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Outer Game AimlesslWander/r/seduction09/02/26 06:01 PM
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You'd be shocked if you haven't been on social media
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:10 PM
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As funny as this is lets try to help this guy out. I see gorgeous girls all the time and wish I can talk to them but I am busy and they are busy and the worst part is I will never see them again. They could be my future wife or new best friend but will never know unless I go and talk to them The same goes for girls who see guys they like who are scared to approach
/r/seduction13/05/26 10:35 PM
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And that's the problem culture where you're at the country you're living in the job you have the money you make the pool of people around you Not everybody has that luxury I live with my stepdad and I help take care of my little brother and sister my step pops lost his foot and I have to help take care of my little brother and sister my brother My money I make is 42k a year but agter taxes I make about $960 a paycheck and I get paid twice in a month Rent is getting so expensive and it's impossib…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 03:14 PM
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I am a 31 year old man spend my entire 20s within the wrong friend group and working two different jobs with hardly ever any time to go out on a Friday or Saturday night
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:37 PM
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My problem is that I work, I go home, I work more, I am off work on my days off which are Tuesday and Wednesday, I sit at home I go out at night & when I do everywhere is empty and I am alone at the bar or the bar is closed, the club is closed and I can't do anything because there is nothing going on downtown in my city. I wanted to meet someone I wanted to use apps to find a girlfriend but no matter what I did where I went, even on Friday nights I was just by myself and not having fun. I don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:28 PM
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"Not all men, but always a man" I get it, I acknowledge that men are shitty and that the shitty behavior has harmed woman and caused dating and traveling by night to be difficult. I'm sorry you had to deal with the ba online but even more so the BS you don't talk about in life offline
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 05:39 PM
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I just want a girl to hold me and make me feel like I am special to her and allow her to feel the same way To melt in the others arms and feel her heartbeat against mine
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 01:07 AM
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Think about who it is you're looking for and then go to the subreddit and try talking to the people there Try white people dating
/r/seduction16/04/26 05:56 PM
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I have always known about about grass not being greener on the other side and that woman face a lot of harassment and deal with things that men don't have to regularly and wouldn't have to deal with or wouldn't understand With platforms like YouTube and reddit and other online spaces it's a lot of window into seeing how things are from a woman's point of view and I get it and I'm not going to argue against it. Do I think that there is a large percentage of men that when you put them all together…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 01:47 AM
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She's smart If you got a type find a subreddit that has your type and just DM people
/r/seduction15/04/26 05:04 PM
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I've been single throughout most of my life and I hate it though even the friends I have and have made all leave I'm not even a bitter person I'm not even sour about it except for here online where I vent my frustration Who I present myself as online is not who I am in the real world I'm quiet I speak when spoken to I try to ask questions or talk about interest I try to make friends I try to get a girlfriend but everyday treats me like I don't exist and the friends I do have they're all leaving …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:55 PM
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I've had a lot of bad experiences trying to date okay Constantly getting rejected dealing with sexist female coworkers or just girls who want to take advantage of me I want to go out and I want to be able to meet someone. But god fucking damn it I am constantly putting in effort and getting no results Its so bad I am here online talking to YOU a stranger about how bad it is in the pathetic hope I can maybe just get somebody anybody to see things from my pov for even just a moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:47 PM
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Get that but what are we supposed to do though yes what that guy did to you was harassment and was not fucking cool and ruins it for the rest of us But with my job I'm literally just a janitor who cleans up people's filth that they leave behind the girls at work they don't pay me any mind they don't care about me don't even acknowledge I exist because I'm the guy who pushes the broom around at work On my days off what the hell am I supposed to do I go out to the bar I go downtown and it's always…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 09:20 PM
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I am tired of constantly approaching though, I dealt with too much rejection growing up and online shit kept showing me how pissed women are when you approach them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 08:36 PM
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And what are you trying to love, women are protectors and men are not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 03:52 PM
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I protected my little brother and sister from their jackass mother who the drug addict and is also suffering from mental illness and I stepped up to provide and take care of them I am a male by the way I've also dealt with sexism from female co-workers he wanted a bad mouth me behind my back into my face and all these gave me shit for the job I do because I push a broom around at work I was sexually abused as a younger guy by females of my own family And in my own personal experience the only wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 02:59 PM
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I am learning automotive my step pops he runs a shop is the boss practically and I may inherit the business when he's dead but I got to learn my shit first I'm trying to get into Auto school so I can learn how to work on cars the right way It's going to cost moolah but that's money I'm going to have to burn in order to learn a trade once I learn a trade my ass and the kids are set However even though my step pops was making 3K a month still need to rely on my ass to help him out that I needed to…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 04:08 PM
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I'm not really following you when you said making positive change in my life I'm trying to work and I'm trying to make money it's just circumstances aren't really playing out in my favor and joining the military is not an option I have to take care of my little brother and sister and we don't really have anybody in the state we're living in can help me with the kids I can't just abandon them
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:50 PM
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But I'm not blaming anybody for my problems also my little brother and sister were born when I was around 19 years old I was still in high school at the time but graduated also I'm 31 as I already mentioned I'm an adult and I'm able to control or try to handle my own problems but sometimes life gives you bad cards to play with Like as of right now I'm living at home with my stepfather my 12-year-old brother and my soon to be 10 year old sister and I'm the main reason why they even have a house B…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:34 PM
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I was actually told that by somebody that due to my own circumstances I'm emotional baggage. Personally I think it's unfair because everybody has baggage everybody has things going on in their life and everybody should have a shot at being happy if somebody cannot be bothered to be involved and help you out in life then you've dodged a bullet Usually friends help each other out in moments of crisis the same should be applied to a boyfriend or girlfriend who is supposed to be there involved and h…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 01:14 PM
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To be honest with you have zero interest in the military but also I'm trying to counter argument with Op when it comes to guys problems like yes I'm lonely and I want a girlfriend but I also have other issues in my life too that outweigh other problems Also I'm 31 I can't really join the military anymore and even if I could I wouldn't want to I live in the US and I'm not really a fan of the government
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:43 PM
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That is why when I talk about my problems in my loneliness I don't use any red pill rhetoric or even blue pill rhetoric I leave politics out of my life and my dating life especially I just want to talk about my issues and get responses
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:12 PM
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I got a step dad hes about ready to lose his foot and when he dies in the next couple years it'll just be me and my little brother and sister who Ive have been taking care of since I was a teenager also got a drug addicted mother who is a total deadbeat now constantly trying to cause chaos in our family dynamic and I'm struggling to keep my current job as well as work above the average salary because I've been working minimum wage for too long in my life but I can't get hired anywhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 12:11 PM
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My ex brought up her own bf a lot, her ex at the time who she stayed friends with and would layer dump me and go back to. Side note: your old relationship romantic or platonic does catch up with you and affect your mindset and behaviors even in subtle ways your unaware of So in a way last relationships DO impact current or future relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:40 PM
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I think as our species evolve things will shift more into a neautral ground for everyone. I noticed a lot of hostility in subreddits for men and women catered to the sex of the dominating spaces With more exposure maybe it will better inform and educate and change the eay people view each other. Or maybe everyone will keep hating each other and we drive ourselves into extinction
/r/seduction15/03/26 06:57 PM
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Something to note is that paying for sex is illegal on some places and this men will not do it and feel dirty having to pay to make someone have sex with them. Some men in my country got arrested for a sting operation where cops were pretending to be a prostitute on a dating app
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/26 12:44 PM
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Wait what's wrong with horse girls
/r/seduction03/03/26 05:39 AM
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You never had girls set their boyfriends at you, or call HR or accuse you have harassment in public places. I have.
/r/seduction02/03/26 12:17 AM
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Sorry for being negative but I have to just say this there are so many women's subreddits and spaces online that paint the image that women do not want you to approach them in public try saying something like that in a feminist subreddit and you will be downvited to hell Not only that but I have dealt with sexist women in my workspace and have a hard time.meeting girls irk, due to where I go and my hobbies that dont have girls in them so where the hell am to go to meet a girl and met alone 1 I l…
/r/seduction01/03/26 11:02 PM
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The only insecurity I have is overthinking between approaching girl's in public, read too many women center subreddits and places online and videos about girls not esnting to be approached publicly vs girls who do like it has left me overthinking everything
/r/seduction01/03/26 07:33 PM
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Try working on that with clerks or people behind registration at food joints are stores
/r/seduction01/03/26 07:13 PM
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Weird like how
/r/seduction01/03/26 07:11 PM
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Its means cut loss and fuck off
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:30 AM
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Here's a short easy paragraph instead of that whole ass post you did Give her what she wants and if you are what she is looking for at the time then she will follow you last girlfriend I ever had I was what she wanted I gave her what she wanted but in the end it just wasn't enough because somebody else had something that she wanted
/r/seduction20/02/26 02:00 PM
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I don't know what you said but okay On a side note I think having more sex with somebody that I really love would be beneficial than having no sex at all I don't hate people who have it I just wish I had more of it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 03:08 AM
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Doubt it that the elite will ever fix what they fucked up which makes things even harder for those of us who do want to have families or just have better lives in general
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/26 12:46 AM
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Congratulations on escaping that relationship and bettering yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:31 PM
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Yeah but I'll still being labeled as somebody who is sexually harassing someone from female co-workers who got vindictive with me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 02:39 PM
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Told a coworker that her shirt looked cool, it was a rainbow swirl design that looked rad. Just said I liked her shirt, next thing I onow I am being called into HR. I didn't get into trouble thankfully after I explain myself but neither did she Another time I tried just being friendly with this one girl, quiet always alone type girl, asked her about music she lik s amd if she wanted someone to hangout with at lunch so she's not always alone. She calls her boyfriend into where we work and tries g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 12:50 PM
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I want women who are even slightly interested in me to talk to me, because I'm afraid of approaching them for being mislabeled as a creep or for sexual harassment if I'm talking to the wrong women. I don't know about the rest of you wherever you are from but where I'm from just saying the wrong thing like a simple compliment on hair or a t-shirt or even trying to talk about music can be read as harassment where I'm from
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 03:47 AM
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I am and have been going to one church but I feel like people keep trying to comvert me when I go
/r/seduction09/02/26 11:39 PM
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I'm starting to see a pattern with all these male posters here in the subreddit getting downvoted I don't know why you got downvoted OP but take my upvote
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:48 PM
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I'm an atheist I don't feel comfortable at church (Why is everyone so pissed off and downvoting me for the way I feel about going to church?)
/r/seduction09/02/26 07:42 PM
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Say yes, guys and girls gave me shit for it when it came in conversation. Then I lost it at 27 and felt no different then before and realized sex doesn't mean shit unless its with someone special
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 01:18 AM
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Shy girls are the best
/r/seduction24/01/26 06:53 PM
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The hate has to stop somewhere and shamming one another good to see someone else who thinks similarly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/26 10:53 PM
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Hey bro come on thats a bit extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/26 07:24 PM
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"Women generally want a relationship, men generally want women. The sexual drive between the two desires is just different." This is you. Relationship doesn't mean only monogamy, she wanted a short term sexual relationship and had that. Men can see a woman and get sexually obsessed with getting her in a way that just doesn't happen to very many women. This is also you. Some women obsess over sex just as much as guys maybe its not as high as m n but it is there. To say it is just men who want to …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 01:45 AM
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I want sex but I want sex with a girl who won't leave me and who is right for me. Met girls that just wanted a quickie and then left.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 11:53 PM
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To generalize and say that it is only men who benefit and not women is hypocritical as there are plenty of lonely women who post online talking about their struggles even obese and unattractive women who wish that they were pursued
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 07:41 PM
