| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 131 | What is healthy love | Aik2 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:11 PM | |
| 82 | Emotional trauma? | Aik2 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 07:27 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 28 | What is the most low value reason a scrote has tried using to manipulate you?A guy I was friends with in middle and highschool sent me an unsolicited pic of his micropenis to wish me a happy birthday when we were in college. It literally came out of nowhere, "hey happy birthday! I was thinking about you. Here's a lil gift for you..." Emphasis on "lil.". Blocked him immediately after and still blocked over ten years later. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 03:51 PM |
| 55 | A simple trick to combat negging..."Is that a grey hair?" "I mean, at least I HAVE hair" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 6 | Using your hobby to vetI started as a classically trained ballerina 20 years ago. Now I'm a dance teacher and I love social dancing (salsa, bachata, merengue, lindyhop, etc etc) so I can definitely carry a beat and find the rhythm. The moment a guy accuses me of back leading when I'm actually just staying on beat, ZINGER I would never date them lol. Find the beat, fool! Don't use me as your scapegoat for bad rhythm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/22 05:29 PM |
| 51 | You can now block users on SpotifyMy ex has been following me on on Spotify, I have him blocked and deleted on everything else... To be honest I'm been hung up on this guy ever since we broke up. Since Spotify was the only way I still had access to him, I would occasionally look at his Spotify too. However after reading this post I went in there today to block him, notice he changed his profile picture within the last few days to him and his new girlfriend. I cried a little bit... But at least that last tie is completely severed… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 03:17 PM |
| 2 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Mine was splitting costs and cOmMuNiCaTiOn SoLvEs eVeRyThINg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:30 PM |
| 11 | What are the most ridiculous pick-me opinions you had before reaching the age of reason?Me: "I want flowers for Valentine's Day" Him: "I wOuLd hAvE dOnE iT bUt nOw I wOnT bc yOu aSkEd mE To!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/21 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Help me out of this spiralHE'S MANIPULATING AND LYING TO YOU. SHRED THE LETTER and do something nice for yourself. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:30 PM |
| 69 | Dont mention your standardsUpdoot for "act like you've been treated well" This is my new mantra! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 08:33 PM |
| 4 | "I just don't want to hurt you"The first time I heard this I replied: "then... Don't?" Him: -shocked Pikachu face- lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/11/21 01:59 PM |
| 132 | What kind of tattoos are LVM red flags to you?That stupid tree silhouette sleeve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 09:04 PM |
| 50 | Religious FDSHonest but controversial opinion: I just ignore it. Religious texts are so old and nuanced that decided to live by my own interpretations. Sure it causes me to go against "orthodox tradition" but in my heart I know I'm following the religion and doing what's right for my soul. I have no qualms about disregarding the literal translation of things and always try to piece together the bigger picture. A simple example: "Do not mark the body" People think it means no tattoos... But back then only cri… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/21 01:05 PM |
| 12 | Post-NVM Blues - How Do You Move Past It?Queen! I feel you 110%. I get so angry when I think of all the time, energy, money, etc that I wasted chasing men. I wanted a relationship/marriage/family so badly that I spent my 20s trying to curate that. I'm now divorced and have decided to no longer let men or marriage shape my life or trajectory. I have big goals for myself. I'm in the best shape of my life, making the best money I've ever made, in school on full scholarship..... DATING WILL DISRUPT MY TRAJECTORY. I will get back out there … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 5 | Looking for a Conservative Co-Host for our upcoming podcast, Female Political Strategy!This makes me happy! I'm a staunch libertarian which can get mistaken as right wing. Absolutely not! I just don't like anyone telling me what I can or can't do | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 12:12 AM |
| 2 | "Women aren't funny"It's not my fault if they're too stupid and stuck up to get my jokes 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 02:12 AM |
| 3 | The text that started it all … this is when I learned what gaslighting was …"self -asteam" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 06:50 PM |
| 76 | The truth tea ☕️🐸Not pictured: -beautiful skin from good sleep, less crying, no stress acne -much wellness bc of maintained workout and diet routines -improved friendships -acheived goals | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 01:15 PM |
| 6 | "bUt imAgINe bEiNg KiCKeD in tHe BallS" they saidLawd if y'all haven't seen the videos of men using the labor simulator, prepare to die from laughter: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Lfl2Ctp_xX8&t=94 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I05oO_3sKGQ&t=76 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ppzV6hoPkIc&t=70 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 6 | What's Your Level Up Plan for this Week/Month?Over the last week I've been embracing Marie Kondo's "spark joy" mentality. Finally hung up art from my travels, bought groceries that made me happy (instead of working my way through the pantry), and cultivating relationships that spark joy :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 02:30 AM |
