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| 2 | In an ask about the people in Afghanistan... "way to make everything about women"“Somehow you have made yourself a victim”. This scrote has issues with reading comprehension. They were literally giving sympathy to women who are in Afghanistan and comparing their privilege to those who are being stripped of their human rights. How is feeling empathy and compassion for others making it about yourself??? I can’t with these men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:34 PM |
| 12 | Breaking news! Poor man had to sit hungry because his wife didn’t make his plate, even though his arms work and he is perfectly capable of standing :( so sad. Thoughts and prayers. /sNo wonder men whine about being single - they get jealous that they’re missing out on a free personal slave. Sad that there’s so many pick me’s out there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/21 05:42 AM |
| 3 | The complicated coffee order and the HV and LVM reactions.Men just get pressed you actually have standards for something. They make fun of women for getting their nails done, looking for nice clothes, enjoying makeup, and even being close to their girlfriends. It sounds like your coffee order has demonstrated that well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/21 02:18 PM |
| 69 | Ladies what is something men do that you thought was a green flag but is actually men being trash as usual?Insisting on driving me home. It is nice of them to offer but I do not allow strangers to drop me off at my home. If I have repeatedly said no and you’re still insisting - you’re just being creepy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/07/21 11:01 AM |
| 22 | They settle down when they get old. #geriatricEw, I once saw an interview where it looked like he was feeling up the back of my favourite actress too. Gave me pedo vibes immediately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 05:24 AM |
| 1 | Was interesting to read other women’s experiences with pornsick LVMs. Just a gentle reminder not to settle for a scrote whose kink is abusing womenThat’s understandable! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 02:23 PM |
| 139 | LOCK THEM ALL AWAY! Time to celebrate this success!Finally. I hope the victims find some peace with this news, despite the scars they will carry. Let’s get the rest of these predators AND the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/21 03:58 PM |
| 9 | FDS Translates VICE - "Adult" Men with their Mattresses on the FloorRight?! Like damn, these guys aren’t even able to hold their shit together to follow an IKEA manual | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:28 PM |
| 3 | I love how we women in FDS make jokes on men's expense as retaliation and lurkers immediately jump to call us hypocritical when we are merely holding a mirror back at them.Yeah I thought it was obvious lol, but I guess not? We’re clearly mirroring their misogyny in our posts and comments to get our point across. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:20 PM |
| 29 | Porn Addiction Is More Common Than Anyone Wants To AdmitYeah they definitely just try to delude themselves that “ethical porn” exists to make them feel better/sound like they actually care about sex workers. Ignoring the point that porn is just blatant misogyny and exploitation in and of itself, there is no way they can actually verify if their source is truly “ethical” anyways. Some say that indie porn producers are ethical just because they are a smaller company or that the company is mostly composed of women - but that obviously doesn’t prove anyt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:39 AM |
| 7 | Low value men act indignant when we want a guy who is both attractive and kind to us, because they think that attractive men are entitled to treat women poorly and get away with it.I found out the other day that they have another term, “Tyrone” which apparently just means a Chad ...but Black. I have no words. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 10:32 AM |
| 8 | “You seem expensive”Oh wow do they think we just sit around all day lol? Women work and get paid too. And getting nice clothes and taking care of yourself doesn’t have to be super expensive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:30 PM |
| 5 | “You seem expensive”Lol he doesn’t realize that getting your nails and hair done is a regular thing? He does sound broke if that seems expensive to him. You don’t see men batting an eyelash at other men spending $60 on each console game or thousands on gaming rigs. Boy, bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 07:28 PM |
| 37 | This was a post asking men what boundaries they have with women. Literally the first answer scrote says he wants her to show affection when she doesn’t want to. What the actual fuck. This doesn’t answer the question, also suggests you don’t want her to have her own boundaries. LoserWe all know what he really means is receiving more head despite his partner not wanting to give it because it “really matters to him”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 06:50 PM |
| 72 | Gym CreepYeah I’ve had dudes go like “are you guys serious? Wanna be friends?” 🙄 after saying I’m in a relationship. They just don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 05:23 PM |
| 40 | Men 👏 Dont 👏 change 👏 EVEN FOR THEIR DREAM GIRL. FDS works ladies. Left my NVM fiancée 4 years ago and he immediately started dating the most beautiful woman I had ever seen. My heart was broken then, but this is them now!!“I’m definitely not a normal character”, okay psycho. Since when was being normal a bad thing?? With dating apps being full of perverted, porn-addicted, unemployed, and misogynistic men, it really shouldn’t come as a surprise that most women are probably just looking for normal guys. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 08:03 PM |
| 27 | You know what’s attractive? Men who take care of themselves.Yeah and men with poor hygiene can literally cause UTIs and yeast infections in women... no thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 07:59 PM |
| 13 | women actually doing empowering things for/with other women - That's what we need to fight for. Actual empowerment (putting women in government, etc).Anyone that says porn and sex work is empowering is a clown. It honestly infuriates me that very few people actually care about (or acknowledge) the victims of the sex industry. I remember with “GirlsDoPorn” (a pornographic company) it was revealed that they literally coerced, raped, threatened, abused women and minors into doing pornography. And yet, videos of GDP were still posted Reddit long after the revelation - with several positive comments and upvotes. These sick fucks know and they don’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 04:14 AM |
| 91 | Porn is blatant abuseThe number of times I’ve had to call out pornsick men for inappropriate comments towards other women and myself is too damn high. Fuck the porn industry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 5 | Some additional ideas on what to vet for.Guys who fetishize lesbian relationships are absolutely revolting 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 21 | I wonder where all the feminist men are? Oh yeah, they are paying for r*pe.I hate that the men who are for prostitution always say that it’s fair as long as they are making a buck. It’s so dismissive and ignorant to say that these women and men who are barely making enough pay for their car insurance deserve the abuse and exploitation simply because they “willingly” went into the industry. They completely underestimate how little options the less privileged have. I will never shame someone for being a sex worker nor do I think they deserve being painted as the villains… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:44 PM |
| 71 | Why women oppose prostitution.Yup, I’ve seen so many comments on why they think women are against prostitution, porn, sex work, over sexualization, etc. I often see “they’re all aging and feel like they can’t compete with these young, fit girls”. That really doesn’t make sense since plenty of young, fit women are still opposed to porn, prostitution and all of the above. One of the most recent ones I saw was that “they don’t like that these things are outside the control of women”. And that one just boggled my mind because th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 03:35 PM |
| 9 | Size matters. Men need to stop shaming women for preferring big dicks.Yup, we’re allowed to love big cocks and any man that has a problem with that should look for someone else to date. If FDS is as bad as these guys say it is then they shouldn’t be bothered by not meeting our standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Girls-Only Gym In The US Ignites Discussion On Whether It’s ‘Segregation’ Or Protection Of WomenBecause god forbid men can’t harass women while they work out anymore. It’s transparent that the ones that are angry about women-only spaces are outraged that they don’t have access to these women anymore. They literally have so many other gyms to go to, like pick one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 08:57 PM |
| 37 | FDS principles lands on a political news channel. A few FDS’ers in the comments defending this woman for setting standards. So many complaining dinner is expensive and she’s a gold digger for the bare minimum.Right? They take it as some sort of insult. I don’t drink anymore because I developed an alcohol intolerance - but apparently that isn’t a good enough reason for these people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 01:52 PM |
| 12 | Yet Another case of a Man and His Fetish Destroying a Woman. Porn Isn't Just Fantasy- It Has Real World Consequences for Women! If He Watches Porn Throw Him Out 👏🏻This is so fucked up and disgusting. He needs a god damn therapist, not Reddit comments. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 07:48 PM |
| 210 | Message to female lurkersThere’s a lot of lies about FDS floating on Reddit. I personally think it originates from angry, offended men who want to scare other women from joining by calling FDS users names. Doesn’t bother me because it’s literally just assumptions that we’re all man-hating, POC (I think that’s somehow meant to be an insult), homophobic, 30+, overweight incels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 04:28 PM |
| 95 | "Cishet" women are still oppressed. We are still women living under a patriarchal system.This. I hate it whenever I see a comment that says “western white women aren’t oppressed”. As an Asian woman, these kinds of comments are transparent in trying to divide women and shift the message onto something it isn’t - white privilege. That’s another topic in and of itself but some men just don’t want to admit to us that it’s a man’s world. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 08:49 PM |
| 6 | Give a guy a bit of power and he'll use it to harrass a woman.Same here. I’ve heard too many stories and statistics about cops to want to take the risk. Obviously not all are bad but that’s besides the point. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 08:25 PM |
