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ConversationAgitated_Character41/r/seduction05/02/22 03:54 AM
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I always wonder why the ig feels safer than phone numbers to women. If you wanted to, it'd be so much easier finding you with a whole bunch of photos and location tags and descriptions than a phone number, lol Anyway, if a woman is into you, she's going to make sure you can contact her. If she doesn't want to give you her number. Just take yhe L and move on She's just gonna play games otherwise
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:49 AM
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that second to last one seems kinda misogynist. Also, not everyone needs to have a "laid-back personality".
/r/seduction28/10/22 04:41 AM
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Mmm hm
/r/seduction22/10/22 01:04 AM
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Sure
/r/seduction22/10/22 12:04 AM
22

There's no way this isn't a troll.
/r/seduction21/10/22 09:52 PM
1

According to Reddit, you can learn to become attracted to someone.
/r/seduction12/07/22 04:18 AM
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What do you mean by attraction being non negotiable?
/r/seduction12/07/22 03:44 AM
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I mean, you pretty much described dating muh man. It's always a numbers game. Whether it's speed dating, online dating, or cold approaches out on the street. The ratio is about the same.
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:14 AM
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Man, this is why I instituted my 24-hour rule. If we are still in the app phase and I don't get a response in 24-hours, I just unmatch and move on. Too much analyzing and over analyzing. Dating should be enjoyable, and thinking about it like you are can burn you out quick
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:42 AM
2

God I hope I get it together by 40.
/r/seduction29/03/22 04:35 PM
7

At 16, definitely worth it. Good to learn your lessond early on so you're not stumbling through life in your mid-30s.
/r/seduction29/03/22 05:48 AM
5

Lol, you're in for a world of it.
/r/seduction29/03/22 03:46 AM
3

Well, NOW we're getting somewhere.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:47 PM
30

Sounds like interacting with children
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:13 AM
53

Sounds a lot like children.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:09 AM
1

It's about being "the best version of yourself", which translates to the version other people like. You just have to find a different persona and do that guy.
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:36 PM
1

Most male mammals die without having sex.. I don't know about that. What's your source?
/r/seduction22/03/22 11:54 AM
22

How does one make supplements a hobby?
/r/seduction20/03/22 04:14 PM
5

Yes, but only if you don't mind being a dick. I used to until I realized, there's no punishment for being a dick and no reward for not. A lot of dating advice you'll come across will boil down to, "be selfish and put your own interests first". You'll find you have more success when you treat women like you don't care if you lose them. If you don't like this chick, then you're golden. That being said, just try not to outright lie. Thing is, there's also no reward for honesty.
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:31 AM
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One thing I've learned since starting to date 6 months ago is, women aren't as good at communication as I was led to believe. Granted, a lot of times they are just trying not to offend a potential threat. What she was actually saying is, "i don't feel safe with you. I'm not interested in you. Please leave me alone." Sounds like you have reacted the proper way by politely stepping away. It's kinda strange cold-approaching and trying to move straight to a date, though. But, I admire your gumption.…
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:07 AM
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Yes lawd. But "curvy" can't be a euphemism.
/r/seduction25/02/22 08:24 AM
8

Mental health
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:47 AM
1

You should ask women who love you for advice. They actually want you to succeed, as opposed to looking out for women in general. You'd be surprised at how often the advice will be, "you should ask a man".
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:51 AM
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Lol, it's so easy to do that with women.
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:47 PM
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This is the way.
/r/seduction17/02/22 11:00 PM
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I've done this. It wasn't until later I realized she thought we were going to have sex. This is why I hate the game. It leaves too much room for misunderstanding.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:01 PM
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Does it bother you?
/r/seduction16/02/22 09:07 PM
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I don't like fat women simply because they are fat... I don't care about a girl's looks unless she is overweight... Lol, okay contradictorymuch. That's what I'm saying. Approach these women to cut your teeth and get your reps in. The way you act to women you're not attracted to is a lot like how you should act to the women you are.
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:56 PM
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Ugly and fat women have vaginas too man. Just lower your standards. It's so much easier to talk to women when you're indifferent. Practice on them and use that knowledge for women you're attracted to. to.
/r/seduction16/02/22 05:07 PM
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Nod upward. The "hood nod". Not downward. The "neckbeard nod".
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:51 AM
18

