Ahoymaboy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Need Help With Possible Plate Situation In Rave Your lack of abundance sticks out like a sore thumb. You’re going to a rave my guy, almost every girl will be fucked up on drugs and willing to hook up. Stop focusing your efforts on a single girl whether it be your ex or a girl you met at a rave a year ago. My advice: don’t message anyone, go to the rave, and enjoy your time hooking up with all of the women who are looking for a bit of excitement in their lives (hint: it’s all of them)	/r/askTRP	01/02/19 08:37 PM
3	Fucked girl with boyfriend, thought she was gonna become a plate, now she’s having second thoughts. Abundance mentality, and don’t dwell on it. If it happens it happens, and if not, that’s cool too.	/r/askTRP	02/06/18 08:52 PM
8	How long to ghost? It’s over, stop thinking about it. You’re 10 miles deep in the friendzone, and her ghosting you is the only answer you need. Find other girls because she isn’t worth the time or inevitable disappointment you will face if you continue to pursue her.	/r/askTRP	01/06/18 03:07 AM
3	Dental Braces affects SMV? Hold frame and it won’t matter like all other insecurities.	/r/askTRP	27/05/18 10:34 PM
0	My girlfriend said she couldn't go out, but actually did. What should I think? Soft next her or hit her with some dread, she’s disrespecting you blatantly and you shouldn’t put up with her bullshit. Go find other girls who will respect you and your time.	/r/askTRP	22/04/18 03:58 AM
2	First time a girl shit tested me, how did I go? Do not chase her or give in to her demand to be treated as a queen. She is attempting to reframe in her favor. Your response was a qualification and not a good response to her ultimatum. Don’t be afraid to lose her, there are many girls out there. I believe your first mistake was escalating through text (if this is a back and forth interaction). Her ASD will emerge hard. Next time, invite her over or just find a reasonable excuse to have her over, and then escalate from there. As for this exchan…	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 06:50 AM
3	I'm not a beta orbiter but I have my theories? Read my comment again.	/r/askTRP	20/03/18 10:23 AM
9	I'm not a beta orbiter but I have my theories? If you’re looking for validation here, you aren’t going to get any because the truth is anything but warm. Since you’re 19 and still a virgin, your claim that you “display more character than most men” is a selfish rationalization common to every nice guy. Read the sidebar, develop yourself, and drop the self sympathizing behavior that will keep you in the same stagnant place until you change your perspective.	/r/askTRP	20/03/18 10:15 AM
19	GF goes radio silent for 3 days. Claims she was sick and on her period. Should I demote? She was sick, on her period, and on top of that, her phone was dead? For three days? Regardless of whether she’s cheating or not, you’d be a fool to believe her. Hit her with a soft next, doesn’t matter if the silence was disrespectful but lying to you is definitely so. You give in to her frame by supplicating to her disrespect	/r/askTRP	12/03/18 04:32 AM
6	What makes a creep? In all honesty, everything the other comments have been saying is correct. Another thing though, that I find rings true is instead of a push pull dynamic, it’s only pull. This is why nice guys are deemed creepy, they are only pulling and making it far too easy for the girl. They want a challenge, not a simp who rolls out the red carpet from day 1 until the day they get bored.	/r/askTRP	17/01/18 01:06 AM
2	GF thinks i deal drugs Disagree and amplify here to deal with the shit test.	/r/askTRP	10/01/18 11:17 AM
3	Why Red Pillers can't accept that skinny guys can be successful with girls? Stop hamstring your way into getting out of lifting. Lifting not only provides you with muscles and a clear staple of masculinity that differentiates you from the rest of the population, but it also fosters a hard core discipline. I hope you’re next post isn’t one that asks why in the world you should meditate.	/r/askTRP	18/12/17 06:21 PM
2	Why am I so "alpha" with some girls and such a puss with others? This happen to any of you? As much as it hurts to admit, you’re not completely the person and the doctrines you hold. You have weakness and insecurity deep down, which is why you feign your outward character as alpha. This is why it works well with the plates you have and the girls you are seeing. However, when your foundation shakes (as it does when viewing more attractive women), your inner self is drawn out and your alpha frame crumbles. You can know all the right decisions, moves, and shit test answers but if you don’…	/r/askTRP	16/12/17 09:20 AM
