PM
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This is where the entitlement comes in. Nothing is being done to you. Two people decided they had more chemistry. You can’t call dibs on people. They have a right to choose who they want. And buying someone beers doesn’t mean they owe you their body
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 02:23 PM
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Np
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 11:29 AM
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https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=2pr54R4rR2k&t=2212s
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 11:21 AM
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Agree. I saw a screenshot recently of him telling a girl that she can’t get on the show if she doesn’t fuck him. That’s some Harvey Weinstein shit
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 11:19 AM
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Isn’t he “brown”? Also he likened black people to monkeys which is super racist and the other black guy in the room (Fresh) just sat there 🤡
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 11:17 AM
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I watched some of her interview on YouTube and she clearly has major self esteem issues
/r/ExRedPill23/08/21 11:15 AM
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The sex crime numbers would go down because less men would be charged under the guise of “legal sex work” but the crimes would not. Most men in the space are criminals, do they think these men will move on to other careers once it’s made legal? What is the point in de-stigmatising sex work? We’ll have more and more women lowering their worth to make “easy money” which on the surface makes this more attractive than competing with men in the corporate world. But the men in the sex industry are not…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/21 08:32 AM
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This is where I disagree. Women are not part of a group, they are part of many groups just like men. It’s more true that women are individuals than all the same. The key is to be honest in the first place rather than taking someone else’s dating advice. Depending on the action I would say women are not that fickle unless she wasn’t that keen to begin with. It’s not that vast. They pretty much have a streamlined ideaology that they follow. They hate feminism, sexual liberation, a woman’s independ…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 11:50 PM
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You actually make a good point. Instead of men confiding in women then getting upset at their reaction, why don’t they just confide in their friends who they’ve already established trust with.
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 09:48 PM
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Right! That's the first problem. These men don't respect women and therefore find it difficult to build platonic friendships with women let alone anything else. The misogyny drives us away (rightfully so). It's really a self fulfilling prophecy. I don't think they realise how unattractive they are and i'm not talking about looks. They're negative, angry gasslighters without all the other shit they have going on. Who would want to date that?
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 08:23 PM
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That being said, if I recall correctly most dating advice somehow turned out a bit rubbish, because you're basically asking someone else: "You being you, how would you do it?" I did do that and in my experience neither women nor men were particularly good at it. The issue is, if the lady you're after likes it, they now don't like you and it's just a matter of time before that becomes clear. So what you're saying is that women are individuals lol. I agree with this but it really does depend on wh…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 07:51 PM
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The issue is that most men have been shit upon, harshly, when they've shown emotions for most of their life. I've heard this from guy friends before. I agree that people should be 'vetted' before you open up to them. I do this all the time. It would be worth considering what response we are expecting before doing so. Often our expectations are too high. Not all women are "nurturing" and sometimes it can be because of what we are all taught about men not showing emotions. I would never make anyon…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 07:26 PM
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Does it ever cross your mind to get woman's perspective when it comes to dating? I have noticed that the manosphere echo chamber is full of men with little dating history and a negative mindset. You'll never get anywhere when you look for "common behaviours" - women are individual human beings, not a monolith! It's so clear to us women why most men in these subs are incels, and that's even without seeing what they look like. Do you really want to continue to take advice from them? It would benef…
/r/ExRedPill22/08/21 04:59 PM
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I literally laughed out loud, but it's so true! They're even worse in the Kevin Samuels sub, all they do is trash BW. They honestly make me sick
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 04:44 PM
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Fair enough. Good luck
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 10:26 AM
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Google signs of emotionally abusive relationship and see if he fits the criteria. Do this before marrying. The fact you are qualifying him “he’s great in every other way” as of this isn’t a big deal, it is and it only stands to get worse.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 09:20 AM
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You might not want to hear this but you are young. Your parent most likely see things that you can’t see and they are concerned about you. This isn’t an unusual situation and you can look throughout life and see how this has ended fir others. Try to put yourself in their shoes. Chances are they are just trying to protect you. No woman should isolate herself from family and friends who are invested in your wellbeing. Even if things are great now, they might change and you could find yourself in a…
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/21 09:13 AM
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How do you know that if you haven’t tried? Anyway if your point is that nobody wants you, fine. I’m not going to argue against it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:20 PM
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Right! Some guy told me that when he needs to let off steam he goes online to take it out on women. Another one is telling me that the unattractive women should be chasing them. Imagine complaining about being an ugly incel and insisting that you should be courted and chased by women. Fuck their entitlement, they deserve to be incels. Their ancestors are rolling in their graves
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:38 PM
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Oh so you want to be chased, you want the woman to court you 😂. You won't put in effort but you wanna sit and bitch about being incels
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:26 PM
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No they're not and why should they. Since you lot wanna talk about 'alpha' so much why don't put in some effort
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:16 PM
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🤣🤣🤣 you were trying to drive him over the edge
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:01 PM
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Make a list of small goals that will help you towards achieving the life you want. Show gratitude when you achieve them. Be thankful for your health, your day, weather, family, friends etc. Start small. You won't attract anything positive if you are always in a lack mindset.