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I swear that both of those are mixed up because it used to be the envy was worse than jealousy because envy was wanting to ruin what somebody else has because you can't have it versus jealousy of wanting what somebody else has
/r/seduction04/01/26 10:39 PM
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Men just need to talk to girls in a casual polite way and do introspection to not be seen as creepy or weird by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 03:54 PM
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For real girl be a G and represent yourself and your fellow ladies that like what u do girl
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:33 AM
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Fucking organize, make meet ups online, post on reddit, facebook myslcae whatever. Use the power of your cellphone and Internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:32 AM
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How about we all just start helping one another Men help women and women help men Your all lonely ass MFers in here and I read shit like this and femenist sub posts and struggles of men vs women. So why not take your heads out of your assess and just help each other. If a girl knows a guy or two whos just wanting to date, set him up with someone you know Guys you can do the same thing too be a gentleman chaperone make friends with these girls and show them we are not all the fucking devil We hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:31 AM
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How did things end between you and your ex? This is context important context that is missing
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 12:26 PM
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Not to make this a war of sexes thing but you'd be surprised by the girls I know who stick around with guys like that. For the same reason guys stick around with girls who use them for dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 01:38 AM
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With the girl I lost my v card too
/r/seduction14/12/25 06:23 AM
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I didn't feel like I harassed her I was just trying to be friendly and make a new friend but it made me very cautious to talk to people
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 02:34 PM
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She got fired from her job she was a coworker and I was just trying to be friendly with her, I was trying to make friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/25 12:30 AM
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The last time I tried just being friendly with a girl just being polite ask him how they're doing and what kind of music they listen to they tried to get their boyfriend to fight me Did not know they had a boyfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 10:58 PM
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I want to just walk up to a girl try to have a conversation without her feeling like I'm harassing her and try to see if we can hit it off from there I want the love that I used to have with my ex back in my life not her but the way she made me feel and the way I made her feel and the things we would do for each other I want some girl to see this message and for her to think maybe I can be someone she can be with or at least shoot her shot with me and see where things go from there from an onlin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 08:18 PM
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I know, but it's hard finding someone for it. I have 0 luck on apps and can't pay money just to swipe back. I do get attention from girls at bars and clubs but they're always drunk so I avoid them. And as you already know seeing as how I'm assuming you're a woman at least girls don't like it when you approach them in public I've had too many bad experiences where I just tried to have a simple conversation and they took it as harassment
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 03:38 AM
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I hate it too. I had a relationship but things ended and I am miserable. I want love back in my life, sex too, let's not pretend sex doesn't feel good. But I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 12:22 AM
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I can answer DM's but I don't really want to answer here I feel like one-on-one conversations are a lot more better and effective than a group chat so if anyone any women want to talk about or try to understand a guy's point of view send a chat
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/25 04:58 PM
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My male friends do talk about what they go through hell my friends are all guys anyways mostly except for some girls online not only that but even with guy friends talking about her if she is it doesn't fix the fact that I'm lonely in that they are all so lonely too and believe it or not the cure to our loneliness is finding a girlfriend You can make fun of that all you want but if a girl were to talk to you about her problems and how she's lonely or how she wants a boyfriend you would take her …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/25 11:59 AM
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I have my stiry and long ass reason and story. Tldr yes it fucking sucks and I wish I had loved when I was younger as a man30 about to be 31 now. I was a late bloomer, life was cold and depressing bwing single. Fuck the lonewolf shit nothing compares to being in love amd having that special girl in your life but nothing hurts worse when its gone
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/25 06:47 AM
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Its hard for me because I cant pay for parking downtown, I buy food and pay bills and 457 on a car payment and 231 for insurance, I got a credcard I gotta pay off so I am broke all the time. Its not fucking easy man I wish it was, I wish girls seeing my online socials at least would approach me,I am not going to bite you, but its not for some of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/25 05:42 AM
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The thing is though no proof could be brought up against my friend, that and the person who accused him was caught lying. About feeling uncomfortable I have been rejected before and still afterwards girls have tried getting people they know to stalk and try to start fights with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:50 PM
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I wish it was that easy but I've had bad experience with trying to talk to coworkers just saying that you're interested and would like to meet somebody from work is enough to get an HR complaint against you if they don't like you I even had a friend who had an HR complaint against him because he tried to asking somebody out was told no but it wasn't enough to reject him they decided to try to throw some sexual harassment stuff at him as well
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 11:20 PM
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I lost my first account for Facebook tried making a second one and I got banned from Facebook so no I can't use Facebook
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:52 PM
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Aint that the fucking truth And then when you try to explain it to someone they downvite you to all hell, tell uou to go kill yourself or they just laugh at you and block you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:26 PM
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I live in Oklahoma you can go to church you can go to a bar or a club I don't like going to either of those so I'm just screwed over I guess and you can't date your co-workers because of bad experiences and just talking to somebody random in a public setting like in a store or at downtown makes people uncomfortable I feel lost and isolated completely to the point where I don't even want to have a day off I just want to be at work so I can at least be surrounded by people and not be in my own hea…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 10:18 PM
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Did you ask them out while you were at a bar a club or maybe somewhere that's a social Gathering I often go out and I'm trying to meet people but it's hard because nobody's ever out when I go out and I'm not much of a fan of going to bars to meet girls
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/25 09:54 PM
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I felt "normal" un loved, nothing special, just normal and just going about my routine. She made me happy going into work and feeling more alive, she made it feel like living meant somthing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 04:34 AM
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Nothing societ can do to fix a individual man. Racism and sexisim got changed because society changed after protest and action from the people involved. Loneliness isnt taken seriously not by anyone. How many lonely women do you interact with or lurk on when it comes to online social spaces just to see what they are talking about? I have been to the incel subs, the femenist subs, the femcel.subs, I went to lonely womens subs and guys subs.i went to fucking misandry subreddits. I proposed ideas t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:26 AM
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I know my problems, I know I am depressed and I am lonely. I feel like no matter what I do or who I try to form friendships or relationships with, its all futile. I wake up alone I go to sleep alone I live life alone. I have friendships but those friends have their own lives and when we do hangout its amazing but doesnt change that the majority of my time spent is alone. I try to organize things with people but work schedules are conflicting and I am ways the one who has to organize lr get peopl…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 02:05 AM
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Did you not read what I said about me helping but no one soing the same for me? On the topic of men doing the work, I have seen men bust their assess off for the women and viseversa, I dont know your story but I am not going to invalidate your experiences do not invalidate mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:30 AM
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Sexist much? I have been there for men, I have helped, I have done everything and more for men and women. I have given my support my money my attention. And now that I am empty handed no one wants anything to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:09 AM
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I believe you meant to reply to somebody else
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:06 AM
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Been single for a year now, girlfriend dumped me over text 3 months into our relationship and went back to a guy she accused of abusing her As for what it is that I am looking for I'm just looking for somebody that I could find comfort and talk to me. Wake up within the morning build a life together. Have long conversations within person. Feel safe around She was the first real girlfriend I had and the first time anyone made me feel special
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/25 12:05 AM
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I know what you mean but at the same time when I was in a relationship all the pain sadness feeling alone went away when she was around and then when she left me everything came crashing down She stayed friends with her ex Red flag number one And I should have seen it coming but I didn't Months later after finding out more about what happened I realized that I did dodge a bullet But being in a relationship was one of the most magical things in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:47 PM
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I like quiet shy girls also like women who are smart like to read or talk about their interest like philosophy science or history academic sort of things or show off their artwork like wood burning or crochet or even baking skills. Someone who asks me how I am feeling and actually means it and makes time of the day to come and talk to me and who comes to me when they're troubled. Someone I can emotionally be intimate with before anythin physical. Somebody I can just hold in my arms feel their he…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:24 PM
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I go to work I come home from work to go to sleep wait for my days off day off comes I go out and I see a girls but if I just go up and try to talk to somebody elephant them and they'll get creeped out I know that there are times and places to go out and try to meet people but when I do for example go to a bar I feel very uncomfortable because women plus alcohol is not a good mix they get very handsy and I become uncomfortable when they start feeling me up, once had a woman gry hrabbing at me an…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:22 PM
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What's funny is that if a single woman says that she gets downvoted to Oblivion or were told to how she should feel and how she should act and think fuck I know one girl who is suicidal because she can't find a man and I had to help her from having those Suicidal Tendencies
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:12 PM
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Thank you for your valid points and introspection, I know what I want I know what I need I don't want anybody to tell me what I don't want and what I don't need I've been living my entire life listening to people tell me what to do how to think and I'm not going to do it no more. People can downvote me all they want Come to my DMs and insult me Talk about how shitty men are It doesn't fix my problems that I have Why are my crippling loneliness Maybe instead of trying to destroy each other we sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:11 PM
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The only reason I'm talking to these women is because I'm trying to give them a second opinion that they haven't thought of that's the whole point of this subreddit it's to give some introspection from another person's point of view why the hell else would anybody come here if not for that it's not just simple bitching and complaining online it's to give some real introspection into somebody else's life
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:08 PM
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I'm not happy because even with friends I have no real romantic connection with anybody and when I did have a romantic connection with somebody it was such an amazing feeling that I never wanted to treat it for anything in the world but she ended up dumping me over text and she ended up going back to somebody who groomed her the week she turned 18
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:07 PM
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Same can be said about men views on women. Not wanting to get hurt, not wanting to be taken advantage of, not wanting the burden of putting up with a woman. No I am not trying to invalidate you, there are men whole onlin3 spaces lf men who say what you said but in regards to women. And do you want to know something that's really fucked up is that there are men who are just your type right here on Reddit but you're never going to meet them because they could be thousands of miles away from you or…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 08:05 PM
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As one of those young men that Society has failed the best thing you can probably do is just talk to them and listen to them when they speak nobody ever listens to me when I talked and back when I was suicidal everybody saw what was going on and didn't lift a finger for me even now nobody lives a finger for me I have friends I have family but I'm not happy even when I have all my living expenses met I'm still not happy No girl is going to fal into my arms I know that But I want to be talen serio…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:50 PM
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I don't know you you don't know me but I know a lot of women who are blue pillars who are unhappy being single they put on a good mask online as well as with social media but they're not fucking happy some of them are paranoid and crazy because of the way the world is changing in a 'mysogonistic eay' others cant get a man (or woman) and hate being single. Somebody's fucking lonely and just wants romance in their life I encourage them to pursue it but trying to tell people what they need or don't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:48 PM
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Any advice tou can give to a guy who has everything you mentioned but is not happy beong singel I ate five meals a day get paid thousands of dollars every month I have friends I have family have everything I could fucking need but I'm still not happy I still just want a relationship What afvice can you give me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:46 PM
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Source is experience from watching people who are happy and hearing about it Just look up happy relationships from people here on reddit for example or look at couples from facebook. I also know single girls who have it all but want men because they are unhappy being single. If someone wants to be with someone let them be with them. If you really are happier being alone then by all means be alone but if you're not try to fix it but don't shit on anyone who's trying to find some means of being ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/25 07:45 PM
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There is nothing wrong with telling people your issues, if anything it weeds out the people who care and the people who do not care. As for blocking you it can be that from what I have read due to them viewing you as being a 'quiter' as from what you said about not having a job. If you want to talk more in chat I can but will be slow to respond
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:59 PM
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Cunts But they won't get called out for their bs
/r/seduction02/11/25 05:06 AM
9