| 15 | Notice how when a female celebrity cheat on her partner, all hell breaks loose, but if a male celebrity cheats, no one bats an EYE! It’s so normalized that you hardly hear about it..That’s a good point. The blame is always placed on the woman for not doing enough to prevent their partners from being a shit person. I hope things change in the future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 109 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.This is so great to see. They did NOT cave in to internalized misogyny that tells them to be quiet and not cause a scene. They pursued that guy’s ass ruthlessly and shamed him publicly... as they should | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 06:28 AM |
| 4 | Do you run into men demanding your attention and getting angry when you don't give it to them?Yeah this happened to me all the time whenever a guy texted me too often. They get super insecure and start getting attitude if I don’t respond fast enough. Then I just ghost and block them if they start disrespecting me bc I honestly don’t need to explain why they’re being creepy/demanding/clingy. It used to bother me but now it’s just mildly annoying since I’m encountering someone who thinks they deserve my time. Like the commenters have recommended, just block and move on at the first sign of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:41 AM |
| 5 | Ghosted after not putting out on a dateEw he sounds super desperate and a loser, frankly. It’s an immediate turn off for me whenever people I barely know ask me for favors (esp if they’re asking to shower at my place). Consider this a bullet dodged and a lesson learned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:36 AM |
| 5 | I am BOILING. Ad that came up on my fb feed. A five year old with eye bags that need correcting?? The grooming starts so young. Thankfully they got dragged in comments.Disgusting. We need to look out for young girls and women since these companies will do anything to make a buck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 11:39 PM |
| 14 | I ended my situation ship this morningAww I’m so happy and excited for your future! Congratulations!! 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:59 PM |
| 38 | Made me think of you ladies 💕Oof I haven’t heard of this before! Given the full quote, I agree 100%. I didn’t read it the same way in the shortened version but given more context, it seems like that was the way it was meant to be interpreted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:22 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inThey really do get triggered easily, don’t they? Really makes you wonder what they’ve done to women that makes them feel some type of way | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:32 AM |
| 12 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inEw, the audacity! Don’t be sad girl, he ain’t worth your feelings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:30 AM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat / Check-inSome scrote responded to a comment I made about how I’d rather continue living alone than split rent 50/50 with a partner. I said that it would seem like they would only be living with me because they can’t afford their own place. He said that I just shouldn’t date men then. Like is he saying that all men can’t afford their own place?? Lmfao they say #notallmen but they also say it is all men when it comes to LVM behaviour. They truly want women to settle for less | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 03:27 AM |
| 19 | A hard truth I've come to understand about 50/50:50/50’s are for housemates, not for partners. I’d rather pay 100% of my own rent than split and share my space with some manchild - who gets into situationships because he can’t afford his own place, no less. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Never settle for less. If he really loves you, he will go to the ends of the earth for you. Stop giving your energy to guys who are just going to leave you in read for two weeksThat is so freaking wholesome! Don’t let them tell you that HVM don’t exist, ladies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 05:53 PM |
| 80 | If being a straight heterosexual man means you're attracted to women then there are not that many straight heterosexual men out there. Most men ARE NOT attracted to women, they just like girls.I was thinking today that all the men who are watching 20-something pornstars now will continue to when they’re 60+, well into their senior years. Then I was deeply turned off from ever marrying and having children with one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 20 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.Ewwww bro that’s embarrassing, that’s next level scrote behaviour. I’m surprised he did it so shamelessly When I was 19, I had a couple dudes just look at my wallet and stand there when it was time to pay. I still remember sometimes and cringe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:11 PM |
| 29 | Pick me makes sure to give her credit card to her boyfriend so it can look like he payed. I hate this.Oh god, it’s like he’s asking for allowance from his mother. Thank the lord he’s outta your life now | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 07:06 PM |
| 8 | This man messaged me asking about FDS just to tell me how difficult it is for men to perform simple tasks such as housework..Right? It seems like he just wants someone to cheer him on for literally being an adult. Like ya good for you and all but what is your point?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How attractive or unattractive does everyone imagine the users of FDS are?Same here. The ugliest guy I was with was the most abusive. Ironically, the hottest guy (my current SO) is the kindest. Just my own experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 6 | For those who deleted dating apps, how did you get over the fear of missing out?Whenever I thought I was missing out, I just reminded myself of how I felt before I was on any dating apps. No weird messages late at night, last minute cancellations, boring convos, strange probing about my finances, or concerns about checking some dumb app. It was awesome. I’m in a relationship now that did result from OLD but this was after 2 years of LVM sifting on those awful apps. He was definitely an exception to the other men. I love him but I wish I had stayed away from OLD - they were … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:59 PM |
| 19 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Right?! It doesn’t matter if whoever is happy with being a band maid/splitting bills 50-50/a SAHM with no financial security like ok cool good for you but no one cares, there’s no need to try to come in this community and try to debate with people. Like live your life, why do you care what we do in here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 07:21 PM |
| 6 | Why can’t we talk about misogyny and the dangers of sex work regarding the Atlanta shootings?I agree. They’re not really in denial, they refuse to acknowledge it. Because then their porn will be taken away from them and they want to keep their power over women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 02:20 AM |
| 17 | A religious, Q-Anon following white man targeted and killed 8, most of whom were female Asian sex workers. The news is only focusing on the race aspect and not the gender or sex work aspect. Never doubt the danger men pose.I saw this on Instagram today since a lot of my friends posted about it. Turns out he has a thing for dominating Asian women, yet the media dubs it “sex addiction”. Nah, that’s misogyny and racism but too many porn-addicted scrotes would stir up a shitstorm if they called it that. Just because he wanted to fuck them, doesn’t mean he’s not racist. I’m so angry and disgusted that sexist pigs are debating if this was a hate crime or not. They know it was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 09:34 PM |
| 22 | Davina McCall everyone - Pickmeisha supremeRight? She’s incredibly ignorant. Just because you or your friends haven’t been abducted yet doesn’t mean it is “extremely rare”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:00 PM |
| 2 | SIGN UP BIG BALL BOY 🏀🏀 don’t be afraid ☺️ beauty is PAINRight?! And not to mention, those are notorious for causing pain during sex... these guys just don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:17 AM |
| 2 | SIGN UP BIG BALL BOY 🏀🏀 don’t be afraid ☺️ beauty is PAINMe too! So glad to see him on here, I was thinking that he was pretty cool for calling out shitty boyfriends that have double standards revolving surgery | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:03 AM |
| 46 | On why hot women end up with “finance bros”I’ve dated several when I was younger (management consultants, investment bankers, financial analysts) and I’ve learned to steer clear. Just because they’re workaholics and save their money, doesn’t mean they’re HVM or that they respect women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 02:35 PM |
| 11 | Male feminists in a nutshell.He’s like I’m sexually attracted to women, that proves that I’m not a creep or a misogynist 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 09:11 PM |
| 2 | Is it only fair to blame the sex works ?Right?! It is just absolute bullshit that these women are treated like the villains only because they’re getting some pay for it. If they really gave a shit, they would just stop watching porn LOL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 12:21 AM |
| 88 | Don’t provide him with the blueprint of your “dream man.” You’re giving someone the roadmap to hurt you or another unsuspecting woman. Notice how he instantly backpedaled trying to shape his answer to mirror what I might be looking for? Nope. Not telling you lol. Blocked.Me too. It screams entitlement to women’s time. It reminds me of incels being whiney whenever a woman says she’s not interested “she fucks other guys, why not me?? wah” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 08:14 PM |
| 73 | Support her against the sjws, scrotes. She’s a medical prof.I’m Malaysian (a citizen, not Malay) and didn’t even know that... I clearly need to do some of my own research because it really isn’t discussed. Those poor girls don’t have people looking out for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 08:27 AM |
| 4 | Cut my date short at the first sign of disrespectWhat the hell? I would never utter those words to anybody, even if I was arguing with them. You did the right thing, why waste a second more on a condescending insecure loser like that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 10 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Ewwww what a loser Imagine meeting a scrote with a boring face, a dead-end job, no personality and he’s insulting YOUR looks. Like these dudes are so desperate to get a girlfriend that they’re banking on women being deluded enough to believe that there aren’t decent men out there... get a life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 11:56 PM |
