Aikolala Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like?		Aikolala	/r/seduction	16/10/19 01:08 AM

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1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? That makes sense 😊 I just dont want men to think that I don't like them because I'm not an overly touchy person with new people!	/r/seduction	16/10/19 06:53 PM
1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? Yes I am definitely getting nervous when it matters to me, for sure. But the scenario you described above on your friend and you is my nightmare...putting myself out there on a guy who isn't interested even though I'm interested in him. I guess when I put it that way I sound like someone who is very prideful. 🤦🏽‍♀️	/r/seduction	16/10/19 05:02 PM
1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? Also therapy has helped immensely in trying to figure out why I do it. Getting to the root cause allows you to work through it.	/r/seduction	16/10/19 04:05 PM
1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? Yes yeah I get what you mean. Honestly, increasing my own self confidence has helped with the mental block and taking control of the situation and starting with small touches with friends. Trying out small touches with friends and other people I trust and learning that way helped immensely.	/r/seduction	16/10/19 04:03 PM
1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? Oh...and say this on a first date? Or just "hey it takes me a bit to physically warm up to people so don't feel bad!"	/r/seduction	16/10/19 04:02 PM
1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? I usually just force myself to touch their arm or something...but then it feels super awkward 😂 and I can't keep it up.	/r/seduction	16/10/19 03:28 PM
2	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? Quite a bit actually. It's just that when I date men whom I really like or who I think are way beyond my league (yes I know it's a self confidence thing), I freak out and get very distant. If this is normal...then I need to get over myself and just get used to it haha. Men who think I'm beyond their league usually put in almost all the work so I don't need to worry about it...it's just when I have to try that I freeze up. I've gotten this feedback so consistently now that I'm guessing that I am …	/r/seduction	16/10/19 03:27 PM
1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? It's only the people I meet at first who I think are out of my league where I get this nervous. Ah okay maybe I just need to consciously just get over the nervousness....🤔	/r/seduction	16/10/19 03:23 PM
3	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? Ah I love this. How do you just spontaneously bring this up without seeming like a nutcase or too intense?	/r/seduction	16/10/19 02:21 AM
1	Just cause you secured a GF, it doesn't mean you can stop working on yourself and continously improve. If you let go of yourself, she will start to question if you are the best she can do. Woman here. I know this is easier said than done but don't let one woman color your opinion of all women! There are great ones out there and being selfish will definitely NOT work if you want a long term relationship. Being ghosted sucks and I am sorry that it happened to you but this is unfortunately just a part of current dating culture.	/r/seduction	16/10/19 02:11 AM
1	Ladies, how do you get physically comfortable with a guy you like? Thank you so much for offering ❤ how do you go about getting comfortable on a first or second date (like after dinner when just strolling or something)? I have this mental block that they don't want me touching them at all.	/r/seduction	16/10/19 02:06 AM