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Most men in their 30s and 40s are not in their peak sexual attractiveness, stop this cope. Most of you at that age are chubby, have some noticeable level of baldness and start showing signs of aging due to men refusing to take care of their skin in their youth. Most men are the most physically attractive when they are in their 20s. The few men that are still very physically attractive in their 40s, are usually the ones that were also hot as fuck when they were young in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:52 PM
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I think if we’re being objective, 90% of people from both genders peak in their 20s (physically speaking)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:27 PM
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They’re the same shit lol you guys just call the money-obsessed women that accept you and pretend to enjoy your company “sugar babies” and call the ones that reject you and refuse to put on a gf act towards you specifically “gold-digging hoes”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:21 PM
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It’s the complete opposite. Hot women have no issues getting hot guys in their prime years (which is early 20s, not their late 30s or 40s like some men believe, because at that point most of you are chubby and are balding) to commit to them, unlike ugly women I’m ugly myself and never had the opportunity to attract men my age for this reason. I talk with other lonely ugly women on this site and when the age gap topic comes up we all agree that if we don’t find a guy our age we will probably go o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 08:00 PM
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Thanks for trying to make me feel better about my situation. I’m objectively very unattractive though, even my own dad said so once. If very attracted people exist and we all can recognize them, then the same can be said about very ugly people. Sadly some of us are born like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:22 PM
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Eh my ugliness and maybe some mental issues
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:13 AM
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I expect you to be selfless enough to die alone instead of lying to some poor girl by making her believe that you 10000% love her and desire her and think she’s the love of your life when in reality she’s not. Don’t be selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 02:12 AM
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And a low body count doesn’t necessarily mean you definitely won’t like sex or you are a prude that isn’t interested in trying anything at all😭 like I’m a virgin myself: it has nothing to do with me disliking sex or not having any fantasies at all lmfao people are so quick to assume things about others Also… kinda weird to imply that all people that like sex MUST have a high body count
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:11 AM
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There’s a big ass difference between dating a woman you genuinely like her vs dating a woman only because you think she’s the only one you can get
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/26 01:01 AM
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They shame me for not having a job yet and having 0 motivation or goals due to my extreme depression (their anger is understandable) They don’t give a fuck that I never dated anyone though, if anything they thank God that at least I’m not dating anyone. In fact even if I was a successful woman with a nice job they’d still prefer it if I stayed single
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 09:03 PM
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As someone who's had sex, it was a mistake. I was young and naive. It fundamentally changes the nature of the relationship. Ah well if some day I ever have sex I hope it doesn’t end up like that for me :P I think that true masculinity is telling the truth regardless of what anyone else thinks, even if they censure you for it. I don't care about being nice, what feels good, I care about what the truth is. I mean I tend to be very brutally honest about many things as well. The thing is what I beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 05:13 AM
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School/university/literally being outside??? Where I am from most men still approach women irl so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:25 AM
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Well obviously men have it harder than women. But my point is that women like me exist and we have zero options as well. Yeah it isn’t as common to see women in my position as it is to see lonely men, but it still happens, mainly if you are an extremely unattractive woman. In fact I’d say extremely unattractive women (despite though we are a very very small minority), actually have it worse than men (even the ugly ones). I’ve seen so many ugly, fat, etc. men with girlfriends, all because they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:23 AM
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I actually don’t have a problem with sex before marriage, it would take me a while to feel 100% comfortable with the idea of having sex though because I have very low self esteem and thinking of a man seeing me naked makes me anxious, so yeah I guess he would still need to be patient But what I meant is that I have very strict standards when it comes to a man’s personality and other men have called me shallow/picky for that. Apparently in many guys’ eyes, caring too much about a man’s personalit…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:01 AM
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I’m South American, not from the Philippines lol when people talk about “beautiful South American women” they mention physical traits that are the complete opposite of how I look like so
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:56 AM
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I don’t use dating apps but I’m still chronically online. Sometimes I get DMs from lonely desperate men but they all leave or ghost me when they find out I’m ugly Why is it so hard for you guys to recognize there are woman that are also in the same position as lonely men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:55 AM
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I’ve only seen two types of passport bros: old desperate men and extroverted party guys that want to wh0re around with non-western women. I don’t want to date a man that is as old as my dad and I’m not attracted to promiscuous men with the personality of an obnoxious frat boy. all the passport bros that come to my region are looking for women with a very specific look/features (thanks to hollywood and porn) and I don’t fit that stereotype at all, so I’m sure I’ll be seen as “one of the ugly ones…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:21 AM
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I have low standards when it comes to looks but high/strict standards when it comes to personality/goals/mindset/beliefs/lifestyle/etc I knew since I was a little girl I’d never marry a male model but I do want someone that is my perfect match when it comes to all the other things I mentioned. I’m extremely socially awkward and shy but I tend to have some strong opinions on certain things or topics, and if we aren’t in the same page then I just won’t like that. I don’t consider myself picky but …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 01:14 AM
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??? I’m a virgin lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:56 PM
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I mean I’m socially awkward and very very ugly, that alone makes it very difficult for me to get male attention. Also even if I wasn’t ugly the overall features of my race/ethnicity aren’t really liked at all in my region anyway so I could be an objective 10/10 and I’d still be considered an uggo by most guys around me so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:54 PM
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Most men in your country maybe, where I live most men still approach women irl so my point still stands 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:03 PM
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I was just agreeing with his logic. Don’t agree with me, talk to him about it lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 09:02 PM
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I don’t use dating apps but no man has ever hit on me irl so
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 08:35 PM
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Ok then I hope your future wife always exclusively fantasizes about men that look completely different from you, apparently you think as long as she’s your official partner then that’s enough so who cares about everything else 🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:41 PM
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No contradictions there. They’d pump and dump any below average looking chubby girl but wouldn’t commit to her. And even if they do, a lot of men date who they can get not who they truly want. Tons of women out there that have horror stories about their boyfriends/exes being obsessed with exclusively watching porn involving a very specific type of woman that have completely different features from them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:06 PM
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“You’re also mischaracterizing what men mean by “typical woman” in these discussions. Most men aren’t describing the average woman in America. They’re describing the women most visible in modern dating spaces: the ones active on apps, nightlife, social scenes, etc. Those women tend to be more outgoing, more social, and often more conventionally attractive. That doesn’t mean men think all women behave like that.” At least half of you genuinely think all women behave like that. Just the fact that …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:54 PM
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That’s literally me lmfao 💀 Yes women like us exist
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:43 PM
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Women preferences are considered morality. And men preferences are considered evil. Social media feminists aside, who is actively demonizing men for their preferences to the point that you feel like a victim? So many men shamelessly admit they (as a whole) tend to have very strong preferences when it comes to a woman’s age, her race, her bodytype, etc. and literally no one genuinely cares. And no, a random 40 year old lady making a TikTok video talking how she thinks it’s an ick that older men p…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 02:34 AM
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For some reason a lot of men were delulu enough to grow up thinking they could be ugly/fat/broke/etc. but “as long as they were nice” they would easily get the pretty girl waay out of their league that they always fantasized about, only to find out that obviously wasn’t the case. And instead of actually sitting down and think about why that happened, they just chose to believe the easiest “explanation” they could find first: “if they didn’t like me when I was nice, then it must be because women …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 10:09 PM
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Most couples on Earth end up having kids eventually If you pick the potential father of your future children by focusing exclusively on “I enjoy his company hehe” and not caring about money/the financial aspect at all then you are just a stupid woman lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:15 AM
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Just like everything, it really depends on how pretty you are as a woman. At the end of the day a woman’s value in this society depends on how desirable she is. I’ve seen so many very beautiful women get a lot of advantages in this life because of the same male sexuality/lust you are complaining about, and they definitely love getting those advantages no matter how much a lot of them make TikTok videos complaining about a creepy rando looking at them at the gym or something. The term “pretty pri…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/25 03:05 AM
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I used to be one of those women that always fought with all these men that flooded the comment sections of those posts with their “he wasn’t a victim, it’s the fantasy of every teen boy lol” mentality, only to be laughed at by all these guys. It made me feel disgusted, like I was arguing with literal r4p!st/p3doph!les, because that’s exactly what they were defending. It really used to make me angry for hours, now whenever I see a post like that on social media I try to avoid looking at the comme…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:40 AM
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Are you more interesting in stopping men making jokes, or women raping young boys? You made a post about how you think raped men aren’t taken as seriously as raped women. If you want the victims of your gender to be taken as seriously you can’t afford to ignore the fact that your gender is 50% of the population and that a lot of you don’t have any problems normalizing the “men can never be rape victims” mentality by cheering and making sexual jokes like “it should have been me 😩🤤” whenever you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:22 AM
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Go to ANY social media site right now, search for some news account sharing a story of a teen boy being raped by a female teacher and read the comments. I can assure you 90% of the comments downplaying the male rape and denying the fact that the tween or teen boy is a victim would be grown ass men themselves, and in fact you will see WOMEN fighting these gross dudes in all those comments and calling them insane/p3do sympathizers, only to be mocked back for “not understanding how teen boys think,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:06 AM
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If the dude is going to get the same treatment in the end either way, I can't blame him for aiming as high as possible. Yet men get so offended if some ugly women have the same logic and ignore ugly men. Well, if as an ugly woman pretty much all men are just going to see you as pump and dump material you might as well go get pumped and dumped by the 6’4” above average looking guy and not by some uggo that also prefers hot women over you anyway. I don't think unattractive people of either sex sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 03:50 PM
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I mean I’m an ugly woman myself that still haven’t dated anyone and the men that knew that have no problem saying that “you must lower your standards” thing to me. Idk why you act as if it’s something illegal to do when I do see men online always saying that to ugly, fat, old, etc. women all the time But the reason why men don’t say that phrase as much as women is simply because, again, most women don’t struggle or complain so they have no reasons to change their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:56 PM
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Because men as a whole are the ones complaining way more about the dating scene, most women are perfectly fine
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:48 PM
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Not always. A lot of times hot women are so dumb and weird enough that they end up choosing ogres whose only quality is "oh he makes me laugh"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:41 PM
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You are way more likely to see a hot woman dating an ogre than a hot man dating an ugly woman so I don’t understand why men are even complaining when most of you could easily get a gf if you have a job and aren’t socially awkward lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:35 PM
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If the women they think are less attractive than them have no problem rejecting them, then they clearly aren’t less attractive and the men are just coping because most of them (even the ones who claim are desperate) subconsciously believe the woman still has to be the more attractive one in a relationship. I say it as an ugly woman myself who always befriended ugly lonely guys who are still virgins in their mid 20s, no matter how desperate they say they are they still never focus on interacting …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:26 PM
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Where did I say it was different? I never claimed I was the most mature person ever 🤷🏻‍♀️ I do think it’s just as childish as telling a woman “you probably hit the wall” in a discussion lol but that’s just how most online discussions end up anyway, most people end up commenting something trying to annoy the person they’re fighting with just because
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 01:49 PM
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Because we know it annoys men? I mean I’ve called men virgins or incels to make them feel bad if I’m having a silly online beef with one but male virgins or men with very low body count are actually my preference and I feel disgusted at the idea of some manwhore touching me lmfao It’s the equivalent of some random dude telling us “you must be fat/old” when we disagree with them lol edit: YES we usually just say it bc we know it annoys a lot of you not because we genuinely see it as something “aw…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/25 03:56 AM
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That stat isn't necessarily revealing of the whole dating culture. It also doesn't tell preferences. It does though. There are many different studies or stats that show how women prefer men their own age and find them the most attractive. I’m not saying there are NO younger women that prefer older men, there are, but they are definitely not the majority. It’s the same thing with tall men, there are many statistics showing that they get more attention by women, does that mean all short men are lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 02:41 AM