| 26 | What is something a man did that he thought was cute and romantic but was gross and insulting?I had a guy who offered to pick me up and drive me home. I had only met up with him once prior to this. I said I appreciated it but it was too out of his way for me to justify and thanked him. But he kept insisting. I just shot him down as politely as I could but I just wanted to say, “I don’t want you near my home and I don’t know you”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 10:34 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else find most men on OLD unattractive?Oh totally. I think I swiped right once for every 200 profiles or something. I’m so glad I don’t waste my time with those anymore (no judgement to you, it was just a time killer for me) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 06:29 PM |
| 31 | Posted in a female subreddit... most comments are empathizing with LVM and even excusing their behavior as “competitive”??💀What kind of asshole would do that? Let’s say that my friend was trying to learn how to code in a programming language that I’m already familiar with. If they’re proud of their achievement, why would I try to show them up with my projects? This is disgusting behaviour, we are meant to encourage our loved ones not put them down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 08:27 PM |
| 2 | Want your friend to finally figure out that her guy is an lvm? Send her a beautiful bouquet for Valentine's Day.Yup! I always compared how much friends treated me and talked to me, with my partners and it always keeps me grounded. I wake up to cute good morning texts from my friends with well wishes for my studies and exams all the time, they’re truly the best. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 01:02 PM |
| 48 | Shes so young but she already knows what’s up with men and their goofy priorities 😂Right?! That’s some next level LVM shit. Poor financial choices? No ty 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:14 AM |
| 13 | I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmaoLiterally. I’ve been with guys who earn 6 figures and they’re honestly nothing special, they just like talking about the stuff they buy and are more insistent on throwing their money around. One dude was just complaining/bragging to me how expensive his renovated home was. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 04:20 PM |
| 27 | Online DatingI think it’s common to meet and date people on dating apps. But I believe it’s more of a question of “do these women often find HVM boyfriends from OLD?”. Even though I’ve had some funny stories, friends, and a decent relationship come out of OLD, these are significantly outnumbered by the bad experiences. I’ve run into weird stalkers, awful dates with boring or weirdly invasive people, horny guys who pressured me into sex after telling them I didn’t feel like it, etc. OLD apps have wasted so mu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:30 PM |
| 33 | Single LVM expects to be married by doing the bare minimum. The audacity.Literally! He’s whining that women are not swooning and falling into his lap, but that’s the reality for a lot of average people. He’s upset that he has a job and that didn’t get him a wife, but he’d call her a gold digger if that happened. I cannot stand the entitlement these incel men have. “As a man that is employed, I deserve a woman!! Wah I’m lonely and lazy so someone pls read my fb post and hand me one”. Like they just feel that they’re owed a woman for simply existing. It explains all th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 07:01 PM |
| 19 | The importance of learning to think "not my problem" when a man tries to make you responsible for any of his issues or mess or dickI’ve been trying to remind myself to be more assertive telling men off when they try to put their problems on me. I recently had to deal with a situation where I had to tell a classmate to basically stop messaging me for help. Over the weekend he kept bugging me to check his assignment but I refused. And then during the next class, he kept messaging me to check his work while the prof was doing a tutorial. So I told him it was distracting and I was focusing on other work. He then tried to explai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/21 06:24 AM |
| 25 | When women hate men, we stay away from them, when men hate women, they go on incel killing spreesSo true. Also - when women are turning men down gently, we’re told that we’re not being assertive enough. When we’re making it very clear that we are not interested or will not entertain their advances, then we’re told that we’re being self-absorbed and too mean. It’s really common that men get snarky when women don’t give up their time to be with them. A lot of men don’t know how to handle rejection and get upset that someone else wouldn’t want to be with them. Sadly, women are attacked, harass… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:13 PM |
| 30 | Women exist only for male pleasure...🤢🤢Wow. Not only does he not know what a panty liner/pantiliner is but he actually thought that lines on someone else’s bottom was actually something he had a place to comment on. The ladies in the photo probably didn’t even think about their underwear lines. We’re told to not show bra straps, wear seamless underwear and keep our body hairless to not offend others. This seems like something that can be easily overlooked and yet men just can’t find anything else better to do with their time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 12:32 AM |
| 4 | The audacity is off the chartsAh I see, his kink is STD’s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 26 | Ladies! Cell Phone Tango PART TWO 😍I’m actually so obsessed with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:19 PM |
| 4 | Lvm readers will be so triggered lol but she's completely right and now I want one tooI use both because I enjoy being penetrated as well! Do whatever gets ya going, girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:29 PM |
| 5 | Lvm readers will be so triggered lol but she's completely right and now I want one tooWhen I got a new dildo, my bf wanted to watch me use it. I was hell no, this is for ME - not for you to enjoy 😤 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:28 PM |
| 6 | You ever feel disgusted at the absolute scum you allowed to touch your body?Oh yeah, I shudder every time I remember. A couple of my friends and I cackle every time his name comes up cause when they first met me they were like “how TF is this girl with HIM”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 06:20 PM |
| 5 | Guys saying they could beat you in a sport they've never played?Oh yeah this happens all the time. I rock climb and there was this guy that said he went once and it was “too easy”. I was like oh really? After questioning him, he revealed that he didn’t actually follow the colour convention. Meaning, he grabbed onto hand holds that were not included in the designated route (gyms have limited space, so oftentimes routes overlap) and completely destroyed the intention of the gym’s routesetters. I’ve also had a lot of OLD guys say “hey can you teach me how to ro… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:23 PM |
| 33 | Men say that we are the hysterical, needy ones...Omg don’t even get me started on the sex tourism... it’s so weird that men are going international to get laid because women in their area aren’t interested. When I was on OLD there were so many people in my city that had bio’s like “in ____ until 2/10”. Like why would I waste my time on some idiot who thinks bringing a girl back to his hotel is romantic? 🥴 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:05 PM |
| 16 | My truthful response to op. Now let’s watch it get downvoted by the rapists and pedophiles on Reddit giving him advice...I’m so glad that there’s women like you on Reddit giving actual advice and calling out porn addicts. Before FDS, I was called crazy and insecure... for not approving porn in my relationship. These guys will gaslight women and convince themselves that porn is actually “healthy” somehow and unfortunately a lot of women buy into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:42 PM |
| 12 | The line of “I’m allowed to be attracted to other people!” that lvm/nvm use to excuse shitty behavior while in a relationship.Exactly. It’s all just excuses - they know what they’re doing is wrong, so they cling to any dumb reason that other men bring up to justify cheating. If women fantasized and regularly masturbated to nudes of men with our standards, there would be an uproar. “Women have unrealistic standards!”, “These hoes ain’t loyal” or “She’s probably fucking other people already if she’s doing this”. And yet when men do it, we’re supposed to be understanding that they have urges that we don’t! Like sexualizin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 07:22 PM |
| 73 | CAn wE JUst DO SoMEthINg NiCE FOr MEn 🤪“Can we all agree-“ Nah ladies, we can’t. Why try to pretend you’re all amazing girlfriends by being so “selfless” and insisting you shouldn’t get a gift for VDay? It’s okay to give nice gifts to your partner if they’ve been good to you, but why don’t you think you deserve to get a gift as well? I feel like some women are just scared to be called gold diggers so they do stuff like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:30 PM |
| 6 | NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia.Yeah I know! I just mean I hope she changes her mind one day, to work in another field that also provides a means of living | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 03:28 PM |
| 15 | NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia.Same. It’s horrific, the kind of culture kids have to grow up with. I had issues with being exposed to porn in the third grade, I can’t imagine how difficult it must be for adults these days to educate their children properly | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 02:30 PM |
| 57 | Men and general cleanliness/groomingI’ve met men that justified never getting tested for STI/STD’s because the women they were sleeping with would keep up with it 😥 Like why??? I guess for the same reason they coerce women into not using protection? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 05:02 AM |
| 196 | NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia.The audacity she had to claim that she wasn’t dressing like a young girl like.... are you for real??? Didn’t u get fake braces n shit? Either way, I hope she moves onto a more fulfilling career in the future that also supports her financially. She could do so much more than this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:15 AM |
