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| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Theres getting cheated on something painful but recoverable Then there's getting cheated on and having to raise a child for at least 18 years that isn't your responsibility and never finding out or finding out. Years of your life gone and an emotional attachment that may no longer be valid on the whims of the woman you're with or the biological father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:53 PM |
| – | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?You mean you're not going to tell every man you see that he just isnt trying hard enough or that his personality is shit so he can't attract women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:51 PM |
| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.How is a womans sexual past imaginary? How is it imaginary that she would do certain things for or more frequently for one man but not the other/current man she's dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:50 PM |
| 1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Tell that to the women who think its ridiculous, illogical and insecure for a man to consider a womans past let alone the woman he's with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:48 PM |
| -3 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.I'm being facetious to the women who truly believe a man being concerned with her sexual past is ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:46 PM |
| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Its vague but they both involve that mans future with that particular woman. Women scoff at a prenup or get insulted to the point they may break up with a man, the same way guys get insulted to learn he is not the best that woman has had be it sexually or in other aspects. Both deserve to be told they're simply being insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:44 PM |
| -2 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.It does not have to be invasive once the baby is born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:40 PM |
| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.No it matters very much, once a baby is on the way to be tested, it can only happen once as that woman cannot get pregnant again until that baby is born. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:39 PM |
| 0 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.They both deal with trust but I suppose I should've titled things more "women who are insulted by paternity tests deserve the same advice as men who are concerned with thier partners sexual past." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:35 PM |
| -3 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.People have more business trips than children, that comparrison doesn't really stand in my opinion, try a different analogy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:31 PM |
| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.No any woman who has a problem with it should be met with the same sentiment women give men on that topic, stop being so insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:30 PM |
| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Not really both arguably concern that mans future than his trust/lack of trust in the woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:28 PM |
| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Not really. It heavily determines a mans future its not about his trust of his woman lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:27 PM |
| 0 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Lol. They're not related but the same sentiment can be shared about them. Any woman that calls a man insecure about being concerned with his dates/girlfriends sexual past should never be insecure if a man asks for a prenup or a paternity test as its more about his future than his distrust of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:26 PM |
| -3 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.See there it is, its the same way a woman can acknowledge another man is attractive or a past lover is better in bed. Why even compare it in the first place? If you know you didnt step out, why be so offended by it or it being mandatory? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:25 PM |
| -1 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Its about trust and insecurity. Men are insecure for judging thier partner on thier sexual past especially in comparison to thier current relationship. Women are insecure for being offended by a mans need for a paternity test or prenup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:23 PM |
| -2 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.If you don't trust thier feelings due to thier sexual past. It is indeed rooted in insecurity. As is the womans belief you don't trust her to make sure the baby is yours, lets not forget nurses can accidentally swap babies given the right circumstances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:21 PM |
| 0 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.That would be logical if most men got around like that or had the options to do so. A womans sexual past is ALL about how she treats her current partner. If she was willing to make more sacrifices or compromises for her ex or an ex lover or just straight up had more sexual desire for them and acted on it but not you supposedly the man she wants and loves most in that current moment its very telling of how intense her feelings for you actually are. These are all things that can be constantly moni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:19 PM |
| -2 | The female equivalent of a man concerning himself with a partners sexual past is women being insulted by the need for paternity tests and prenups.Yes, this time more understandably so as it can determine his future. Thus it warrants the same reaction women feed men of controlling thier insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:14 PM |
| 10 | CMV: Mandatory paternity tests are a bad ideaIf abortion also takes tax payers money mandatory paternity tests should as well. Men should not falsley have to be responsible for a kid that isnt thiers, that is emotionally taxing and abusive to put a man in that vulnerable a spot when mandatory paternity tests could easily solve the issue, setting that man free and bringing the right man to accountability Sure it will tear certain families apart but thats the thing about being accountable for your actions, fuck up less or in less intense way… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:29 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceEspecially with the knowledge we have now and alot of the warnings women hate and scoff at to do thier own thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:21 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceYou may be and a small% of women would be open to that, most do care and him suggesting that would change things irrepairably | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:19 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceBlame society. Sorry but in a seperate timeline wherre he is ok with sharinf something like that, you both likely wouldn't be together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:06 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceWomen only confront us about it to further thier own comfortability to do whatever they feel like and lessen the want to be with one dude. Also this can pop up after a long time of dating and suddenly wreck havoc on your relationship especially if the woman got alpha widowed which is not uncommon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:01 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceThat's the sentiment most of them share and why they are so combative to not objectively consider how thier worth is lowered to a man if she doesnt view him in the top % of at least who she has been with in most aspects, especially when you imply you're getting a reduced version of her as this whole thread also talks about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:54 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceMen are also told that if they're lacking or not the greatest in bed they're shit and thier woman will be left wantinf Along side the natural competition that is the natural progression in society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:47 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceWe are not only talking about painful things, it is also extremely topical that a woman might wait longer to have sex with a man in the dating stages she supposedly likes more or have less frequent sex with her current partner than previously. Its all measured on levels of relative intensity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:46 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceWomen cannot fathom budging on this because in thier mind when this pops up most men are lucky to be with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:32 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceI can't tell if they're saying it in terms of the guy getting pegged or asking his woman to open the backdoor. But yes, having any man conquer your woman or entice her enough to legitmately stray even mentally is emasculating. In what world is it not. Perhaps I'm jaded but I read her reply as if she was just trying to call us insecure? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:30 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceSometimes that guy doesnt even get intercourse in that scenario. Its not just the ex, but if she ever shared her gripes about her ex or talked about thier situation, it can also be guys similar to him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:25 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceI guess. But that guy may only know her body count, not how each one went down. What is more likely is that he is determined to not end up the guy she did make rules for or can't help but feel pride or shame depending on how women treat him as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:21 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceIts because you're chad lite. You don't have to cling to every woman you get with so you don't idealize them. Also the fact that you're blackpill means you viewed dating and getting laid as more of a goal, due to being chad lite a a goal with lots of positive reinforcement. Most men even red pillers and black pillers view women or at least women they spend long enough with as thier one chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:17 PM |
| – | Here's the Real truth about virginity/low body count preferenceEh some men also think back to the differences between the sexual details especially if the man in question was more than just an ex fling. An example is your woman making sacrifices in the bedroom to satiate him or that he brought out of her but not you, regaurdless of how gentle or nuanced you try to vroach the subject. Irregardless of what people say that hints heavily at a more intense factor between the two in question than you and your girlfriend/wives dynamic if it is a thing. Irregardles… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellWhat does it depend on within that person? Many people who have certain traits gain friends far more easily than those with the opposite and I am talking about traits not linked nessecarily linked in how you interact with people. Looks, having a girlfriend, inclinations towards certain hobbies. I would also argue what is more realistic for that person. Exceptions are rare and people sweep under the rug the thousands that failed before 1 succeeded. Like if that man has never had a girlfriend, a w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Most men who can't find a girlfriend can't expand their social circle as wellActing as if trying is the best option despite that is literal insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 08:03 PM |
| 2 | How would dating world change if heterosexual men only had sex when in a monogamous relationship?Yes they can because they wanted a taste of the lifestyle and many still front as though they have that lifestyle. Why, because it is seen as a step above not having access to casual sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:13 PM |
| 1 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheIndia and Asia are not the entire world and that is far removed from americas focus on western racism ecen places like europe and australlia. People who claim to be fighting and against hesitate to bring that up because it portrays as being racist towards those countries. It is the same issue why feminists insist on focusing on western culture instead of alot of the strict cultures that hold women to a non-progressive standard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 06:02 PM |
| 2 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheIt means there are nowhere near as many limitations or as intense limitations due to skin color as people make out to be using systemic racism and it is not a white based happening. I have also witnessed more diversity hires and programs based upon minority for colleges jobs than not, even prior to 2016 Anything pro x race is more times than not more racist than anything else. Racial profiling exists, I literally have been in terms of most violent "racism" I have been called the literal hard r b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheI am aware however many preach its an issue in america. No one wants to talk about how unwelcoming and xemophobic other countries are like many asian countries for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?You are under the implication that these men are just fiending for women 24/7 lamenting that they will never be with one, usually that is not the case until a visual reminder comes along to have them vent that. It is also not that easy to simply not want something. Even in the pursuit of letting go that can take years of therapy, or selfwork all of which centered and motivated by the loss of women at the end of the day. This also does not mean these men are not going to be vocal about thier dati… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:10 PM |
| 6 | What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yoursRedpill= women are attracted to money, status, looks to an extent and leadership and how you carry yourself and your best startegy is to build all of those up but it completely ignores or sweeps under the rug the genetic limit men have and doesn't emphasize the type of women you will attract by doing so, equating women wanting to be with you in essence to love and her actual desire, this falls apart due to the more recent example. Bezo's wife eying and having chemistry with leonardo dicaprio Blu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?Possibly or just give up on women as a whole. Even the woman you get has a chad she lusted for in the past and will lust for while she is with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?Because it is rooted in truth and spares you further suffering/embarrassment and wasted time fighting the inevitable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:42 PM |
| 1 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheYou implying they aren't bettering themselves implies they'd have a woman or more success with women if theye did, that is not true, effort is not a 1 to 1 ROI because life isnt fair. If you truly thought it was luck you wouldn't have that opinion universally or imply the lack of trying is the reason these men are unssuccessful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?Friendships like that are rare even for women, thats why most women are concerned with if another woman is being fake or not or will betray her. Close friends are limited in this world just due to time and people being busy with thier own shit not to mention how hard it is post college for people to meet people let alone amazing quality people it would take to form that friendship. A spouse or eloped girlfriend is more enabled to support you more often than even those close friends Again you are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:21 PM |
| 4 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?1) that isn't true, you live in constant disappointment and numbness depression is not inherently positive nihilism 2) yes and many people view that or your inability to get so as psthetic even those you may have had a chance with to get a form of said love 3) no depression is borderline insanity, where you try and fail constantly. Its like you saying someone should be happy being a hampster on a wheel forever. 4) most people seek a well rounded life, you cannot be well rounded if you have been … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | Men want fairness in mainstream culture and discourse, not any female subjugation or violation of women's autonomy.How is it a want to return to subjugation and ownership of minorities? If feminists aren't satisfied in 2024 with women out earning men, out educating them, and hook up culture for women being as big and liberal as its ever been. Where even outside of western cultures theres positive shifts beginning in cultures that would be viewed by the west as harmful and oppressive to women such as spousal freedom, driving, schooling and a handful of others. Then nothing will satisfy feminists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:33 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?Its possible to physically give up and stop pursuing things but wishing things were differnt every now and again as you face reminders, people start asking why you're single you see couples online and out and about, your favorite youtuber to watch just got a girlfriend, a number of stories you read introduce romance or love into themselves, your friends lives start progressing more towards thier relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:04 AM |
| 3 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?Do it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?This logic case applies to anything that happens to someone largely outside of thier control. Mind you alot of times people drop this when the person hasn't accepted it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 11:00 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?You are and most people mean it that way, no one sits there and consoles men who give up, usually its a good riddance, someone trying to convince you and others to not give up, sometype of insult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:57 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?Because other gay men fuflfil the closeness and intimacy that those men would feel with women if they were straight. Your arguement is garbage for that, those men are holding eachother, kissing, having sex sharing extremely intimate feelings. Something straight men won't get unless they have a woman. Unless this is a "go gay" campaign I don't get your arguement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:55 AM |
| 8 | Q4M: if you have resigned to the idea that you will never get a woman to love you, then why not choose to be happy either way?It is closely linked to it actually, it is just another type of loneliness that can mimic isolation especially depending on the length at which it happens and the age that you first become aware of it. Who is strawmanning who? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:52 AM |
| 4 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheThere are more rapists that have previously had sex than there are incels in the world atm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:49 AM |
| 2 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheYet you put the blame directly on men thus proving op's point lol if women complain its a mans fault, if men complain its a mans fault | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:42 AM |
| 4 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheI am black I can confirm society is stepping aside for us, also ironically many incels are people of color | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:40 AM |
| 3 | "Male entitlement" is a thought-stopping clicheEven beyond sex itcould be a lack of intimacy which can be just as dangerous as isolation for humans if it goes on long enough and no friends cannot give you intimacy or replace romantic relationships for males. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:29 AM |
| 3 | "I tried dating apps as a woman and it was harder than expected!" (videos)Not universal but there is a majority rule on attractive traits, many male models have extremely similar features. Thats why people can identify certain male celebs as more attractive than others its the same in average everyday life. Most women don't lust after men with weak chins Most women don't lust after men with competitive body builder type muscles Most women don't lust after men with a chubby or round face (something not always changeable by weightloss. Most women don't lust over chubby/… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:20 AM |
| 2 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.People don't change that much, the thing they may use to get it might but that want for excitement and attraction will always remain and clearly I am not it if she didnt pick me back then. Who am I to hold back someone from what they truly want and need. People are allowed to make mistakes but when that mistake results in a child or is more frequent that is inexcusable because there are plenty of warning signs, be it learning from other people, or people telling you who you're going to attract b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:11 AM |
| 23 | I believe Women "settling" is just biology.Its insulting to us while she gets to have her cake an eat it too. People don't change that much, the thing they may use to get it might but that want for excitement and attraction will always remain and clearly I am not it if she didnt pick me back then. Who am I to hold back someone from what they truly want and need. People are allowed to make mistakes but when that mistake results in a child or is more frequent that is inexcusable because there are plenty of warning signs, be it learning fro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/24 10:06 AM |
| 1 | There's ugly and there's ugly. If you belong to the 1st category, you will have dates, find a partner, but if you are in the second category, better start praying.Firstly that doesnt mean your friends boyfriends are attractive even to them. You are likely the type of person to not destroy your friends trust/friendship, can you guarantee if you had no prior encounter, you wouldnt be willing to date them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | There's ugly and there's ugly. If you belong to the 1st category, you will have dates, find a partner, but if you are in the second category, better start praying.Not by todays standards 6ft nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:46 PM |
| 1 | There's ugly and there's ugly. If you belong to the 1st category, you will have dates, find a partner, but if you are in the second category, better start praying.I don't mean physically, I mean verbally. I've only had 2 in highschool, usually its some short scrappy dude trying to prove himself by challenging the widest or tallest dude | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:07 PM |
| 1 | There's ugly and there's ugly. If you belong to the 1st category, you will have dates, find a partner, but if you are in the second category, better start praying.See? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 09:32 PM |
| 6 | There's ugly and there's ugly. If you belong to the 1st category, you will have dates, find a partner, but if you are in the second category, better start praying.Eh attractive is the only thing that matters and is more objective than people care to admit. Congrats you're not ugly suddenly theres hope? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 09:31 PM |
| 1 | There's ugly and there's ugly. If you belong to the 1st category, you will have dates, find a partner, but if you are in the second category, better start praying.Sure that way prince charming can come save them from me Its made even worse that I'm a gentle giant after fighting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 09:18 PM |
| 7 | There's ugly and there's ugly. If you belong to the 1st category, you will have dates, find a partner, but if you are in the second category, better start praying.I am a built muscular ogre Most women just care abouta handsome face and some lean muscle definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?Thats usually why most relationships fail and end with emotional or physical cheating. I have never seen a woman praising her mans body unless he is jacked or shredded, even dad bods are usually guys who have decent genetics and go to the gym. Also what you said is plain wrong due to friendships and how many people form more intense emotional connections AFTER attraction is already there. From the club scene to crushes on friends vs other friends. Visual stimulation adds to the mindset. Many wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 08:44 PM |
| 2 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?What are rules 1 and 2? The rules of this subreddit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 12:47 PM |
| 3 | How are men supposed to deal with successive rejections?Don't work on your health it is a waste of time. It only exists to lengthen your suffering, a literal lifetime of watching something you can't attain pass you by and having it randomly shoved in your face by friends or parents who will ask why you're still single or just observing other people. Most people who are in relationships or had relationships have not practiced what this man preached. The only reason they feel comfortable alone is because they have experience and proof that someone else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:47 AM |
| -1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?So what you're saying is I'm right? You made no mention of not being willing to sleep with him earlier than the man of 5 months but given the immediate swoop in one can argue that easily. If it only took you a day as soon as he got available in comparrsion to the other men, then you were attracted to him more. Its ok to be unaware of how attracted you are to someone, its not a malious thing but thats just how nature works | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:40 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingIm arguing women don't as well or as much as they should unless you want to argue men are mastermind manipulators able lul an astounding amount of women into a false sense of security. No truth is this is the danger of following desire for both men and women. You become vulnerable but you only hold one sex accountable for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:35 AM |
| 1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?If you're not getting at least the same results for your effort, she likes her past guy better. Level of arousal is an extremely clear indicator of how attractive you are at the very least in your partners eyes in comparrison to her past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:31 AM |
| 2 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?She'd give you more if you were chad. Many men fall into that trap and get no reciprocation. You sound blue pilled | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:30 AM |
| 2 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?Preaching to the chior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?With men its more documented and most men don't try to cover it up or lie about it. Also yes due to the nature of men we do have raw desire for many women but we feel that way about more women than women do men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?So you both waited years before having sex? Also I'm not just talking about the picture but a hypothetical person you would meet in the world having that picture. Sure I can believe you and your boyfriend but as you said you're different from me, I believe this is how most women work at the very least up until a certain age beyond 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:22 AM |
| 4 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?Doesn't have to be prostitutes, again they literally rob him. Nice cop out though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 10:20 AM |
| 8 | Would you trade your gender’s dating struggles?Doesn't mean that danger doesn't start with a woman. A handful of lesbian women or women involced with men from gangs willsleep with a man then rob him either forcefully or while he sleeps, the women will unlock the mans door and keep an eye on him while the other members steal whatever they can get thier hands on and bail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?In my opinion genuine arousal just happens there is rarely a build up to it. I would argue many women even married women get begrudgingly aroused when they see a truly attractive man for some even outside of her prefered type. They may not instantaneously dump thier husbands but there is a hypothetical would if they could fuck, and instant chemistry because the woman is more pulled in. Many women try to fight this as they try to actualize thier ideal of love "usually loyalty" actively convincing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Women/bluepill men here downplay the relevance of women's online discourseMore people are willing to share thier actual thoughts online than not. Sure people are also likely to spout random hateful/hurtful nonsense or stuff for interactions to go viral but you can usually tell how disingenuous someone is. Not to mention the comment section of these videos rallying together under sisterhood/agreement. That compiles ontop of large anecdotal evidence from society, strangers friends and family overlapping with such. This goes into certain mindsets people take in dating. M… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Self-improvement is a scamIts not even by the manosphere society does it too. Society has a heavy focus on romance and men lack closeness and intimacy outside of romantic relationships | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:35 PM |
| 3 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.Its chill let them all die alone on the hill they make for themselves this goes for men too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:32 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingYet women clearly don't, even in non fatal interactions. You can't argue statistics then virtue signal victim blaming when your arguement of vetting incorrectly falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:25 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingIf we were we'd be more successful with women too so I for one see this as a complete win. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:22 PM |
| 5 | CMV: Women have it harder in datingTo add. Men commit suicide more often too and that is not completely irrelevant to dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Let's share some examples of average-looking 20-something dudes?I don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:19 PM |
| 11 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?Average men are not as loved as they think they are even by the women they get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Pursuit of muscle and money is futile for attracting womanA pump is where your muscles swell up more from bloodflow after working them out. Many people will look amazing with a pump but not too shredded or jacked without one. So alot of influencers, will grt a pump before any photos they take to motivate people, sell themselves and more importantly product. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | "Beta bux" is a myth and being "cool" is still very important even past age 30He does not have an ATTRACTIVE face to women, that is reserved for a smaller portion of the population. Average men are not desired they are settled for majorily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:45 PM |
| 1 | "Beta bux" is a myth and being "cool" is still very important even past age 30You live in a just world fallacy. A man can do all of what you listed and still have an objectively ugly face actually attracting no women outside of those who want beta buxxers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:29 PM |
| 3 | "Beta bux" is a myth and being "cool" is still very important even past age 30He is desired by many women and has a slough of options, at the very least 95% of that small subsect of men aren't sleeping with 1 woman all his life espevially if he knows he is desired and likely does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:26 PM |
| 3 | "Beta bux" is a myth and being "cool" is still very important even past age 30I am praying women turn most men into incels it would be hilarious | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:23 PM |
| 9 | "Beta bux" is a myth and being "cool" is still very important even past age 30Eventually MAYBE while chad and women live it up creating memories and using eachother. She only gets with you so she can fantasize about chad from a safe financial status. I would rather die than have any woman interested in my money or know what I make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:20 PM |
| 2 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.By saying nothing and just letting her be all over him with his looks? From the jump he didnt have to do anything, these women are just swooning over him soon as he enters the room | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:12 PM |
| 4 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.No its because most people sweep under the rug the shallower parts of dating. I'm not even damning having shallow parts, they will always exist but people like pretending they don't. Being able to articulate how they feel about someone/some happening and expressing the passion in thier hobbies, able to be funny to people from varying types of humor without self depreciation, being there for people and being capable to comfort someone or be there for good or bad times and general dependability, h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:41 AM |
| 6 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.The only issue is that society, parents and even women themselves largely push personality and to an extent fib about what majorily matters in dating women and feed young men from a young age that personality matters more than looks and other feel good nonsense. Some guy who thinks women care less about looks more about personality works on and gains a great personality yet ending up for lack of a better term "friendzoned" or rejected by, or not pursued by every woman he encounters yet seeing gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/24 12:20 AM |
| 10 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.They do its just a higher threshhold of attractiveness for it to happen. I have seen it all throughout my life from women of varying ages, from teasing girl friends from how star struck they are with certain guys or when they enter the room to women openly and vulgarly saying how hard they'd jump a guys bones. I've watched old women swoon over a man openly to his face. I've seen women my age and younger take heavy interest and compliment attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.Some but not much. Women know when a man is attractive to other women. Chad has the ultimate preselection. He has the effect where men in relationships suddenly get hit on alot more, they assume he gets women. Its only a turn off if he outs himself as too much of a player, thats why blue pilled advice works best for attractive men. He just has to not destroy that facade she has in her head. If he shows a lack of confidence the women are more likely to act surprised and try to cheer him up than i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:40 PM |
| 7 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.Can follow, but it is more assured. Im afraid I cant help but believe you rate your friend lower than women do, there was likely attraction already there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Am I the only man who thinks it would be better if women cared more about looks?That would only serve to do the opposite of what you intend and again they already do. But men they find extremely attractive are rare. You should advocate for MEN to care about thier own looks earlier and more intensely Women wear weight better than men and it usually serves to at least slightly accentuate what we find attractive sometimes even in terms of the face. An overweight mans features women ogle the most are lessened by him being overweight. Chest, forearms, shoulders possibly and even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:31 PM |
| 0 | Which women are allowed to be picky?As opposed to all the men the cat ladies didnt even have on thier radar for dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:16 PM |
| 1 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterSometimes its the type of potato the resturants are choosing that impact how the french fries taste. Perhaps to get that you just have to cook it yourself with the correct type of potato despite the french fries you previously tried and hated, looking more appetizing. In my experience most women who say it, say it just to spite men that point out shitty dating behaviors by men are being rewarded or advocating for men to continue doing these things to get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only man who thinks it would be better if women cared more about looks?Thugs living on the couches of women they're boning would like to heavily dispute your claims lol. You don't even have to officially be with women. I fully agree with you on them not caring about personality or moral character but money isn't it either. Nothing is happening if you don't look good and you won't get genuine interest and desire if you aren't above average in looks. There is always some dude in her past who makes less than you who fucked her for free and is still her "friend" gettin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:07 PM |
| 10 | Personality matters to women, but not in the way present-day manosphere men seem to interpret it.People only perscribe personality as if it will solve every issue and do heavily place it above attraction/physical attractiveness. You cannot out personality attraction when it comes down to a womans options. It is better to have the attraction than the personality. If you build attraction or simply are attractive many women will look past or fill in certain gaps in your personality if you leave it decently blank and just do the bare minimum of filling out personality by not being a complete go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:00 PM |
| 2 | There is a certain irony behind the RPs line of logic of “young women have less baggage” when the RP encourages behaviors that give young women emotional baggageI agree. However they take that stance because you cannot beat nature and curiousity, to try and do so would be controlling, which will dry women up or maddening and damaging to your mental health. A woman wants baggage or a least a long romantic history to feel important and have proof of desire in her mind for the men she truly wants. Even if its not as measured and calculated most women will aquire baggage just due to sheer curiousity and being hypergamous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Am I the only man who thinks it would be better if women cared more about looks?In recent times they do and you are likely ignorant to how. Most men like to measure that women don't care about looks by the fact they can get them to sleep with them or date them for a time and not the quality of that sex, pursuit and relationship. It is more measured by how invested she actually is in helping you in loving ways. If you've ever seen a woman react to an attractive man you know what I am talking about and less men than redpillers like to admit can ever reach that level of looks.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterThe women that say women are fine and happy without sex, for that to be true they'd have to be fine with being celibate or not having sex forever. I can already tell you're going to come at me with some angle of the women would just turn gay or use toys for sexual satisfaction but there is no denying many women will still miss miss sex with a man. The alternative in this case would be having men around and either occassionaly or frequently having sex with them due to differing sex drives, the on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:24 PM |
| 1 | Why does this generation fixate and obsses so much over "therapy"?Expressing and venting your emotions is addicting and no one talks about it. Alot of the time too much venting can ruin your life because you build the habit of NEEDING to release instead of sitting,tempering and managing them. Therapy and even prescribed psychiatry can be healthy, can boost social confidence to express yourself but most people normalize it as a way of self importance. I'm not dismissing micro-traumas we go through as children (forget the actual term for it) but it gives MOST pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?You keep doubling back as if the womanhas zero warning. Groaning, moaning, his face, twitching, gripping, the pace. Not to get too vulgar but a smooth way of keeping track of that is to tell him to "tell you when he's going to pop" (whatever word you want to use) for you .This is making you sound sexually ignorant. Not an insult just an observation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:45 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Nah I'm going in. Since Roe v Wade was established in 1973. Single motherhood hasn't decreased but increased. The more outs you give someone the more freely they will act and frequent those escape paths. I would be on your side if single mother pregnancies didnt increase over the past 40 years. Unless you want to argue men are just in a sexual assault and rape frenzy. Desperate to have the government come after them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:38 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?People feel the same way about men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?I wear a condom and also pull out, at least outside of my ex of 5 years. Theres alot of other places he can finsih that you could be into Its YOUR womb that has to suffer for 8 months, take some responsibility. Because theres a whole lot of men you guaranteed overlooked that wouldnt stealth you. Men who end up with a biological child are held accountable and are wrung dry (pun intended) and forced to participate in that childs life via child support hence why mandatory testing should have alread… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:16 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?That is still a small perecentage of women and also children worldwide. It is tragic and awful but yes I stand by what I said, you are blowing things extremely out of proportion to justify something people WILL NOT use as a nessecity and only grow more reckless | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Again literally just look at it before it goes inside you and How are you trying to absolve women of not having awareness of what goes into thier body. Telling bad men to be better isnt gonna do fuck all. The only thing that would is if you stop sleeping with them. Mind you Stealthing happens less than 13% of the time. A majority of men ARE NOT stealthing women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 08:52 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Thats a risk with every single pregnancy and not commonly that intense of an issue even with the rise of women on medication for mental health alone which is huge, to call for an abortion. You are heavily overplaying the risks especially given the amount of single mothers who successfully have a full term pregnancy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Not really, the social care system is already overflowing with foster kids etc another of the few. Mind you most abortions are needless reckless behavior not the product of assault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?I'm not particularly unsuccessful with women but genuine desire from one is not in the cards for me and a large number of average to below average looking men. Genuine desire being she takes a deep interest in me (You're going to suggest I'm not that interesting of a person) It means she envisions an actual future with me and will work with me to make it happen instead of just passively letting me create that. A woman getting jealous is true desire. I would have to try extremely hard to become u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:23 PM |
| 1 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?What medical complication makes you suddenly exponentially more likely to get pregnant? Also yes if those children are stupid enough to partake in an activity to make a child with no knowledge then fuck em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:09 PM |
| 0 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Look at his fucking dick. That is literally all you have to do. You control heavily where a man ejaculates wtf are you on about, just have him bust on your stomach. So you suddenly don't have autonamy of what goes into your body? You're just a passenger until a man is done either making you feel good or finishing himself? Wtf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?What does quality mean. You can't hide behind that if quality is just looks. If thats the case women are just as entitled as any "nice guy" we all hate To argue against that is to say women only fuck virtious moral men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:16 PM |
| 0 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Im not talking about the child I'm talking abortion itself , to keep doctors specialized in it paid, to keep clinics open, resources the clinics need and documentation especially keeping that open TO ALL WOMEN or to all women that have had sex or sex without both partiest using BC A born child is just taking a small piece of the pie everyone is already eating from | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?I'm glad she found someone to fill her mental health scar. I understand desire can be built. Usually however that has to do with the image of a man she lusts after that she built in her head. The men that are attractive fill that easier than men who aren't . But by all means tell me how attraction works and I will tell you why certain men will never fulfill that due to how they were born no matter how they work on themselves physically or mentally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:05 PM |
| -2 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?The answer is because abortion was legal, so they didnt have to. Mens overzealous sex drive is already well documented bjt you can only deflect to men but so many times when it takes 2 to tango as they said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?All you have to say is "He was born that way" or "They were married before or long after he lost them" You don't want to answer because you either don't know or it doesnt support your arguement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:56 PM |
| 0 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Supports reckless sex and even less self control than we already do. Another factor affecting the economy that doesnt have to. Not just in the way of tax payers but it also means less benefits for those in need | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:51 PM |
| 0 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Its not opting it is forcably taken away, at least some men do want the child and will support it, many women just like the guy that won't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:40 PM |
| 0 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?I fully agree. Its just too swept under the rug that many women literally verbally ask to have it happen mid act lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:39 PM |
| – | THIS WILL ALWAYS♾️ BE🐝: POSTS📮 WITH AFFIRMATIVE✅ CLAIMS AND LOADED/LEADING🐕🦺 QUESTIONS⁉️ GET MARKED WITH "DEBATE"🗣️ POST FLAIR DAILY🌞 MEGATHREADAs they should be, its a huge turn off for women of all ages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:35 PM |
| 6 | Which women are allowed to be picky?Not just that but if you're extremely picky and end up getting burned that's on you and should earn you no sympathy. Theres also different levels of picky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:19 PM |
| -3 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Then don't get nutted in. Require a condom and pull out from whom you're seeing. Most people aren't going to argue SA victims shouldn't have the option to abort, that's fine but too often on this topic do we pretend women don't have a desire for primal sex. You have autonomy up until it comes to sleeping with a guy you're attracted to? Men are shit but like 40% of women stay pregnant and single? Who is picking these shit men? If no one then how the fuck is this happening, how do we get to the po… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Men Need to Embrace Scarcity.This is what I have been preaching as another reason why love isn't for everyone, good partners especially ones that desire you and aren't taken are scarce especially for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Men who romanticize single mothers are not actually attracted to single mothers, they just want to be neededMost men don't romanticize single moms. Most mens goals and fulfillment is to be needed, we are needed in many aspects, our own lives, maybe our families, our jobs but being needed romantically by a woman is extremely comforting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:03 PM |
| -3 | How can you expect sympathy from men on abortion rights, when we never had the freedom to unilaterally opt out of parenthood after conception?Abortion is not an automatic opt out for a man because he has no say in if she gets the abortion or not, there is no opting out of something you have no control over. Its like quitting as you're being fired. In a perfect world there would be no abortions outside of SA cases and people wouldn't just become sex addicts who don't want people to pull out or refuse to pull out themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:01 PM |
| 9 | Which women are allowed to be picky?Pickyness is fine, the issue is when what you actually do and choose goes completely against what you actually want or put forward, like women trying to turb a promiscious man into a loyal relationship partner. Or saying they totally didnt choose thier above average or handsome boyfriend for his looks and had an innate connection. Like if you are picky and still end up choosing wrong or getting burned thats on you and the men you didnt pick/weren't on your radar. If you're picky you better peris… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 12:56 PM |