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Yeah, the average age gap in relationships is like 2 years at least in the US (and it’s probably very similar in most western countries). “Women have many options and have all the power on dating apps” is also something a lot of men keep saying along with the “young women prefer older men”, but if both statements were true then that would mean 21 year old women are always picking the 45 year old divorced dads over 21 year old men, right? Well statistically they don’t, and it’s because most young…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:06 AM
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Young women don’t prefer older men. Most people here are American or westerners and at least in the US the average age gap in relationships is like 2 years max. and I’m pretty sure is the same (or a 5 years difference AT MOST) in all western countries. This is also more common even in developing countries countries too now that women in those places are becoming more and more independent. Aren’t men always complaining how women have many options these days because they have all the power on dati…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/25 11:59 PM
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Blaming men again for female preferences. You're even making up a scenario to justify it. I’m not making up anything, so you say “many incels are ethnic men because white women don’t prefer them”? Then maybe they should pursue their female counterparts (non white women) instead of chasing white women? Sounds like a very obvious solution to me. Just pointing out that even neonazi's aren't as racist as women are. A white woman naturally preferring to sleep with white guys is more racist than a NEO…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 05:46 PM
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Very hard to trust these stats when irl it’s a lot more common to see shameless white-worshiping behavior from non white men than from non white women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:16 PM
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If you stop pretending that female dating preferences are "just preferences" They are though, wanting to date x person doesn’t mean you literally hate y person. Also, you just can’t force people to be with someone they don’t want to. white women are the most racist demographic on the planet. Even neo-nazis will still give non-white women the time of day I mean, I feel that’s mostly a big problem if non-white men only want to date white women or prefer them over non-white women… and if that’s the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 02:08 PM
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What’s the contradiction here? In those situations where friends become bf/gf most of the time both the guy and the girl fall in love with each other AFTER spending a lot of time together and becoming so close. They started as genuine friends, they just fell in love and dated later. That’s a big difference from some guy pretending to be your friend from the start just to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:13 PM
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Well having to deal with some shallow people of the opposite gender wouldn’t be just a male problem, so many women get dumped or cheated on the moment they gain weight, they get older, they get sick, etc. and can’t provide “bangmaid” services to their partners anymore. And no, “loving” someone exclusively for their looks is not less shallow than loving someone for their money. Both can easily disappear one day, it literally just takes a bad financial decision (money) or a random accident (looks)…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 05:42 AM
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Men with options have been dating and marrying lower status women this the dawn of time, their preferences didn’t change Lower? Yes. Low? If he’s a low status man himself, yes. Men of higher status usually have wives that are on the same level as them. Remember, the majority of people marry others of the same socioeconomic status. So as ugly as it sounds, when having these conservations, women aren’t thinking (or don’t care) about what’s appealing or acceptable to the type of man that (statistic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:30 PM
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a doctor might marry a school teacher, but he is not marrying a waitress. Yup. And women would prefer to marry the doctor, not the man that would marry the waitress. I think the guys that keep saying “lies, most of us couldn’t care less about a woman’s education/career/job!” just don’t realize the women that say “but men do care!” are women that want to date/marry a man with a socioeconomic status high enough to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:58 PM
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Men don’t care much about women’s socioeconomic status, though if given the option may even make the effort to go for lower socioeconomic women This is just a lie made by guys that 1. have 0 relationship/or even real world experience 2. are very desperate 3. are dumb (and no woman wants or should want to date a dumb man) You say “they just end up pairing with women of the same socioeconomic status because those are mostly the women they come across” yet to a lot (I’d say most) of guys my age (th…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:06 PM
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Older virgins in general are seen as unattractive by the average person so virgin men are unattractive to the type of women they want to be with and that’s why they complain Notice how she mentioned she has a lot of girl friends that do prefer virgin men and there are already guys in the comments saying things like “but those women are virgins themselves tho…” “they are probably religious/conservative though which isn’t appealing to me” “at some point if you’re still a virgin it shows something …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:59 PM
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Well hating the idea of being a stepparent doesn’t mean you dislike kids or parenting. I have nothing against kids, in fact I’ve always dreamed of having a big family eventually, but being a step parent has never been an option in my mind and luckily most young people feel the same way as well. If I’m being honest, parenting is a big responsibility I’m only willing to take if the kids are related to me (either my own kids or a sibling, a nephew/niece, a cousin, etc). If I didn’t want kids, I’d j…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:01 AM
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I definitely understand why single dads and single moms don’t want to date each other, what I DON’T understand (and this will sound mean af but I have to say it) is how there are some men and women with no kids willing to date single parents instead of someone that comes with no baggage just like themselves? Like yeah yeah “LoVe” aside, what the hell are they getting from that relationship except more babysitting experience and responsibilities (single parents always say this won’t be the case b…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:39 AM
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Why do you think some men go 50/50. Women would be able to clock this except a lot of you think you’re better than other women simply for accepting less. Men are less likely to spend their $ dating a woman they feel like he settled for, because it should be free if he had to settle. One of the very few things about being an unattractive girl with low self esteem was being able to sit back and see this irl all the time. None of the girls that were attractive enough had to play that “50/50” stupid…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:18 PM
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When it comes to attraction? YES. A lot of guys say they get attacked by crazy feminists online whenever they say they aren’t attracted to fat women. But that’s mostly an online thing and irl everyone is aware/accepts that men care about looks. They can get annoyed all they want, but they know men are still going to be attracted to objectively beautiful women and in reality no one really tries to force them to chase unattractive women or flirt with them, like who is going to try to convince him …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:45 PM
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Because it’s not equal. If a man likes a fat ass or large breasts, he will still gladly have sex and be in a relationship with a woman who doesn’t have those features. You obviously don’t speak for all men because a lot of guys love to mock women that have no curves. I have no ass and guys including my own friends have been making jokes about it all my life lmao they don’t want to be friends with them, and they look down on them. Men still enjoy the company of women who aren’t 10/10 babes. It’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 03:28 PM
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A lonely person is allowed to feel sad for being lonely, but they are not allowed to blame someone else for it. That’s what I meant. A random girl having a crush on the attractive tall boy in her class has nothing to do with the lonely and nerdy unattractive guy sitting next to her, so if he gets bothered by that, that’s still his own personal problem, no someone else’s fault. You can be unhappy about being in an unhappy situation, but someone else living their life and being happy will never be…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 08:17 PM
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If women choose abusers “on purpose” then I hope you can say the same thing in reverse. Divorced men that got cheated on or that got stuck with a vindictive soon-to-be exwife? Yeah, he stupidly chose a woman that was never compatible with them on purpose too I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 03:08 PM
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What’s particularly difficult to accept is that, many women would rather date a man who is known to harm women, emotionally and physically, who may even harm them, than a safe man who they aren’t physically attracted to. Actually, if the only two options out there are an abusive man and a “safe” ugly man, most women would rather stay single and not date any of them 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t see why saying this would be so heartbreaking to some guys though. It’s like some people SOMEHOW never realized that w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:54 PM
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No matter how much guys cry having your own standards is something every woman is entitled to since it’s their own life and they aren’t hurting anyone, on the other hand a person raping you is a forcing someone else to do something against their will. One is living their life and is entitled to lo live it the way she wants, one is breaking the law, hope this helps! Some of you guys do dumb comparisons like this and then wonder why women don’t care about incels lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/25 02:40 PM
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All the ugly guys I was friends with in high school wanted to date the hot girls only, you know, men being the “visual creatures” and all that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:22 AM
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Sorry to break it for you but a man’s money doesn’t turn on a woman either, it’s not like seeing it makes us wet lmao. Money can make an ugly guy way more tolerable than he would be without money in the eyes of many golddiggers yes, but genuine physical attraction isn’t there. Would a young hot woman sleep with an old ugly balding billionaire? Yeah many would. Would she be genuinely physically-attracted to him? No, his money doesn’t make her blind, it makes her pretend that she is, in order to k…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:39 AM
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I’ve never been hit on by a guy in my entire life, I guess I don’t exist now 😂 is it that hard for men to accept that not all women have millions of suitors on their DMs? Guys like you think the average woman is living the life of a hot college-aged girl on tiktok lmfaooo
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 05:32 AM
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I’ve never been hit on by guy in my entire life so you’re wrong lmfao it’s funny how guys just can’t accept lonely women exist
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:50 AM
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Not wanting to date a weird desperate creepy guy is having “very high standards” to most men if the woman is ugly lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:48 AM
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It is true that not all woman have suitors. Spamming that fake experiment won’t change those facts lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:44 AM
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There are women that have no suitors either. So no, not all women can experience love 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:42 AM
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Usually only guys with 0 relationship experience/very desperate guys (but that love to pretend they aren’t) and men wealthy enough to not care would say “a woman’s career doesn’t matter ”. The average guy cares enough to want their gf/wife to have a job and bring money to the house too. And a lot of college educated men want someone at their “level” too and could see some jobs as “less desirable” in a potential partner. I live in a “traditional” 3rd world country and most guys I went to college …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:36 AM
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Women have eyes, we want to be physically attracted to our partner too. Money is very nice, but it doesn’t make you lust for someone, it just makes you (well, it makes golddiggers) tolerate a guy’s ugliness. To put it in a very simple way, would she still find you physically attractive even if you were poor and had the personality of a potato? if the answer is no, then don’t be delulu enough to think she will desire YOU the same way you desire her lol If you’re a 4 or a 5 demanding 7s or 8s “bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:37 AM
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And if they do, it feels like a duty/chore to them and they’d either cheat or give him a dead bedroom. This subreddit is full of 4s-5s thinking they deserve a girlfriend/wife that is at least a 8 because “that’s they only way they’d be happy and never cheat” but they don’t realize that’s how they end up joining the big group of divorced people in the future. This may sound surprising for many guys reading this, but your gf/wife wants to physically desire you too (aka would she still sleep with y…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:20 AM
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Tell that to most guys of this subreddit then, so many guys here have that delusional mentality. They see a girl that has a history of sleeping with men “too early” and call her a sl*t who probably has an extremely high body count “which is bad and not gf material” according to them, but if a girl doesn’t drop her morals (the same ones that made her not have a high body count) to sleep with them (specifically them) ASAP then they also get mad and call her prude. There’s 0 logic in what they want…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 08:24 PM
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The men who do chase with any sort of regularity to form a pattern are extremely rare; what you are seeing is a minority outgoing women who advertise themselves seem more available and are more likely to give them what they are looking for So, you’re confirming that most men that approach women end up chasing that type. And considering your logic “those women seem more available” then it’s safe to assume that if all the other guys started approaching women, they’d also chase that type first If y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:55 PM
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Exactly lol watch what they do, not what they say. As a girl that isn’t an extremely extroverted party girl and that doesn’t dress in a “provocative” way, I can definitely see that’s precisely the type of girl most men chase -no matter how much guys on this subreddit keep complaining about those women and how “these party girls that love showing off their bodies on tiktok wouldn’t be good wives”, most guys would still end up giving more of their attention, time, money, etc. to that type of girl …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 07:23 PM
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Projecting so hard. Statistically speaking men cheat more than women and that’s a fact most people accepted before this redpill delusion lmfaoo
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 05:15 PM
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“Men love deeper than women” ah yes, the people that fantasize about other women (or straight up cheat) when their wives gain weight or get older “love deeper” lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:59 PM
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Jensen BY FAR, literally my ideal man as an extremely introvert and socially awkward woman with almost no friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:49 PM
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Lol and tell us, how would you pick a good man and make sure he doesn’t cheat or becomes physically and/or financially abusive eventually? Millions of abused trad wives around the world chose that lifestyle because they were 100% sure they married good men, I’m sure they’d like to know what they did wrong 🤷🏻‍♀️ and no, “they were just chasing evil Chad and expected him to commit/accepted his flaws” isn’t an explanation that can apply to most of those abused trad wives
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 04:38 PM
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They’re not sex addicts or fuckboys, many normal men think that way too. And nothing to do with religious reasons. I’m just extremely unattractive and hate the idea of having casual sex/sleeping with a rando that isn’t committed to me. Like yeah maybe there’s some ugly fat man old enough to be my dad out there that would be willing to pump and dump me but idc I’ll only have sex with a boyfriend (and since I’m very ugly then obviously that hasn’t happened yet).
