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Well, to be fair, most couples don’t stay on birth control for 30 years, people tend to get vasectomies or get their tubes tied when they are done having kids. The combination of condoms and birth control definitely boost your odds of avoiding pregnancy. And the most effective iuds and implants are becoming more common But still, about half of all pregnancies in the US are unplanned. The mathematics of small risks over large timeframes,…as long as you are a cautious driver, you’re extremely unli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:26 AM
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they’ll become violent and start raping women I personally don’t believe they will, not in the developed west. Lots of other factors at play. Testosterone is seriously dropping in young men erectile dysfunction is seriously increasing, porn is on tap on every phone. Most young men grew up with porn to the extent that they are becoming desensitized to sex, not sex crazed. The thing they frankly, and quite disturbingly , are bothered by most, is that they aren’t desired like women are. If things k…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:49 AM
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Side doggie with a reach around is heaven imho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 12:05 AM
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Before sex? Absolutely no way to tell. I had guys hard pursue and then ghost. In my personal experience, after sex, every single guy that turned into a relationship, either st or lt, wanted to see me, have sex with me, and spend every free second with me pretty much from the beginning. The “what are we, exclusive?” conversation never happened in my relationships. Within weeks we were spending so much time together there’s no way either of us had time to see anyone else. Specifically? They stay t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:43 PM
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Lol….I definitely have had the “we both call in sick to work because Saturday nights hookup is still here and we’re both horny” Monday morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:35 PM
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Meh, there is a limit to how much verbal feedback and direction you can incorporate into sexy talk before it sounds like you are a drill Sargent. And honestly, if you don’t try a few things that weren’t even asked for, you will definitely miss out. It’s not hard to tell when you have hit on something that works by watching their body respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:19 PM
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That shit happened to me in middle school. From grown men, and more than once
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:42 PM
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He can step in and help in lots of other ways though, no one gets to relax in the infant stage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 10:29 PM
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My ex was a virgin, unbeknownst to me at the time, and the sex wasn’t great, but it wasn’t that bad either. The overall experience was actually amazing. We spent the entire next day together, ordered food, took a shower together, had sex several times. Finally got on top, showed him where to put his thumb and his eyes got big as saucers when I came. 🤣 I’ve had one experienced guy that felt slightly above a sexual assault, and didn’t stop when I was clearly in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:53 PM
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In terms of casual sex, casual sex or first time sex, it is rarely that fantastic for me, but the actual sex part is almost always better with a person who has already had a lot of sex, (but I have a few glaring exceptions). But in terms of overall experience? I think there really no consensus. I’ve felt extremely desired, appreciated and overall happy with the experience from a wide variety of experience levels. My ex of 7 years had a n count of zero, my h is probably…I dunno…over 50? Never ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:43 PM
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So yours is a humiliation fetish? Thats the root of your obsession?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:13 PM
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Like Wentworth Miller, Rashida Jones, Jennifer Beals, Halsey, Pete Wentz? They all look pretty racially ambiguous to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:08 PM
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Some people fetishize blondes. Going to South America was super weird for me because twice strangers just came up and touched my hair. Asian women are a category of fetish, look at the passport bros and tourism to Thailand. Throw their men under the bus? lol, in 50 to 100 years most of the world will be tan dude. There won’t be nearly as many white people or black people. Take your meds and lighten up, it’s going to be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:55 PM
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Women aren’t the ones paying for the only fan accounts to watch this content. I’m guessing their main audience is guys like you. So maybe figure out why you and guys like you have developed this weird fetish.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:41 PM
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Actually tons of young girls seem completely obsessed with Korean boy bands. If you could manage that Korean boy band look, I bet you would slay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:35 PM
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Some were I suppose. I just told Griddy about an hour ago the swinger chick who talked into the bar and announced “where’s all are all the black guys, I’m horny “. But frankly you are more obsessed with BBC than anyone I’ve ever met.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:31 PM
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Tattoos weren’t that common, but I worked with a chick who slept with 1/2 of the Neville Brothers, and about 20% of the New Orleans Saints. She’s a divorced, divorce lawyer now, with apparently a very successful firm of her own
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 08:27 PM
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I need proof of that because the hoes back then were sluttyyyyyy. This is actually true and I could give you some hilarious examples. I worked with a chick who slept with a 45 year old club owner and his 18 year old son in the same week, all the while in an open relationship with her Israeli boyfriend. There was a couple of notorious swingers, and a male tenant of mine told me he stopped at their house for something and the male half came to the door, naked with a hard on, and told him, “I just …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:49 PM
