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Other comedians dislike him. He's a bit of an ass, and not funny. He also has exceptionally good looks. He acts with a pretense of social insurrection, he acts as if he's legitimately participating and succeeding socially, he acts as if he's socially challenging, he acts as if he's intelligent, specifically socially intelligent, but he's often not, he's often a bit of an ass. Many of his interactions seem forced. He's also an entertainer, and as we should all have realized, entertainers get more…
/r/seduction19/06/13 04:32 PM
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Unnecessarily wordy, significantly so. Also pretentious. Also based on a false premise. The man is not the offeror. The man is an offeree trying to find a woman to offer. "Women have all the power because women have all the vaginas." - Dave Attell
/r/seduction18/06/13 06:27 AM
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If that's your style, go with it. Be yourself, express yourself, and interact with a lot of women. You can do that without being the most verbal guy. I don't think you can really change your personality.
/r/seduction17/06/13 07:49 PM
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You're a girl; you don't need to seduce men. Do what Chelsea Handler does: walk up to him, bend over, and ask if he wants to penetrate you. He will. Girls trying to figure out how to get men. Ha. You walk up to a guy you want, point at your vagina, and say "fuck this". You will have a 100% success rate. Women don't need to do anything to seduce men. It's men that need to have websites, books, videos, courses, etc. - and sometimes their lives - devoted to seducing women, because it's one of the m…
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:53 PM
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Fuck that. Life is short. Have fun.
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:43 PM
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I don't fully believe everything I said. I was just sort of playing the devil's advocate that's been in my head recently. And I was hoping someone would tell me how wrong I am. You've made me question some beliefs that have been creeping in my head lately, although, again, I don't fully believe them. I mean, I've seen video evidence from SP, RSD, and plenty of other guys who make pick-up videos, along with a bunch of other evidence. I do think there is a very significant social aspect of DHV and…
/r/seduction28/04/13 06:13 AM
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Don't go out alone. Girls will laugh at you to themselves, make fun of you, maybe even tell you you're a loser or insult you in some other way. Also, girls won't fuck guys unless they're socially "safe", which means they're in a certain social circle, or have good social status. You have to have male friends in order to have sex with women. It's really stupid. So much of human mating has to do with friends, friends, friends. It's so social. It's gross. I wish it was more physical and emotional. …
/r/seduction27/04/13 09:38 PM
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That video made me so angry. I had to turn it off before they got to the part that is actually helpful.
/r/seduction22/04/13 09:29 PM
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The Weeknd, or other sexy indie/alternative R&B.
/r/seduction17/04/13 10:04 PM
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Try playing hardcore punk, or heavy dubstep, or your favorite kind of abrasive music. If she'll fuck you to that, she's a keeper.
/r/seduction17/04/13 07:27 PM
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I tried.
/r/seduction07/04/13 06:15 PM
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On the Howard Stern Show, Bree Olsen said that she stopped and blew a guy who picked her up this way. I always wanted to try it since I heard that story. Haha. I had a girl try to give me her number when driving next to me one time, but her friend sped up.
/r/seduction07/04/13 07:42 AM
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...or just hit on girls more.
/r/seduction06/04/13 02:56 AM
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Pretty much all failure can be considered reference experience. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction06/04/13 02:53 AM
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Can we be friends? Haha.
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:05 AM
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Wow. You're really young for being as good as you are. You're younger than me and I suck. I'm kind of pissed off now. I need to get moving. Haha.
/r/seduction05/04/13 03:01 AM
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Why do you guys charge so much for seminars?
/r/seduction05/04/13 02:56 AM
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What's your fastest pick-up and what did you do or say?
/r/seduction05/04/13 02:55 AM
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How often do you get rejected?
/r/seduction05/04/13 02:54 AM
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Is "Dog" your best opener? If not, which one has had the most success?
/r/seduction05/04/13 02:52 AM
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What advice would you give to someone who's just starting out, is going out solo, has some social anxiety, isn't used to going to bars and clubs, doesn't really like people that much, has almost no money, doesn't drink alcohol, hasn't done many approaches, and wants to fuck 100 girls in his lifetime? Haha.
/r/seduction05/04/13 02:45 AM
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I don't mean to be too dramatic or hyperbolic, but you and Owen have helped change my life as much as anybody else - not just with women, but with general self-improvement too. You guys have changed the way I think about so many fundamental things in life. Hearing you talk about "reference experiences" is one thing that stands out. That has helped a lot. Again, I don't mean to be hyperbolic, but you guys are almost like philosophers and scientists - you have these great philosophies on self-impr…
/r/seduction05/04/13 02:39 AM
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And fuck baby steps. Speak to someone who's actually successful, and they'll likely say that one of their biggest regrets was wasting so much time taking baby steps.