| 2 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?Eh the opposite is also true lady. Narrcisistic younger women also pursue older men believing they are deserving of those resources and lifestyle. More often than older men pursue women for that reason. 50% of the men that pursue younger women pursue because its as simple as they're prettier than current older women and that it is a 2 way street. Those younger women want the lifestyle older men provide abd may be curious about the dynamic. You are lilely going to double down and act like I said … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?Sure but men find women attractive women way more highly and frequently across the board than women find men. Most men even ugly men do not have delusional standards for who they'd be willing to date and get with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Boys need a lot more than most GirlsIt is still better to be physically attractive to women than respected by them as you can always start a new social circle and gain respect. My tip to you is paint yourself as moving up with heafrt warming limitations like taking care of your family you'll likely fair better. If your standard for attracting women is if she's willing to hook up with you after you approached, then you haven't attracted women. The way thier attraction comes out is they need to start conversations with you, at least… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:55 AM |
| 0 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?So he met someone and courted someone over a long period with no arms or legs? Or was he married before he lost them? Mind you you only point out and remember the exception because its rare and improbable. Getting laid isnt the issue, its getting genuine desire from a woman. If you have to put in serious effort you have already lost. Especially compared to the guy women start flirty conversations with knowing nothing about him except that he is physically attractive. Most women have a guy like t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover?Not only in having a baby but having a baby can mimic the experience of being replaced as one of the top most important people in that persons life. -They replace men quickly when widowed. -When dissatisfied for any reason -When they have better mate options and believe he is holding her back -when having a child that child is more imortant not equally important (some women would scoff that a man places a child above her, this happens often when single fathers are dating even though they rarely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:36 AM |
| 3 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?Women are way more insecure than they ever care to admit, you can see it if you look deep enough. That is one reason they crave confidence and self assuredness in a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:29 AM |
| 3 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?A blue piller actually calling out a fallacy that a woman presented. That is unexpected. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?Both can be true, you do it to be healthy and have a healthy amount of people think you're good looking/attractive or to increase your odds. I lift weights and workout with the intention of getting a woman attracted to me and for me to be great at motions of sex, as well as to make physical labor easier on myself. I have never told a woman my reason but when I tell them of my hobby of going to the gym in a conversation and I show them before and after photos of me they usually say they respect t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:27 AM |
| 2 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?You can get laid sure but genuine attraction or being at the top of her list of men she's most attracted to and acts different for isn't happening if you have to use game or PUA tactics. Quantity does not replace quality | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:10 AM |
| 3 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?Other guys don't have to do EVERYTHING right, I've seen physically attractive men say little to nothing or become shy and not beaming with confidence and the woman still have the hots for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 10:06 AM |
| 3 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?Yes I agree, that goes into what I said about knowing women do not want me. Beyond not being attractive, rich or of high status or any of the common tropes of attractive man, I don't posses a huge want to manipulate peopld or be a scumbag outside of attempting to get pretty as possible so I can potentially reject them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:33 AM |
| 37 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?Many women can only comprehend a true freak or someone morally and socially detestible failing at dating. They cannot for a second think that an average person could not have encountered a woman interested in him or that personality doesn't matter as much as she thinks because life isnt fair. People pick and choose when to use sayings a little too often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:08 AM |
| -1 | Are men upset that mothers will prioritize their children over their lover?Its just the essence of being a man. We are born to literally be replaced women are born to adapt and replace us and encouraged by at least western society to do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 02:03 AM |
| 35 | Does self improvement cause men to become resentful towards women?For me it led to acceptance that genuine desire and love are notbin the cards for me. It has also lead to menever trusting women in less of a "you're out to get me way" more of a "I will never believe you want me over a hypothetical or real stranger no matter what you do" theres benefits to this outside of protecting myself, like never embarrassingly thinking a woman likes me because she is kind/nice to me. But when topics/dating advice like this comes up my anger is more pointedly at the person… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:52 AM |
| 0 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterI'll repeat the important part of the comment "they seem unwilling to find out" To answer the question, it is always slow unless she's already talking nasty to me. Teasing is an extremely underused basic way to get a woman for vocal and forthcoming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:41 AM |
| 0 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterOk and they should/would be fine with that forever? Usually the arguements it brought up in imply most women would be fine with essentially being celibate until they pass on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/24 01:32 AM |
| 9 | what experiences with women have shaped your view of them?Well I'm an extreme advocate for the thought of "women are just as shallow/horny/physical attraction motivated as men if not slightly more, due to;even from middle school to now, through a nice college and owning my own business talk openly about thier atrraction and repulsion of certain men physically. I've heard extremely vulgar things whispered and spoken aloud about attractive men while they're still in the room or not a single meinute after they left as if the woman had to just vent off her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 01:00 PM |
| 7 | Pursuit of muscle and money is futile for attracting womanAnother example is how many fitness influencers manipulate lighting and a pump for basic photos. Personally in dating I believe manipulating photos too much will always lead to temporary success if not outright failure, and is a dangerous slope of body image issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 12:29 PM |
| – | Do you think good parents should strive to "looksmax" their sons?I think you should teach him about the things within looksmaxxing to teach him he can be more thsn what he currently is if he wants to. The main issue is socoeity, dating advice etc does not tell young people there is a limit to looksmaxing, you can't just pop out as prince charming or a celebrity. I would teach him skincare options. How to size up a haircut, fashion, shrinking clothes for a better fit, teach him fragrances, body scrubs how to shower properly (in my opinion). I would teach him f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 12:23 PM |
| – | Do you think good parents should strive to "looksmax" their sons?I would teach him everything I know about money as early as possible for the sake of living comfortably and that translates lightky to math skills. I would only focus on looks so that he has the options to get what he wants. I would do that in terms of activity as passively as possible, making weight lfiting enjoyable and let him see his father doing it as well as at least give him an outlet like sportd, learning martial arts or us just rough housing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 12:00 PM |
| – | Do you think good parents should strive to "looksmax" their sons?I don't think they should force or strive for look maxing. Encourage him to find what hairstyle fits him the most, teach him about fragrance keep him active as a kid and social and stop feeding your kids fast food, even if they're overweight or not, most of the time its a waste of money as well. Lastly for the love of god stop feeding these kids feel good passive, "the right girl" advice. A kid learning to take rejection at age 12 is alot better than him having to learn at any age above that and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/24 11:57 AM |
| 0 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterI mean thats even the case with most women its just usually slightly less intense. They usually want at least"the bare minimum" then go from there expecting it to feel good/right and when it doesn't they get confused or are gaslit by other women to blame the man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 10:04 PM |
| 1 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterYou're right don't worry I'll be taking my leave by the end of the month | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:51 PM |
| 8 | A 90% women and 10% men world would be betterHe means women as well. A decent number of women here that say women are happy single and sexless so if 90% of males died off they'd be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:50 PM |
| 5 | Boys need a lot more than most GirlsThis is cap and overplayed. Sure women care if you have your shit together some but almost 60% of it it is straight physical attraction. Even average dudes who have women are stuck mostly trying to keep a womans interest because the attraction isnt there vs chads who just have it. Beforr the replies I know are coming, self improvement especially physically and facially do have limits | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:48 PM |
| 3 | Why are so many people just unable to separate what is moral with what is true?You cannot say "the latter" as all of those have different behavior patterns. The arguement falls apart as narrcissism still has a scope within society, thats how they acknowledge themselves or rather DON'T acknowledge themselves as holier than thou or correct, they simply are. Sociopathy is usually a grown trait and any grown trait is still within social conditioning especially given most sociopaths hide it for the comfort of thier own lives, they're more likely to yes and nod you to death than… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 08:27 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsMany women change for the man they're attracted to, this issue is most women are mot attracted to average men and obviously not below average. Men rate women higher than women rate men. This is observable in more than just dating apps.with how often attractivement are approached and also in how women act/open up for an attractive man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:17 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsSociety and parents still push thier fathers dating standards in thier face. Until they observe what women ACTUALLY desire and go for that leads to the existence of every pill except the bluepill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 02:08 PM |
| 0 | Men’s positive actions are individualized while their negative actions are collectivized and …The most recent bear arguement thread is a great example of this very thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:54 PM |
| 6 | Why does taxicab theory frustrate women?Same way men get frustrated women don't treat them the same as men they're actually attracted to despite dating that man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:50 PM |
| – | Bear discourse has show us women dont care about the results. Women care about the feeling.Yes and 100% of people will not be SA'D my a man. The arguement is that men are inherently potential untrustworthy physical threats with high reaching consequences for thier victims. Women are safe to think that and be procautionary but it does not mean that is correct nor rooted in truth rational. Most men are not SA perputrators to argue that its rational to think that you would need a statistic of 51% of the male population doing so. Again better safe than sorry but it does inherently suggest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:38 PM |
| – | Bear discourse has show us women dont care about the results. Women care about the feeling.Not morally but statistically yes due to how close the numbers are to argue against you who think most men are violent beasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:17 PM |
| – | Bear discourse has show us women dont care about the results. Women care about the feeling.Yet people here still claim there is no anti male message in society | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:14 PM |
| – | Bear discourse has show us women dont care about the results. Women care about the feeling.25% though tragic is no where near the majority that means it is still completely irrational it also means most men do not SA or rape. This is backed up by the same arguement that rising male virginity is irrelevant because it is only 28% of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:11 PM |
| 2 | Men hold all the “power” in dating/relationshipsIt is a need, however it is not attainable for everyone, it is literal natural selection. I already am free, I will never ask out a woman, imply I like or get involved with her unless she approaches me first the way I see them do to attractive men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:09 PM |
| 3 | Men hold all the “power” in dating/relationshipsThey are essentially banned from entering if the bakery in question refuses to serve them, defeating the point of entering the bakery. (Before you try to go off no I'm not saying women should serve men, I'm feeding this dumb analogy, I also predict your next comment will be "go to another bakery) Women do have a hivemind of standards at the very least if you're not good enough for one you are likely not good enough for most thus you will barred from dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Are there any forms of toxic femininity?Many women get subservient to men they're attracted to and attractive men have women throwing themselves at thier feet. Unless that stops many men will desire that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:57 PM |
| 5 | Women will always have more options wherever they go than men, however, this doesn’t necessarily mean men don’t have options.No a man doesn't have options if women aren't attracted to him, it is that simple. Mindset and accomplishments mean nothing when women will provide for a man who looks good and gives her great sex. That bar lowers the more attractive a man is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:55 PM |
| 2 | Men hold all the “power” in dating/relationshipsThere will always be other men willing to approach, for men to have all the power 99% of men would need to desire to be celibate. That would be a fine argument if we had no desire for intimacy romantic and physical. Men had "power" in reproduction back in more savage times. I am not advocating for that to be the case again, just an observation. Women hold all the power so long as they are able to say no, which should always be the case. Men are forced to adapt to what women choose, if women choo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:52 PM |
| 3 | Men hold all the “power” in dating/relationshipsRomantic isolation is deadly to your mental well being we see this in almost all species | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Men hold all the “power” in dating/relationshipsThis is exactly what that means. Women are not drooling or going out of thier way for fat mean with decent hobbies and personality. Some men will be excluded, not even just on that level but from the nature of societal monogamous relationships you literally have to exclude loads of men. You know you're excluded if you don't meet a threshhold of criteria to be settlable. That criteria rises to be DESIRED by women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | "men arent *allowed* to..."Allowed meaning able to feel or have certain thoughts without scrutenization especially ones women have without scrutenization. A woman wanting what she wants or is naturally attracted to is fine however with men you'll find more people than people do with women scoffing and bashing your preferences calling you shallow. Many men also don't turn around and start bashing a choice they actively made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:37 PM |
| 6 | Young women's view of their own maturity is highly overrated and sometimes narcissisticMany women take it as mental maturity. I have seen many women want a slightly older man at the very least or in highschool want to "feel more mature" and get a guy that has more resources than most of the guys around her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:33 PM |
| 1 | Does self improvement truly change a man's dating prospects?Agreed these perameters are stupid, self improvement isnt guaranteed or even probable to get you genuine desire from a woman, especially not in comparrison to men just born right. While you diet and exercise some guy just looks right and has women approaching or making opportunities for him you will never get. But by all means continue self improvement keep trying to convince women to give you a chance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:30 PM |
| 2 | Men that complain about "asshole dark triad" are just mad they cannot be assholes, manipulate women, and still get laidNo I hate them because many traits get confused for positive traits and lessens humanity in my eyes. Many darktriad people get mistaken for being confident when usually thier actions are more dominated by insecurity. That's why when women call guys who get controlling insecure because when they first got together he appeared confident. People also over-correlate confidence as a good trait or always being positive. You can certainly use synoyms for this but most stupid descisions sprout from conf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:25 PM |
| 4 | 'Looksmaxing' can't push your attractiveness much above your baseline level.That depends on your genetics. Even in body building it largely comes down to genetics, not everyones biceps looks the same after beingbtrained be it ib a relaxed or flexed position same thing goes for any muscle group and your face. I've seen absolutely shredded dudes still have a baby face or a chubby face, I've seen fat dudes who lose alot of weight reveal a weak jawline. Like working out does not magically give you a nice jaw for example, if it does you were blessed with it while you were un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 12:19 PM |
| 3 | Most Beta/BP traits that RP looks down on are beneficial for society or harmlessHarmless potentially but no man wants to be harmless. You either get what people shove in your face/the experience most people are having or you get revenge in different levels. Not advocating for revenge but its an observation. That revenge could be becoming a player, mocking people online, pulling back from society and not interacting with it or the dsting scene, to more violent options sometimes but more rarely than people like to think. The most violent people are still participating in soci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 09:34 PM |
| 1 | The red pill has gained momentum because a bunch of mid guys who are mad they won't be first choice are trying to logic women into being attracted to them.This is more indicitive of the blackpill than redpill. Redpill tells mens to stop being mid through effort. Bp is more so an acknowledgement of genetic limits where many times things are doomed from the start | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Why does TRP make people so angry?The nature of having to c9nsume redpill content or bp content is the greatest indicator you're late to learning the choices and ways most women will think. Not all women are the same but what you will encounter will overlap heavily Most redpilled or bp men have been lied to by thier mothers and society, that women are extremely virtious, care immensely about your personality or can be won over by personality, or you just have to be yourself and the right woman will come along, some form of very … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Do you think women's preferences shift as they mature or do they just "settle" for men they find less attractive because they want to get marriedUsually not the same women but no they don't change that much there will always be a sliver of what they wanted before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Social circle gameThey may be willing to risk that for an attractive man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for a woman to change, yet not when men do it?I don't however I see more unattractive men who are immoral or moral passed up for attractive men who are immoral, the key and end all be all is attractive which is not subjective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Is Dating Really Hard? Or Are People Not Trying Hard Enough and Unwilling to Compromise on Their Standards?People aren't willing to compromise on standards. Standards that people don't like to admit are there and real. Looks and genetics/genetic determinism get sweeeped under the rug when people talk about dating. I'm not damnijg having looks standards or tryong to appear virtious by not caring but the message that people don't care about looks means there will be less people rising to meet those requirements. Its the same reason apparently women can't avoid shitty men. They reward shitry behavior wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for a woman to change, yet not when men do it?Look at a majority of dat8ng advice. People believe looks to be the last thing people worry about, it is always swept to the back either being denied, downplayed for how much it matters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:35 PM |
| 2 | Social circle gameNot true, women will still look for other ltrz's while hooking up with a playbouly type or a fwb situation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:33 PM |
| 0 | What is the future of post pill society, or...?It is going to look the exact same as it is now. Male virginity stagnating ot rising, women winning as a whole | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Do you consider the current dating model to be sustainable? (includes religious tangent)It is extremely sustainable as poeple get more heartless, more callous and more looks focused, it just means those that aren't will suffer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:21 PM |
| – | What is the bare minimum for a woman in a relationship?See most women do not even have a bare minimum for themselves but want to and also sub-consciously raise the bar for men. They didn't even mention looks despite likely believing most men are obsessed with looks and sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Most of the men who have low standards have them low because they aren't desirable enough to have them high.Well duh, men are more realistic, those that don't think this and know this are delusional | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Why is it okay for a woman to change, yet not when men do it?Society is in disagreement with op a woman could've done anything and settled for a man she didn't even acknowledge back when she was "being youthful" and men are expected to just accept that. So what you said is a fallacy that only really applies to online in certains spaces people can actually be truthful in. Even then the number of men in the world saying women can't change is no where near even half. The men who do have only acknowledged the issue of women changing. Having her cake and tryin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Why is it okay for a woman to change, yet not when men do it?The men women are attracted to have been Immoral. The men they don't end up sleeping with or deeming good enough to date usually have the wrong idea due to society and advice online that dating/attraction cares at all about morals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/24 11:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: women get dressed up and wear makeup ourselves - not for malesI'm only arguing needing to do enjoy yourself aesthetically participates and practices those messages of inadequacy and improving in various ways. We are discussing both humility and self assuredness as that is what Make-up and Dolling up respectively discourages and achieves. I agree we are caught between two goals of striving and being content, however we are also cursed with exacerbating our own self worth like a hamster on a wheel. Many women feel they will never be good enough and feel comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women get dressed up and wear makeup ourselves - not for malesI agree it is wholesome and comforting but beneficial is questionable in terms of needing humility and the ability to look at what you're working with objectively so that pendulum doesn't swing to far in negative or positive directions, both become a persons blind spot that wells up the more we indulge in the need to have those benefits. I believe the self work can encompass a lifetime but most people don't take the self reflection and correlation of things they do far enough in my opinion. Like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 04:27 PM |
| 3 | Is "having a social circle or group" always a +1 ?Its all based on if they see you as competition. A great example is if a make friend switches up when a girl is around, that guy is even if you don't know it- competing with you This can happen even from attractive men upon unattractive men because what matters is the contrast of being a better option Some social circles like having you around because they feel superior to you, you are a confidence boost for them. To an extent a social circle CAN indeed hinder your dating ability. Its not the ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:54 PM |
| 7 | Here is something uncomfortable to consider .... Women will forgive abuse before they forgive weakness.You should care somewhat because they CAN lock you up for someone elses actions, the frequency of it, bolsters potential lies, accusations and confusions. Trusting men for judges and police is like sleeping beside a starving tiger. For example my former bosses girlfriend has a history of self harm and other mental health issues and is ashamed of and hates calling the hospital. He calls an ambulance during an "episode", the ambulance has a squad car in tow because theres a POTENTIAL for a DV disu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | CMV: women get dressed up and wear makeup ourselves - not for malesThe main issue is, from a psychological stand point if you do it to lift your mood or your opinion of yourself, you are only judging yourself on the views society put in you, be that good or bad. From the scope of needing a mood/opinion lifter is due to societies comparrisons and any positive benefit is also due to societies comparrisons. . The reason that matters is because its a behavior that feeds into itself and gets women complacent on an image if themselves that is halfway not them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Would you gossip (i.e. tell other people such as family and friends, in a slightly to very mocking way about your man/woman not being good in bed?) Question for BOTHThis is another reason men are so sex focused. It has alot to do with status as women will talk, you may get lucky ut may be discussed 10 years in the future when yiu're exes to a single friend they have but women talk, it also demonstrates preselection in a way because experience and prowess are extremely important to a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Not gender specific but gender intensive, men find a large amount of women more atrractive than women find men attractive. Meaning it is easier to be below the line for men than it is women as standards are different. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:27 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Your black and white thinking is a cop out , its not that they dislike you, its that they're not attracted to you most likely physically, meaning you don't register to them romantically. Maybe every single woman you encountered has liked you enough to be friends/aquaintances of you. That thought never even crossed your mind. You live in a just world fallacy and probably need to reflect why someone not getting something immediately means this person is unlikable. That sounds like the mentality of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?If I communicate my needs, suddenly I'll be manipulative, insecure, clingy etc lesser in her mind and that will lead to a break up. I'd rather keep it to myself and build emotional attachment. If she doesn't do what I crave then she's not as attached as I had hoped because it is a very simple thing to want to hang out, do things with and be with your relationship partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?No it means they are willing to unprompted take a break with thier friends to come be with me at least half the time which is pretty par for the course for a relationship. I will never request this, I will just silently let it be apart of her own wamts and needs, if it doesnt happen I'll just assume she prefers whomever she is hanging with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?It means at least sometimes in our relationship seeing and being with me is a priority Was with a girl that passively joined me eveyday but it seemed like due to lack of things to do. 50% of that relationship was getting her a friend group she could monkey branch to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:22 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Theres a level of uncanny that comes with those surgeries outside of hair plugs/transplant alongside stigma of having to do it in the first place. You will be identifyable, viewed as insecure. Also you admit hard work sometimes cannot change your face. You have no idea how long it took those guys that aren't awful people but attractive to land that single woman or what it took to get her to say yes in comparrison to someone just born right, nor how satisfied and content these women are with thie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:03 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Yes, in any status the better looking guy will always beat out the average looking guy. It may only be for a night but thats all it takes to taint future relationships. She's "settling" for the attractive guy because society, parents and likely other women tell her she needs to go for guys with money, status and virtues sometimes but looks will always draw and intruige her more. Many well educated women almost always 8/10 have a guy they're ashamed they gave into | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 11:00 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Its due to your strong bond, by letting her be truly single you would be able to better and more accurately see if theres something better out there for her, no one is saying she can't come back especially since it would be you temporarily ending the relationship. Having her do it to sate both your curiousity is putting all the preassure on her because an equal 50/50 maybe she leaves and regrets it, by you doing it it puts a more positive open spin and can only serve to deepen that connection mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 10:54 AM |
| 3 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?An actual reasonable take, thats crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I have only had 2 ltrs a 5 year one at 16 and a 2year one now at 23 almost 24, sometimes solutions don't work. Most men are concerned with getting a woman get complacent and think that woman actually desires them which I think is pathetic, when this girl inevitably vreaks up with me I'm going to give up on dating and continue "bitching" online so more men understand its an actual option instead of being trapped in fruitless self improvement, you will never be more desired than a guy just born co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 09:26 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I don't hold it against women for upgrading but that doesn't mean I need to happy being the trade off or not take that as an implication of my actual worth despite the improvement I have done. Most people after that happens will just tell me I should just try harder and keep trying. You have crafted your mindset to never need to xompare and contrast and never struggle. It also seems to hold your girlfriends affection and intimacy in low regard and she yours due to your relationship revolving aro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?At most its genetics, upbringing, evironement and lucks fault people also don't think failure exists or is acceptable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 08:50 PM |
| 0 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?I don't ever want to be a stereotype of the husband or boyfriend who gets made fun of or is held to having to be greatful i even have a woman in my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 08:38 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Its not about becoming unattractive its that you were never more attractive than the person that comes along. Your life doesnt revolve around relationships likely because you look passable possibly even great. Even relationships that end for other reasons women reach back out to attractive exes rarely ugly exes or average exes because they likely only had the mental element of the relationship because they aren't as desirable as the womans ideal man physically. Most people are not truly privy to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 05:20 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?So you commented under the assumption that I wanted someone else to blame? More than likely your assumption was women. Says alot about you actually. The post is to root out people likely similar to you who refuse to admit or say there can be other factors outsode of your control keeping someone single | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?For me its nothing, I assume they're taken or someone else is occupying thier time/mind or that we're jot in the same league. At work I treat them like any customer and give them as good a time as I can. Usually the women around me, even strangers cannot help but comment how "fine" a man was before he leaves the room amongst the various jobs I've been at here's some quotes "I know that dick long" "I ight need me some of him, his beard omg" "I could never trust him he too pretty" "he can get it" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?If you're not the most desirable to her, the relationship will flip on its head and end. Which will wain over time even if you are at that single moment. Found her cute/attractive, liked me and actually checked in on me. Emotional bonds are nothing in comparrison to lust though, eventually she will want something new, her curiousity of other people will overpower whatever bond we have. Thats just how relstionships work. That could be 2024 or the 1970s You should care because its the clock that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?Not a sex worker, has her own appeal, has a want to grow and a capacity to put me first or get into my hobbies, loves affection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?Its also interesting how many men point out personality and other qualities despite you likely thinking of them as sex obsessed beasts | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 11:10 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Of the two ltr I've had the women came to me, when this current one inevitably ends, that approach is not going to happen unless I am objectively attractive given the way women react to attractive men. Even the women you get into a relationship with will never desire you as much as that attractive man and people like you completely ignore the fact that there is a genetic limit and you can only self improve but so much so you set people on an infinite often exacerbant self improvement loop. Espec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 11:08 AM |
| 0 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?All that means is that she's more willing to settle and may be slightly more realistic, but that doesn't stop lust. Lusting over things I can't change despite my physique, a handsome face | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 10:53 AM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?It doesn't work for a majority, just because the women are with the men does not mean they're satisfied or desire those men, especially not as much as they do a truly attractive man. I'm just staying prepared for my second ltr to end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 10:49 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Natures/Genetics. Here coems your somplete refusal that there is a limit on how much you can self improve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 10:47 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Not a single one, the two women I've had ltr with came to me first and witnessing how they react to truly attractive men, I'm nevee going to put myself in the situation to try and prove myself as worth thier time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 10:45 AM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I have quite literally watched career oriented women shelter unemployed men for good dick even after he screwed them over, you sound extremely naive actually. If you described those men as stand offish, sex focused and fun I'd be more inclined to believe you. Vibrant paints an extremely inaccurate picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 04:07 AM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Not really. Sometimes you're ugly after you put work into your body and personality and can court no one because you don't have options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 04:00 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Already acknowledged and known before I posted, most of whatvwomen care about are looks, you can change your league if your genetics line up which is rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:33 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Yep you're part of the problem. Main character syndrome at its finest, negative traits outside of looks has never been a deterent for getting laid or even relationships, its all about how physically desired you actually are, and you will refuse to admit that theres a genetic limit on how much you can actually improve your physical looks. Like ending up jacked or shredded and still have an unnattractive face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 01:10 AM |
| 1 | If women were forced to marry beta males in the past, then why do they grieve for them today?Nevermind I thought the post title was more of an analogy, admittedly I didnt read your post, sorry this was a lazy comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:42 AM |
| 0 | If women were forced to marry beta males in the past, then why do they grieve for them today?They don't grieve them, they just want the "alpha" men they lust after to be slightly more controlable/tameable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:21 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I have witnessed it first hand from friends and numerous coworkers usually unprompted outside of the interaction itself, alongside some eavesdropping. I have not witnessed alot of the opposite online or in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:18 AM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I have bad news for you, I am not red pill. Its not a cold calculation its a passion filled subconscious attraction. Most and even that hypothetical woman that loves me still likely misses or lusts after chad, so yes I give a shit because that past experience stands in my way. Most women aren't picking or idealising these ugly men at the peak of thier confidence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 12:09 AM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I get along with most people. I've known this girl whos moving states for a job, for at most 2 weeks and she hugged me goodbye as if we've known eachother for years, people invite me places, I don't end up going because I'm too ugly and not invested in clubbing/partying. As thier boss I have alot of female employees I keep company with and get through shifts, they seem to have no problem with me, I stay mostly away and reject offers to join them out as having your boss in your business is annoyi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:51 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?The hormones will take over and those not up to par will miss out, struggle against the grain of life and likely fail again regardless of whos advice they choose. They'd do it because don't lack self awareness of where they are on the dating and social totem pole. "Nerds" or As deemed by women "Nerdy men" are red blooded yet not popular among women just because you put forward a want does not mean it gets fulfilled. They would be wise to listen if they HAVEN'T Pulled, if they did then clearly it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Half the couples also end up breaking up or dead bedroommed. Most men who end up getting a chance after a break up or even a ONS, it even having thier ex regret dumping them or miss them are usually extremely attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:30 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?So that means you have the thought process of infinite self improvement, infinite possibilities to prove on for an infinite amount | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:28 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?My point is she was more willing to settle and more railwayed into settling because it was the 70s, any guy that looks like that, doesn't stand a chance in 2024, I would argue he wouldn't even make it to celebrity status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:26 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?And if he ends up having a one night stand with her or just casual sex then disappearing is she still in his league? I assume you're saying yes. Also for reference I don't shoot I refuse to. My first girlfriend approached me (that lasted 5 years), as did this girl (2 years so far )and seeing how women react to actually attractive men I refuse to until I am my best looking self once this relationship likely runs its course, it won't go well until then. Its pathetic to throw darts at a board and t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:23 PM |
| 4 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Yet again another deflection to it being the mans fault. Now you're suggesting a lack of self awareness, there are only but so many areas to improve upon and only an amount you can improve within reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:10 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I agree its never possible yet many people act as though it is. People do but they are delusional about the amount of control you have over it. People think its impossible to become shredded and have your face remain ugly. They act as though its impossible to improve your charisma and have people only ever view you as a friend. They also think its impossible for someone to date you and not desire you as much as someone from thier past or another one of thier options they also act like you should… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:08 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Even the woman I am dating would give that same guy an easier time than she did me. It has everything to do with me because thats what women actually desire and if I can never be that I will never experience actual desire from a woman even if they're dating me and yes dating is a competitive market making the chance of me getting picked over that guy extremely improbable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:01 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Knew you'd bring that up. Different standardsand his wife had to actually settle because she isnt attractive either, that is not going to happen anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:59 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I'm saying I think even males younger than me should be made more aware that women and dating and true attraction isn't fully in the cards for them, so they don't have that high hope or expectation that things will just turn around if they self improve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:57 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Im talking from a young age as well. Also many don't know from the amount that to actually whine online even despite self improvement, those still on self improvement , those still trying to recapture thier youth and I dont just mean being single but getting laid too or ending thier virginity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:22 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Last thing. Just because I can acknowledge negative things does not mean it comes from a place of resentment. It is infinite so long as you fail to get what you want, attracting a woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?It lets other men know its ok to give up on dating and say its not in the cards for you, i'm not saying give up on life. Thats a consequence of that being all they know. My "whining" is a consequence of a the infinite self improvement life advice people like you spew. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:06 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?No because other men deserve to know its an actual option, instead of being a slave to hope and an infinite grind, barely worth the squeeze. The woman most self improvers will get will never desire them as much as they desire the next attractive guy who walks into thier job or hell even from her past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:55 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Productive of what? Results again are not a 1 to 1 because life isnt fair, no matter how much effort you put in sometimes it isn't enough. You will just end up a guy that introduces other people and get passed over for your more attractive friends as you rise through ranks socially and financially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:51 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Many men don't need to approach a woman outside of a hello then they'll be more receptive due to how attractive that man is sometimes even without slaving away as many hours you put in the gym and you will never be as desired as that man even by the women you end up dating | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:50 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?You overrate the need for social skills to be dateable with how much women swoon over men they've never interacted with or barely have and have only seem him and exchanged pleasantries at most. Those ugly men will never get that or even that type of effort put back into them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:46 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?So what you're saying the probability is low and men who haven't seen success should still spend thier lives gambling on self improvement paying off for them? Not to mention getting a girlfriend isnt the only goal being desired is also the goal, it is delusional to say you see someone with someone and assume they're happy or satisfied. Tell a guy he has to date the same woman that swooned over another man or initiated conversation with another man because he was uniquely atrractive, see how well… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?What do you have to say for the men who are more attractive but interact with people just as shittily as those that are scapegoating genetics but still find success even lots of it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:34 PM |
| 3 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Incorrect as even when you do improve other factors and fail people still shift it to being your fault. Not that its womens fault but they never blame your circumstance, genetics, luck etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:28 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?And for those who have worked on it and seen success in other areas but not in dating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:26 PM |
