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| 2 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approach💯 | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 06:44 AM |
| 0 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happened+1 | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 06:48 PM |
| 24 | Everyone says join a club. I did. Here's what actually happenedHe is learning. That can happen. Maybe it's even necessary. Were you born as mister cool? | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | My game is literally nonexistent, how would you start from zero?Join a social dance class. | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 01:42 PM |
| 6 | HumbledSounds like you dodged a bullet there.. | /r/seduction | 12/03/24 07:29 AM |
| 2 | Trying to put the pieces together after years of failure and watching other people succeed on the sidelines. Where do I even begin?Start taking a social dance class today. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 06:04 AM |
| 4 | How to get obviously interested women to approach first?Make a come hither motion with your hand. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Asking out a girl that works at smoothie shop - first time asking outIf you must ask her out, create a little bit more rapport first: compliment her, joke around a little etc. If she responds well ask her to go have coffee during her break. | /r/seduction | 21/07/22 06:50 PM |
| 2 | I don't understand why losing fat wouldn't be the absolutely priority for any manIt's certainly not easy for people suffering from depression. Recovering from obesity is as challenging as kicking an addiction to hard drugs. | /r/seduction | 06/06/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | What are some good ways for a 20 year old guy who can’t legally drink yet to meet women his age?My vote goes to a dance class. Tons of women and the teacher shows exactly how to 'flirt'. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 09:56 PM |
| 1 | How do you approach super hot girls at bars?Doesn't matter. Just keep approaching, learning and you will have success eventually. | /r/seduction | 15/05/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | How do I improve my social life in the U.K.?Salsa class!! | /r/seduction | 07/05/22 10:49 PM |
| 1 | STL night gameClub Viva looks like a fun place. Take a salsa class to start the night. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | I'm only attracted to hot girls physically- but they have no personality!Yoga classes. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Lonely and nothing seems to be workingSee suggestions in other thread :) | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Lonely and nothing seems to be workingEasy. Dance class. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | U.K. - where to meet more women and people in general to expand your social circles and get lays?I would suggest activities that are less about athletic performance and more creative such as photography, writing, drawing, painting, cooking, pottery etc. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 01:00 PM |
| 1 | U.K. - where to meet more women and people in general to expand your social circles and get lays?Look for hobbies or sports that you think are fun and spend time there. Friends will come naturally. It helps to experiment with different activities as well as some groups may be a better fit than others. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:52 AM |
| 2 | How do I start letting your guard down and show my personality?Take a dance class, get confident, and become more playful. Problem solved. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:09 AM |
| -11 | 1 year, 1000 approaches: Mindset changesWhy? It seems a lot more boring and less rewarding | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 08:34 PM |
| 2 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Against who or what? Where do you live where there's a constant threat of violence? There will always be guys who can threaten you if they want. Even if you have MMA training. Better to just avoid them altogether. Focus on the gals instead. | /r/seduction | 10/04/22 11:04 AM |
| 2 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Yeah MMA is BS. Take a dance class instead. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:26 PM |
| 3 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Balance. I like it. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:24 PM |
| 1 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.What kind of drugs? For what benefit? | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:23 PM |
| 1 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.Good point about the MMA. Take a social dance class instead. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:20 PM |
| 5 | I want to get over female validation, but this whole “build a better life” shit is hard as fuck.The intrinsic motivation argument makes sense. You have to be quite lucky/an exceptional person to succeed in seduction while neglecting other aspects of health and personal development. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Don't need em. Sounds like bars and clubs are not your kinda places. Find places that are. I'm assuming you don't live completely isolated in the countryside somewhere and you have options. Like mentioned elsewhere in this post (and all over seddit), dance classes are great places for self improvement and fun. Plenty of women there as well. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 04:12 PM |
| 3 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Grow your circle. Take a dance class. | /r/seduction | 25/03/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Singles nights/speed dating?Take a dance class instead. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:42 PM |
| 185 | What are you working on to improve your attractiveness? How's it going?Eat healthy, exercise and socialize. Severely limit social media. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:29 PM |
| 2 | How much should you text before meeting and should you be flirty on texts?Minimal and no. Also, consider quitting OLD and improve your social skills in a dance class or something like it. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Please provide tips to date older woman. (M25) (F35)Ask her if she is attracted to you. Meet at her or your place if so. | /r/seduction | 02/03/22 12:54 AM |
| 6 | Frugal seduction - How to avoid dine and dashers.Offer to go dutch. | /r/seduction | 19/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 1 | daygame where can i find young pretty girlDansles heeft veel meer vrouwen | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 09:32 AM |
| 2 | daygame where can i find young pretty girlDansles | /r/seduction | 10/02/22 11:26 PM |
| 7 | How to get with a materialistic woman?The number one reason relationships fail is money. Don't let yourself be taken advantage of. It will ruin you. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 08:56 PM |
| 6 | How to get with a materialistic woman?You have to be a master in female psychology to pull this off. Unless you have studied the subject intensively or are extremely charismatic, you're much better off taking one for the team. | /r/seduction | 02/02/22 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"Even if one is not conventionally attractive, I believe that exposure to as many women that meet your standards as possible is the way to go. There's no guarantee you can get any woman you want obviously, but a confident dancer can get laid every day of the week. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 07:37 AM |
| 0 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"If you don't want to make so much effort, be visible in the offline social environment. Girls will come to you if you consistently go to a dance class, cooking class, pottery etc. Especially if you are attractive. | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 10:16 AM |
| 6 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"In my experience, yes. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 10:47 AM |
| 143 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"Shoot your shot. Don't be intimidated by horrible people, be they men or women. Avoid OLD if you can. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 05:37 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I feel honesty is huge for inner game. The dog approach may seem like it's less risk. However approaching is all about taking risks. | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Focus on in person. Apps and texts are low value activities for most people. Any more energy than the bare minimum that you put into it is a waste when focusing on seduction imo. | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 12:37 PM |
| -10 | [deleted by user]Hi! I saw you walking from my desk at work and I just had say hello to you! How about I join you on your walk? | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 12:32 PM |
| 14 | Ways To Take A Conversation After The Opener?Authentically compliment her on a piece of clothing or an accessory - invite for coffee on the spot - if she can't, suggest the day after tomorrow and numberclose, regardless of her response to the alternative suggestion. "Too bad you can't make it the day after tomorrow. I'll call you tomorrow when my calendar for the next few days are clear. I'll be in touch. See you" Make sure you keep your momentum. Don't expect any follow up from 9 out of 10 numbers that you acquire in this way. Stay focuse… | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 11:50 AM |
| 7 | What are the best ways to work on yourself?Dance class | /r/seduction | 05/06/21 08:37 AM |
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