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:59 AM
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Fuckboys aren’t the only ones who have that opinion, I’ve seen tons of “normal” men thinking the same way: many people assume all older virgin women are way too religious, have non existent libido, etc. These are things that aren’t considered good by the average guy. Pretty sure most women in their mid 20s already have some experience, it IS seen as weird (and not in a good way) if you don’t have any.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 12:43 AM
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Yes they aren’t looking for a wife, but my point still stands (they don’t find virgin inexperienced women the most desirable). And I doubt most older men in their late 20s or early 30s looking for a wife expect her to be a virgin, so again, that still isn’t a plus to most of them (most wouldn’t care if their wife isn’t a virgin anymore).
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:53 PM
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Now this guy… tell me when did I say men want women that slept with dozens? Stop putting words in my mouth because an older virgin woman and a woman that slept with dozens aren’t the only options out there. Yes, the average guy my age prefers a woman with experience than a virgin one. At least that’s what I saw in my university + on internet too, as I said the only men I see putting virgin women on a pedestal are virgin men themselves or weird redpilled dudes. The average guy out there couldn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:37 PM
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Kind of, yeah. Many people think an older virgin = an asexual person that would 100% give you a deadbedroom if you date them lmao In any case, it doesn’t matter if the assumptions are real or not. The whole point is that the average guy’s (again, not virgin guys or red pill guys, but your real average guy) assumptions tend to be more negative than people realize, especially among younger men who usually want to try to have fun instead of being with an inexperienced woman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 08:24 PM
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Sometimes I heard guys in my university talking about how it as annoying or inconvenient to be with an inexperienced woman since that means they’ll have to teach her everything they already knew and that’s “boring”. In my own experience as a 24yo virgin myself, the only men I see saying that virgin women are very desirable are either virgin men themselves or chronically online red pilled men. The average man doesn’t think you’re some angel or wife material for being an older virgin, most of them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:53 PM
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I’m a 24 year old virgin right now and it definitely isn’t desirable at all, in fact if some guy asked me irl i’d honestly just lie and say I’m not one anymore. Most men on this subreddit will say I’m crazy and that that’s not true at all, but I’ve seen and heard how guys my age talk about it -the average guy doesn’t assume you’re perfect wifey material for being an older virgin, they assume you’re a “boring prude” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/24 07:32 PM
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When you become a single mom you’ll despise the idea single dads even more. Not wanting to date someone doesn’t mean you despise them lol. I also don’t consider myself an hypocrite so I won’t avoid single dads if I become a single mom, if my circumstances change then I’ll obviously be way more flexible with this🧍🏻‍♀️ her time spent “parenting” is 0.1% they are my kids If the relationship becomes more serious and ends up in marriage (something most women want) then that woman WILL end up spending…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 08:21 PM
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I’ll be brutally honest and admit that I just never liked the idea of ending up sharing my bf’s/husband’s time and resources with another rando’s child that doesn’t have anything to do with me lmfao, especially because eventually I’ll also have to play mom #2 to the kid even though it isn’t even mine and on top of that dealing with an ex forever? Hell no. “B-b-but if he takes care of his kids and still provides for the ones you have with him why would you care” he still can’t invest into our new…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/24 06:06 PM
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I still remember how when a girl online talked about how she ended up meeting a guy that didn’t know he had to wash his ass so many women in the comments said that they had the same experience lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/24 07:12 PM
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Well of course, male physical attractiveness in general peaks when men are young too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:16 PM
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They’re just angry they can’t get Chad treatment because they aren’t Chads, so they do everything to experience it. Most of them don’t want actual traditional women, just see how many of them complain about how the women around them aren’t raised to be good wives anymore “like they were in the past” but I’m sure if one of those traditional women asked one of them if he’s willing to provide for her, chances are he’ll say “Why would I do that I don’t want golddiggers 😡 this is what’s wrong with wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:53 PM
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Yeah, most young women find men old enough to be their dads creepy if they hit on them, not attractive. If they did things like “21 year old girlfriend and 46 year old boyfriend” would be the most common type of couple you’d see literally everywhere (bc like you said, men def prefer younger women, and would date them if they had the chance) but couples like that are not the norm and it’s for a reason: most young women don’t want old men, most “older boyfriends” are 5 years older than the woman, …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:08 PM
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Older men as in 5 years older (on average) or 10 years older (at most). You have guys in their late 30s, in their 40s or even in their early 50s thinking the average young woman is lusting after them and fantasizing to be with them and that’s just hilarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 09:02 PM
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Physically speaking yes it is. Most men don’t age like Brad Pitt, the hair genetics of maaany guys already affects their looks when they are in their 20s-30s and that’s just one example…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 08:59 PM
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Why not? If women are sooo much more empathetic as they claim, then why not? If saying that fighting battles/problems/injustice situations/etc. literally starts with the affected people doing their part first is “mean” and the opposite of empathetic then I don’t know what to tell you, like some people already mentioned in the comments women and people from certain races had to advocate for themselves at one point, without no one else’s help + resistance from others. Expecting this situation to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 01:25 AM
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Why are we comparing super models and random social media popular women? The whole point is that hot tall blonde women exist and hideous tall blonde women exist. Idk why you act like Pearl isn’t objectively unattractive. You’re right, there’s no need to talk about models. Anyone can look at other random social media popular women and chances are Pearl would still be one of the most unattractive ones. She’s just not objectively attractive and that’s why most men don’t like her. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:34 AM
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No one said tall people with blond hair are ugly lol but those characteristics don’t make you automatically attractive either, so what’s your point? There are hot tall blonde women and ugly tall blonde women. Look at Candice Swanepoel and look at Pearl and tell me that “they’re equally hot” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:22 AM
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Men are not like women. They like to say we’re the shallow gender but it’s the opposite, just because we know many women would date a guy that has the ideal personality for them or at least “give him a chance” even if he isn’t cute, it doesn’t mean the average guy would do the same. They aren’t chasing Pearl simply because she’s ugly, honestly it has nothing to do with “wanting to break a woman”, guys are far more simple than that when it comes to these things. Pearl is just not cute lol. There …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 03:14 AM
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but keep it to their friend group because they know the social backlash from, wait for it, older women they would face you guys ignoring what all young women commented here and still blaming older women only is hilarious, the social backlash comes from a lot of younger women too lmao and ofc the ones that do sleep with older guys keep it to their friend group, they are their FRIENDS lol. or what? do men think young women are will go around “bragging” with strangers about sleeping with some man o…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 01:12 PM
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i never said older women all looked like celebrities while the men don’t. also you lost me at “when they really should” go make those rules when the majority of you stop balding in your 20s/30s
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:58 PM
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Women don't care if older women date young men. Many do. You think most moms would feel comfortable if their 20 year old son starts dating a woman their age? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 12:44 PM
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you thinking your opinion matters this is a debate subreddit sir lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:43 AM
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me implying that older men should stop talking about this age gap relationships topic as if the average old man was as hot or as rich as Chris Evans means that I hate men and that I want to date 10/10 male actors only? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 04:33 AM
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40 isn’t retirement age, but as a 23 year old I definitely see it as old enough to not date. Most girls my age would feel the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:05 AM
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more like ugly = less chances of dating the hot young woman you think you deserve I mean, we still have eyes and most women aren’t with men old enough to be their dads for a reason. I’m just realistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 03:02 AM
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Eh it actually isn’t wrong. She said “old man”, not older man. Yes, in most relationships the man is older. But most of the time, they’re 1-5 years older. The average young woman isn’t looking to date OLD men that are old enough to be their dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:59 AM
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No, that means it’s hilarious how many guys defend age gap relationships while using handsome rich celebrities as examples of why it is successful, as if the average man about to be in his mid 40s looked as if he was from the same species as Chris Evans. If I talked about older women in general while using Sofía Vergara or Salma Hayek as an example, most guys here would laugh at me (as they should). I still remember how one guy on this sub tried to argue with me about how younger women prefer ol…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:54 AM
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The women who hate on older man-younger woman relationships but accept older woman-younger man relationships are hypocrites that’s true, but I have to say I rarely see women celebrating that. In fact I always see on social media (tw/tiktok) so many women of ALL ages hating on Aaron Taylor-Johnson’s wife and even hoping he’d cheat on her because they think their age gap is gross af Another reason why many women speak against it it’s because most young women that really have a preference towards m…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:43 AM
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If only all men in their 40s looked like Chris Evans…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:30 AM
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No one said it doesn’t happen, it does but it isn’t the norm, that’s her point. Most younger women around me get disgusted if an older man hits on them, and are annoyed that they ALL have to put up with it just bc there’s a minority that prefers a man considerably older than them over a man their age
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:28 AM
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hate to break it for you but most old men ARE undesirable for young women, if they weren’t 20 year old women fighting over your average 40 year old guy would be the norm, most couples you’d see on the streets would be 20 year old girl and 45 year old man (bc we all know many of these older guys would accept them) but that doesn’t happen and it’s for a reason
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:19 AM
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yet both the extremely independent women that dislike gender roles (don’t want a provider) and the very traditional women (wants a provider while she cooks, clean and raise the kids) still get told that they’re all golddiggers anyway if they expect something more than a coffee date
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:14 AM
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But you know what they say, “only men with no gold complain about golddiggers”. Because when they get the gold they have no problems dating the very obvious “I care about $$$” Lauren Sanchez types lmfao 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/24 02:09 AM
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Ultimately I feel that pick me is thrown around to diminish a sexual rival It originally wasn’t supposed to be used that way but you’re right, sadly people kept changing the definition to “woman I don’t like/woman that doesn’t agree with me” I like learning new recipes/watching cooking videos, mostly on TikTok, so the typical “watch me make my man’s lunch/dinner ❤️” videos appear on my fyp sometimes. And istg those poor women always have a bunch of women calling them pickme’s in the comments for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:07 AM
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“Pickme” was (originally) supposed to be used ONLY when you talk about women that love to put down other women for male attention, but I have to admit that many women keep changing that definition to “women that I don’t like/that don’t agree with me” If we go by the original definition: “she’s catering to your every need” that’s still not a pickme “always sides with the guys” if it’s literally always (even if the guys’ opinions are wrong) then yes that’s a pickme “hates whatever is trendy amongs…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 04:53 AM
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Caring about it looks is just as shallow as caring about money. That’s my whole point. But it’s ok, because dating is shallow and discriminatory by default. What bothers me and many women, is that men only demonize one of them, meanwhile the other “it’s just my biology”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:35 AM
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women didn’t “find and keep” a man for hundreds of years, they didn’t have that much of a choice when it comes to their love life lmao, NOW that many women have the choice (and don’t have to depend on a husband for survival anymore), they’re finally allowed to date the guys they really want overinflated standards so many stories of girls that have dated guys that don’t even wash their own ass lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:19 PM
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men care more about love and attraction, women care more about power, status and wealth. It is known that physical appearance is very important to guys, so I’d say lust and attraction would be a better description another thing men don’t understand is that many women don’t find it THAT flattering if they’re only (and mainly) wanted for their looks, bc thay literally increases your fear of ending up with what I described above (a husband that will stop loving you the second you gain weight or get…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 11:09 PM