| 5 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?What if they improve both personality and body and still struggle. Many people don't bring this up or even acknowlwdge it can happen. All they will do is just point the finger at the man and suggest he hasn't, hasnt rried hard enough or can still self improve completely ignoring genetic limitations or even a genetic limit in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:22 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?You are delusional if you believe that for anything other but preselection. Attractive men are made more attractive by the assumption of experience. Leaders and people with accompliahments will never be more desired than just a good looking man, because achievements are attached to him due to how he looks. Usually its attached to how successful he may be with women but it is attached to other things. Thus the Halo effect. Plenty of other men don't have to put in that work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:18 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Already aware, more so exposing the toxic self improvement infinite loop people push and believe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:15 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Yes however you deny any competitive advantage and downplay them. As if people are monoliths of infinite improvement, my first girlfriend approached me back when I was more attractive around 16, alongside how I see most women gossip or talk about how handsome other men are, I will never not see looks as the end all be all understated advice vs the overstated personality, money status, hobbies etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I'm not arguing that. I more so argue the delusional infinite self improvement people think everyone is capable of. More often than not people suggest that than suggest, its just luck of the draw or due to poor genetic or evironmental limitations in being objectively attractive or even charismatic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:11 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I agree with the last sentence to an extent. Most dating advice howevee refuses to acknowledge any limit on improving yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:09 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Look at the comments. You'd likely find similar on any dating advice spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?5/10 women are looking for 6/10+ men nothing below themselves even if its just in terms of looks. This gets truer the younger you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?The way nature works, there isnt a right person for everyone. Many refuse your point of view and to admit sometimes its just luck, or crappy genetics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:03 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?My ex is fearful avoidant. With that observation objectively its reasonable for men who are virgins or struggling to become attractive shitty people to secure they're not left out/behind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 09:01 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?The actions he chooses border on insanity if the outcome he supposedly should be searching for is unattainable despite actions to pursue it. Hence the toxic loop of self improvement | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:58 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I am willing to but part of me refuses to participate in a rigged race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:56 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Im aware, usually the spark seems to come down to looks or appears that way as people attempt to not appear shallow. In my observation women try harder for pretty men. This post is more so exposing toxic self improvement mindset where there are no genetic limits or any limitations on how much one can improve | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:54 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I had this mindset since age 10, the thought process comes from how I was treated at that age by girls and nothing much but the 1 girlfriend to offset my thought process. Even then she only proved me right. Was only exposed to the internet at age 14 and I don't really consume red pill or black pill content, at most some content of women complaining or stating that other women should do x y and z to improve thier dating life Perhaps its confirmation bias but usually I'm pretty on the nose on what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:51 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Already aware, more so outting the toxic self improvement mindset people peddle and delude themselves thinking effort is a 1 to 1 ratio and basically act rhat genetic limits don't exist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:40 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?That is the point of this post, outting the ridiculous ideology of those that think effort is a 1 to 1 ratio and that you can't be screwed over due to chance/genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:37 PM |
| 6 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?The post isnt about pointing the finger at the opposite gender its about people like you refusing to say you can point the finger at nature/genetics/chance. Life isnt fair its not going to give you a 1 to 1 ratio or anywhere close in terms of effort. People like you even bash men who give up on dating and don't complain because your fragilw worldview is deeply seated in delusional main character syndrome idealism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:36 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Some don't have women interested in them due to how they look, especially how they look in comparrsion to other dudes they interact with, pursue them or in the man in questions shared social circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:33 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?The ex had qualities that made the person pick them that they will look for in ither partners, sometines qualities that are rarer than others they can't do without that you can barely prepare for or live up to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:31 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?The post is more so at admitting sometimes you can point the finger at nature/genetics, sometimes all thats wrong with them is physical attractiveness and you can only do but so much about that despite what people like you believe. Life isnt fair thus meaning it will never give you a 1 to 1 ratio for your effort or how you navigate life. Are you really going to sit there and tell me someone who looks like danny devito without the status and fame can just self improve and personality his way into… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:29 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?You are delusional, the post isnt about pointing the finger at someone else, sometimes you point the finger at nature and the hand you were dealt. If I'm advocating for anything to be blamed its genetic limitations. The post is about peoples refusal to admit that sometimes your negative dating circumstances isnt ANYONES fault not even the man in question. You are the one eager to point the finger. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?You are always competing if you don't meet thier looks threshhold , that is true for a not insignifigant amount of women and people like you refuse to admit that there are limitations on what you can do to physically improve. My 1 and only girlfriend approached me, I will never under any circumstances ask out or approach a woman based on how I see them approach attractive men and the one experience I had when I was attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:21 PM |
| 3 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?This post is about not about pointing fingers, its about the fact that men have the finger pointed at the them a majority of the time they ask for dating advice, or complain. Women barely get that. I already advocate often for solutions that would get me a warning or a ban on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:18 PM |
| 3 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?That will not get you actual desire. It will get you women in a way but actual love and desire it will not get you that. An example sure they may be willing to date you but they will never swoon about you when they walk out the room like a man they actually find attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:16 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Its a little bit delusional to say you're not competing with her ex, women get broken up with too as well as there are good qualities about her ex she will search for in every man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Some nessecary things are out of your control I'm glad you pointed that out but you still sound like you think its impossible for that to hold him back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 08:12 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Nature. I' not advocating for anyone to blame anyone else but sometimes its not the man in questions fault. Something you very obviously don't believe because your first thought is to point the finger at someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?It doesn't if you can't get your foot in the door. Which is largely genetic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:34 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Sure, but many WILL accuse you. Along side my main point, you neglect that sometimes there is no way to improve your potential or yiu have already maxed it out and its lower than needed to date | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:32 PM |
| 2 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?You neglect that sometimes there is no overcoming these struggles due to genetic or environmental limitations | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:30 PM |
| 3 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Genetic limits exist. You can only go but so far. What do you say to a man who has gone to insane lengths personality wise and physically but his face is still objectively ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:29 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Yet people like you cannot accept or put forward that sometimes you can improve and improve but being an objectively attractive person isnt in the cards for you and that personality is not as important as you put forward because you won't even get a chance to put it forward before people put you in a catergory of not someone they're attracted to due to your face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Already aware. I'm more so trying to reach consensus and acknowlwdgement that MOST people believe the man is at fault for his unsuccessful dating life. Too many people expect a 1 to 1 ratio of effort to success especially in dating when life isnt fair. Thinking that if they just try hard enough they shoukd achieve something that really is up to other people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:24 PM |
| 0 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Its not negative thoughts, they're not positive either but sometimes things widely participated in like dating just isnt in the cards for you and letting go of the main character delusion is healthier than thinking life is a fair 1 to 1 ratio of you get what you put in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?People love having control. Selling that idea serves thier own world view and makes them money alot of the time | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:19 PM |
| 1 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?Sometimes things are too late. Like that man will never experience teen/young love let alone a woman being immaturely in love with him due to women maturing, his own genetic limit etc. Sometimes you start too late because people feed you "women don't care as much about looks" or x factor that us underplayed in alot of average dating advice. Sure some will complain but most would be more willing to accept thier fate if there wasn't a lie or hope to push them to struggle fof something that is extr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:17 PM |
| 4 | It is always a mans fault if he can't attract women in a majority of peoples minds?I know, i'm just tired of people pretending you have so much control over if your dating life even happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 07:11 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failThere is no way to know how a woman will react until you do so. Me being excited about a game is not the same as my insecurities compounding ontop of eachother. Womem react well to positive vulnerability. Negatively despite trying Men are more willing to be there for and console women than other men and In my opinion yes they have a greater tolerance where they won't think negatively off her for being vulnerable or are more ok with a neutral outcome/knowing it takes time to bounce back because i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:58 PM |
| 2 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2They flipped him off and called him shrek | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:39 PM |
| 0 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2Most peoples advice is going to be extremely basic because they don't want to admit what actually led to thier relationships and the randomness of thier success or underratting the more "shallow" biological reasons they started talking. If it was as simple or as impactful as they believe having common interests nerds would be more popular with women than players. Having common interests is usually THE ONLY reason two people who have a capacity to be attracted to eachother even met, it also makes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:37 PM |
| 4 | "Having common interests" is one of the most overrated pieces of advice when it comes to dating, part. 2People are more willing to compromise on values if thier partner looks good given that they don't believe kicking puppies and punting toddlers is the norm for example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:25 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failYes and that emotional support cap is also effected by gender expectations that even women have. It is far more common or expected for women to be vulnerable/emotional in all manners of places but for men theres a time and a place and a smaller threshold for how ugly those emotions can be even if he eloquently states or expresses them. It is also expected of men to be less blindsided and more stoic especially with negative emotions. It is a net loss to open up to any woman you're dating or plan … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:22 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failIt is slightly relevant, but most women even most friends only want you to open up until it starts effecting them. Thid is especially true with women you're in relationships with. Also in my experience the want for a man to be vulnerable with them comes from self satisfaction like playing cupid with your friends love lives The loss of a loved one you are having difficulty getting over so you confide in them. Women have a shorter fuse for downtroden emotions and mostly won't add to her desire for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:12 PM |
| 1 | What does this sub think of the adage “women are human beings, men are human doings”People downplay how common cuck relationships are, its why the word gained traction as an insult, ironically the people who use it as an insult probably partake more in it because its still niche, that it barely carries weight. Most people use insults based on the values they have, anyone calling you soft is proud of being a hardass or believes other people value being a hardass as an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4Men: Do you expect women to cook for you during the “talking stage”?If thats how she shows love sure. I pride myself on cooking well for myself with my weightloss and protein goals. Started out just mimicing fast food recipies because I craved them but wanted to save money learned how to do alot of things especially quick meals and cutting Even still. Its time consuming to cook. If the woman I'm tapking to has time to cook and willingly does so it is only a virtue. Alot of bitter angry regretful women love convincing other women to do less, so they aren't as reg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it a man's responsibility to turn a woman on?Yes but you can't force it. The redpill pushes you becoming DESIRABLE in multiple aspects. Physically financially and status wise and having an addictive masculine personality Though status can only come from the others. It is almost always painted as more negative that the man isn't fulfilling his duties as a partner because women are viewed as inherently doing so especialy since gender roles for them have lightened up. Mens have aswell but to a much lesser extent as being a breadwinner/go gett… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:17 AM |
| 0 | To the men here who believe relationships = friendships + sexFriendship is a relationship as not all relationships are romantic but usually frequency and friendliness . They are your most comfortable company, anyone that puts your day at ease is a friend, that can look like emotional support, cracking jokes and having fun, frequenting places together (usually similar hobbies) etc. Romantic relationships cannot exist without sexual attraction. Romantic relationships are friendships but in a more admiring light and deeper than normal friendships either thro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:04 AM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failI disagree, I understand "Mask" sounds malicious and devious butbit isnt. I also think it fits because its not that persons base self, they're trying to upgrade or augment thier personality in some way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 10:45 AM |
| – | Would you rather date someone based on how they think, or what they do?I know they're not seperate, actions usually reveals the actual stronger pull/incentive for you as a person where what people say is usually the ideal they want to embody, come off as or what feeds thier personal just world fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 07:39 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failAll I've done in my life is introspect because I wasnt raised with inspiration or a spark of excitement. I think you're having diffuculty understanding what I mean. Masks are literally our motivation ideals and whatever else we aspire to be. Anything you have to artificially retrospectively achieve that wasn't put into you or came out naturally is just a mask. Its not a bad thing but to get to the habits you want for yourself usually people who find the most success always put on the mask of som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:48 PM |
| 7 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.Yes but what they view as virtious is does not in anyway mean morally virtious or even line up with the definition of it. I think the requirement is he has to be desirable, bad/terribly toxic men do better with women as whole because they usually have much more sex appeal than the average man who would be more virtious than them. Alongside many women lust after celebrities, it only stops when the women age or acknowledge they're less desirable than other women targeting these celebs/athletes thu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Porn is not the problemI know asking this will always prompt being made fun of but what is your opinion on vibrators with that same logic? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:27 PM |
| 1 | The porn problem will never be solved1st: you heavily underestimate the horniness of males espevially as teenagers. Many could have sex and that same day masturbate later on because your girlfriend is at her house, no private time together or isnt in the mood again. 2nd: no one starts out addicted to porn, they search out porn because its actualization of thier open sexual imagination. You imagine something, few days down the line, search out something similar online to get closer to the fantasy. 3rd: I agree just leave unpopular m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:25 PM |
| – | Physical attraction isnt a shallow thing to desireIts only shallow because people constantly hide behind other things as reasons not to date a person or make them wait for sex when others didnt. Like claiming to not go for looks when everyparter up until then has been average to good looking. No you just have a higher ceiling for looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:17 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever encountered a woman who shattered your worldview?Not really, she only confirmed it and continues to confirm it since I haven't heard from her in years | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:14 PM |
| 7 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.Half the women that enjoy casual sex are fishing for a sexy promiscious man they can latch onto, sex is also a confidence builder for women too. While half of all women may stop participating, they more thsn likely experimented in how it feels, the interest is there, they just don't want to feel judged | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:10 PM |
| 14 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.You remember him because its rare and not the norm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:06 PM |
| 22 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.They don't need to be virtious, evidejced by the statistics of single mothers. Women are not a monolith to be pedestalized. To suggest women are all searching for virtious trusting men you're taking away any agency of them as a human being | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:04 PM |
| 17 | Why do people act like modern women are “easy” or that all they want is to hook up? Most women are not interested in casual sex whatsoever.I read all of that and clearly him being around is not a requirement, especially since it comes down to a vague silent promise apparently or apparently 40% of men are just master manipulators that only fuck themselves over by spawning a child | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 06:02 PM |
| 0 | Do you think men should ever show emotion in front of a woman?The more burdens you place on a woman the less she will want to be with you/around you period, so don't put any burdenful emotions in front of her. How dare you want her to reassure your jealousy is just in your head after you held it in combating your own emotions, "you should stop being so insecure." Most women get lured in or manipulated by a good lighthearted ltime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:59 PM |
| – | Would you rather date someone based on how they think, or what they do?It does make sense, if you actually analyze peoples thought process especially with dating its usually contradictory. Like someone saying they don't date for looks but every partner has been average to good looking. That implies that person has a higher standard for looks than they believe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:54 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failAlso agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:51 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failEh thier likely down fall will come as most couples end up breaking up. What you said is also borderline pointless as though there is never a valid reason to have any stagnation or failures indating and that the act of complaining or venting completely invalidates numerous peoples experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:46 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failBeyond that, you can't always be heading upward as a human. One of the things everyone should know form a young age is people like family, friends and anyone you're in a relationship with will let you down more than we care to admit. Yet people stay dramatic victims. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:43 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failSounds like you had a more positive mask than many other people. They can be positive or negative. Did you still have sex while single or was it complete singlehood? Not everyone can just introspect to find a loving person inside, sometimes you were born without support, no positive reinforcement,feel like you missed out on something most people were experiencing etc. I'm more so stating this post because everyone is so dramatic not even just on this reddit but just accusing everyone they see of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:42 PM |
| – | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failI'm saying they find difficult and usually have to work on not viewing thier partner differently after a vulnerabke moment. I'm also saying EVERYONE has a mask on that eventually slips. It is literally the epitome of no one is perfect or everyone is going to dissappoint you at somepoint. Also what you said doesn't immediately disqualify the later of what you said, a woman can not care for a vulnerable partner but have a mask on that she does | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Obsessed with the gym atm, boxing, card game/comic book shops, gaming. I was into martial arts but I certain teacher killed that for me at 16 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 03:55 AM |
| 3 | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failI'm not an old man at 23 but the internet has lessened the blow from some of the consequences. I also argue the reverse actually, too much social accoungability where you could go viral for your reaction, like a man recording a legitmately autistic employee having a mental breakdown, to show how "unprofesional" he is,acountability at least in the world we live in now where people think everything should just workout, most people run rather than embrace | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 03:52 AM |
| 1 | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failSure they change but that doesnt make them perfect or even that different from how they were prior especially in relationships/dating, people closer to you will always see your mask slip, either way its almost never an intentional,malicious choice or doing, most people are just a lil dumb | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/06/24 03:45 AM |
| 5 | I believe most people in dating are working on themselves emotionally and failNo most or at least half of those men would never actually categorize themselves as bad or lacking. My theory is proven by the amount of people aware of thier pitfalls as a person but lack the introspection and emotional intelligence to actually change and help themselves. Again most people are not masterminds, they usually fail and try to attempt to avoid the consequences of failing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Men are never allowed to be "Good enough"As a man you're born into constantly proving yourself to people even your parents, friends, even when you have a girlfriend. The less you do the more likely she will leave you. The more attractive you are as a guy the less you have to do at least in the area of dating at he very least. It is what it is but the painful part is when people deny this.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 10:23 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Thats the point of this post, I already know some of the answers I'm looking for an answer I haven't contemplated or attempted yet in a random burst of "putting myself out there". I've mostly given up and accept I'm just not a male that will find another partner, as stated I still conversate with people and have a good time with them but I don't think romance is in the cards for me outside of my 1 relationship and vaguely online before I show my face ehich I actively avoid now. It has been extre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:49 PM |
| 0 | What should men do to vet if a woman is safe to be vulnerable with?Best advice is get them gossiping, women are very open once they are comfortable around you. People in this thread will still act like there aren't dating chameleons who are still working on themselves and do thier best to be a decent person then fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:28 PM |
| – | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?How would you help a blackpiller who actually sees success because of the black pill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:23 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Its less excuses more so saving myself embarassment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Question for women who make rules for some guys and break rules for othersEventually. Maybe, until then that man is stuck trying harder than the other dude ever have to just from time alone. "Gives it up for" is a saying because well who would've guessed, sex with a woman for men is highly sought after because it isnt guaranteed and is someone she has to consent to. Also. "Gives it up for" is also factual in this context because is quite literally holding it from the new man because she "wants to be with someone" . Doesnt matter her reason she withheld it from the man… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?I'm taking womens advice and being friends with women before trying to date again...the issue I face is I'm not interested in most hobbies that lead to meeting women. Sure there may be a girl or 2 at the local comic book or card shop, I,d rather not bother her because I know its a sausage fest, they're usually taken or are just there to play, but the gym and boxing is not where you go to meet people in general along with other hobbies I've done let alone women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:44 PM |
| 3 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Is it not possible most of thier hobbies has led to them not having female friends currently? Most of mine moved away for college and job opportunities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:40 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Already aware | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:38 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?With who? I already know my friends girlfriends etc, and if I hate the club, most arent going to come. Its also not that normal for men to do that unless they're widely popular outside of a work/school setting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:24 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Ok? Then you'd also know my more negative beliefs here never come out in the physical world. I also don't try to fuck every woman in the vicinity? Wtf? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?No ones called me a shit friend yet and I get along with everyone I encounter I am the closest you could get to everyones cup of tea considering they conversate with me first and end up laughing or trying not to laugh most interactions Most of my female friends have moved away for college, job opportunities so i'm looking to listen to everyones advice that will solve all of my problems apparently and continue to be friends with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:21 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Thats the opposite of what I'm trying to do. I am already aware I'm ugly. Its more so about casting a net to see if I can expand my social circle and maybe if I'm lucky, some women will want to be with me romantically. Even with my first girlfriend I haven't even attempted to ask a woman out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:18 PM |
| 9 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Exactly one of my points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:12 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?I already do. As I keep saying I have no issue talking about nothing, making them laugh and but that doesnt line up with doing things outside of work. Most people want me to stay all day so they can talk to me and because I do great work. I've been there for many coworkees through an emotional time, lost pets, family or loved ones, financial struggles and advice, relationship issues. I am already aware of casscading questions and use them in 90% of interactions I have. I should moreso call them … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:10 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Already have too many online female friends and an ex of 5 years, I need tangible people I can actually apparently do things with since thats the solution to all of mens problems, that people keep preaching on this sub. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:06 PM |
| 3 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Cool it still doesnt change the fact, they aren't social in creating gatherings. Thier hobbies don't line up with mine and again outside of the club which I hate, they're not doing much to meet women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:04 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Already aware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?So most smiles I get I should take that as a sign of interest? My standards aren't very high to my knowledge especially looking back objectjvely on whom I've dated. I have improved myself all I can. Dropped almost 80lbs in 2 years, i've had some women I worked with before owning my own store grab and rub my back and randomly touch me than ever before, I'm more social and charismatic than I've ever been as someone who hates talking, own my own store, updated my wardrobe to compliment my new body.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 08:02 PM |
| 3 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Mine don't really have parties or community events they're just a supply chain. I have people I like from that supply chain but I dont even want to chance muddying the waters with them. Plus the fact they are all male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:52 PM |
| 1 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?I am aware, I am Humoringthe bluepillers and I'm going to socially experiment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:50 PM |
| 3 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?I'm not super hookup crazy and I have deemed myself too ugly for online dating, despite my glow up and work out regimine. I likely could have more female friends if I was more actively pursuing that at my job but I like to be mostly left alone and be detached from it. I provide my coworkers and customers with lots of conversation even though I hate talking and I'm usually socially drained so I need a different sphere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:43 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Sometimes you're too ugly for tinder. I already know what you're going to feed me, redpill schlop but no sometimes you are too ugly for online dating, so the next best thing is to cast a wider net of your social circle. Yes I already go to the gym extensively. I can give you my work out if you want but sometimes the face just does not translate to how in shape your body is. Its not with the express interest of dating, its only that if they're willing to date me. I think game and text game is pat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:38 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?I have chick friends already ones who moved away and I can't be daily friends with , this is more of an experiment to see how limited the spaces actually are. I would just want a friend possibly a friend who has other friends to introduce me to for the purposes of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:34 PM |
| 2 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?I am already aware, giving the benefit of the doubt to see if I'm in correct in how limited these spaces are when people just tell others "go meet women" "talk to women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:29 PM |
| 3 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Its hard to do that when you're thier boss. I own my own store so most people at work are my employees, not to be condeacending its just most people dont want thier boss in thier business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:27 PM |
| 7 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Boxing, the Gym, comic book/card game shops, that is literally it, don't have time for many outside hobbies as I own my own store. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:24 PM |
| 3 | What are places you can go and not look like a creep as a man to expand your female friend circle especially locally?Well not just that sometimes the social cues signal its just going to be a polite interaction. No want to be friends or anything more than friends. Usually social cues aren't an issue, you just have to ask them cascading questions. Like after plesantries I'll throw out a random show I enjoy, ask them if they like that genre or if they aren't someone who watches current tv I'll ask them about past tv or segway to what besides tv they like to do. In most places I go I always have long conversation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Is it really so bad if virgin guys are forced to go for women with experience?Women in general do not want virgin/inexperienced guys even older/ leftover women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 05:19 PM |
| – | Moral character has no bearing on sexual successYou try to make it a moral argument and invalidate the claim by going back to the "people are sex crazed pigs" arguement. Firstly sex can lead to relationships and friendships EASILY especially now, it can make you popular. Have people take you places they know you would thrive. Certain friends don't get asked out to the club or events because they center around sex appeal and relationships. Mind you children are sadly getting involved in dating earlier and ealier, from music to tiktok, roughly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is a great thing. Made everything better.I agree though hypergamy is just natural selection (for lack of a better term) doing its thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is a great thing. Made everything better.Its not that life doesnt move mountains when they do nothing its that nothing changes when you do make big change and being lied to about why. Oh no Jeremy is now more charismatic and makes a ton more money yet is still at the bottom of the totem pole in terms of men in his friend group in terms of looks. Most people didnt ask to be born lol, yes I would date myself even though I don't have looks on my side I can have fun with anyone, and emotionally support and financially support ALMOST anyone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 12:27 PM |
| 8 | Question for women who make rules for some guys and break rules for othersIt xomes down to attractiveness, the guy she makes wait is 9 time out of 10 less attractive physically than the man she gives jt up to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 12:11 PM |
| – | Playing guitar is 🔥I am never going to deny exceptions but who I believe most black men will encounter will not prefer that archetype of black men, so yes. I am also curious your age if you like sharing as this sounds more like a generational disconnect. I am 23. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 09:43 PM |
| – | Playing guitar is 🔥My suggestions, focus on your looks or other races of women. A nerdy black dude with glasses playing the guitar is alot different than persay Bob Marley or J. Cole. Women care alot about Aesthetics. Thats why they have prefered types. Not everyone has the genetic make-up to play guitar or even other instruments thats why even after years of practice you won't even be able to touch people who do it professionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?It likely won't so long as the west stays to its same opinions on work etc. In many asian countries the workplace is highly coveted and people are overworked much more normally. We are only now starting to get a taste of that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:12 PM |
| – | Playing guitar is 🔥You're telling mr as a black man I' supposed to play guitar or peddle a mixtape and NOT get called cringe and corny? / | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:59 PM |
| – | Why is sex so important to men in the early stages of dating?Im chill with him having a problem with it but openly whining about it to the woman is pathetic, just dump her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:53 PM |
| 0 | What do you guys think would be effect of widespread ozempic use among women on sexual marketplace?Most male fitness influeners take peds and peds are shortening thr lifespan and dirextly physically damaging young men as we speak. Im not just talking about huge roided teens, many take it to stay lean with great muscle mass. The use of drugs and body dismorphia is only rising | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:51 PM |
| 1 | So if Women in the US go after the top percent of guys while they are young, do average guys need to wait for them to settle for them when they get older?Others don't need to do it or have had guidance from a young age. Some will still end up trying less than you and get 3x your success and success with women. You could also have half to none of the genetic potential especially in regards to your face and end up middling or with nothing but wasted time and effort, not to mention the high likely hood of you being cheated on or left for another. Good luck to you, in getting laid I suppose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | So if Women in the US go after the top percent of guys while they are young, do average guys need to wait for them to settle for them when they get older?I didnt even get that lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 12:15 PM |
| 3 | So if Women in the US go after the top percent of guys while they are young, do average guys need to wait for them to settle for them when they get older?Not everyman can be a prize, this is unrealistic redpill schlop. Look into genetic determinism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:13 AM |
| 1 | So if Women in the US go after the top percent of guys while they are young, do average guys need to wait for them to settle for them when they get older?Its just redpill main character schlop | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/24 01:12 AM |
| 0 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMAnd you're actively demonising being socially awkward at all. Even in an attempt to get better at it, or continuing to be socially awkward due to past bad reactions to them doing so. As though every man is born charismatic or is inclined to be from thier personality and experiences/environment Not all men are born with the talk to women gene, let alone the ability to talk to them romantically gene. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 01:07 PM |
| 0 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMThey can't stop seeing men as stupid and themselves as victims | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | People that play games, why? Be honest.I play games when I deem someone doesnt actually want me but seems to want to prove something to themselves by idk not being as shallow as they were in the past. Like persay the guy they last dated or slept with had abs or a certain look. If i'm not close to that look or can get the same passion he did I usually start to play games. Give them empathy and get them to open up, give them acceptance and fun then ghost them, I started doing this with my ex who cheated emotionally or physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/24 10:44 AM |
| 2 | why don't ab*s*rs give people "the ick"?The ick is usually just a petty excuse when they're not attracted to a man for other reasons and can't find it in themselves to look past those often shallow or more physical and integral reasons. In my opinion the ick is the womans version of men realising a girl isnt long term material or fits that image. Somewhere along the way that partner damaged the image of what the other partner thinks a man, a woman a wife a husband or or whatever they were hoping to make them, should be. I chalk it uo … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 10:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think women can just passively exist and still get relationships?Yes, they may not get prince charming but they also likely eon't get whatever imagined up, vile putrid male the envisioned in thier head because women always argue (and i guarantee someone mentioned it in this post) quality vs quantity and generally have a low opinion of the hypothetical male they would be with. Its hard to acknowledge that has merit when apparently they get with scummy males they end up picking anyway IF the woman in question has been played, cheated on, broken up with or scamm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 10:18 PM |
| 3 | "You should get therapy", is chasing women all there is to mans life?Most only need therapy because they cling to hope of keeping a woman or getting women through self improvememt peddled by men genetically more handsome than them. What would actually help people self improve is acknowledgjng mental pitfalls of genetic determism. If alchoholism runs in your family getting in front of that will help you more than taking 10'000 showers a day, or hitting 12% body fat because even if you do that you may have been meant to struggle or not have the wualities capable to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:36 PM |
| 1 | The only ones who really care about 30+ year olds dating 18+ year olds are older, and/or unattractive and unable to partakeNo most of them likely were that girl that either did get manipulated or got with an older man so they can feel grown, and have no responsibilities in the relationship + other perks of having an older partner. Some are just so close minded and narratively brainwashed they can't think of a young woman as anything other than a victim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 09:27 PM |
| 0 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMI know. I was simply using another example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Women will flirt right in front of their partner, if the guy they are flirting with is HVMI have watched this happen and had this happen to me, hell I've had the same girl I had been with for 5 years watch thirst traps shamelessly in front of me. Eventually once this type of girl shows he true colors you just need to emotionally detach We split half a universal studios vacation and at the airport on my flight home I ghosted her immediately following the trip home. Personally though I tried to get revenge. It likely wasnt anything to her or a way to break up without her having to do t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 04:57 PM |
| – | I'm starting to believe the dont show emotion to women...I think we can all admit at the very least a woman that won't look at you different for showing emotion is not a majority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Guys are not bad at sex-- you areI just consider that dirty talk personally. The best tactic is cutting yourself off to kiss them or suck on them. It boosts thier confidence like nothing else in my experience | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 11:47 AM |
| 2 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.I am not redpill. Most men are not single by choice, women are theres a huge difference in mindset. Have you had people show interest in you? If you have you can more contently step away from dating because you have proof you are wanted. Eventually yes it becomes painful to hear how wanted my friend is, in contrast to my complete lack of positive experiences. Of course if its something negative I listen and console but with bad there will also be good news, meeting someone new, a memory they mad… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/24 01:12 AM |
| 3 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.More people have had relationships be it short or long, than people have been the worlds strongest man' an olympic runner, or a grandmaster in chess. There are levels to how basic many of these accomolishments are, it is literally expected that at least in or by highschool most people are having relationships, gaining interest in eachother or having sex and being barred from that due to how you look will never not be a defeating feeling or alienate you. What will you do when all your friends get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Guys are not bad at sex-- you areOthers/ your partner deem you a good lay if you get results and can actually please them especially in vanilla . Lets not downplay how much visual stimuli can turn both men AND women on or make it easier for them to climax I agree reading your partners reaction is key to being a good lover. The desire to please your partner is of course good but actually being able to is better,being able to without heavy coommunication and during spontaneous sex is even better. An example fuq bois and players d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | As much blame as women get for the current situation, a big part of the problem is the desperation of men. I regularly see dudes calling the most average or even below average women “hot” or “beautiful.”It is desperation but men calling average to below average women isnt desperation. Men generally rate women higherand have a much lower looks threshold for who they consider attractive and dateable. Women more than men in dating get away with being overweight. What is desperation is everyones rush to end thier virginity or raise thier body count but it loops back to what women majorily want. Sure some women may not MIND a virgin or a low n count man but they don't prefer it, nor is it thier 2nd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: You're alone in the woods... Would you rather be vulnerable with your SO or with a tree?You saying he didnt answer or dodged your question is a strawman. Anything pointing out or attacking something (especially despite him answering you) to claim that he dodged or didnt answer the question is a strawman. Its like a reporter asking a question you have to extrapolate on then acting as if your extrapolation is dodging the question or manipulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 05:04 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: You're alone in the woods... Would you rather be vulnerable with your SO or with a tree?He did answer your question. Better safe than sorry because you have no way of knowing. Most of the time you find out at the moment of being vulnerable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men should stop prioritizing decency when it comes to dating as it's something irrelevant to modern women's' attractionWhat you said is backwards. Attractive people do not have to be decent or moral to get attention' sex relationships. Its a bonus if they do but someone eill always want them until those looks fade. They will always be picked more than an ugly jack of all trades | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | How many men here who fear an embarrassing rejection have actually experienced an embarrassing rejection? And women, have you ever rejected a man in a humiliating manner?Sometimes you get rejected without even approaching. Women discussing in highschool or the workplace who looks good/who they'd potentially date is not super uncommon. If one brings it up the others may be inclined to give thier input. Overhearing all of them laugh and gag because they mentioned you while you had headphones on is a huge blow to your self esteem especially if it happens more than once. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusIts not. Most of them likely have friends but those friends likely don't pursue doing anything with them. They also likely are never asked out to the club where most people meet people, get laid, expand thier social circle etc. So yes being ugly likely barred them from having friends, more friends or certain popular human experiences. They paint the average man as having to struggle to get women or having to put in alot of effort to do so especially in comparrison to chad/the guy whos just born … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 01:02 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusNo more than likely you just had a low opinion of yourself before you believed in the red pill. Mind you exceptions only serve to prove rules, you only point yourself out because ugly men getting laid is not the normal occurance. You sound like a gambling addict of sorts. "Most men give up just before they win" You got laid a bunch, how many women are still trying to lay you after that like chad? How many have tried to keep you and pursue a relationship with you? Or you successfully with them. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The sprinkle sprinkle movement is just a natural reaction to the rise in men adopting TRPAs I keep saying men adapt to what women want and do. Despite the sprink sprinkle trend women will still unknowingly be attracted to the men that participate in it. Sometimes knowingly. . The justification for all this is your inclination was to use SOME, NOT MOST women. So long as most reward behavior that damages them or hurts them, men eill just keep doing that to more easily get women/get laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:47 PM |