8	From a TRP perspective, does it make sense to go for a foreign bride? How do you go about doing that? How does the timing work? If you want a gold digging woman who will look for the door at the optimal moment, by all means go ahead. Most of these foreign brides are looking for a good beta bux who will fulfill their citizenship and monetary needs. Why do this when you can utilize TRP with the women in your area? If you can’t establish power and proper dynamics with the people around you, you won’t be able to do it with a foreign bride, I guarantee it.	/r/askTRP	16/12/17 01:33 AM
8	Asking a girl out when you do not have any intentions of getting your dick wet. Thoughts on this? TRP is a toolbox, not a religion to follow. Do whatever you feel like, it’s your own time and resources which you must allocate appropriately and that decision falls to you and you alone.	/r/askTRP	13/12/17 12:14 AM
8	How does TRP carry himself in a group of people? A true red pill man understands himself, and believes that his needs and goals supersede that of others. He does not give out his respect for free, only rewarding those who truly deserve it. He has strength and discipline, which allow him to foster a frame that is immovable and impenetrable. He is calm in the face of danger, and does not attempt to control others, because he understands that the only thing he can control is his own reaction and behavior. He is outcome independent because his lif…	/r/askTRP	10/12/17 09:40 AM
1	I’m 19, and I envy other guys my age who have greats lives and are happy. What can I do to fix this? Happiness is an illusion. Social media only showcases the best parts of one’s life in a much more organized and cunning way than in real life. Behind every happy photo, there are problems and stories you will never hear about.	/r/askTRP	05/12/17 05:49 AM
3	How to handle period pains??! Did I do the right thing? You’re misinterpreting the advice he gave you. He simply stated that you shouldn’t have had a sleepover with this girl. Periods are a natural part of a woman’s cycle and it was right for you to give her painkillers and water. Stop with the sarcastic undertone when you come here for advice.	/r/askTRP	03/12/17 10:12 PM
2	Does TRP make you guys truly happy? The saying goes “Never chase a feeling”. If you chase happiness, you’re living in a fantasy. TRP is about recognizing reality and playing to your strengths.	/r/askTRP	05/11/17 10:15 PM
2	Six pack abs ? Yeah, I had headaches and nausea for the first two weeks or so. That's because our body is so addicted to the way our body processes food, as well as the dopamine we get from eating foods we crave. However, after the first two weeks, my mind cleared up, my brain seemed to work faster, and I had more energy than ever before. Another benefit was that my skin looks clearer than it ever was when I was utilizing dermatology products. It's worth trying out.	/r/askTRP	22/10/17 04:02 PM
5	Six pack abs ? As the other comments have mentioned, the key to 6 pack abs is diet. You need muscle, obviously, but you have to eliminate the fat that secretes at the lower portion of your stomach. Your body naturally goes there to store fat. Personally, I had 6 pack abs, but I wasn't seeing the definition that I wanted. I decided to try the keto diet, and it eliminated all of the fat for me. What happens is by reducing your carb intake to close to zero, your body starts to burn fat instead of carbs for energy…	/r/askTRP	22/10/17 08:37 AM
56	Holding frame amidst a shit test shit storm You held your frame, and you're not afraid to lose her. I'd say that's good. Remain indifferent to any outcome, and if she leaves, you'll find someone better. If she continues with the shit tests, soft next.	/r/TheRedPill	19/10/17 05:31 AM
11	Lost my frame. Is ghosting this plate madnatory? She disrespected you and was trying to get you jealous, and at the end of it all, you gave her exactly what she wanted. Now she's testing you again with this text. Why are you bothering with this girl? Remove all attention, until she decides to respect you. If not, there are other options available.	/r/askTRP	18/10/17 03:39 AM
4	Break the Rules to win Good post and a brief summary Of Nietzsche's Philosophy for those who are not informed: Nietzsche championed two different ideals in master morality and slave morality. He supposed that slave morality held virtues such as pity, patience, humility, honor, and other such qualities in order to survive against the pressures of existence and suffering. It is their way of coping with the fact that they have no power. Master morality is in essence, the will to power, where the individual holds the powe…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/17 07:17 AM
