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AgreeableAd7689/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 07:58 PM
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I had a male friend that was feminine like that and complained of the women he dated cause they didn’t put effort into planning dates, put enough effort in sex like he did, didn’t bring much to the “table” like he did. He Told them all this too. Short story, he was bisexual. I told him he might just be happier with men because women don’t like these complaints from men.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/25 05:05 PM
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Try coffee meets bagel app!
/r/RedPillWomen07/06/25 05:24 PM
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Yes definitely trying the supplements! Thank you. I’ll keep the sex thing in mind too. He’s honest about what he does and I do believe he uses condoms but I’m open to being wrong
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/25 12:00 AM
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This infection started before we got back together, he doesn’t step out often. It’s a blue moon kind of thing but I can’t say it doesn’t affect how I am physically with him.
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 10:34 PM
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I tried fluconozole 3 times, it comes back after 30 days. I tried boric acid, taking probiotic pills, drinking probiotics. I have a suppository in going to try soon actually. I’ll see if that helps. What pre biotic supplements do you recommend?
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 10:27 PM
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Do you think there’s a likely hood of finding someone compatible in friendship and marriage at 31? My fear is starting over. He’s told me he doesn’t need mental compatibility, as long as the woman is emotionally connected to him. Whereas I do need mental stimulation from my partner. He enjoys my mental stimulation ofc but he can do without it. I don’t know what to do with that information
/r/RedPillWomen26/05/25 08:30 PM
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Seems like he’s either intentionally or unintentionally challenging your self worth and self respect. I would reassess his criticisms and determine for myself what’s valid and what’s not. Know yourself and who you were before him and work hard to not let that go (you’re so young and still finding yourself so I know this is a bit difficult). I’d also explain that constructive criticism is healthy but if he continues to give insults in the guise of criticism then there’s no relationship. Stand you…
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/23 03:40 PM
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No but they’re support systems, providing money for a trip is a factor in that. Softly demand/ directly ask with confidence…whatever you want to call it that makes you feel comfortable. He should also feel comfortable asking you for things he needs/wants as well because you are his fiancée.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/23 12:18 PM
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I would even go as far as, softly demanding it. “Babe, give me money for my trip so I can enjoy myself and take pretty photos and have life long memories” Let him laugh as the cute comment and wait till he realizes you’re for real and then he will give you the money lol He’s your fiancée. Let him figure it out
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:37 AM
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You don’t feel comfortable enough to ask? Hey babe, can you give me 1k for my trip? [Flirty eyes and cute high pitched voice] Whatever your dynamic is, you should feel comfortable asking for money. If you’re not that close…it’s telling
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/23 10:35 AM
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Sounds like he lied to you from the beginning. If it’s money and a relaxed life you’re after, he’s not the one.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/23 11:39 AM
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I’d say withhold sex until you have all your answers. You’d have to date him AND spend enough quality time with him in order to do this. It’s not about how long it is in terms of months/weeks. It’s about having all your answers. Observe him & how he lives. Who are his friends and are they in commitments? Is he close to his family? Are his family values similar to yours? Date him long enough to feel comfortable asking him: How does he see himself raising his children? Does he like the idea of a s…
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/23 07:36 AM
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Yes because you get to see how inappropriate the two main characters are by how they speak to each other & how they hang out together. How the fiancée already thinks of herself based on the best friend ect.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 03:00 PM
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I would fear being pregnant and being left alone for her OR when my kids are 10 & 8, he leaves me for her because her children are already grown up and it’s easier for him to be married to her…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 10:59 AM
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Yea I’m sad for Cameron Diaz in the end because shes ok with not setting healthy boundaries and she still married the guy that has boundary issues. The guy wasn’t even mad at his best friend for trying to ruin the wedding.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 10:58 AM
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As long as he doesn’t get annoyed mid film and makes you turn it off. Regardless I think you should watch it on your own and pay attention to the dialogue throughout the film.
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 10:56 AM
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Hopefully it’s not as deep as the characters in the movie but you’ll be able to feel it right away. It’s played by Julia Roberts and Cameron Diaz btw
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 09:54 AM
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Has anyone seen that movie? I’m curious if you can see the similarities here
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 08:19 AM
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I would weigh the benefits of him as a partner vs this situation. How does he serve YOU? I would also think exactly how close he is with her and the possibility of him creating clear boundaries in the future. Lastly, objectively try to find out if you are being used as the baby maker and she’s his peace/muse ect. Do you sense he is closer to her than you? I would watch the 90s film: my best friends wedding to see what I’m talking about. The main male character loves his fiancé because of what sh…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 08:16 AM
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Psychology is probably the one science field I think people shouldn’t go after if they need a secure job that earns money. I would encourage you do go into an engineering degree or medical field for good income right after graduation. Psychology requires a phd for you to get a decent job with that degree. Please use your student loan wisely now that you have it.