| – | How often does being the “backup plan” lead to a successful new relationship?As did the women who actively seeked out a man to cheat with. She's the one that had to give him a chance. This type of interaction is only increasing. Women have no reason to be loyal and connection and loyalty are always finite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:43 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusMen and women are not that different, especially when it comes to dating. Women pick prettier because they're finally allowed to, they're not tied down by having to find a male breadwinner just to have a normal life in our society. The red pill is more bluepilled than the blackpill. You put women on a pedestal of being different and not as shallow or visual as men. That is only because women likely aren't very open around you and you refuse to observe how differently women women treat attractive… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:40 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusYes its possible all the women you encounter. Or a vast majority of the female population categorize you as ugly or not someone they'd be interested in due to factors you can't change outside of surgery like your face. The gym can reveal your jaw line but it can't grow you one | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:30 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusIn your mind no excuse is valid is what I'm getting, which is just as delusional a take as theirs Most blackpillers don't make excuses they're lamenting the fact that they had no hope in dating from the onset. You can't make excuses for something that doesnt exist in the first place. Most only "make excuses" because they're arguing agsinst questions and redundant no impact solutions proposed by the reddit and others they've encountered | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusEh I disagree. Looks are 90% of dating. From possibly rekindling breakups Getting people interested in you for relationships, casual sex and even just general positive reinforcement from women . Money gets you no loyalty Status gets you people using you or who are shallow Personality doesnt matter unless the person is attracted to you in the first place and most people won't be attracted to you on personality alone A combination of these makes you maybe good enough, but not desired and doesnt le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusLooks can also determine your self esteem andhow much positive reinforcement you have in certain aspects of life. You may not be confident in disarming a bomb but you can be confident in dating as an example | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusBecause it lines up with reddits progressive tos. Values held by people. Its the reason feminist groups can exist on reddit and have extremists and outliers but male spaces cannot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusLooks need to be discussed more openly that way younger men interested in dating don't take for granted how important looks are to life and dating. This would also help fight against obesity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:54 AM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusSo you agree with the blackpill. Looks will dictate most of your life it sounds like. All you see is peoples reaction to the blackpill not the blackpill itself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | PPD rule on ignoring look : Same as discussing politics without mentioning socio economic statusIts not defeatist its that the blackpill is a hard truth and those that can't handle it will shatter and lament how life looks like its going for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Why should a man focus on building up his personality(as long as he has basic social skills) when there are 4 or 5 other factors that are more important to attracting a woman?Most women who are there, don't care abiut that nor know that. Meaning there is no difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:48 AM |
| 3 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.Its the ability or option to get a relationship and how easily I can get that compared to other people. Actually not even that, any positive reinforcement from women that I see other men get. I will never get the reactions nor aftermath from a single woman I encounter that a random good looking customer gets from female staff I've witnessed at numerous jobs and settings. From school, to social outtings and again work. By your definition I have been living. I work out, own my own store , have a p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Just getting yourself out there is not enoughThese people usually give advice from a priviledged place. Be it they are already average to good looking, or thier genes allowed them to yeild results from self improvement. Not all men just suddenly become handsome squidward after working out long enough. Working out can reveal your jaw line it CANNOT grow you one as an example. They refuse to admit and believe there can be losers who tried hard and didnt get anything. Its just hopeful delusion to fit thier own world view. Sometimes you don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:24 AM |
| 5 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.Why would you even go outside for more than nessecity when you're ugly, you are just going to be laughed at. There's plenty of artists, more unique and outside of the hobby better looking and more believable then you that they can do something. Meaning that creativity will likely amount to nothing. Unless you want to be 30 something showing off your drawings to your friends as you struggle to get picked up/ a chance. We can't all succeed. Life needs and will naturally birth losers for contrast w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of men under age 30 do you think have sexual options?13% highballing. Average to good looking men who are well groomed and look unique and dont have to put too much time into the gym because thier metabolism isnt bad and they have decent habits. However they need to have the genetic base for this to even work out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:06 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: You're alone in the woods... Would you rather be vulnerable with your SO or with a tree?Strawmanning him into answering, many people hide themselves and other things until you're living together or farther along in the relationship, Things they may not even know is inside them. They may be supportive about other things like your ambitions and more basic complaints you have about your worklife but something that triggers a less positive emotional response could have them flipped on you. " Hey I haven't told you this but I've been feeling a bit paranoid and really reminded of the tim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 11:01 AM |
| 11 | If men spent more time working on themselves instead of chasing women and trying to get laid, they would be a lot better off.The core reason for change is women/ other people, how you're treated is the end goal of the change as self esteem is also a reflection of how you've been treated by others. Most self improvement doesnt make life more enjoyable it takes commitment and effort you're going to be miserable in, while others don't even have to do half of what you're doing. Sometimes mind you self improvement doesnt pay off, life isn't fair and will not give you a 1 to 1 ROI that you put on yourself. Examples: You wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 10:56 AM |
| 4 | Guys are not bad at sex-- you areThe point many women make in response to men saying they need to have sex to be good at sex, of "all women are different in bed, what one girl likes another may not" like what eorogenous zones they like and how they like them treated. Theres only but a few hundred combinations on how to touch and pleasure a woman, its super learnable to the point it gets redundant This same cop out sentiment is parroted in discussions about the prefered length of a mans john. It also solves nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 02:34 AM |
| 0 | Mothers almost never tell their sons what to look out for when it comes to women.Most people do not call women or rather society out for promoting that women behave the opposite and in spite of gender roles, thus women mostly misunderstand what men let alone without ill intentions actually want and they end up getting used or thier time wasted by dudes who "make it clear" what they want. People are not smart enough to learn on thier own or before something happens to solve thier own issues. You can try and downplay it as a generalization it is just a fact, most women will ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Yeah no, most women prefer extroverted men anyway,even other character traits many women are extremely samey about you just have to be willing to look. What you said is a complete cop out her type comes down to face, body type and ethnicity SOMETIMES but mostly the first 2, one of the only things you got semi right. Your goal should be to look even better that women make exceptions for you. Womens types changes, sometimes on a dime or sometimes over time or even 1 night. The mere fact it can cha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/24 02:14 AM |
| 1 | If women want sex as much as men, why do they consider it “being used,” make men wait, and have the ability to go without sex for extended periods of time?Because they want sex from actually attractive guys, women are visual too+ that attractive guys confidence will make her relax more. Most women are not going to be thier full sexual selves with average to below average men. The only exception is if that guy ends up being the best in bed with her, which is a huge IF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:56 PM |
| 1 | Is it true that if she doesn’t like you, it’s just because you don’t have enough looks, money and/or status?Type has to do with attractiveness. Women break rules for attractive men its very simple. That person wasnt attractive enough. Redpillers overplay what they view as "the perfect guy" even objectively. You only have that experience because you were attractive enough to catch thier eye. Status matters, money means fuck all, this is proven anytime a woman gives a bum type of thug a place to stay cause he can give her 24/7 attention and good pipe to be frank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:49 PM |
| -1 | When I pass women irlI already have, the issue is people demonize that too. Some people are not meant to reproduce or have romantic interest, I am one of them. All I am is kind, I still end up the butt of jokes no matter where I go, I hear people because I don't say fuck all beyond a few well placed jokes and just enough to get me through the day. I'm funny because its surprising someone as ugly as me can match anyones taste in humor. Its the best tactic to get people to leave me the fuck alone and get them laughing… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 11:46 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxNo need to lecture me I already said we can change ourselves by saying results rule the world. Why would I lose out on experiences and gaining experience by not mimicing thier behavior? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxLookmaxxing originated in incl/blackpill forums not the red pill,back when the red pill had more blackpilled beliefs so yes it helped me but there are people who lloksmaxxing cannot help. Where dropping to a certian body fat % only mames thier looks worse or doesnt change much about the core features of thier face. Many blackpillers have also encountered the fact that money and status are not requirements for attracting/sleeping with/ being in a relationship with women. So the unfairness of life… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:45 PM |
| 2 | Guys are not bad at sex-- you areI think the crazier part is that women are attracted to sexual experience majorily but underestimate how much sex you need to have to be a generally good lay. Especially with the notion "not all women are the same". I agree but theres only but so much different you can do to please different women. If they're holding on the notion of fetishes or kinks, then thier point is moot and out of touch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxThey are only promoted by women. Women keep picking them they refuse to take the fuq out of fuqboi and the play out of players. Leading to my take, most men are going to follow and conform to what women choose. If women want less fuqbois then even having ONS or letting them orbit around you isnt going to stop more men from becoming that. Results rule the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:17 PM |
| 0 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxNo black pill states the way things work. The red pill is just main character cope where apparently people have no limits and effort is a 1 to 1 ROI. Most people who hear the black pill still have some hope/the redpill and blue pill in them. That is what crushes them, the uncomfortable truth that women treat you and act completely different if you are simply born right. The blackpill is just that looks are 90% of your dating experiences | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxYes most men want to be chads because they get treated better by women even if they're dating, having sex or just friends. Women also give MORE to chads thats why they hate on them after the fact. Its mainstream to hate on them but still pick them and have behaviours that attract or give those men green flags | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxThat's a shocking opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Alpha Sux, Beta FuxI think those women are exceedingly rare, due to peer pressure and cultral changes mainly in the west. Most frat bros aren't chads, at most theres 1-2 chads in that group unless its huge then maybe theres a solid nunber but likely not enough to out number the betas, the real chads you need to worry about are black dudes with curls or dreads, they get womens attention like breathing air because they look good and unique usually. Also what on earth is that middle statement? If women are getting wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Would you rather be emotionally vulnerable with a woman or a tree?The tree, what id it gonna do? Tell the bear tjat pissed on it about my problems? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 09:54 PM |
| – | If your partner cheats is the person they cheated with responsible as well?Yes but never forget its mainly your partners betrayal/ thier choice to cheat, blame your ex above anyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 09:52 PM |
| – | Why do Reddit mods ban you for making “offensive generalizations” that are well documented in science? Or reddit gets grumpy about this in general.Social politics don't care about fallacies, the sooner you learn that the sooner you can actually have people consider your ideologies. Unless you want to hide behind a single word, like sjw's feminists and bluepillers you abhor so much? Hypocrisy is worse than fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 09:21 PM |
| – | Why do Reddit mods ban you for making “offensive generalizations” that are well documented in science? Or reddit gets grumpy about this in general.No you're attempting to insult me while trying to get yoir post across. I suppose I could get mine across more callously, stop whining about what you already know to be true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 09:16 PM |
| – | If your partner cheats is the person they cheated with responsible as well?If they knew you were married/seeing eachother yes. Many people who ruin relationships are sly and absolve themselves by not finding out too much about the cheater before they lay down together or emotionally cheat with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 09:10 PM |
| – | Why do Reddit mods ban you for making “offensive generalizations” that are well documented in science? Or reddit gets grumpy about this in general.I'm not bluepill, you're just raging and not able to comprehend what I'm saying to you. If I touch a book I would instantly combust. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 08:49 PM |
| – | Why do Reddit mods ban you for making “offensive generalizations” that are well documented in science? Or reddit gets grumpy about this in general.It falls apart in any moderated space on the internet. The undesirable end is men flocking to say you're right in expletive ways or becoming an echo chamber. Im telling you I agree but whining fallacy has only ever lost people arguements and debates. Its the same as shouting or screaming. People refuse to hear you when you scream or lack eloquence. That could range from them interpreting what you say under thier loose definition of mysogyny. This is why I say any platform is never a platform for… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 08:41 PM |
| – | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting them"Conspiracy" lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 08:16 PM |
| -3 | When I pass women irlIt is natural selection. You're competing with those guys, guys online she happens to give a chance to orbit, you're also potentially competing with women if she's bi and you're also competing against singlehood lifestyle which isnt bad for women. Any competition at all is natural selection so long as it is not common for personality to win over fitness, which it isnt. I've never seen an attractive guy not get a date no matter how reclusive he is and what anti social traits he displays, somethin… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Mothers almost never tell their sons what to look out for when it comes to women.Gender roles are relevant to knowing what a man wants even if you disagree with them. Im talking about women being known for being nuturing and kind and nice, most arem't or just have a mask of being so. Its not a strawman due to how many masks people wear socially | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 05:34 PM |
| – | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting themThey are because almost every single break up or divorce the woman has already mentally left. Its true for men too, but most men are more likely to break up or leave as a kneejerk reaction than women who give you silent chances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 05:18 PM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityHaving a connection, relating to eachothers experiences, daily or in a large past event, being eachothers good company and bringing things for eachtoher to do isn't friendship? I do agree most guys give this to women too freely especially if they have an interest in her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 01:00 PM |
| – | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting themUsually its the last especially given the correlation of that and unsatisfied house wives/the orgasm gap etc. People disregard cause and effect when they need to suit thier own narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:58 PM |
| – | A lot of people on this sub have no conception of how attraction works and I think that’s actively hurting themThey are likely getting worse treatment if they're married the people around or the woman herself likely think the man is lucky to even have her. Theres a difference in being good enough vs being sort after and that will drastically effect your quality of life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:56 PM |
| – | Women enjoy sex, but is it ever mentally "fulfilling" to them?Extremely mentally fulfilling given you're good at it or are extremely good looking that she's visually stimulated enough to climax easier. Women care a ton about setting and also the primal aspect of sex. Not to get to nsfw but non-consensual fantasies are common amongst women for a reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:52 PM |
| – | Women enjoy sex, but is it ever mentally "fulfilling" to them?Another insult. Another example that sex, lust and looks are the only thing that matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Mothers almost never tell their sons what to look out for when it comes to women.Some care but don't know nor were nevee inclined to find out what a man wants and dismisses most males even ones she dates as just wanting sex. Society also tells women its a bad thing to be a virtious woman or one that fulfills any gender roles. Most women are not nurturing to thier SO because its not a requirement to get a man as well as, society tells them they lose out if they are. Thats why the stereotype exists of women leaving when a man is down or persay gets laid off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Mothers almost never tell their sons what to look out for when it comes to women.Its because they genuinely don't know nor care. Most women have no idea what men want outside of the stereotypical "men are people who only care about sex" Alongside the anger and disgust when anything at all regarding gender roles or sometimes even human decency is expected of them. They also are not incentivised to care. If any woman states she cares what men think and need she will be met with warnings of "be careful of thier manipulation" especially if sex is on the list, she'll be called a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:43 PM |
| -18 | When I pass women irlDon't but I do advocate for you to give up completely on romantic relationships. Society both apparently wants us to know that having even just one romantic partner sometimes doesnt happen, but also doesnt want us to have a doomer or negative mindset that dating is natural selection at play. It can't make up its mind. "Yes you're not entitled to a relationship or any romantic interesr but you're not allowed to give up trying for one" | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 12:36 PM |
| – | Why do Reddit mods ban you for making “offensive generalizations” that are well documented in science? Or reddit gets grumpy about this in general.Not on the internet. Its not a fallacy. The only thing silencing opinions is reddits/societies polotical correctness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:33 PM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityPSA most chicks on discord are going to only be interested based on looks they are also almost always "involved" with numerous people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:31 PM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityYet women demonize men for trying to date friends lets not forget how many of those friendships are extremely short lived before those 2 people start getting interest in eachother due to mainly looks but a bit of personality maybe some bonding. Sorry but if a female friend had a choice between a guy she has a middling connection with and is average to good looking vs a chubby dude, the middling friend is getting picked 100% of the time No dude should take this as evidence he can get out of the f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:29 PM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityPersonally I go to the gym, play card games, critique movies, study psychology, look for reasons to even attempt dating and work just at or under 40h a week. Most people I encounter I can't not make them laugh and have a good time. That shit doesnt matter unless you're attractive though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:24 PM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityExpanding your social pool simply expands the amount of women that will put you in a low tier of datable prospects if you're in that pool at all because you are ugly. Doesn't matter if your personality is good, Daveys personality is passable and he's way better looking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:21 PM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityWith a woman some men do. You're going to say "normal conversation can lead to relationships/romantic interest" many men don't have to do that and can lead with a more sexual approach from the get go or talk to female friends in a specific way vs male friends especially if there is light interest. Next you're going to hyperfocus on me pointing out sexual encounters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 12:18 PM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityIve preached this whenever someone suggests, oh its a problem with your personality. People also underplay how much personality chad has to put in before its filled by the women who wants him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:52 AM |
| – | This Sub really undervalues the importance of social skills and PersonalityNot just more attractive women he will get more women in general through his entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:50 AM |
| – | Bangmaid is a loaded term that adds nothing to the discussion about relationships.Its just another word to trivialize mens issues, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/24 11:47 AM |
| -17 | When I pass women irlUnless the guy is handsome enough | /r/ExRedPill | 24/05/24 11:40 AM |
| 1 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.Yes thier feelings are effected by your looks and everything you are. If it wasnt the case people wouldnt be treated differently in dating, but they are. They don't need to be in love with you to treat you better or worse than the last person based on what differences you have and it doesnt have to be anything deeper than your looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menJust because I'm poor doesn't mean I work with and only observe poor people lol. I own my own store and 80k a year is jack shit in new york city. A thug, meaning someone who has to couch hop and cheat from woman to woman to keep a roof over his head, has a limited high risk income, a felony to boot and can't keep a job for more than 3-4 months is going to make her enough money to get out of poverty assuming the girl he's with isn't dating down because he's pretty, has a plug and can fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:50 PM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.My comment glitched out. This is a reply to the last half of your reply. Prison is also a precaution that does fuck all. Criminals turned it into a rite of passage and a way to get street cred. Women dating bullies tells men they can be a bully and still get rewarded for it. It doesn't discourage the behaviour, it simply makes more bullies. My arguement is that if women expected more from or didnt lust after morally shitty men, there would be less morally shitty men. If men didnt lust after larg… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:39 PM |
| 0 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.The way you talk implies these men are extremely rampant, despite you saying most men are not like this...you are just outraged and emotional that it happens. Could the woman that was abused not just have picked a different man? Most abuse does not blindside close friends, family etc. 61% of men are single and looking to change that only 38% of women are single and not looking. 62% of women are single and not looking. Male virginity has tripled in the last decade, around 32% of men in the same a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 07:20 PM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.Those women choose men with Risky traits, I dont know what to tell you? You are literally treating this as an intense rampant issue because you are saying men who are rejected are violent instead of a violent man was rejected. Those men that lash out are even rarer than men that end up abusers. Most women in relationships are not being abused, what sets those relationships/peoples behaviors apart? Nor abused into submission of being in a relationship with that man from the start Most men are not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 06:48 PM |
| – | Are we dating the same Man?This is why I keep saying thers objectively good looks, personality traits etc and I'm tired of people saying its all subjective. No people who generally look good will have it easier than most average people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:49 PM |
| 1 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.No I think women date men more prone to abuse. She could've said yes to a different guy or only decide to date a man with x preferences. She didnt. Abusive people focus more on the lack of control than other people (Another red flag to hone in on as the relationship progresses) SOME men get violent, most men are don't. Most men have stopped approaching women because they've been blanketed as rapists, creeps, violent mysogynists etc. So even the subsect of men that are willing to approach, usuall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:31 PM |
| 0 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.Yes they decide that based on your physical appearance which you can maximize and have the potential to turn out great, average or bad which is a cause of YOU doing something. Som You can get surgery You can hit the gym You can take up hair care skin care They decide that off of how you appear and thier motivation to keep you. The better you are the more motivated and reciprocal the woman will be. Your response is pointless as if women decide that off nothing at all. Even more idealistic traits … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menJust above the poverty line, so yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:57 PM |
| 2 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.Those men are single yet you claim abuse is a rampant issue. You don't need to be the MOST violent of men to be abusive or for people to be able to identify a likely abuser. To add you literally took a statistic and that simplified the cause as being all murderers are incels because men that murder are single? A better comparrison would be how many violent men are virgins? It is a mix of all of the factors, that male being susceptible to being an abuser, that woman ignoring red flags and warning… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:45 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menYes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 02:08 PM |
| – | Women accept being alone better than menDamn sure right about that considering male vs female suicide rate. Anyway without me being rhetorical. Most women aren't truly alone and you should be aware you're in an even smaller minority than you think. Even you likely have friends or have been hugged for recently than your average man. Its easier for a man to be truly alone, as we are less likely to conform for friendship of just having people when we are desperate. Not just no romantic relationship, theres no friends, no family checking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:13 PM |
| 3 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.You refuse to actual ask hard objective questions. You mention incel killing spree's most likely wouldn't have happened if we told him those that damn and bullied him for being a virgin are irrelevant and shallow and let him build up desperation in his head to be vengeful. How are abusive men, manipulative evil perfect chameleons that can pass by a womans great intuition and emotional intelligence? Abusive people usually feel a lack of control in thier lives before hand like amassing insecuritie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:59 AM |
| 0 | In the manosphere men aren’t being held accountable for the violence they commit.I was trying to think of a way to say that womens choice of men leads to a lot of self imposed problems a mistake is a mistake but theres a certain point where it is self imposed in a fool me once shame on you, fool me twice shame on me type of way. Its true for men too but inherently it is womens job to gatekeep themselves as its just not common practice for women to have to approach men to get the basic human interaction of dating. Even beyond socially, accountability is an adult experience...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Whatever helps you sleep at night. That still uses the metric of "that guy is good enough" its still take the best at hand in terms of physical looks even if a woman is desperate, leave the rest. Mamy women drunk and Horny go home frustrated because they couldn't find a guy good enough to keep her going | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:17 AM |
| 3 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.You either take what you can get. If a man coukd just get sex from a differentvwoman he'd do that. Usually its the exact same woman to woman depending only on how desirable that many actually is. Personality makes women consider you as someone they COULD be with it does not make them desperately want to fuck you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:11 AM |
| 4 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.Men can't withhold sex from women because most men are not desired by women, especially in that way. A chad is a guy with great genes and moderate work to his body, confident because he actually got positive reinforcement from women or others. They are the only ones that can withhold sex from women most likely won't. Another issue is how replacable most men are. Its a sad fact of male life and one of the biggest reasons for our suicide rate. There is always another guy willing to do what we won'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 11:08 AM |
| 3 | Love bombing vs feigning low interestYes but the sex and attention will be great because she's actually invested and trying for you. I lovebomb but in a different-in my opinion harmless way, I just enjoy making women orgasm and have different perspectives about thier insecurities so they can stop worrying about them. As confident women claim to be I just don't see it and still see them living still with gripping insecurity. I dont use my john at all, just hands toys, dirty talk and maybe kinks and fetishes if they have them. Once t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Deconstructing Dating: The Advantage of MenBeing a decent man is not integral to getting a good relationship or a relationship at all. Bullies have almost no issue getting women, even decent women can build an attraction or interest in them. Usually those men look better on top of thier edgy personality. Women also more frequently will break up with a man or divorce him and claim he was too good or too nice for them. Its usually a cop out to the actual reason. Getting fit and fashion is true. More women than men are not attracted to thie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?I disagree that its cope, while neither outcome is guaranteed and men's fertility and virility do start to decline eventually. Perhaps the person is exaggeratting the age it begins but there you have it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:29 AM |
| 1 | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?No because a man with a great career and a nice social circle is very easily seen as unexciting to boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:26 AM |
| – | Who would you say are more despairing. Single Mid 30's Men or single mid 30's women?She's a watering can I can tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:23 AM |
| 7 | Debunking the discourse surrounding the 63% - 34% single men vs single women stat<image> The Pew is extremely well respected and one of the least biased sources for social statistics. Not to mention the statistics for LOOKING VS NON LOOKING (which is usually the point and argument of people that present these studies, are far from even. Meaning the reason for the singleness in men across the board isn't by choice, meaning 62% of the 34% of women left over that are single are not looking. Meanwhile 61% of the 63% of men are actively looking and failing As the rate of male vir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Debunking the discourse surrounding the 63% - 34% single men vs single women statThe arguement of the statistic and male virginity rising is to show how much thingshave and are changing. You completely miss the point of men citing the study. Those men, age 30-49 did not have to deal with rampant online dating comparrisons or issues at all in comparrison to someone born into and immersed within it. They didnt have the same level of competition as they likely dated BEFORE social media was ever a thing, same with the women in thier age bracket. Those 30-49 year old could've had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:27 PM |
| 11 | Debunking the discourse surrounding the 63% - 34% single men vs single women statScroll up and read a few comments you don't shut your eyes to my guy. The statistic for 63% men single and 34% women single is still accurate for the age brackets of 18-29 this also backs up another claim women hate. That most women prefer older men despite huge age gaps. This statistic is also usually used to spur on the fact that male virginity is on the rise. Tripling in the last decade, while womens ALMOST doubled. It points out correlation between the two in that half of those are likely no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:11 PM |
| – | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menYes, even if those men do pursue the more attractive they are or the more status the hold it also effects how easy the women make it for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:01 PM |
| – | Most men dropped out of dating pool, Testosterone Level droppingIts because most men are not popular with women, they won't EVER get that confidence boost of a popular phase or women making obvious signals like they do for popular attractive men. If somehow women secretly desire more average men than they let on they should definitely show it. Some women will argue underneath this saying women have it the same way but no. You are at least desired for SOMETHING vs nothing and not being desired at all and are less replacable. If you just crave casual sex or wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:44 PM |
| – | Approaching women is stupidYou are both over simplifying and undersimplifying the dating process. The key is to remove pressure from the outcome, both for her and you for most of us average dudes. Safety and the ability to retreat relaxes woman a ton. What has worked for me is For any approach mainly warm don't hand out your number or social media until you decide to ask her out and leave it to her to reach out to you. When you give it to her, tell her you'd like to introduce yourself better and get to know her better or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:32 PM |
| – | Approaching women is stupidThats a lie on the part about losing your social status. If a man doesn't know how to approach a woman/is inexperienced and is too nervous to read the room or she misinterpets his approach he can easily be labeled a creep and that can lead to many differenr reprocussions. Men aren't perfect at socializing, there is no guide to approaching women as you don't know that woman at all until you approach. Going the clean cut route "Hi names' x, you're wearing that hair so well(insert compliment here) … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:14 PM |
| – | Men and the “body count” thing for womenMen either need a relationship or as many lays as they wouldve had in 1 good sexual relationship to be experienced enough to be wanted by or able to satisfy a number of women accounting for those women liking different things. Most men here are prudish, more than 10 men at 24 is too much even for more progressive men. Even if he can find it in himself to look past it its jot a positive thing or thing he'd like to be reminded of. Women have alot more ease of access to sex when they want it than m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:57 PM |
| -1 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menThose women are also still women. I've encountered more women that want thugs than don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menIf that were true, women wouldnt lust after thugs who look good and men that can and have to couch hop woman to woman wouldnt exist. And no that man doesnt need to have a huge age gap for her ro look down on him or have that perception of him. Most women don't have to mature in mindset/ who they date and have forethought until much later in life, most people apply what they hear other people experience/thier own onto others when taking a quick consideration. Which is all you get as a young dude … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:27 PM |
| 9 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menWomen lust after men they look up to. Confidence is something women claim to want because so many of them actually lack confidence, many confuse being obnoxious with confidence. Thats why bullies almost have no issue with women ontop of usually looking better. Women are extremely judgemental though they'd have you believe otherwise. If you're younger than her its implied to her she is more mature emotionally, experienced and established than you. In other words most women don't think they need y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:17 PM |
| – | "Everybody dies alone" No shit, but a lot of men are spending their prime years aloneThe reason I replied to this is. Most women have a subsect of men they haven't even given a chance to. Most men are NOT that picky. You can argue quality all you want or attraction. That begs the real questions, can people change who they're attracted to? If not they why should women who have a ho phase ever be trusted? If none of these men are quality men how can they just tell he's not quality? Because he's not successful in wooing you? Lets apply this further to women who only date a specific… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:12 PM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Nah most men aren't but most men are ignorant to how little thier woman actually desires them vs a chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:06 PM |
| – | Low expectations, high effort?You can only impress yourself in the bubble that society presented to you as "this is impressive". I do my own spiteful thing already. I give women the most I can, try to improve her perspective on her insecurities, bond with them, then I ghost them. Part of that is, they're going to lust after other men in the future anyway, I'm just cutting to the chase and removing myself so they can do it freely. The only spiteful thing is if the next man can compete with how I made her feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:05 PM |
| – | "Everybody dies alone" No shit, but a lot of men are spending their prime years aloneAs a black man myself most would consider a nerd just because I wear glasses and sometimes grow out a nerdfro. Black women have never shown an inkling around me of ever being interested in me or other black men unless he had a thug-like attitude, was a plug, showed off the club/gang lifestyle or was extremely attractive like michael b jordan and other things that are at most neutral traits. So ironically as she seeks those memories the dudes that can immediately give them to her or that she lust… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:00 PM |
| – | Low expectations, high effort?This is what the blackpill grants release from. We are not all main characters, half of us will fail. You can only improve so much. I do encourage men to hit the gym and self improve but once you reach your limit thats it. It is entirely possible so slave away in the gym and end up with an objectively unattractive to average face still. Being average is a struggle as well as being unattractive. Your personality could be great and you'll have a ton of friends, only friends period. There will be n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | The idea that men are "low effort" is literally projection from female-dating communities.This is what I mean by attractive men have an entirely different experience with women. Lets stop to think how many of those complaining women slept with those men before they had to put in more than just interacting with her. For attractive men women will give first then demand efforr and interest later. As a non highly attractive man its from the very start and most will be stuck trying to prove his worth lol. Its just nature I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:33 PM |
| – | "Everybody dies alone" No shit, but a lot of men are spending their prime years aloneMost women have a hard time fathoming dying alone with no memories or experiences with others to look back on through the suffering you may have endured in your life. For many men especially with our suicide rate, the experience is, life sucks, you don't experience any desire for you and then you die as a workhorse just to enjoy your hobbies lol. It is extremely easy for a man to die alone in that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:29 PM |
| 2 | “It is a red flag to date a woman who accepts you as you are, because it means you won’t reach your full potential” do you agree or disagree ?For some men who still have main character syndrome yes. For most men a healthy middle ground is good if not a woman that won't desperately try to change you and most of your flaws don't hurt her or others in anyway. Most men have a good enough challenge in life already | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 02:52 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?I can explain how well it translates due to opposing behavior. Men majorily have to lie or ommit thier sexual experience or not go around announcing thier viriginity. So long as they don't build it up too much they don't lose points by any means with most women. Thats why men lie more than women to get sex relationships etc. Its why players exist. Players would have less success if women weren't able to be convinced be has satisfied women before and can do it to her/is what she wants. Preselecti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:52 PM |
| 1 | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menThey see an attractive man or a mildly attractive man and assume he's been successful at sleeping around. Sex is not that easy to get for men. Period. Its just attractive men get treated better and have an easier time doing so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menMost men don't settle because they aren't popular to begin with. Hinge is a nutoriously good dating app but that doesn't factor in those dating apps considered bad as most are awful for average men. Nor does it factor in real life. Yes this goes to show exactly how ignorant women are to mens experiences, not to mention how MOST MEN she will encounter will not be attractive enough to her for that to be in her mind about them lol. Yes. In my experience. More average women are more desirable than a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 01:04 PM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Sorry my response is less aimed at you, more so at those scrolling/ observing. As rhey take your opinion into consiseration | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:57 PM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Women that go to the club or have casual sex usually do and that is not a small amount of women. You can try to argue against my point by bashing them or saying " why would you want a woman like that" or soem variation. Most men have the option of be alone or take what you can get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Why does everyone here think that young women are economically outperforming young men? It's not true.It all benefits you. Getting sex can make you better in a relationship. More confidence, more experience, less nervousness, pre selection from women working in your favor. Getting a relationship can make you more confident, better at sex, better at handling problems in the relationship or at least not unfamiliar with them. They both help you get the other because most women men will encounter do not desire virgins or inexperienced men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Many people decide dates on a glance, or the difficulty of getting a date, can lower greatly at a glance. You didn't deny it but you are underplaying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menA man desiring a woman is the gold standard as she can make him jump through hops to get it. A relationship, dates or give the intimacy she requires. Because so few men are actually desired men are more desperate and all or nothing. Many men think they have a chance with a few women in thier lifetime and aren't going to be swimming in women until they hit 60. Most men either walk away and get nothing for another set of years if ever or they take what theh can get. That is true for many men who h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:37 PM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Women are trained by society and themselves to not appear or be, (whichever) as shallow as men, for thier safety and to keep up appearances so to keep her self respect and safety she has to make rules for herself when interacting with men. "I'll feel more comfortable talking to him or being intimate with him after x" Women break these rules all the time, depending on how disarming the man is in terms of looks and charm sometimes due to her experiences and what evironment shes comfortable in. Tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:18 PM |