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But a woman who just likes a dude for his money, like why? Well as I said having money sometimes can be related to having good traits/abilities. You can also bring the “money is a necessity” card too. I’m not saying a woman that only cares about that isn’t shallow, she definitely is. I was just disagreeing with what you said at first (that liking someone for their money is way more shallow than liking someone for their looks). It isn’t, and in fact it’s the opposite (bc good looks aren’t a neces…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 09:03 PM
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I don’t know. At least when it comes to money you can find people that actually work for it, which is a good trait in a person (unless you assume all people that are financially stable are old money/come from millionaire families only). A good-looking face is genetics and literally the definition of shallowness considering it provides no other good traits apart from just looking pretty. And you think looks-obsessed men don’t come across poorly to women? One of women’s biggest nightmares is endin…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:15 PM
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Looks are temporary. You see many guys stopping finding their wives attractive/cheating on them if they gain weight after a pregnancy or when they stop taking care of themselves as much as they used to when they first met. Caring about something so temporary that adds no actual value to a relationship is literally shallowness. But it’s a natural one. The hypocrisy here is that guys feel their standards are “just biology” but everything a woman prefers is “shallowness”. You can’t have it both way…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 08:08 PM
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Women are allowed to, but most are delusional. There are many guys out there in their 30s/40s speaking badly about women their age and fantasizing about barely legal women as if the average young woman finds the average 45 year old man attractive. That’s delusional too, but still is a very promoted mindset in certain circles. And most women still aren’t going for 6’6 millionaires (almost all women would be virgins if they actually had that standard). Then when we have standards as men, we’re sha…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 03:05 PM
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Obviously attractiveness is important. I just used his logic but in reverse to point out how it sounds, because according it then literally no human is dating for love. People have their own preferences. Some care more about looks, others care more about money, others care about youth, etc. But the reality is that dating is (overall) discriminatory and shallow by default. It seems some men are surprised by this, and find it hard or annoying to accept when they see women apply a natural level of …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:38 PM
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Girl bye. Men are the ones acting as if women aren’t allowed to choose partners they are attracted to lmao. I never said men aren’t allowed to, I literally used his logic but in reverse to show how it sounds (because according to it, literally no one is dating for love then so what would be the point?). Dating is discriminatory and shallow by default, but some men have a hard time accepting that
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:29 PM
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The principal is similar but the scale is off. Most women aren't obese. Most women don't have hideous faces. Well, are most men 5’3? I literally come from one of the shortest countries on earth and statistically speaking even the average man there is taller than 5’3. What I'm more against is this nonsense idea that the average guy with no real apparent flaws other than he isn't a 6 foot millionaire shouldn't be attractive to some women. If women actually demanded 6 foot millionaires only, 99% of…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 02:23 PM
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If you say you love dating for love but your girlfriend needs to be conventionally attractive or young, you’re not dating for love.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:44 PM
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Can you give me a good reason why a 5'3 mechanic isn't a good lover, husband, father, provider or whatever? He could be, but are women supposed to give him a chance just because of that? Aren’t women allowed to date someone who they’re ALSO attracted to? The same way men never had problems being brutally honest about which things they (in general) aren’t attracted to (obesity), there are certain things women overall would consider unattractive as well. “BuT YoU cAn ChAnGE oNe tHinG aNd nOT tHe o…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 01:32 PM
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So just because a man can’t get his type women are supposed to date him and deal with him only watching porn of women that look nothing like her? Not being able to date your type doesn’t give you the right to go and make your future gf insecure. If the only people I can get aren’t my type then I’ll just stay single, instead of dating someone that isn’t my type only to make him feel like shit later when he realizes I fantasize about men that aren’t like him at all. Maybe men need to learn to be c…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 10:17 PM
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No.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 04:15 AM
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I have a negative opinion about porn in the first place, so I wouldn’t want to be with a guy that watches it, especially if he feels porn is as important as breathing (a big turn off for me when a man acts like he’d literally die without porn videos…) Also, even if I had no problem with porn as a whole, I feel I’d still care about what type of porn my bf/husband watches. There are many stories out there of women feeling like shit because many men always chose to watch women that don’t look like …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 03:02 AM
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I mean… don’t act as if men aren’t the most horny people on TikTok/IG and social media overall lol. Tons of ugly/old married men commenting “gorgeous 🌹🌹😘😘” on 19yo girls’ posts and dming them as if their balding head and beer belly had a chance with hot 18yo girls somehow. Of course, that’s not talking about porn itself. Can the majority of guys have sex easily with the type of woman they always like to watch in those videos? (Without paying them, of course) Maybe men should be the ones that sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 11:45 PM
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People can’t control attraction/change what they’re attracted to. If you argue that we can then maybe all the men whining here about the dating market being hard should exclusively start pursuing the +60 year olds and morbidly obese women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 11:21 PM
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Well men aren’t really competing with other guys, but with a woman’s peace of mind and contentment of being by herself. I don’t know anything about this girl, but if we read this part: “it’s difficult to meet the ideal boyfriend in real life," said Wang Xiuting, a 22-year-old student in Beijing. Then we can assume that if that technology didn’t exist then there’s a chance that she’d rather be alone than date some real guy that wouldn’t make her happy. Or worse, a guy that doesn’t care about her …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:44 PM
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The few friends I have can be brutally honest people (I tend to be like that with them too) and we appreciate each other for that, honestly I wouldn’t even consider them my best friends if they weren’t. To me an actual friendship is having people that aren’t afraid of telling me the truth so I can improve and/or not do some delulu shit. If I want someone to lie to me about being the prettiest girl or that is basically a “yes man” I’d just go to my grandma’s house or get a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 12:36 AM
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I’m a man 💀 I know their are women who say those things and no one bats an eye Men literally insult all women that aren’t willing to date ugly guys even though they know very well they wouldn’t date ugly women if they can avoid it lmao You also laugh at them if the pretty girl divorces and probably get everything from him I don’t laugh at them if they genuinely thought they married a nice person, but if they end up marrying a pretty girl just because she’s pretty and young and didn’t care if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:40 PM
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women say if he treat you bad make sure he is at least hot girl when did I say that
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:11 PM
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I think it's repulsive that men don't care about that and only care about "looks, femininity, fertility". I will complain all day about it, because it's wrong. lmao it’s pathetic because they do that and then have the audacity to say WE are the shallow gender but they all get their karma when the pretty girl they marry divorces them eventually so it’s ok 🧚‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 10:08 PM
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They only message ugly women if the hot women they chase first ignore them. The dating app stats that men love to point out (“they chase the top 20% of men”) also shows that men overall prefer to chase the hottest women, even if they know they look hideous
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:56 PM
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MANY men out there agree that they swipe right on every woman they see and THEN start to filter. “Swipe right” doesn’t mean shit, it doesn’t show how desirable a woman actually is. It only shows (at BEST) if a man is willing to pump and dump you. And no, that isn’t flattering for women. At all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:52 PM
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LMAO hot men NEVER date ugly women. Tons of hot women dating ugly men though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:44 PM
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What proof do you have that ugly men want to date ugly women unless they want their own “meh, at least I’m not dying alone” hole?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:43 PM
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Since all of you are so obsessed with stats from dating apps, then you should know that many of those stats actually show that all men even the hideous ones are chasing the prettiest women on dating apps as well. So what’s your point? Everyone that goes outside knows women are still less shallow (when it comes to looks).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:35 PM
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No woman wants to be the “one who happened to say yes” for a man who would fuck anything that’s willing and alive. I don’t understand what’s so hard to understand about this. I’ve seen so many men not only acting as if something like that wouldn’t be a shitty relationship, but also saying that women wanting to date a man that doesn’t have that mindset are women with “very high standards” 💀💀💀
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:33 PM
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They don’t. They treat ugly women like trash and fantasize about dating the pretty girls (and then get frustrated when they realize women have eyes too lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:27 PM
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Money doesn’t make a man more physically attractive, that’s just a cope many men have, but all the money in the world can’t replace genuine sexual attraction, it only makes a man’s ugliness more tolerable. There’s a reason why memes like this exist and why things like this happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 09:21 PM
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It is genuinely unnerving to watch Gen Zers collectively embrace the morality of the fundamental Christians. They did a bang-up job indoctrinating you guys. Ah yes, because everyone that doesn’t agree with you = indoctrinated. Can you people just accept that in many cases (the majority of the time, I’d say, at least with young people w low body count) not wanting to participate in casual sex has nothing to do with religion? Many people just don’t want to have that intimacy with a stranger. That’…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:54 PM
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A lazy man with money will lose it or make some dumb mistake eventually, so no, I won’t date someone like that. And stop acting as if the only options are “broke hardworking man” vs “rich lazy man”, those are very extreme circumstances and pretty sure the majority of men are in the middle 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:35 PM
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pretend to like a guy for personality a n d do n t they pretend not to care about money, rather connectio n love a n d loyalty etc. You can care about more than 1 thing at once. Love, personality and loyalty are definitely the most important. But a man that has ambitions is important as well, especially if he wants a family in the future. I think I’d want at least 1 kid. I won’t date a man that wants kids if he doesn’t care about being high achiever or working hard to bring enough money for our …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 03:22 PM
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Why aren’t they all giving priority to the obese, ugly, old and completely broke girls then? if they have low standards then they should chase those women first and not the hottest 20yo girls they can find.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:44 PM
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No. Non-fat ugly women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 09:42 PM
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That he’s dumb af for acting as if all women get the same amount of attention, some women get literally nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:34 PM
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Women genuinely have to do nothing to attract men. There are ugly women out there that never get approached. It’s stupid how many guys seriously think all women have men wanting to date them. She can be a hideous bog witch that drowns puppies for sport. Some guy is going to want to fuck her and enter a relationship with her. Fuck? Yes. A serious relationship? No, men have higher standards for that. And women are not men, many of us hate the idea of being used for sex by desperate men that don’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 08:28 PM
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Cheating isn’t only about consequences (which are hurtful for the men AND women cheated on btw, no matter how much the shitty men on here try to minimize the pain of the woman, and this point alone should already be enough to make male cheating as bad as women’s), it’s also about the action itself. It’s about character and lack of values, it’s about who you are as a person, regardless of your gender and the consequences you created. “It’s less bad when we do it because we don’t love her, we just…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:31 AM
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again there’s no point debating with something that has the morals of a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:10 AM
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Yup, their main argument is “we cheat for the sex though, not for love, so it isn’t as bad as when women cheat” and I’m like ??? by justifying male cheating and painting it as “better” or “less bad” than women cheating, they’re literally agreeing with those girls that always say all men are no better than animals/dogs LMAO winning this debate by justifying the male gender is not the win they think it is lol 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 01:21 AM
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Both men and women cheating is bad, no one is “worse”. Cheating is shitty behavior by default, unless you agree with those girls that say all men are dumb animals that can’t control themselves and their “instincts”. If that’s the case, then there’s no point debating with something that has the morals of a dog.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:43 AM
