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Well, to be fair, most couples don’t stay on birth control for 30 years, people tend to get vasectomies or get their tubes tied when they are done having kids. The combination of condoms and birth control definitely boost your odds of avoiding pregnancy. And the most effective iuds and implants are becoming more common But still, about half of all pregnancies in the US are unplanned. The mathematics of small risks over large timeframes,…as long as you are a cautious driver, you’re extremely unli…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 07:26 AM
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Meh, there is a limit to how much verbal feedback and direction you can incorporate into sexy talk before it sounds like you are a drill Sargent. And honestly, if you don’t try a few things that weren’t even asked for, you will definitely miss out. It’s not hard to tell when you have hit on something that works by watching their body respond.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 11:19 PM
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My ex was a virgin, unbeknownst to me at the time, and the sex wasn’t great, but it wasn’t that bad either. The overall experience was actually amazing. We spent the entire next day together, ordered food, took a shower together, had sex several times. Finally got on top, showed him where to put his thumb and his eyes got big as saucers when I came. 🤣 I’ve had one experienced guy that felt slightly above a sexual assault, and didn’t stop when I was clearly in pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:53 PM
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In terms of casual sex, casual sex or first time sex, it is rarely that fantastic for me, but the actual sex part is almost always better with a person who has already had a lot of sex, (but I have a few glaring exceptions). But in terms of overall experience? I think there really no consensus. I’ve felt extremely desired, appreciated and overall happy with the experience from a wide variety of experience levels. My ex of 7 years had a n count of zero, my h is probably…I dunno…over 50? Never ask…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 09:43 PM
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So you think you can immediately game your way into true human connection with “3 weird tricks to make people trust you within seconds “. Sounds like you should focus on selling used cars instead. Nothing about what you’re trying to sell here sounds like anything more than superficial bullshit to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:41 PM
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Nope. Sorry, just doesn’t work that way most of the time. What part about trying to be truly intimate, (not “intimate “ like the word weirdo incels use to describe throwing a dick in a hooker), vulnerable and safe with a virtual stranger seems natural to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah, everything you are proposing sounds like the conversation will be even more awkward than the actual sex. Stop trying to pretend that the single most intimate thing you can potentially share with someone is actually going to feel profoundly intimate with a virtual stranger. It takes time to build trust and comfort and that can’t be artificially manufactured.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:15 PM
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No, you are definitely overthinking it. I pretty much assume first time with someone or casual sex won’t be a leg shaking, earth shattering experience. Hopefully it’s joyful, fun, and a lovely experience, even if I don’t orgasm. And just because the guy is attentive, experienced or motivated doesn’t mean that casual sex will be great. Casual sex is nothing like the sex you have with a new partner a few weeks or months or even years in, when you really learn how to press each others buttons. Both…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:59 PM
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Semantics. The real statistics are there a non insignificant number of women who can get off from oral who don’t from penetration, women who can get off from penetration and not oral, women who can do both, women who can do neither. So saying most women may be an exaggeration, but the phenomenon is real. To further confuse the issue, there’s a significant amount of women who need positions that engage direct contact with the clit, or need manual stimulation of the clit concurrent with penetratio…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 05:25 PM
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And what would a therapist teach you? That you try to get what you want from manipulation and playing games? “The term "dread game" most commonly refers to an emotional manipulation tactic used in toxic relationships to instill fear of abandonment.” Congratulations on what you will model for your children. Very adult and healthy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:29 PM
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She couldn’t comprehend she was being a bitch? Just yesterday we had a guy post, with all seriousness, and I quote “During that baby/infant stage when the mom does the bulk of the work, she resents it when he's not also working/busy with something.” What a surprise when the husband acts like a lazy little bitch himself, the wife responds in kind. You want to delve into red pill theory, look at the light switch effect, when the husband believes things are going better, only to wake up completely …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:25 PM
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And your point? Do you think my friends were policing who I had sex with? The second they decide they had fun and want to do it again, they are going to meet each other’s friends. They will officially be “dating” Unless one of them is a total weirdo, with red flags all over, their friends are not going to say anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:55 AM