| 78 | NSFW TRIGGER WARNING: Belle Delphine posts pics of herself being kidnapped and raped in a babydoll dress and Lolita shoes and continues to pretend she doesn’t see the connection to pedophilia.I’ve been commenting about this topic in other subreddits. I’ll reiterate what I said in those: this is absolutely disgusting and her justification in her “I’m not sorry for what I did” tweet is so disappointing. The other commenters have mentioned but she claimed that she wasn’t dressing up like a young girl, just someone of a different decade or whatever. She also said it was consensual so it isn’t rape when people were upset that she didn’t put a trigger warning over the content. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:06 AM |
| 16 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?Literally! I feel like people consider celebrities as “fair game” when it comes to leaked nudes, porn, and bullying because it’s their fault for not doing more to prevent it. I’m not even surprised since a lot of people aren’t even sympathetic to abuse victims because they didn’t “do enough” to prevent the abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:34 PM |
| 8 | What’s the worst neg you got?“You have big tits for an Asian”. “Those pants aren’t doing any favours for your ass”. When I had just come off from work. I also get a lot of “You should try streaming” since I used to game. No thanks, not looking to get objectified and shitted on under the guise of “constructive criticism” and get told that I should’ve expected it if I’m a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:50 PM |
| 20 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?Naaaahh let’s NOT normalize men fantasizing about cannibalism and rape shall we? I am not here for it. There’s already too many people that say rape porn and teen fetishization is harmless since it’s all a “FaNTaSy”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:39 PM |
| 24 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?Right? They want to harass women over DM’s without being publicly shamed for it. You’re messaging strangers, they can do whatever they want with your messages. Maybe try not to be a perverted freak? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 11 | After reading Armie Hammer's DMs, I never want to date or live near a man ever again. Anyone else feel that way?Ugh not the stupid “consent” argument. There’s countless cases of physical/financial/emotional/verbal abuse, coercion and manipulation - just because their partner didn’t leave when it was happening, that doesn’t mean their behaviour was okay. There’s just people simping for him cause he’s good looking/relatively well known | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 05:26 PM |
| 10 | This was a reply to a woman asking for help bc her boyfriend ogles half naked Instagram photos of a woman in her friend group and even subscribed to her OF where she posts sex videosYeah, because the only way to support your friends is to pay them to take your clothes off? I’ll remember that the next time a guy offers me $$$ to send nudes - “he’s just supporting me! What’s the big deal??? We’re just good friends” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 11:22 PM |
| 3 | What's your level up goal this year? 😎 (It can be in any area of life!)Drink more water, cut out soda and sugary drinks Build a home workout routine (I usually rock climb but haven't been able to due to the lockdown) Learn how to pull espresso shots more consistently (got an espresso machine so I wouldn't buy coffee as often) Cook more often (Only got into cooking last year after ordering out regularly. Challenging myself to learn more recipes every week) Read more FDS-approved books Maintain/improve my 3.9 GPA Keep my school notes more organized throughout the yea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 05:51 PM |
| 7 | I am really grateful to have found this sub at 20 years old.I’m really happy for you girl! Congratulations on all that you have achieved in your education and personal development, you’re doing amazing. I found this sub when I was 22 but wish FDS was around when I was younger. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:27 PM |
| 7 | In this society, we are all pickmes by default, we have to unlearn it, and this work is hard. FDS is life outside the caveYup. Every one of my girlfriends has said they don’t like porn but they endure it in their relationships. A lot of them also put up with low effort men who don’t plan dates or cook food and game all day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:22 PM |
| 7 | Is this really how little society/men value women ? Yes.This is absolutely vile. In what world is this acceptable? There are so many disgusting, abusive lowlives out there | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:19 PM |
| 60 | I just thought this was really sweet and refreshing.This is super cute and honestly warms my heart. And they say romance is dead. Don’t let men tell you that there are no HVM out there! They just want you to believe it so you settle for their version of love - which is just them jackhammering and objectifying you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 12:16 PM |
| 3 | Asking for advice on Reddit hurts and confuses womenI’m so sorry that happened to you and I’m honestly really happy for you now that you have your life to live without a manipulator. You must feel so relieved to not have to deal with that ass now. I wholeheartedly agree. I would not recommend my girlfriends or any woman to post on that relationship advice subreddit because I honestly just believe that most men on Reddit are biased. It’s unfortunate and really sad but I don’t think the women who post there have a lot of close friends to ask. Or pe… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:13 AM |
| 18 | She's strong on her boundaries, but asking reddit for advice is asking for pornsick losers to chastise her for having themShe knows what she has to do. She’s just annoyed that he wasted her time. He doesn’t respect her or women, and neither do a lot of the people on Reddit (literally a porn site). Men will defend their porn to no end because they feel entitled to women’s bodies | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:02 AM |
| 13 | Man argues with me over if PA is real or not. Newbie sorry if this is a stupid post. It just infuriates me to my core. The ignorance.He’s basically just saying “porn addiction isn’t a problem if you change your mindset about it”. Like ya no shit, if you’re letting yourself get gaslight about it you won’t think porn is harmful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:24 PM |
| 25 | 27 yr old manchild throws tantrum because girlfriend says no to sex while on her periodYeah it’s honestly messed up. It makes me sad to think that some of these women don’t have people to turn to irl when they’re in these types of relationships. These posts are asking for validation because they’re unsure if they’re being unreasonable when it should be obvious (in a lot of these cases) they’re not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:07 PM |
| 104 | 27 yr old manchild throws tantrum because girlfriend says no to sex while on her periodI was bracing myself to see the same thing too. There were some of those (“you’re not listening to his needs”) that were downvoted and then there were a couple that said “break up if you’re not compatible”. And while I generally agree with that sentiment, I feel that in this case it has painfully understated the boyfriend’s behaviour. A large majority of the comments said to break up and called him a whiny loser, thank god | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 05:00 PM |
| 33 | 27 yr old manchild throws tantrum because girlfriend says no to sex while on her periodRight? Like why wait until the problem gets worse and in this case, until he r*pes her?! She’s not doing anything wrong in this situation (aside from putting up with him) and it’s not cruel to break up with people over their shitty behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:55 PM |
| 178 | 27 yr old manchild throws tantrum because girlfriend says no to sex while on her periodIt’s incredibly upsetting that this is a reality for her. She’s not a freaking pocket pussy that’s just ready to go at a moment’s notice. I really hope she gets a wake up call from the thread and blocks his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 0 | I love thisShe is an absolute treasure and needs to be protected at all costs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 04:34 PM |
| 22 | What's up with guys bragging they can go for multiple rounds? And wanting women to moan?Yeah I’ve generally found that anyone who brags about stuff, never really lives up to their claims. Also, you had me rolling at that last sentence 😂 (because it’s literally true!) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 09:07 AM |
| 51 | Dating, basicallyIs that Saoirse Ronan? I love her work! Love that they’re calling out how dangerous dating is for women on a mainstream show. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 01:05 AM |
| 48 | Wannabe rapper gets caught cheating on his pregnant gf...he publicly apologized months ago. Today, he's had a change of heart and realized that he was single before he cheated 🥴 also has some words of wisdom about mother's.I don’t even know girl. The mental gymnastics dudes perform to justify their cheating amazes me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:32 PM |
| 43 | Faithful men who flash their wedding rings to warn you off after you ask for helpI have a similar experience. I was travelling alone and sat in my seat on the plane and this middle aged man next to me started to visibly flash his wedding ring and played around with it. I was like oh ok good for u but I’m 19 and tired af (I don’t sleep well when I travel) Idk men are weird. Some of them don’t realize that women aren’t always just scanning for a partner | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:39 AM |
| 11 | Ladies, how much do men you date tend to spend on you, per month, during the early phase?Oh, just another man whining that he can’t afford to date 🙄just don’t then??? No one is forcing you to pay up lol. And what does her salary matter anyway??? He’s just cheap, PERIOD If he’s complaining about this after a single month of dating, just wait till he realizes he has to spend more money on anniversary, birthday, and Christmas gifts AND dinner. Nobody said relationships were cheap honey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 02:02 AM |
| 11 | The lows you stoop to to get picked.Omg LOOL some pickme’s really are out here trying to earn some imaginary award for being the “best girlfriend” tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/01/21 01:28 AM |
| 1 | AMA from a victim of GirlsDoPorn (was 18 at the time and forced to film porn)I hope this serves as a wake up call for the male/female lurkers here who watch porn. Please realize that this is only one case out of countless instances of rape and abuse in porn. Despite the internet’s insistence that porn “doesn’t hurt anybody”, that is very clearly, not the truth. I suggest you to do your own research and look into the industry for yourselves to see what you’re truly supporting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:55 PM |
