Agirlwhosurvived Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Worth my time? Why are you here? These men are psychos. Do you want to be taught to be a psycho?	/r/askTRP	08/03/21 05:53 AM
4	I love it when men recognise LVM! Men on YouTube are triggered by FDS https://youtu.be/gO68jd6Okxs	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 06:31 AM
12	A "maybe" is always a "no." This was actually me, it helps to see what's happening on his end 😫	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 02:02 AM
3	Another reminder that hits close to home. Yes that's exactly the feeling I got from this guy, he just felt off. Like there was not an appropriate emotional response even though he crafted his words carefully to be appropriate in the circumstances and I also felt there was a disconnect. He showed other red flags too. Not ever being in love, not having long relationships, and being in law enforcement and getting in trouble for fighting with the criminals which he said he enjoyed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 07:44 PM
5	Another reminder that hits close to home. I had this experience with a man I dated recently, and I don't experience it around other men so it's not just me. I would wake up in the middle of the night and feel scared and a voice popped in my head saying this man is dangerous. I wanted to ignore it and think it's just my anxiety talking but he showed other red flags too. So I'm erring on the side of caution and intuition.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 07:37 PM
3	Another reminder that hits close to home. Yes, yes yes. I am the same way, wanting to believe the best about everyone and give them the benefit of a doubt. And I always feel guilty for rejecting someone even if I don't want to be with them. Thank you for sharing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 07:33 PM
11	Another reminder that hits close to home. Yes! "The second night we hung out I felt nauseous and wrong the entire time but I couldn't explain why so I pushed through it. That feeling never really went away, I just got better at actively ignoring it and convinced myself it was a symptom of a dismissive avoidant attachment style" This is literally me and what I'm going through now with a guy. He hasn't actually done anything wrong to me so ipush through it but after I'm with him I feel nauseous and wrong and I can't sleep. I thought I was…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 05:39 AM
5	Another reminder that hits close to home. Omg 😬😬😬 this is uncanny. The guy that sets off my gut feeling checks off almost all these boxes, except idk about porn and no Marijuana but he does take ADD medication and drinks. Every single one including making me break out and have nerve pains all over, wake up at night in fear with a voice telling me he's a dangerous person, gives me knots in my stomach when I'm around him, but my brain must be hardwired to be attracted to him because I endured 20 yrs with a narcissistic sociopath since age…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/03/21 05:34 AM
3	I’m on woke tiktok again and the comments section are full of women who all admit their man left/cheated when they got cancer or any illness. My step grandfather took care of my grandma hand and foot for months when she broke her back. Before that she had done all the household tasks but he stepped up. Her first husband was abusive and killed himself. My Narc abuser left me at a rest stop on the middle of nowhere because I was hemorrhaging after a surgery and he doesn't like sick people. I met a man who waited on me hand and foot and took care of his mom when she was sick. I know if I was sick he wouldn't leave me but I'm not attracte…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/03/21 06:42 AM
13	Another reason why vetting is so crucial. Imagine passing away and the father of your children is so incapable that he uses your daughter as his maid & chef. Disgusting. This is good to hear but also a bit concerning I escaped an abusive man who taught my son up to age 7 that boys control girls. I was expected to do everything while he barked orders. When I left I immediately started teaching my son that boys don't control girls, they help and provide and protect. I give my son a peaceful home environment and encourage him to have his own interests but I also make sure he knows how to clean, cook, and take care of his own responsibilities and personal hygiene. I…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/03/21 07:01 AM
4	Things my suspected high quality man does. Thank you for sharing 🤗	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/02/21 11:19 PM