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/23 06:45 AM
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Ive realized, to truly love someone means not be possessive over them or their past. I am grateful for the happy memories from my past relationship and have no Intension of throwing my photos away. They’re memories that I LIVED and I want to remember the places I went to, the food I ate, the outfits I wore and the funny moments we had. The intimate parts (kissing or sex) means little to me. But I lived that and I don’t want my current partner possessive of my life memories. I want him to love me…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/23 06:38 AM
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Spotify has a bunch of fun playlists on moods and female artists that isn’t hood music or slutty music. It’ll take some time but the best way to create a new sound for yourself is randomly start listening to new playlists. Your ears will choose what you like 👍🏽
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 03:29 PM
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You can try sowing classes? There’s usually some classes for beginners in major cities. Crochet is one you can learn easily online. Improving cooking skills is also a plus. If you have dogs, hiking or working out with them is a hobby. I love reading but I also understand the need to work with my hands
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/23 12:30 PM
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I agree with this. I can understand wanting to listen to more positive music though. When I want more peace in my life for a time period I have specific playlists to give my mood an extra boost. However, cardi b, glorilla and Doja cat will always be a mood. It’s about knowing what music influences your personality vs mood. I’ll party, clean, work out to the songs but none of them will push me to twerk on a bar table, have endless one night stands, gold dig or boss my SO around/disrespect him. Kn…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/23 01:10 PM
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Yea it’s giving predator vibes. I don’t like at all. We’re mixing adult logic with child like regression…
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 07:49 PM
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It’s this form of thinking that keeps me from being comfortable in the disciplinary dominant/submissive culture. I would feel silly and childish.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 09:10 AM
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Try looking up some books on this? I recently bought a specific self help (self teach) book on what my current issue is and I’m hoping for the best!
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/23 09:01 AM
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I don’t see an issue with it. Just be prepared that some men will not see it as “fair”. Be confident when you tell dates your boundaries and see who wants to stick around or not. Don’t over explain yourself either. Men that want details are men that already don’t get it and they value how fast they get to sleep with you vs looking for a life long partner.
/r/RedPillWomen19/02/23 09:53 AM
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Men usually want a partner they can sleep with… If someone does accept your terms just know they’ll want to step out of the relationship for sex. Also do you plan on having children? Sex needs to happen for that. Unless you’re dating a 50+ year old man who already has children and doesn’t have much of a libido anymore…your goals are very unrealistic. Maybe you can come across a man that is asexual?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 09:19 AM
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I’m currently in the same situation except I’m not ok with casual relationships (not consistently stepping out) I can handle a couple times a year but not a monthly thing. I hope you find answers
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/23 12:58 PM
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I wish you the best of luck in your marriage! I’m so glad these books have helped you in the way it’s helping my relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 10:16 PM
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You can also try YouTube influences like Jasmine Theodora. I think she’s great! Books: if you’re single or in a relationship /marriage then you can try these books Surrendered Single & the surrendered wife (If you’re in a marriage) the empowered wife All by Laura Doyle. Amazing books! I read all of them even though I’m not single or married lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/23 06:25 AM
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Try making sure your hydrated and ate breakfast with healthy fats. This will give you long lasting energy Healthy fats: avocado Olive oil Nuts peanut butter Can add carbs (not too much because carbs can make you sleepy)
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 09:04 AM
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Try reading the Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle. It talks about situations like this
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 06:00 AM
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If you think what you previously posted isn’t an extreme bias, then there’s no helping you. No one has had problems with understanding my posts so I would say I’m articulate; nice try though. You squealed your disgusting and condescending post on everyone on this forum. Please don’t act innocent. We’re advising the youth here. Let go of Andrew Tate Evangelism. It’s creepy.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 05:54 AM
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Yes, I hope OP reads this post. Since I recently debated this with my partner, it’s nice to know other people can articulate my argument better than me lol.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 09:05 PM
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The creepy “narrative” is being warned by young, middle aged and older women…they’re not ALL envious and 3/10 women. What are you talking about? You sound like a perverted old man trying to defend preying on very young women and their naive-ness (see how easy it is to generalize you and probably get it wrong) The concept is creepy, the philosophy of it is creepy, the principle is creepy. Plenty of fertile & wise 10s 25 & up. RPW is being red pilled on the truth. It doesn’t mean you’re automatica…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 09:00 PM
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This comment sums it up for me. It’s the specific age gap. 25&35 35&45 totally fine. 21? I’m way more cautious about his intentions. There are plenty of women around his age ready to set their career on hold or retire to start a family. OP you’ll understand much more until you Feel and see the difference when you’re older. Like Jenneapolis said, she didn’t understand the problems with her maturity correlated to the age gap until she became older herself. It is weird..
