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| 4 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.Yes, that one woman cared. Most of us don’t give a shit. Most of us learned about her against our will as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:50 PM |
| 4 | Women don't want the end goal of feminism. Bonnie Blue is the living proof.She’s literally one of the most extreme examples of free will lol. Most women genuinely do not give a fuck what another woman does with her vagina as long as she’s not infringing on anyone’s rights. The same way we don’t care what men do either as long as he’s not infringing on anyone’s rights. It’s mainly men who fixate on women they aren’t dating, aren’t sleeping with, and have no connection to. If you were actually involved with her? Sure, your concern makes sense there. But you’re not. So… w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Do you prefer a partner who is a good friend, or a good leader?Your partner should be both. Why do you guys think you have to choose. So weird. And what you’re describing as leadership and friendship again is the bare minimum requirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/25 12:44 AM |
| – | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?Because that’s not how the majority of them operate so it’s a completely foreign concept. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Female sexuality is the ONE human impulse where society collectively pretends that the instinctive preferences are perfectly optimal.You’re one of the few men here making any sense and seeing women as people. It’s refreshing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:18 PM |
| 0 | Female sexuality is the ONE human impulse where society collectively pretends that the instinctive preferences are perfectly optimal.Dude, your brain is so closed off no wonder you’re sporting that pill. It’s actually sad to witness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:17 PM |
| 11 | Female sexuality is the ONE human impulse where society collectively pretends that the instinctive preferences are perfectly optimal.Victims? Jesus. Women are not REQUIRED to give any man a chance. This is the problem, the level of entitlement is insane. And then the hate and rage that follows is disturbing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:13 PM |
| 10 | Female sexuality is the ONE human impulse where society collectively pretends that the instinctive preferences are perfectly optimal.It’s funny how most men complain about not knowing what women want but when a woman is clear about what she does or doesn’t want suddenly she’s a horrible person UNLESS the man asking the question benefits somehow from her answer. You just can’t win. However, that is not to say that someone being a POS is acceptable regardless of gender. That being said, you can’t force anyone to like you. Rejection is normal. I think that’s the part a lot of people are uncomfortable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/25 06:09 PM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?If that’s what’s you think that that’s fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/25 02:25 AM |
| 5 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?It’s called self control and standards. It doesn’t mean we have a low sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?I don’t know why they can’t understand this. We like sex too but most of us prefer having it with someone we are in a mutual committed relationship with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:07 AM |
| 2 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?How are women supposed to vet properly when the version of the man you’re meeting isn’t him? That’s like blaming someone for not catching a spy whose whole mission is to blend in, mimic the real thing, and stay undetected. You can’t say a woman should’ve known he was fake when the entire point was that he was pretending well enough to fool anyone. The elephant in the room is that vetting only works if the person is honest about who they are. If someone is performing a character for the first few… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 09:02 AM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?This is very off putting honestly. I don’t think I am the kind of woman you should intend to reach with this kind of rhetoric. I know for a fact that I am a decent woman. I know you are frustrated but you don’t sound like someone I would want to be partnered with based on how I literally just tried to empathize with you and you totally disregarded it and basically continued to rant about the fact that I basically know nothing and my and other women’s experiences aren’t worth anything basically. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:45 AM |
| 1 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?I hear how strongly you feel, and I am not dismissing that. But I do need to say this gently. I think it is an extreme take to assume that women wanting emotional reciprocation somehow means we will treat our sons as second class citizens. That is not how love works. Wanting balance in a relationship has nothing to do with how someone raises a child. It is actually interesting that you say that, because many men do not start seeing women as full human beings with equal needs or rights until they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 08:08 AM |
| 2 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?I find it interesting that your first instinct is to shift the entire conversation into blaming women. I did not blame men. I simply explained the reasons many women feel exhausted and why a lot of men end up alone. I listed what women need for relationships to thrive, and somehow you turned that into “women are the ultimate victims.” All we want is for men to show up on equal footing outside of money. That is not victimhood. That is partnership. Why can’t men understand that? What you are calli… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 07:12 AM |
| 3 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?Sigh. Here we go again. At this point there’s no reason to explain anything to you. You’re willfully choosing to ignore what women’s experience is time and time again. You ask, we tell you and you say, nah lol no way. So just never mind then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 06:49 AM |