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Acting as if male cheating is less bad just because it’s a man doing it while judging women harder for it when in reality both genders cheating is 100% bad is indeed hypocritical. Go argue with the wall if you disagree lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:42 AM
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Love how men go from “not all men” to “yes all men”, apparently when they cheat all of them are still “good guys in love with their gfs/wives”? and btw that illogical mindset shows that the men on THIS comment section aren’t even capable of loving someone in the first place, because no, you wouldn’t do that to someone you love. Ah, but they think men cheating is less bad because “they’re not in love with the person they cheat with”? Well take note ladies! You can still love your man as long as y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:32 AM
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The only shitty side here is the hypocritical side from the wannabe “Chads”.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:21 AM
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No. Stop. You don’t love your wife if you cheat on her. It’s impossible to disrespect someone like that and say you love them. You don’t love your wife if you cheat on her. Repeat that until your weird small brain gets it lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 12:16 AM
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who do you think is partaking in marketing campaigns featuring obese women to be actors and models? At least in the beauty/modeling industry, that’s a women (and one could say even gay men) centered industry. Straight men aren’t the specific group of people that they’re trying to appeal. Tall men aren’t bullying other short men in person or on social media. The same way the average woman isn’t bullying fat women just for being fat. Short men’s problems or at least the most serious ones are cause…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:40 AM
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men are roundly criticized for not finding fat women attractive mostly criticized by women or feminists. Or do men go around criticizing each other all the time for not finding fat women beautiful? there are entire subs of men who love them. fetish =/= love. And using your logic, short guys shouldn’t complain about insults towards them either since there are still short men, even on r/short, that are in happy relationships (which means there are women willing to date them). the fact that Lizzo c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 01:23 AM
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It’d help with the support of others. The “others” should be men themselves. And I’ll explain why. Why don’t overweight women, trans folks, feminists, etc. All join in the effort and be the current counter culture and help stand up for short men. See, many people mention “so it’s ok to mock short men but god forbid you do it to fat women” and I agree it’s hypocritical if you put it that way, but everyone fails to point out how the great majority of people that praise and defend fat women are mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 12:56 AM
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She'd miss on a wonderful relationship. But she doesn’t know that, does she? If the man is lazy and has never shown any interest in becoming a high achiever or a provider, there’s no reason why she should assume otherwise. Women that end up being single mothers with little to no money are always told that they “should’ve chosen better”. A man doesn’t even need to be already at the top (financially speaking), but judging a man by his actions and his desire to get there at some point instead of hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:53 PM
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Let’s look at a single man who is not dating at all. There is noone to impress and nobody to provide for. Lol. So sad…. But aren’t many men in 2023 always complaining about how society expects them to be the providers? lmao Women definitely want men like he is now, but few are willing to even acknowledge such men are not always born, but could also be created. It's better to wait for finished one or complain they don't exist. Yes, of course a woman that wants a man like that would focus on a hig…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 04:22 PM
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Lol nah. But they say that being taller, with different hair/skin/eye color is.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:29 AM
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That leads me to believe Western women have some kind of reputation. It depends on what you describe as a western woman ig. I don’t really want to bring up race, but let’s just say the average western woman is more desired by non-western men than guys on this subreddit think. SOME guys here say “our looks are exotic in x place, so we can get the local women’s attention easily” forgetting the fact that technically it can also apply to western women too. I know many guys from my country would def …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:20 AM
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Even on PPD practically all low-N/virgin women admit they’d prefer and be more sexually attracted to a man with a player past when asked about it Huh TIL that apparently I’m attracted to players (I’m not, they’re a redflag)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:47 AM
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Lmao. I used to see that sub too along with the short one and basically many tall dudes that date short women there admit they “settle” for short women because it’s so hard to find the hot tall woman they actually want first. Settling for short women =/= preferring them. So yes, tall guys would prefer women closer to their height. You would notice that most tall guys would be dating extremely short women. Nope. Where I am from taller women are the beauty standard and praised more for their heigh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:34 AM
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Funny how guys talk as if they did a survey about it. There are women that do care.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:15 AM
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Hmm.. are you sure you wanna go down this road ? Because r/tallgirls & r/short would like a word with you. The opinion of tall women and short men don’t matter in this topic. If you go to r/tall, where the actual tall men are, they’d tell you how they definitely prefer tall women lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:11 AM
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Yes really
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:09 PM
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Furthermore, men don't judge women on their race. bye, you’re delulu at this point lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:09 AM
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So men don’t deny it, instead just say “I think you do it more tho so whatever” lmao Idgaf what men prefer at this point, just don’t be hypocrites about it and complain about how women do it as if men in general aren’t doing the same thing. Even incels claim they care about the race of their potential gf lol. All of you can chase what you want, but don’t be an annoying hypocrite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 04:03 AM
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it seems that you think that men act just like women Ofc they don’t, women are far less shallow when it comes to looks than men what adjectives do men use to describe "ugly" women? do you think a man is going to call names an older woman who asks him out? really? Many. Ofc you haven’t heard them if you aren’t an ugly woman. And why are you acting as if this isn’t a subreddit where men love to imply women over 30 are unlovable hags that hit the wall? men have no problem finding beauty in women of…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:27 AM
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As an ugly girl, men definitely tend to be more mean about it than women. Maybe because they’re naturally more look-focused or idk, but that’s my experience. Us (women) recognize that there are ugly men out there, we definitely don’t think all men are hot, basically we still acknowledge that ugly men exist. But some guys refuse to believe ugly women with dating problems exist… not because they think “all women are beautiful queens”, but because they really couldn’t care less about those ugly wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:31 AM
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I don't know which part of "look pass physical traits" she didn't understand, but as a 34 years old, 6.3', good looking and jacked dude with a six pack and blue eyes, I found her statement low key offensive you know. LMFAO if she isn’t young anymore at 36 then you, a 34yo, wouldn’t precisely be Peter Pan either sir. Honestly both of you sound annoying and deserve each other 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/23 12:40 AM
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So, you think Bubba The Truck Driver from Ohio is imposing impossible beauty standards on women around him? Society in general does. Yeah, there are things women do to themselves (things that men statistically don’t care about) just bc they think it makes them look prettier. But there are also other things that are expected from a good portion of the opposite sex. One example can be how it is expected for women to be completely hairless except for the hair on our heads, our eyebrows and our eyel…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:53 AM
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Female beauty standards are basically "don't be fat" and learn how to apply makeup. You obviously are not woman if you seriously think we just need to not be fat to be considered beautiful by society. What (the most desperate) men are willing to accept for a one night stand =/= female beauty standards
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:11 PM
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eh makes sense I guess, it would be hard to meet new people after college. And online dating is more shallow by default, people that would be open to have a small conversation with you irl would ignore you on some dating app lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:41 PM
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Well if you aren’t fat it should be easy to find non-fat women then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:24 PM
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even asking a question like this would get you ghosted by any man with self-respect/dignity. lmao aren’t you guys (men on this sub) the same type of men that like to go around asking “BuT wHat Do y0u bRinG tO tHe tAbLe? 🧌“ to women. If women say “myself/my loyalty/my commitment/etc.” those men aren’t satisfied with that answer anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 10:18 PM
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Meanwhile, no woman can really hide her age except with layers and layers of makeup. No one can’t hide their age. Men can’t either. Some golddiggers’ tolerance of ugly bald older men because of their money doesn’t mean all old men are physically attractive. All women can be beautiful in theory and get dick. Hideous women can still get slightly less ugly men. Not all women can be beautiful and get dick lmao. I’m ugly and still a virgin so 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:29 PM
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rejecting 5'11" is probably a mistake. well 5’11” is more than tall enough for me so I def wouldn’t reject a man for that, but my point is if there’s a group of women that reject those guys then why not just move on? why try to change their mind or convince someone that already said they don’t want you? like i said im not considered attractive and i still wouldn’t do that .. it makes people look desperate. They should move on and that’s it. it is a mistake to take all of these things too serious…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:24 PM
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I think an alternative for women is to ask "why am I dating?" To find someone they’re compatible with (personality) AND they’re attracted to. Easy as that. Women shouldn’t have to sacrifice one for the other. And if we have to, then we’d rather be alone because we wouldn’t be happy otherwise. Women need to be physically attracted to their partner as much as men do. If the goal of dating is to find a long term partner and not get divorced - then maybe she should define "attractive" as a dude who …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 09:13 PM
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closest thing women have to height limitation in men is their age. nah, it’s ugliness. a hideous 20yo girl would still struggle more than a hot 30yo women after 30 start to rot, so they are increasingly more disgusting to men half of you already started balding in your 20s but ofc “women start to rot at 30” lmao the only difference is that all women got a chance, while not all men get ever a chance to be tall And not all women are born pretty or even average either. Ugly women deal w it and so s…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 08:57 PM
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Is it really a mistake when that’s just what those women are genuinely attracted to? I mean, what would be the alternative? Forcing them to date shorter men? (asking this as a girl that does NOT demand a +6ft man). I wonder how men here would react if a conventionally unattractive girl made a whole post trying to convince them to NOT reject the women they don’t find attractive… as an ugly girl, I’ll never make posts like that. It would feel pathetic and desperate for me to beg someone to give me…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 07:50 PM
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Some dude in the comments already called it “optimization, rather than hypergamy” 😂 clowns
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:54 PM
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Not bitter at all. If a guy doesn’t like my features then I wouldn’t want to be with him either so I genuinely don’t care what he does. I only get annoyed when they act like the same thing doesn’t happen to women too aka they try to gaslight us and say they (men) are the only ones that get ignored. Other than that, they have all the right to chase whoever they want. Just don’t gaslight me. And like I said even those non-white guys where I live want a girl that is at least mixed, which are the ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/23 02:40 AM
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There are many biases when it comes to dating, especially if you don’t fit the beauty standard of one place. Ugly women exist and they do get ignored even on dating apps if they’re ugly enough, I’ve seen ugly women here on Reddit sharing screenshots of how they got 0 attention on tinder. But if the delulu men here just want to stick their fingers in their ears and go LALALALA refusing to acknowledge their existence, then not my problem I guess, wouldn’t be the first time men do that lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 08:46 PM
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“no guy has ever had a crush on me” literally the first thing I said
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:58 PM
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A woman can scream her entire life experiences and many of you would still say “nope, that didn’t happen” as if you were there. I had/have a hard time with female friendships, so I usually ended up being around the nerdy guys and becoming their friend. These guys were very desperate to get a gf and you think they wanted me? No, it was obvious seeing how they treated me vs how they treated the girls they were attracted to. You’re right, I won’t chase a guy’s attention when I already know he doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:31 PM
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I’m not black. And unless you live in the same place as me, you can’t really tell me if it’s easy or not. You don’t have to fit beauty standards as a woman. You kinda do. The norm for relationships here is for the woman/gf/wife to date down in looks and be the prettiest one. That basically describes the majority of the couples I see irl: even if it isn’t an attractive couple, the woman is still the better looking one. It isn’t THAT uncommon for guys here to date girls taller than them either, ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 06:21 PM