| 15 | I DIED With This! HILARIOUS!!Facts lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 02:02 AM |
| 4 | How to talk to men100000% on point | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Don’t feed the trolls.I have done this move so many times, it's always hilarious. They always try to circle it back to themselves and restart the debate too lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 09:52 PM |
| 67 | What's the WORST COSMO ADVICE you've ever seen on the topic of dating, sex, and relationships?I remember in college one of my professors in an intro to women's studies class asked us "why is a magazine that's supposed to be all about women, all about men?" and it really open my eyes at 18 y/o | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Weird Red Flags?Yup! My NV soon to be exhusband was like that. Ironically he also took steroids which made his weiner shrink and not work. Also, breast tissue. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 01:48 PM |
| 18 | The Eternal Girlfriend 😳😬I would have lost my shit. The audacity!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/04/21 01:32 PM |
| 42 | Maintaining independence while exclusively datingI feel like the most HVW thing to do if you like hanging out with him occasionally, is to remind him of your plans. You're doing you, he's a lovely addition to your life, but the focus is still on your life. You need your own time. If he sticks around, cool. If not, meh. Men are like buses, 10 mins later the next ones coming. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 07:02 PM |
| 30 | Anyone else find "kinky" people to be so boring at this point? BDSM, choking, "breath play", calling men daddy. Everyone magically developed the identical cookie cutter sexuality and it's so BORING, but they still think of themselves as wildMIC DROP!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:13 PM |
| 27 | FDS users taking it in turns to roast Scrotes in the comments like:What show is this? 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/04/21 03:15 AM |
| 5 | How to not catch feelings for men and protect your heart10/10 analogy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 02:59 AM |
| 31 | Love her certainty and confidence.Soooo I low key avoid guys that have an N in their name. ALL my bad exes had one. Know what else has an N? Narcissist. (kinda joking but actually not) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:33 AM |
| 7 | Are you ever haunted by treatment you tolerated ?Yep! I think about all the BS I put up with my ex husband and it literally makes me hulkmode angry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 12:20 PM |
| 3 | ✨✨The FDS Apple podcast channel is up! Go give it a follow!✨✨🤩🥳 subbed! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 04:02 AM |
| 11 | Don’t let your guard down for a single second ladies... Exhibit A as seen on AskTRP🤢🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 03:28 AM |
| 3 | She Gets ItLiterally just had this conversation the other day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:24 AM |
| 6 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?Girl, same. Ever since FDS I find my self skipping a lot more songs these days. Maybe 2 weeks ago I heard some song in the radio that said something like "I stroke her throat until I make her choke" and I literally shivered and shut it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 03:34 AM |
| 12 | Write a list of all the reasons why your ex is awful1) maxed out my 5k credit card and never paid me back 2) lied about everything! 3) stole money from me 4) hid drugs in my house 5) choked me while in roid rage 6) called me a stupid btch when angry 7) got in brawls with my friends when he got too drunk. Anyone he didn't like, he didn't want me to hangout with and throw a tantrum. 8) went to brothels and used escorts, then came home to me. 9) "what do you expect? if you don't feed the dog, he's gonna eat at the neighbors" in response to me catchi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 01:53 PM |
| 9 | I took it all.Serious Queen sh!t to me! Go you!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 4 | Let's talk about how the "We need to talk" is portrayed as a bad thing.Preach!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 02:30 AM |
| 42 | Who's he marrying?Gross and sad. My ex husband's mom was like that. She still kissed them on the lips as grown ass adult men 🤮🤮 made me so uncomfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 128 | The Bar10/10 will watch again and again 😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 03:29 PM |
| 4 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?LMAO! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:20 PM |
| 51 | Since you joined FDS, what are the ‘pink-flags’ or little LVM behavior you started picking up on that you didn’t notice before or would let slide?If they listen to Joe Rogan I nope TF out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 04:22 AM |
| 48 | Man sleeps with over 400 women and it broke his sexuality. I think it’s not just porn that’s the problem...Can't make a partner feel like shit if you don't have one 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:47 PM |
