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Casual sex has always been a thing. People just didn’t talk as openly about it. If anything previous generations were having MORE casual sex. Boomers had the hippy free love movement back in the 60s and 70s for instance. You had the swinging 1920s. The Bohmenian Movement of the late 1800s and early 1900s. There’s nothing new under the sun kid. And those generations did a lot more actual fucking. Gen Z talks a lot about casual sex while having less sex than people in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:10 PM
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The current dating scene is not drastically different from the past. Onlyfans is just the modern version of going to the strip club. When strip clubs were more of a thing you would always have dudes who got way too enamored with certain strippers and wanted to blow all of their money on them. Online dating has been around for over a couple of decades now, and before that you had singles classified ads in newspapers that were basically the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:44 AM
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I mean back in my prime I had two girls who turned to stalking me after I rejected them. I also had a girl who was basically my unpaid maid/simp (she cooked for me and did my laundry) even though she knew I was dating someone and I made it clear I wasn’t interested. And I’m a fairly average guy so… This “nobody is interested in me” thing sounds like a YOU problem
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 11:22 AM
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You don’t even have to be Chad. Just reasonably attractive. I get the impression a lot of dudes on Reddit are way below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 03:34 AM
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People on here are constantly telling on themselves for being unattractive. Most womens' sexual appetites are just fine. Many of them are ravenous. But only when you're a guy they're actually into.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 01:56 AM
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It gets better. He had a daughter from a previous relationship, but the mother was really neglectful to the point that she got in trouble with CPS and lost custody. He used my sister in law to raise his daughter for him. She did all the work of parenting this girl while he basically did nothing. Him bailing on the relationship happened a few months after his daughter turned 18 and went off to college. He also never helped with rent or any bills even though they were living together and he had a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 07:19 PM
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I only know one single late 30s cat lady in real life, and in her case it wasn't by choice. She's my sister in law. She came home from work one day, and her long term live in boyfriend who she had been with for around 10 years had moved out. He broke up with her via a text message. She was caught completely off guard by this. There was nothing to suggest it was about to happen. Someone she had been with for a decade just ghosted her our of the blue. He had also quit his job a month before that a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 06:54 PM
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And you've had long term relationship success using this strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:09 AM
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“Be yourself” is unironically good advice when it comes to relationships. I’ve never understood how redpillers think they would be able to keep up the phony macho man facade long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:51 AM
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Good luck. I enjoy being married and I hope you do too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:39 AM
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So start the relationship off on an adversarial note, and she’s probably not attracted to you? How well do you think that’s going to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:38 AM
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She was 19 years old and a virgin who was “saving herself for marriage” before that night sooo… The next day I got a whole spiel about how what we had done was so wrong and sinful in the eyes of God ROFL Women will break every rule for guys they’re into Coming up on 22 years together this year.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:22 AM
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What would that accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:18 AM
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lol my wife was supposedly a “good catholic girl.” Still let me have sex with her all night long on date #2.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:14 AM
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I'm married. My wife let me fuck her on the second date all night long without a condom. Same deal with my girlfriend back in high school. Women don't hold back with guys they are actually into. If she's stringing you along for date after date with no sex it's time to move on. If she's putting all kinds of limits on what you can do during sex it's also time to move on. They let guys they're into do almost anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:50 AM
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Any woman who doesn't let you raw dawg her on the first or second date isn't sexually attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 12:46 AM
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Unattractive people struggle. I actually had no idea until I came online and found all of this incel and femcel stuff (which is fascinating by the way) that a lot of people struggled with dating. The only guys I saw struggle in real life were extremely short and/or autistic, and the only girls I saw struggle were morbidly obese. I never struggled. None of my close friends struggled either. I've actually never even been rejected. "Just be confident" turned out to be good advice. I might have been…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 09:39 PM
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A bunch of LARPing and grifting would be my guess. Same deal with all of the PUA and seduction stuff. Edit: Also that married subreddit appears completely dead. The posts are extremely old. Like I said my brother is a psychiatrist who is privy to the personal details of guys who are mixed up in manosphere stuff. He works at the VA so his patients are nearly all male. He said they’re incels without exception. We had a huge discussion a few weeks ago about how the manosphere and incel stuff is hel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:58 AM
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I’m a married man with a kid and don’t know any other married men IRL who are “red pilled.” The only other married guy I know in real life who knows about any of this crap is my brother. He’s a psychiatrist who sees a lot of male patients and deals with the fallout from the bad advice coming from the manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:30 AM
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A lot of them are femcels for lack of a better term. The kind of women who can get a man but can’t keep him. See also TwoXChromosomes and FemaleDatingStrategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:10 AM
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The manosphere is full of incels and borderline incels. Guys who are doing well with women generally aren’t getting deep into pill ideologies or following masculinity guru grifters like Andrew Tate. Purplepilldebate is a manosphere adjacent sub. It allows outsiders to come in and debate, but also has people who actually follow various manosphere ideologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 11:06 PM