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I’d have no problem with dating a non-white Latin American man in general, but the amount of Latin American guys (including “indigenous looking guys”) that you see on social media worshiping white girls and putting their features or skin color on a pedestal is big enough to show that many of them have a clear preference anyway. And like I said I’d rather die alone than convince someone to date me or to be in a relationship where I feel second place bc I look the opposite of his type.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:56 PM
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but the women I know in real life who never get cat-called or asked out, feel terribly insecure about it Honestly, I agree. All the ugly girls I’ve seen that complained about not getting attention hated it and even felt jealous that other girls get catcalled and not them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:51 PM
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Ugly women exist and they do get ignored, so much that many of you refuse to even acknowledge their existence lol. Also, what part of “I don’t fit the beauty standards of my country/whole region in general” you don’t understand? Even if I wasn’t ugly, I could be the top 1% of my ethnicity and would still get rejected since the majority of people here only want to date mixed people and white descendants. Tf do you want me to do? Lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:42 PM
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Won’t say my specific country for privacy reasons but it’s a Latin American country. And from what I’ve seen, the beauty standard in this region overall is to look as white as possible, especially in the Latin American countries that have less/few white descendants and worship anything that doesn’t look too indigenous or too black. But honestly a place where the locals like Europeans features that’s basically any place in the third world. Sad but true. Tons of people in these regions selfhate a …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 05:35 PM
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This is literally my reality now because I’m a very ugly girl. No guy has ever had a crush on me so 🤷🏻‍♀️ It is annoying, especially when I see hypocrites (ugly ass men acting as if they deserve attractive young women out of their league or men acting as if men caring about our looks is “natural” while women shouldn’t care about theirs), but I don’t really try to guilt trip men by telling them that they must find ME in particular attractive or “give me a chance” just because I randomly assume I …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/23 02:41 PM
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Women never said that. Read the comment I replied to. There’s a big difference between “We like interesting men” vs “Men get more interesting with age unlike women that just get old” (what the original comment said) I can believe there are women saying the first sentence. No woman has ever said the second sentence lmfao.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:09 PM
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“more interesting” that’s a new one lmfaoo many of you really hate the idea of becoming unattractive older men (even though that’s what the average man will become anyway lol) keep fantasizing that all of you would be some type of Tom Cruise 2.0 I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 07:09 PM
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They think that just because there are women (golddiggers) that will fuck them now that they’re older it means those women are genuinely sexually attracted to them when that’s not true, they don’t realize that the majority of the time they only sleep with them because older men usually have more money than younger men. Does that mean older men are hotter? No lol I remember when I was younger and followed some of those meme accounts for teens/young adults, many of the ones made by/targeted to gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 06:55 PM
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I was obviously talking in general, not only about bitter RP men. If a woman is honest about this topic the average guy would get mad at her/insult her or think she’s shallow. Even HERE on this sub you see some men STILL pushing the “no no, women only care about your attitude, not looks” the AVERAGE guy wants to keep believing the fantasy that he can get a hot girl just by being nice. "Yes, we were lying, but men made us do it!" The accountability kryptonite strikes again. Lmao. Dude, it’s no on…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:44 PM
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The majority of men don’t want to hear the truth and want to keep living in delusion. There are many women that are brutally honest about what they’re attracted to, but their brutally honest opinions make men so angry that some of them end up creating their own podcasts to complain about how mean women are. Just one example, a guy can say he cares about looks and yes, dozens of feminists can complain about it, but men caring about looks it’s seen and accepted as a part of “male nature” by societ…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:21 AM
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Lol I’ve said this before but basically: the average woman realizes her looks are important not only when it comes to relationships but important in society in general by the time she is 10-12 or so. We don’t have anyone telling us “sit down little girl, we have to talk about something important…” and carefully explain to us how lookist our society is, we realized this on our own when we were literally children. How? By watching the social behavior of everyone around us. When I was in middle sch…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:59 PM
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It is. My features don’t fit in the beauty standards of my whole region in general. But then again, there are girls of my race that are prettier than me, so I’m actually still ugly anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:15 AM
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They might be more vocal about not wanting to date THEIR own race, but they certainly aren’t the ones that are more likely to worship white people or white features. That title goes to non-white men in general. Are we suddenly going to forget how “non-white men desperately DMing white girls” is pretty much a popular meme because of how funny and self-hating it looks? Where are the non-white girls desperately DMing random white men? Where? I’ve seen many black guys online making TikToks and Twitt…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:04 AM
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Because I am. Guys have been telling me that since I was around 7 or so and no one has ever had a crush on me. Yes ugly women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:50 PM
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Well, we all can play this game all day if we use Reddit as proof. A screenshot doesn’t prove what all the women there feel. Many of these Forever Alone Men are just as picky and it’s both funny and annoying how men love to pretend otherwise. “Ugly Forever Alone Men aren’t lookist, any girl would be pretty to them” “FAW are picky meanwhile FAM aren’t, we would accept literally any girl that is NICE to us” meanwhile the most upvoted comment (17.2K)… “Literally any girl…” “Tbh FAM realized they ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 11:39 PM
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It explains why so many short women and "women of color" are often very vocal demeaning their own groups of men around other people while elevating groups of men who they think will help them practice eugenics. Literally many “men of color” act like this too if not far more, but guys never talk about that and just act as if it doesn’t happen lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:34 PM
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Especially women in the foreveralonewomen and ugly subreddit. If you aren't pretty, are overweight, or lack social skills, why would you actually think a guy who is nice, healthy and handsome would want to be with you? Pretty sure the majority of us aren’t demanding a tall handsome billionaire. But just because we are “ugly women” it doesn’t mean we should accept any man just because. I don’t really care about dating a +6ft handsome guy so agree with you on that, but I do want someone nice and k…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 10:20 PM
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There’s no solution. At the end of the day men can chase the women they want, but they don’t get to complain/generalize all women after their failures only because many of them stupidly prefer a hot girl with redflags over an ugly (or even average looking) girl with better personality. I feel bad for the men that genuinely thought they got a nice girl and ended up in a bad relationship, but I don’t feel bad at all for the men that KNEW a woman was a shitty person but still put up with it only be…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:40 AM
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The amount of delusional men in these comments trying to justify their behavior lol “ackshually, ugly women don’t have better personalities literally 99% of them are BITTER and pretty girls are NICER” but if women say the same thing about ugly/fat/bald/short men: “don’t generalize!! 😭 many below average men are NICE GUYS waiting for a change and they’d be perfectly happy with a gf 😡 but yOU JUST WANT CHAD YOU SHALLOW HOE, WHY DO WOMEN ASSUME CHAD IS BETTER JUST BECAUSE HE’S GOODLOOKING?! 🤬🤬” LMA…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 01:15 AM
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aka literally the bare minimum so are good girls supposed to feel “sooo grateful and lucky” bc they get “commitment” even though that doesn’t even guarantee a happy relationship? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:05 AM
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Most guys want a girl who is pure to everyone else, but finds them so irresistible she puts out in a few dates. So unrealistic considering how objectively speaking most guys just aren’t special or irresistible enough to make a “pure girl” instantly forget about her values and her rules about her sexual life only to sleep with them asap. They want a pure girl, then chances are they are going to have to wait too until she feels ready. It comes with the territory. But I bet many of those guys would…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 06:31 PM
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Men who demand low n count women while themselves sleeping around are literally not hypocrites. Yes they are. And like another girl said in this thread, at least admitting your own hypocrisy with a loud and clear “I’m an hypocrite and IDGAF” is more masculine than doing this type of clown mental gymnastics LMAO
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 12:57 AM
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Diet and choosing a more attainable dude. Not all ugly women are fat. Facially ugly women exist. My standards were very low at some point but even the ugliest guy I had a crush on wanted a hot girl instead of a woman as ugly as him so “lower your standards” isn’t the answer either when guys want pretty women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:10 PM
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I don’t care what happens. The point is if ugly men can decide what is important to them then so can ugly women. Ugly women wanting connection instead of sex only isn’t less valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 03:00 PM
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Many ugly women wouldn’t like to approach a man because we feel that if a man actually wants you then he is going to approach you first. And it is true, since we are kids we see how guys treat the (pretty) women they actually like, eventually they always make a move to show these women how they feel about them. Men get anxious, shy, etc. but due to “gender norms” even the shyest guys already know that chances are they’ll have to be the one that approach the woman eventually, IF he wants her. App…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:48 PM
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They didn’t want to get to know them. That’s a myth/meme started by incels to mock the ugly women there and to “show how they aren’t actually lonely like us”. They were (and are) usually sending mean messages to ugly women in these subreddits, not to genuinely try to date them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:21 PM
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Lmao so school isn’t a representative of guys but in the subreddits where there are lots of lonely and virgin men you can see many resenting women saying that they missed experiences (“teenage love”) because “the girls they met in school preferred tall cute guys instead of ugly guys like me” and apparently their generalizations of women are actually valid. Alright.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:16 PM
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Guys treat ugly women like trash all the time. The majority of the people in school who bullied me for being unattractive were guys. And no, it wasn’t just attractive guys. The majority of guys who were as ugly (or even more ugly) than me also had the audacity to talk shit about my looks. You guys ignore ugly women so much you don’t even see how ugly women get treated lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:06 PM
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Decided by who? By ugly women. Duh. Many of you guys go around crying that your whole life is horrible because you can’t get your d wet and act as if it is the end of the world . “ChAd cAn gEt sEx buT i’M sTill a VirGin Tho aNd thAt’s ImpOrtAnt tHing tO enJoy LifE, noT HeaLth or WeaLth buT Sexx” Me: Decided by who? 🤡🤡🤡 a lot will get sex from guys who dont care to fuck an uglier woman When will men understand that ugly women don’t want to be used as a fleshlight??? “yOu cAn Get sEx” we don’t car…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 02:01 PM
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Chads aren’t the only ones who would try to use women for sex. And Chads aren’t even looking for ugly women anyway. They literally don’t need to when the average woman is already average/ok looking, not ugly. The creepy desperate guys that look for ugly women they don’t even like or respect just to use them as a fleshlight and then ghost them usually aren’t even cHaDs. They aren’t a good option at all hence why many ugly women would rather stay single and virgin smh
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 01:50 PM
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we got a shit load of women doing all that and are still a bit overweight while the chick who workouts and lifts is way way hotter in leggings and sports bra lol ??? The correlation? so guys think leggings are hotter because of how it makes a woman’s ass look?? and? by that logic walking around naked would be an even better option lol. Also, just because you’re not overweight it doesn’t mean you’re automatically hotter. I’m not fat, I have ok weight for my height almost in the underweight territ…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 02:09 AM
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??? The type of woman you wouldn’t date or even have sex with. Duh.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:15 AM
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wearing a burlap sack and have a face full of acne and there will still be men attracted to you You clearly don’t know what you’re talking about, ugly girls exist and they get no attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:07 AM
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“CoMpEtiTion fOr HiGhLy dEsIreD mEn” I didn’t know that taking BASIC care of your skin w cleanser, moisturizer, sunscreen + using other products to help specific conditions like, for example, uneven skin makes you a “I want a 6’4” boyfriend only” type of girl. I didn’t know that wanting good quality (often quite expensive) makeup instead of cheap makeup of bad quality (that would be bad for your skin) makes you a “I want a millionaire boyfriend only” type of girl. I didn’t know that wanting to w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 11:18 PM
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Istg these guys don’t how expensive beauty maintenance can be for women, like there are skincare products (like a single moisturizer) being around let’s say $40-50. Getting all the other products you need to complete a skincare routine like that just keeps adding more and more $$$. That’s not even counting how good quality makeup costs, haircare products, nice clothes, etc. There’s a reason so many girls buy from Shein ffs being pretty is not cheap at all. They talk as if we can get that for fre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:37 PM