| 4 | What are the main ways in which men are lacking these days which is causing them to stay perpetually single?A lot of men struggle with emotional intelligence, empathy, and emotional attunement. The weight of that often falls on women. We are the ones constantly carrying the mental load and trying to keep the relationship running smoothly, while many men only offer financial contribution and believe that should be enough to sustain a life together. But partnership is not just bills and surface level moments. A real relationship has seasons. Warm ones, stormy ones, quiet ones, and passionate ones. It re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/11/25 05:27 AM |
| 1 | Women are held more accountable than men are by redpillersWhile also hating the people you want to date. Sounds like it’ll be beneficial for you. SMH. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:09 PM |
| – | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?Their fair share. Obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 08:30 PM |
| 3 | Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ?I agree with not speaking in absolutes. I try not to as well. I do think it is a very fair point that you made about the differences and it should not be overlooked at all. Fair enough. I just wanted to outline how the libido alone might not be the determining factor in every case. Not a dismissal of your point in anyway. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:54 PM |
| 4 | Why do you think women are less attracted to men than men are to women ?In regard to this answer concerning libido. Here is my take (as a high libido monogamy minded woman) I see the logic in attributing the difference to testosterone levels and sure, on a biological level, men tend to have higher spontaneous libido due to hormonal differences. But that explanation alone oversimplifies the reality. There are plenty of women, myself included, who experience both spontaneous and responsive desire and have libidos that match or exceed many men, especially when emotiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?That depends on people for sure. In my experience, that’s not generally the answer I’ve gotten from men who cycle through partners like paper bags. From the horses mouth it has been because they can, because god said so, because one woman is boring, etc. and I have heard that repeatedly from many different men. That sucks though if you’ve been trying to find someone that is a match for you but it hasn’t been working out. Instead of just plowing the fields or whatever else is the excuse to use an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:58 AM |
| 5 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Because we don’t get to decide other people’s lives. It’s more reasonable to just look for someone whose lifestyles and goals align with yours and what you are looking for. The problem is people being deceptive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?No, we don’t. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 11:51 AM |
| 7 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?That’s a valid observation but you also don’t know what their inner workings might have been unless you asked and discussed them. The same thing for men. Many times women do not know what is going on in there so we make assumptions based off whatever working lense we have in life. Usually if we know the person well or the lense isn’t too distorted we might come close to the truth but we would only know if that person agrees or disagrees with our observation/assumption or we discussed things. I’m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:12 AM |
| 4 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Perhaps I shall when I wake up. 😅🥱 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 06:05 AM |
| 4 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?I get what you’re saying, but let’s talk some real-world context. Who people sleep with often depends on proximity usually so friends, coworkers, people in their social circles. That comes with its own risks, but it’s not some free-for-all. Most people, regardless of gender, tend to weigh the emotional and social consequences before doing anything. So when we talk about reputational fallout, it’s not exclusive to women, and it’s not like men are out here consequence-free either, especially if th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Women are held more accountable than men are by redpillersLiterally this 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Women are held more accountable than men are by redpillersThe irony is unreal. These red pill guys rant about fairness and equality, but what they actually want is convenience, access to women without doing the inner or outer work required to be desirable. They constantly preach about accountability and responsibility, yet they embody neither. They refuse to look inward, to examine how their own hypocrisy sabotages the very outcomes they claim to want. They say women are the problem, that society is unfair to men but never ask themselves why women woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?I agree that we should all go for what we want. At the end of the day, I don’t give a fuck who you’re fucking as long as you’re not fucking me. But if you are fucking me, it becomes my business as my sexual health is top priority for me and ideally it should be nobody else. But that’s a personal choice. Plenty of people don’t give two fucks about that either. So yah, go for what you want. Fuck it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 05:02 AM |
| 2 | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexDude, no one’s asking for your money, least of all me. I wouldn’t sell myself to anyone. But let’s talk about why this even bothers you so much. If sex is what you want, and the only way you can consistently access it is by paying, why does that disgust you? Isn’t that a clear route to what you claim to be seeking? Or is it not really just about sex? Because here’s the thing: if it were purely about a physical release, you wouldn’t care about the method, logically you’d care about the result. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 04:49 AM |