/r/seduction27/03/13 01:42 AM
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The standard line here is to spend a lot of time and effort improving yourself before you even try to be successful with women. I think that's bullshit. Being successful with women is just one (major) part of improving your life. Do the other stuff too, but don't just avoid women until you get to a certain point, because you'll likely never get there. You'll likely spend a lot of time just spinning your wheels. You won't/can't be sufficiently happy without women. That's been my experience, at le…
/r/seduction27/03/13 01:39 AM
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I don't have much of a solution for the guy. I would just tell him to force himself to go out, practice, and get better. In that way, getting good with girls is no different than getting good with anything else. And then I'd tell him to focus more on self-improvement. But that's all stuff he's probably heard if he's watched RSD or Simple Pickup videos.
/r/seduction25/02/13 08:01 AM
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I can't stand that this is the advice people on this forum always give. It is possible for guys to be sufficiently satisfied in every category of their life except the category of intimacy. Intimacy is a human NEED. People need it to be happy. To people on this forum, stop telling these poor guys to just get hobbies. Hobbies don't fill the void. They'll often just make it more apparent. Intimacy is the only solution when intimacy is the only deficit, which is often the case. Edit: I'm reminded o…
/r/seduction24/02/13 06:22 AM
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Honestly, act colder. Don't be so enthusiastic. Tone it down. Do what you want and pursue your interests, but be more disciplined about it. Also, spend more time around people and interacting with them. Practice makes perfect.
/r/seduction19/02/13 06:51 PM
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You have to value some things more highly than others.
/r/seduction16/02/13 06:47 AM
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You're silly. Virtually every sentence in this thread needs a citation by your ridiculous standards. You don't need citations for common sense. Testosterone is the source of the male sex drive. Everyone knows that. If you want evidence for the fact that girls are attracted to guys with high testosterone, as if that would need evidence, read "Why Women Have Sex" by David Buss. Or you could do your own research and not depend on others to give you all the answers. I wasn't making any extraordinary…
/r/seduction26/11/12 07:46 PM
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Testosterone is the reason you're on this forum. You reduce it, you reduce your motivation to have sex with women. You want motivation to talk to girls? Fuck cold showers. Raise your testosterone and get hornier. That's what women want anyway - horny guys with high T who can give them the highest level of sexual satisfaction. When it comes to strictly sexual attraction, women are most attracted to guys with high testosterone and men are most attracted to girls with high estrogen.
/r/seduction26/11/12 02:52 AM
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I really have no desire for friends right now, because this deficit with women is too overwhelming, but it might be a good tactic, though it would take a lot of time and energy. I just want to start approaching, but I need a kick in the ass, or some support, to help me do so. Making friends when you have none is difficult. I'm also completely uninterested in anyone who's just a friend, unless it's a guy who's good at pick-up or something, because then I could learn from him. It would all just be…
/r/seduction28/10/12 02:33 AM
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I think this is a good idea, but it's sort of marred by the prominence of smartphones. No one ever needs the time or directions anymore. Does anyone have some good indirect openers for day and street game, besides asking for time or directions? But yea, I like that structure. I think this could work. Like Tyler says, think of something to approach with, try it ten times, and record results. I just need some good indirect stuff to start with.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:58 PM
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When you go out and meet girls, do you do so alone? If so, what was it like the first few times you started going out? When you're out, are there many other people who are flying solo? Do you sense that girls reject you because you're alone? Otherwise, yea, I think there's truth to what you're saying.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:06 AM
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Been there, done that. I put a lot of effort into it, but it didn't work for me. At all. I'll try again, of course, but I need to start meeting girls in-person first, then use online dating supplementally. I'm just looking for a kick in the ass to actually get me out there, because it's really intimidating.
/r/seduction27/10/12 06:00 AM
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Dude is a pick-up savant.
/r/seduction27/10/12 04:52 AM
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How did you set up the BDSM thing, and how did you meet that girl? Also, how did you get a girl to fly out to see you? On a side note, what the fuck is so attractive about talking anyway? It's kind of gross.
/r/seduction03/09/12 07:00 PM
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Dude, you work at a drive-thru, and a hot girl pulled through and asked you for your number. That's pretty fucking unreal. You're probably fine in the looks department (and if you study social psychology, you know that looks matter more than anything - confidence is second). I'd say you have less work to do than most guys on this forum.