Bullshit Did that with my own ex and she went back to her groomer who hounded her ass the first week she turned 18 Was a saint to her and he 'treated her badly' in her own words he ass raped her but she still went back to him and was friends with him still despite us being together. No idea why she goes back to him guy was a pussy around me and talkd about fighting me but shit himself everytime I was near him. Dumb fucking bitch
/r/seduction02/11/25 12:09 AM
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I gotta know what the fallout was like, did the girls get mad at the guy sleeping around how did the other guy recover etc?
/r/seduction02/11/25 12:06 AM
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Before reading I just want you to know that you need to get over the fear of rejection you're going to deal with rejection all your life rejected from a job offer rejected from a friend groups rejected from family members rejections just part of life if you can't handle it then you can't handle life life has never favored people who weren't willing to take risk it's the only way to get anywhere in life suck it up and confront your fears and just ask this girl out if you're into her or just talk …
/r/seduction27/10/25 10:40 PM
2

All the more reasons why instead of fighting like letty ego filled children we should help one another. Of I know a guy named Fred and Sally who is Girl A I am going to introduce the two of them to each other if I think they will be a good match. How many people are going to read this and take my advice to heart? I have no clue but what the hell is stopping ANYONE from helping the miserable guys and girls? Nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/25 05:52 PM
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Smart answer, I met my 'dream girl' at work, but thats a bad end story. You meet people who are 'your type' by going where they would go. Book smart girl library but be a reader Gorgeous girl in shale gym buy be a gym guy You find girls you like through things you like
/r/seduction21/10/25 12:02 PM
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Bro I am sorry but you deserve this for husling 5 girls Reverse the genders and you'd be called a hoe Only now your a manwhore I'm sorry but if you weren't serious with these girls you HAD to be upfront about it
/r/seduction17/10/25 03:59 PM
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The only thing I'm jealous of is the number of people that come to women other than that I do not envy you ladies one bit on one part I'm glad that I'm a guy because I rather have real people in my life and then fake people but for you it's a hellscape of trying to factor in who's legit and who's not who's trying to use you and he wants to actually be with you real friends fake friends that sort of thing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:30 PM
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Hope to meet someone with the same goals as you posted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:27 PM
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When I was in a relationship with someone just having someone to talk to you besides service level stuff and daydream about with goals and share my cooking with was incredible the most importantly so was just hugging someone sometimes a whole hour at a time and feeling like I was making a positive influence in that person's life but she's not around anymore so I'm just left with a hole
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 03:26 PM
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Need the follow up to this
/r/seduction12/10/25 02:36 PM
1