| – | Things would be better for both genders if we were honest about male and female brainsNot reading all that but yes, thats why I want women desperately to stop sweeping the need for looks to the back nor how differently they treat men with good looks. Its not a bitter stance I just want men to adjust. Its negative for women because I have surmised that being a decent person was never integral to getting laid or getting a relationship and for the women who train themselves for it to be that it is surprisingly secondary. Im aware a few women on ppd can acknowledge this. Most women h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:10 PM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?That is still how YOU percieve us. Its still susceptible to the halo effect I fully understand. That was rhetorical. I gave the same answer in the response above. I was more so trying to imply how 1 can be gotten from the other and vice versa, due to how synonymous they are to eachother. Neither exempts them from as stated the halo effect or other biases based on physical appearance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:07 PM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Half of men wouldn't date at all . You also pretend its easy to get a date or maintain that circle after a rejection within it. Many women also complain about men constantly popping up in thier social spheres that like them. Not jist how those men go about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Why people don't think that society already showed every way to be romantically successful for menIn terms of dating its women that determine if men are successful in dating majority of the time as only a minority of men are desired, lusted after and are the gold standard of what women want. The rest of us are slaves to if she says yes, what lies she tells herself and who shes comparing us to/she believes she can get. (Example: She only picks for virtues and personality while every single man has had to meet a looks requirement, blown it out the water or isn't actually virtious) And yes a li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:45 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Its not a matter of just asking questions. Some women share once they trust you enough, sometimes you find out through friends of her past. An old lover pops back up etc and you're trying to downplay it by saying "Teenage phase" no this goes on usually up until maybe 28 the earliest. It just depends on how enjoyable her clubbing life actually was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:39 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?I guarantee you they don't look THAT bad. More than likely just bordering on not unattractive. Also most women are not like this. Especially not enough to want to date a man. Be friends sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:36 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Women ATTEMPT to pick for virtious reasons, doesnt mean they end up doing so but from a young age they're taught and told its bad to be as shallow as men. How long that teaching sticks around varies. Like women would call themselves a shallow person or other derogatory terms/ make those terms from others true in thier own mind if they didn't "at least have a few conversations with him", its about self respect along side other benefits. Like attention or truly gauging if the guy is a danger or no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:57 AM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Its that in the same vein women try to give caveats to thier physical attraction as if its different than mens, that ultimately don't make them any different. An example is, his "vibe" how exactly is a vibe and a personality distinctly different that they can be used in the same sentence? Vibe is simply how your personality is percieved by a woman with what you've presented which can easily be skewed by how attracted she is to you and leads to her filling in the gaps of your personality herself … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:43 AM |
| – | A disconnect between stated values and behaviors?Alot of rp content bashes non traditional women, granted usually for underlyingly wanting a traditional man, but it doesn't have neutral stance on progressive promiscious women. Taylorthefiend, freshandfit, @whatever podcast, crisha zed, man guide, better bachelor. All of these podcasts come off as prudish to me except for maybe CrishaZed. I have seen redpill content advocate for simply adapting and treating women how they treat themselves but Most of it still has a red pill rage vibe going on. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:33 AM |
| – | A disconnect between stated values and behaviors?Alot of rp content bashes non traditional women, granted usually for underlyingly wanting a traditional man, but it doesn't have neutral stance on progressive promiscious women. Taylorthefiend, freshandfit, @whatever podcast, crisha zed, man guide, better bachelor. All of these podcasts come off as prudish to me except for maybe CrishaZed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:30 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Only if thats consistently how she's acted. If a guy learns it took someone else a fraction of the time to get you interested in anything. A hobby, sex, a relationship its going to evoke those same feelings. No one wants to be a lukewarm patch when you had passion and drive for someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:09 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Holy shit a woman actually Empathizing with a guy trying to figure out what makes his dating woes. I may no longer be dead inside. Holy crap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:06 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Other men didn't. I almost guarantee a guy trying less hard for you than others you dated, you gave him a relationship, had a ONS with or let occupy your mind more, thats why it matters :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 10:03 AM |
| 1 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?How you look very much so incentivizes peoples want to converse with you. Even if its as simple as not viewing you as much of a threat. Literal serial killers benefit from this. Thats why looks can be described as Disarming. Abuse and manipulation is also more easily found in ugly males than attractive ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:52 AM |
| 4 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?No they're just not that common under the female eye. Most average men are not attractive to most women, thats without mentioning below average men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:47 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Most women here argue against that point despite most anecdote, behaviours and statistics pointing to. Most women don't find most men physically attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:45 AM |
| 3 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Not really, everyone likes attractive people and its not as subjective as you might think. Thats how being attractive works, having a majorily appealing features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:44 AM |
| 2 | How quickly do women know they want to pursue a relationship/sex with a man?Many women use vibe to substitute for looks and underestimate how much someones "vibe" they get are related to how the man looks | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:42 AM |
| 0 | Why does everyone here think that young women are economically outperforming young men? It's not true.Its not just child care especially in the new generation of 28 and under women, many stop to party more often or try thier hand at being influencers, sugar babies. All depends on if their parents make enough to live comfortably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Why does everyone here think that young women are economically outperforming young men? It's not true.Half the men that woman slept with didnt have to have career ambition or actually be established. Half the time being generous the only thing that matters is if the guy is physically attractive. Thugged out dudes who couch hop get more action and attention from women than college educated men lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 09:34 AM |
| – | Turns Out, Blue Pill Bros are the Real Red Pill Salesmen!I am humoring peoples mindsets to show them how wrong they actually are and further emphasize the reprocussions of not attempting a change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 04:47 PM |
| – | Turns Out, Blue Pill Bros are the Real Red Pill Salesmen!Most men cannot bang a ton of women. Its just that the men women lust for and want to change have banged lots of women. You can't help who you're attracted to but too many women pretend they pick partners on virtues | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:57 PM |
| – | Turns Out, Blue Pill Bros are the Real Red Pill Salesmen!Ill scream it from the roof tops like I have been saying. Women want spontaneous sex not having to constantly work on it to get it to work for them. Any pressure on a woman that isnt exciting or her having to teach a man anything, is a turn off as she will no longer be relaxed. RELAXATION is key to getting a woman off. Theres also the fact not all guys have to do an hour of foreplay or sink time into dating her before she is "ready" lol I will also say many women have a reluctance to admit they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:55 PM |
| 0 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Women who think about dating women for mainly non sexual reasons think women will be better than men though they're only comparing tgem to the men they chose to date. Women are proped up to both men and women to be more empathetic, emotionally intelligent etc basically all the things men stereotypically lack. So they view other women as a better option. Simple as that. My ex used to try to convince me if things didnt workout between us when she was trying to gauge my feelings, that she would pur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 03:48 PM |
| -1 | Can we finally end the objectification nonsense? Can't we think critically?Objectification often has to do with sexualization which is something that is frowned upon because its sexualizing an inappropriate person. A kid, a grandmother, a mother, your own family etc. How is sexualizing a random stranger only with the outcome being you approach them to get a date/get to know them objectification/sexualization. I understand a good chunk of men who do it are obnoxious and that has likely disuaded men who wouldnt be anywhere near as obnoxious from approaching women. It jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women that say they can't orgasm from PIV intercourse have never fucked a guy that knows what he's doingMost guys are focused on being the guy to give her PIV orgasms because of porn and 2) because its a relatively rare accomplishment. Penis envy is rampant in men because theres alot of smoke and mirrors about how pragmatic women are about sexual comparrisons between partners and the guy that can give her PIV orgasms can just do both. The better you are the more you will stay in her mind. Instead of her living with regret of being with you trying to be virtious. Men are not wired to be ok with bei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 10:48 AM |
| 3 | Re : Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ( taken down because of the wrong flair)To show consideration. Hey maybe she's not a flowers girl. Guess what I just found that out. Check that off the list if I ever try to plan a day around her. You could, ask a woman what she views as romantic she tells you then is unimpressed once you provide that to her. One of the keys of romance is the unexpectedness of how well you know your partner, and you have to learn what she doesn't like as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Re : Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ( taken down because of the wrong flair)Im talking even general gestures. Let alone more intimate ones. Fucking flowers as an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 01:18 AM |
| 4 | Re : Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ( taken down because of the wrong flair)True but most of that will get you called corny and be lost on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 01:04 AM |
| 3 | Re : Can someone explain why women are seen as the romantic gender ( taken down because of the wrong flair)I think its flipped on its head but overall the expectation of romance did originate from women In the past 40 or so years, men are the ones putting in romantic effort, irregardless if women expect it or not as you can't tell me now (they're mostly universal still) romantic gestures aren't seen as doing too much and men need to get more creative to be seen as anything really romantic. I think op is right as we do away with traditional dating over the past 40 years or so men have to also put in m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Are men to blame for picking on young girls or is it the other way around?No I am telling you how things are, women fantasizing about older men goes all the way to highschool. Not every woman you dislike is prostitute, lol. At the highschool age women love feeling grown. Resources and physical maturity that a man has does that for her, its different than what she has to work with around her. Anecdote from enough people is a statistic. You can try and cover up that the age gap was bigger. You sound like you're panicking. All the man has to be able to do is get her drin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/24 12:24 AM |
| 29 | Why is it SO much easier to have sex with a woman in 2024 than SLEEP with her?Thats just how casual sex is, they were treated likely the same way or were told to leave immediately following sex, maybe they have to be at work in the morning, have you asked them or told them they can stay? Maybe the sex wasn't good enough to warrant her wanting to stick around? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women still deny that men are way hornier? This is the source of 99% of the issues being discussed here.Women are hornier in they're starved for quality sex/orgasms because they don't get that on a regular basis from most dudes apparently. Look into the orgasm gap. Apparently thats a thing. Men are more horny in general, more desperate and willing to sink lower in standards because sex is more satisfying for us more consistently than women. We orgasm i'm gonna say 99% of the time. I think they're being passive aggressive usually when they deny it. Like a "my partners don't get me horny enough or m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 09:12 PM |
| – | If women are delusional about what they can get, as stated before, then what caused this to happen in the media?Anyway to answer more directly to that Satire sometimes logic is just "Sex and relationship good, want partner...man lonely...think about wife...regret" logic is still trapped by a bubble of what values are enstilled in you. Wanting a relationship comes from instinct to procreate, social media (as a status symbol) shows,loneliness parents either a single parent still dating or 2 parents having a relationship, seeing couples, hearing people refer to SO's a lot of things go into reinforcing instin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 09:01 PM |
| – | If women are delusional about what they can get, as stated before, then what caused this to happen in the media?Logical doesn't nessecarily mean meticulous or intricate. Its just reasoning, intuition and repitition. Most men here did not just hear a belief once then jump on a bandwagon. Most people compare stories and experiences of others online and that they know to thier own, the frequency of it then move on to statistics. Media can show you what you want to see sure but that still doesn't dismiss that it can show you numerous cases that support your beliefs. That is why I think everything in life is m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:53 PM |
| 0 | Why do a lot of woman have issues with neediness or clinginess than men?Women only get more needy the better you look orthe more they want something for you. Most women do not hold thier bf in a high regard in terms of looks. Women act completely differwnt when in terms of looks they are either equal to or under the man.. To add to this women have an untamed main character syndrome because of womens body standards enforced on them or implied to them at a young age. So simply having a relationship makes it important or dramatic to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:39 PM |
| 6 | Women, How Often Do You Run Into An Attractive Man In Real Life?This is why connections/ friend circles and looks are everything. Women think you're desperate or a disgusting horny beast without a "valid" reason to conversate with her. You have even less reason to talk to her if you're not attractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:32 PM |
| – | If women are delusional about what they can get, as stated before, then what caused this to happen in the media?Most people do not think about things this deeply,they're just following thier instincts. The only issue is when they're too big for thier briches and overestimate whats actually attainable. This is true for red pill men and entitled womem | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seetheHow do you build experience in a relationship FOR a relationship if you don't have experience prior? If experience attracts 95% of women how would a man with zero experience at least get a date? Not all women are patient in letting a man get better at sex, you either have it or you don't lets not pretend they're saints and aren't susceptible to instant gratification? I am self aware. Being a good decent person is not integral nor synonymous with getting women, even good women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seetheAs a man you need experience of any kind that is what majority of women want. As someone that isnt as desired as the top men you likely have to take chances on what comes your way or whomever happens to say yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Regarding the topic of misinterpreting a girl’s niceness for flirting or something more yea most women on a day to day basis are just being nice. But be sure to understand that simultaneously there exist a limit to how much the average person cares about being nice and pleasantries.I am uncertain if I'm disagreeing or agreeing but most of the time a girl is nice its because she just wants a friend or a general aquiantance that won't pursue her or sexualize her. Most women want general people/friends to not worry about the annoyance of being either compared or pursued. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problemAlot of mens individual value is decided by if they have a relationship or how many women they've bedded or if they even can. Shallow or not this is a fact for future partners, (most women you encounter will want someone with experience, sexual or just in relationships) people around you in your general status socially or people that make fun of you Most men consent to sex/ a relationship the moment they HAVE to approach women to get a relationship. How often do men HAVE to do that to start a re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:39 PM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Sure but not average men. Its always a roided out dude being competent, also the same also wasn't really every popularized for women to be depicted that way outside of damsel in distress tropes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:30 PM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.Sure but they won't be as desired or have as easy of a time as chad, simply due to how they were born. No amount of hard work will make you ever be that desirable . But by all means tell people to date until it ends in divorce, cheating etc. Its all but guaranteed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:08 PM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.See you immediately use an example/number that only HELPS your point. Not actually meeting me on the level I proposed. I hate putting people on a scale but to humor you What of the 4/10 below man? Even a 2/10 woman won't actuslly desire him lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:05 PM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.Sometimes it isnt your fault. Just because you get out there, does not suddenly make people want to be with or sleep with you. If anything you're wrapped up in main character syndrome unable to fathom the possibility that self improvement, isn't always a solution and won't work for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:03 PM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.Women have bedded men that don't act like men lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 12:00 PM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.Most of a womans appeal is in looks, status and money/lifetstyle. You literally had to scrape the barrel to try give men options bordering on fetishist or a complete sexualiyy change. You may like to think it but you dont have to do the same for women. Not to mention women have no issue getting under horrible people in fact many women are attracted to those horrible people unless they are hideous. Thus again making them an average to below average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:59 AM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.Women do approach desirable men they simply arent motivated to approach average to below average men due to looks. Chasing isnt power. You only get to stop when what you're pursuing stops. It will never stop intentionally for you, only good looking men. My apologies you havent witnessed this, it onky adds to my point to mention that at any point if she's interested enough a woman can approach or make lear to a man she wants him. They simply dont HAVE to do so to get interactions/options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:55 AM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.I see the reality. Just because you refuse to admit you've been excommunicated from the dating pool and are forced to slave hours in the gym on self improvement doesnt mean others didnt have to work as hard as you for a better easier experience in dating Heres where you call me lazy. I do fasted fullbody workouts on a 9-5 job usually more. I'm not some procrastinator only doingb10-12 reps I go until muscular failure and focus on stretching/ callisthenics at least 1 of my days off. Over the past … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:52 AM |
| – | Women control all of sex and most of dating.Just because you are out and about and the life of the party doesn't mean people want to date you or date you as much as a man does a woman. I typed this out on my way to my own store my guy, good try with the moms basement trope. Unable to think someone elses experience disproves your own. Even if I did harbor the want to not get up in the morning society would have cut me off itself. Any man unable to get a date has been excommunicated forcibly. Its not a choice, they just werent good enough. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:47 AM |
| 1 | Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problemDue to the dichotomy of men desirable to women, most men don't have a pool of options. Options implying people have shown interest or have that interest in dating them. Not just just people the man can ask out. You imply most men have options or that its normal for men to have options in dating as if they aren't reliant on the woman saying yes to date let alone yes to sex. If it were that easy this sub reddit wouldnt exist and certain statistics wouldnt be a thing. Only 34% of women 18-29 being … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:09 AM |
| 1 | Men adapt to women's needs therefore women are the problemLess men are desirable to women than women are to men. Unless you think average men compared to average women can just go out and get sex constantly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Accountability is redpill's kryptonite as it's mostly there to seetheMany women misconstrue being self centered with confidence, thats why most bullies have no issue with women along with other traits the misconstrue as confidence. Confidence makes women relaxed and look up to a man because though no one will admit it, most women have extremely low self esteem or behaviors that keep it low. Women try to change "assholes" all the time. Women find a beast thats violent or loud but considerate and gentle with them far more appealing it also adds to her worth in her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:59 AM |
| – | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickDating a woman heavily into Kpop emasculated me Brothers turn away, no hello kitty girl is worth it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:46 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of female posters here are trolls?Most women here still believe in love and hope, most men here I don't think they do. I am one of those men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:44 AM |
| – | Is it possible for women to be hypergamic in a poor country?Yes as hypergamy is just a totem pole lol. There is always a richer, morr handsome man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Are men to blame for picking on young girls or is it the other way around?I just dont think the fact they do supports your narrative. As a 24 year old I've heard more women brag about having sugar daddies than you would ever think. I acknowledge they may be lying or the ones that agree may back them up to prop themselves up but younger women most definitely desire older men. If not for looks in a smaller age gap, then resources, or lifestyle. Hell celebrity crushes are also a part of this... Men are "obsessed" with this topic because most dudes in highschool can remem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:37 AM |
| – | What do “older” women think of younger guys aged 18-21?I don't even need to read your comments to know they view us as harmless nothings lol, you could be at the same level as a much older dude with a wife those women will still over look you. Younger women will too lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:31 AM |
| – | How many minimum value women even exist in the US?They may be in relationships but they are not off the market lol. Cheating is a thing physical or emotional which most women dont consider emotional cheating when giving statistics. Not just that however part of that 30% i'd estimate 5% of that is women not looking for kids or a relationship, enjoying single life and sleeping around. So yeah good luck to the 60% of 18-29 year old men single somehow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:28 AM |
| – | The emergence of men who hate women on social media: why do men do this?Many commercials and shows depict men as incompetent idiots emotionally and physically just for a laugh, feminists have more of a platform than any mra if they even last on the platform. Mind you tiktok isnt american its the only reason comments from those men aren't deleted or lead to a ban. Misandry isnt even a commonly used word despite being openly accepted. A man points out any hypocrisy or fallacy in a womans world view or speaks about mens struggles he is a mysogynist, incel. Speaking of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:24 AM |
| – | Women have called men's bluff. What now?This mgtow stuff is nothing but delusion. Just men excommunicated from dating then pretending its a choice. Here's a bitter fact for you a woman could take the same stance and get laid when she wants to on a whim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/24 10:15 AM |
| 3 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsEh, I agree to an extent. In terms of friends sometimes that return is just friendship itself. Sadly that same expectation translates to romantic relationships. In a way in terms of people telling others that its whats inside that counts, nice guys getting rejected takes away from that in thier mind and its a harsh lesson that how nice you try to be in dating doesnt actually matter. I think nice guys are victims of themselves. Misplaced frustration. It shouldnt be at the person who rejected you,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Are men in competition with women to make them happy or other men?Men are in competition with other men. Thats how biology works. Men compete for A woman or a decent one as highly attractive women not juat in body will have much higher standards. Women are in competition with other women over the best men she has access to. If she knows how to network on social media or uses a dating app thats a lot more men. Anyone not that will suffer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Nice guys verse healthy withdrawal of relationshipsSome of the first advice you recieve possibly from your mother or father is to " be nice" its a shallow definition of what they mean but it births entitlement in any kid that hears it. Not to mention the echo of that same advice online with little to no elaboration since the internet has been a thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Any man here with absent/useless father figure? How are you doing in life (dating/career/family)?Career. I Own my own business. Dating, too scared to do anything long term again. Gave 5 years of my life just to be dumped before I owned my own business. Trying to save my families home, paying thier medical bills etc. Her reason waa she wanted to spread her wings. The usual. Haven't heard from her since she texted me 10 days after she broke up with me saying she couldnt get me out of her head. Since then I do my best to fix alot of womems perspectives on themselves thier bodies etc. Then I gh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:46 PM |
| 6 | It can be liberating to realize that there are both men and women who are losers in this game." you weren't born with chad genetics so you should give up trying to be chad and you have a possibility of never having a girl" Is more the actual message. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:32 PM |
| 2 | It can be liberating to realize that there are both men and women who are losers in this game.Most people who do that haven't given up or are old to the point they can't make a drastic change, they're upset that the black pill is thier reality and fully immerse themselves in this is thier fate in terms of dating and socially. The black pill only tells you to give up if your genes don't pay off when you do put in effort. Most of the blackpillers who do take themselves out have more blue pill and red pill in them than black pill. They wouldnt feel so distraught about being unlucky if they … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 08:28 PM |
| 11 | Do you think men hit the wall when women became educated and financially independent?Theres already a wall for men, educated or not. You either are better than certain males or you don't get a date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 12:53 PM |
| 1 | The only reason why men and women aren't understanding each other is cause both of them are in different phases in datingWe can't understand eachother because we value different things, a man who's never had a girlfriend or a single positive female interaction isn't going to understand when women complain of being annoyed at having to sort out from the bin of men big or small they have to choose from. Vice versa, most women are not going to understand being completely invisible to the opposite sex or having to put in so much work only to have the bar keep being raised for you outside of MAYBE highschool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Discouraging men from approaching women perpetuates a culture in which only the least desirable men approachAhkshully it only perpetuates rhe culture where only the top 10% of men are lusted after/pursued by women. Its a filter for women and also nature. Most womem who complain about being approached are not celibate monks lol, they will say yes if you look good enough and approach in the right way. If you don't how dare you think you are even on the same caliber. Women take that stuff very personally ontop of anmoyance like what type of men approach her, especially if she has something to compare him… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | These women who cry on social media about being single and childless at 30 would not make good mothers anyways, and we shouldn't careThe redpill convinces them tables are flipping and dating won't be shit for men in an "aha got ya moment" but its never true lol. People forget the key phrase " Life isnt fair" in moments like this and it hurts them. Those women will never have a single regret in thier life, there is too much support for women that thier worries will ever be actualized in thier own mind or valid to other women that they won't convince them "marriage and motherhood aren't everything" Or some desperate man will co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it really easier to find romantic relationships as a straight woman?Women will dismiss things as men ONLY want sex but tons of relationships start out with just sex, tons don't sure but the difference between a man and a woman is how often, how many oppurtunities, chances etc you will have to do so. Men know this and most men are not as callous as women make them out to be, most men are not ironclad in never considering dating the woman they just slept with. Usually he just doesnt want to be clingy or assumes she's used to/ok with it just being a ONS. For the av… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Men with attractive (guy)friends, how easy those friends have it with women ?One usually comes before the other, people treated like shit or neglected either use drugs/alchohol or become shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 11:31 AM |
| 2 | Most things in dating that men complain about are caused by men themselvesYou have it completely backwards men aren't even allowed to insinuate something is wrong with a woman on most online spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Thought experiment: describe your ideal companionI hate the term and overusage of Manifesting. But sure I'll enterain it. Physically, pretty face, light curves, can be chubby, just/must smell great, nothing above 7 in terms of body count and just at least a little adventerous in tbe bedroom or at least has things she hasn't tried, age 19 to 50 if we have to specify. Mentally, someone who almost always wants to include me, I'm thier favorite person to talk to about daily things (feelings, struggles insecurities, gossip etc) doesn't go out a ton… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 11:22 AM |
| 3 | Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI?I feel like this will turn on its head. Women will rely on the AI for emotional support etc replacing men even further lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Is the real threat to women in the dating market the trauma dumping AI?Seeking advice from Ai will not be healthy in the future as it will become the new normal and as with everything on the internet, it will be in over abundance. Not only advice but relationships. The less we need eachother the less we interact. It will be good for a time and get worse as it grows. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 11:02 AM |
| – | Do you take the attention you get from attractive people on the dating apps seriously?Most men just get bots in thier dms. Then if you get any matches you have to be careful its not someone using you for a free meal etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 10:44 AM |
| 36 | It can be liberating to realize that there are both men and women who are losers in this game.This is the point of the blackpill. Sometimes it isnt your fault and you get a bad hand to play. Dating as with being rich or well off is not a game we can all succeed at. Sometimes you just dont have the right tools for the job and its delusional and exacerbates pain to say you can accomplish anything with anything you're given. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 10:27 AM |
| 11 | How true is "The 'red pill' chooses you."Pill ideologies in general are just experiences, statistics and what you observe. Some are forced there, some people just grow up with a certain mindset or are Naievely dropped there. Bluepill, some people have a mostly smooth life or are hopelessly hopeful and have that idealism reinforced by seeing people get relationships, or think relationships shouldnt be someones focus because the right person will just drop into your life if you're a good person, thinking people aren't as shallow or that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 10:22 AM |
| 7 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingWhich is ironic as I feel this may combat obesity in men a little, men from a younger age will consider thier appearance more carefully. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:59 PM |
| 8 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingPersonality imo is just how you sell yourself/mostly looks. Women are very reluctant to admit looks will get them filling in the gaps in a mans personality and gets them more engaged with them. Or if ugly she may think they're not as capable as someone more attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | If “your league is what you can get” then women are shooting too high for guys they can only get for casual sexMost men would be fine with someone chubby, not obese. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/24 08:56 AM |
| 7 | What’s considered being single by choice?Being single by choice is being single by choice. BUT alot of people coincidentally do it after they've been rejected numerpus times or have had awful relationship/dating experiences. So usually it just feels like a " you can't fire me, I quit" scenario in my eyes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 11:21 PM |
| 0 | I'm not convinced that women's sexuality is shamed more.Its not as much as of like 2005, the religious community takes up a majority of slut shaming whilst also having the highest percentage of born again christian women ironically. In 2024 women can be everything. A promiscious moral mom that raises amazing children whilst also having her own career. I recommend reading a book called " The Ethical Slut" to really gaze where society is at in terms of all of this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 11:40 AM |
| 63 | "Autistic women are less likely to be single because they're better at masking" No, it's because gender roles expect men to be far more socially adept in datingEh, with understanding a huge bulk of people are still uncaring about it and eventually become numb to it even if exposed to non-high functioning people. One of my employees is a low functioning person, they got the job through a program. I guide her through 80% of what we do in a day the rest I can leave her to do it herself. I do so for her sake, the stores sake and my other employers sake. Most people who encounter her have 0 empathy for her when we get busy and I essentially have to try and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/24 11:34 AM |
| – | In your opinion, what counts as a successful romantic relationship?Dying content together. Being one of the people they want to see in the afterlife over any of thier past lovers (hypothetically) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:58 PM |
| – | "You're not competing with other men, but her peace of mind" actually you are competing with her situationshipsMost of those women arent fucking NOW. Theres a small number of women that have never nor will ever sleep with a man unless its a long term relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Is There Such Thing as an "INVALID" Reason to Not Date Someone?A common saying is any reason you think to not date someone is a valid reason to not date them. It plays at self righteous autonomy within everyone. In your love life you can only make good and correct descisions. Which I agree with if you are fighting a reason to date or continue dating, that person wasnt enough for you. Instead I tell people to maximize the reasons people would want to date you, primarily looks that way when it inevitably fails because greed caused by social media exacerbates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Is There Such Thing as an "INVALID" Reason to Not Date Someone?There isnt that's why I tell men to focus on looks and money alone, you don't get either without developing a personality, discipline and guiding yourself which is emotional intellingence. Every one needs to maximize thier own reasons FOR someone wanting to date you. That way when it does fail because everyone just wants more more more more more, you can say you tried everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:44 PM |
| 1 | How would an IQ score on your ID card affect dating or society in general?Nothing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:38 PM |
| – | You're all wrong.You can draw parrellels all you want one is still worst than the other. Simply because parellels exist doesn't outweight the other. By all means tell us what we should do because there are trade offs to being both men and women oh great fence rider. In online spacss you think you've stumbled upon some nuance, when in reality there are 2 reasons every issue is so extreme, intense and filled with vitriool its because its damned to discuss any of this in the real world and moat people have question… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:27 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.They are that. The cost/benefit is usually emotional or sexual. If I didnt focus on emotional intelligence, destroy myself in the gym and put on my most positive mask. Simple as that i wouldnt have a girlfriend nor any woman looking at me over others that have shot thier shot. Im tired of going through the same explaination with people who shoukd understand. So yes you get a juvenille response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 08:54 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.To deny AFBB is to deny physical attraction outright. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 08:42 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.24, it is quite literally a competition because you cannot provide nothing and expect a relationship. The dating pool has limited spots, you either compete and have importance or you get nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 08:40 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.Thanks for agreeing with me that men compete against a womans past present and future prospects. If you provide nothing or less than someone else which is synonymous in most human brains, you will be replaced by that person or someone wjo provides more. That is all dating and relationships are until you're both so old they canmot feasibly replace you or it would be shallow of them to try and do so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 08:36 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.Its provide something or have no one take interest in you. Individual things or things that compound on top of eachtoher. Looks, consideration, sex. It could be money, lifestyle, charm, humor etc. If you provide nothing as a man people will overlook or dismiss you, end of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 04:35 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.And that will become an issue if she ever feels she missed out on good sex because of social media, her friends love lives,or her past experiences/curiousity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:55 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.It is, being a beta limits your access to sex because of how women view you. She may not give you access to sex as quality or as frequently as someone she clearly desires. If enough women do this throughout your life you won't get better at sex. She may also feel more relaxed with an "alpha" leading to him having an easier time making her climax or having her be more experimental/open with her own sexuality. How she acts towards/during sex may also lead to disfunctional problems within the man i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:53 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.Exactly. This happens in every AFBB situation, admitance or not. Thats why its an issue at all and many people try to paint it in a positive light and refuse to say yes as a human you may have sexual limitations, defects etc. Thier solution is to just get better at sex. Assuming you're having sex on a regular basis or your girlfriend views you sexually enough in an AFBB situation to guide you to improve. Alot of satisfying women in bed comes from how she views the man shes with. Or is everyone j… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:40 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.People arguing against it think thier reasons are valid reasons as to why AFBB doesnt exist. This is proven by the fact you had to clarify we can't compromise on the fact that this is extremely common and the person I responded to only lamented in a way to paint it in a posiitve light. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:31 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.Problems sure but lust wins in the end. Sometimes the problem is she thinks she loves him more than she actually does. You just used a small problem as an example of a big problem that will only get worse as they age lol. Alot of relationships is confirmatiom we're the best possible option for our partner. Usually relationships fall apart due to that lacking part. If its minor those are workable. Sex sometimes isnt. To back this up, part of the reason say yes to men interms of dating or evolving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:22 PM |
| 1 | Men who act like a prize around women are the prize.Only if hes attractive. Women get played by men fR too often to be as emotionally intelligent as they are usually depicted as...no offense. An ugly dude who thinks he's gods gift to women is just seen as a creep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Would love to hear different explanations for the difference in answersCounter point. Outrage over abortion laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:09 PM |
| – | Women settle down with and seriously date lesser men, but still hold toxic men from their past in a higher regard.If it were true she wouldnt have said it to the friend in the first place nor be comparing how good he is at sex. Objectively or subjectively. That means it lives rent free in her head while he had to put in time and effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleIt is as most men don't operate on a you'll do basis, just the men most women are interested in have had more attractive partners or partners at all. For the men that do operate like that its never as big a gap in desire as you may think or he may have simply unpedestalized women. Men dont treat attractive vs less attractive women in relationships any different. You can only settle if you are desired. Outside of that its delusion. For those less attractive women men not pursuing the hottest wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 11:58 AM |
| 3 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleDesirable means attractive my guy if you want to argue semantics I can break it down for you. More men find that woman attractive enough to sleep with than women find average men attractive enough to sleep with. Another way to describe this is most women are not motivated purely by looks to date, or sleep e With because those men are not particularly attractive to them, not because women are virtious. The average men primarily are motivated by it openly. With womenthe need Nd importance of looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 10:05 AM |
| 3 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleYes it very much so is its one of the most important pieces of desire and attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 09:50 AM |
| 6 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleMore men exponentially desire that woman than women desire an average man | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Women can be used for their bodies. Men cannot.Usually is as most average men are not what thier woman desires most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:35 AM |
| 6 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleYou make peoples short comings a crime. You have the same energy of telling homeless people to simply get a job. Sometimes things are simply out of your control. Especially genetics which very much so determines how enjoyable of a time we will have on this earth because yes, everyone is effected by the actions and thoughts of another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:31 AM |
| 8 | Defeatism and misplaced priorities on one’s preferences is why many of the men on here struggleI am one of those guys who thinks things are impossible for the average man. When I say that my focus is on genuine desire from women. Sure they may have a girlfriend. A girlfriend who would act completely different for a chad. Simply knowing comparison is the thief of joy isnt enough to completely refute the evidence I've seen. Anecdotal, other peoples experiences and some statistics. Like ah yes seeing my coworkers swoon over a guy they saw and spoke to for a single minute is totally happening… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/24 02:28 AM |
| 2 | Women love chasing men, they just don’t admit it or flat out deny it.Men have far less rules than women. The intensity of it simply isnt as high for the rules and standards men make. Mind you men are also openly bashed for having said rules/standards. They treat a woman different based on her past not how atrractive or unattractive she is lol. Most men who talk about how women make rules for attractive men simply observe it and take it as a rule that contrasts almost everything women say. You'll get some red pill rage but most guys once they see truth just accept… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:27 AM |
| 9 | Women love chasing men, they just don’t admit it or flat out deny it.Men have far less rules than women. The intensity of it simply isnt as high for the rules and standards men make. Mind you men are also openly bashed for having said rules/standards. Most men who talk about how women make rules for attractive men simply observe it and take it as a rule that contrasts almost everything women say. You'll get some red pill rage but most guys once they see truth just accept it as fact too many women are reluctant to admit this they change the game based on how attra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:20 AM |
| 1 | At the end of the day it is all about power.Some times its about drive Sometimes its about power Make sure you stay hungry and devour. Put ij the work put in the hours Ao we can take whats ours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 11:08 AM |
| 1 | The lies growing upIts because those parents usually have regrets and have parent goggles on and misjudge how handsome and attractive thier son is. The attraction is implied b3cause uour parents don't think yiu look as other people view you. For alot of men you can get girls laughing be interesting end up as a just a friend because they don't find you physically attractive. Attractiveness is the only thing that matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/24 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Men don't lie that much to other men thats why we don't like eachother nor care too much or worse if they're strangers. When we do get true friendship, that really doesnt change even if we haven't talked in 2 years. Somehow you did the woman thing and made this all about you (women) when your own comment was saying men should be more supportive of men. More men support womens rights that women support mens rights and most men aren't going to say no to a law that would help women if you word it p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?When I do communicate properly. Not that I haven't been here all people do is dismiss facts or try and minimize them so if communicating in a non assertive manner does nothing what would you have me do? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Because you refuse to admit the severity of male issues, or even thier existence barring us from getting help we clearly need to satiate your own victim ego, or get retribution on generations that you didnt have anything to do with the gender roles that you hate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Womens issues are extremely well documented and states even move and act to fix them. So it makes male issues more valid when female issues are handled in this manner, most people do not care college is a female dominated area, they don't care that the male suicide rate is 3x that of womens. You seem like a transphobic feminist who think trans women ruin these spaces because they're "not real women" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?That only further highlights male loneliness. As typically the people damning them still view them as men unless they're passing in which there isnt usually any questions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:12 AM |
