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Approached, no. Dating app, yes, but after swiping left on all the guys who are out of my league, there isn't a whole lot left. (And the ones who are left always seem to ghost me or don't really try to talk to me.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 08:21 PM
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I'll get there one day...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:49 PM
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Some of the comments do make me question my value as a human a lot. But that's just my personal weakness I think.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:46 PM
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It's number 2. Lots of us would be much happier with an introvert...but I don't meet anyone because I don't leave the house enough lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:45 PM
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I internalize most of the stuff men say on here, and repeat it to myself a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:43 PM
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Even something like "interest" or "amusement" or "calmness" is categorized as an emotion. I'd say it's more likely that you only consider strong emotions in your personal assessment. All humans are constantly experiencing some degree of reaction to our environments and circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:41 PM
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Works that way in reverse too. I'm a 2/10 and most guys want someone more attractive, even if we're comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:36 PM
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This subreddit actually does stress me out and make me hate myself sometimes I should find a way to stop coming here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 07:03 PM
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Bold of you to assume any man will ever want to marry me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:40 PM
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Country boy is the right answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:21 PM
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what does "mentally virgin" mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:00 PM
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Seems like a very fair trade
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:50 PM
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u r never alone 💜
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:49 PM
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It's not impossible if you live in a rural area.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:36 PM
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who says we aren't self-aware of it too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:31 PM
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It's hard to find men who are actually interested in homesteading and aren't just prepper apocalypse LARPers
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:27 PM
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What are you reading?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:21 PM
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The preference isn't universal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:53 PM
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I genuinely do not care. I'm a virgin, I've never had anything up there, big or small or medium. I'm never going to have sex outside of marriage, so whoever I end up marrying will be the only penis I ever experience, God willing. I don't care what size it is. I don't know if I'll even enjoy penetration. I don't care if I enjoy penetration or not because for me, sex is a much bigger communal act, and the physical pleasure of that one small portion is completely irrelevant. If a bigger one hurts t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:50 PM
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Hmm. Interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:43 PM
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I meant that as an open invitation. If someone disagrees, I'd be happy to hear more about their perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:41 PM
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It's at least something I have no real preference about, but then I say that as a virgin who doesn't like the idea of penetration. I just can't imagine it ever being comfortable, and it seems like bigger would make that worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:38 PM
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Thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:36 PM
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I'm not lactating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:31 PM
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How are you meant to pronounce the "o" in "mog"?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:30 PM
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They're rarely ever willing to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:29 PM
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Hey now...my moral fiber is quite strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:23 PM
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Inductive: specific ➡️ general Deductive: general ➡️ specific
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:20 PM
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This seems like a severe overreaction to a commenter on a subreddit not answering a question to your liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:12 PM
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I highly doubt there is a correlation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:08 PM
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Younger men should just lie on their organized crime resume to make it sound more impressive. Nobody will ever know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:14 PM
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There's probably a "suck off the dragons" mod out there somewhere
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:06 PM
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Here too, finally...I hate summer/warm weather lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:57 AM
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God veiny hands freak me out lmao. I don't wanna know where your blood is going. I don't wanna be aware of the process. It feels like too much information.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:48 AM
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I'm against it because it comes at the expensive of extended family connections and multigenerational homes. Where I live, the cultural norm is for people to live with elderly parents/remain in the same household with other extended family, and I think it's (USUALLY) more beneficial than a recently married couple moving away. Financially, psychologically, even just practically speaking in terms of household matters, having a large network of family support is more beneficial than only having you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:35 AM
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I just posted this to the commenter who wrote this, but I do not understand this take at all. I was sexually abused at age 3 by family members. That resulted in severe mental issues, I was bullied constantly, I was unable to connect with anyone normally, my development was stunted and people just generally did not like me. How the hell was I "whitepilled"? How did all that count as "love and validation?"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:25 AM