Then sm'eyes like Tyra. That, and the head nod. Wave, anything really. Multiple ways to communicate nonverbally.
/r/seduction15/02/22 11:49 PM
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Let her be creeped out then. It's not illegal for someone to feel creeped out.
/r/seduction12/02/22 01:03 AM
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I know how I think and I barely understand that. That's why I talk to a therapist. I shouldn't have to consider how anyone else thinks, unless they don't have the ability to communicate. But again, you just sound like you're copy/pasting shit from PUA posts or something. Basically, you're not actually experienced.
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:18 PM
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It just sounds like you don't know you're talking about.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:17 PM
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That makes absolutely no sense, but okay.
/r/seduction06/02/22 01:35 AM
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It's funny how people keep explaining that women like to have sex with men. I get that part. What I'm confused by is, when I don't go through with it, they ghost me, after months of knowing me. Thinking about it, any time I've ever propositioned so a woman for sex and they reject me, it's like the answer is "no, and I never want to see you again". Why does it always seem to be all-or-nothing?
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:10 PM
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Why do I get the feeling you're not qualified to give advice?
/r/seduction05/02/22 12:50 PM
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Um, I don't think you know what friends are. Either that, or we have different definitions.
/r/seduction05/02/22 11:10 AM
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If it is that, why ghost me?
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:27 AM
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And what the fuck are you doing being with someone for 6 months and you aren’t having sex with them? I would lose my goddamn mind! I'd like to have my friends in my life forever. Haha! That’s terrible! Fuck all that noise! I’d be terrified of catching something LOL! Anyone can have an STI. Not just SW's. I like SW's because it's impossible to catch feelings.
/r/seduction05/02/22 10:19 AM
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Yeah, no. For me, as a man, I get attached to the people I sleep with. I don't want to get attached to someone who will abandon me after almost half a year because I didn't sleep with them once. P.s. the best climax I ever had was from oral. She was a prostitute mind you, so it's kinda not fair to compare.
/r/seduction05/02/22 05:17 AM
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Why not just masterbate? That's what I do when I need a "release ". Takes care of it right quickly. The casual hookup shit feels like masterbating each other anyway. Im starting to get a little, juh-juh-jaded.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:45 AM
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I'll get right on that.
/r/seduction05/02/22 04:00 AM
1

I'd steer clear of STEM talk of any kind. It's just not that popular with women.
/r/seduction04/02/22 10:48 PM
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Hence the qualifier, "pretty much".
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:49 AM
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It's pretty much the easiest time you'll have to get laid. You're thinking they're exotic. They're thinking the same of you. You can put on any persona, say and do pretty much what you want, and there's pretty much no consequences; almost like it never happened.
/r/seduction29/01/22 12:24 PM
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Ah shit. That doesn't count then. Who hasn't gotten laid on vacation?
/r/seduction29/01/22 01:12 AM
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Most?
/r/seduction27/01/22 02:59 PM
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Got plenty of hobbies and passion. Definitely fucked in the head. Not sure therapy is working because of my fucked up brain. Really difficult for me to lie, especially to myself.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:55 AM
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When does that there confidence kick in exactly? Because after 8 months, -80 lbs, daily compliments to figure and dress, ZERO confidence.
/r/seduction27/01/22 03:42 AM
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I'd probably ghost or ask her weight.
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:47 PM
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Perhaps, well besides sharing feelings being masculine instead of feminine. I'm no expert, I'm a failure when it comes to women. But, one thing I haven't tried yet was hide my feminine side. Women already have a feminine side and if they wanted it from someone else, they'd be talking to another woman. They hate it when they can see it freely from a man. They want it to be there, but buried under the surface. Again, I'm no expert.
/r/seduction22/01/22 07:06 PM
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From my research, you're supposed to pretend that you don't really like them that much and they don't really matter; slightly resent. You're supposed to hide your true thoughts and feelings and trickle them out very slowly, or not at all.
/r/seduction22/01/22 06:43 AM
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The answer is yes. You really need to stop thinking about because it doesn't make sense. If you don't stop thinking about it, you'll end up like me. Swearing off women, sticking to prostitutes, and living vicariously through Reddit posts. Got my second therapy session Monday, lol. It's a game, like poker. You need to use deception and trickery and bluffing until you're ready to win. Then you reveal your hand... I guess. Different people will give you contradictory advice, and the same person wil…
/r/seduction22/01/22 05:17 AM
1