2	My plea for help Motivation shouldn't be where your drive is derived from. Motivation, like all other feelings will fade over time. The first day at the gym is good, the next, worse, by the third terrible. The key to success is putting your feelings aside and relying on self discipline and good habits. Self discipline will carry you even through the hardest days when motivation will not. Find yourself getting into good habits that exceed over a month, and you will find it routine and much easier, just as it is w…	/r/askTRP	12/10/17 06:21 AM
4	How far can one really go? Your drive and desire to improve is admirable. However, you should redirect and find the root cause of where it comes from. Currently, you're seeking validation from these beautiful girls at your college. An alpha male does not care for petty validation, and will improve only for himself. If your goal is to finally get with one of these girls, you drive will falter once you have succeeded and you will, I guarantee, lose her. As the saying goes, if you really desire something, you must first be w…	/r/askTRP	11/10/17 03:38 AM
5	What qualifies as losing frame? While indeed, nothing is black and white, there exists an imbalance of power between two people when interacting. One holds the tempo and rhythm for the interaction, while the other is led. That is the reason that a man with TRP will have a good time regardless of whether she (a woman) joins him or not. He is indifferent to her presence, and cannot be controlled. TRP is also about taking the active role, and not letting anyone manipulate you because you are the man, a rock, and someone who canno…	/r/askTRP	09/10/17 06:14 AM
37	What qualifies as losing frame? It means being reactive instead of being proactive. You're living inside someone else's vision of the world instead of your own. Hence why, the "I don't give a fuck" attitude works so well. Manipulate or be manipulated, as simply put.	/r/askTRP	09/10/17 03:06 AM
3	How do I regain a girl's attraction for me? You have oneitis. You're moving and making decisions based on this girl, when in reality, you should do as you please, not giving a shit. My advice. Move on, and find a different girl. You lost frame, like the above poster commented, and at that point, it's not worth the time or energy to attempt to recover something that should be considered unsalvageable.	/r/askTRP	03/10/17 05:49 PM
39	Everyone is already more selfish than you I believe this goes along with the saying "There is no such thing as a free lunch." What a lot of these "nice" people are doing is creating expectations and expecting something in return. They are passive and deceitful with their intentions, and when things do not work out the way they had envisioned it, the victim card is pulled out and played repeatedly over and over again. Instead of changing themselves and improving for better results, they are stuck in the same cycle of doing what is suppos…	/r/TheRedPill	02/10/17 07:31 AM
5	Biggest fucking difference between pua and the redpill? The difference between PUA and the redpill is that PUA feeds you the right words to say, canned lines, peacocking, the right way to act, etc. The redpill is about establishing your identity as a masculine man, so all of that shit, while it matters, is done subconsciously, or at least, that is the goal, eventually. Your responses and mannerisms would be a deeper reflection of your inner self rather than a response you read online. Personally for me, I went through the PUA phase myself, and I felt…	/r/askTRP	17/08/17 10:15 AM
1	Shittest: After dancing with a girl she says you're bad at dancing with a straight face. How do you reply? Laugh it off, tease her about something else, Agree and Amplify; this is common textbook knowledge.	/r/seduction	07/08/17 08:34 AM
16	College Campus Meeting Speaks TRP Truths This is synonymous with some of the posts here on TRP about telling TRP ideologies but not mentioning TRP. Because society has completely skewed the rules between an apparent battle between feminism and mysogny, it is obvious and evident that we, as men cannot play by society's standards. The first rule of TRP is do not talk about TRP. It's the second rule as well. That's in place for a reason, because people will reject the ideologies and fail to resonate, with accusations of gender shaming, et…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/17 12:19 AM