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So you think you can immediately game your way into true human connection with “3 weird tricks to make people trust you within seconds “. Sounds like you should focus on selling used cars instead. Nothing about what you’re trying to sell here sounds like anything more than superficial bullshit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:41 PM
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Nope. Sorry, just doesn’t work that way most of the time. What part about trying to be truly intimate, (not “intimate “ like the word weirdo incels use to describe throwing a dick in a hooker), vulnerable and safe with a virtual stranger seems natural to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah, everything you are proposing sounds like the conversation will be even more awkward than the actual sex. Stop trying to pretend that the single most intimate thing you can potentially share with someone is actually going to feel profoundly intimate with a virtual stranger. It takes time to build trust and comfort and that can’t be artificially manufactured.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:15 PM
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No, you are definitely overthinking it. I pretty much assume first time with someone or casual sex won’t be a leg shaking, earth shattering experience. Hopefully it’s joyful, fun, and a lovely experience, even if I don’t orgasm. And just because the guy is attentive, experienced or motivated doesn’t mean that casual sex will be great. Casual sex is nothing like the sex you have with a new partner a few weeks or months or even years in, when you really learn how to press each others buttons. Both…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:59 PM
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Semantics. The real statistics are there a non insignificant number of women who can get off from oral who don’t from penetration, women who can get off from penetration and not oral, women who can do both, women who can do neither. So saying most women may be an exaggeration, but the phenomenon is real. To further confuse the issue, there’s a significant amount of women who need positions that engage direct contact with the clit, or need manual stimulation of the clit concurrent with penetratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:25 PM
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Over half the people here are quite young and don’t have families. Ask people on their deathbed about the most important thing in life. Very few will say career and friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:48 PM
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I know I’m right. Everything you see today was available in the 70’s and 80’s. Cruises, parties, etc. Times Square was nothing but one huge porno movie theater The technology has changed, but people were much more willing to be seen and acknowledge their participation in swinging in the 70’s and 80’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:59 PM
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Yes, exactly, thank you. They are now more likely to be private, but they didn’t used to be. They used to be multiple sex clubs with very public faces in easy to find areas, places that normies passed by every day on their way to work. There were signs in the window and advertising on television. It might not have been for everyone, but they certainly weren’t hiding in the 80’s either, it wasn’t an underground or in the know activity, despite their very legality questioned. If you watched city c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:44 PM
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You jumped there fast. Seems like your dread game might extend from threats of abandonment to threats of physical violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:20 PM
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Oof. I think your therapist pretty much nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:05 PM
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There’s something wrong with your wife There’s something wrong with her mother There’s something wrong with the therapist You use toxic manipulation to coerce “better behavior “ from your wife… But there’s nothing wrong with you. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:03 PM
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that dude just hated me. I chose a very hot female therapist and suddenly my wife was not interested Shocking that an actual mental health professional might see you a horrible person. Ever wonder what that says about you? You sound like a gem. If I was your wife I would be planning my escape. In addition to the light switch effect, ever hear about monkey branching?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:00 PM
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Doesn’t apply to me. I might be the odd one out. I love my friends, but my family is way more important, and a career for me is just a way to make money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:53 PM
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And what would a therapist teach you? That you try to get what you want from manipulation and playing games? “The term "dread game" most commonly refers to an emotional manipulation tactic used in toxic relationships to instill fear of abandonment.” Congratulations on what you will model for your children. Very adult and healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:29 PM
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She couldn’t comprehend she was being a bitch? Just yesterday we had a guy post, with all seriousness, and I quote “During that baby/infant stage when the mom does the bulk of the work, she resents it when he's not also working/busy with something.” What a surprise when the husband acts like a lazy little bitch himself, the wife responds in kind. You want to delve into red pill theory, look at the light switch effect, when the husband believes things are going better, only to wake up completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:25 PM
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I mean from the op’s post, the whole gist of it is that men have it worse. The entire post is basically saying”women complain about periods and pregnancy…but what about man flu” Responding with something actually challenging that original assertion is kinda part of debate, is it not? Op could have brought up the topic without his own whataboutism
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:10 PM