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 08:46 PM
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I recently had this debate. I won’t advise anyone to do something I wouldn’t encourage my daughter to do. That’s too much of an age gap for me to not think it’s creepy. He knows too much and you know too little. It’s easy to be manipulated for years until you realize you’re not being manipulated. I’ve always heard that men want younger naive women to “mold” But it should be that men want younger (not too young) but younger than him (2-3 max 5) years younger to LEAD not mold. To influence but not…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/23 07:02 PM
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Please get with someone else that respects you more and can leave the past behind. This is a sad story
/r/RedPillWives05/02/23 08:50 AM
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You give it time
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 09:20 PM
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The empowered wife- Laura Doyle. Do some reading on how to let him figure it out and staying in your feminine.
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/23 11:38 AM
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The surrendered single & the empowered wife by Laura Doyle. These books will help. Enjoy and wish you the best.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 02:10 PM
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Would you like to learn/or have you been teaching yourself how to be in a submissive, feminine, male led relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 01:38 PM
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The book requires you to put absolute trust in THE man who knows he 100% loves you and wants to protect you. A man that struggles with depression doesn’t seem to know how to protect and love himself yet. I think you both should probably work on loving & building yourselves before you date anyone if you’re struggling with actual diagnosed depression. Hard times and emotional ups and downs are not technically depression. Life is just hard sometimes.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/23 03:53 PM
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The empowered wife by Laura doyle I’ve recommended this book like 5 times and I’ll keep doing it lol It discusses finances and how to continue to let the man lead even if you make more money. It will help with staying within your feminine energy as well Note: this doesn’t apply to (male based toxic) relationships of any kind. If the man doesn’t actually love and respect you then this doesn’t work. That can be husbands, boy friends, fiancé’s. (Toxic, abusive, indecisive, depressed, anxiety driven…
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/23 04:57 PM
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This book is for “‘married couples” but I promise it will help you finding and keeping a man while he gives you gifts, opens doors, compliments you ect. The empowered wife by Laura Doyle. You won’t regret this if you study and practice this with a healthy man that actually loves you (that’s why it’s written for husbands) Toxic, depressed, abusive, anxiety driven and indecisive men (boyfriends/fiancés) will not apply.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/23 09:03 AM
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I’m interested, I finally downloaded the app
/r/RedPillWives23/01/23 08:22 AM
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The traits you listed are just the basics to attract women. The loyalty comes from the deeper parts of yourselves that create the real connection. How you both laugh together, how you handle problems together, how he learns your ways and you his. You see his self sacrifice for you when it’s needed. After experiencing this, you’re not jumping ship lol
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 10:18 AM
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Some women have been taught since childhood to be independent because we don’t have men in our lives to rely on. When you have a taste of independence, it does feel good. You don’t have to be patient because you do everything in your own pace and time. You don’t have to fear someone ruining your plans because you make them and you adjust exactly to your liking. It’s amazing until… You start to realize later in life that men also have the same taste of independence and now you’re both clashing be…
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 10:14 AM
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Haters everywhere. That’s why I post about my ventures but I’m private about everything else in life. My actual friends FaceTime me and call.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 05:02 PM
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This is probably my fav post of the rest. Either OP pays for child aid, cleaning and cooking to help or she leaves her job. If you’re insecure about your own funds aside from his then maybe he needs to make you feel more financially secure (he can add $ to your retirement accounts, give you $ money, give you an emergency fund accessed only by you) I wouldn’t stop working unless I felt safe and secure with my husband. I would have to know he will make sure I’m good with or without him. Stopping y…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 02:14 PM
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Seems you’re living the college life and you’re probably going to be surrounded by other men that are equally immature and Incompetent at life. Maybe wait till you’re half way through or at the end of college to see what men have shown their true value towards the end of their degree. It’s like when you’re in high school and you don’t know who will be the least ambitious to the most until you’re close to graduation… I would wait and people watch for a bit.