| 12 | Just say you’re a broke lvm and go.I'm torn about how I'd react. Half of me would walk out and leave him with the bill... But the other half of me thinks I'd turn it back on him and pay the whole thing. Say something along the lines of "Tell you what, you're clearly a broke loser idiot. I'll take care of this" ... I'm sure the queens here can come up with a much snarkier mic drop lol As much as I'm trying to be HVW and the bigger person, sometimes I really want to get my shots in when I can. Edit: part of me would also just pay m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:33 PM |
| 4 | ...or will he?"no wonder you're divorced 🤡" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 08:28 PM |
| 17 | ...or will he?HAHAHAHA ooooh man. Happy for his ex for getting TF away from him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 04:44 AM |
| 12 | Yep.LMAO the armpit thing must be universal. The exact same convo happened with me when I was a teenager! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:36 PM |
| 34 | Sexism in MedicineThis is one of the many reasons I choose to always go to female doctors :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 03:43 PM |
| 18 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...I can hear the hurt and disbelief in her voice... I wish I could hug her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 04:02 AM |
| 25 | I'm not even sure if I want to date anymore. And I think I'm okay with that.Yup! I'm right there with you. My life is peaceful now. Just me, focusing on me, not caring or worrying if a man texts me back. And at this point, the only people I'm allowing into my life are those who won't disrupt my peace | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Annie Oakley was one of us 👑Definitely want a print of this, or a magnet at least | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:24 AM |
| 5 | He broke my finger a year ago, and I'm celebrating my freedom and healing with this commitment ring to myself. Long live the rose that grew from concrete!Same!!! And I love the saying 'log love the rose that grows from concrete" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 06:13 AM |
| 2 | Say it louder for the Losers in the back!! Don’t accept that kind of behaviour. Not sorry if you scroll and like another girls provocative pic. You belong in the dumpster.BIG FACTS!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 38 | Say it louder for the Losers in the back!! Don’t accept that kind of behaviour. Not sorry if you scroll and like another girls provocative pic. You belong in the dumpster.Yep that how I caught POS ex. I presented him with a printed list of his activity (browsing escort websites, dating apps, and Google map locations at seedy motels) then found the convo between him and an escort discussing rates, meet up time, and eventually a "thanks that was fun!" And he offered to smoke her out next time 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 12:33 PM |
| 6 | Support women with your wallet.Is there a website devoted to women owned and operated businesses? Particularly trades | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 05:13 AM |
| 11 | LOUDER for the people in the backIt's also not the guy you find yourself crying over. It's also not the guy that leaves you on read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 05:41 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else at a point where you just can't trust what they sayThis is 100% me omfg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 02:41 AM |
| 5 | Before you let him spend the night or weekend or even let him know where you liveOooo girl I am the queen of background checks/social media vetting. Give me a name and city and there's solid 95% chance I'll know their whole history before date number one lol then I sit there and act surprised when they tell me things about themselves I already know 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 11:50 AM |
| 10 | Before you let him spend the night or weekend or even let him know where you liveThat's terrible. But where is it safer for a first sexual encounter? His place or my place? I don't feel comfortable going to guys' homes first, bc at least in my house I know where my weapons are hidden lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 02:58 AM |
| 1 | I hope her divorce lawyer has a wonderful time with the public photographic evidence of his cheating.Cut his balls off and be done with it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 107 | For any women out there that has been disrespected by their partner in a heartless way. Leave. Even if it’s the first time.I'm terrified of shrimp, so he threw one at me. "I didn't know you were serious!!!!" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:00 PM |
| 67 | Where's the lie?Big facts. Add disappointing in the sack and call it done | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:15 PM |
| 10 | “That’s crazy”Right? I don't give them any ammo anymore. He says two words? I'll say two words | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Just a reminder! This will change your life.Big facts. I struggle with this a lot and I'm working on it. I don't need their validation and I won't chase them. if theyre not into me boy BYE! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 02:34 AM |
| 30 | The scam of believing men will bring you fulfillmentI definitely needed to read this. I'm in the middle of a shi-t show divorce and my soon to be ex just got his side chick pregnant. The man I loved and visioned a future with moved out in May 2020, and already has a new life where I'm totally erased... It hurts. Meanwhile, I've been burned 3x during my venture back into the dating world. After the most recent one, I realized that maybe this whole happily ever after thing isn't my destiny. As much as I want love and children, all things point to n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 03:33 PM |
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