| 3 | I can’t believe how the comments are encouraging this guy to ask for “consent”, he attempted to rape his GF when she was asleepNah. Let’s NOT normalize “innocently” raping women in their sleep, shall we? I’ve been raped in my sleep several times when I was younger and went along with it - it is not a kink, it is not something to work on in a relationship, it is RAPE. It is not a coincidence that I have problems sleeping in the same bed with my partner now. If you have raped somebody, you should be in jail not in an advice subreddit ya dink | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:53 AM |
| 1 | FDS TV Rec: Delhi CrimeThank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:46 AM |
| 3 | “You have to have a house and a job to have a relationship? I’m the stay-at-home dad type though.” This one made me holler 😂😂😂“I’m a stay at home dad” WHAT home?? The ones you squat at? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:36 AM |
| 6 | Being hard to get is a way of life, not a manipulation tacticI think men mistake our standards as a means to bag a rich pushover who bends over backwards for women. I can’t speak for everyone here but I feel like a lot of us don’t even really care about an imaginary dude who fits specific standards. We have so much (and if not, it’s the FDS goal) investment in ourselves and self-love that we don’t require a partner in order to live a happy and successful life. No shit, it’d be hard to weasel into a HVW’s life. They already have everything they want | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:29 AM |
| 1 | Don’t fall for the halo effect, girls! Looking at his face you may think Henry Cavill is the perfect man but unfortunately he has a cognitive dysfunction that makes him confuse rape with flirt! In conclusion, a rotten apple might still have shiny skin.Disgusting. Glad I came across this post. He’s an unimpressionable actor anyway imo but that’s another name that’s going on the burn book 📖 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:18 AM |
| 14 | Movie rec: “Spinster” on Amazon primeThanks! I’ll definitely check it out - I’ve recently been in a dry spell with finding movies that align with my values | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 07:02 AM |
| 19 | Heartbreaking...She nailed it. Porn is normalized abuse in the name of men’s pleasure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 06:59 AM |
| 6 | An oldie but a goodie. 31 year old man tries hit on a group of teenagers. Gets called a predator and argues with them instead of just leaving. Proceeds to get bullied by same group of teenagers 😂YESSSS I love stories of girls protecting their friends from fucking weirdos and creeps - I hate that we have to but men canNOT be trusted. The entitlement from this pedophile is showing 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 12:36 PM |
| 27 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingI despise people who shame others for not “having a sense of humour” when they don’t wanna feel bad about bullying somebody. To me, it’s only okay to tease someone you’re close to and only if you know that they are okay with it. If they say they’re offended, STOP. Don’t try to gaslight them by saying “I didn’t MEAN to hurt you” 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:27 AM |
| 3 | NVM ex wanted me to choose between him and career in 2018. I chose career. Ending 2020 with 168k, halfway through my master's in CS, and just signed an offer letter with 400k of tech stocks vesting through 2025. NEVER sacrifice your career or education for ANYONE. (PS: He's still unemployed.)What kind of a dipshit forces their partner to choose between them or their career? I will never understand people. Congratulations on all your success, it’s well deserved and here’s to more profit and happiness in your future! I’m studying right now to be a software engineer so I hope to be in a similar position later on in my career ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:27 AM |
| 25 | I'm sick of askingNah that’s not bitching. Don’t let men guilt you for having standards. My friend said she had the same experience and what she did was she just stopped planning their dates. So if he didn’t plan dates then they wouldn’t hang out at all. Now he plans all their dates. Oh just you know, dump the LVM cause he can’t be bothered to put the effort in that you do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 06:35 PM |
| 15 | Sex Pozzy Columnist Nadia Bokody defends PornHub and says that our conflicting feelings on porn are because we’ve been “taught women couldn’t be powerful & sexual”(link in pic#5). I took screenshots of all the “EmPoWeRmEnt” from the hottest US videos on PornHub.Mm yeah cause taking a big fat load of cum in my face is “powerful and sexual” eh? And getting choked and having incels fap to my body? That’s fEmiNisM!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 08:07 PM |
| 107 | TDLR Scrotes is finally dumped but clueless why gf no longer wants to play mommy.Wah why isn’t she comforting ME when she is trying to break up with me?? I want more gaems n food | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 07:15 PM |
| 18 | This is so fucking embarrassing watching things like this makes me want to off myselfMmmmm okay so her bf needs a cheerleader every time he does something. And apparently women are the ones looking for validation?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 06:04 PM |
| 10 | 😂😂Guess I’m just pretending to enjoy sex with my bf bc I’m a gold digger!! Hehe 🤪 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:59 PM |
| 17 | 😂😂I’m not surprised he thinks all women aren’t interested in sex, because he can’t find one that does want to have sex with him. He’s just salty that everyone says women like tall guys and he’s not drowning in pussy. I mean just take a look at this post - he’s a confused misogynist that settles at huge generalizations to explain for his lack of sexual appeal, which is not very hot. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?I’d agree that porn is an extreme version of sex, but not exactly. Obviously it’s exaggerated and I believe it’s more visual than actually having sex. Sex is enjoyable but I’m not sure I personally think it’s that sex is addictive > porn is addictive. With porn addicts in relationships (the ones I’ve heard about at least), they’re not also addicted to sex. Sometimes they don’t have sex all that often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 04:58 PM |
| 5 | The women on this sub don’t accurately represent the women in the real world and definitely not the women the men here want to dateWell do you talk to women irl about stuff discussed in this sub? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 06:35 AM |
| 2 | The projection is palpable; I've spent quarantine fixing my skin, working out, and taking college courses. Ya'll?Lmfao I canNOT! I’m 23 now and I can’t wait till I’m 30 when I’ve saved up enough to buy my first home and have gained more experience in my field. I’m not trying to get “accomplishments” in my relationships, I’m trying to look out for my future. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 05:23 AM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Oh sorry I think I read the comment’s last section incorrectly - I realize now that they were probably saying if women consented to doing porn and regretted it later it’s not the porn industry’s fault. I would have responded with something different otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 05:17 AM |
| 229 | Don’t give men your time when they have nothing to offerExactly. When I hang out with my friends or my partner, I try to bring value to their lives - not see what I can take from them. And my loved ones help me in my life in more ways that they know. Why would I bring in someone new that wouldn’t want to add value to my life, when I would do that for them? But also yeah, when people act entitled to your time that’s pretty telling if they want to take something from you or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:58 AM |
| 3 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?That’s fair. This is my opinion - if you have a friendship with a girl and you resent them for dating someone that isn’t you, that isn’t a healthy friendship. You can’t convince your friend to date you and if you can’t get over your feelings, that’s not fair to your friend or you. I’m basically saying that it may seem more of a relationship prospect that it actually may be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 04:50 AM |
| 319 | Don’t give men your time when they have nothing to offerHoly shit, she is RADIATING bad bitch energy 👑 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 04:21 AM |
| 1 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?How is it somebody’s fault if they were recorded unknowingly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 3 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?Yeah just because you criticize the porn industry doesn’t mean you hate people having sex lol. It means you’re calling attention to the safety of people in the industry and what effect it has on society as a whole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 5 | Does porn affect the modern world dynamics between men and women and destroys the sexual development of kids and teens?That’s what I believe too. I think porn is just addictive, it’s not that it is a problem BECAUSE people are lonely or that they’re unhappy in their relationships - people just gravitate towards it and keep going back to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/20 12:08 AM |
| 7 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?I mean I have a lot of friends who talk to me whenever they get in a fight with their partners. I’m not in the relationship so I know that I don’t know the whole story. I can only give advice from what information they gave from their perspective. But I can see how someone could be salty if they had a crush on their friend. In that case, they should just cut them off as a friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What’s your side of the story with the “women love assholes” thing?So this is my take. My “nice guy” friend said that my sister and I both are examples of how women choose assholes over nice guys. But obviously, he only has the story from one perspective - if he talked to my ex or my sister’s ex then they would paint us in a bad light. Women often vent to their friends over grievances in their relationship (however little they may be), and it’s biased. I believe that oftentimes, both parties are “assholes” and have said things that probably shouldn’t have been … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/20 05:22 PM |