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I was sexually abused at age 3 by my family. I don't know what universe you live in bro, but it's better than the one I'm in.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 11:17 AM
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just go to craft fairs, you will find a lot of us there
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:13 AM
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Yeah I take it for muscle spasms/cramps
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 02:00 AM
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Okay. Got it. I definitely don't have an answer for why some women would find them both fun and unappealing at the same time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:41 PM
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I'll certainly report back if/when it ever happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:39 PM
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I began the comment with "for me." I am not attempting to speak for all women and certainly cannot speak to that hypothetical situation which I have never experienced. I thought the OP wanted perspective on why some women don't look favorably on situationships, but apparently I have misinterpreted his comment and he was asking for something else. Apologies.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:36 PM
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I can't speak for every woman. I'm sure lots of them enjoy situationships. I was under the impression that you wanted explanations as to why some women do not find them appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:23 PM
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Eat a fruit or vegetable so you don't get scurvy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:21 PM
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I mean, I can't really speak to her perspective. I'm just explaining why I personally wouldn't enjoy the idea of a situationship, which may or may not be a similar reason why some other women don't enjoy them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:18 PM
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I wouldn't describe a male friend that way. I would describe the prospect of having casual sex/casual physical intimacy with a man that way. But then I don't see the appeal or benefit of casual sex/casual physical intimacy and I would never engage in it. It sounds tiring and damaging. I apologize if that perspective is rude or upsetting.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:15 PM
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For me, if there's a sexual component, that would be a pretty big thing to give a guy with no promise of emotional investment or commitment from him. So I'd see that as rather imbalanced in his favor in terms of enjoyment/benefit. If there is no sexual component, I assume it would just be a friendship and not a "situationship."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:12 PM
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Is the definition of a situationship just "coexisting?" I hadn't heard it framed that way before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:06 PM
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I am far too wholesome for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:00 PM
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To me, they sound like a guy taking up a lot of your time/energy for little to no benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:52 PM
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Okay yeah, that's why lol. I probably would have thought he was attractive when I was that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:47 PM
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How old is he here? He looks like a baby Or maybe I am just getting really old
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:30 PM
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I love you too!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:29 PM
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another comment successfully taken too literally the autism stays winning
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:54 PM
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I'm making barmbrack for the first time. Holy cow this stuff smells amazing 🥹
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:52 PM
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that's not very trad or based of you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:50 PM
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Maybe this is a matter of regional differences, but growing up in the southeast US, I was taught that offering to do the dishes after being fed was expected as a basic form of politeness. It isn't connected to how much either party likes the others. It's just very simple etiquette. As a woman who really loves cooking for others (and would happily do it for a guy on the first date), I would have very deep concerns about his basic manners if he failed to offer to help wash up. (But of course, when…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:43 PM
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New Testament, new covenant...we've been over this...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:25 PM
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Re: that last paragraph, yep. Traits associated with high dominance have always sounded like they'd be a disaster for me. I'm a fairly meek/mild person and it takes a lot for me to speak up in real life. I'm very non-confrontational and I doubt myself all the time...so if someone tries to talk over me or assert themselves, 9 times out of 10 I'm gonna let them. That would result in a pretty lopsided marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:20 PM
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Didn't you post this earlier?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:11 PM
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My ideal is definitely LLL. I'm a people-pleaser so I know I'm quite low on the scale, and I get very uncomfortable around guys who seem particularly aggressive or assertive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:06 PM
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Yeah, I'm an only child so my cousins were always like replacement siblings.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 09:00 PM
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I'm a very scrappy/"make do and mend" type. Being with someone who isn't equally frugal would stress me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 08:13 PM
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you just spank the naughty jars on their butt a few times and then they open for you I thought everyone knew that
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:26 PM
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I suspect it's also a matter of women being more likely to stay with friends/relatives/anybody who will provide them with shelter, regardless of how much they actually get along with that person, or how much they actually want to be in their home. I've known women who were technically homeless but stayed with relatives they couldn't stand otherwise because it was the only option that kept from the street, where they would have arguably been more vulnerable than the average homeless man might be.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:14 PM
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I really don't understand proposals in general but that's probably just my autism showing. I feel like deciding if you wanna get married makes more sense as a private conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:24 PM