I've recently been practicing locking eyes with anyone I'm around out and about; chicks and dudes. It's more an excercise in self-confidence than anything. It used to make me uncomfortable; felt like I was doing something I'm not supposed to. Now, it's starting to come more natural. It's fun to play chicken and analyze people's response to it. Sometimes, you catch people gawking at you first. Just smile and if you have on a mask, s'meyes like Tyra.
/r/seduction22/01/22 02:57 AM
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Intense
/r/seduction19/01/22 11:50 AM
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When you ask women in your life that actually love you and actually want you to succeed, so many times their advice is to ask a man. So many times I've been told they are so glad they aren't attracted to women because it doesn't make sense, lol.
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:13 PM
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Idk man. Like he said: Women love to know a guy they see as handsome actually recognizes their sexiness. If they don't think you're handome, you're a creep. I think this is the barrier that stops most guys. This is why you'll see many posts asking how do you know if a chick is into you. Women don't convey that in an easily recognizable way, so they don't risk it. You just gotta risk being creepy I guess. That scenario he described has #MeToo written all over it, lol.
/r/seduction18/01/22 03:11 AM
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It's difficult to explain. Caught me off guard the first time it happened to me. It's not really something you can ask someone to do and expect to be good, unless of course they know what they're doing. You just gotta see for yourself.
/r/seduction16/01/22 01:05 PM
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I also don't want to procreate, so maybe that's the issue. once you take that out of the equation, what's left? There are male monkeys to socialize with and it's a great deal less combative. I've got plenty of things to do with my time. I can also explain exactly what it is that makes them worth while. All, except one.
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:27 PM
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I was wondering if it were just me. Im a bit of a pragmatist. I know the point of most of these communities is just how to attract women. But I cant help but to think about, why attract women. I can't come up with a good answer for myself other than "because". It would seem,, neither can most people. I just feel compelled to. Thing is, I also feel compelled to do things like smoke cigarettes and binge drink, lol. Haven't done either in years.
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:09 PM
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What none of the sources seem to teach is the point to it. What do I get as the prize at the end of the game after all the work I do? It would seem, the reward is a bunch more work on the other side.Yeah but, to each their own. I Really don't need another hobby. The ones I have are time-consuming enough. It's just weird, out of all the things I've been interested in, women seems to be the thing I get less interested in the more time I invest.
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:36 AM
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Yes
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:05 AM
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Good way through it now. The author is definitely up his own ass, especially with his Bible-esque parables. Funny to hear it read in the robit voice, though. I must ask, is it just me, or does the more information you come across (books, articles, YouTube videos) about how to get women, the less interested in women you become? Is that normal?
/r/seduction15/01/22 04:04 AM
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Teeth can be quite pleasurable if they know what they're doing.
/r/seduction15/01/22 03:58 AM
1

I'm sure it's going to be like pulling teeth. Trust me, if she turns down whatever you come up with and doesn't offer a definite time she's free, just walk away.
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:43 AM
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Just let it go fam. If she wants to spend time with you, she'd make time for you. Don't get caught up in that scheduling bullshit.
/r/seduction15/01/22 12:40 AM
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Mulatto. Corn-fed chicks eat that up.
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:14 AM
2

Because of, the implication.
/r/seduction14/01/22 01:16 AM
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Fuck yes bro! I don't know you sniffs but you made me so proud.
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:24 PM
4

Why is this question asked so much? There are women everywhere bro. Just walk up, angle yourself slightly away, smile and speak. You want to a life hack? Go to Meetup and look for tango or salsa dance classes/groups in your area. Women love to dance and are there with the intention of getting intimately close. Bet you'll meet some there. Godspeed.
/r/seduction11/01/22 01:41 AM
1

Exactly. Unlike other animals, Humans can change and evolve voluntarily.
/r/seduction08/01/22 03:21 AM
2

you just need to be yourself has been and always will be one of the most infuriatingly contradictive pieces of advice you can give.
/r/seduction08/01/22 01:19 AM
2

I've found Hinge to be the best option.
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:25 PM
-6

"Talk". She posted about their "talk" in a seduction board, and the subject of the post wasn't her SO. Smdh
/r/seduction31/12/21 11:22 PM
13

