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| 2 | Q4E: Is the OKcupid data about the 80/20 rule what caused all the dating discourse/gender war ?Women definitely say they find the majority of men physically unattractive. You just need to type a quick search on this app and you will find hundreds of posts in women's sub saying that. "Women find most men unattractive" https://www.np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenOver30/s/knJCp6ZGOz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/25 08:58 AM |
| 13 | Q4E: Is the OKcupid data about the 80/20 rule what caused all the dating discourse/gender war ?Why do you not consider it data ? I mean the post was a meta analysis on how users behaved in the app. How many times they swiped, how many matches they get, messages sent..etc. what constitutes as data to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 11:05 PM |
| 27 | Why do you want women to tell men "be attractive" ?Honestly I find this study that kinda uncovers how the gaslighting/virtue signalling works. https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating The entire thing is worth a read because women's responses regarding how attractive they would like their partners to be are hilarious but I'll post the final result "Males actually perfectly matched the importance of the attractiveness score, however they underestimated the influence of shared interest and fun scores … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Why do you want women to tell men "be attractive" ?Honestly I find this study that kinda uncovers how the gaslighting/virtue signalling works. https://www.kaggle.com/code/jph84562/the-ugly-truth-of-people-decisions-in-speed-dating The entire thing is worth a read because women's responses regarding how attractive they would like their partners to be are hilarious but I'll post the final result "Males actually perfectly matched the importance of the attractiveness score, however they underestimated the influence of shared interest and fun scores … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 06:51 PM |
| 16 | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsIf you've been around enough eccentric/nerdy circles this definitely happens. Bro every woman who complained about men here, i've seen her complain about a man they date or have already dated not some unkempt nerds they played DND with(while it happens, not to the same level of complaining about guys who are getting it) You would think a guy who is lonely, unpopular, and has exactly one woman An incel is definitely not that, while i don't think most incels would be good partners, i don't believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 03:48 PM |
| – | Every woman beater I've ever met was almost constantly in relationshipsI mean there is a famous quote for this: "Abusive men always have someone to abuse" The truth is many women on social media or even here on reddit keep hating on incels and saying that they deserve their loneliness. When the reality is most of these women were not hurt by incels, they were hurt by an ex, their father, a friend of an ex or even somebody they hooked up with. The men who hurt them aren't lonely or incels, they never were and they never will be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/25 02:13 PM |
| 16 | Women do not fall for "manipulation" as much as they want to think they doIt's the other way around. If wife beaters, prisoners and serial killers got women's sexual attraction. It just tells you that their validation isn't all that bro cuz even the lowest of the low(morally) got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 01:42 PM |
| – | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?Because she is an ableist little shit and gets mad when she gets called out on her bs | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 10:53 PM |
| 9 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?Because it's glossing over the fact that your looks play a huge part in how your personality is perceived. If you are attractive, people will project into you all the positive traits, the exact opposite happens when you are unattractive. I don't know why you guys always seem to forget or understate that fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 08:41 PM |
| 11 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?"All truth passes through three stages: first, it is ridiculed; second, it is violently opposed; and third, it is accepted as self-evident" Schopenhauer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 08:32 PM |
| 1 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?"All truth passes through three stages: first, it is ridiculed; second, it is violently opposed; and third, it is accepted as self-evident" Schopenhauer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 08:32 PM |
| 7 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?Unfortunately most men who struggle with dating are on the spectrum so they need more clear direct communication. Rule 1 and 2 should be the general dating advice. It’s not a “denial,” it’s trying to elevate the conversation to be useful to someone who’s already graduated primary school. It is denial, because every time a guy complains about being short and ugly, people are quick to gaslit him into thinking that it's his personality or attitude that's holding him back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 08:29 PM |
| -2 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?Attractiveness is subjective but ugliness is quite objective. She is claiming that what's attractive varies so much between women. While women are not all attracted to the same men but still there is still an overlap, claiming that it's vividly different for every woman is simply untrue. Y'all the same species with the same biology, you are not as unique as you think you are. (You is general here, i don't mean "you") | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 08:08 PM |