Nice projection girl, take your own advice. I'll be busy planning a date a friend helped set up.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:32 PM
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If a man cannot go out and meet people due to his work schedule or living circumstances he is not a creep, a creep is someone who stalks or who sexually harasses a girl. Thanks for the sarcasm
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 08:30 PM
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Women I talked.to and have seen post of on reddit, DO NOT want guys hitting on them at work and have called HR because of it. I try to be nice to a female coworker not even trying to flirt with her or anything was just trying to be nice and she called HR on me and also tried having her boyfriend follow me at work and start a fight with me
/r/seduction10/10/25 09:13 PM
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Women would say otherwise about meeting them at the workplace. At least from the subreddits I been to
/r/seduction10/10/25 09:08 PM
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Had a llt of fun going out to clubs and met girls that way, fun dancing and drinks with a friendly attitude with everyone there for the same thing, fun, makes clu s a good and bad place at times. Good for meeting people bad if your uncomfortable with alcohol and drugs. And there is always at least 1 person tripping
/r/seduction06/10/25 07:22 PM
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Bruh if shes in school.still pass on that shit, I knew a guy who was 20 in HS and still saw him and others saw him as a fucking kid. Trust me bro pass
/r/seduction06/10/25 01:24 AM
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At this point just better to ignore him
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:11 PM
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Actually yes if a woman is having issues with a deadbeat of a father and husband we should help her out by either giving her a lift in our car or help her out by means of simply being a friend to them. Also escorting is not legal everywhere so that would be breaking the law, maybe we should petition then for making it legal work, good idea. As for women helping out men? Why shouldn't we help out each other, I am helping this one girl out right now because she is facing the exact same issue as yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:39 PM
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Well of you want to wait for marriage go for it, I think its a waste of time and would rather have had sex more often when I was in my 20s but due to lifestle could not In my experience sex and intimacy cures a lot of the social issues people have
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:13 PM
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They are actually thanks to my looks and personality. If you read what I wrote you'd notice I meant no malice just offering the idea of people helping each other out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:12 PM
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They could try to help the people who need it. Introduce them to people who would want to have sex with them Ask if they want a wingwoman/wing gy Set them up on a date, help them making a dating profile. They could also just be friends with benefits to help out the person not getting any. Theres a lot of ways to fix this "sexless" "male loneliness" "female loneliness" but no wants to say it except me. The worst part is I am going to say all this and some ass hat clown is going to downvote me or …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:03 PM
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Its all jealousy due to wanting what you can't have. I'm not mad at op I understand him but the jealousy is polluting his mind I think the worst thing is that everyone is telling OP what they think and act but no one is asking if OP is okay lr trying to help him het the sex he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:56 AM
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See it as you dodging a bullet
/r/seduction03/10/25 09:21 PM
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By asking about her interest and bei g interested in them or try asking about her cooking girls love showing off thwir cooking and baking or inquire about her diy hobbies
/r/seduction03/10/25 09:13 PM
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I can't have sex with anyone unles there is a emotional connection I tried doing it with this one girl and it was pleasurable but not the same as my last girlfriend
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/25 10:35 PM
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They either like you or they don't like you seem very shitty people get girlfriends that were banging hot and I've seen guys who are considerably unattractive fat of body and a face yet still score beautiful women or even less beautiful or physically attractive bottom line is that a girl either likes you or likes something that you have My ex went back to a 40 year old she accused of raping her because she wasnt happy living at home and dunped me over a stupid lie about bodycount. Female cousins…
/r/seduction23/09/25 02:23 AM
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You could say that but it could also be interpreted as men just not approaching women for their fear of being seen as harassing them especially when it comes to sex and they don't want to be labeled as somebody who's only using a woman for sex which happens a lot with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:19 PM
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Ask for a dance ask for a favorite foods and then offer to cook them, could ask if they think you look attractive in a certain outfit, talk about your interest with them such as art or music and ask for opinions and when you do so ask if they would like to listen to some of your music or see some of your art that's more slow build seduction but it works
/r/seduction13/09/25 11:38 PM
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I wish I had that luxury however I do not I work for Walmart as a janitor and everybody is dating somebody already or is a man hater I had two women make sexist remarks to me as a man in the lounge not only that but also I work and I go home and I don't have much else to do the hobby store I do go to is occupied by only men in the few girls there are already in relationships or are married
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 04:28 PM
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Evry girl I ever met including my female.family members have all been approached randomly by different guys and if they vibe good they vibe if not then they dont Its not science its getting a feel for someone and if you like the attention you bite if not then dont
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:15 PM
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How should a man approach you then?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/25 02:01 PM
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I fucking hate mind games
/r/seduction30/08/25 12:34 PM
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Dude.who the fuck can blame a rape victim when they are taken against their will?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:14 PM
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I do want platonic female friends, but also I want a girlfriend and maybe one day a wife. Who knows women better than women? Thats one reason why I want female friends but also because women are more trusting of other women than men. As I was told by two other friends of mine both of whomare girls I met at a pop culture convention. Men and women can benefit from having friends of opposites sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 08:12 PM
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That's the thing there too I do try to have a natural conversation but the people that I end up talking to end up being very rude to me or they're just not interested I have made a few friends female friends. How ever as of late I have been meeting VERY rude women who call me fuckboy for talking to them or who tell me they have boyfriends and then 'introduce me' to their boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:56 PM
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I know and it sucks. Bro all I want is a girlfriend who could eventually tie the knot with me so I won't have to grow old alone by myself however with the way Society has turned out finding Romance and companionship is really fucking hard now more so than ever and yet we are the most technologically advanced we've ever been and yet at the same time we're so divided and so scared of each other that it's a fucking nightmare now
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 07:13 PM
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I know women who use men to target other men or who who spread nasty rumors about their fellow women. I have even met women who only ever wanted sex from a boy and when they got what they wanted they discarded him. Whatever bad behavior a man does a woman can also do and has done
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:45 PM
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What do you suggest? I run into this problem a lot to the point I just don't approach girls due to the fact that I read posts online and watch videos of women not wanting to be approached anymore. It has gone to the point where I just don't talk to girls no more and I do want to find a partner but at the same time I don't want to come off as a creep or a weirdo and the older I get the harder it will be. I am 30 years old as it is right now and all I want is just a partner but I just don't know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/25 05:38 PM
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Where does this knowledge come from? Drom my own research the Japanese economy is struggling with work hours and men and women are expected to put blood sweat and tears into their work hence why the birthrates are so low. Its not a sexisim over women issue, its a greedy boss turning their workers into wage slaves issue.
/r/seduction09/08/25 07:25 PM
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No but I plan on at least helping my dying stepdad by giving him a roof over his head, what do you plan to do when your too old or sick to work?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/25 11:40 AM
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Couldn't go to college for a better job, tried other avenues of employment and no luck, and without help for when I am old and grey what am I supposed to do? Why the down vote?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 03:23 PM
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I think about this too and I realize that when I am old I will be unable to work or support myself, my 401K is ass and I will have no money when I am old to support myself. I guess I would want kids to help me as I become too old to work or do anything but that won't happen more than likely since finding a woman is difficult now With declining birth rates and upper ups seeing how there running out of cogs to run their machines they are starting to realize that the system is about to crash becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 12:02 PM
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Watching Castlevania Nocturne as I am reading this and laughing in French Revolution La Resistance!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/25 01:19 AM
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Finding love is hard, sex is easy but real love is hard. Between 100 girlfriends and 100 dates with endless sex I would pick 1 who I can wake upto and plan a life together. I am 30 year old guy now and all I want right now is to find my soul mate. Tell me how you met yours if you want to?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:47 PM
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Seems like taking a break from men is what you need after your bad exposure. If you want to give up on it thats fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 05:42 PM
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Said something similar to this, got downvoted to oblivion, still stand by what I said. It's just not about men who need women and women who need men either it's people who need people to get by as caveman and survive getting eaten by predators and terrible weather how else did people survive catastrophe and wars and plagues? Through each other thats how the human race survives
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:47 PM
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How did you meet these guys exactly? I do my own research but getting introspection i to this with people who lived it grants me a better understanding.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 03:44 PM
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Or this can all just be about what people are into and nothing more. What dose kink have to do with anyone is up to them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:14 AM
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I'm not stupid dude you edited your comment, you literally replied with "LOL" at the end in a patronize manner to my response and acted sarcastic im your reply
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 09:33 PM
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If you want to be a jackass and if you want to not get better that's all on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 08:58 PM
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Good stories don't make good news. Bad stories make good news. People just need to learn to communicate better and be honest about what they're after without being assholes to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 05:14 PM
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"Not at all" can you elaborate please?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 04:52 PM
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Saving this because its accurate to what I experienced with women in my life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:44 PM
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The problem with modern dating in today's society is that due to social media, men are led to believe that women do not want to be approached or talked to and are afraid of doing so because they might be seen as a creep and have few friends and are very lucky to have even one single female friend and our problems aren't really taken seriously. Yes there are bad apples like from the andrew tate wannabees as well as the people who follow those types of influencers and so and so and so called femin…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:43 PM
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As a guy who had an ex-girlfriend who went back to a man who was 20 years older than her and practically groomed her from her own words and emotionally and verbally abused her and even physically. I can fucking confirm this like. But then again she lied to me about some things and can't trust her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 01:34 PM
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THIS ☝️
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:31 PM
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Okay mother fucker listen up. ASK YOUR FRIENDS TO HELP YOU LOSE YOUR VIRGINITY!!! Just ask, so they can set you up with a girl. Or go to a place where YOU want to meet a girl. I am.goth, I like books, I like coffee, I love music. So where the fuck am I goong to go to find me a girl into that stuff? Goth events, book stores, lounges or coffee shops, or concerts. I am a athiest but am willing to go to church to meet a 'decent girl'
/r/seduction29/05/25 07:31 PM
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I'm confident but I also show my vulnerability, as somebody who is a enfj I sometimes invest too much too soon
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:20 PM
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Something that is funny is that I get called misogynistic and yet I'm more for a equality than a lot of guys who pretend to be feminist just so they can get between girls legs. Mind you the only one person that calls me misogynistic only does so because of phrases I use
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 07:18 PM
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I wish I could help you lady, in todays day and age its fucking hard. Men and women lie and aren't being honest with themselves. Maybe bring up having kids with them so that it can weed out the men from the fuckboys?
/r/seduction29/05/25 04:41 PM
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I need a female friend to do this with me. I am fucking depressed being single and being out of a relationship for half a year is physically killing me. I can't sleep right, I am lonely, joy is gone and I am just miserable with loss of interest.
/r/seduction25/05/25 03:34 AM
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30 years old, but been having to raise those kids since I was 19. That and had a hard time finding people who want me around, lots of people in my area don't take well to outsiders
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 06:30 PM
1