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And they weren’t rare back then either. They operated openly and even though I have never been to a swingers club, everyone and their grandma knew Plato’s. I googled current sex clubs in NYC, mostly came up with strip clubs, not swingers clubs. One positive review said there were 25 people there Wow! 25. Plato’s packed in 200.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:32 AM
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https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14681994.2025.2507789
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:44 AM
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No. My contention is there are fewer of them and they are less visible. Plato’s retreat used to have billboards and tv ads.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:41 AM
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https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7533589/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:01 AM
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So theres more interracial sex but less sex overall, that is your contention? Yes Is there more group sex and open relationships now despite there being less sex as well? No. Key parties, swinging and sex clubs were all very open in the 80’s in both New Orleans and NYC.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 04:00 AM
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You might actually be the nastiest, most disagreeable and least entertaining person on this subreddit and that’s saying something.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:51 AM
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I think race demographics have changed and I think people are also having less sex. And people with bizarre ideas like parents should vet who their daughter dates, when they themselves have huge n counts from seeing hookers, either need serious therapy or they need to go back to Pakistan
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:49 AM
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hopefully I never meet women like you in the future Well that we agree on. https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC7533589/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:41 AM
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Racial demographics have changed, dating someone from a different race is no longer necessarily someone from a very different background, education or social circle. It not like you have to sneak a lover down from Harlem and through the back door just to date a black person today. They are more likely just the person sitting next to you in class now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:39 AM
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lol….yeah as if that’s not a problem , especially when you have no idea what good pussy eating is. My dick just doesn’t get hard and I don’t like head,,,,but no problem here ladies! 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:35 AM
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Yeah, well no wonder, by your own admission, you suck at sex. Stick to hookers if you are, by your own admission, a lousy lay.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:30 AM
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What does inter racial dating have to do with the frequency of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:25 AM
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Yeah….agreed. The shift really started to show up in NYC in mid eighties. By the late 80’s you had gay men telling other gay men to “curb their enthusiasm “
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:24 AM
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lol….no. No they don’t. Ask them if they will do it without the money next time. But I’m sure they do what you want, unlike the wake of unsatisfied civilians.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:20 AM
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I’m sure. And they actually fake like they enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:15 AM
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Sexual freedom in the late 70’s and early 80’s. Key parties, swingers clubs, open heterosexual couplings in bars, gay bathhouses. Public nudity. Everyone was fucking. AIDS cast a pall, but before that, it was much freer, more fun times.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:13 AM
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We had shower parties with 30 naked college students in the coed dorms. The hedonistic party ended around 1984-85. AIDS
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 03:01 AM
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You pay for hookers and I’m the creep? Royal.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:56 AM
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And your point? Do you think my friends were policing who I had sex with? The second they decide they had fun and want to do it again, they are going to meet each other’s friends. They will officially be “dating” Unless one of them is a total weirdo, with red flags all over, their friends are not going to say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:55 AM
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Birth control taken perfectly is 99% effective….per year. Over 30 years that’s 74% effective In reality, as taken in the real world, not exactly taken at the same time or every day, birth control is only 91% effective per year. Nine out of 100 women on the pill get pregnant every year. https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/choosing-contraception/how-well-it-works-at-preventing-pregnancy/ Over the course of 30 years that’s 6% effective. You absolutely will eventually get knocked up if you don’t take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:49 AM
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But several women seriously argued to me that, in reality, all women only want monogamous love and that sex isn't important to them. They clearly claimed to speak for all women. I don’t agree with this in the least, sex is important, I have wanted sex without requiring commitment and monogamy. I do think there is some social pressure to not be seen as slutty, but way more important factors are at play. First time sex with a new partner usually isn’t all that great, nor do I expect it to be. So r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:15 AM
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Women don’t like the strange men who are overly aggressive, lack appropriate boundaries and have no clue how to behave appropriately. Great insight. Up next, let’s discuss “Is Water Wet?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:54 AM