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/23 02:05 PM
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Yes I’ll be buying more of her books for sure. I’m glad you’re getting a positive experience for your relationship as well. I don’t get any doormat vibes but more maturity and respect vibes from the books. I hope other don’t try to misinterpret it. End of the day it’s not about the problem but how you go about. She teaches you the how part 💕
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 02:44 PM
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Reading the empowered wife by Laura Doyle, it’s meant for women already in marriages and post on brink of divorce. However, if women read this during their relationship..I’m sure it can also help getting the ring too. I’m not married but this book changed how I see my relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 11:27 AM
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I’m in as well 🎀☺️
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/23 11:25 AM
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I’m reading the empowered wife by Laura Doyle right now 😍😍 obsessed. Almost cried on the train today note taking things I appreciate from my partner that I feel I don’t do often enough.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 04:22 PM
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How do we read the old context and the books?
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/23 02:43 PM
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What are the actions that he has shown you that he respects and values you now? While he decides if you’re worth the full investment? He can mention that he is iffy about your past while still showing you that he’s appreciative of your presence now, he enjoys talking to you, he does things for you ect. If you’re doing almost all and he’s just taking taking taking, he’s using you. He can tell you his values and agree with you on them but that doesn’t mean he wants to share them with you. It seems…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/23 11:37 AM
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I think the nose job is forgivable and the most understanding from men. Boobs, butt, Lipo…nope they’re going to sniff out the insecurity quickly. I also believe that a nose doesn’t make you a 4-5. If you’re athletic then you probably have a nice figure. Focus on your clothes and light make up. Your face will naturally change as you get into your late twenties and thirties as well. If you’ve done everything else very well (hair, make up, clothes) and still think you’re not attractive or attractin…
/r/RedPillWomen08/01/23 09:24 AM
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I’ve been there (not ocean front but just the life of a server) and I think about crabby inappropriate managers, gossip girls and f boys. I’ll take the well paying profession and travel trips with my man and friends 🥂😎
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/23 04:37 PM
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You bring a good point. Search for what you’re looking for and I wish you the best 🙏🏽
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 03:27 PM
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Yes, the chance of finding someone you’ll be compatible with. It can get harder with age and men that age with us tend to look for younger women to date.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 03:01 PM
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I dated someone like that, he was a robot with a good career. Would’ve made a good provider, Father and partner. I couldn’t get past the lack of personality though. My boyfriend now has the job and the looks plus we’re in sync with interests, humor and philosophy. It was a risk finding him though as I’m in my late twenties. Dating is a job, assess your worth and risk levels and make a choice.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/23 10:59 AM
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I would wait until he texts you for a date or hang out. When men are very interested in a girl, they usually don’t want to play hard to get and potentially miss an opportunity with them. Do you want a guy that hangs out cause you initiated or a guy that asks you because he doesn’t want to miss that opportunity?
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/23 05:01 PM
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I read this post to my boyfriend and he said “he’s just one of those guys that doesn’t know what he’s missing”. I agree. This may be coming from a place of ignorance. He probably hasn’t dated a masculine bad B (career orientated) so he’s curious. Willing to compare that to you and maybe trying to push you into that slowly. I would say, stay confident and let him know you’re not changing. You’re happy with yourself and don’t need other hobbies to feel interesting or more intelligent. If he’s grow…
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/22 10:20 PM
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It’s a good sign that he’s taking his time to figure out what he wants and needs to do. From what you state, In a perfect world, it does seem like he’s into you enough to commit fully. However, it’s a lot of time and work to put into a serious relationship. It will no doubt take time away from his children intentionally or not. I can see why he’s struggling because he’s potentially going to lose a partner in order to be selfless and commit to his children. It seems like a hard situation for him …
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/22 09:00 PM
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What is an orchid group? Is this gardening?
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/22 08:38 AM
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I would take these months to pass the time in ways that make you relaxed. Nothing that will push yourself out your comfort zone too quickly. Do not force fake emotions, it’s draining. Whether your activities are Netflix and snacks, extra sleep, having time with friends ect. It’s going to take time to feel like yourself again. When my past relationship ended, it took me a year to truly feel like myself again without walking into the shadows of who my ex wanted me to be. There’s a thread on here a…
/r/RedPillWomen21/12/22 08:47 PM
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You being the one to plan and initiate sounds masculine to me. This will keep pulling you out of your feminine space. 9 months isn’t too long of an investment, I would want to let that go since he doesn’t seem to change his mind set.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/22 02:34 PM
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