| 3 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Fair enough, ghosting might not be on par with the other concerns, and I’ll give you that. But the bigger issue here isn’t about whether some women don’t care; it’s about the blatant hypocrisy in how men benefit from certain behaviors and then turn around to shame women for the same. Many men complain that they can’t get sex easily, then also shame women who are open to casual sex by calling them “ran through.” That’s not logic. That’s ego. That’s entitlement. You want access to women’s bodies, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 04:42 AM |
| 2 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?All good. You do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 04:36 AM |
| 11 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?You make some valid points. However, I’d like to say that.: The first issues is that I get your point with the comparisons there but also comparing consensual sex to winning a game reinforces a transactional mindset about intimacy. This “value” system is rooted in patriarchy, where power and conquest = worth. Additionally, when something is easy for women like sexual access, it’s devalued. But when men do it, it’s considered rare and impressive. That’s not logic. That’s the same value system at … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.That’s because they think it means automatic threesomes usually. Annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Women aversion to dating bisexual men is mostly due to traditional masculinity and rigid male gender norms.Jesus Christ. Where is the rubbing my temples emoji 😐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Men Peak in Attractiveness to Young Women in their TwentiesThis comment is cracking me up 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Men who demand traditionalism and submissiveness from women without being competent himself will never deserve it and should not get it.Some men are happy and content in FLR’s but I probably shouldn’t open that can of worms in here 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:40 AM |
| 1 | Men who demand traditionalism and submissiveness from women without being competent himself will never deserve it and should not get it.Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:36 AM |
| 2 | If women actually had such good personalities - men would just hire them to ghost write their dating profiles and chats.They do pay women to write their profiles lol, I’ve done it. The issue isn’t that all men lack personality or character. A lot of them do have depth. But I think many struggle to translate that onto paper because they’ve been conditioned not to be expressive or emotionally articulate. When you’re taught to suppress your inner world, it makes sense that writing a profile, something that requires vulnerability, self-awareness, and nuance…..feels almost impossible. So it’s not always a lack of subs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Women with messed-up/morally problematic interests are shown more grace than men with nerdy/unusual but not morally problematic interestsDude. Get a grip. You sound resentful. 🤦♀️ This reads like a fragile, cherry picking projection of a lack of understanding for media consumption and gender dynamics. It’s wild that you think the appeal of true crime for women is watching “sexual rivals be eliminated”…..like some twisted beauty pageant Hunger Games. That’s not only deeply misogynistic, it’s unhinged. Most women who consume true crime are doing so from a place of anxiety, not glee. Many are trying to understand patterns of violen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexI’m just trying to fuck a man that treats me like I matter and is down to be a good father and husband. I’ll fuck him 4 times a day if I can. 🤣 Don’t give two shits about what anybody else is doing in their sex life. And I am damn sure not worried about what somebody who isn’t committed to me and or doesn’t want those same things. is doing with their sex life. It’s all about reciprocation in my book. The problem is that alot of men feel entitled to other people’s bodies and they want access to p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | I think men project their desires onto women, and that's why some of them are jealous of women's ability to get sexYou could also just pay or find people who want to have casual sex. The problem is most men don’t want either of those options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 02:08 AM |
| 1 | There aren’t really that many opportunities to meet people in 2025Set up my best friend and her husband because I dragged her hermit ass to a party she didn’t want to go to. Then I married them. 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:56 AM |
| 12 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?That’s your prerogative. I’m not here to argue with you about your choice in woman and wanting the best. If that’s what you think the best is then you’re entitled to that. You don’t sound like someone who will be able to weather a real relationship with someone though because it sounds like you’re looking for perfection. There’s nothing wrong with wanting someone up to your standards, who has the same goals and is equipped to manage them. But it sounds like there’s no room for that person to be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Yikes. I guess whatever floats those people’s boats. However, Im talking more about the men who are complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:27 AM |
| 1 | Why Having an Obsessed Partner Is Actually an AdvantageYikes. This post honestly reads more tragic than romantic. You talk about wanting someone obsessed with you, devoted to the point of losing themselves, but never once mention what you’re offering in return. Not respect, not reciprocity, not even basic emotional consideration. As someone who has loved deeply , loyally, with my whole heart and soul, singularly- maybe not to that point of obsession but where I literally don’t care that anyone else exists. I can tell you it’s not a fairytale if that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:24 AM |
| 2 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?I get that. But if men want more sex they’ll have to suck it up because many of them are not looking for long term partners so a woman who is promiscuous is exactly what they need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:14 AM |