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despite him being less physical threat than muscular butch This is nonsense for a variety of reasons. First of all, even a butch woman is weaker than a scrawny guy, secondly, when have you ever heard of random lesbians raping strange women off the street? The first time grown ass men give us compliments is when we are still little kids. Twelve, or thirteen. As soon as we get the first hint of boob, some fully adult pervert is on us like white on rice. And it’s not just creepy, it’s fucking terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:39 AM
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despite him being less physical threat than muscular butch This is nonsense for a variety of reasons. First of all, even a butch woman is weaker than a scrawny guy, secondly, when have you ever heard of random lesbians raping strange women off the street? The first time grown ass men give us compliments is when we are still little kids. Twelve, or thirteen. As soon as we get the first hint of boob, some fully adult pervert is on us like white on rice. And it’s not just creepy, it’s fucking terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:34 AM
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During that baby/infant stage when the mom does the bulk of the work, she resents it when he's not also working/busy with something. So you acknowledge she’s doing the bulk of the work, and then expect a different outcome than resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:27 AM
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My mother went to college in the 1950’s and dropped out to marry a guy from a poor family who never went to college, who had 3 tattoos and was in the Navy. My dad was ahead of his time, a bit of a rounder to boot. Her sister went to the same college and married a minor league baseball player. My uncle married a CATHOLIC. My Lutheran grandparents were not happy about that at all and neither were hers. This is all 1950 to early 60’s. It’s almost like you’ve never read Jane Austin and the tales of …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:18 AM
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Wrong again. This is actually hilarious. Casual sex has been extremely common since the mid 70’s, in fact hooking up was the defacto first date for most couples college age and beyond. There is a difference between "meeting men" and "having sex with men". These lines should not be blurred. 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:08 AM
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In the past families were heavily involved in vetting potential partners for men and women, and men and women were limited to smaller social circles, which means if a woman slept with a man, other people knew about it, and her close family members could give their opinions on said man and the relationship. No. None of this happened in my umc existence in the 80’s and 90’s. Not past high school age and even that rarely happened. My parents sent me off to college at 17 and I have never lived withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:52 AM
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I have a bright, artistic , creative, single friend in a very rural, remote area. Online is basically her only hope, so I get that. What kind of makes me sad, and less hopeful for a happy, well adjusted society, is hearing kids in college dating online. If you can’t meet people organically in college, make friends, find lovers, all that…if you can’t do that in college without using a screen, then it’s unlikely to ever get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 10:17 PM
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its very very rare for me to be able to have casual sex That’s funny, because you just told me you slept with “30 or 40” people. Did you pay them all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:47 PM
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I’m even older and you are 100% accurate. I remember very few formal dates, especially in my 20’s, it was mostly relationships started from hookups. Even most “dates” were asking if you were going to see the same band, or going to the same party with someone you had been kind of interested in, being asked if you needed a ride or if wanted to go and hangout together. Sometimes we met up in groups, hung out in bars, or ran into each other, a few times before having sex, sometimes not. When I worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:27 PM
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I don't love to eat pussy, why do you assume all men love to eat pussy? Not surprised.. and I don’t assume it at all, what makes you think that? Do you love to suck dick Totally depends on the man. I expect men to go down on me because they love to go down on me. Except for extremely large or extremely small, I don’t really think about your dick size. I do expect a man to show signs of physical arousal, is that unreasonable? Doesn’t it seem like a reasonable expectation when looking for a sex pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:10 PM
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This is no longer a serious conversation
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:53 AM
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I would deeply appreciate the honesty of sharing this with me. I don’t care if it’s Bob the UPS diver in his summer shorts, my best friend, or my best friends 20 year old daughter giving him sexy thoughts. I really would not appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:45 AM
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Dating is NOW a meat grinder? Thought you said it was worse “ back in ye older days”
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:18 AM
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Ooof. I’m sorry, but if you are still into me and want to remain monogamous, why tell me? I’m old asf. I’m not surprised my husband finds younger women attractive, I don’t want him to share that either. And I don’t think he needs to be told about everyone I find attractive either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:13 AM
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You have no constitutional right to be rude. If you want to claim you asked a coworker to fuck because you are an actual, bonafide retard, you could try. Frankly anyone who actually asks a coworker “ wanna fuck” is some flavor of retard, so there is that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:03 AM