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there is FAR less pressure on women to be economically successful than there is for men what is harder? Spending time putting on makeup, wearing nice clothes and not letting yourself get fat Acting as if all those things that help women look better are for free. A good skincare routine alone can be expensive, and that’s not even mentioning the $$$ of good makeup products, hair products, nails, how much all these nice clothes, shoes and accessories (bags, earrings, etc.) can cost, gym membership,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 10:11 PM
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There are many women out there dating mediocre looking men lmao. The average woman isn’t dating a male model, you don’t actually know how attracted these women are to their partners. “They’d still prefer a 10/10 guy tho” and men too, so? You said “women settle” but a man that ends up with a 5/10 because he COULDN’T get the 10/10 he always fantasizes about and always watches in porn somehow isn’t settling to you? Funny how you ignored the obsession older men have with justifying dating women half…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:18 AM
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They are so hypergamous when it comes to looks. Or at least they try to be. Old men desiring/trying to justify being with younger women their daughter’s age “because it’s fine as long as she’s at least 18” is one example. Same with ugly or plain looking wealthy men being with women out of their league (physically speaking). Not all men can get a 10/10 woman but if they have the opportunity to be with one, then they’ll be with one, even if they are a 2/10 themselves. That sounds like a type of hy…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 12:50 AM
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There are women out there that just don’t like the idea of being with a person that likes casual sex and that doesn’t view sex as something intimate
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:59 PM
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He wouldn’t even be Mr. Perfect in my eyes if he has high bodycount in the first place 🥴🤮
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 06:45 PM
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Pay attention to the types of women that they call "pickmes". I can’t disagree with this bc I see it all the time with one of my hobbies. I enjoy using TikTok to watch very short cooking vids and learn new recipes from cooking accounts, so the algorithm usually shows me girls making “what I made my bf/husband for breakfast/lunch/dinner” videos. Those girls ALWAYS get shitty comments from other women like calling her pick me, “is your hubby 5? 😳”, etc. I don’t understand WHY but for some disturbi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 03:22 AM
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Many of you don’t even have a skincare routine. Let’s not even mention how many women online have been exposing the guys they’ve been with, apparently some of you don’t even wash your ass lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:39 PM
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It’s pretty reasonable that men have the same expectation of their partner they live with, actually. We’re talking about looks, not personality. Yes there are some women that probably expect guys to love their personality flaws, but MOST women already know that their looks matter by the time they are 11 or so, we didn’t need anyone to sit with us and explain us with simple words that the opposite gender cares about our looks by default, we figured it out on our own by watching the social behavio…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:04 PM
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Yeah back in high school all the popular boys that had the girls giggling at their presence were the tall attractive boys, not the socially awkward unattractive boys. Some men love to say that Hollywood affects women’s minds and desires but I think men are just as affected by it if not more. There‘s a lot of shitty movies and shows promoting the “women must give all ugly guys a chance but oh the reverse situation never happens, because men still care about looks”. Tons of movies out there showin…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 02:42 AM
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I think it’s both women not being 100% honest and men being delusional on their own. Women usually act as if personality is all that matters (which isn’t true) but whenever a brutally honest woman appears and says attractiveness in men is important too, many guys disagree with her and say “nah you’re just shallow”, which doesn’t make sense because if caring about a potential partner’s looks is the default in men then (obviously) it is the default in women too. It’s not that hard to figure out. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 08:01 PM
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I don’t think the majority are ugly but that most of you are plain af and make no effort to stand out. Most men I see still act as if putting effort shouldn’t be important to be able to attract a woman they like, because a good amount of them think they have the right to desire a hot or (at the very least) a cute average girl but ohh she MUST love them and desire them with all their flaws. Like, make it make sense. Btw effort includes both looks and personality. Many of these below average men I…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 07:31 PM
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We weren’t talking about OP’s title. Re-read the comment we were replying to. The guy brought up attractive women not wanting to be a regular guy’s wife as if those attractive women weren’t out of regular men’s league in the first place, so why should those hot women want to be their wives? You’re a regular guy, you get a regular wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 04:38 PM
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She is. But they’ll always create dumb excuses to try to justify why it would beneficial for the world if regular guys like them get the opportunity to be with hot 9/10 women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 02:25 PM
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I honestly would have no problem to just stay in the house and cook/clean/etc. for my hypothetical husband but what you say is exactly the main reason why I’m also kind of scared of it :/ if he leaves you you will have to start over. There are SO many cases like this. My own mom had to put up with my dad’s BS for a long time because she doesn’t work and he does. I’d love to do it but it’s hard to trust a man with something like that so I don’t really blame women if the majority of them now don’t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/23 11:29 PM
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Truly ugly women (like me) don’t go around posting our pictures. The ones that do aren’t as ugly/insecure as the truly ugly women are, so those girls either know that and just want attention or they have some mental problem. In any case, I’m sure the majority of the women in those subreddits aren’t posting their pictures, so you can’t say “most of you aren’t extremely ugly” if you don’t even know how the majority of us look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:34 PM
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The men in that subreddit overwhelmingly outnumber the women. Men on Reddit outnumber women in general. If men already outnumber women in dating sites/places, ofc it would be worse in a dating subreddit. Those obese women are getting men above their match online. You don’t know that. Women exaggerate that and ignore the men that actually do want to date them because they aren't attractive enough. We don’t. The great majority of DMs we get aren’t good. The majority of the time FAW reject those me…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 06:20 PM
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any woman can go online dating and be swarmed with dozens if not hundreds of men No not all of us can. See, men only think of average and attractive women. They ignore that extremely ugly women exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 08:00 PM
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Yet their dms got swarmed. Did they show you that? I mean I’m sure they got a lot of DMs but you have to wonder how many of them are from genuine good men that actually want something serious. A lot of men on Reddit are thirsty desperate weirdos or just go around asking for nudes. These type of shitty guys exist even in the subreddits that were made to meet get FRIENDS and not partners. maybe a morbidly obese woman if they are lucky. Ok and? These women aren’t getting messages from 9/10 male mod…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 07:53 PM
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Ah yes, that’s why whenever these pretty women decide to not use makeup for a day the men around them still ask them “… what happened to your face?” “… are you sick?”. And again, most of you don’t even know how makeup works. Men see a pretty woman and chase them, but makeup sometimes can transform an average looking woman into a pretty woman. So yes, men CHASE women that are using makeup. They just don’t realize it, but women, the ones that actually have experience being APPROACHED by men, know …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:49 AM
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What a joke. Men always chase the women that use tons of makeup, it’s just that they are either hypocrites about it or they are dumb enough to really think it’s “natural” because they don’t even know how makeup works lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:34 AM
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Lmfao me. I’m ugly af and I’ve never had a bf, I haven’t even held hands with a guy and I’m already 22 so 🤷🏻‍♀️ Find me a woman who absolutely cant find anybody to commit to her and I'll believe in femcels/foreveralonewomen being real The problem with men is that many of you clowns see above average girls in their early 20s and assume that’s the average woman and that their experience is the same as every woman’s. “Women live on easy mode” “Women can get a bf whenever they want” “Women can just …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/23 02:28 AM
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They are usually very ugly women. And not even ugly men want ugly women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:46 AM
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They can get sex, not partners. Ugly women don’t want to be used so “at least you can get sex” isn’t a consolation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:17 AM
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Sex =/= relationship. Those women know very well they probably can get sex from some weirdo, it doesn’t mean that those guys would gladly date them seriously or that they would be good partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:15 AM
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Many, they just get ignored lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:07 AM
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“Choosing” and actually doing it are two different things. The majority of older men are not dating younger women because it isn’t precisely a young woman’s main goal to date an older guy. Many young women also find it disgusting when older men approach them lol it’s not only “BiTtEr oLD wOmeN” the ones that find those relationships kind of disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/22 07:58 PM
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I’m very hypocritical about this I would say “I hate it” in a normal conversation but it’s something I (a 22yo) would do 🤪 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 06:40 AM
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That doesn’t mean that men are more loyal.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 05:09 AM
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Always the same BS excuse lmfao. “But women initiate 70% of divorces!” that doesn’t mean anything, SO many women that have been cheated on have to take care of the paperwork because a good amount of cheating husbands would happily stay married with their wives and keep cheating on them for the rest of their lives just to avoid going through a messy divorce. We all know how men in general fear divorce and how many guys would do anything to avoid a divorce. And there’s a reason why cheaters hide t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/22 04:53 AM
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She obviously said it because many men love to claim that the “top men” will always choose 18-20 year old girls no matter what 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 08:01 PM
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I saw that too and tbh it made me angry I hope all the men that defend cheating stay virgin forever xx
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 01:07 AM
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Actual incels would gladly be with ANY non-obese, non-deformed girl their age. “Actual incels” reject ugly women as well. I had many (very ugly) nerdy male friends back in highschool. They all lusted after the popular pretty girls that had nothing in common with them, just because they were pretty. Whenever someone implied to them that they could date some of their fellow (ugly) nerdy female friends they all acted disgusted at the idea. We are all in university right now, and I see them still si…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 06:12 AM
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Even Lizzie Valesquez who was voted the world's ugliest woman managed to get 2 relationships according to this 2017 article. And who were her boyfriends? How did they treated her? Who broke up with who? Why isn’t she married? She’s single atm and that’s what matters. Also, I’m interested in how much $$$ does she have because yes many men would date ugly women for money as well. And let's not forget this: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qlLRKXLa1p4 This doesn’t help your argument at all. You link…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:56 AM
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We know. But you need to tell that to the other men that keep gaslighting ugly women telling them that they get genuine attention and that men would love to commit to them when you know that isn’t true. But also: Why is it so hard for men to understand that we want men who are more taller and richer than us when it comes to committing? We don't want to be the taller one just like we don't want to be the richer one. The way 90% of you would have a tantrum and start your own podcast if women say t…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 02:14 AM
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I’ve always seen bitter incels saying that after years of being rejected they now refuse to settle for less than a cute girl. Also funny how when they complain about women they always complain about what the average/above average looking ones do. Or they talk about them. They aren’t interested in ugly women at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/22 01:45 AM
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Literally no one is stopping men from pursuing only the women they are attracted to. That being said, if you use the “it’s just my preference/what im attracted to” excuse to pursue a 9/10 18 year old college girl while being a 2/10 man that puts 0 effort in his looks OR if you use that excuse to be unnecessarily rude to the ugly women you aren’t attracted to then yes, expect getting some mean comments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/22 07:54 PM
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Ah yes, BBLs, the best way to get an hourglass body shape and also one of the deadliest/most dangerous cosmetic procedures in the world, “so easy” There’s no excuse for men anymore. “Women can always get surgery for that” men can always go and break their legs to get taller
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:33 PM
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only your male legs get lengthened a couple of inches, after being for 2 years on a wheelchair and a lot of pain involved, besides some of these dudes never again can do exercises on their newer and thinnier legs after the long process. Besides being super expensive. How is that ever worth it ? Considering the beauty industry focus mostly on women all the procedures that men “recommend us” can also be extremely expensive (and painful) as well if we want to go to a surgeon that: Has experience/do…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 06:00 PM
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I think if she were pretty I might have forgiven her poor character though yet the men here love to complain about women “dating assholes” lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:33 PM