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Birth control taken perfectly is 99% effective….per year. Over 30 years that’s 74% effective In reality, as taken in the real world, not exactly taken at the same time or every day, birth control is only 91% effective per year. Nine out of 100 women on the pill get pregnant every year. https://www.nhs.uk/contraception/choosing-contraception/how-well-it-works-at-preventing-pregnancy/ Over the course of 30 years that’s 6% effective. You absolutely will eventually get knocked up if you don’t take t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:49 AM
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But several women seriously argued to me that, in reality, all women only want monogamous love and that sex isn't important to them. They clearly claimed to speak for all women. I don’t agree with this in the least, sex is important, I have wanted sex without requiring commitment and monogamy. I do think there is some social pressure to not be seen as slutty, but way more important factors are at play. First time sex with a new partner usually isn’t all that great, nor do I expect it to be. So r…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 02:15 AM
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Women don’t like the strange men who are overly aggressive, lack appropriate boundaries and have no clue how to behave appropriately. Great insight. Up next, let’s discuss “Is Water Wet?”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:54 AM
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despite him being less physical threat than muscular butch This is nonsense for a variety of reasons. First of all, even a butch woman is weaker than a scrawny guy, secondly, when have you ever heard of random lesbians raping strange women off the street? The first time grown ass men give us compliments is when we are still little kids. Twelve, or thirteen. As soon as we get the first hint of boob, some fully adult pervert is on us like white on rice. And it’s not just creepy, it’s fucking terri…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:39 AM
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During that baby/infant stage when the mom does the bulk of the work, she resents it when he's not also working/busy with something. So you acknowledge she’s doing the bulk of the work, and then expect a different outcome than resentment?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 01:27 AM
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In the past families were heavily involved in vetting potential partners for men and women, and men and women were limited to smaller social circles, which means if a woman slept with a man, other people knew about it, and her close family members could give their opinions on said man and the relationship. No. None of this happened in my umc existence in the 80’s and 90’s. Not past high school age and even that rarely happened. My parents sent me off to college at 17 and I have never lived withi…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 12:52 AM
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I’m even older and you are 100% accurate. I remember very few formal dates, especially in my 20’s, it was mostly relationships started from hookups. Even most “dates” were asking if you were going to see the same band, or going to the same party with someone you had been kind of interested in, being asked if you needed a ride or if wanted to go and hangout together. Sometimes we met up in groups, hung out in bars, or ran into each other, a few times before having sex, sometimes not. When I worke…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 09:27 PM
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I would deeply appreciate the honesty of sharing this with me. I don’t care if it’s Bob the UPS diver in his summer shorts, my best friend, or my best friends 20 year old daughter giving him sexy thoughts. I really would not appreciate the honesty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:45 AM
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You have no constitutional right to be rude. If you want to claim you asked a coworker to fuck because you are an actual, bonafide retard, you could try. Frankly anyone who actually asks a coworker “ wanna fuck” is some flavor of retard, so there is that
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:03 AM
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Yeah well welcome to America where business owners have rights too
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:34 AM
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You don’t win lawsuits because you are kicked out of a bar. And you don’t win lawsuits if you are fired for explicit sexual language in any workplace. It might be legal to say “hey wanna fuck” it’s also legal to fire someone…honestly for anything, you really don’t need a reason. And it’s also legal to deny service to people to people for a wide variety of reasons, including being rude or disruptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 05:12 AM
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You could be making me beyond ecstatic with oral and I wouldn’t even know. Knowing your partner is completely consumed with lust for you is definitely an aphrodisiac for both men and women, not going to lie. Seeing a limp dick ….no bueno. But thinking piv is the pinnacle sexual experience for many women is inaccurate. If you are eating me out right, I won’t even notice😜
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:52 AM
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Okay, then why exactly do you suck?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:35 AM
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what do you want me to feel ashamed for not being amazing in bed Well, not “ashamed“, but from her perspective, if you suck in bed you definitely should not surprised. From the woman’s point of view, why should she keep dating a guy who has no interest in giving her sex she enjoys? If some guy wants to ditch me because I don’t want to be choked, jackhammered for an hour or bent like a pretzel, and that’s the only kind of sex that gets him off, he’s welcome to ditch me, that sounds fine with me. …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:30 AM