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If oral to you is just “making up for failure “ forget it. The best pussy eaters simply love to eat pussy. No other reason. But yeah, I expect “something “ to give me some orgasms. So is this a physical condition or a mental one? I suspect you have actually never had sex tbh. Are you one of those women that thinks a man with a big dick doesn't need to do as much oral as a man with a small dick too? Don’t mind a fat one, but really don’t like a big, long one. Briefly dated a guy who was perfect o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:00 AM
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Again…I repeat being bad at sex is not being interested in giving me sex I find enjoyable And I also said “But thinking piv is the pinnacle sexual experience for many women is inaccurate.” You realize that lesbians and bisexual women report more orgasms than straight women with zero dicks involved, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:43 AM
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Yeah well welcome to America where business owners have rights too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:34 AM
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I said “But thinking piv is the pinnacle sexual experience for many women is inaccurate. If you are eating me out right, I won’t even notice😜”. Does that sound like “it’s all ruined?” DoYou think women are dry and silent when enjoying themselves? This is frankly sounding like you’re a teenager and boobs feel like bags of sand…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:32 AM
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You are only hearing what you want to hear. What part about caring more about good oral being more important did you miss? Are you going to feel the same passion and excitement for a woman who is as dry as the Sahara and is a total starfish even after significant foreplay? Fwiw, it’s definitely harder to perform as a man. I get it. But for me.. let me say it again For me, being bad at sex is not being interested in giving me sex I find enjoyable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:23 AM
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A slutty phase that followed almost two years of celibacy no less. I was definitely commitment phobic for a while, that I readily confess.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:16 AM
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You don’t win lawsuits because you are kicked out of a bar. And you don’t win lawsuits if you are fired for explicit sexual language in any workplace. It might be legal to say “hey wanna fuck” it’s also legal to fire someone…honestly for anything, you really don’t need a reason. And it’s also legal to deny service to people to people for a wide variety of reasons, including being rude or disruptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:12 AM
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You could be making me beyond ecstatic with oral and I wouldn’t even know. Knowing your partner is completely consumed with lust for you is definitely an aphrodisiac for both men and women, not going to lie. Seeing a limp dick ….no bueno. But thinking piv is the pinnacle sexual experience for many women is inaccurate. If you are eating me out right, I won’t even notice😜
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:52 AM
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Okay, then why exactly do you suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:35 AM
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Well…many guys who try online only don’t date at all….
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:32 AM
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what do you want me to feel ashamed for not being amazing in bed Well, not “ashamed“, but from her perspective, if you suck in bed you definitely should not surprised. From the woman’s point of view, why should she keep dating a guy who has no interest in giving her sex she enjoys? If some guy wants to ditch me because I don’t want to be choked, jackhammered for an hour or bent like a pretzel, and that’s the only kind of sex that gets him off, he’s welcome to ditch me, that sounds fine with me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:30 AM
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After a successful coffee date, a closed mouth kiss generally precedes the “want to fuck” conversation. Closed mouth kisses lead to open mouth kisses. If she is into that, you might suggest extending the date to your place. At anywhere in the process, she might well feel like things are moving too fast and withdraw consent. At which point you can decide whether you actually have any interest in her as a human being and want to continue dating, or simply think, I want sum fuk, didn’t get fuk so b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:59 AM
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Yeah…no. Asking a virtual stranger out for coffee is not harassment Saying “you pretty, want sum fuk” is harassing unless you are in a brothel or a sex club. I worked in a rowdy bar all through college and if some dude asked me that bluntly, the off duty cop hired as a bouncer would be called to toss him out on his ass. If you don’t believe me, fafo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:52 AM
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100%. All of the above. And from a straight woman’s point of view, even if the woman was incredibly horny, sex with a straight male stranger is inherently riskier due to a huge imbalance of physical strength, it’s unlikely to be sexually fulfilling, and carries a risk of pregnancy with some unknown rando If I felt like hooking up with a stranger, it’s definitely not going to be with one who doesn’t understand boundaries and why they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:43 AM
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You can start out by asking their name, where they work, what their hobbies are. Then you can ask if they have ever had the coffee at that place on the corner, tell them they seem like a person you want to get to know, and ask if they would be interested in getting a coffee with you. That’s for starters. What you are basically proposing is asking a stranger if they want to get naked and alone with someone twice as strong as they are. At best, it’s highly unlikely she will orgasm, at worst she wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:55 AM
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Agree! How about n= 3 at age 21, n=4 at age 29, n=about 14 at age 31, 16 at 32, ….. Started dating my now husband at 35, probably racked up 20. Was pretty slutty for a year after two years of celibacy following a devastating break up. Still don’t think I had a sex addiction with fewer than 10 in two years. I could easily have had a new one every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:09 AM