/r/seduction01/09/12 02:53 PM
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That's more of a direct approach than small talk.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:43 PM
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I've struggled with my self-esteem for over a decade. I've been suicidal because of it. But over the past couple years, after discovering seddit and the whole seduction/pick-up community, I've been working on my self-esteem as much as possible, yet because I still struggle with it, people keep telling me I shouldn't even bother starting to go out yet. My self-esteem has improved, but it's always going to be a major struggle for me. So my question is, when can I start going out and trying to attr…
/r/seduction28/08/12 04:23 PM
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"Confidence" has a spectrum. On one end, you have people who are comfortable with what they're doing, because they're skilled at it, or have a lot of experience, etc. At the other end, you have people who are arrogant, overly assertive, and even aggressive. This could be because they're skilled at what they're doing, or because they have a lot of experience, but personally, I find that to often not be the case. If anything, their confidence should be ascribed to insecurity with themselves. But g…
/r/seduction28/08/12 02:12 AM
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I agree that confidence can be an instinctive sign of abundance, as it is an instinctive sign of the other qualities I mentioned, but one of my main points was that the correlation between confidence and the qualities it supposedly signals isn't a strong one. Just because someone is confident doesn't mean they're abundant in any area of their life, and just from my experience, since this kind of thing can't be studied, more confident people aren't more abundant - they simply use confidence as a …
/r/seduction27/08/12 09:49 PM
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Yea, there's a reason, but it's not a good one. Not giving a fuck about trying to please people you care about...I don't know whether it's a sign of social dominance or alpha male status or "manliness" or drive or what...I don't exactly know why women are attracted to it, but let's not act like it's a good thing that they are. Yea, adapt or die, but let's not act like the mating process we're adapting to is at all admirable. It's savage and brutal. For instance, take confidence. Women are attrac…
/r/seduction26/08/12 03:37 PM
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Strong eye contact, grin, "Would you have a problem with that?" Opens up the conversation, rather than closing it with a slick comeback.
/r/seduction24/08/12 07:44 PM
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We can "revel" at how amazing a process evolution is, but it produces some really nasty results that we shouldn't admire. That's all I meant.
/r/seduction19/08/12 03:42 AM
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It is according to thesaurus.com, but whatever. It's just semantics. You know what I meant.
/r/seduction19/08/12 02:02 AM
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So impressive that we haven't been able to evolve past this bullshit the way we've been able to evolve past so many other barbaric forms of behavior.
/r/seduction18/08/12 04:24 AM
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Well, that makes me hate humanity a bit more.
/r/seduction18/08/12 01:14 AM
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So women don't like police?
/r/seduction17/08/12 07:40 AM
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I came to post everything you just posted. Tyler and Julien...holy shit. Those two motivate me more than anyone ever has, and they're fucking brilliant. Sasha Daygame is also worth following.
/r/seduction16/08/12 02:09 AM
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So what if she has a boyfriend? Maybe you're better for her. One of the main reasons people break-up is because they find someone better, and there's nothing wrong with that. It's a perfectly natural process. (Monogamy, on the other hand, isn't, but that's a bit beside the point.) Don't try to fuck up people's lives by tempting them to do something they'll regret, but also don't think of monogamy as some sacred bond that's immoral to violate no matter what. And yea, plenty of fish in the sea, bu…
/r/seduction29/07/12 02:00 AM
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Not sufficient, but necessary.
/r/seduction28/07/12 05:18 AM
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It's cool. Thanks.
/r/seduction28/07/12 03:19 AM
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So it's a catch 22. You can't have a fulfilling life without women, which I know to be certain, but you can't have women without a fulfilling life, which you know to be certain.
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:56 AM
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Dude, I know the basics. And you don't know me so you can't say whether or not I'm unhappy. My psychiatrist just took me off meds and told me I didn't need to come back and that I really just need a woman, and she's the head psychiatrist at one of the world's best hospitals. She knows that's the only deficit in my life. I workout religiously, but "hobbies" and "travel" and such don't really interest me because this deficit, which has existed for about 14 years, curbs my overall enthusiasm for li…
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:52 AM
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I've been with some women, but it's always been fleeting. Never a relationship. Mostly whores. If you're lonely for long enough, you'll know how important women are.
/r/seduction28/07/12 01:29 AM
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I'm 26 and I've gone my whole life never having a girlfriend. I know for a fact that women are necessary for happiness.
/r/seduction28/07/12 12:29 AM
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