| 2 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Men can't walk outside and not feel afraid, most violent crimes are commited by men onto men. You're only at that work meeting if you are successful, you mind immediately doesnt consider men who aren't successful. That's performance preassure as if you aren't competent you're rejected and disrespected by everyone. Women have inate value men must earn thiers and you can easily fail at that. Be it you're someones son or just trying to be friends with someone. Men get paid more because they more ty… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?I just addressed that, thats what I mean by the intensity is implied through how short they have been a male, now they can try and imagine an entire life like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/24 10:57 AM |
| -1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Beyond that most detransitioners are FTM | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:34 PM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?You can especially since when passing they can easily highlight the difference. As men get ostracized on social standing or appearance alone, how many dads we're stopped in a park by someone who thinks they're kidnapping a child, how many people won't say hi to you or have conversation when they think you're a threat, they very much so have contrast, intensity is implied by how long they have been passing as male. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:33 PM |
| 3 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Alot end up short too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Yes but one has alot more complaints and woes once passing FtM than the latter and I don't think thats a reason to ignore that. Its like ignoring starving countries because theres starvation in most countries. If people are willing to help and listen, then the true test is how they handle certain facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:24 PM |
| 3 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Another thing to note is most detransitioners are FtM. There can be alot of reasons for this but the fulfillment and being worth it is always a motivator, be it in social fulfilment or physical fulfilment. Usually both, even many passing still detransitioned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:20 PM |
| 3 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?My point exactly, while people want to debate mental faculties the proof is in the pudding. People will not stick to something if they dont get something out of it. If that is satisfaction then that proves which transition is more fulfilling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?You don't understand, relationships or the pursuit of one is less tiring than actively getting quality friends for men and each leads to the other. As they both take basically the same things, be funny, be interesting, be presentable, in both you do compete. Getting a girl (friend) that won't take advantage of you, getting male friends who won't totem pole you. All of that before highschool, now try and get that from scratch or at your workplace. You likely don't feel pressured to have a relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:14 PM |
| -1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Expanding on the percentage of privilege. I'd argue it is less that 50% for the average to below average man. I am well aware of the issue, most points in the privilge debate for men, women do not see as privilege but annoyances same for vice versa we all see that the other sex has what we crave, like having a staggering amount of options approach you, having people approach you, the ability to be openly emotional. I don't see many advantages of being male outside of we can have children for lon… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?No they dismiss the notion men feel isolated and that it isn't the mans own fault he is isolated like you just did. A handsome loner man likely doesnt struggle that much in dating, to not feel lonely is not that deep. Feeling lonely as a male is having no experiences to look back on or have the prospect of in the future. Lonely men would be fine or better off even if they had one night stands, at least they'd have memories to look back on and not the empty void of nonreciprocation/rejection | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Thats kind of the point of this post. People will argue there are yet most don't know of any, and there isnt much documentation for a passing mtf trans woman being lonely or sicially her life getting worse outside of politics and that only depends on the state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:41 PM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Sadly if we did that would take away alot of male ambition. Also no actually that would just mean most people start lying to your face about how you are and how they feel about you, men need to support other men more sure but not start acting like women. Most of the reason men don't is no one supports them the way women support other women except MAYBE thier parents. Sadly scarcity is the reason men are treated this way, too much competition to actually fully help another man. Not just in an "I … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:34 PM |
| 3 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Yes, that's why I think its a good example that males suffer, especially for persay a hardcore feminist who still thing all males are priviledged just for being male, whilst ignoring any female priviledge which is very common in my experiences, along with our self deletion rate being another example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?If they're passing which online spaces can be a work around for they talk about the struggles of getting positive attention usually, its not usually loneliness being the struggle for mtf | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:29 PM |
| -1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Mens workplace is very cut and dry, I know women view this as oppression and many men handle it poorly but they likely treat whatever men they don't like the work ethic of or who has failed in the past the exact same way. Especially men in authority. Not saying it isn't an awful feeling. Its difficult for us to listen to people we view as more emotional, that could be as simple as someone complaining once or expecting a large amount of empathy for the reasons they provide when something goes wro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?I already statedthis. Men deal with having to be capable or lose thier standing/interest of other people, Women are approached nonstop and have to be desireable or lose that and deal with thier annoyance on never being left alone. I only say its easier because women have more support systems and more clarity on how men act. ANY discussion of how women act is immediately censored, colored as mysogynist etc. I empathize with everyones problems but as an example there is no unacceptable female comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?True there is a smokescreen of if theyre passing and societies general attitude towards trans people. However i would argue, most people people assume those that are transphobic or uphold that attitude, are believed fo be men not women, then we get into the whole debacle of feminism vs trans women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 09:43 PM |
| 0 | Is FTM transitions a good example of male loneliness comparative to female loneliness?Yes but fence riding and semantics seems the least likely to do anything on the male side of things in having women realize we have male only issues just as they have women only issues or different intensity in various issues. I see people mostly only trying to do things for women, not males. I'm not saying we can't tell oir problems in a calm non arguementative way but men mostly can't because other men think thier world views make them better or women tell you you're the problem no matter what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 09:36 PM |
| – | Do you need looks to be sexually attracted to someone?To expound on this the only women that have to chose are women that crave a family. As she is on a limited time frame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:52 AM |
| 1 | Men are more likely to grow in a break-up than a woman.Yes but that only matters if you think the women HAVE to grow to be successful in dating. Most don't have to or much less so than men For most women, being mildly fit and not openly crazy works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/24 11:50 AM |
| – | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?They simply need that man to be as close to a celebrity as possible. That's like saying someone rich or well off has to be a celebrity. Thats why traveling is so almost always seen as a plus to women. Be a handsome man, have the money or connections and free time to travel frequently. The most usual example of people able to do this are celebrities and they are a celebrity for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:07 PM |
| 2 | The entire “if a girl is really into you, you’ll know and there is nothing that can dissuade her” narrative really needs to die already. This is completely false, and is misleading generations of men.Ah yes she was just so friendly she went on to date and sleep with that attractive man over the less attractive one. Face it reactions are different if someone desires you vs if they don't. Clearly extremes exist but just like men women overlook red flags or even if they explicitly know what that toxic man is about will entertain him despite the difficulty in thier dating lives lying in filtering toxic men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 03:02 PM |
| 1 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.I am aware, most will not learn until the face a consequence big enough to actually change them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 12:06 PM |
| – | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Wrong thst lust is actually attainable for most women, unlike most men who are not pictures of the female fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Women have more options than men in the dating game until their 50s when the game starts to shift in favor of menIt does but many women actually have an almost surprising ego.Most red pillers seem to believe it happens when the decline starts. Basically immediately between 30-35 It only happens until most mens lust for a woman runs out. Most 35+ year olds I see are not unfuckable especially if she takes care of herself or has a face that survived weight gain etc so realistically it is much later than those men expect. Anyway some women will still keep her high standards and double down because her worth is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 12:02 PM |
| – | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?I have an almost useless bachelor of science degree, oversaturated market at 24. In the mean time I own my own business, while being a general manager for a chain resturant. I'm actually a drop out fosterchild so I got an offer for my GED to be able to level it up to a normal diploma so I got started on college earlier, along side being offered to skip grades in the 2 private schools I attended as moved around ALOT, we didnt stay in the same city/state for more than 4-5 months at most as I grew … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 11:44 AM |
| 1 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.Yeah. I dont believe that either at least in terms of dating. I dont think people change in terms of lust and love that much nor that often. Other things sure, but too much is going against that person actually changing. Lust itself, good memories, societal pressures to be a certain way, the experience of getting to know/intimate with new people, relationship problems, unresolved trauma or feelings, ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:43 AM |
| 1 | Women have more options than men in the dating game until their 50s when the game starts to shift in favor of menAs the guy above stated that is part of the concept but the big belief is that when it comes time for her fertility to take a hard decline, the woman in question so all women will start clamoring for a man in desperate ways, like switching up toning down hoe activity, change the type of guy they date, start settling for guys they're not actually or barely attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/24 02:36 AM |
| 8 | Women have more options than men in the dating game until their 50s when the game starts to shift in favor of menThis is nothing but red pill delusion in my opinion. Part of me think itss hopeful jargon that men ever get thier chance to be desired and wanted that never becomes a thing. Too many redpill beliefs are centered in maincharacter syndromd where they have thier "aha gotcha moment and will suddenly be swimming in desire and pussy... I do however agree that it is much later into a womans lifetime(well past 36) if at all that she gets desperate and regrets any of her decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 03:48 PM |
| 1 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.Its not far fetched to learn about someone new's past and see they would never have accepted you in your past. That then leads to the issue of do they miss thier old self/lifestyle and will become someone that will reject you if you still have your old self. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 03:35 PM |
| – | Red Pill Men Make Blue Pill Arguments When Their Assumptions Are QuestionedThe black pill isnt about blaming other people for your problems its cold hard truth. What people do with it is thier choice. Im not worried if the average man is happy. My thought process is have I seen an average woman happy in her life when she is paired with the average man. The answer is no she is usually disatisfied and ALWAYS looking for better. Even if shes paired up with a guy slightly above her or she's single. You assume all blackpillers are lazy homer simpson looking slob losers beca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 03:34 PM |
| -2 | Red Pill Men Make Blue Pill Arguments When Their Assumptions Are QuestionedJust having a gf and wife doesnt mean they desire you like they would people without those traits, will miss you if you broke up, or wouldn't easily move on. Not all but most are doomed to fail and be replaced without a second chance due to her desire for him being low. In comparrsion to how she would act for who she's actually attracted to. Also the blackpill argues many qualities, not just height, if you have a combination of a lack of these things it is truly over. It also is actually decentl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:59 PM |
| -2 | Red Pill Men Make Blue Pill Arguments When Their Assumptions Are QuestionedBlackpill is more realistic than the redpill. That man an flail against everything set up against himvand really feed and suffer that Main Character syndrome. Or he can enjoy life no shackled to the need to have female approval which most of the red pill is still controlled by. Hope is what causes people the most suffering it means they will still try and not find a different solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Women and Males: views on datingIts just as important for men to look great as it is for women but it is understated buried beneath blue pill advice like "be yourself" "try and find the right girl" that even many mens parents give them. I feel the numbers you gave are even higher than reported as women also emphasize, not wanting to appear insecure or not confident as they actually compete with eachother and tear eachother down more than many care to admit. In the same vein men are told silently that thier worth lies in what t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 12:13 PM |
| -1 | Post-Wall women who date previously looked over men will never be able to prove they love these men.If you see love as how someone treats you, consideration is a way to treat people and show love, you weren't on thier radar because they didnt find you handsome enough to be on thier radar and get to know you, especially if you tried to be around this person and acknowledging they never would have been with you had they not been humbled by life, and likely this humbled version is not thier ideal version of themselves. Its like being inlove with that person as they work to become someone else. On… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 12:03 PM |
| 0 | Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts?Women only date up. Either they fabricate parts of the dude they think are better thab you and THINK they're dating up or they actually date up and most of your memories together are lesser to her than her future with him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Does the existence of two fairly dating/sex markets account for much of the 'Red Pill' v. 'Blue Pill' debate?Not making up but they either have experienced or have seen enough experiences to be convinced that frustrating woman is thier future no matter how carefully they pick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Study shows men view their ex partners much more fondly than women do, matches up with my experience. What are your thoughts?Men desperately want to be wanted. An ex is just a reminder that you werent and maybe aren't deserving of another chance, men take thier status as thier worth and alot of men get so little attention from women they think they only have but 1 or a few chances. For women its hard for them to deny thier worth. What I mean is during issues of self esteem during a break up a man is almost sure of his negative worth a woman is second guessing herself. Add onto this how quickly one can actually get acc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:18 AM |
| 5 | Where does the belief that women only show interest in/ have sex with men in the top 20%, but then later settle for the bottom 80% come from?Make up, women on average wear weight better than men as its ok for her to seem soft, reproducing is one of ultimate male goals that is extremely competitive, and remains so to this day, men have lower standards for sex and more desperation in general for intimacy as modern male friendship is more based on alot of other things but not intimacy. We dont need to know much about eachother to be friends, just so long as we haven't killed a baby as an example. Womens perogative is quality over quanti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?6 packs but not handsome faces. You know features you cant actually change | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?It is shallow in comparrison to what women hide behind. Two different looking men could approach in the exact same way the more attractive one is the one actually getting the girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:55 AM |
| 2 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?What you just said is insane, it ends the same way for men with physical short comings they can't make up for. If they get a woman she has minimal physical desire for him even if he tried to make up for it by being charismatic and positive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Yes but most men complaining are not moderately attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/24 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?I can admit that I am I am only on this subreddit trying not to be as insignifigant as I already am. Everyone is too scared to have flaws but to be perfect or flawless is to dehumanize yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:29 PM |
| 3 | "Giving up on modern ........."One of the funniest things about this is the internet spurred people onto not missing out on living life up. Most people only know that as sex, drugs, partying alchohol and expensive things. Missing out is the same as wanting to fit in. They clamored for it, they got it and now cannot quit it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Girls always shame you for approaching or “hitting on” multiple women, sharing screenshots of their dms trying to humiliate you but men are FORCED to cast a wide net due to the fact that most women are taken or “uninterested.”Men have to try thier options lest the end up alone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that women have higher standards for casual sex and for a relationship?This is true. Anyone reading this just don't underestimate female libido. Most of the time she just hasnt met an attractive enough man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?The 1st is ridiculous but more so meant to show regret and emotional intention. The 2nd is not that unrealistic. All it takes is a husbands friend kept working out he didnt | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Its really not. Doing so completely dismisses that women ever physically cheat or fantasize about someone else in the act. I dont care that they do at the moment but that is exactly what those human moments end up as. Its a realistic situation i've honed in on that will happen to most people on this earth going both ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 08:04 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?That is complete horse dukey, especially if those same women have slept with a man who had those characteristics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Unwanted ugly men be it they got dumped or never got picked is exactly what the red pill feeds on. It tells them if they just workout, work on being masculine, make money they can actually earn a womans attraction. The blue pill is the same way, but in a different flavor. If you have a great personality and be yourself you'll find the one. Or any parent that has told an ugly child they're not or that people will look deeper than surface level. Im not only talking about these spheres online, but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?People are not that different from eachother especially when you get into the mix of friend groups. Sure when people do fall in love they fall for that complexity but you're going to tell me 90% of people or even 50% of people dating right now are in love with thier partner? Or that people can fall for you without any or minimal physical attraction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Most women dont find body builder physiques attractive. Its too much and a walking inferiority complex along with It is also too far beyond appealing for most women. Also sure you may have your prefered body type but most of them will at least have a jawline and those men without jawlines will never be considered attractive. Like considering traits people cannot work on outside of surgery and must face the limits of that surgery is more than you know. What would you say to those people who posse… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:48 PM |
| -1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?That is completely incorrect. Your subconscious is your kneejerk reaction, some emotions like guilt or your argument against said guilt are within your subconscious. Subsconscious thought isnt your personal beliefs but where you rely on those personal beliefs in your day to day activities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?See at least you can be honest about it. Alot of women on dating advice sections of the internet cannot be honest about how needed it is to be handsome and physically attractive when pursuing any woman. I dont care that you have a bias. Its just willingess to admit the bias wouls save alot of men the effort and get them focused more on if what they want is actually attainable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Im not applying it to my partner, I'm applying it to myself. I have had and seen too many experiences that imply someone is so dissatisfied by this secretly that they cheat or leave. I dont think I was mislead but I acknowledge many men probably interpreted the advice they recieve incorrectly because it isnt stated outright... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?It is common for women, they simply don't encounter many men that evoke that lust on a normal day to day basis. Its like the "phenomenon" of women crushing on celebrities, boy bands etc. They don't grow out of it its just someone different or if they don't have one in mind someone they haven't even met yet. Sure some women don't have those but that is still some, NOT most. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?No i actually agree but not on the extremity nor examples you have put forward. Its all in how those men that aren't "THE HERO" are treated, or observed by women around them in comparrison to other men. Sure being a hero may not exist, but being wanted by women damn sure do exist and sadly most of these ordinary men are damned to never be pursued like how they witnessed other men pursued. You may think thats only for celebrities but many men can recall in schooling alone how differently women ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 06:13 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Alot of those same women will reject a guy with no muscles or money but end up giving the guy with those things coincidentally a chance? Also I notice you left out a handsome face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Thank you for a reasonable take, I'm just tired of people/dating advise under specifying the need to be attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Lust gives you chances to rekindle broken relationships, an easier time or more chances to find that deep connection with various other people versus not and never getting a chance or only having 1 or 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Yeah sure but on a deeper level if given the chance now or back in the past how many would choose thier partner over a more handsome version of thier partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Plenty of women, while they don't form lines, they certainly are willing to sleep with them and ask those questions later if they even care. Be it a one night stand or a relationship. Bullies, criminals, etc have no issue getting women and no not all of these women are awful people. Dating issues are usually an emotional issue but people just want the truth. Too many people understate the importance of being attractive and place the blame on the mans personality,ethics, hobbies etc. Men have alr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:32 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Finesse but not truth. Also no most men wish they were wrong. Most of those men that are aggressive have never heard the truth, discovered it too late or discovered it the hard way. Women care just as much about looks as men and the dynamic of who approaches who makes looks matter even more because they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Then you are rare. That is why you felt the need to fit in back then because everyone else thinks that way. Because its rare, my question more so is supposed to make people aware that its an understated truth and shunned dating advice men don't recieve because most people view women as being able to be won over by personality and game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:21 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Good but its an understated fact for women or mens woes during dating. You have to be lusted after to get a date. Which is guaranteed if you are attractive yet this is the last thing people mention or recommend trying to accomplish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Exactly. But why is this not noteworthy with people who get rejected or have a personality good enough to be someones friend? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:14 PM |
| -5 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Mostly but no and its fine if you aren't but too many people flip flop on this on a whim and sweep under the rug the physical aspect that brought them together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?It is a sad fact but many guys are fine dating who likes them and most relationship insecurities revolve around if your partner actually likes you. It may not be universal but it increases your chances exponentially.Lets say everyone on this planet is guaranteed a generous 20% chance of someone dating them. Could be just for fun. Being attractive gives you low balling a 40% increase on someone wanting to date you, and for them to want something long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?No that will get you friendzoned.I barely believe in the friendzone but Just being funny, teasing her and having good body language does not mean shes attracted enough to go on a date. You have to have looks to have her view you that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Im tired of it being an understated truth that most women are mainly influenced by the looks of thier partner just like men as though women look super deeply into a mans personality on especially a cold approach or first time meeting. This refusal for most women to admit the man who approaches or they're with must first be handsome and meet other physical criteria feeds that black and white thinking and it is understated in all dating advice. Even IF a woman is more open to body types or she onl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 05:01 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Its not it is simply an understated truth. In alot of topics people will pretend women just are incapable not considering a mans personality or that it isnt as frequent that they are motivated just like me by the looks of potential partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?And that is completely fine, thank you for not being self righteous like other people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:48 PM |
| -1 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?We cling to this because it is too understated but you gave a great reply. Most people redirect the issue to our personality that they gleemed through a few posts online. As if people wear the stuff they Anonymously post about on reddit on thier forehead or even that the questions and opinions are straight from the devil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 04:46 PM |
| 2 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Thought flairing blackpill was a ban? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Based. Its well established men are effected by thier subconscious/instinct but the implications women are is shunned too much | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 02:06 PM |
| 2 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?Sure but that will get you a date at least a chance before the first interaction to show yourself. Unlike being middling or unattractive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 02:00 PM |
| 2 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Blue pill still puts the emphasis on being your best you. They lean more to the personality side than Red pill leans more to the masculinity side/built body side. In the end its all the same, both thinking you can change your standing. Im pragmatic so I believe the red pill side more but even that has delusions and is full of main character syndrome. That other qualities besides physical attractiveness matter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 01:17 PM |
| -3 | Do you think you fall victim at all to your subconscious?I have however Danny Devito is getting less yes's than Henry Cavil and most of the time a woman even gives you the time of day or interest to KNOW your personality is due to your face. This goes for cold or a warm approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 01:13 PM |
| 1 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Its the blue pilled part of the red pill thinking everyman can earn a womans attraction by being masculine etc. It doesnt work that way and is just an idealized way to sell hope and courses to men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 12:41 PM |
| 5 | I believe it is harder to find acceptance for reversed gender roles as a man.Her looking down on you comes much later if you're attractive and end up getting in a relationship with her. Most women assume men are dumb if they don't talk much but she won't mind for a time if he's attractive physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?Ok. The sample size is still way smaller than straight marriages so I dont think this gives the best arguement. I myself have never been partial to one side or the other. Id personally add in the amount same sex people break up as well not just marriage and divorce. Im also rather confused why you replied to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do men get so much hate from women nowadays when lesbians have the highest rates of divorce & domestic violence and their relationships don’t last?While I do find the lesbian divorce rate hilarious theres a lower nunber of them. Meaning the sample sizes aren't even. Meaning theres more room for error. Like thier 50% is maybe at most 100,000 people whilst the straight divorce rate 50% is millions of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider yourself a high value man?The only value I provide is I give good actual feasible advice of all sorts because I have had to and I still am micromanaging almost everything in my life. Most people think they know better or don't need it I can also have fun in almost any scenario and I don't nessecarily need a drink to do it. I also think I can fuck pretty good. The only positive attention I get from women is after that or we sexted to get things going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Do you consider yourself a high value man?Eh relative sure but there are general things that are highly valued. Looks almost universally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Men who regularly do the dumping are high value.Its because OP either is or has seen too many men on the recieving end of breakups or hasnt been in a relationship where he has a say in it. Its very common for men to feel powerless or unvalued in relationships as they don't openly recieve female attention. So for many men they view it as thier one chance or one of the few chances they'll get of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Who/what is maintaining the higher beauty standards for women?"High value men" along side other women are what dictate beauty standards for women. Women only care about the men they lust for+confirmation bias due to the halo effect. As stated several times you get treated better the better you look, however many women think men prefer women that get surgical enhancements BBL but can't name most of what a man actually is physically attracted to. (Its usually minimalist beauty, with as little make up as possible, a nice face a decent curves.) Women will perf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:51 AM |
| 3 | Men who are concerned with lack of women in their life, have you even tried maximizing your chances?I have grown to fucking loathe people in general. Im so tired of hearing people say they're surprised by how funny I am. I believe every woman is chad only, I also view maximizing my chances as nothing but a looks based game, my personality was never bad but is now more openly becoming trash as I feel the contrast of how people treat me different because I look better. I usually try to be kind to strangers but to people I know I'm nice and funny, give life advice then ghost them or treat them li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:41 AM |
| 6 | Seems you're just as likely to lose a lady for taking things slowly than you are for moving too fastYou hear that boys get that time machine. This comment actually perfectly sums up why dudes even visit pages like this, most have been ejected from the dating pool and have to essentially apply for a job with 10 years experience when they have 1 or none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 10:19 AM |
| 1 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Its true mostly all around the board. Quiet unpopular people who are single usually have the biggest want for love. Hence the redpills obssession with "The Wall" as women dont begin to feel nearly as lonely as men until 30+ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/24 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Many women in attempts to be better than nature intended for all of us, will attempt to be attracted to other qualities in a man than his face/body but those usually fall through and once they're done they're done, no hook ups no missing that physical intimacy. Let me correct you, women would rather be single than get ATTACHED to a man she isnt attracted to, adding to this,a woman can date easily without being attached to a man for fun. You also disregard how much women try to change the men the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Don't lots of rejections hurt your self esteem?Some guys don't even get to experience that, some guys are surrounded by women who only want to have guys above them, or he works on his body but still has an ugly face so no woman is interested in him outside of being friends. Sometimes low selfesteem is right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Absence makes the heart grow fonder, hence loneliness. Simply because they may be bad at it or have little experience doesnt mean they don't love that person anyless and suggesting the opposite is ridiculous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 06:29 PM |
| 3 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenApologies Jaded said that not me. Having a man raise a kid he thinks is his but isnt should very much so be a crime despite it not being a recognized one. Its an evil tactic many women have gotten away with. Paternity fraud is a nearly completely onesided crime, the times it isnt is not due to the choices of the father. I'll state my point again, female sexuality is rarely scrutenized without reprecussion, male sexuality is openly. Why don't you admit you think every man is a violent frothing ra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 03:46 AM |
| 5 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenNo one equated women to animals, I'm simply saying they are more inclined to act on instinctthan men because of the sexual revolution of feminism and its not mainstream nor acceptabke to demonize female sexuality like it is men. They are different in thier honesty. That is a difference you are desperately trying to sweep under the rug. Without slut shaming thier sexuality still wouldnt be even in the same ball park of being shamed as mens. Instinct doesnt mean you don't think about what you do. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 02:45 AM |
| 5 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenInstinct but most men arent lying to themselves or others when they chase it, its a well known expectation that men are instintious pigs. Unlike women who hide it and refuse to admit how they pick is more shallow than they let on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 12:08 AM |
| 2 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Taking things too literal, also doesnt mean she's attached to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 12:03 AM |
| 2 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?They have more capacity for it than women, due to not being desired and loneliness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/24 12:02 AM |
| 15 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenYou say that like they get a pick of the liter. If you ever have a chance with a woman is decided by 3 phrases Yes. No. I am seeing someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:09 PM |
| 11 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenYes which is a fuck ton of men. Most men you meet or pass on the street get zero attention from women unless they constantly approach be it warm or cold. If the one girl he actually gets to agree to date is rotten that's all he's getting unless he cheats because of preseldction. I've had more than one, but the worst of which emasculated me to the core, back when I was ugly or uglier than current. She would openly watch thirst trap tiktoks, talk about exes and compare me to them both positively a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 08:08 PM |
| 13 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenShe likely was the only woman that gave him attention or a chance. Not that he isnt a pathetic fool but dating for alot of men is all or nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:54 PM |
| 6 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenThe more women I met the more they prove it without me even saying anything. You have clue how many women love sharing secrets with me. I judge them silently but I keep those secrets nonetheless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:53 PM |
| 6 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Whatever helps you sleep at night, just remember how many women forget to mention thier boyfriend is 6ft+ has a 6 pack and then go on to describe his "personality" as if none of that was even a factor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:50 PM |
| 9 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenSome women are all of those things, most women are half of those things. Money branching then settle for a beta. Not all are money obsessed or only fuck chads in an attempt to be unique,different or better than other women. The issue is how easily a woman can want to be those things by the values around her or friends family etc. Irregardless of your bond with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenEh most are or can be convinced to be that woman by social media, friends family and her own narrative and correction the men being picked love that. Half of men are completely invisible and a non competitor to most women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:43 PM |
| 10 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Yeah, as I said i'm just explaining the thought proccess. However most maturity comes from mistakes your own or being able to learn from other peoples and actually listening to cautionary tales. Most people will not do the latter. Also being shallow means there AREN'T Other things you care about. We can be upset these women now want to use us for different things but its not shallow, its predictable and disappointing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:40 PM |
| 5 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenYes, if they were psychopaths they woukdn't struggle as much with women as they do lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenTheres evidence for those beliefs, I'm not angry but I resign it as just a womans perogative and nature to seek the best and these are the actions most take to find it. Being hypergamous, monkey branching, and not fucking anyone that she deems insulting to her caliber are all just actions a woman will take as she follows her feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:36 PM |
| 13 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenYep and women love psychopaths because they have charisma and are exciting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:13 PM |
| 7 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?You're right they do because getting old is ALSO thier future, no matter how good a woman looks despite her age a younger woman has to try less to do so and has other benefits, so they need to "manifest" what they want as thier future. They will be those old women eventually and dont know if the men they have at that time will leave them. Most people who arent applicable to scrutenized behavior are not actually offended, they more so fear being percieved as that or it means they can't do somethi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:13 PM |
| 20 | Can you be red pill and not bash womenEasily. I'm red pill but I just think most "negative" actions a woman takes simply to be in her nature in pursuit of the best. Of course it can cause me frustration but I dont think thier actions are ever negative for the woman in question and I don't think its desrving of ire. I simply think men find a work around and adapt. If most women pick men who don't have to be decent to them by extention I dont encourage men to be decent to women. Its not a trait that is actually needed by a woman for h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 07:06 PM |
| 9 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Thats why most young women avoid responsibility and take on the attitude of living up thier life. Because most men they truly lust for aren't the best for rhem interms of lifestyle. Even worse if they want kids in the future. Anyway there is evidence to back up that a bond can overcome lust but also vice-versa. Every relationship is a risk or probability based unless you can stay level headed and vet people which is what most dating debates ultimately come down to, how you should vet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:36 PM |
| 2 | People used to openly acknowledge that women liked assholes until Blue Pillers fabricated this whole narrative, making it a taboo subject and trying to shame people for itAlso staying in a bad relationship isnt jsut staying in a bad relationship. The people usually entangled in it see hope of it getting better. You seem woefully naive of what actually goes down in good and bad relationships as most people involved never compartmentalize it too good and bad. Its just thier relationship and theres parts they like and dislike about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:34 PM |
| 5 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Women are incapable of romantically loving men they aren't attracted to they also cannot love men who do nothing for them. Its not hateful its fact. Most men are stuck trying to convince women to take interest because he wasn't born attractive enough to catch her eye off from the get go. I find dating kind of pathetic and exacerbant for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:31 PM |
| 11 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?You're preaching to the Chior here, I'm simply explaining thier hope based and optimistic thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:28 PM |
| 2 | People used to openly acknowledge that women liked assholes until Blue Pillers fabricated this whole narrative, making it a taboo subject and trying to shame people for itBe picky and end up alone until you die or take what little interest and attention women give you even if you improve? Men don't pick bad situations in thier own mind. Loneliness makes them pick situationsto be in at all. You either have something or nothing in life as a man, especially if you end up looking like Danny Devito only famous and got kids because people enjoyed laughing at him. Men across the board are trying to inprove at the veey least if not thier personality which may be basic th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:26 PM |
| 8 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?There is a chance that your bond eclipses that lust especially if you yourself are atrractive enough physically to compete with those men. I dont buy it but thats the thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 06:11 PM |
| 38 | OK, so older men are gross and younger women only want their money... why is it assumed that women their age are different, considering how out of the game many of these men were when they didn't have money?Because women assume they all grow past lusting after attractive men and become less shallow | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:49 PM |
| 2 | People used to openly acknowledge that women liked assholes until Blue Pillers fabricated this whole narrative, making it a taboo subject and trying to shame people for itIts not wicked but it is comedically tragic if those men end up using, leaving cheating, or isnt what he shaped up to be. So her choices are funny, usually hypocritical and deserving of Ire. Most men here have seen a woman complain but not pick diifferent. Men pick different in terms of behavior, attitude mindset, put in the work and still get friendzoned most of the time or rejected they change edit, improve aspects of thier personality to be picked. Lots of men who put in these positive change… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:41 PM |
| 1 | People are way too obsessed with finding happiness and it's one of the reasons why relationships are in such a poor place.Contentment is happiness most people are just blinded pursuing an emotion that is always fleeting and always running. Most dont even know what happiness actually is. Its contentment, but they can't be content until they have the things society says they should want. It only varies amongst people based on what is reinforced or what is reflected in thier little bubble. Like most people who love rap and hip hop find some odd value on chains, cars, women while religious people don't. The person who … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:21 PM |
| 3 | People used to openly acknowledge that women liked assholes until Blue Pillers fabricated this whole narrative, making it a taboo subject and trying to shame people for itIronically most men are met with the opposite. In large swaths on ANY other platform. Women imply theres something wrong with the man BECAUSE he didnt get picked (work on your personality, or various other implications of fault upon any man who dare complains about not being successful in dating). Most women feel this way as evidenced by the fact they prefer experience and demonstrate pre selection. Popularity didn't matter that much to men until it mattered to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:17 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosApologies when OP says hostility my mind isnt just on the most extreme violent forms. Its also on the fact that women and other men damn ANY reaction a man has to being rejected. Be it him giving up, complaining online, or persistence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Women are not the reason dating has become shitEven if these men pursue these beautiful women doesnt mean they're getting selected for a date even before simping became popular. Most women didnt hold out for a 7+/10 man like they do now, they had to take chances on thier social cicle or form a new one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:05 PM |