Are hookers women? If so, scores.
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:31 AM
3

Neither case is the end of the world.
/r/seduction25/12/21 08:43 PM
4

Once I saw the dissertation he wrote I was like, "ah, a fellow over-thinker I see. I'm not going to entertain his neuroses. Mine are plenty to deal with thank you."
/r/seduction25/12/21 01:30 PM
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I didn't read any if it. If they touch you, they're into you. Majority of women aren't going beyond a greeting hug unless they want you to escalate. The signal is not going to get much clearer for you, and they want YOU to escalate. Just go for it. If you're wrong, what's the worst that can happen?
/r/seduction25/12/21 01:18 PM
0

Women aren't just in nightclubs.
/r/seduction17/12/21 02:04 PM
2

Define "without women".
/r/seduction15/12/21 06:59 AM
1

Not ready for it, but I agree.
/r/seduction18/11/21 03:53 PM
1

What the hell does "bad boys" have to do with any of this?
/r/seduction05/11/21 09:38 PM
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You can't have a side chick until you have a bottom one.
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:54 AM
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There's a difference between being needy and needing attention.
/r/seduction18/08/21 11:13 PM
2

This made me feel gross.
/r/seduction17/08/21 11:36 PM
1

I couldn't tolerate her voice. Didn't make it 2mins in. You should release a follow up video about how you did that shit.
/r/seduction16/08/21 05:51 AM
1

It's funny to me. She's grown a lot since then and is doing well. I'm really happy for her. I just hope she gets better about her codependency issues.
/r/seduction15/08/21 01:01 AM
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I don't have much of a libido in the first place. I'm only ever like 85% into it. You make me start thinking about rape, call craft services because it's a wrap.
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:42 AM
0

Hmmm... So you're having sex, but you want it to be more enjoyable. For you or him?
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:29 AM
1

Has it always been like this or is it a new development? If it's new, how long? He could just be dealing with shit mentally. It's difficult to help without knowing either one of you. Men are like snowflakes, each one is different.
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:17 AM
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I don't find lingerie sexy, are you sure he does? Do you only put in effort on holidays and birthdays?
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:10 AM
4

You sound like my ex. I would come home after working 2 jobs and she'd be naked in my bed and hike her ass up. No foreplay, no how was your day... nothing. I don't have much of a libido so she'd call me gay slurs a lot, lol. Blowjobs always work for me, but she wasn't into that. Only gave me one on my bday after dating for 10 months. Only after using that numbing spray. Sexy clothing could work. But, it'd have to be what he thinks is sexy and not necessarily what you think is sexy.
/r/seduction15/08/21 12:03 AM
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I was seeing this chick who, right before penetration, said "no". So of course, I stopped, said sorry, and started putting my clothes back on. She asked what was I doing. I said I'm about to play Outer Wilds. She asked didn't I want to sleep with her. I was like I did, but ya kinda said no. She said she wanted to know what I would do if she refused me, but actually wanted to. I said I appreciate her trying to protect herself, but you should do that well before being butt nekkid in my bed. Mood r…
/r/seduction14/08/21 11:49 PM
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You don't agree but I can't help but notice you haven't offered an explanation either. Do you even know what a woman is?
/r/seduction13/08/21 04:59 PM
0

I know what a female is. As I've come to understand the world a bit more, "woman" has become harder for me to nail down. Someone can be born a man, but is actually a woman. How do they know? What does it feel like? What do they have to compare it to? Any time I ask, it seems people are unable or unwilling to explain it. If we're going by the "definition " provided in this thread, it's flawed. No one, man or woman, wants to talk to someone who is regurgitating a script memorized from the internet…
/r/seduction13/08/21 04:22 AM
1

No. The best you can hope for is a more convincing facade.
/r/seduction11/08/21 09:46 PM
1

I always say be yourself. But, if you're like me and the women you're attracted to aren't attracted to you, you've got a decision to make: become who they want you to be or be yourself and settle for whoever you attract. Both will lead to unhappiness, but the lesser of the two evils is definitely the latter. Lol, you're not going to be a "bad boy" by researching on the internet. You either is or you ain't. It's really easy to see through the roose you'd be putting on.
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:56 AM
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The third wheel was the first "hint" that she wasn't interested. She probably wanted you to bail when she suggested it. Since you didn't take the hint, she used her friend again to deter you. Move on with your life.. She sounds like she isn't very mature anyway, so you probably dodged a bullet.
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:45 AM
1