| 9 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Fair enough. Then you go ahead and find that 18 year old then if that’s what works for you. It also means that you probably will discard her when she’s no longer the best, meaning if she ages or life events traumatize her because that can and probably will happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?It’s refreshing to hear that. It’s just such a weird take. Like throwing a tantrum for not being able to access someone else’s body. Unhinged. I mean. I can see how that might be the case on your latter point. That could come down to biology more than anything. But I definitely think that if men want more sex with women they need to understand that casual women have to exist in order to facilitate that in the way that most of them are looking to have those encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:11 AM |
| 7 | Women who cohabitate (or have cohabitated) with a man you're in a LTR with, and you do most/all of the cleaning: How often does the man complain about your cleaning?Same. Actually there is. When women are not carrying the mental load it frees up her mental state to want and enjoy sex more. So if she’s not stressed about you unfairly carrying the load of cleaning and household chores and things like that then she’s more likely to put out. Also can confirm as a woman. It is hot when my partner does his fair share. Definitely more room for getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:06 AM |
| 7 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?You’re assuming that women don’t know how to make good decisions. You’re also assuming that whatever trauma comes to her is her own fault. People can experience things that’s fuck them up into adulthood even as children, what then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 01:00 AM |
| 3 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Then they just be a ran through man who has multiply women. But the problem is they complain that they can’t live that lifestyle. No one is stopping them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:58 AM |
| 6 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Sometimes. Not all the time. You assume this “damaged”narrative goes for all women who are partaking in that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:57 AM |
| 2 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?I just made a whole post about this shit because I’m tired. Hopefully it makes it to the feed. But yes. It’s like dude. Who do you think you’ll have sex with if not for the women who are like you? I don’t understand why you would want to mess up your own supply by shaming those women. It’s dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:52 AM |
| 6 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?I’m gonna go ahead and lay this out very clearly for you. There is a recurring argument often wielded by men to shame women for their sexual freedom while simultaneously lamenting their own lack of sexual access: “Women having a lot of sex is easy. Men having a lot of sex is hard.” From this line of reasoning, they claim it is justified for men to care more about women’s body counts and to celebrate male promiscuity while ridiculing female sexual autonomy. At first glance, this logic may seem ro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:33 AM |
| 3 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Fair enough. I have posted my thoughts on the matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:13 AM |
| 31 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Let’s start here: most women don’t. The idea that a woman casually says “sleeping around = healing” is often a projection that is plucked from a few loud voices and then used to stereotype all women. The truth is far more nuanced. When a woman does describe sex as part of her healing, it usually doesn’t mean “I’m sleeping with random people to fix my pain.” I’m not saying that is NEVER the case. But often means she’s reclaiming autonomy over her body, her desire, and her agency , especially afte… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:12 AM |
| 10 | Why do women call sleeping around “healing” or “finding themselves”?Why is it getting ran through when a woman does it? But it’s a good thing when men do it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/25 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Men need to stop chasing women.There’s a growing frustration among men about how the dating world feels…..imbalanced, exhausting, even disheartening. And that frustration is valid. But it’s misdirected when it becomes a blanket indictment of women, especially without first examining the system men themselves inherited and often uphold: patriarchy. Let’s start here: the same patriarchy that rewards women for their beauty also rewards men for their conquests. A man is often praised for how many women he can attract, not for how… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | The average man cannot set healthy boundaries or feel at ease and comfortable in a relationship because he’s so replaceable she’ll just walk awayAnd yet many men take for granted a woman who is devoted, consistent and loyal. She becomes boring to him as he wonders about all the things he is missing out on outside of their partnership. Unfortunately those who have it don’t want it. And those who want it don’t have it. The haves and the have nots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/25 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man?Clearly there is. Maybe get some friends who would rather be sober. Who’ve also lived life abit. You might find that we don’t all have the same opinions. I personally am not a drinker, I have a stray glass of wine here or there probably 2/3 times a year on a celebration or major holiday. I find men attractive without the need to be drunk. EVER. I don’t particularly like to party or any of those things. I also have friends that are the same way. I also have friends who like to drink too and party… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 08:16 AM |
| 5 | Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man?There’s so much more than that which was gross and disturbing about what you said. And if you think that’s all people are looking for then that’s your reality. Not everyone wants to live the life that you talk about. There are plenty of couples that are formed that way. If that’s all you see then something’s clearly wrong with your circle of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 02:32 AM |