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My wife can, but she's also a squirter, which makes her an outlier all around I guess. I'm not sure that it's a matter of being well endowed. I think it's just something some women can do and some can't. Foreplay definitely makes it more likely to happen. You can go down on her, or if you don’t like the taste you can play with her clit with your hand. I legitimately enjoy going down. Female orgasms are really obvious when they happen. You’ll feel their pussy kind of spasm and rhythmically clench…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 10:56 PM
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This is one way you directly address the incel problem. Most incels are neurodivergent and don’t do well trying to date girls who are NT. But how would you get women to use it? They already don't use dating apps as much as men, and autistic and ADHD women don't seem to struggle as much with dating as their male counterparts.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 07:06 PM
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Women in their early 20s =/= women in their late 20s and early 30s You aren’t at the baby crazy/ticking biological clock phase yet. Trust me it’s coming and it’s very real. You’re going to watch women’s’ feelings about children change drastically over the next decade. This is why most doctors won’t do hysterectomies on early 20s “childfree” women. Doctors are smarter than the average person and know it’s just a phase for 95% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 09:13 AM
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You beat me to saying it. Feminism and the manosphere both thrive when there are lots of romantically unsuccessful people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:47 PM
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Hoeing around or being a player is completely antithetical to finding a serious long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 10:14 PM
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Some guys can self improve their way out of being undesirable to women, and some can't. It depends on how bad the cards are that you've been dealt. Anecdotally the only guys I've known in real life who completely struck out with women were either extremely short (like 5'4" or under) or were on the autism spectrum and couldn't mask well enough to function in social situations. Looks are somewhat subjective and women can have different physical types that they're into. Even whether someone has a "…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 05:45 AM
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My wife and I both had an instant strong connection when we first met. It was very strong sexual chemistry combined with a very strong friendship. Neither one of us wanted anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 01:06 AM
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I'm 41 years old. I'm a late Gen Xer, very early millennial, or maybe a Xennial depending on who you ask, lol The whole point of a long term relationship in my opinion is to build a life together. I don't see any reason someone needs to wait until their 30s or 40s to get into a LTR. In my opinion the earlier you lock something down, the better your options will be. College or grad school is a perfect time to get into a LTR. I've seen a lot of guys in the manosphere bemoan potentially having to "…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:48 AM
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I'm not the perfect guy and my wife started dating me when she was 19 years old. We've been together since 2002 and have a kid together. My older brother and his wife met in their early 20s and have been together even longer and have 3 kids. My best friend met his wife when they were both 20 and they've been together over 20 years and have 2 kids. If women feel a strong connection to a guy they will absolutely leave the dating scene behind in their late teens or 20s. I'm living proof. I don't ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:24 AM
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I've heard autistic guys can sometimes do well with girls with autism and/or ADHD. They "get" each other in a way that neurotypical partners don't. Might be something to consider.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:10 AM
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I have no idea. I was in gifted classes in grades 2-8 and then went to a magnet high school where I was in the International Baccalaureate program with other gifted students who tested into the program. Mine was tested a few times by psychologists and was in the high 150s or low 160s. The score was a little different each time. I don't tell people that I'm gifted and have a high IQ in real life because they think I'm bragging. I do well on standardized tests and am able to quickly learn new conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:23 PM
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My wife calls me on her way home from work every day. She also randomly sends me stupid stuff from instagram and tiktok that she thinks is funny. She flips out when she can't get ahold of me. She'll just keep calling me repeatedly. Sometimes 20 times in 15 or 20 minutes. It's like she thinks I'm dead even though I'm probably just in the bathroom or on the phone with someone else. Back in the day I always had female friends, so chatting was mostly in person. They would usually just come up and st…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 04:58 PM
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I go to the gym when I have time and do a mix of cardio and weight lifting. But I have a 6 year old kid so it's not always possible. Getting him to his after school activities takes priority over my gym time. I wear comfortable clothes that fit. I shower every day, trim my beard, brush my teeth, and wear deodorant. I don't care about fancy clothes and I don't have a skincare routine. Yes. I'm married. I've been with the same woman for 21 years. I never had any issues dating back when I was singl…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 03:41 PM
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My wife lost her father (to pancreatic cancer), her mother (to an aggressive undiagnosed cancer), her best friend (to a sudden heart attack), and her dog (15 years old, died of old age) all in the span of just one year. Her best friend was young and left behind two sons, one of whom was only 3 years old. Her parents died within three months of each other. Her father died right before Thanksgiving 2022 and her mother died right before Valentine's Day 2023. Her dog died suddenly. He just started b…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 02:54 PM
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That sounds similar to what most NT people experience. I think we all say the wrong thing or misread people from time to time. But your OP suggests that being ND is hindering you in some way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:59 AM
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What have your experiences been like trying to make friends and date? I can tell you the autistic guys I was friends with back in high school and college a few decades ago couldn't get anywhere with girls. Like they couldn't even get a date. The girls were too weirded out by them. And these were guys who were supposedly high functioning with some ability to mask. I get the impression there's a lot more awareness of autism now than there was back then. I don't know if that helps at all with relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:45 AM
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I'm a gen Xer and had some autistic classmates growing up. Autistic people were bullied relentlessly back in the 1980s and 1990s. Like I'm talking bullying so bad it would happen in the middle of class, and the teacher would join in the bullying rather than putting a stop to it. None of the autistic guys I knew ever had any success with dating. Contrary to what the OP is saying it seems like the treatment of autistic people by society has vastly improved in the last couple of decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 06:35 AM
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