| 3 | A realization hit me today, and I'm actually very much disgusted at myself.I appreciate your kind response 💖It means a lot. It was actually a humiliating experience. I keep trying to find the right time to do it but for 99% of them we don’t even interact at all so what even is the point? I’m pretty sure I want to be respected by them and want them to know how much better my life is than theirs (lol) but what would that even look like? A like on a photo? I know I’d be happier if I didn’t have to read their names anymore online - I want to be over it and move on but obvi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 28 | How dare a mother try to protect her daughter! Read the comments for some more 🤮I don’t understand why she’s so offended like she could’ve just not invited her boyfriend if she was babysitting. But instead she threw a tantrum and demanded things to go her way She’s right, she doesn’t have to babysit her niece and that’s probably better because she likely would’ve left the child alone with her boyfriend. What an awful sister for prioritizing her boyfriend’s pride over the concerns of her sister-in-law. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:46 AM |
| 5 | A realization hit me today, and I'm actually very much disgusted at myself.I really relate to this. The feelings never really resolved with me, because I always say to myself, “well, it’s not like I was bullied”. But I was teased a lot so subtly I didn’t feel like I could say anything and not have someone say I was overreacting. People talked about me in private conversations, making up that I had sex with my boyfriend (when I was 14 at the time), commenting on how our first date was trash, and that I wore push up bras (it’s not my fault my boobs came in). I’m 23 now a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 04:01 AM |
| 4 | Imagine if he'd spent all that time and energy on any other hobby or even cultivating relationships with other humans... what a wasteWhat a loser | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 7 | B-but, Sex Work Is Empowering! [Journalist doxxes nurse trying to make ends meet with an OnlyFans]What the fuck?! I really don’t understand what his motive was... why would he go out of his way to get her fired from a job she earned and was qualified for? Clearly she’s just trying to support herself financially. I feel awful for her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:14 PM |
| 3 | So glad I found this subreddit. Fuck everything.Apparently we’re all just being insecure to not accept everything men do 🤪🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:03 PM |
| 6 | So glad I found this subreddit. Fuck everything.I made a similar post a few years ago about my ex. He used to follow my high school friends that he’s never talked to because he thought they were pretty... along with a bunch of lewd IG accounts. And unsurprisingly, received the same feedback. On the note of porn: I’ve just come to the conclusion that Reddit’s just full of toxic, selfish people who will vehemently defend exploitation even when it directly harms others. They like seeing it and they’re sick in the heads. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 09:24 AM |
| 47 | I’m really enjoying looking at some men’s reactions to this Pornhub situationWah, my porn isn’t authentically rape anymore! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 07:30 AM |
| 25 | Ain’t that the truth 💅🏻That’s some queen shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:53 AM |
| 110 | Coomer logic: "You can't jerk off to MY loved ones abuse but I should be allowed to jerk off to yours! 😡".Your title nailed it. He gets off to watching women get treated like sub humans, but he doesn’t like people calling him out for supporting a rape-ridden industry. He obviously doesn’t want his daughter to go into porn because he knows it’s demeaning and literally abusive | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 11:52 PM |
| 50 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”Yeah I scoffed when I read that lol. I agree that the wording reveals what his ex meant to him (female attention) and clearly he really doesn’t realize that he’s the one being shallow and inconsiderate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 10:42 PM |
| 89 | “Why aren’t my OLD matches comforting me over my ex’s death??”I am empathetic towards him - I can’t imagine losing someone that close, so suddenly. But he needs to get a certified therapist, not a placeholder for what his ex used to be. Hope he listens to most of the comments, which were saying just that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Promising Young Woman coming out this Christmas. The movie's about a woman's revenge on rapists and a reckoning of the social structures that perpetuate rape culture .Can’t wait to see it! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 10:23 PM |
| 35 | i could throw up. they really don’t care about us.This is sadly the reality of it all. I will never forget seeing a post that highlighted the increase in porn searches for an actress that was gang raped and murdered. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:02 PM |
| 7 | Canadian MP's motion that Pornhub executives be called to testifyYeeees I’ve BEEN waiting for change - and it’s not much but it’s something. Never forget that porn is misogyny and has been tolerated for so long because women have been gaslighted/shamed into accepting it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 09:59 AM |
| 4 | Mastercard severs ties with Pornhub and Visa suspends payment processingI really hope to see more change in society’s bias towards porn over the upcoming years. People are so defensive about it, saying it’s not “sex-positive” if you criticize it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 08:15 AM |
| 2 | Most straight males see bi women as harem generatorsYuuup. Never tell a straight man you’re bi - they’ll take this as an open invitation to vocalize their desires for a threesome or that your sexual orientation is hot to them... I know because I stopped talking about my bisexuality due to this. Bisexuality isn’t considered valid by lot of people and they may not even realize it. A bi guy I used to see told me that his female ex asked him “are you just gonna wake up one morning and leave me for another guy?”. Like is that somehow worse than him le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 10:43 PM |
| 7 | My good guy friend of many years confessed feelings for me, then I learned he is still chasing after his ex. When I asked why he would compromise our friendship if he still is obsessed with his ex and commented he has been acting unhappy lately...this was his response. Blocked/deleted.Right?! I read that and was like how is this not a joke. That’s so sad, he can’t even comprehend living through winter without a companion??? And to use a good friend as that placeholder? At least he showed how LV he is to OP. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 09:19 PM |
| 4 | A lot of TV completely unwatchable after FDSYup! I was never a big fan of tv shows to be honest but I found myself to be even less interested in them after joining FDS. There’s a lot of great content creators on YouTube though, I’ve been discovering a lot of feminist and LGBTQ friendly ones this year. I’ve also been watching interviews of female actresses talking about their movies depicting historical roles, in order to build my movie watchlist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 01:25 AM |
| 62 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5LOL at least there’s some hope - I’ve had too little faith in r/AmITheAsshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 09:10 PM |
| 5 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.Omg girl that last one KILLED me (especially because I’ve actually seen that used as a point against snooping). The reality of it is that not everyone is honest in a relationship and when someone has not been truthful or faithful, their partner must do what they have to do in order to confirm this and then decide for themselves if they’re okay with it. And somehow it’s even controversial for partners to leave relationships when they’ve been lied to (“wow, imagine throwing a 10-year marriage down… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:18 PM |
| 218 | El cheapo LVM hand-makes crappy cheap gifts for partner but expects a PS5Watch men still try to call her out for not “appreciating his efforts” and “setting her expectations too high”. Or if they dare, “did you communicate this with him??” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 10 | A piece of my soul died knowing she hasn't even considered leaving this shitbag.It’s likely just because of the porn the husband watches. We all know what kind of “plot lines” they come up with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 16 | Big sighLOOL preach girl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 05:37 PM |
| 232 | Always trust your gut instinct. It's not snooping, it's basically confirming your suspicions. Once again proved men ain't shit. A HVM will give you no reason to snoop. You'll always feel safe and secure.They demonize women for snooping because they don’t want to get caught. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 02:24 PM |
| 6 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?I told this guy I got into a relationship so I would obviously stop hooking up with him. He said, “was it the sex?” and I was just so dumbfounded I didn’t even respond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:16 AM |
| 31 | "MGTOW: “There are no real differences between a 16-year-old girl and a 30-year-old woman"...And they continue to say we're just like these pedos/predators.Lol I have no problem with these pedophiles thinking I’m a 30 year old cat lady - I love cats and hope to get some when I’m older. It’s incredible how these predators will use any excuse or pseudoscience they can come up with to continue abusing, controlling, and taking advantage of women. They’re so blatant about it too because our society has a lot of men that are pornsick/are closeted pedophiles that don’t see an issue with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:12 AM |
| 15 | “YouTuber kills pregnant girlfriend on live-stream as viewers pay him to abuse her.” - Summary in comments.What the FUCK?! I remember a professional League player beat up his girlfriend on stream when he was having a bad game. And another case where a streamer accidentally went live when his girlfriend had given him a BJ and rode him. And now this. It just seems to be getting worse as more and more streamers are appearing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 6 | Just a reminder that some men never changeI have no issue with people living modestly/frugal but this is 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 06:58 PM |
| 3 | It’s a pandemic of LVM men everywhere!! Another story of an LVM man taking a woman out on a date. PandemicRight?! He’s clearly upset by this, but was also upset that she asked if he wanted her to split? What does he want - like she’s not a freaking mind reader 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 11:12 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP and FDS preselect for women and men who are fundamentally not healthy for a LTREh I get what you mean but I have a lot of friends and family in my life and I’m sure a lot of them are in it for the long haul. I was happy when I was single and I don’t think it’s as miserable as it sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/20 10:13 AM |