| 3 | Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man?This is so gross you have no idea how disturbing this response is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Men would not make the decisions they want women to make if they were us.Just ask a man with a daughter who has come to think of women as humans instead of objects and he will tell you the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 12:16 AM |
| 4 | A man who can effortlessly get sex is exalted. A man who desires to have sex but is unsuccessful is seen as disgusting.Let’s be honest here, nobody is lining up for a “ran-through” man either. 🙃. The double standard just hits differently for men because men are often rewarded for high body counts while women are shamed and ostracized for the same. But here’s the twist lol most women aren’t out here obsessing over a man’s virginity. That’s more of a male fantasy rooted in control than a real female preference. We honestly couldn’t care less about that if a man is a good man willing to learn and take direction. Wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man?Seriously. Here, in case you didn’t want to do the digging yourself. One in five women in the United States experienced completed or attempted rape during their lifetime. Nearly a quarter (24.8%) of men in the U.S. experienced some form of contact sexual violence in their lifetime. One in three female victims of completed or attempted rape experienced it for the first time between the ages of 11 and 17. About half (51.1%) of female victims of rape reported being raped by an intimate partner and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Why are modern woman so keen on "vetting" a man?Because statistically, men are the primary perpetrators of violence against women annnnd also against other men might I add. So when you ask why women want to vet someone before engaging romantically, it’s like asking why someone wouldn’t invite a strange lion into their home just to see if it might be cuddly. You say women are too cautious. I say you’re lucky that you don’t have to be. You weren’t raised to think about your physical safety every time you walk to your car, go on a date, or rejec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/25 11:48 PM |
| 3 | How come women dont realize how hard is it for men to get laid ?Your post unintentionally reveals the very contradiction that sits at the heart of this kind of complaint. Let me break it down for you, I keep hearing the same refrain: Why won’t women freely have sex but the WITH ME is silent. And more often than not, it’s coming from the same men who call women whores when they do have sex again……just not with them. So which is it? You want women to be sexually open but only if that openness benefits you directly? You shame women for having a body count, then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Females, you're not single because a lack of quality men. Its because you're not pretty enough to get a rich one.Sounds like you hate women. But go on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/25 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?Number 9 ✨ 7 too 👀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?The skinny - Sinew build usually does it for me. You don’t have to be bulky to be strong and there is also other categories of power too like flexibility, mobility, agility etc. I’m a sucker for the long limbs too. But I’m not ultra rigid either, I know that my partners body will likely change as we age as well. As will mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Fit women, what body type are you most attracted to in a man?I like this build too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/25 02:23 PM |
| 2 | If single women hit the wall and become ugly to men at 25-30, so do married womenHonestly, men with this mentality gives pedo vibes. Hate to break it to them. It’s gross. I get that you want a partner who may be at their “peak” but dude, we are all biological beings. If she’s aging so are you. And the thing men like to ignore is that especially when it comes to having children, you are contributing half your DNA to the baby making process, so you honestly think that your age and lifestyle habits among other things have no impact on the quality of genes you are contributing? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/25 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Why are you scared to approach women?True but why not start? | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Why are you scared to approach women?How many times have I told yahll to work on flexing your charisma muscles 🙄. Just talk to people, anyone, everyone. Learn how to read people’s cues and where the conversation is likely going - if people are uncomfortable or what not. Also learn how to walk away from every situation with nothing but the fact that you just upped your charisma points. Seriously, this shit is like a sport to me, I can pretty much chat up anyone 😂, let go of rejection, let go of expectations, let go of being weird. J… | /r/seduction | 22/02/24 07:13 AM |
| 1 | Is 24 too late to change?Never too late also lol that’s no time! You’re still sooooo young. Just don’t do anything reckless that could impact your health unless the risks are worth it to you. . | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | A Rant On Boundaries & Why Having Them Is KEY To Attracting WomenIt isn’t. It is about having boundaries and being a person of quality. I was just pointing out that being low quality allows for there to be outside influence that can ruin your relationship, for example, not having boundaries which allows a low quality woman to then violate the boundaries that you should have. It isn’t the low quality woman’s fault. It is yours because you are low quality who does not adhere to a set of values and standards that you have designated for yourself. So you a low qu… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 07:47 AM |