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Heavy yes, but I love house plants and animals too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:20 PM
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I put chapstick on my lips if they're dry, but it's uncolored. That's all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:35 PM
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That largely depends on where/how you're getting published. For example KDP has some pretty stringent filters that will censor a lot of traditionally popular fetishes (shifters/knotting/anything nonhuman, anything that involves dubious consent, step-sibling content, etc. but all of those have a strong readership in erotica.) In general I think finding a subgenre and getting really, really good at it is the most profitable thing. And yeah, women tend to consume more of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:47 PM
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I always assumed higher libido people would have some physiological reaction to sexual stimuli, but I might be wrong! Maybe they don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:37 PM
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It's a big market.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:36 PM
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That doesn't make you any money though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:32 PM
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Being low libido but writing erotica is kind of funny sometimes. My brain comes up with depraved nasty freak shit while I'm in the middle of the grocery store. I think "hmm, that has potential," jot it down in my notes app, and go back to shopping.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:29 PM
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Whenever I see a man who is described as objectively attractive, they seem to have lips that look very traditionally "feminine." Like very pouty. It's an interesting feature.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:01 PM
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That's a strange trigger
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:45 PM
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We don't have to though. I wear it maybe once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:39 PM
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It makes me feel so stupid. But I think part of it is that I just can't imagine a person expressing interest in me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:34 PM
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I hope so too! He was one of my favorite people in college. He was always very kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:33 PM
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Yeah, I don't think either person is wrong here. People just have different expectations and speeds when it comes to these things. Once I meet a guy in person, I go ahead and focus only on him (I usually don't delete the apps until after a few dates, but I do stop using them.) But you're right, without a conversation there isn't any real exclusivity, so I wouldn't expect it from the other person until we talked things out.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:48 PM
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Sometimes I tell myself I'd definitely know if a guy was into me. But then I remember one time in college when I was crying, and one of my guy friends came up to me. He very gently put his hand under my chin to tilt my face up, made lingering eye contact with me, and told me I was amazing. Then he sat with me for a long time. (He also commented on all of my Facebook posts, hovered around me all the time, etc.) And I was like "damn, he's so sweet. I really wish he liked me as more than a friend."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:41 PM
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Again, I don't see the flow of your logic. How does access to an iPhone mean that western women are not equipped to endure any sort of hardship or difficulty? How does having equal rights mean that western women are so emotionally weak that they would seek therapy over a lack of iced coffee?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:19 PM
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this is a high quality first comment
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:04 PM
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The first half of your post was about human rights. The second half was about lattes and iPhones. You painted a picture of women being physically incapable of functioning without lattes or iPhones, despite the fact that these are hallmarks of an upper middle class lifestyle and many women do function fine without them. How are lattes and iPhones relevant to the human rights discussion?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:58 PM
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So many of the complaints and posts here are only applicable to UMC women. I suspect it's because the complaints are coming from men who have only experienced that demographic throughout their lifetimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:46 PM
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I had to be intubated while wide awake before a surgery (they strap you down for that so you don't inadvertently fight them since you feel like you're choking to death) and after surgery I had to relearn how to walk. I'm okay without iced coffee.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:41 PM
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In my case, probably plastic surgery
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:32 PM
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If only it were that simple Unfortunately you gotta be pretty too
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:55 AM
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No, we never had sex. He had severe PTSD and we were both very low libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:40 AM
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Turn off feed recommendations, life is more peaceful that way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:28 AM
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If it means people would spend less time arguing about gender online, I'm on board
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:06 AM
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Slugs are pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:04 AM
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Why would I have a reaction to anyone looking in my direction?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:01 AM
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Guys building PCs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:37 AM
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I am not sure I'd be good wife material, but I know I would be excellent grandma material. Baking pies. Knitting sweaters. Canning vegetables from my garden. Birdwatching on my porch. Volunteering at church. In bed by 9:30 PM every night, in my bedroom full of antiques and quilts and tacky junk. I'm a natural at this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:50 AM
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Ice Planet Barbarians primed women for that scenario, they're ready
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:27 AM
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what if the alien women are hot
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:26 AM
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I don't really understand the difference either...but I think it's because I end up having stronger feelings for my friends than I should lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 01:54 AM