| 2 | Everything you use is invented and built by men is a faulty argument. Stop using itIt happens all the time in commercials, shows, social media, personal beliefs, feminism, any time a dad is stopped in a park thought to have kidnapped his own baby. Sure men majorily commit crime but most men are not criminals nor violent criminals yet we have people without reprocussion saying, we're rapists out the womb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 05:00 PM |
| 2 | Don't lots of rejections hurt your self esteem?Yes thats why the blackpill exists, is it worth it to hurt yourself over and over? Do you actually have the tools to succeed or should you give up romantically. The thing people dont get about the black pill is those who give up usually the want of romance and intimacy was a big want in thier life sometimes a need if they've never experienced it. Those offended by its beliefs also have love as a huge goal in thier life they're offended to the thought its unattainable for them and thier effort gi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:52 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing wrong with feeling entitled to a relationship because your a nice personEveryone is entitled to the human experience if the fallacy that we're all created equal is true. Which it isnt. Its the biggest lie anyone has ever told. Some people are simply born right and will be able to create memories they'll be able to cherish, while those born wrong must watch from the sidelines and be side characters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosIf the rejection happens that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:46 PM |
| 1 | A lot of men seem to believe that when it comes to casual sex, avoiding feelings is much easier for the man to achieve than the woman, but the main cause of this is due to men’s manipulation habits when seeking sex.Men aren't desired nor sought after by most women. You either manipulate (have gamel) to get what people simply born more desirable than you get or you get nothing at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:45 PM |
| 5 | “women live life on easy mode” = men enabling women to live life ‘on easy mode’You can't enable a civilization to charge you for food when you are starving and they have a monopoly on food. Tragically most men work on a what they can get mindset, thats the nature of rejection. Women rarely face rejection with the stakes being they never experience intimacy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | The fact that so many women experience hostility when they reject men has less to do with men’s instability and entitlement, and much more to do with women’s delusional standards and inflated egosMost women don't consider if a man is mentally stable or not lol and those that do will look past it if he's attractive enough or won't be able to tell from just that brief encounter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Toxic women have little incentive to change because some men are just suckers for them.Most men are suckers for them because of male desperation, because people refuse to be truthful with how vain women can be and until people stop spouting "just me nice to her" women will always have the edge because they're desired and most men are not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general?The entirety of mens lives is this The OP is struggling to comprehend this is already a thing but for relationships and only for the most desirable men. Most of what drives a womans actions towards men is actually far more lust filled than what people care to admit. The way a woman might act around Danny Devito or current day Brendan fraiser isn't the same way they'd react for Henry Cavil, Chris Hemsworth. Hell you can even compare him to somone less on the extremes of the ugly/desirable scale, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general?Even for attractive men they still have to work for it/put on a show, most dont realize thier best bet is being as silent as possible and cutting to the chase/being direct because men as a whole second guess womens approach. Be that fear of being robbed, coming off as a creep or not having experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:32 PM |
| 5 | Would girl who only sleeps with guys, who make her work for it, be treated the same as a girl who just sleeps around in general?Men majorily are not actively pursued. Women get offered, asked out and hit on, men rarely do. Most Men have to work to get any female attention. Most women are simply born with guaranteed getting male attention even if she has some undesirable traits. Men exhibit self control by working for intimacy or go his entire life without it, women have to sort through it to get the intimacy they desire for those women less blessed they are simply living as a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I am tired of the rhetoric that "the friendzone" "isn't real" and the lack of acknowledgment that both sexes can be toxic in that scenarioMost guys who put women in the friendzone have probably slept with them, women mostly dont though I dont thibk her asking you to be her friend rules you guys out from sleeping together. Unless its a legit friendship where money is mostly not involved women use and CAN use guy friends far more than men use women. Men who put girls in the friendzone are ironically usually in a relationship with said girls just with very little commitment or none. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Who do so many men follow the ideology that leads to loneliness and suffering?Black pill and possibly what you gather from the red pills teachings teaches some of that. The red pill feeds on main character syndrome where you can achieve anything if you just try hard enough. Im more pragmatic that the solutions and prescription it provides usually only provides the illusion of most of those things. I believe the only thing that matters is looks though I wish I was wrong. The red pill thinks you can make a woman jealous or regretful by leveling up, but she likely already ex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/24 04:16 PM |
| 1 | If promiscuous women are so low value, why would you still want to have sex with them?Sex is not the same for most men as it is for women. For men its an accomplishment as most arent sought after nor physically someone a woman fantasizes about. When men gain experience in sex they become closer to what a woman fantasizes about an experienced man. Women are inherently sought after and chased/wanted sexually, sexual experience as a woman simply isnt as needed to keep a partner satisfied. Theres less to be explored with an experienced woman, and the less special she inherently think… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 06:53 PM |
| 11 | Men may have lesser options than women in the dating scene, but it is still a man’s world in all other areas.Its more so the issue of being liked by women actually gets you fuck all. Its being physically attractive that gets you dates. Tons of men are liked by women enough for the woman to want to be friends with them but the only thing that seperates a good friend from a boyfriend is attraction and looks . Ironically alot of male body standards are unrealistic and women don't care that it is unlike men.(most men are not going to go after a woman with fake body parts contrary to popular belief)Try to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 06:10 AM |
| 0 | Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone?I dont want women to lower thier standards I just want them to stay consistent which won't happen but ah well. As for why it matters. It doesnt to anyone but me and the likely hood I wont experience what others get to just because I was born a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?Most people aren't actually struggling, its just when things suck they suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?Average and below because at a certain demagraphic a woman says youre good enough but she doesnt WANT you. As in you were not the type in her head when she thought about being with someone and that doesnt mean that ideal type goes away all of a sudden | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 03:42 PM |
| -1 | Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone?The proof is in the pudding. People do not take action without reasons sybconsciously and nothing is beyond understanding. You are arguing that these people are happy while not mentioning the amount of dignity and what they had to give up to get to the status of happy or the illusion of it or on the whim of the person that you're with doesnt change and its all for nothing. It is also a good indicator of what I MYSELF or even YOU will encounter or have to deal with because we are not special we a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?Thats not betabuxxing. Thats called being fhe full package. As he is a handsome celebrity in which they are pursued out of principal not actual desire for that persons qualitues outside of being good-looking, having money, having status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?All is fair in love and war. Honesty never got me much love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?He didnt have to start that way and isnt stuck doing that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:48 PM |
| 3 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?No she chooses the man most willing to spend money on her and pretends to like him or rather she chooses all of them and pretends to like them all. Im not delusional enough to think she doesn't like him at all. Its just a small bonus to getting access to thousands. A man having money isnt a true dating preference, guarantee she gave up her time to men not well off its a way for her to get free stuff. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:37 PM |
| -3 | Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone?Those husbands will never get that desire and lust from thier woman. They are simply there to fulfil the fantasy of family. Not to mention they may not have STARTED out that ugly. Don't even get me started on cuckolds, the divorce rate, female desperation after having a phase in thier youth, the amount of men desperate enough to marry a single mother. Too many factors to claim the woman overlooked thier ugliness and far too many more to say she's sexually attracted to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 02:30 PM |
| -7 | Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone?It only is for women because they only truly desire to date up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:58 PM |
| 5 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?Having a requirement means its the only reason you're dating in the first place. You approach a girl you dont meet her looks threshold she says no, the date/relationship doesnt happen. You really dont need more than money as its what got her to say yes and will continue to have her say yes so long as you don't kick puppies. The only reason you think you need to bring more to the table is because in her head money creates the illusion of a fun lifestyle, I bet most of what you would claim you bri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:57 PM |
| 4 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?They like the guys BECAUSE they have money, and that guy would struggle to get/keep her attention like everyone else if he didnt have the money, you're fully immersed in your main character syndrome if you think theres more to the reason a woman hangs with these guys outside of experiences and gifts she otherwise wouldnt have. Most highly attractive women don't have money, too busy staying pretty, trying to get experiences through men or her friend group if she has one Most men don't have that l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:45 PM |
| 2 | The critique of niceguy/nicegirls (or more generally a "nice X™") is ironically a validation of niceX™ and also an ignorance of human nature.I think ghosting everyone is acceptable but if you pick and choose who you ghost I think you are the physical embodiment of evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:34 PM |
| 4 | A common form of miscommunication I noticed towards the way many of the men on here interpret dating advice directed at them"Niceness isnt attractive" is rare to hear outside of reddit/parents, most poeople believe personality matters when it doesnt. Most of the advice you listed is enstilled from a very young age for most men. Most young men hear in western countries "be nice to them" at a young age as an example. Most aren't so naive that at 22+ this is the first time they've heard this shitty advice that only applies if you're physically attractive. Most people are not being literal, they're just filled with blue … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think (some) men, particularly on the internet, care about women ending up alone?Some want revenge but a big part of it is actually how often women complain or bash men for not being good men and no I'm not talking about some manosphere podcast specifically designed to bring out random womens prejudice when plenty of men are willing to be/actively are good but get ignored | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:26 PM |
| 6 | do you all believe that the common English idiomatic expression "settle down" means "settle for"?I completely agree, the only part left out is that insecurity rings true (is confirmed by actions during after and before the relationship) for most men and people in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:23 PM |
| 8 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?This is a comment grasping at straws. Those younger women are not viewing it as prince charming, they view it as how much money can I squeeze out of him while giving him the right amount of attention and they enjoy the lifestyle, not the man himself. The womem participating in those relationships are easy to please for him so long as he buys them status symbols, plenty of places to post on instagram, designer clothes, make-up and skincare products, and special vacations. But the fact remains she… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:19 PM |
| 2 | Do men really have a problem with financially providing for a woman who isn't attracted to him?Alot of the time its not the same men saying these things, betabuxxing for a woman is completely demeaning. It is the ultimate example of hoe undesirable you are to women as a whole whilst chad was just born right. It is the ultimate spit ib the face that effort can only get you an illusion of what you want. Love. You can work your brains out in the gym or at a job or even personality wise, but you will still do worse, look worse, gain charisma worse than a naturally born attractive man. Not to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/24 01:10 PM |
| 10 | What is happening to men? I am concernedObservation of who they hang out with and whom they don't. This is for my friends and complete strangers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:58 PM |
| 13 | What is happening to men? I am concernedYes, all of them I've at least kissed. The ones I haven't we're on the level of we make banter and talk at work and nothing else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:21 PM |
| 19 | What is happening to men? I am concernedWhat I said isnt bitter its evidence based. Ill believe otherwise when I see it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 08:00 PM |
| 3 | What is happening to men? I am concernedI would stop at unattractive but yes. If a woman is interested (which is just whatever type of man she built up in her head as her type; all of them are attractive to start with)then she will go for it or make opportunities irregardless . Its a simple not just japanese women but women as a whole are not motivated by the average males appearance anymore, more than ever due to social media exposure of pretty and prettier and richer men that show off a lifestyle most women crave. Beyond everyone be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Measures to get over a crush.One of the best ways to get over a crush is to realize they're out of your league in the way they attracted you inherently because they're your crush. If they look good, they likely look better than you, if you crush on them because they're thoughtful they are likely too thoughtful for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | All your dating problems come down to one thing....Sometimes fear makes you see things for what they are. Talking and landing the cute girl at a bar when you're maybe a 4/10 is completely unrealistic. Sometimes through experience you sinply know how things will go and fizzle out. Game doesnt matter, your looks do buttheres only but so much you can do with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:51 PM |
| 23 | What is happening to men? I am concernedBecause women hate unattractive things. Even more if that thing thinks it has a chance with her lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/24 07:48 PM |
| 2 | To the men who complain about lonelinessI wish what you stated and believe was true but its not. I have no issues making friends dating however a woman has never shown any interest in me outside of my first girlfriend and deconstructing that its because I was conveinent and comforting not due to actual attraction and I'm not gonna walk up and try to convince someone in my social cirle or a complete random stranger to like me which is all game is unless the girl is already interested. Women act completely different around men they like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 01:03 PM |
| 2 | To the men who complain about lonelinessPeople very much so care what they're standing next to and what events you might look right doing with them, highschool never stops or stops much latter than you think maybr mid 30s where people are foced to be less shallow. Also fuck off with your gym selfrighteous bullshit. I dont like clubbing but I can at least acknowledge most young people my age are consumed and focused on clubbing/partying and tasting the influencer lifestyle due to social media. Simply because i'm aware of it doesnt make… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 12:20 PM |
| 3 | To the men who complain about lonelinessThere you go again. You just can't help yourself. It could be as simple as you mainly play video games and the people around you prefer clubbing/partying even as popular as gaming has become its not everyones hobby let alone goal to do like persay casual sex, having a party life, going to see artists. Its not that they dont want to talk to you its that due to your looks and hobbies people don't invite you to what they like because they dont think you mesh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:52 AM |
| 2 | To the men who complain about lonelinessIts WAY harder for women to end up completely alone because people change the most about themselves for dating women. Women are also sought after,men aren't unless they're pretty or pretty and funny and not annoying in terms of friendships. Women dont approach because they dont have to. Women often friendzone men if they crave friends and he is demonized if he doesnt accept the friendship. Beyond this I didnt make it about men vs women until you said something as stupid as this. You can say "i d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/24 11:49 AM |
| 2 | To the men who complain about lonelinessYou're right its not rocket science all you need to do is change yourself almost core and fundementally for people to like you enough to maybe invite you to things or hang around you. Sometimes you're so out of place you have to do a complete 180 change to find some people. At that point are they your friends or are you THIER friend. Hope that doesnt go over anyones head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 09:36 PM |
| 7 | To the men who complain about lonelinessYou're doing the exact thing that leads to people not trying to change it. You are priviledged enough to think eveey single problem can be fixed. You can try and look better but it will be more difficult for others to notice a difderence due to where you may majorily lose fat/weight. You can be funny but the typical crowd you encounter doesnt find you funny. Put a nerd in the ghetto let him crack jokes and see how far he gets. You can improve your personality to date but aren't attractive enough… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 02:22 PM |
| -1 | Are Situationships for the most part, a result of women not being able to secure men they wish to date?No. At the end of the day women are the ones chased and who get to decide if the guy is enough to warrant her staying no matter what TrpTries to push lol. Most men are not handsome enough to have a woman chase them. Situationships are a result of men not wanting to come off as clingy or scare a woman off and women feeling out thier options or hoping for better even if those options aren't real yet. That and people dont like taking on a ton of stuff especially with the economy being the way it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/24 02:17 PM |
| 3 | Every person you date shouldn’t check off all of your boxes!Most people sadly dont care because many male body dismorphia practices are seen as hardwork and dedication and it adds to the thought that women are actually surprisingly shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 10:41 PM |
| 3 | In order of preference, how would you rate these 3 things in a partner? (confidence, kindness, intelligence)Kindness, intelligence, confidence. Confidence first is just hot air, intelligence first is just pramgatism and I'm pragmatic enough. A womanly touch of kindness and consideration sounds like heaven. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:06 PM |
| 1 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeMy main concern is just desire and loyalty. Money CANNOT get you that no matter what TRP says. It just invites situational gold diggers. I'd rather have a woman cheat with me because I'm physically attractive than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 09:02 PM |
| 1 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeIm way more pragmatic than the red pill can fully articulate, you still have to meet a womans physical requirements before you can mesh woth her values, humour etc. I dont think I ever will especially if she's already had a boyfriend previously I just assume she's alpha widowed or chadstruck. Im not one of the guys who only require women to be chaste virgins. I just want someone who hasn't had a hoe phase and hasn't done any type of sex work and to be loyal enough to at least try and mend the re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:59 PM |
| 1 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeYou're raging and dont understand what I just said. Anal is the most common most vanilla thing that might be spurred on by porn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?My point is she can put you in the friendzone but most women are not actually virtuous enough to actually uphold that. Its just another way men put women on a pedestal. For every dude in the friendzone I guarantee you theres another guy in the same friendgroup she calls a friend that she's smashed. Most of it comes down to physical attractiveness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:37 PM |
| 1 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeIts unrealistic that she won't be taken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:34 PM |
| 0 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeWhy do you think most people are ok with doing drugs when they go partying. Also its not explicitly pornstar worthy enthusiasm but enthusiasm at all. Many women end up using sex as a weapon sooner or later and men know its almost inevitable. Also alot of these pornstars still end up having orgasms during certain scenes, just because she is majorily acting doesnt mean the stimulation and reactions aren't real. Unless you think these pornstars just feel numb below the belt and can't feel a single … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?Im not a woman but its because they always have options. No matter how unique or quality you try to be as a man women will always view you as replacable. Not to mention she has all the reason to do so. It gets her over the break up and the people around her likely encourage her that you weren't much. Along side biological incentive too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 01:06 PM |
| 0 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeNot really. Most men want a women WILLING to try things he likes in porn if ANY at all. At most that means the most vanilla things for porn like anal and other things I dont know if I can mention on this sub. But the more hardcore stuff you're thinking of is extremely rare for men to be into let alone want the woman they love to actually do. Most men want the ENTHUSIASM that porn portrays, every mans worst fear is that his partner is just putting up with his sex drive. As most men only see women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 12:49 PM |
| 3 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeThis is probably your dumbest reply. Of course people getting the shit end of the stick and have to try 10x harder than someone who was just born right would be upset. You're essentially telling guys like that they should just shut up and be ok dying alone while most people get to experience a nice life. They do have a moral leg unless you're ok with chad and players lying to, using women and two timing because they can. These same men who would never treat a woman that way get overlooked for th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | You cant have issues with a woman's past if you consume pornography and you expect sex past a certain timeHes saying the value is in looks where even good women still want chad. Chad doesnt need to work out and if the average man did less than 1 percent of them would be able to transform into a chad due to genetic limitations that dont line up to the genes needed to be a chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Whats the point of monogamy and emotional attachment?Because humans are community based and we have not evolved past that. Even someone who says they will never feel lonely fills thier time with creations of other people. 99.99% of the time. Hobbies are man made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 12:02 PM |
| 1 | A lot of guys here are simply too insecure, too self-loathing, and too emotional to ever get into a heterosexual relationship.Less so repulsed by us more so hiding her true attraction for another guy currently or in her past. If there isnt true desire she can never truly fully love and want you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?Sometimes it doesnt matter if she has a boyfriend. Some women are turned on by the secrecy so long as you aren't dismantling her life. Also pretty often. All it takes is common interests and for them to not hate your existence boom you have friends. Excuses to talk along with sensuality built into your jokes and personality and boom she can start fucking her friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/24 11:42 AM |
| 1 | Why do red pillers completely leave out young women's preference when discussing "the wall"TRP is complete delusion fueled by male main character syndrome. If I just work hard and workout and become the center of attention women will desire me. No most can't accept the fact that people have genetic limits and that looks are the overall determining factor if you are successful in dating or if you'll ever have genuine desire in your life. Game is just breaking down a womans barriers to get her comfortable or curious with you, but this only actually seduces her if she is ok with your loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do guys stay in the friendzone if they know they're in it?You drastically underestimate the amount of women that fuck thier "friends". Ease sexuality into your humor, look and smell the best you can and try to be the one she goes to, when she has male problems. Imply she's your type without applying too much preassure be physically playful if you can, throw things at her and smile. Curiousity is a womans greatest weakness. You have to establish all this from the get go. Like your first time getting to know eachother as friends. Or if yiu are already fr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:37 PM |
| -5 | What is a deal breaker you think the opposite sex should adopt?They'll have kids and get divorced way sooner than a chad would, they'll also have a dead bedroom and a woman less willing to work things out because they aren't chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:13 PM |
| 0 | As a man your focus should be to how to find the specific type of women whom is attracted to you, and not improve yourself to appeal to the broad majority of women - Thoughts?Beauty is Objective. The only time women say they dislike fit men as an example is because they associate obnoxious behaviors and attitudes with it or they feel a preasure to measure up and trust me a woman feeling forced to self improve or meet more societal standards will dry her up completely. Even conservative women hate this. Dating is just a numbers and a looks game, your personality doesnt matter if you cant get your foot in the door of someone wanting and desiring you. For your own sanit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:11 PM |
| 2 | Women are not picky at all, maybe less so than menYour point about all of this assumes those men meet the womans looks requirement which is far higher than mens looks requirement period. Like most women aren't fantasizing about a serial killer that looks like homer simpson. Women just like men will throw out morals or ignore red flags for a pretty face but worse than men they'll do it for a certain lifestyle thier partner provides...negative lifestyles. Not to mention while I think it's just a woman debating in her mind to like a guy she's attr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.I dont think how many men and women confuse other attributes for confidence. Confidence is experience and you can substitute that with wisdom and educated guesses. Being able to handle things being thrown at you like disrespect. Tell me who is more confident a parent that verbally demands respect from a back talking teenager or one that can talk to the teenager above thier own level? With that clarification, confidence means fuck all in dating unless you are good looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Confidence is a psychological regulator, not a mindset people can toggle on at will.It never lasts for long. Sometimes women give in to believe theres hope and be able to look herself in the mirror and say she isnt shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/24 01:40 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringShe wouldnt care about your problems if you were pretty enough. Most of those women have likely thrown themselves at the feet of a guy equally as good looking but not you. Again its just women wanting to be virtious and not appear shallow in thier own mind and to people they're close with. Im not damning they're actions I? Just informing people on how the world ACTUALLY works as evidenced by peoples choices | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 12:46 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringA google search that leads to pew research and a vast amount of other sources, yes, nice going to the immediate mockery after you face stats going against your beliefs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Women’s dating preferences are creating a system of vast inequality in datingThe only solution is to become pretty and use up everysingle woman that comes your way. Maybe then they'd actually acknowledge the consequences of thier choices...nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/24 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringAll you need do is a single quick google search 63% of men are single staggeringly close to your estimate of 85% not counting those confused in situationships etc or think they're dating but arent, or are datinf the same man. Not gonna call them liars because that'd be cliche and subpar of me. This statistic exists because woken want 6ft+ and all the other traits I stated before. They're disqualifying MOST men be it on dating apps or real life which are not actually seperate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringThey also spout it because its true. Ah yes the many women who just so happento care about personality just so happen to have a 6ft plus full head of hair boyfriend who has a jaw despite maybe not needing to workout. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringHe can be sought after its more so how he uses it. Like most harems aren't exactly brought about by wholesome bonds with 0 manipulation as women are also possessive they may be less vocal about it with a high caliber dude to keep her spot. What makes him an asshole is still trying to get everything out of a woman and trying to convert her into his harem. Or trying to steal other mens women. Dont worry Im not some whiteknight that only blames men, alot of these women truly deserve how they're tre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 09:47 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringWhen women claim a man is boring ironically loyal is one of the things they find boring. Or rather many women are attracted to men they know could get other women and has a chance or even a high chance of leaving, cheating, 2 timing etc. Is that not an issue if they then complain and damn men even though they get off to those promiscuious men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringCongrats on being lucky in whom looks your way or gives you a chance. Theres reasons for that many not posiitve an exception doesnt disprove the rule what a majority of people face is what proves the rule. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringNo offense man but pity dates are more common than you might think. Women constantly challenge themselves to live up to virtues society says they should have. Also how old are you and how old is your dating range? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringSure but its brought up less in favor of bashing and insuating someone is lacking in personality morals and ethics. Since men do the approaching and have to to recieve romantic attention from women. Looks is covered up greatly by society as not mattering when it is the deciding factor if you even get a CHANCE to display your better qualities. Not just from a pure rejection standpoint but also in terms of how many women are actually interested in said man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 05:39 PM |
| 12 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringNerdy gamer chicks and even bookish women dont crave nerdy indoor boys or however you described them, they crave mostly e-boys or pretty boys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | When self-proclaimed “nice guys” say that they are “good guys,” what “good” traits are they talking about?I don't go around constantly telling people I'm nice or pointing out my deeds, but I have conversations with people about deeper feelings, I try to compliment people men and women on a deeper level because I know alot of people feel like garbage, I try to make kids days while at my job and provide as much comfort as I can during my day because everyone again seems so riled up or upset or distressed. I blame having emotional intelligence. This behavior has only ever hurt me, I personally believe … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | "Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why?Women prefer fuckbois he's easy to discard, still blame for being a fuck boy and keeps things more light hearted than the player who manly fake a deep connection to get with her and waste more of her time. Both aee usually more physicallh attractive than the nice guy and majority of women want an attractive guy who brings adventure, be it chaos or fun hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:49 PM |
| 2 | Why are men angry that women like 'Chad'?For alot of men at an early age until they learn otherwise are told women can't be shallow, are empathetic creatures. But most women who do complain, are complaining about Chad despite not giving the less good looking guy a chance, treating him completely differently etc despite being "less visual and less shallow than men" For everyone commenting here, most of the frustration at women choosing chad is that they complain about problems they make for themselves and by society, feminism and a vew … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:37 PM |
| 50 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringPersonally Its all in the looks department in my mind, she will literally fill in the gaps in a mans personality if he's pretty enough and he won't even need game. Nothing has changed about women you need to be the total package to experience a completely different life but she'll make you the total package if you're quiet and good looking. Like a rich short not so good looking dude would still get rejected if he's not taking advantage of gold diggers. Love is completely closed off from you if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:24 PM |
| 58 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringWhich most people don't seem to understand is the biggest issue most single men face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:10 PM |
| 12 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringThe answer is no. Most people looking for non boring people are extremely dull and boring themselves thats why they need thier partner to bring it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:10 PM |
| 43 | Fellas, you’re not single because you are unattractive, short, broke, play video games, watch anime, or other generic guy shit your single because you’re boringThe funny thing is most men don't want to admit that its mostly looks that determines if a woman gives you a chance. If he was attractive enough she'd make excuses as to why he was boring or be ok with it. Not to mention if someone complains you're boring most typically they're boring or trying too hard to not be and desperately need someone else to actually bring color to thier life. Thats why most women want a handsome man that brings chaos or adventure either or is fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 12:08 PM |
| 0 | What is your solution to the issues in dating?What women want is the end all be all when she leaves, takes half your money, and/or wrecks your self esteem and emasculates you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:58 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about the fact that women are encouraged to do things in relationships that men aren't?Its just women getting burned because they crave excitement . They want to have thier cake and eat it too. Also every woman who partakes in this is just boosting thier ego and confusing it with confidence either in quality or quantity usually both. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Do people often set their standards to high as a defense mechanism?Your standards are inherently tied to your self esteem. Alongside whom you draw attention from. Thats why many women could get insulted if they keep getting approached by the same type of guy they deem arem't up to thier standars. This goes beyond even dating but since everyone is obsessed with love and dating there is an example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Where are the feelings? Do you just go by checklist and numbers?Most people go by what other people go by. So observing thier choices. You can be humble, average, maybe boring dude approach a woman sincerely with no mind games and throughout lets say 68 years not a single woman you'e asked out will have stayed with you or said yes to even getting to know you. Men are told by women (sometimes through subconscious actions and other times choices)they need to qualify themselves by any means nessecary. Those qualifications usually being physical appearance, mone… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:38 AM |
| 1 | "What do you bring to the table" is a horrible take as love shouldn't be something that can be calculated by the numbersIts not as horrible as you think. Most women; at least that Ive seen who answer this question never answer with kindness, love, attentiveness, being uplifting and other pleasant traits but instead bring up thier career, money, body because they completely devalue those parts of themselves sometimes because of thier environment , but mostly due to celebs, influencers and bad choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Men are hypogamous, and love opportunistically.Most Red pillers are confused in my opinion. Men aren't hypergamous, men take what they can get as most women want above average men not average men irregardless if those women are average or not. Majority of men are not desired and never will be, seriously red pill men act as though they are the ones who stepped away and the women in thier life or had the potential of meeting isnt just lusting after some other dude meanwhile he's completely invisible as he thinks "holding frame" or that his pot… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | The reason why women’s preferences generally speaking seem to range very different in online dating vs real lifePersonally I don't think most women are actually attracted to most men even when they're in relationships with one another. Most men will never have genuine attraction from a woman. Most women have a sort of switch up. Its like when a wife might compare her husband to Jason Mamoa "as a joke" they wouldnt ever do the same if Thier husband WAS. Or resembled Jason Mamoa. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:15 AM |
| 8 | Modern men are trying to fill every gap " Toxic " men cause in romantic relationships with womenYet they keep sleeping with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:07 AM |
| -1 | Men are not blindsided by breakups/divorce as much as they thinkMen are blindsided because they get tired of likely carrying everything romantic in the relationship, seriously its not COMMONPLACE, Or expected for women to do things for men other than show up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/24 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?True however men are over double the statistic comprared to women so as a woman you at least have a chance. Before you start shouting "sources sources" a quick google search isnt beyond your capabilities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:05 PM |
| – | Anxiety and insecurity in men are the biggest attraction killersPeople know what they want. Its just mostly unattainable to them so they are forced to adjust. Women less so. You really think your SO would choose you over her celebrity crush if all 3 of you met at the same time. This is just an example lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 02:00 PM |
| 1 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Id rather be a woman with the knowledge I have now. If I restart from zero I'd prefer to be a man still. Realisyically i'd rather be dead but you know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 01:54 PM |
| 13 | Which is easier, being a man or being a woman?Have fun dying a work related death or simply being worked to death lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/24 01:52 PM |
| – | This could be a better sub.Most of the proof is a majority of this subreddit even being red pill but you just claim anecdote while most blue pill evidence is also nothing but anecdote as most of it is claims. You truly believe the statistic that most men are having regular sex lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:54 PM |
| – | This could be a better sub.How about you just search it out? Rehab room, crisha zed, aarko tv to name a few with daily content of redpilling content | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:39 PM |
| – | This could be a better sub.Its out there. Far more than blue pill evidence most rep pill evidence is never on podcasts but compilations also thier evidence that these facts are factual is the amount of support in the comments of the original video being featured withinthe compilation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:23 PM |
| – | This could be a better sub.Sure but you blew it up to make it sound ridiculous. Most rp observations or I'll humor you and say assumptions are factual making them observations. Its like watching a persons actions vs what they put forward and thier ideals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:19 PM |
| – | This could be a better sub.Or it happened to them and they witness it happen to other men both online and in thier daily livea because what rp and blkp preaches happens frequently | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 11:08 PM |
| 1 | Is the online dating phenomenon reflective of real life?The more technology is intergrated into society, the more dating apps are just like real life. Everyone quite literally theoretically (more consistently women) have a date waiting for them in thier pocket. Its alot more raw now than ever before because uou are competing with dating apps,social media and people around you so people in general have higher standards. I also honestly believe this is linked to the obesity rate and more lack of care in ones self/depression related to dating. You have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 10:57 PM |
| – | This could be a better sub.Its less so assumptions more so observations that make people upset and scared so they turn it into generalizations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 10:47 PM |
| 1 | Men do not have high beauty standardsFor all of men most women will not be the one they settled for. I say all of men because this includes single men as well. Most dudes just want someone decent looking to care about them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 10:45 PM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingThey don't if you're attractive enough. Also a decent percentage of economically low effort men are fine in the relationship front. Lots of women love thugs. Your qualities financial limitations are negged if you are pretty enough. Most men arent and will never be but its a fact of life. Also yes. Was typing too fast too early in the morning. I meant unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 10:39 PM |
| – | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingSociety does its just that misandry is accepted and vocal. Most people doing hard labor jobs are still men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why does no one link stats or supporting evidence for their positions?If the advice is just "Work on your personality bro" then you're right and that's sucky advice. This kind of advice needs to be more specific, and ideally Doesnt matter how personalized it is if it doesnt hit the base line of you either have genetics that can contend with others or don't. I don't know what this has to do with my post. It's a non-sequitur, though. 1. Do women think all men are trash? 2. How many women think that all men are trash? 3. Do women who think all men are trash still hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Why does no one link stats or supporting evidence for their positions?Anyone good at debate knows you can minimize and manipulate staistics for almost any argument. Statistics do not claify reasons or intentions behind a certain behavior which is very important in terms of dating and sometimes prove nothing but the opposite of what someone is trying to argue. They don't clarify reasons or intentions because many statistics are word of mouth and not actions. LIke men who report having tons of sex. Yet many women hold the opinion men are trash/pigs/sexist idiots. So… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:19 PM |
| 9 | What the "Pills" Get Wrong . . .They can want that all they want it doesn't change her nature. Think of it as a woman swooning over male celebrities right infront of her husband. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:08 PM |
| 4 | What the "Pills" Get Wrong . . .What most people get wrong is women aren't malevolent thier nature is similar to malevolence as its selective. Its like when a woman openly swoons over a male celebrity in front of her husband. Sometimes this can get so bad she swoons over even male aquantainces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Your personality is mostly determined by factors outside your control and changing it fundamentally is EXTREMELY difficult, contrary to what other people might be espousingIts because many women CONSIDER themselves quirky or awkward. Some because they are, others to try and maintain individuality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 01:02 PM |
| 2 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingIt's not a privileged post. The people who I know IRL in relationships or divorced with kids are just everyday average looking dudes. Short, overweight, not necessarily very exciting. Those you know in relationships are on the track to divorce for not being attractive enough to not garner regret and resentment from their wife But I think they are below average. Otherwise they would they struggle? The average fat and short dudes I know in my own life seem to not struggle? Oh no I agree with you b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?Its not justification. Its just what happens. Sure they can get average women in one night stands even relationships only due to the fact chad wasn't biting. The moment that changes you become an obstacle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:24 PM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?No they don't. You imply theres this infinitely scaling system of people who have it better than eachother but at a certain early point that is completely unrealistic. Im not comparing myself to others until it affects my life, which others decide the be blind to like having to even witness a girl I'm with swooning over some other dude because he was born with better facial harmony than me after 5 years together lol. Witnessing women laugh at a joke that YOU KNOW they wouldn't find funny but lau… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:05 PM |
| 8 | Men on this sub are probably below average which is why they are strugglingWhat a privileged post lol. Women don't give that much of a fuck about your job/economic status. The only thing that makes men below average is if you're physically attractive lol How you look changes how certain factors in your life are percieved as well as opportunities. An attractive man making 6 figures is viewed as a full package. An ugly to average man making 6 figures is still only possibly good enough to settle for and will definitely be considered boring. Your ambition doesn't matter ne… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 12:01 PM |