| 2 | Broke my comfort zone!I literally just made a post about this somewhere lol. This makes a world of difference. It builds your confidence and allows you to become better at striking up a conversation and holding your own. You totally could have asked for her number. Definitely don’t ask as a I wanna fuck you move but just to see if you can get the number and especially if you enjoyed the encounter with the person - don’t be pushy but you could have said something like, if you need any help in the future, seeing as how… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 04:16 AM |
| 2 | StartingYes! Please do tell. There’s no hard rule. I’m sure that since you decided to approach that we know you think we are at least a-little attractive but telling her is good too, it helps if you decide something you like about her that makes her cute so you can continue the conversation if she asks you what you find particularly cute about her. And don’t lie, for each girl it can be different and that’s fine. Maybe you like her round cheeks, or her full lips or her large eyes or whatever the case ma… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 04:10 AM |
| 1 | StartingLol that’s a pretty good one but also again how you say it. | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 04:08 AM |
| 5 | How to always be improving your game.Practice makes perfect. I’m super charismatic but that’s because I’m genuinely polite and open to interacting with people regardless if there’s a reward to be had or not and go for it. It makes it so much easier to talk to people because there is no pressure. I frequently yell compliments and good days out the window to people as I am driving down the street. 🤷🏽♀️ I hand compliments out to men and woman and I don’t hold my tongue about it. The worst they can do is say nothing and keep it pushin… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 04:06 AM |
| 1 | A Rant On Boundaries & Why Having Them Is KEY To Attracting WomenMy pleasure 🙏🏼 | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | DemographicsI feel like there is some credit to this. But it doesn’t weigh as much as you may think. Ofcourse it gives you more appeal to your marketed demographic if you know what they like, but what if that isnt you. Then this approach doesn’t work. Also what if you’re like me who’s into that stuff but your style is more classic Hollywood glam or maybe you’re into something else as a fashion statement but personality wise and where you gravitated is that scene. Then this approach doesn’t work for you. It … | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 1 | Tips to avoid being seen as the guy who approaches a lot of girls in a small college?Can usually smell the desperation especially if you’re not tactful with it and on a small campus lolz we are all going to know about it sooner or later. I think if you want to use this approach, you definitely need to be careful not to appear as a sleevebang. So be honest and be safe about what you are doing meaning always use protection and don’t throw anything in anyone’s face but also be straight up about your intentions. I think in a college, (I’m in school now), you’ll generally find there … | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:15 AM |
| 5 | Looking for a wingman in NYCGreat. Let’s see if we can get you laid. 🤣🥳 | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Shy woman wanting to approach guyYOU MISS 100% OF THE SHOTS YOU DONT TAKE. SO SHOOT YOUR SHOT. Don’t wait, go out there and hunt him like a Lioness. If he doesn’t have a fragile ego, he will welcome being your prey. I think it’s sexy to go after what you want. Especially as a woman. It might catch him off guard but there is a low chance he will say no because you were bold enough to hunt him before he even realized you were game. 🥳🙏🏼 Tell me how it goes! | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:05 AM |
| 4 | Trouble with ScarcityI think you’re focusing on the whole having sex thing way too much. You have a deadline for sex. We can kind of sense that and because of that you may be coming off as not genuine. You need to let that go. That’s kind of crazy in my humble opinion, you need to just let things progress naturally without thinking there’s 4 months left I need to sleep with someone or so help me! I don’t mean to be offensive but you may be coming off offensive because of that regardless of the whole corona situation… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 03:01 AM |
| 2 | If you want to connect better with people, try these socializing tipsOne tip for you introverts. BOARD GAMES! BOARD GAMES ARE YOUR FRIENDS! It really gets us back into the wonder and non judge mental zone of when we were kids and more eager to offer up more of ourselves and also just have fun. I love board games and they totally break the ice and keep a natural convo going, the more chaos the game causes the better and the more people you can play with, the better. I’m telling you! Words from an extrovert lol. Also puzzles. Puzzles are a lost art but as an introv… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 02:48 AM |
| 2 | Can cologne really add to a woman’s attraction to you?Please do not drench yourself in cologne, nothing will make me be-line faster away from a man than smelling like a walking cologne factory. I have a sensitive nose and I think it’s agreed that most women smell more intensely than men do so there is no need to drench yourself. Just spray lightly the pulse spots, wrists, back of the knees and behind the ears.I find that essential oils are better and they last longer and give a more natural pheromone like approach than actual cologne. If you pick a… | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 02:41 AM |
| 7 | Looking for a wingman in NYCWhat about a wing woman? | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 02:21 AM |
| 9 | A Rant On Boundaries & Why Having Them Is KEY To Attracting WomenAs a woman, I’ll tell you that this man is speaking the truth. It also makes your woman more secure (even if she is already secure to begin with.) She knows what you stand for when she is and isn’t around because these are your values. Having no boundaries and allow people to walk all over you means that you’ll allow low quality women to also ruin what you have between the high quality woman and yourself. So it’s important that she sees that from early on and that you maintain this truth. Don’t … | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 02:18 AM |
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