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Can I ask how you'd anticipate women responding to this? Asking because my N count is 0, and any hint of the guy viewing sexual inexperience as a negative would make me instantly assume incompatibility. I wouldn't lie about it in the opposite direction, I'd just say "oh this seems like it won't work out, it was nice to meet you though." Which is actually maybe the intended result. But I'm curious about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 12:50 AM
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Sasuke would work better
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:43 PM
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The idea is that Christ's sacrifice fulfilled the requirements of Old Testament law, so followers of Christ are no longer bound by them. (That doesn't apply to moral laws, only ceremonial laws.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 11:32 PM
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For me, it makes sense to listen to someone vent and to comfort them. But adopting their emotional state feels like too much. Especially if they're mad at something I don't have the full context for...like if they hate someone, I don't know that person's side of the story, so it feels fake to say "yeah I hate them too."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:46 PM
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It might be more fun if I knew how to dance. But since I don't, it's always been me just standing around and watching everyone else in an awkward/probably creepy way lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:43 PM
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hating requires so much energy. I can't imagine doing it secondhand/on someone else's behalf
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:37 PM
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For the first couple of decades of my life, my entire personality was a 1990s point-and-click adventure game series lol. Made a lot of guy friends very easily through that. I think it definitely had an impact on my behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:06 PM
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In my case, my feminine traits are something I really had to practice. I was always bad at them, but I decided to figure out how they work. But it might come more naturally for some people.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:56 PM
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that's what I look like irl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:48 PM
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yeah somebody told me about the "extreme male brain" thing before. It feels right for my experience at least
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:43 PM
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I've really just never understood the appeal of clubs. I don't mean that as a moral issue...I don't care about that part. But they're loud and full of strangers, which I have always found really miserable lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:41 PM
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my quality of life improved drastically after I started taking care of houseplants
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 09:03 PM
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My tone is very flat so people assume I'm angry/disinterested/etc. when I'm not. I'm constantly having to modulate my voice and expression to appear more "friendly" and "happy" (even if I'm actually perfectly fine, I just look like 😐 most of the time.) Also little stuff like laughing at jokes I don't find funny, engaging in small talk that I don't understand, not acting too overly excited about my areas of interest. I have to check my behavior a lot around non-autistic people to make sure I'm do…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:42 PM
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I think you're also vastly overestimating the average person's willingness to engage in a physical altercation with a stranger...but hey, who knows. Maybe I'd be surprised.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:38 PM
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they're way easier for me to talk to because I don't have to fake a bunch of shit to make them comfortable probably not that way for everyone though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:34 PM
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I was about to say this lol. My last relationship was 8 years long, poop time wasn't private unless specifically requested.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:31 PM
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I mean this kindly, but I think you are vastly overestimating the degree to which any negative behavior would be tolerated by a paid professional.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:28 PM
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Genuinely none of them. I'm sick of paying for shit I don't own.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:54 PM
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You know therapists can just stop giving you appointments, right? They'd probably tell you they couldn't help you and refer you elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:53 PM
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"I will just sublimate this feeling" I gotta start using that phrase
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:27 PM
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What kind of experiments
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:25 PM
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You could try irradiating yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:24 PM
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actually men operate from a perspective of 100% pure undiluted logic, every decision they make is based on rigorous data analysis and is subject to several rounds of peer review prior to execution
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:23 PM
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The funniest thing about the Fallout show was people getting mad about women finding the Ghoul attractive Ghoulpill is brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:17 PM
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The Lord is close to the unattractive
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 07:12 PM
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Got it 👍 I'll start using that instead
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:38 PM
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Q4A: is wearing a long skirt (completely covering my legs) a bad idea on a first date? I'm a modest dresser so it's in line with my normal style, but I'm not sure if it'll come off as frumpy. The alternative option is just a nice black pair of pants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:37 PM
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In that case, it sounds like you need to find more reputable charitable organizations to manage your donations
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:33 PM
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It always makes me nervous to hear women overrate themselves because I call myself a solid 2/10 How much lower should I go to make up for the bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:31 PM
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A two-week vacation in this economy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:27 PM
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Helping them with what? Homelessness? Hunger?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:26 PM
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