If you don't mind sugar, you can still goto bars. Just order virgin drinks and be extra mindful of everyone else's sobriety.
/r/seduction11/08/21 06:39 AM
0

What does any of that have to do with making someone "feel like a woman"? What does it feel like to be a woman and how does one make someone feel that?
/r/seduction09/08/21 02:46 AM
1

Lol
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:40 PM
3

TF does that mean?
/r/seduction08/08/21 09:09 PM
1

So it boils down to a numbers game. That may sound like a good thing unless you're like me and are not a windup toy that bounces off of one rejection on to the next one.
/r/seduction04/08/21 05:50 PM
1

Should you, of course you should.. it's not like life is full of double standards, hypocrisies, and straight up lies or anything.
/r/seduction02/08/21 09:15 PM
1

Ringing phones give me anxiety. If you wanna talj, lets meet up or fire up the Playstation.
/r/seduction08/06/21 09:49 PM
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90% of OLD app profiles that immediately tell you to add them on Snapchat are prostitutes.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:35 PM
2

I love prostitutes. They're one of God's best inventions. There's no reason, other than the legal risk, why you can't still try to date and continue to see prostitutes. Everyone has their hobbies.
/r/seduction31/05/21 05:32 PM
2

Ask her for a spot. Then ask her for tips on your form or something. Idk, i dont bother anyone in the gym and id likr for ghe same consideration.
/r/seduction25/05/21 05:00 AM
1

Well it seems OP has recanted their post. But picking up chicks here isn't the goal. It's giving advice. Why would anyone listen to anyone giving advice if they've not accomplished anything?
/r/seduction20/05/21 02:30 AM
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This is a dating subreddit. In dating, men are expected to bring value to a relationship. So, when people post, they start with their bona-fides because it gives context to how high value a man they are.
/r/seduction19/05/21 10:09 PM
1

It's a lot easier than it used to be. People are still people though. Always have been, always will be. Exhausting? Yes. Bunch of work, bs lies, cues and forays to deal with. Uncertain? Yes. People are liars and sometimes don't even know what they want themselves. Good luck in finding whatever you're looking for. Hop the pros outweigh the cons for ya.
/r/seduction19/05/21 09:04 PM
1

Easiest at the park when they're walking their dog. Just focus on the pupper for a while. They love talking about their dogs. Don't be like me though and end the encounter before the segue to them. I like dogs more than people and sometimes ignore them.
/r/seduction19/05/21 08:40 PM
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A long-winded way of saying use balance and moderation.
/r/seduction17/05/21 06:27 AM
5

Lol, this sounds super toxic... and immature. Well thought out. Kudos for spending your time thinking, opposite of kudos for coming up with that.
/r/seduction16/05/21 12:21 AM
1

Is it out of character when you do it en masse?
/r/seduction10/05/21 10:10 PM
1

Again, that sounds like an interview question. Sounds like something you found on a list on Google. Did she have any body mods? Why ask a lame question about tattoos? If you just had to interview her, a better way to ask that would've been " If you couldn't, write, text, speak, or sign, how would you express yourself?" If she was interested in talking to you, I'd make her think. And tattoos could come up.
/r/seduction06/05/21 03:06 AM
1

Don't just ask yes-or-no questions. Make them open-ended so they are forced to continue the conversation. I shy away from questions mostly because it starts to feel too much like an interview. I'm a manager and am so tired of interviewing. I guess if you're really reductive, dating pretty much is an interview. It just shouldn't feel that way.
/r/seduction05/05/21 02:46 PM
1

I think people know when they're crossing a boundary, whether it's expressly stated or not. Dont do shit to people you wouldn't want done o you.. Either that, or they're completely inconsiderate. But somehow, it's the "nice guy's " fault. How many people are actually nice because they think it will reward them? I don't believe it is as much as people think. If it were so easy to just have a different personality, there'd be nothing to be bitter about.
/r/seduction02/05/21 03:03 AM
3

How does one quantify " fake-nice, overly, exaggeratedly, inappropriately nice"?
/r/seduction01/05/21 12:17 AM
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Yeah, no, that's only for confident gentlemen. Lol.
/r/seduction30/04/21 06:48 AM
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