| 3 | My ex asked me for a divorce for bullshit reasons that prove exactly how low value his priorities are. I filed the petition, and now he's not sure he wants it, when faced with being alone and losing my assets + income. My response included, and his first "breakup" text.What a clown. Thank god you dodged a bullet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 12:14 AM |
| 10 | “Size doesn’t matter” only because the female orgasm doesn’t matterI’ve only cummed a few times in my entire life with one specific partner, who had a gigantic penis. Obviously size matters to some women and I happen to be one of them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:15 PM |
| 6 | This is why you don't discuss any sexual trauma or just anything from your past with males. His GF was abused by 10 guys and he has the audacity to refer to her as "promiscuous" due to that.Literally this. Men are great at pretending to be allies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:09 PM |
| 3 | This is why you don't discuss any sexual trauma or just anything from your past with males. His GF was abused by 10 guys and he has the audacity to refer to her as "promiscuous" due to that.Ugh. He doesn’t even realize that he’s just upset and whiny that his girlfriend isn’t giving into him pressuring her to have sex (just like all the other abusers!!!). It’s incredible how people justify their own shitty behaviour in their heads | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 08:07 PM |
| 6 | How would you like women and/or men to interact with you?I would like to not be catcalled, leered at or touched (not sexually to be clear) by strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/20 07:02 AM |
| 4 | How to leave when you don't have a "good" reason?Don’t let society tell you that you have to stay with your boyfriend if you’re unhappy. Just because he hasn’t physically cheated, murdered, or isn’t abusive doesn’t mean he’s the right guy for you. I broke up with my first boyfriend of four months because I realized I didn’t like him anymore romantically. Simple as that. Edit: I want to add that you not being happy is a perfectly acceptable reason to break up with him. Rational people will not judge others for ending a relationship. Try not to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Do most women these days want to get married?(23F) Not really. Not against getting married but I’m more focused on working on myself for a long time. If I happen to meet someone and we get to a point where we want to purchase a home together/have children, then I can see the possibility of marriage but that’s not anywhere in the near future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/11/20 11:40 PM |
| 34 | This poor girl.https://imgur.com/a/20FTWUT This was posted as a comment on that thread. Yeah, “porn isn’t demeaning to women!! It’s normal and it doesn’t hurt anyone!” but also “porn girls are disposable!! -insert weird LoGicAL analogy-“. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Post all the high-value stuff you have ever experienced from any manMy father drives me home (1 hour round trip) every time I visit my parents’. Not only that but he has always been the one to cook dinner, drive my mom to wherever she wants to go over the weekend, drives to my apartment to tutor me with my classes (he was originally going to be a uni prof), supported my siblings, his housewife and I financially (until we got our own jobs), and helped me rebuild my life when I had crippling anxiety. He’s my idol and I owe everything in my life to his efforts and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 05:18 AM |
| 11 | One of the comments on this post said “porn is ruining sex” and I couldn’t agree moreYup. I’ve been slapped hard across my face during sex and had my hair pulled without being asked. The guy who slapped me did it every time I answered his questions in a way he didn’t like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:00 AM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered November 9 2020While I was walking home from class, I quickly glanced at an older man across the street and felt kind of bad for him because he looked like he was having a lot of trouble just walking with his cane. Then a few seconds later, he shouted “you’re sexy!”. I wanted to just flip him off but didn’t want to interact with him. I’m annoyed because regardless of my choice to wear jackets and long pants on warm days, nothing will prevent unwanted harassment. Another time in a subway station, I was wearing … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?Ah I dropped off the scene before HoTS so it seems I’ve missed out on quite a bit. That’s super awesome to know though! I might try to catch up with the comps on YT if that’s the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/20 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?It’s a very well-made game! Unfortunately the community and competitive scene is pretty dead now so I honestly feel like the prime time to get into it has passed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 11:32 PM |
| 7 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?I used to play Starcraft 2, speed run Portal 2 and now CS GO is the main game. My friends don’t care too much about it, we have other hobbies we do together and interests to talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/20 08:17 PM |
| 5 | A very sweet gesture I found on Reddit! This may not mean he is a HVM, but I do think a gesture like this is so kind and gives me hope that some guys do things like this! Let’s hope he’s HVM all aroundYeah idk if he is but I hope so. I set multiple alarms for the morning because I have a habit of going back to sleep after turning the first one off (not snooze, tired me just turns it off). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 01:15 AM |
| 33 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .Yay for awesome dads! Mine told me most men suck lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:31 AM |
| 28 | r/sex told an ABUSE SURVIVOR not to be scared of someone who wants to STRANGLE and HIT her 🤡🤡🤡I hope the poor girl escapes from that relationship. I’m sure if she wants, she can find someone else that doesn’t want to hit, choke and degrade her during sex. She said herself that she feels unsafe - why is no one looking out for HER? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 04:14 AM |
| 19 | r/sex told an ABUSE SURVIVOR not to be scared of someone who wants to STRANGLE and HIT her 🤡🤡🤡Ugh. Just because OP’s partner is a “nice, normal, lovely” person, she should change her viewpoint to something more common??? I canNOT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:42 AM |
| 35 | r/sex told an ABUSE SURVIVOR not to be scared of someone who wants to STRANGLE and HIT her 🤡🤡🤡I am so sick of people using “it’s normal” to justify shitty behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 03:37 AM |
| 29 | Has anyone noticed a gradual shift in the way people are discussing pornography?I was commenting on that very thread this morning! Obviously there were some sensitive, butthurt men who got salty that others were defending the gf, but I was also very happy to see comments that didn’t just say “she’s crazy, leave her!” but “leave her if you can’t make her happy”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 21 | Imagine not replying for two hours because you’re studying and you come back to this...What the fuck? He needed to stop. If he actually gave a damn about how uncomfortable she was, he would prioritize that over how badly he wanted to “have” her. Dating is horrifying guys - why bother making yourself text people who don’t know how to socialize, when you could enjoy your own company? Or talk to your friends? Your parents? I’d honestly rather do errands than go back to dating apps | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/10/20 03:20 PM |
| 3 | Men using women on Tinder for emotional therapy. Comments are from another man doing the same thing. Women are not service animals, go and seek help!What did he expect her to do?! Go like, “omg poor guy let me fix him!” She did the right thing. She is not qualified to help a suicidal person get over their problems, and even if she was, WHY TF WOULD SHE BE COUNSELLING PPL ON TINDER FOR FREE?? I am empathetic towards people with mental illness but just because you’re suicidal or depressed doesn’t mean everyone is obligated to talk to you about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/20 09:02 PM |
| 6 | FDS Subreddit User Overlap. A bunch of 30+, post-wall, Black, and INFERTILE women claiming to be HVW and seriously delusional enough to think that Chris Evans-tier billionaires are lining up for their hand in marriage 🤔I’m honestly just so stunned at the not-so-subtle racism... what is wrong with you? Is this a troll? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/20 04:10 PM |
| 7 | This was, by far, my favorite article of the year and really helped me see my value when I needed it the most. If you haven't seen the movie Little Women (2020) yet please watch it first as this contains spoilers but it's such an empowering read 💙 Really makes you think!I loved Little Women as well! I watched because Saoirse was in it, didn’t know much about the novels but was very pleasantly surprised. Asked my partner to watch it but he said it just seemed really chick flicky 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:32 PM |
| 6 | Men want casual sex/relationships, till the woman wants that too. Then suddenly they aren’t so cool with it.I remember one time I hooked up with this guy, him being aware that I was sleeping with other people at the time. We were talking about potentially being friends with benefits and he was trying to convince me to stop sleeping with other people because he thought it was unhealthy and risky. I told him that he was being hypocritical because he just had casual sex with me, and he said it was different. I honestly don’t understand what was going on in his head - he wanted a monogamous fuck buddy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Let’s unpack, shall we?Ew this guy sounds like the biggest loser He prob got rejected and is butthurt because the girl has baddie energy and doesn’t gaf about him. Shooting down people who you aren’t interested in (romantic interest or otherwise) is not rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:11 PM |
| 15 | Can we talk about OLD fatigue? I feel like this is a job interview lolIt’s super weird how common this is. I remember being hounded over text by this guy who was my age. “Do you live alone? An apartment or in a house with housemates? Why did you switch programs? Why did your last relationship end?”. And followed it with a “what’s your ethnicity?”. Meanwhile he was finished school, still lived at home and worked a minimum wage job while his mom was still cooking his meals. Idk if he just was looking for a place to live or if he was actually interested in me lol. I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 08:47 PM |