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Yeah…no. Asking a virtual stranger out for coffee is not harassment Saying “you pretty, want sum fuk” is harassing unless you are in a brothel or a sex club. I worked in a rowdy bar all through college and if some dude asked me that bluntly, the off duty cop hired as a bouncer would be called to toss him out on his ass. If you don’t believe me, fafo
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:52 AM
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100%. All of the above. And from a straight woman’s point of view, even if the woman was incredibly horny, sex with a straight male stranger is inherently riskier due to a huge imbalance of physical strength, it’s unlikely to be sexually fulfilling, and carries a risk of pregnancy with some unknown rando If I felt like hooking up with a stranger, it’s definitely not going to be with one who doesn’t understand boundaries and why they exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:43 AM
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You can start out by asking their name, where they work, what their hobbies are. Then you can ask if they have ever had the coffee at that place on the corner, tell them they seem like a person you want to get to know, and ask if they would be interested in getting a coffee with you. That’s for starters. What you are basically proposing is asking a stranger if they want to get naked and alone with someone twice as strong as they are. At best, it’s highly unlikely she will orgasm, at worst she wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:55 AM
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Agree! How about n= 3 at age 21, n=4 at age 29, n=about 14 at age 31, 16 at 32, ….. Started dating my now husband at 35, probably racked up 20. Was pretty slutty for a year after two years of celibacy following a devastating break up. Still don’t think I had a sex addiction with fewer than 10 in two years. I could easily have had a new one every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 02:09 AM
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I can give you a list of reasons I was celibate for almost two years after an ltr, spent almost a year after that with a few str and a few hookups. So sometimes you aren’t looking for serious dating. “Hookups” are sometimes guys who looked great, seemed super promising and then absolutely sucked in bed. I’ve had more than one of these, guys who would have gladly dated me. And my ex was a virgin, so it’s not like I expect a lot to begin with. But guys who cluelessly jackhammer like a pornstar wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 12:58 AM
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EVEN dogs, just like all animals. Obviously human interaction is more complex….for all but op it would seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 11:47 PM
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It wouldn’t affect you in the least mentally to be penetrated by some random person? If you woke up after the scout jamboree with a butt full you would just think oh well, hope I made some lonely boy happy? Trust me, you are in the minority. There is a reason rape laws exist and 99% of people feel having sex you don’t want is a very serious crime. Much more serious than being robbed. If sex has absolutely no emotional meaning, then why would the lack of it make you depressed? If you are hungry a…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:32 PM
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You think handing out sex to randos is like handing out a dollar to randos?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:11 PM
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Number 4 is not a problem in my house, but if I had a partner with a much higher libido, and lack of sex was actually causing depression? Then yes, I would be proactive and try to boost my libido. But that’s with an intimate partner. It’s almost like a whole generation has forgotten sex is an extremely personal, intimate AND PROCREATIVE act between two people, not a societal obligation. If you were in jail, would you offer up sex to all of your fellow inmates because those poor guys were starved…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 10:01 PM
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Ohhhh, not in the least. I’m older and have a much younger friend mtf. We’ve been friends since “he” was twenty and she is now 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:52 PM
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Well, I wouldn’t put it in a dating profile or mention it on the first date for sure, but I wouldn’t wait months either. I would definitely bring it up slowly too, throw around some hints early on. I would probably look for women who identify as queer, non binary or adjacent, although a completely vanilla, straight woman might find it okay after she gets to know you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:43 PM
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Bingo. People who are saying “there’s really nothing wrong with it” are insane. I would never ask a complete stranger to do a million different things, and sex would absolutely be the very last on the list. Even animals have protocols when interacting with each other. Proper eye contact, communicating non aggression…or aggression…gauging reactions and sussing each other out. The only stranger it’s appropriate to ask to pop your pimple is a dermatologist, to massage your feet is a masseuse, and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:29 PM
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Peak autism. Even dogs sniff and wag tails before humping.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:09 PM
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No, not if disclosed early on. There’s plenty of fish in the sea, I’m not looking to get involved with anyone with a history of questioning their gender. I’m pretty much going to rule them out as a potential. Maybe if I already began to have feelings for them, then I would. Maybe. But I would also be pretty angry if they waited TOO long before telling me…..so it’s definitely a fine line.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/26 09:05 PM
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