| -1 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?It is deep down. They just don't see it because they're too sensitive to destroy thier world view. Pretty people have it easier and are chased after even after a break up. They matter more and the effort you put in as an average dude will not compare to if an attractive guy is just a decent human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?By dating I meam relationships in general, as I have never "dated" in the common sense. My first and last gf came to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:17 PM |
| -1 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?No I feel this way because I am physically unattractive comparred to chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?My first relationship lasted 5 years. We broke up in 2022. More on that is posted in the comments if you want to see a trainwreck. She couldn't srop talking about her ex and I think most women I encounter/the ones giving me attention now are all alpha widowed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:56 PM |
| 6 | Is it reasonable to have one bad relationship and not try again? Why men stop dating?Personally mine was 5 years, i was fighting literally and working at a car shop unofficially for some money on the side to help my immediate family who were having medical crisis at that moment. I didnt sleep very well but I made time to at least show affection and help her brainstorm for college assignments. When the issues died down and I finally got free time she immediately dumped me. I got complacent and I was happy to back to normal. Was really anxious she was cheating on me during that 2 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 01:42 PM |
| 2 | I think many women realize a huge portion of their 'attraction' comes from 'limited access'.Men aren't as pretty and to most dudes its obviously insecurity that leads to someone needing to edit photos. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfWe don't just buy in. It is spoon fed to us by society to keep us calm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfThe classic strawman and pull the exception outof my ass tactic. You are blind to actual nice people, anyone who vehemetly has to label themselves as such is trying to convince you and sometimes themselves but with attractive people everyone glosses over behavior and view them as confident who know who they are lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Women will reject or lose interest in a guy for the most frivolous reasons, and then completely rule him out no matter what he does to redeem himselfThe justworld fallacy is pushed in your face all over society, of course they feel entitled. Its the same way you likely feel entitled to food or the internet. You don't think every single day of how much you need something everyone else has or all in all is readily available to you as well. Most peoples issue is that many people when they have evidence, proof and even experiences that indicate the just world fallacy isn't true, are just called entitled, along with a slew of buzzwords despite ev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Would you LTR/marry a woman who has had an abortion?Ehhhh I consider early ltr still recklessly sleeping around in this as its well EARLY in the relationship and only messed up individuals like me actually know if a relationship is actually going to be long term An example lets say the ltr ended as soon as the abortion happened, its still in its early stages, would you consider that long term or no? Either way semantics. Point still stands sexual assault isnt comparable to mistakes in a ltr or recklessly sleeping around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageOk but what even brought you to whatever pill ideology you hold is more so what I was implying and is now what I am asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:39 AM |
| 4 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsWell in that case I'm not sure what to say other than I am resisting the urge to shoot my shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Would you LTR/marry a woman who has had an abortion?Sorry usually whenever I debate someone about the causes of abortion. Someone always has to go " but what about those forcably impregnated" which is ridiculous to bring up because that is a tragedy not comparrable to people just sleeping around recklessly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:35 AM |
| 7 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsUh I blame pre selection and my bias is about to come out but perhaps these men are just handsome or successful enough to get multiple women lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:30 AM |
| – | The reason why society shuns age gap dating is because the younger a girl is, the more shes covetedPeople only hate it because people somehow find it impossible to think that the younger party wanted any of this or are attracted to older people. You can apply that at 18 or more acceptable age gaps. They just cannot not imagine the person younger is being manipulated or preyed upon or is smart enough to not get trampled and abused in the relationship. When alot of the time the younger person just craves doing more mature things, or having more access to a lifestyle because the people thier own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Society is finished, terminal stageIf its not the case and you carry no scars from past dating or relationships why are you on a subreddit mainly about dating and relationships? Let alone have questions? Are you a passport bro by any chance? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:14 AM |
| 1 | Would you LTR/marry a woman who has had an abortion?I mean. I hate to get explicit but its not uncommon for women in the heat of the moment to ask him to not pull out in some way shape or form on top of is it that hard to request a partner uses a condom or things just won't happen? If the answer is yes then its split 50/50. Or are you suggesting women just so desperately need this the ultimatum of "condom or no sex" never crosses thier mind? Im not deaf or dumb to the fact some men will refuse sex if they are forced to wear a condom BUT its still… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:12 AM |
| 5 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsI understand your frustration but I agree with all but the cheating and in terms of standards. If you dont have a problem with a "boring guy" that may be the type you may have better luck with. If he does meet your standards though whos to say your standards and expectations won't flip or you won't end up chasing after something you don't have. Correct me if I'm wrong but your preference leads me to believe you have enough crude, mannerless, cheating people around you as is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Would you LTR/marry a woman who has had an abortion?Most cases arent that specific scenario. Most wouldnt even happen if protection or impulse control we're used at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do some people prefer casual sex while others prefer monogamy?Because they get bored easily as they desperately chase "not being boring". Thats it just some percieved notion a partner will hold them back. There is truth to that but thats just another trait, low impulse control. High self importance to make up for some percieved diminishing of thier importance and freedom. People are obsessed with the illsuion of freedom because well they HAVE to work, they HAVE to do alot of things they don't. In a way its maturity but its also a bit mature to be able to a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Whose fault is it in a deadbedroom?The womans for accepting someone shes not actually attracted to. Dead bedrooms rarely happen to attractive men. Especially since women are more willing to compromise or hell even break up and still sleep with him lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Are relationship worth it?No. They will leave when they find better and you are lacking in some department. Being attractive will get you more chances, or them reminiscing about you when thier new partner comes up short because now more than ever relationships are centered in comparrison because of social media. Before it was just your social circle, your parents and the past, now you have to compete with hundreds of people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Why is it normalized for women to be irritable and thus yell at their partners when before they menstruate or are pregnant?Im ok with women doing this. My issue is men can't without being labled as abusers, toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Some people are “relationship material” and others are just “casual sex/hookup material” and that’s okayThe issue is people want what they don't have. Many people only meant for casual sex will seek out a relationship due to that type of intimacy lacking in thier life, or they'll start to have fwb which is even more unfair to the person they may hypothetically start dating. With people in relationships all they do is take relationships for granted, sabatoge, break up or cheat to see if they grass is greener to get thier fix. Relationships simply donx't work now because of social media making every… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:30 PM |
| 5 | How come it is almost never considered that a guy can develop feelings for a woman he is friends with and that he just became friends to get into her pants?Again its not its just a womans way to attack a mans character to try and "manifest" what she wants for herself and other women. "I'M SO VALUABLE PEOPLE CAN EVEN CRUSH AND SMOTHER THIER OWN FEELINGS JUST TO REMAIN MY FRIEND, LOOK AT HOW MANY VIRTIOUS PEOPLE I ATTRACT BY MY OWN VIRTUE." Fact of the matter is most guys who are friends with a girl they liked are already doing that and it likely kills them inside. Its 50/50 if most women actually want to remain friends or if they don't have the guts… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:21 PM |
| 0 | Society is finished, terminal stageSociety isnt finished, you just want to cope by going scorched earth by a society that fucked you over and doesnt serve you in most ways especially dating. In this society pretty people rule all and the rest of us (if you're not pretty) are just side characters to support the pretty people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:14 PM |
| 10 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsI am a little lost. Is that advice aimed at someones physical appearance or the actions and opinions they choose to take. If its the later. Then more power to you, if its the first thennnnn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 10:11 PM |
| 43 | [STUDY] There exists a positive correlation between being a bully and success in dating and sexual relationshipsAs I keep saying either people overlook shit behavior for an attractive person or are completely blind to it/shitty behavior like putting others down to prop yourself up the social totem pole is normalized and ACTUALLY works because people only believe in what they see and can observe with minimal effort. All dating/sexual relations are is a popularity game. What that looks like is making others look like shit either passively by being more physically attractive, richer, sexually experienced. Or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 07:24 PM |
| 10 | Are women not getting approached anymore?And we shouldnt, they just want to be left alone unless you're a chad | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 02:19 PM |
| 1 | What is the actual reason why men get shamed for having preferences?Because women cannot take criticism abd actually have the same amount if not more mental health issues as men but its hidden behind sisterhood ego, regret and makeup. Sometimes all 4 put together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/24 03:56 AM |
| -2 | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleYes but also that i'm too ugly and no one had the balls to tell me I couldn't compete with her options | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 10:22 PM |
| -1 | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleWrong most of the time a woman is changed by time or social media, the input of friends and family etc. Most of the time all of the above. Most men are still delusional and dont watch a womans actions. So they give in to a womans pity or guilt if any when she rejects or breaks up with them. The men of trp and other adjacent pills don't and look at what really drives a woman to stay or even accept you in the first place (an example is how most of womens boyfriends or even next boyfriends are tall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 10:05 PM |
| 5 | Women base most of their “preferences” on trends and what is popular, and are far more influenced by what other women think than even their own instincts - the whole 6 foot thing is a perfect exampleMen watch womens actions and yes what you have said this time around is true. EDIT: Most men already know what you've said. But most girls try to not act shallow by never mentioning that they only actually like handsome guys. I get the example but thats an awful example because men can control what they wear. Men can't control the structure of thier face, or the size of thier john, nor thier head height without surgery and no women prefers a short man for example. I wish people would stop lying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | What Things do You Do to Support the Opposite Sex?I leave them alone and don't force them to interact with my ugly face. Doin Gods work over here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 12:01 PM |
| 1 | What do you suppose influences hypergamy from in a systemic social context?Its all social media/online dating mixed with a womans want for security. Women will always want better so long as they know better is out there so shes conncected to what she can get and if what you give her in all aspects physically mentally financially isnt up to par with what she compares and wants. Be it slowly or quickly she'll get rid of you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/24 11:54 AM |
| 6 | Ladies, what made you choose your boyfriend?You do choose your boyfriend. You didnt choose the numerous men you pass in the street and you didnt reject him. So you decided to be with him. Aka you chose him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/24 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?Even with this reply. Don't obsess over it just follow a few general rules and keep tabs on who your person knows. Men try to keep things serperate as long as possible. Women will introduce you to the guy so you aren't questioning WHY they're talking so much and so she technically isn't lying when she says shes texting X. Try to let them know as little of your schedule as possible. Drop them the "I'm almost there" just as you knock I don't think you can go wrong by building up someones guilt or … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | How would you know if your partner was cheating?What people don't get is theres cheating and then theres them trying to sabotage the relationship to be with this new person which also involves cheating but theres different behaviors to look for. My general advice is to take a backseat and extend more freedom and alone time out to someone especially a woman and see exactly what she does with it. Most women do not try to keep up two fronts. Its exhausting to them because they already have societal pressures of keeping up an image and will creat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 01:07 PM |
| 4 | I genuinely think people underestimate female toxicityPeople HEAVILY do. The fact that those subreddits exist but male spaces really dont this is virtually true for all social media. Its the same with Misandry. A dangerously underused word because hating on men is viewed as justified when in reality its just her venting about the men she more than likely CHOSE to be with. Most men are not that shitty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:47 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?The contradiction being women care far more about a mans appearance than anything else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 06:37 AM |
| 1 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?I could see it yes but thats why I advocate heavily for revenge | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:45 AM |
| 3 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?I disagree with both of you. Everyone at some point ot another will be a victim and victimizer. That's life. Your grandfather was likely a victim at one point or another. The way to minimize this is actual self awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 12:19 AM |
| 4 | Do virgin women still have "value" or is it something "from the past"?Women feel a preassure to be experienced in bed. Be it other women trying to damage and sabotage them or a message they absorbed in society that they need to know what they're doing from other girls bragging, modern music being sex centric, porn, or dudes trying to make more women slutty so they have an easier time. Its also a great substitute for actual confidence, which many women sadly lack. No shade. Many women also adopt an idea that they need to have thier fun before a certain age so they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:37 PM |
| 1 | What are some of your 'favorite' societal contradictions?Women care less about the appearance of men than men do women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:27 PM |
| 5 | Men erroneously confuse being confident with being an asshole with the whole nice guy/asshole dichotomy and womenBecause those people still get female attention and reassurance even if its just the illusion of it. They are rich celebrities with noteriety. Lol do you know how ridiculous your arguement actually is. Hell some were born with it and became unattractive like poor Brendan Fraiser. Take a kid through highschool who has good grades, no friends, no girl but accomplishes assignments and has a decent future, you truly think that kid is going to be more confident than a person with an average future bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?Im not saying people TELL us to do this though some definitely do. I'm saying for the most part we are just left to figure things out. Sometimes when it comes to women. Men get demonized for having any feelings and not acting completely blue pilled. "Oh ah well thats her choice and I respect it." Is what you're supposed to say and feel as a man if you're fed up with being rejected or else you're a mysogynistic devil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Men erroneously confuse being confident with being an asshole with the whole nice guy/asshole dichotomy and womenBullfucking shit. Also yes your self assuredness does not come from you. Its mostly how many affirmations have been repeated to you throughout your life. None if you're ugly, some to alot if you're attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredLet me rephrase then. Aging is the only reason women actually look inward and reflect on anything. Men have more hunbling experiences and aren't told "oh she's missing out" until recently. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:50 PM |
| 15 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?You misunderstand. When a girl is young and upset more people rush to cheer her up and be in her corner than anyone will to a young males corner, if anyone at all. I'm talking as young as toddlers/middle school. Most women are immediately justified in how they feel by outside sources for better or worse, males are not born with that support system. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Should late bloomer men insist hard on "starter girlfriend" status or not?Yes. Revenge is great and no one should be sparred. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Men erroneously confuse being confident with being an asshole with the whole nice guy/asshole dichotomy and womenIts a simple concept the more you put others down the better you appear to stupid people or people lokking for a reason to like you. Aka if a handsome dude has an ugly/nerdy short friend he has banter with it'll make him look confident to dumb school girls who are attracted to his face already. They aren't attarcted to the nerd so what he goes through is meamingless to them. Never forget the aspect of domineering and self importance that helps prop these people up to be the center of attention. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:24 PM |
| 3 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?I am a very comforting person. So I usually get used until someone has grown enough to monkey branch elsewere | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:15 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…Mate value is irrelevant if you can't find a mate, if your physical appearance isnt acceptable enough for someone to be willing to mate with you while you watch someone elses features or possibly single feature be enough for someone. Along side falsehood and hopes like "you need to improve your personality" "just be nice" that most black pill dudes hear from a young age | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:12 PM |
| 12 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?Most men are not told to feel better, or cheered up. That is a strictly woman thing. We're left to figure out how to feel better or to not feel it in the first place. Thats why men try to solve problems when people approach them with some. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Why do men not tell other men to be vulnerable, AND, why do women tell men to be more vulnerable, en masse?They're competing in who cares more and so they're able to weed out weak males, the issue is people only expect whats inside you to be nice and pretty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 01:01 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…A 5 is not actually ugly, its just ugly by a womans standards. Sorry just tired of this forum and society giving ugly people hope lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:56 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…The age barely matters though Im praying everyone there was with someone legal and legal themselves. Attractiveness is not subjective. It is objective with subjective chances, women have a higher standard of what they consider attractive. Women are less likely to cite a mans looks as the reason she chose him despite him objectively having attractive traits. 6ft at least or plus or at least 2 inches taller than her, athletic build, jawline, decent hair. Many of these things you cannot change, wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:54 PM |
| 3 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredBecause aging is typically the only stimuli a woman reacts to to begin maturing it is extremely rare that its before hand. I am more concerned with the majority/average behaviors because as men that need to approach to have anything this is what you're going to encounter. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:51 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…Congrats you went from a 1 to a 4. You have went from no girls to every girl is going to cheat on you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:47 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…Women date up and take male looks for granted. Thats why ugly men are invisible. Women are less likely to state looks and go with "his personality" "His vibe" as cited reasons for picking thier boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:46 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…If you don't have certain features you will never be genuinely desired even by a hypothetical wife. Thats life get over it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:43 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…Seriously you can only take but so much of getting passed up for someone more physically attractive with low enough character to come off as "Interesting". Then get told "oh his vibe was great" "his personality was awesome". No he's attractive and you're making excuses to go after him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:41 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…Basically what they said is if you're ugly give up, it was never going to happen for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:36 PM |
| – | „Just go outside and look at couples, bro. Black/red pill is bs” so I did…He went out and gained area based facts, you seem to have a chip on your shoulder | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:35 PM |
| 3 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredThats what developed means in the context you used it in. You were avoiding using mature because it proves trp right. Most women only mature out of this because they get that asshole boyfriend or hookup and it burns them out and leaves them damaged. Give or take a few tries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Men, describe your “Sex Zone”.Yes I know. Because men can be rejected. Women for the most part will always find someone else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:21 PM |
| 3 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredMost of the issue guys take with people saying you should be nice to women is thats mainly the advice mothers give out. Its thier first lesson in love and 90% of the time it will never work out because women prefer the illusion of being interesting, and looks over anything. Basically stop lying to men saying being kind matters, it doesn't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:20 PM |
| 3 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredNot you again. Can't help but respond. By you saying developed woman its like telling decent men to just wait until thier 30s for women to actually mature. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 12:02 PM |
| 20 | Most girls are genuinely repelled by truly kind men, you have to have some degree of asshole in you or they will get boredBecause women just want to attack your character to imply theres nothing wrong with them and that its all on you. Its a double whammy of supporting thieir disney fairytale idea of love that "if you just work hard people will notice you" as well as a womans main character syndrom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Men, describe your “Sex Zone”.Male sexuality is viewed as an accomplishment because some males simply arent wanted and no one wants to have that implied about them. That is compounded by women shaming men who supposedly get none along with men with inadequacies. (Small dick, virgin/inexperienced, accuse him of being gay and a handful of others) Women feel this same insecurity as well BUT its just misconception used by other women to sabotage other women. Most men are not concerned with a womans possible lack of experience an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayNot since my ex broke my heart and when I did I wasnt fantasizing about the actors but positions and scenarios with my partner since we did alot of roleplay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?I wonder what they could've possibly been fighting about. Also I guess my apologies I don't consider making it past a year an accomplishment because my only 2 relationships lasted over 3 years so personally It just doesnt reigister as some sort of victory. Also yeah a good chunk of people actually have this personality trait where they will do the opposite of what's good for them at the time to prove both their own doubt and doubters wrong and restore faith in thier own belief system. Even peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Men, describe your “Sex Zone”.Right but its not like these people say nothing to eachother then start fucking like rabbits 98% of the time at least there has to be some illusion of fulfillment. For attractive people that fulfillment for the other party is usually just go got to sleep with an attractive person who wasn't kicking abandoned puppies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayIts better inherently if the person attached to it is better looking. Most guys in the friendzone literally do help a woman meet her emotional needs but he's disqualified from dating her because he is not physically attractive to her. Most dudes in the friendzone are not attractive. They are literally all personality and are loved but in a good friend type of way or even worse if they have feelings for her. As family. Also these men are not usually not able to be tied down. Or have a different w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 02:12 PM |
| 2 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayIts not irrelevant thats why he is her best sexual partner. Also I'm not strictly talking about his dick to be clear. Also yes thats why not being your partners best is awful Because sooner or later a chance to relive that amazing moment will present itself. Be it the same dude or a dude like him. People will do what they always do. Cave or begin resentment towards thier partner until they do cave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:53 PM |
| -1 | CMV: Most Red Pillers (TRP) are actually the most defeatist of all the "Pills"No its based on womens decisions and ehag women back and support as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:36 PM |
| 5 | Men, describe your “Sex Zone”.The funny thing is most casual sex hookups have to mimic that closeness in some degree for most. Not 8/10+ dudes usually who will meet a girl on the dance floor and just bang her in the bathroom | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:47 PM |
| 2 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayYes but not that particular top tier fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayI don't believe his dick is that readily available. Its 50/50 if he remains in contact or moved onto a different girl. Also I cannot bring myself to believe women don't alpha widow themselves trying to figure out what made his dick different. Sometimes its as simple as he is the most attractive guy she's been with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?Yes they lasted 5 years, it ended. That is not a successful marriage even in Destiny's eyes as he was hoping they'd be together until they passed on. Hence no prenup. Also Destiny initiated the paperwork. Meline quite literally was given an ultimatum and chose the other guy. Even before the ultimatum was given she chose the other guy lol. My claim to those two statements is intangible because its in thier subconscious and in thier own actions debating anyone that thier lifestyle would workout an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 03:41 AM |
| 1 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?She has low self esteem. Thats one reason she needs an open relationship. Same with Destiny who is a serial cheater. She just wants what she didnt have because she doesn't know what she needs besides what she doesnt have. Destiny isnt dramatic. This guy is extremely dramatic making her feel wanted and feeding on a womans main character syndrome. With her bf before destiny it was attention and lifestyle/a social circle. With destiny its interpersonal drama to give her drive again because things w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 03:14 AM |
| 5 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayNo I just want to occassionally be overstimulated and overstimulate my partner to the point of begging. I say occassionally because everytime would exhaust my partner and be unrealistic. Might as well be open. In fact I can't fantasize about other women or even date because I'm still getting over my ex almost 3 years after the break up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 02:02 AM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?The question is about the man being made to wait while you sleep with someone else not if the guy you're sleeping with won't date you because you slept with him too fast. Also wait if men were a dime a dozen why get married? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayThe best lay in a womans life typically doesnt need to care enough to milk her for sex. He is usually desired enough that he can replace her easily. Half of its his actual performance the other half is how physically attractive he is. Many women enjoy listening to the instruction of a man. Or even if they don't can easily learn what thier man likes. Rarely is a woman limited (outside of her own mind) in how she can approach sex but a mans genetics cannot be taught. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayIts a given be it in 1 year, during sex, or 24 years down the road she will want what you lack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:28 AM |
| – | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?As I keep saying it'd black pilled. She left him for someone prettier shes not willing to lose. His peronality could be whiny and disgusting it doesn't matter. In the female gaze, he's more attractive than destiny lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:26 AM |
| – | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?You assume they lasted due to chemistry or working on the relationship. The truth is most relationships persist better with an us vs them mentality and thats all this was. They didnt want to be wrong that open relationships are pointless or doomed to fail. They had everything going for them to be right. Most open relationships only persist on us vs them and a lack of expectation. As soon as destiny added expectation she replaced him. Im not going to argue about some "HVM" BS. She replaced him. A… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Does the Destiny situation prove that redpill is right?He didnt want to be actually cucked lol. He paid for his wife to get dicked down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 01:18 AM |
| 7 | Odds are you won’t be your partner’s “sexist” or “best in bed” - and that’s okayNah bro I'm good. Why would I want to have sex with someone who is no doubt fantasizing about other people. I'd just be wasting thier time and I'm not someones placeholder. Also in my opinion thats all husbands end up being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?There is no "control" if a man finds this out he should leave. Or else he's truly desperate and pathetic. You're missing the point still. Its about who you're more attracted to in a primal sense. If some fuck boy can get you into bed without even needing a date or just 1 to a few then the man any woman claims to want/be in love with should take an equal amount or less time to get in bed with. This is a harsh truth for both men and women to swallow if you know she's slept with someone on the firs… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:46 AM |
| – | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.I wish you the best of luck to not be a negatice statistic . Also you underestimate just how pathetic most men are. Most men dont have options and the only time they can experience intimacy or the illusion of being wanted is through a relationship with the promise or possibility of marriage. Being overweight makes you under a 5/10 at least for men. Some others being short, lower income, dick size. Also Ive been told that just by how dating works, the fact that women have to gauge if they'll give… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?It doesnt but if that man finds out and gets offended he has every right to be upset. Even more so if he took more dates to get you going. Just go be with the guy you find actually attractive lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 12:05 AM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?You're misunderstsnding the man wouldnt date you because you were laid up with someone else while getting to know him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?You still arent understanding lady. You're stating consent is given. We're saying consent from a woman is only given to a portion of the male population and with held from the other portion. Men rarely. Can nor want to withhold sex from women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often do you make a guy (you like) wait for sex while having an active FWB on the side?Men are victims because most women don't desire most men. Aka women control sex as a large number of men want sex with a large number of women and most women want sex with a low number of men. Its about willingness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:43 PM |
| – | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.No if someone is giving you advice they just want to see the advice they give work,to support thier own fairytale world view. At least in terms of love. Also the biggest part of convincing someone to give you a chance is all in your looks. You can try your ass off if you aren't prettier or as attractive as the other people they're considering you're going to be friendzoned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:18 PM |
| – | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.It wasnt his personality. You always viewed him as a possible relationship candidate because you didnt outright disqualify him. There is no in between for women. Its bashed for men to have standards you must live under a rock lady. Men are TOLD they are to be greatful women are there and just be nice by the very first people that broach this subject with the individual typically. I have an entire list of anecdotal examples that're accepted by society. On most shows the man is potrayed to be some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 11:12 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.Men are not viewed as competent in relationships/as the prize unless he is an 8 to 10 in looks or sometimes when they are rich. If something is wrong in the relationship its the mans fault, commercials and media potray men as goofy dogs women have to begrudgingly be there for again unless he's an 8 to 10 in looks in looks. Even in real life situations men are considered lucky to just have thier girl if they've "committed" to eachother and are constantly reminded/joked about how they are. Heres t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/24 02:24 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.Relationships and sex just happen for most Women. Most women are sitting there having to be convinced to put effort towards a man unless he is her most attractive partner because men are viewed as lesser/the worse half of the relationship. Sometimes in terms of being single you dont have options. You can work and work and still be considered ugly face and body wise. Then all the work you put towards being funny, charming, having hobbies is for nothing at least in the dating world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 10:15 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.Trp thinks that if you work on both body and character (mainly your status) you can slay women. They think ANYONE can do this which is my issue with it.physical appearance is mainly what drives women. Certain genes and genetics just are not attractive and most women arent attracted to bulky body builders, More lean and pretty in the face with some muscle definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 10:09 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.Classic straw man response. Its hyperbole, as an example of peoples opinion. They could've just as easily said if "99% of people think you're ugly". Now apply what you said in that context. Heartless and compassionless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:15 PM |
| 6 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.The others don't have to or even try and I get life isn't fair but this is a fucked up paradigm to hold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:12 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.I did. However if you speak stroke. It made perfect sense. I made a few edits to make it more comprehensible. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 07:05 PM |
| 24 | CMV: Bluepillers don't actually care about self improvement.Because self improvement is actually extremely shallow and doesnt line up with the disney fairtale lovealot of people have been told by parents, society and other people that we all crave that love was. Firstly someone couldve already been working on themselves only to be told to self improve again. Suggesting they havent been trying hard enough and/or doing it right. Next suggesting that theres just something so inherently wrong with you, yet awful criminal murders and worse get to experience r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?It is be it casual sex or relationships. Most women do 0% of what they do in life to end up alone or just surrounded by friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?To be garbage men? To climb up electric towers/telephone poles? To fix sewage systems? To lay concrete?snowplowing? Any construction job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?Thier lifestyle that still involves having to get men. Also in the same age bracket as I mentioned for men. Children are a non factor for most. Not clarifying for you but for anyone reading the comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:53 PM |
| 0 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?Only if you're actually hot otherwise you willbbe friendzoned | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 01:49 PM |
| 0 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?After a certain point no but most young men/teenagers yes. Lets also not get it twisted men are the primary motivator for straight women as well, women just have more standards mostly that he's gotta be fun. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:32 PM |
| 12 | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?It only applies to women or rather, its only about equality when its a net positive. Otherwise women would fight to have manual labor jobs too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 12:26 PM |
| 1 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersI said IF. If he's a vet it could give more. Plus the caretaker themselves applying for benefits could add to that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 04:12 AM |
| 0 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersPeople miss what they dont have. If you have hook ups constantly you'll likely want the intimacy of a relationship. Most women can stave this off through sisterhood, friendzoning guys and simps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/24 04:11 AM |
| 4 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersOnly if his disability check is big enough 98% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 03:44 AM |
| 2 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersYou did hook ups, its in you to be able to get to that point. I honestly think you'll go down this path feel like you missed out then end up leaving or cheating. Only time will tell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 03:43 AM |
| 3 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersMen can not open up and still be close to someone. It literally happens all the time. You think most men dating right now are just having constant deep conversations or are they just fun enough for that girl to be around? Most women don't want to know of nor take on a mans problems. At most she'll only care about things that make him fufilling what he gives her harder. Like grievances about people at a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:53 PM |
| 1 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersAre you a virgin? If not then you are a liar trying to make up for past mistakes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 07:49 PM |
| 6 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersAnd yet that number of women who have stay at home men is so small. Unless theres children involved I wish you would stop pretending that men who work 40h+ cant or dont take time to clean thier house. I dont even have to bring up the fact that women are more invested and satisfied by being invested in thier partner. Men also put up far less walls for intimacy when dissatisfied. Even most single women don't want more alone time so it barely feels like extra effort when she comes home more than li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced.He might when he gets a slow tuesday or it could be a completely different chad. Also just because someone is with you doesnt mean they're invested in the relationship. Nor does it mean they're not trying to have thier cake and eat it too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:48 PM |
| 4 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersKey word being WHILE. No woman will be satisfied being the breadwinner of the relationship for the entirety of the relationship or until death/retirement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:41 PM |
| 6 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersIf anything they don't get off on it. They get security out of it because being a male almost every relationship you have is transactional. The respect and love of your woman. She wouldnt be your woman if you didnt give her something / the best option she had at the time be it looks wise, sexually, financially company wise and most of the time multiple at once. Also the second to last sentence you said are what men put up with just existing in dating or marriage thats why divorced men are so fed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:37 PM |
| 2 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersYou're delusional if you think its for leverage in arguments. Most men want to make more than thier partners to add to the feeling of need/regret. Being needed and them needing you and regret when they leave. Its not soley for this. Its a safety net of not being forgetable by women. Again not saying all men who work at all are just working for the sole purpose of women to be clear. Also hey to be fair its the same way women throw around the word narrcicist when they break up with ANYONE. Its typ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:23 PM |
| 3 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersYou likely werent incompatible they likely werent bringing enough in different ways or werent actually attractive enough to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:13 PM |
| -2 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersStop lying. Women want an attractive man, they could give a fuck less if hes college educated so long as he has some type of income even if its inconsistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:11 PM |
| 6 | The Fallacious Connection Between Male Insecurity and Female BreadwinnersWomen don't accomedate that preference. Its just easier for women to date up and too many benefits in the moment so they choose the natural progression. Alot more women are focused on having as little stress in thier life as possible Besides women lose attraction if they think they're better than thier partners in any way unless that partner has amazing genetics. Most Women don't avoid work related stress to give thier potential partners an edge, they avoid it to do other things and have more of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced.Homogamy doesn't rule. Women settle for men they don't want knowing they're going to break up once chad comes back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 12:59 PM |
| 3 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.Yes its pathetic and will only serve to outcast them more when going to possibly relate to other people, aka get friends and socialize and completely neg any progress at doing the later. "Yeah me and my girl went to this roller skating ring that was weirdly high class and prissy." "Me and Janet.Ai relaxed, roleplay cuddled and talked about the New castlevania show. Oh and look at this pic she sent me." For women it might actually be acceptable as people may think you're just similar to one of th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:44 AM |
| 1 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.You stated those women we're being treated bad. I gave a reason they may have been treated bad or thier mans attitude may have changed. Its that most women don't have a desire or know how to treat a man because men are viewed as easy to please simpletons my most of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:39 AM |
| 0 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.The terminology and overall reason for posting it suggests you view yourself in that sainthood already. Im not judging you its introspection as I wait for my moment to give up and retreat affection waiting for a girls face to light up as we meet someone new. Women are masters of comparrison. If theyre comparing you to anything it is already a fact they view it as better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:36 AM |
| 2 | It is okay to quit dating but not okay to quit striving in life.Men are not as shallow as you think. Men crave things that actually feel real the same way women like the illusion of confidence amongst many other traits. Plain and simple something taken only in the absense of another cannot fix the problem. Its like giving a baby a toy irregardless of why its crying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:26 AM |
| 0 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.Sometimes women don't deserve the best when they treat thier man in return like dog shit. As a fact of 90% of women arent told how, nor place any agency on how to actually treat a man. An example is how many women will lose attraction for a man when he opens up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:20 AM |
| 1 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.Its because ironically she only picks men who have been with/been damaged by a bunch of women. Proving another stereotype that women crave men other women want, if she went for a young guy whos never had a girlfriend she wouldnt be hearing those things. This is all just evidence of whom she surrounds herself with by choice lol. This is the type of woman to have a mysogyny fetish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | I don't know if this is a double standard or not.To try and prove to yourself you're above them lol. Misery loves company, you're so self righteous its as impossible for you to realize it takes 2 to ruin a relationship as any man you're attempting to humble. If you picked better you wouldnt need to desperately humble them. Every person is simply the hero in thier own story the mere way you phrased your comment is evidence that you do exactly what you accuse men of doing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 02:13 AM |
| 0 | Men should accept upfront being settled for and eventually being broken up with/divorced.Most men aren't even able to get dates not for a lack of trying but most women are in relationships/are having casual sex. Men find far more women attractive than women find men. Men are far far more open to dating thier looks match/down its just even those women lower on the looks chart only want a chance with chad/chris hemsworth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/24 11:11 PM |
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