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standards have increased in superficial ways You can’t discount the horrible effects that online dating has had for many guys. The medium is the message. Here’s some pictures and brief discriptions. Pick one of these. Fwiw, virtually no one I have dated would have met the laundry list that most women have when online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:49 AM
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Because there is another human being involved? My h has pretty big n count, and I personally know several of them. I will say that none of them has anything bad to say about him, even one who low key stalked him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:07 AM
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I can give you a list of reasons I was celibate for almost two years after an ltr, spent almost a year after that with a few str and a few hookups. So sometimes you aren’t looking for serious dating. “Hookups” are sometimes guys who looked great, seemed super promising and then absolutely sucked in bed. I’ve had more than one of these, guys who would have gladly dated me. And my ex was a virgin, so it’s not like I expect a lot to begin with. But guys who cluelessly jackhammer like a pornstar wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:58 AM
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Thinking that sex will cure depression, and that the lack of sex will cause suicide seems pretty grandiose to me. Throughout this whole thread, you can’t make up your mind. Sex should just be no big deal for people to give out, but some huge deal for people not to get. You realize sex has consequences for BOTH parties involved, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:08 AM
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EVEN dogs, just like all animals. Obviously human interaction is more complex….for all but op it would seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:47 PM
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So you want people to actually have sexual feelings for you despite having no sexual attraction? Make it make sense, because right now it doesn’t . On one hand it’s mentally no different than handing a homeless person a dollar, and almost in the same breath it’s now a meaningful and emotional exchange. Do you have sexual feelings for people you have absolutely no sexual attraction to? Do you understand why most people really don’t want sex with someone they aren’t attracted to. Do you care if th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:35 PM
8

Go find some lonely 300 lb gay dude and grab your ankles.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:40 PM
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Well…..you are talking to a guy who found his girlfriend in a homeless shelter, but something tells me if she stopped having sex with him she’d be out on her ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:38 PM
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It wouldn’t affect you in the least mentally to be penetrated by some random person? If you woke up after the scout jamboree with a butt full you would just think oh well, hope I made some lonely boy happy? Trust me, you are in the minority. There is a reason rape laws exist and 99% of people feel having sex you don’t want is a very serious crime. Much more serious than being robbed. If sex has absolutely no emotional meaning, then why would the lack of it make you depressed? If you are hungry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:32 PM
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This is just an anecdote, but women aren’t the only ones who can get their feelings hurt by casual sex. After the breakup of my ltr, I hooked up with a guy I worked with twice, I thought the sex was mediocre and he was the worst kisser imaginable imho. This guy was far from an incel virgin, but when I declined to turn it into a relationship, he told all our mutual friends I broke his heart. It didn’t make me feel great tbh….but not sure exactly what else I was supposed to do under the circumstan…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:27 PM
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You think handing out sex to randos is like handing out a dollar to randos?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:11 PM
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Number 4 is not a problem in my house, but if I had a partner with a much higher libido, and lack of sex was actually causing depression? Then yes, I would be proactive and try to boost my libido. But that’s with an intimate partner. It’s almost like a whole generation has forgotten sex is an extremely personal, intimate AND PROCREATIVE act between two people, not a societal obligation. If you were in jail, would you offer up sex to all of your fellow inmates because those poor guys were starved…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:01 PM
2

Ohhhh, not in the least. I’m older and have a much younger friend mtf. We’ve been friends since “he” was twenty and she is now 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:52 PM
4

Well, I wouldn’t put it in a dating profile or mention it on the first date for sure, but I wouldn’t wait months either. I would definitely bring it up slowly too, throw around some hints early on. I would probably look for women who identify as queer, non binary or adjacent, although a completely vanilla, straight woman might find it okay after she gets to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:43 PM
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Bingo. People who are saying “there’s really nothing wrong with it” are insane. I would never ask a complete stranger to do a million different things, and sex would absolutely be the very last on the list. Even animals have protocols when interacting with each other. Proper eye contact, communicating non aggression…or aggression…gauging reactions and sussing each other out. The only stranger it’s appropriate to ask to pop your pimple is a dermatologist, to massage your feet is a masseuse, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:29 PM
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Peak autism. Even dogs sniff and wag tails before humping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:09 PM
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No, not if disclosed early on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea, I’m not looking to get involved with anyone with a history of questioning their gender. I’m pretty much going to rule them out as a potential. Maybe if I already began to have feelings for them, then I would. Maybe. But I would also be pretty angry if they waited TOO long before telling me…..so it’s definitely a fine line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:05 PM
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