/r/ExRedPill21/08/21 07:37 PM
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test vs tism lol sure lol sure
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:24 AM
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You’re hilarious. Right! They genuinely believe that their day will come lol. It’s a pipe dream based on their deep rooted self hatred and insecurity. They want to believe that everyone is as miserable as they are with or without sex. Even if they made it past 45k it still wouldn’t be enough. If a woman doesn’t find a viable mate, she is most likely prepared to stay single, she doesn’t need a man to survive. So now what? Theory out the window
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:22 AM
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You said weightest Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:03 AM
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But the time you spend with grocery store staff is limited, you’re not socialising and/or getting to know them like you would with people you work with
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 11:02 AM
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Ah so the data that supports your argument is current, but the data that doesn’t support your argument is old? GTFOH
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:35 AM
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So it’s ok for you to be a “weightest” (not a word) because you’ve dealt with it. But you’re still calling women out for not wanting to date someone of a particular race. Maybe they’ve ‘dealt with it’. You are just one person, nobody gives a fuck about your opinion on what they do. Mind your business
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 10:32 AM
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So we’re whores for fucking men were attracted to and because Chad and Tyrone are fuck boys, we spend our days crying over them when we’re not getting fucked. And one day we’ll get dumped by Chad and Tyrone because we’ve ‘hit the wall’ and we will have to grovel at the incels feet and beg them to make honest women out of us
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:58 AM
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The data seems to be based on OkCupid activity from men between 20-50, this shows that a lot of men have standards too high. It also states "Women want a guy who is roughly as old as she is" so men can want what they want or in this case, try their luck but it doesn't mean anything; "Men may be most attracted to women in their early 20s, but many males end up with women who are in their age range or even older."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:49 AM
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I agree with that. You are entitled to complain but I’m trying to understand what’s next? What good will come from it? TRP narrative only seems to make men angry and resentful and I think that’s dangerous
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:27 AM
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You need to look up the definition of racist. It’s not because they’re white! Humans have many preferences when dating, you seem to have a hard time understanding this. Most people are attracted to those who look like them (race). People have choices to date whoever they want, it doesn’t matter what you think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:16 AM
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Can you link the study that you got this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:11 AM
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Are you serious? And who is supposed to give you a reasonable chance towards sex/family? If you don’t put in more than the minimum effort towards society that impacts the economy which the government cares about. But the government have no bearing on whether women gives you sex. So what exactly are you suggesting?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 09:03 AM
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Not true. I’m a bw and have many white male friends but I’m not physically attracted to white men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:54 AM
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Complaining to what end though? It won’t change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:33 AM
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“Finding out that they are at a disadvantage” you mean they found out they were unattractive? Right, there’s no point in being miserable because there are plenty of unattractive women looking for a mate
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:28 AM
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Work in what way?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:25 AM
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They don’t want the uglies, so now who’s standards are too high?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:21 AM
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And they talk a lot about what these women are doing with their vaginas and how they’re hoes, how would they know?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:16 AM
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I saw someone say that women hit the wall at 30 🤣 this is a lie. Women don’t hit the wall until they stop being attractive and/or let themselves go physically so you may have a long wait. The same way good looking women get older, good looking men get older too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:14 AM
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This! I’m not sure where these people are getting their information lol. The other thing is that IRL people date / marry within their proximity which very much includes tax bracket. Society is built around a class system and this includes dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:09 AM
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You mad?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 08:02 AM
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It’s nobody place to judge someone else’s standards. What does it have to do with anyone else?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:58 AM
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Genuine question: have we fact checked 80/20% rule? The RPs are mostly men right? So it’s not the women who are complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:50 AM
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Right! They always forget to add context
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 07:40 AM
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I think women are doing that but we recognise how much societal and cultural pressure there is to take responsibility for everything wrong. Some people are being led astray, but most of us "modern" men and women are able to live full and successful lives in today's society. It's only the ones that cannot operate / succeed in society as is, that want to move the goal posts back to a time where they would have an advantage. Women need not apologise for their choices. Women's standards have changed…
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 09:45 PM
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Right! Have your own money - but not too much, be independent - but also submissive, be a virgin - but please me like a pornstar, have standards - but put up with my shit, have your own mind - but be agreeable
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 04:26 PM
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Women can't win either way; we're either independent women or a gold diggers, both are used as insults. I'm so sick of it. Why is it always on the woman to do something different? Let's not forget why women started going to work in the first place.....because of men. Women continue to make the best of their situation and adapt accordingly but yet we're always shamed and made responsible for their shortcomings. Can we just live in a way that's suits us as individuals?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 04:08 PM