| 4 | TW: incest/child abuse FaNtAsY. Pedos are everywhere. I’ve only been on reddit for like 5 minutes this morning and this is already the third thing I’ve seen about a pedo being open about their depravity. I’m sick of it. Can I just have off this planet already, please?Oh GOD. I don’t want to live in this world anymore | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Let’s Discuss PERSONAL Requirements, Red Flags and Dealbreakers! 😍🤡I think your list is identical to mine! Except for the house thing because most people my age can’t afford a house in my city. I think the taking pride in appearance thing makes so much sense - I don’t want somebody who has awful self esteem because then they’ll look for validation in other people as soon as they get the attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:13 PM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Yikes. I would never get in a first date’s car or motorcycle - you don’t know them! What if he’s a murderer, rapist, creep, a bad driver, or just plain freaking annoying? Pray for your friend lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:37 PM |
| 10 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020Thanks girl, I really needed to hear that. And you’re spot on - a part of me definitely does want to get back together but in all honestly, things about our relationship bothered me. I think I was focusing a lot on what we had that I’m losing but honestly I still have a lot of amazing people in my life and great things going for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: September 29 2020So I broke up with my boyfriend over text/call since he wasn’t willing to give up porn - immediately regretted it and asked if I could come over so we could talk about it in person. We talked, gave back our stuff, and I cried a lot, he just said that it seems like I’m not happy with parts of him and he’s scared of how comfortable our relationship is. Not surprised that he also thinks being together isn’t a good idea since we’re incompatible in that aspect. We’ve never fought over the porn thing,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 02:34 PM |
| 22 | This guy was on a dating advice sub asking why he only matches with overweight women, and that he’s not particularly attracted to ‘large’ women. THE AUDACITY!! 😂😂Oh dear, the shape of his head is just SO unfortunate Out of curiosity, what did the commenters tell him? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 08:00 PM |
| 21 | Saw this on IG, thought it belonged hereI feel exactly the same way, thank you for putting it into words. I exclusively only follow ~3 subs now after quitting reddit for years when I realized it was too much for me mentally. There’s just so much hate in people and it really brings me down. But seeing posts on FDS and IG like this also makes me very hopeful | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 07:58 PM |
| 10 | Never underestimate someone’s ability to hurt you.This. I dated a guy who had never had a gf before and never had sex, another one was in a 6 year relationship and it honestly doesn’t matter how sweet they seem - you can and likely will get hurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:01 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Have you ever actually been asked your N-count, and if so, was the relationship worth it?I almost have never been asked. The people who have asked me, I didn’t end up being in a relationship with but I also do not jump into relationships ‘often’. It doesn’t matter to me if my partner has a high number, even if he’s slept with two people he’s still prone to STD’s if he’s not wrapping it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 07:28 PM |
| 22 | Flew across the country for a guy, heard him matching with girls on Tinder in the middle of the night.What an inconsiderate douchebag. If he wanted to pay, he would’ve. Cut your losses and drop his ass, you’re being way too nice to a guy who doesn’t deserve it - please take better care of yourself babe. Welcome to FDS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:13 PM |
| 7 | All the indicators...Ew. That makes sense, no commitment to a meal and keep her expectations low for a LVM lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Woman posted about liking guys for their personality amongst other non materialistic attributes- Men found that enraging and obscene tooEw I just read the thread. I too, have also dated men who I didn’t find physically attractive. God forbid personality actually matters to women! Realizing that would probably crush their world, figuring out that they can’t actually blame their lack of sex on random odds alone! Whatever, we can have as many points and examples to prove that looks aren’t EVERYTHING and they’d just call us liars so just let them think they’re ugly fucks with no value. I don’t have anything to prove to men with crip… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 07:03 PM |
| 2 | When dating women, it’s all about how a man makes her feel in his presence- looks matter, but they aren’t a woman’s top priority!Just because a girl’s not interested in you, doesn’t mean they don’t have human decency. I have a lot of friends who are happily in relationships with shorter men. Don’t get so down on one part of yourself that you think is a disadvantage (generally, height matters but not as much as you think). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/09/20 06:51 PM |
| 28 | All the indicators...This guy is hella confusing. “I want to do an activity outside. But not eating” and then says in the last screenshot “and then eat somewhere afterwards”. The fuck??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:16 PM |
| 7 | This is by far the most repulsive LV behavior a man can have.. wanting a woman to woo him. 🤮 That’s so effeminate. Hobbies include video games and makes 50k a year. Any takers? Nah passLiterally. He’s clearly humble bragging lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Dude I made mistakes with decided to get in touch after 8 YEARS! This was his big move 🤣 I'm so glad I'm not the girl I once was and I'm putting this FDS wisdom to work!LMFAO nice one | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 04:26 AM |
| 21 | Dumbass me in 2016 thought I’d give HS classmate a chance after receiving texts for 4 years (2016 txt was in MMS)This is the story: meet guy from year above in common elective he starts talking to me in class and we progress to playing games online. At this point everything is very platonic, there is no flirting he asks me to a movie at the end of the movie, he asks me to be his girlfriend. Me being flabbergasted, I deny the offer and proceed to cut him off anxiety peaks, I leave public HS and cut off everybody else for years receives texts from him from 2012-2016 I respond to him in 2016 and we start dati… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:58 AM |
| 4 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢That’s disgusting, and I’m sorry you had the displeasure of crossing paths with that loser. The fact that this is just something that’s common in our society and is expected to be tolerated makes me SICK. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 05:28 AM |
| 5 | Insecure yet cocky men men are a disease. Avoid them like the plague.I’ve experienced negging but never knew it was actually a big enough thing for there to be a term for it. Well I’ll be damned | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 04:54 AM |
| 36 | Settle for a nice guy? For what?I’m gonna start linking my friends this video whenever they start complaining about a guy they’re talking from tinder | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/20 03:54 AM |
| 95 | Insecure yet cocky men men are a disease. Avoid them like the plague.How is that dark humour??? Lmfao like am I taking crazy pills or are these men just trying to gaslight ppl into thinking that their jokes/comments are really more clever than we think they are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 09:06 PM |
| 4 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢Yeah I can’t say that I don’t feel the same way. Sure it doesn’t happen with every driver I match with but I’d rather not have it happen at all. And if you get asked out on the street, you can at least walk away from them. I try not to use it too much now unless I’m running late for something important or if it’s a GNO and we’re wearing heels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 08:14 PM |
| 19 | The cashier at Wendy’s just gave me his number 🙄🤢Yup. Went to a fast food chain restaurant with a coworker and had the owner give me his card who looked like he could be my father (I’m 22). Never went back again despite working across the street from it. Also had Uber drivers ask me if I would go out with them, one of which was 50+ and asked me where I live when he picked me up from my condo... Not to mention the creeps who have stopped their cars to offer me a ride home (in daylight and at night). FUCK no. LVM’s are gross and seemingly have n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:33 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on BF breaking the "porn" boundary?I so feel for you girl. And you totally get it. People like that want their cake and eat it too, which is why they’re willing to go to extreme lengths and go behind their partners back to hide their masturbating or infidelity. Like they can talk the talk about how much they love you but obviously this was something that was important to you. I’m sorry you’re dealing with this and want you to know you don’t deserve it. It’s incredibly painful to end a 5-year relationship and I wouldn’t know what … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on BF breaking the "porn" boundary?You’re not unreasonable or crazy. This is your boundary, and he knew it and lied to your face SEVERAL TIMES. He doesn’t respect your feelings or your relationship, and I’m sorry that’s the case. You can do way better than this guy. Speaking from a two year relationship with an ex who did the same (except he watched it secretly on his phone while we were hanging out) after I told him I considered porn was cheating. He ended it over a text and looking back, he did me a favor and did what I couldn’… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Realizations from taking a break on datingAMEN. Personally, I was the most unhappy in my life when I was in a 2-year relationship with my ex because he didn’t treat me as well as I felt I deserved. I got nothing out of it and wasted my energy and time for a dude that didn’t know how to communicate his feelings. I was perfectly happy before him and I’m happy now with the other wonderful people in my life. I’m glad you figured out the same too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:50 PM |
| 4 | How dare he?! 😂This is so true. Ever since COVID hit NA, I’ve been getting several messages and DM’s from old fuck buddies I haven’t talked to in like 6 months - 1 year. “I miss fucking you in the shower”. Like I’m sorry I haven’t been reminiscing about you but what makes you think I want anything to do with you now? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 03:39 PM |
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