8	Have a vision for your life and stick to it This is similar to how a man is emasculated by the society deemed term "SO" (Significant other). Often times, when getting into such LTR's and close relationships with women, men are often changed by the woman themselves. Cut your beard, stop working out so much, etc., which are often times the very characteristics and alpha qualities that attracted them in the first place. Subconsciously, this is a desire to undermine your sexual market value, so that other women would not want you, while simul…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/17 11:40 PM
2	Emotionally Devastated For some reason, the human brain is wired psychology to desire what we cannot have. The exact reasoning or science behind this is beyond me, but there seems to be an ensuing dopamine rush when letting your imagination run with your goals. Reference the post which discusses how talking about your goals is psychology similar to actually achieving them. But oneitis happens to the best of us. Of course, this is beta mindset, and something to be controlled and monitored (abundance mentality). Your fr…	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/17 11:32 PM
3	New SOS I think the main problem is that there's always a balance. You should never have too many alpha characteristics, but you should also not have many beta characteristics. A healthy balance and ratio keep things in line for yourself.This is done by recognizing and passing both shit tests and comfort tests. Another possibility is complacency. You grew too in line with what was familiar, not changing things up, (Feels over reals for women). But anyways, this is the past. She cheated on you with your …	/r/TheRedPill	14/03/17 09:38 AM
5	Rural rpill, srs bullshit in tiwb2 There's an acronym that I recall to help better what you shouldn't be discussing with a girl, and what you should. You should not talk about RAPE Religion, Abortion, Politics, & Economics. You should talk about FORD Family, Occupation, Recreation, Dreams All in all, you should ideally be treating her as if she were a child, as some of the other commenters have suggested.	/r/TheRedPill	09/03/17 11:05 AM
6	Pulling your hand and joining in the toilet? Not sure what the purpose of your post is. Read the sidebar and the available resources to help in your journey. If you have read the sidebar thoroughly, you'll understand your situation, or maybe you're better suited for the asktrp subreddit.	/r/TheRedPill	08/03/17 12:49 PM
2	She comes in terms with her true self in the midst of a slutcapade (FR) Another fundamental thing to understand is that she's never your's. You just have to remember that's it's just your turn, and under the right circumstances, any woman will cheat on their man- AWALT	/r/TheRedPill	07/03/17 02:07 AM
1	The difficulties of plating women as a fatty Why are you plating, and not going full monk until you drop the weight. Of course picking up girls is hard when you look like chewed bubblegum. Sorry to tell you, but the women you attract, aren't going to be high quality, and you're going to friend zon yourself yourself because girls don't want to date fat guys. Well, at least not any girl worth a damn. This is incorrect. Red pill isn't a physique, it's a mindset and should be core in what you believe. Weight or size isn't an indicator of RP or…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/17 01:04 AM
1	Why is sports considered a beta activity? The main thing about this, and like many other things (e.g. video games, drugs, etc.) is to use or do the activity in moderation. Do not become a slave to anything, your frame and your desire to improve should guide you	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/17 12:51 AM
3	New Statesman has a pop at The Red Pill. Another problem with the article is that the author claims the Red Pill utilizes "cherry picked evidence" to further beliefs such as AWALT and all women cheat. Yet, the author is utilizing this very same phenomenon with "cherry picked evidence" by stereotyping the entirety of the sub reddit as mysogynist or women hating through a couple examples not synonymous with TRP beliefs. For me personally, similar hypocrisy is what directly led me to the Red Pill. Labels, political correctness, whatever t…	/r/TheRedPill	02/03/17 12:26 AM
19	"Anything you want in life can be had, as long as you work hard for it" Would Law 3 from the 48 laws of power apply here? "Conceal your intention" and strike at critical moments seems relevant	/r/TheRedPill	12/02/17 12:23 AM