Sexist much?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:34 PM
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Work, having to take care of my baby bro and sis and just not enough time to go out to a club or bar without waking up for a 8AM shift gets to me, I go out and when I do I ALWAYS talk to women but they lose interest or are not interested or have a bf. It fucks with me a lot and I am trying but its just killing my self esteem when I see others being happy and in relationships. It makes me feel less attractive and desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 02:30 PM
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Women love attention. Depending on the attention they are seeking Horny attention Nice attention Manly leader attention. Women just love attention dude Seeing girls in shit relationships and even they themselves tell me the same thing, it comes down to attention, sex, as well as feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:36 PM
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You're talking about women saying hi to men and then men interpretating that as a woman wanting them I know what you're talking about. I have seen women say hi to co-workers as well as People And men take it well and say hi back and nothing else. I've even seen people compliment each other men to wait thank each other in return and then carry on their merry way but yes I understand what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:31 PM
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I've seen women say hi to men the men say hi back and carry on their way, I lnpw 0 2 100 is real but its not the majority and ad widespread as the internet makes it out. Mind you just because you watch 100 videos online that are about what you said being true does not speak for the majority of people you will encounter in real life. Everyone these days keeps to themselves and are too afraid to talk to each other due to net vids online Its actually pathetic and I wish things were different
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 01:26 PM
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Another example is how girls would find reasons to talk to me, coming to me, "are you okay?" "Are you sure your okay" "oh this happened to me earlier " They would give me attention out of the blue and find reasons to talk to me at work, sometimes for a half hour
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:19 PM
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I have had girls try to say hi to me and talk to me at work I'll talk to them as well they would always smile and try to be overly friendly I wouldn't realize it until they stopped talking to me and they would explain to me that they were trying to flirt with me and get with me "Being nice =flirting" what they were telling me when they were "flirting" being "nice" 2 me
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:16 PM
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I have had girls say hi to me and try to small talk in the past, I took it as them just trying to be nice to me because I don't fuck around with the girls at work but they would later try to tell me that they were trying to flirt with me only after they thought I declined their "flirtations"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 12:12 PM
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Most men don't receive attention let alone a compliment from women that I noticed and take it as a woman being interested, some women even DO that to show interest. There is no winning and no right answers
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 10:25 AM
1