| 3 | When did the narrative shift from "it's your personality and misogyny that keeping you single" to "ofc women love attractive men, are you a stupid shut in!!" ?I knew that when i was in middle school so i'm not surprised that women like attractive men. I'm more surprised at the amount of effort people would put to deny that they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?I couldn't care less, i said what i said and they could interpret it as they wanted. If they think i'm a resentful entitled asshole so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 05:51 PM |
| 50 | Why are men here surprised that women give attention to men they like?Ooh i know that you are referring to my comment here You guys really like to turn everything about resentment and entitlement. While the point is that if she likes you enough, you don't have to try to impress her or dance like a monkey because she already DOES LIKE YOU, basically, i'm telling men to STOP negotiating attraction. Additionally, if more men followed the advice i gave here, you'd be thanking me for not having to deal with creeps, stalkers or guys you are not attracted to. You were as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?The shocking thing is when they entertain attention from people they don't like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/25 02:26 PM |
| 55 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?For sure. Attractiveness makes up for the lack of kindness but kindness doesn't make up for the lack of attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:53 PM |
| 112 | Do men believe that nice guys finish last ?Do men believe that nice guys finish last ? I think now it's changed. Ugly guys finish last, you can't kind your way into attractiveness unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?Yeah i might just switch it to the no pill tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 05:05 PM |
| 26 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?I wanted to put a "chillpill" flair but i couldn't find it unfortunately. I don't like to identify as redpill because of the bitterness and misogyny in the community. Also some of the ideas can be way too generalized, simplistic and it's quite narrow as a world view. One of the things i disagree with is the notion that women have fun with attractive guys then marry safe stable guys. While this is true in some cases, but it's very exaggerated. Most women who are into that lifestyle marry guys sim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 03:31 PM |
| 354 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?The average woman nowadays have much more options than the average man. Hundreds of matches, plenty of guys sliding in her DMs on social media and she gets asked out regularly when she goes out with her friends in a club or a bar. If you aren't seeing reciprocated effort, you are just another nameless guy in her DMs The dynamic is simple, if you have to chase, you've already lost because women don't run from the men they want. Jumping through hoops, twisting yourself backward, wining and dining … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/25 02:57 PM |
| – | Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ?This is from a thread posted on r/AskReddit yesterday. Look at the amount of upvotes these comments are getting and tell me how people do not gaslight men when it comes to female sexual attraction. https://imgur.com/a/E5Szk5N Atp it's just funny to see them dance around it lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 11:49 AM |
| – | Why do men here act surprised that women like attractive men ?Because society knows that men are shallow but act like women are not as shallow. When chadfish experiments were a thing, people tried to deny them and say that they are fake and fabricated all the time because they couldn't fathom that women would knowingly sleep with a criminal, a nazi or a p3d0 as long as they are hot enough. If it was the other way around nobody would bat an eye because like i said society acts as if female sexual attraction is divine and pure while male sexual attraction is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/25 11:27 AM |
| 14 | Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"?It's still in the context of natural selection, i.e the survival of the fittest. You can't appeal to nature when it comes to getting laid but not on things that makes you uncomfortable. Nature is brutal. Going to war and kidnapping a woman after killing her family used to be a fairly typical and socially celebrated method of finding a wife. Going on a murderous rampage literally was one of the methods to stop being an incel in ancient times “According to some sources, the honeymoon is a relic of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 10:25 PM |
| 16 | Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"?No but in the animal kingdom. An animal dying or getting killed without reproducing is considered natural selection so it's not far fetched to say the same about humans when you are appealing to nature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:38 PM |
| 31 | Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"?Bro she is the one who brought up natural selection not me. Nature doesn't care about crimes or illegal activities, it just does what it does. You can't use the "natural selection" argument only when it fits your "just world" narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:05 PM |
| 33 | Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"?She is the one appealing to nature not me. An animal dying or getting killed without reproducing is considered natural selection in the animal kingdom. I watched her whole special and this is what i think She started off condemning misogynistic men's hatred of women(which is a good thing) appealing to morality, but then she judges male virginity in cold Darwinian terms as though nature's endgame is the only thing that matters. As if she doesn't know that moral condemnation of misogyny is a socia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 09:00 PM |
