Aggressive-State-550 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	He's missing the chivalry basics I agree with others in that sharing your appreciation for whatever chivalrous act he does do and then mentioning further how cared for or ladylike it allows you to feel by him doing those things for you. I suspect that would be all the encouragement he’d need to step up.	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 06:03 PM
2	In the world of actual high value people, is the red pill truly valid? After reading this all I keep thinking is does this person believe most RPW are uneducated/less capable? I’ve never seen a poll in this Reddit about it but I’d be surprised if there were more uneducated women here than there are educated…every study I’ve ever read always finds educated women marrying the most and divorcing least but I will concede HIGHLY intelligent women…exceptionally high IQ generally do not ever marry…they marry as often as exceptionally low IQ men marry. I wonder if maybe an…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 04:42 PM
5	Complicated situation — was it cheating if we weren’t official, and is there any path to trust? I don’t see it as cheating but I think you have already decided that you do…your second question…though not really a question…literally says you feel like if you accept him at this point you’re accepting a cheater. So, I think you already have your mind made up and are here looking for justification or validation. For me I’d have a bigger problem with the dishonesty/lying than the actions but that’s likely just me. If you can’t trust them blindly then what are you really doing? That’d be my ques…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 04:03 PM
–	What are reasonable expectations on parenting and chores with a baby? My first thought after reading about your situation is that he needs a solid reality check and then my mind drifted to wondering how he was raised…maybe his mom was super mom or maybe he’s trying to do ensure things are different for his child. Nothing would provide an excuse I just try to figure out the why to everything so I can try to find an acceptable compromise. At my house this situation would force me to call a ‘come to Jesus’ meeting and a long thorough discussion about what you each ne…	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 03:36 PM
2	How to get him to lead decision-making? I would say exactly what you said about either choice being acceptable and then I’d go a little further and mention that I would appreciate him making the decision…or that it’s too tough of a call because you love both choices if he could help you by deciding. In my experience men hear the words ‘help’ and ‘need’ as a call to action and usually they will step up to remedy any situation they can. I know it’s probably borderline manipulative but certain words carry a lot more weight or meaning to …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/09/25 02:45 PM
4	How to get him to lead decision-making? I could be totally off here but in my experience men like to be confident and correct…he might not have a problem making a decision as much as he may have a problem of being overly concerned about disappointing you. Maybe a simple discussion on your favorite places to eat or preferred types of food would give him more of an idea so he could be more confident and worry less about disappointing you. I don’t know him at all but being that his indecisiveness has more to do with the two of you doing …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/25 09:54 PM
7	Would you move states for love? I think it would depend on your level of commitment…if you BOTH are willing to put in the work to making it work it could be great but if you guys have different commitment levels it likely won’t pan out. Another thought is there’s viewing the world in rose tinted glasses then there’s reality…not being in the same house is almost always easier to view a relationship as ideal. With that said I tend to be an all or nothing gal so myself I’d jump in and try to make it work. BUT by jump in I don’t m…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/25 08:22 PM
10	How to focus on myself? I know this will totally seem counterintuitive but please hear me out. I was in this same position. I was even looking for a place to move to…I was thinking about giving up…I homeschool 4 kids…so I completely understand the lack of a break and not having enough time for proper self care…it is a tough life! One of my daughters saw me looking at real estate and made a comment about how she’s never going to get married because boys and girls don’t help each other and just argue too much. It broke m…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/09/25 07:21 PM
1	How to be softer when stuck in fight or flight? For myself taking a nice quiet bath with a splash of baby oil in the water so I can get an amazingly smooth shave and leaving my skin extra soft afterwards is all I need to shake off any issues I’m having. Do you have any hobbies that relax you and just let you feel like a lady? Baking, sewing, or crocheting seem to be the most common ones I am familiar with. A 30 minute relaxing bath always resets me but I know some people getting a manicure, pedicure or massage helps them destress and feel mor…	/r/RedPillWomen	12/09/25 07:02 PM
2	What to do when the man nags This is my list I read daily. It applies to me and my struggles. It may apply to you or it may not. I can just say our lives have been amazing since I sat down and started with what my goal was and then made a list of my behaviors toward him that I didn’t like and were not helping to attain that goal. So next to each item I wrote how to improve it. My goal if it’s not obvious is to be more respectful towards him. So if you struggle with something else perhaps a little list of ways to improve rea…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/09/25 12:42 PM
2	What to do when the man nags I’m glad you got this figured out but I just thought I’d add my 2 cents. When my SO comments at all about my phone it’s usually because he wants the attention I’m giving my phone and darn near any time he says anything negative about my behavior or choices it’s because he’s starting to crack under the immense pressure he’s constantly under and nothing to do with me or my actions. It is always quickly resolved with a simple smile, a little affection, and my asking if there’s anything I can help h…	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/25 09:02 PM