I'm friends with coworkers who are a couple set to be engaged!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/25 08:11 PM
1

YES!
/r/seduction15/05/25 09:17 PM
1

Careful what subreddit you say that in (femenist/mensrights) you'll be harrassed to no end
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 12:48 PM
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Dude stop pussyfooting and just tell her how you feel. Do me and yourself and reddit and her a favor and dont lie about your feelings She may feel the same way dude just please fucking do it
/r/seduction10/05/25 12:23 PM
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Going out of my way to talk to people, networking, being adventurous, taking risk. Not leaving somewhere until I made one new friend
/r/seduction19/04/25 11:57 PM
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You have to be the main character, you have to be the one initiating everything because if you don't life is going to pass you by I know how it sounds but I have to develop a main character mentality when I go out because if I just do nothing walk around almost aimlessly then I will get nowhere in life I know it can sound prideful but that's not the case last year was one of the worst fucking years of my life and I got to make change the best way to make change is to play the game
/r/seduction19/04/25 10:49 PM
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Exactly why I am trying my damnedst to talk to people now. If they arent with headphones on, then theu can hear you and you can talk to them. Even if they are on their screens I will day. "Hi, what are you reading?" Just to get a conversation going and to then say somthing else and introduce myself. If no one is around I talk to the barista. Fuck I became a regular at this one place and am going there right now. Will I meet a girl there who is single? Maybe not. But there is that chance and I ra…
/r/seduction19/04/25 01:43 PM
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My ex showed me this the hard way, I knew not all women are the same but the way she dumped me and went back to her groomer early killed me
/r/seduction19/04/25 02:39 AM
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Thats what I tell lots of people but they laugh it off.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 10:58 AM
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I miss having a girlfriend who messaged me and cared about me. I miss having someone talk to me everyday and check in on me and show affevtion by making me feel handsome. I miss the intimate sex we had and how she would tell me all the things that made me feel attractive. Now that she is no longer around I feel like shit and want to fill the void she left. I am VERY lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:23 AM
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My solution is to "hangout in your crowd", if you like clubbing, go clubbing, if you like to cook go to a cooking glass or show or event, you like the library or books, look up places that have book signinga or clubs, you go to meet people based off your interests or qhere you WANT to meet someone ideal. I want a cute nerdy gf, I go to a anime/fantasy/horror con I want a fellow goth gf, I go to a concert or I go to a goth club or hangout spot. There are fucking options, people just need to stop …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 08:39 AM
6