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There’s surgery for height now so you can’t use that excuse anymore. The same way men tell us “you can always get those (dangerous) surgeries to fix your ugly face/ugly body” well now you can always go and let surgeons break your legs to get taller. So go do that then.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 05:12 PM
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Even though dating apps are becoming more and more popular and common it doesn’t necessarily translates to real life because there’s a huge male-female imbalance in dating apps in the first place But ok, let’s look what your own source says. It says that from this study: The male subjects (super)liked 61.9% of the female evaluated profiles, while female subjects (super)liked only 4.5% of the male evaluated profiles. Very few subjects used the superlike option, i.e. only 1.4% of all matches came …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 10:30 PM
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they are lonely because a good amount of them are waiting for women way out of their league to come to their mom’s basement and offer themselves to be their gf 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 02:41 PM
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Men are literally the more shallow ones lmfao so many hot girls with gollum-looking guys but I’ve never seen a hot guy with an ugly girl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:22 AM
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The quiet pretty ones. Not the quiet ugly ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:18 AM
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Nah, men always complain about not being able to date hot women lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/22 03:02 AM
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He wasted years of her life when he cheated on her and ruined their marriage. What? You think women purposely want to waste their best years dating/marrying men and have their children only to get cheated on?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/22 02:54 PM
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and more mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 08:00 AM
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There are many ugly women out there that get 0 attention from men, even the ugly ones. You guys really act as if every woman out there gets the same attention as a hot college girl in her early 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 07:04 AM
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Men feel it's hard to get women because ugly women don't make any move They already know they aren’t wanted by men if men aren’t even approaching them in the first place so why would ugly women approach those men lmfao Women here say that ugly (or even average) women are invisible to men as a counterpoint to how average men are invisible to women. But at least men try to get into the radar. Into the radar of women that are way out of their league. but who know what could happen is an ugly woman …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:42 AM
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Ugly men are even more mean.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:34 AM
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Especially nowadays, where every woman has a whole buffet of men at her fingertips at any moment The fact that many of you genuinely think that this is how every woman’s life is like lmfao 💀
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/22 06:27 AM
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Well for the things you mentioned its because men and women are different and have different preferences. Men prefer women who are young with lower body counts and agreeable personalities. It’s kinda the same thing. Not all women prioritize the same things in a man so men don’t get to decide what would be the “acceptable” preferences of all women lol. For example I’ve seen so many women online saying their preference is hot/tall/young men and they get shamed by random men “b-b-but i was told tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/22 02:36 PM
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I’ve always heard men saying that their tastes varies and that “they consider many women attractive” but if it was that way then why many guys complain that the girls they want don’t date them? If the male gender can appreciate women’s different looks like men always say then men wouldn’t complain if their type rejected them, they’d just choose another different type of woman instead 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:50 AM
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please elaborate about never being equal It will never be equal because of many reasons. First, men want to sleep with women more than women want to sleep with them. Second, women can get pregnant and live with that consequence for life while men can just be like “fvck them kids” and disappear, of course women would be pickier, we NEED to be otherwise we would be dumb. Third, men are stronger than women because of biology. I’m a 5’0 girl there’s no way I can defend a man or anyone 🤷🏻‍♀️ so yes I…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 10:05 PM
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Dating dynamics will never be equal many of you need to accept that. That other guy literally implied that not wanting to date a poor man with no degree is “dehumanizing” aka bad. It isn’t. And before you said it: yes I know in some cases you don’t need a degree to make money/there are tons of people with degree out there with no jobs, but that’s not the point. The point is that the comment literally painted an scenario where the man has NO stability at all and that women would be “massive piece…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 09:04 PM
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Yes we know and that’s why the ugly girls that get hit on by very desperate guys usually end up rejecting them. Many guys pursue ugly girls to use them as a fleshlight. They think we are stupid smh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:57 PM
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“all ugly women in the world experience the same thing just because the ones I know experienced it” lol ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 06:54 PM
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Nah that’s men thinking they know what every single woman (even the ugly ones) experiences when they are not even a woman lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 05:44 PM
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Even if the hottest guy asked me out I wouldn’t get involved with him in any way (relationship or hookup) if the only thing he has is his appearance while literally every other aspect of his life represents, objectively speaking, a disadvantage or a problem in the long run. You are right physical attraction is extremely important for relationships but it isn’t the only thing. I thought men feared divorce? As far as I know, money issues is one of the most common causes of divorce. Physical attrac…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:58 PM
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Men need to stop acting as if all women get the same attention from men that hot girls get I’m ugly asf and in my university I see more girls flirting with average guys than guys flirting with the girls that look as ugly as me so Post a picture of what you consider an “ugly girl” x2
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:33 PM
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Not all women get attention from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:32 PM
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Men in the past didn’t accept monogamy because “they craved monogamy” they just had a big brain moment and realized ALL of them could either have 1 woman/create 1 family only or let all the top powerful/rich/healthy/attractive/strong/smart/etc. men take as many women as they can for themselves while the poor/dumb/ugly/sick/weak/etc. men get less. But if there was a way for guys to have more than 1 woman for themselves (aka creating an “imbalance” in the dating scene) that does NOT end up affecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:14 PM
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I def have a hard time believing that the "vast majority" of men (acknowledging that theres not even an age range mentioned) arent interested in monogamy/having a family. I do think many men (probably the majority, idk) eventually want to settle down/have a family of their own. But in an scenario where the roles are reversed and it is women the ones who CHASE men, men would definitely choose their prettiest options to date/have fun and then wait a long time to even consider settling down/have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 04:05 PM
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You don’t even need to prove it. If men had all the options women have even the fattest shortest ugliest guy would choose a hot girl if he could get away with it. You are lying to yourself if you think 90% of straight men wouldn’t pick their most attractive option in this scenario lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/22 03:58 PM
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It’s earlier than 45 many of them start balding in their 20s lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:17 AM
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Older men who are already attractive in the first place. If you think the young women that fantasize about old men fantasize about chubby Bob in his 40s then you are delusional
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/22 12:04 AM
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Of course we have crushes on them. They are celebrities with looks money status and charisma. Does average older man looks like a celebrity lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:55 PM
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She isn’t if you were right and younger women wanted you sooo much 90% of older men would be dating women their daughter’s age right now, but are the majority of older men doing that? no because they CAN’T lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:53 PM
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Does the average man in his mid 30s looks like Chace Crawford though? 😳 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:46 PM
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Right?! I don’t get the obsession. He literally peaked when he was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 11:42 PM
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We aren’t but I wish we were considering how men have no shame in treating the women they aren’t attracted to like trash
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/22 04:17 AM
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I’m 22, the majority of girls my age I talked to thought that the idea of dating an older guy was gross. However there were also a good percentage of girls I’ve met that had a fantasy of being with an older guy. But men need to realize that what a 18-22 year old usually considers an “older guy” is a man in his late 20s-early 30s (maximum would be late 30s I guess). Older men that are in their 40s or 50s are usually seen as too old even by the 18-19 yo girls I knew that said that they were into “…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 02:44 AM
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that’s why waterproof makeup exists 🤪💄
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:16 AM
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I still expect the right answer because many men still mock pictures of female celebrities with no makeup calling them ugly and that they “hit the wall” so yeah, even if men are ignorant about makeup they still know very well that they just want an unrealistically beautiful girl, not a “natural face” like they always claim in order to feel morally superior/less shallow than women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 01:15 AM
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Men are more shallow than women. Tons of gorgeous women are willing to give hideous guys a chance for their personality or even for their money, but I never see hot guys giving hideous girls a chance, not even if the ugly girl has money. That’s how important looks is to guys that nothing will convince them to be with a woman unless she’s pretty enough. Every civilization has a saying that goes like “men are visual creatures” or something similar, and society accepts that as basic fact about men’…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:23 PM
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most men really truelly truelly do not give a shit if you wear makeup or not and it will not inhibit your ability to attract men. Men don’t even know how makeup works yet they expect us to believe them when they say they don’t care about/don’t like makeup. All women see how men always go to the women that use makeup, so yes, men care and in fact prefer those women. Men just don’t see it because they know nothing about makeup and assume those girls aren’t using it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 07:14 PM
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Still, that isn’t “preferring women with no makeup” like men always claim. Men don’t want women with no makeup, men want women so unrealistically beautiful that they don’t need any extra help to fit in all the beauty standards perfectly. Why don’t say that instead?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:50 PM
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Right. These guys talk about not preferring makeup when they don’t even know how makeup looks like. They assume all makeup makes a woman look like an extravagant celebrity on the red carpet, they don’t even know the “no makeup” makeup look exist and always assume that women with that look aren’t using makeup. That’s why I never take them seriously when they talk about these things lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:41 PM
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Majority of men prefer that women use no makeup. The fact that you think this is true is hilarious. 95% of straight men don’t even know how makeup works yet you expect us to believe them when men say “I prefer women with no makeup” lol I’ve seen men saying “See?! that girl over there looks hot without makeup! You women need to stop using it!” meanwhile the “natural pretty girl” they always talk about is always using tons of makeup but with a “no-makeup” look/style lmao. Men that are ignorant abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/22 06:31 PM
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Because my genes will help their children become more successful and will eventually humanity become a much more successful species? Idk why men always act as if short guys always have the best personalities ever and as if tall guys are always dumb assholes with no personality. There are intelligent tall guys out there, there are also intelligent men of AVERAGE height out there. So why should women pick the minority (short guys) when they don’t have to? Also, we live in a lookist society. Yes, i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 10:29 PM
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I wonder where are you from? Where I live it’s the tall girls that are considered conventionally attractive. The short chick and tall guy piss off the tall girl and the short guy big time, especially when we are together. I’ve seen this so much on social media. Random short girl on tiktok posts a video about her and her tall boyfriend and tons of short guys and tall girls in the comments hating on the girl specifically, as if she kidnapped her 6’5 boyfriend and forced him to date her lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:19 PM
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Why should women accept an intelligent short guy if they just aren’t attracted to him? Tons of intelligent but conventionally unattractive women out there too but I don’t see men giving them a chance either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/22 09:05 PM
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No they simply need to be in a relationship where they are the pretty one. If she's a 7, then get with a 6. Ugly ass men with cuter girlfriends cheat on them all the time. I’ve seen it myself. Men aren’t entitled to a girlfriend hotter than them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/22 05:18 PM
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r/ladyboners It’s hilarious that you think that sub represents what all women want. Sorry, the average young woman doesn’t choose Reddit to thirst over men. They are all on IG or Tiktok following attractive men that become popular because of their looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:36 AM
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