| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 21 | Depressed After Dates Going Nowhere | Inner Game | Aggressive-King4523 | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 04:15 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Why would I want a date with a woman who isn't attracted to me? Why would I want a date in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/26 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Why should men approach women exactly? Why should men humiliate and degrade themselves? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themYeah, and that's feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Men should realise that a woman not approaching them is a clear sign of disinterest. I do often tell men that if he has to initiate then he's not attractive. Plus, all approaching a woman does is boost her ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:49 PM |
| 2 | Men not approaching: Why Self-Respect is the Ultimate "Win"Women do initiate. It's great when they do. If a woman isn't approaching a man then she's not interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Feminists expect male "allies", but have no interest in solving male-specific issues or even recognizing themBecause politicians don't care about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/26 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereDrinks can be expensive. It should be as cheap as possible. It doesn't really matter where you take her. I've also had lots of success too, it's just a snag. Many just have unrealistic expectations and are delusional, hence why they talk about "sparks" and "connections"... | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 06:23 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be approaching women.It's the opposite. If a woman doesn't approach me/message me first then she's not interested. Men absolutely do respect women who approach. It was probably a woman who told you that they didn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/26 05:19 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereAnd? Give examples of where else I should try. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 04:16 PM |
| 0 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereWhat should I do instead of coffee/walk dates, then? I am having success, just a few haven't gone anywhere lately. IDK where you got the idea from that I don't get success. | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be approaching women.If you need to pursue her, then she's not attracted. Women go after the men that they want. Men do not have a biological imperative to pursue. It's pathetic and women do not respect men who approach them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be approaching women.That's literally the only logical reason. Why would anyone suggest that men should approach women? Can you even name any? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be approaching women.Okay? The main point is that it's futile as it's a humiliation ritual and boosts the woman's ego. Men shouldn't do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 07:20 PM |
| 0 | Men should not be approaching women.Women consider men who approach them as desperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be approaching women.In women's view, a man who approaches looks desperate and low value. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Men should not be approaching women.According to surveys, most women want to be approached. This means that men shouldn't do it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 06:30 PM |
| 0 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereYou're the one that thinks that "game" works. If she were attracted to you, then how you act wouldn't make a difference. Trust me. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 02:24 PM |
| -1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereGame doesn't exist. Give examples of acting feminine.. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 02:22 PM |
| -1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereHow exactly would you be "acting feminine/gay"? Remember that there is no "game." | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereCope. Why else wouldn't they work? | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 11:28 AM |
| 0 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereOr just unattractive. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Men should not be approaching women.Why should I even try it? What's in it for me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/26 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereIf they do not work for you then you are unattractive. Simple. | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereIRL is effort and I really can't be bothered to do it. At least apps ae low effort and high reward. You even said it yourself, "it's way harder." Why the fuck would I want that? I don't care about "social dynamics." | /r/seduction | 13/05/26 11:13 AM |
| 2 | Men should not be approaching women.It's literally giving men sound advice. Not approaching means that you will keep your dignity intact and won't get accused of anything ontoward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereBecause she wasn't attracted, clearly. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereIf it weren't for apps, where else would I meet women? I have no other avenues. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:54 PM |
| 2 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereTrue. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:53 PM |
| 0 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereYeah but quite a few don't go anywhere. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:53 PM |
| -2 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereYeah because IRL is so much better... Why are you so against guys using apps? | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:52 PM |
| 0 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereYes, if you struggle on dating apps then you are ugly. It's pretty simple. I don't struggle, I do very well on them. I have just hit a bad point with a few dates lately. "I don’t believe that’s the case I’m just making the point that you are saying this about yourself by the way you are thinking ." Your reading comprehension is shocking. I never once said I struggled on apps. 95% of men struggle both on apps and IRL anyway. "And about me sounding like I don’t know much of anything, are you sayin… | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 10:51 PM |
| -1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereWhere the fuck did I say that I was ugly? Wtf are you talking about? Women don't date ugly men. "What the other commenter was suggesting you do is invest your time into yourself instead of wasting time on these apps so you can be sure the vibe is authentically there." I already "invest" time into myself. "Also you are talking about this like all you wanna do is fuck, and don’t care about who it is that lets you or what kind of person they are and I gotta say, that alone may be what is preventing… | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:18 PM |
| -3 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereIt just means she found you ugly. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 06:16 PM |
| 12 | Men should not be approaching women.Why are you telling me this? The main point is that men shouldn't be approaching as it looks desperate and women approach men that they find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Stop using datings apps"wondering why men don’t ever ask them out in person" Oh, Jesus. That's hilarious if women are actually bothered about that. Pathetic. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:35 PM |
| 18 | Men should not be approaching women.It's a stupid endeavour and will guarantee rejection/humiliation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereYeah, that's true. I did get very burnt out despite success. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:31 PM |
| 6 | Men should not be approaching women.Which is why men shouldn't approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:26 PM |
| 2 | Men should not be approaching women.Dates don't mean anything and all you are doing by approaching is boosting her ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:24 PM |
| -2 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereUnless they are approaching me then I won't bother. I'm also going to continue with the apps as they've worked well, just need a break. If they don't work for you then you are just ugly. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereI did get thousands of matches on Hinge and Tinder, but I've gotten burnt out from it. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:19 PM |
| 14 | Men should not be approaching women.Don't approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/05/26 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereMaybe a break would do me good. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereNever said I was perfect. But why shouldn't I continue to use them? Where else am I going to meet women? | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Depressed After Dates Going NowhereImprove myself how? What's wrong with apps? | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Why is it that most guys naturally learn and figure out the whole dating/seduction thing, how to attract and talk to women correctly without ever having gotten help from a dating coach or pick up artist, or is it False? Did most guys have some help along the way?Because PUA is a scam. | /r/seduction | 12/05/26 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Can attraction grow over time or is it decided early on?There needs to be a minimum threshold that you pass first. | /r/seduction | 15/04/26 10:02 AM |
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