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1	Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating? Saying "hey" is not doing the first move. It's very different. When I flirt with a woman I want to date, i start a conversation. And then -that's where the "first move is"- I would ask her if she want to see me again. Assuming saying "hey" in a dm is trying to start a relationship is falsy. The girls way is more often trying to get the attention of the man she want, but the one who will do the move is near always the man. I mean, I could met you at a bar, offer you a drink and have a nice conver…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 04:57 PM
2	Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating? What I don't understand in that case:I'm a man that don't live in your area. I want to go on dinner with you. We don't know each other from that long so I'm not really fully aware of your tastes. I check online for some food places in the area, and I pick a food chain that's not too specific (like If I invite you to the sushi bar popular in town and you don't like sushi?). I will ask you if you want to go there. Why should I, the man, be the one to blame? You could just responded "oh no, I would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 04:40 PM
1	Why is there so much conversation about the amount of effort( or lack there of) that men put in when it comes to dating? It's linked to the paradox of choices. Women on average have a really massive amount of potential pursuer. When you select a choice, you still have in mind the other 999 choices you didn't picked, and your future 1000 choices. You don't "dismiss them" yet. You go on a date with someone. If the guy don't put a lot of efforts on the date to keep your attention, your mind will obviously go to all those choices. "Maybe the next one would have bring flowers? or maybe 5 swipes away a sexy guy would ha…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 11:16 AM
-1	Lack of empathy for the opposite gender This is a pretty good thread. I always try to put myself in someone else shoes when they feel the need to share emotional stress.I never thought women had it easy. Sure, with OF and other plateform like instagram, tik tok,...They have easy access to money but it have a really high cost too, and that's something people that blame them often forgot. When I go out, I often be asked to accompany a drunked girl to her home (Because of student's years, we often know all the people at our "College's ba…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/02/22 10:34 AM

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