| 39 | Do you agree with Iliza Schlesinger's take on hateful undesirable saying that it's "natural selection"?I'm kinda interested if she would say the same to women being murdered by their own partner ''you failed to adapt. you choose a violent and aggressive man. you deserve it. you failed to adapt to modern society and learn how to choose a partner, you deserve to die''? would this be considered natural selection too? What about women who choose to be childless ? Are their genes ending because of natural selection ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 08:39 PM |
| 3 | Anytime a woman is giving a dating advice for men, that advice only works for men who don't need it.Incels says that women are only attracted to chads, most normal men will say that women are attracted to a small subset of men and they say that women care about how much a guy makes. Everytime a guy says that women don't like short men or bald men or small dicks. A woman will always insert herself into the discussion saying that each individual woman is different, some care and some don't. C'mon now, this is pretty clear especially here on reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Anytime a woman is giving a dating advice for men, that advice only works for men who don't need it.We know that. You guys should just stop feeling the need to correct men when they say that women like attractive men. "Ooh women aren't a monolith, some like conventionally attractive guys, some like conventionally unattractive guys, we aren't all the same" . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:27 PM |
| 3 | Anytime a woman is giving a dating advice for men, that advice only works for men who don't need it.Then why the fuck do women keep inserting themselves and talking about how unique their preferences are. If a man says "women don't like short or unattractive men". Y'all start jumping on him saying " women aren't a monolith, each woman is different, some women like short guys, some like conventionally unattractive guys, some like tall guys, we aren't hivemind". Why do you insert yourself talking about outliers when men are discussing generalities ? Why do you get triggered and feel the need to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 01:22 PM |
| – | Anytime a woman is giving a dating advice for men, that advice only works for men who don't need it.If that's your takeaway from the post then you need to learn reading comprehension | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/25 10:52 AM |
| – | Where do you people find ugly guys ?I'd say ugly men get angry responses when they interact with women but from a far, they are just invisible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 11:07 PM |
| 9 | Almost every man is capable of being a top 10% manMale attractiveness is a hierarchy Even if suddenly all men self improved and became hotter nothing would change. Women would still find most men unattractive. This is easily observable by looking at average height increase over the past 100 years. There are tons of European countries where the average height is 6’ but the sexlessness rate for men also increased. The best way to be a top 10% guy isn’t self improvement, it’s moving to a place with less desirable men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 09:45 PM |
| – | Where do you people find ugly guys ?In experiments where female participants rated male faces, unattractive (30% of male faces) triggered minimal brain response, suggesting they DONT ENGAGE THE NEURAL CIRCUITRY FOR “human detection" What the Studies Show: When men look at ugly women, their brains respond in anger or annoyance. When women look at faces, their brains light up only if the man is attractive enough. For the bottom ~30% of men (by looks), their brains don’t just feel “uninterested", they often don’t even register the fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 07:47 PM |
| 7 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.Cough cough women going back with their toxic/cheating exes. I also mean getting away with it in a sense that they can easily get another woman who wants to sleep with them or have a relationship with them. No matter how toxic an attractive guy is, i'd bet some women would still try to rationalize pursuing him, "i can fix him", "he will change for me", "he is different with me", "he is good deep down, it's just other people can't see it",...etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 05:58 PM |
| 56 | No, women aren’t attracted to bad men. You’re just hearing about the breakups.Women aren't attracted to bad men. They are attracted to good looking men, it just happens that some of these good looking men are bad/assholes because they can get away with it and there are always other women who will want them despite being like that. Women being attracted to bad men is a manospher cope. I've never seen women flocking over balding, short and ugly criminals or unattractive assholes. They only like the hot ones. The criminality/danger isn't the draw, it's the looks and the char… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/25 04:15 PM |
| 14 | Society doesn't really hate older womenThere is no revenge fantasy in my post. Many women in this exact app complain about "hostility" from strangers as they aged or not receiving basic acts of kindness as they used to. Whether from cashiers, social service or pretty much everybody. You can look up for those threads, the sub doesn't allow links. Check out r/askoldpeople threads about the subject matter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/25 09:32 PM |
| 8 | As a person with daddy issues, I feel kinda offended by the daddy issues stereotype in women.And I tend to agree with black women that the men who don't want them aren't worth having anyway. Weird how you don't keep the same energy for short/autistic men. I mean it's fine, you can choose to have empathy for whoever you want but when it comes down to it, just don't be surprised when people don't have empathy for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/25 12:11 PM |
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