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True, it has happened to me a lot in London. Where I live (outside of London) I normally get looks rather than being actually approached. So yes, it might be "unusual" but that has no bearing on if i'll be receptive.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 01:16 PM
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It puts women in an awkward position. On the odd occasion I have given my number out but those situations never came to anything because ultimately I wasn't interested. Cold approach only works if the girl likes you and even if the attraction is there, the guy can still fumble the p
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 01:07 PM
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Good points, which is why RPs won't be successful with women. They miss this entirely
/r/ExRedPill20/08/21 09:44 AM
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Not to mention it makes a lot of women feel uncomfortable
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 05:32 PM
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I have learned recently that many men attracted to the ‘pills’ have autism. Some of the symptoms are that they need rules and guidance, they find it difficult to pick up on social cues and have a hard time interpreting society. They also have addictive personalities so they make perfect candidates for cults. I’ve definitely noticed these traits when reading comments on here
/r/ExRedPill19/08/21 07:48 AM
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What do your female friends think the reason is for not getting 2nd dates? I think they would potentially have a better perspective as they know you IRL and potentially the girls you’ve dated too
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 10:42 PM
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I would avoid all together. It works initially but women get fed up and find someone who knows what they want
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:47 PM
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It may be due to something that was said on the date. That's the main reason I would turn down a 2nd date
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:44 PM
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Don't do that anymore lol
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:41 PM
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It helps to have an interesting hobby to talk about / introduce her to
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 09:36 PM
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That's some Harvey Weinstein shit
/r/ExRedPill18/08/21 08:51 PM
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Agree. This doesn’t take away from women wanting partners for companionship no matter the sexual orientation and whether or not they want children
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 09:25 PM
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Yes, I would say so. To add to your previous feminism question; feminism came about when women fought for the right to vote, earn equal pay and open bank accounts without needing permission from a man. This is when women started to become independent. It has evolved since then, but I relate this back to your original question on how does 'what women want' relate to feminism; women today don't look for the same attributes in men than previous generations did. The world has evolved so much that we…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 07:09 PM
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Right. Most women these days dont need 'providers'. Where have they been? Women are working their way up the corp ladder everyday.
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 05:48 PM
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I agree. Most people marry people within their tax bracket due to proximity i.e. working class women often marry working class men
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 05:46 PM
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This list is not complete because women are individuals and prioritise traits differently. I would say some traits like 'security' are universal for women. For a lot of women it is also important to have a man that likes / wants kids and can provide for a family. But not all women want kids. Most people marry someone within their tax bracket due to proximity. Once women reach mid-late 20's and looking for a serious relationship, looks become less of a priority. Having stability and security adds…
/r/ExRedPill17/08/21 05:34 PM
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need to "LOOK" at (not know) their POV, meaning consider their POV from what you know of them. I'm a rational, objective person that doesn't see the world through absolutes. If you feel differently, that's your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 05:24 PM
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That's not what I said but take it however you want
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 03:44 PM
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Neither have I
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 07:05 AM
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Why did you leave RP? There are a lot of factors why people make the decisions they do and it goes further than their gender. RP seems to throw all women in a box. To understand why someone did something you would need to look at their POV, how they grew up, their current circumstances etc to get a clear picture on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:15 AM
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Each to their own I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:10 AM
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That’s ridiculous. He has a million followers because the show is entertaining and RP is a movement that attracts so many hurt men. Only a certain type of women would ever call into that show but I don’t expect you to understand that because you clearly don’t know women. You believe that women are a monolith and I don’t see how that benefits you. If you were to get off the internet and meet women IRL you wouldn’t have to rely on KS show for your information
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 06:06 AM
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I wasn’t talking about KS I was talking about his followers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 09:18 PM
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You've lost all sense of reality if you think those women reflect 'most' women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:30 PM
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Do you identify as black pill? You say you are a HVM with a 'fucked up face', how is KS helping you if you don't think there is anything you can do to fix it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:26 PM
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Are these experiences what led you to red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:15 PM
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These red pillars are worse than I thought
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 08:02 PM
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They are obsessed with him and would fight over each other for the chance to jerk him
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:59 PM
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You're a dude right?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:58 PM
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Well if they admit Kevin is a lie, their hopes and dreams' of getting laid would and gaining 'their rightful place in society' would go away
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:42 PM
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What job is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:30 PM
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It's not that men are too afraid to say the 'truth', it's that those beta males don't have anyone that will listen
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 07:29 PM
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How do you know that he berates his paying clients? The chances are he doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:08 PM
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