Do it or you'll have this regret in you
/r/seduction17/03/25 10:09 PM
1

No nothing is wrong with them, some people just aren't as lucky, they are not in the right place at the right time with the right people. Thankfully we live in a day and age where connecting people online is at our finger tips and we can also go anywhere with modern transportation so our chances of making relationships platonic or romantic are higher than they'd ever been 60 years ago
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:24 PM
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Some people men and women have a hard time meeting people for sex and relationships. Its not easy for everyone. Be it money, no car, no friends, being around assholes, insecurities etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:43 AM
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Dude they are either into you or they are not into you just take it as it is and move on to somebody else if they really wanted to talk to you they would talk to you but if they didn't want to talk to you then they won't talk to you
/r/seduction04/03/25 04:07 PM
2

Hows Hinge?
/r/seduction02/03/25 09:38 PM
1

What a lot of girls don't realize and a lot of guys don't realize is that these nice guys and nice girls are just so God damn desperate and lonely that all they need is some basic human attention and it would shift their personalities and if it doesn't then fuck them I have too many family members and know some people who will fall for these bad boys who do drugs and alcohol It upsets me in greatly knowing that they're in ship positions dealing with a bunch of kids said they never planned or wer…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/25 09:38 PM
4

I hope.things work out between you two regardless, you seem to like him and if he is ride or die with you I hope you both have many good years ahead of you
/r/seduction21/02/25 01:14 PM
1

33 married with children just need to find a woman who wants that and get a better job
/r/seduction20/02/25 07:03 PM
1

Ask to try her cooking
/r/seduction19/02/25 12:25 AM
1

Due to my last experience with my ex-girlfriend I'm going to say wait at least a entire month before doing anything sexual kissing is fine and hugging is fine but wait up on sex for 5 dates
/r/seduction18/02/25 06:12 PM
2

As a man it's better for you to just say you like us and you would like to hang out sometime but don't let men abuse you when you do this set some boundaries get to know us and see where things go and let it all happen naturally
/r/seduction12/02/25 08:53 PM
0

I tell everyone this and I'll say it right here it always comes down to personality as well as how you carry yourself and how you speak with others and make them feel I hope things work out well with you and this man and you have a long and fortunate future with him
/r/seduction12/02/25 12:56 PM
1

Screenshotting and putting this in my album as my motivated quotes. You're actually very spot on when it comes to what you just said right now as well friendships and romantic / sexual relationships are very important for human beings if not why the fuck do we have these desires why the hell do we have friend groups political groups or even hobby groups as well as the basic need to be close with somebody and to wake up to them in the morning and to holding kiss them when we're feeling lonely and…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 02:55 PM
4

Can attetst to that and can also say the same for women, certain people are just magnets for certain crowds.
/r/seduction26/01/25 01:27 PM
6

I think I get enough boring rot from being here on Reddit with some of the things I have to read people say and some of the more obscure subreddits
/r/seduction24/01/25 08:21 PM
2

That's the same argument I see where guys complain about how a hot girl can be manipulative or mean or how a "unattractive" girl can be a sweetheart. It doesn't matter what your appearance the only thing that matters is your character from what I've witnessed by all accounts I've met some people you would think are pretty decent but ended up being completely shitty and only abusive or only using other people for gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 04:00 PM
1

Some people just attract certain people in their lives without even realizing it it's something I've noticed in my life with people you got to really push to find somebody who's right for you for those who do so I'm happy for them. I hope you find a better partner and I can actually make you happy and you can make happy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:58 PM
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I had a co-worker try to tell people at work that I was sexually harassing her when I asked her out and she politely told me no which I acknowledged I would later on during the week compliment her on her shirt she was wearing by saying "cool shirt" She told people I was harrasing her and I almost lost my job. She faced no repercussions.
/r/seduction13/01/25 01:26 PM
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It's not money that's the issue it's going on just talking to people that's going to be your main problem the way I see it is you're wasting your time if you only think about talking to a girl or a guy, what you really need to do is just go and talk to them talk about anything talk about what they're doing where you're at or about anything around you guys make a comment on the music or talk about grocery shopping where you guys are at grocery shopping or what kind of music they normally listen t…
/r/seduction11/01/25 05:42 PM
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Ask what she wants to try, have fun, love her and be sure to make sure sex isn't the only thing you two do, take her on dates, watch tv together, clean or cook together. But most of all never let her think you are only using her
/r/seduction11/01/25 04:36 AM
1

Why come?
/r/seduction16/12/24 10:42 PM
8

What a fucking cunt EDIT I knew he was scummy, I don't know how I knew call it hood mentality and Hood spider sense but that's just beyond fucking low
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 05:27 PM
23

Oh shit he is a catfisher? Mind if you link me I wanna see this
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 12:35 PM
1

For me when you're talking to a girl it's just like talking to anybody else just be respectful polite don't really follow this cold approach how to approach kind of stuff just being normal is good enough and friendly but don't be a creep. Being a creep involves. 1 not respecting privacy 2 asking sexual questions 3 stalking 4 not letting her leave when she wants to 5 buying random gifts and giving them to her 6 talking to her in a patronizing way, treat her like a respected individual Can't think…
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:42 PM
1

Talk about your personal interest and see if they also have the same interest as you just talk to whatever random girl you encounter believe it or not girls are still human and by default are social creatures just like male counterparts so by that logic it is natural that a male and female human being would want to talk and if they so happen to like the same things as you do then naturally you can escalate things further. Start off with interest build a connection by connection I mean make a fri…
/r/seduction03/07/24 01:17 PM
2

I go to work, I come back from work and see dog ahit and piss everywhere. Brother is too lazy to clean up or do dishes or pick up cigarettes he litters outaide. I have two baby siblings heavily dependent on me. A womanchild mother and a stepdad that walked out after mom cheated and goes out to party every night leaving us alone. Stepdad takes kids when he can, and they love him for it but I am left to clean the shit and to take care of the house or baby sit because my brother(25) yells st the ki…
/r/seduction30/06/24 05:49 PM
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Bullshit, unless the elementary teacher is on a watchlist not buying it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 12:34 PM
2

Seeing as how dumb fuck people can be on Reddit as well as social media and seeing as how it's also bleeding into a society in real life off the internet it would not surprise me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 05:12 PM
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The whole point of a romantic relationship is to have a relationship. That means a friend who you can talk to, hangout with, be around and not tolerate but rather want to be around. I qould love to have a girl in my life who wants to talk to me and be into my hobbies and would want to help me out and for me to return the favor. So yeah 110% to a agreeable partner. Because if they cant be your friend how can they be your boyfriend/girlfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/24 03:16 PM
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The reason why they push for it is because they come to here on Reddit and they look at female-centered subreddits and see nasty comments that people make as well as Twitter I have a female friend of mines who even admittedly says that Reddit is a shit hole for people including Twitter because when you got unregulated people posting whatever the hell they want it feeds into an idea in projection image of a group or even an organization that you claim to be a part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 04:58 PM
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I'll be your friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:32 PM
2

I wouldn't interact with a woman who tells me now or anyone for that matter who seems disinterested it's only common sense not speak with somebody who doesn't want to talk
/r/seduction04/03/24 12:36 AM
3

Even hot women get with people youd think are average guy, people fall in love with who they fall in love with
/r/seduction03/03/24 11:35 PM
8

What your saying sounds unrealistic, if that was the case why do I see couples everywhere?
/r/seduction03/03/24 11:30 PM
4

Thanks for the reminder it's just it's kind of rough you know like you can do your best but it's never enough at times you know what I mean?
/r/seduction03/03/24 10:31 PM
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What is a good time to hit on women though, I am just curious on opinion here, I say anywhere at anytime but there is bad time and bad place lime the gym. Clubs are too loud Bars she is there with friends or a guy friend Shopping, they are just there to shop. What is your experience or any advise you feel like you can give? (Edit I hope I am not coming off as disrespectful I blame text as being incapable of expressing my emotions)
/r/seduction03/03/24 09:14 PM
3

I come here to get away from all the bias crap about who has it harder and the conspiracy of men and women blaming the other as a boogeyman and to occasionally remind myself that all over the world people have it pretty shit but atleast we dont have to suffer alone
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/24 02:58 AM
1

Apparently from what a researcher suggest women are happier alone, about 70 percent of them while the male population isn't. From what I see from female centered subs, women aren't too bothered of the fact preference being single and being childless while others have given up on men altogether. From male subs I see that the blame game is on how women set too high of standard for preferences and modern femenism and social media. Of course this is the internet and 70 percent of women may in actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 08:41 PM
1

That was a big thing years back about Russian trolls and how people weaponize social media. It was on the news years ago and some doctors were waring about the dangers of social media and bias information feeding. Looking at modern times I agree
/r/MensRights07/02/24 02:57 PM
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Fyi I saw a vid on a medic, a girl mind, at the front lines as a volunteer. She was in the shit with the grunts, saw combat and got hurt, it WAS NOT pretty. So no there are females fighting in the war and a whole fuck ton of them willingly went to the front to join there men, some of whom are fighting to bring them back home. A wife qho has been fighting for her husband to come back as he was fighting day one and she has to live in fear of one day hearing how he didnt make it. Check your facts o…
/r/MensRights07/02/24 02:51 PM
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Can't really blame you either, see that before and it makes girls come off as easy in the eyes of men and women. Hoe shaming or slut shaming or just someone who isn't to be taken serious, which to me is stupid because men and women both like sex as much as the other depending on their orientation. However. I do hate being the one to constantly go out of his way because I am sick to death of constant rejection but what the hell am I suppose to do else. Personally though in the changing times we a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 04:49 PM
1

I don't see that sort of thing here where I'm from Mostly because I'm working inside of a store as a janitor I see more girls avoiding to work I do and a lot of guys as well seeing as how I'm a janitor however I do see Managers from both sides men and women in positions of power and running the store the regional manager is actually a woman and everybody has to show her respect even though she doesn't show much to her underlings
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 09:52 PM
1

There are women in the backgrounds actually there's even a couple that got married in Wartime as they're both being shipped off into different areas during the earlier stages of the war when I was watching it from the TV at home
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:48 PM
1

I haven't seen anything like that on the feminist subreddit there was a post though praising some few women who decide to stay behind with their men
/r/MensRights10/01/24 01:47 PM
6

I'm sorry to hear that about your own mother toxic mothers can be the worst and having to deal up with other people who want to put you down is also horrible
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 06:24 PM
2

Not going to lie what you just said there at the end I see a lot on mail as well as female Centric subreddits which personally is just ridiculous to actually even promote even if it is from a perspective of middle fingering one side and the other I sure as fuck don't want to live in cyberpunk 2049 for my future but the more I look at Society the more I realize we're already there
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 07:32 PM
2

True
/r/AntiFeminists21/12/23 12:24 AM
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How did feminism cause this? I noticed the tag flare I'm just asking a simple question
/r/AntiFeminists20/12/23 12:54 PM
1

They tend to think the same about us at least some of them not all not all women look out for themselves some of the better teachers I've had were women
/r/MensRights15/12/23 01:56 AM
5

Afyer watching the trailer this is why as a teacher you never date or even try to get personally involved with a student.
/r/MensRights14/12/23 11:17 PM
0

Some men just are into the 18 to 21, young love phase that girls offer in that demographic, a kinda honeymoon phase where everything seems brand new and exciting. Not always the case but from what I could see atleast. Knew a coworker who knew a coworker who was 50 and dating a 18 year old because she hit him up. So it just comes down to whatever the hell people are looking for in someone. As for men in the community of redpill, I cant tell you exactly but I hope this helps in someway Also about …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/23 10:17 PM
1

That is the stupidest shit I have ever heard. No, dick size does not equal confidence, confidence is measured by how you carry yourself not the size of your joystick
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/22 08:03 PM
5

Smart
/r/seduction18/10/22 05:22 AM
0

What if I wanted you for myself? 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:12 AM
5

Smart girl
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:10 AM
3

I woulda taken the hint. Ngl and not to dis college people but makes me wander where the degres are going to
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/22 05:10 AM
2

Pretty much, I've had girls who liked me in the past but didn't want to date me because we worked together and have had girls who like me but were too scared to get involved in a relationship and then there were other girls who just plainly weren't interested in me You could be 'good looking' and you can be 'not that good looking' but at the end of the day it's either they like you or they don't like you. Hell I've seen some girls get involved with spineless guys and some girls get with complete…
/r/seduction28/09/22 01:54 PM
28

For some people it's easy for some people it's not been in the end of the day it always comes down to whether or not the girl actually likes you or not And to be honest I think that's the most painful thing is realizing that a majority of people just don't like you and just don't care about your feelings or well-being
/r/seduction27/09/22 09:07 PM
2

Reminds me of my own experience meeting girls at a club had a fun night because of them
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:42 AM
1

What is your experience like? If you do not mind sharing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 12:24 AM
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