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My brother is autistic. He got his first girlfriend (well, its early days) just last month. He is 32 years old. It is very difficult to help him too as he won't take advice
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 03:39 AM
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Hate to say it, but the entire post reads as quite hypocritical given how aggressive you are towards those that are displaying the same kind of rage. People come here for information or to speak with likeminded, many do have this kind of rage within them, like yourself. Not all the posts are particularly useful but... nor is a sweeping generalization about trp going to shit.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 02:49 AM
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Their mind. Unless you plan to spend no time with them at all outside of sex. (And even then a smart girl may be more creative and fun)
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:00 AM
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This is so true. My girlfriend is very attractive, but she is also a Dr and i just love the chats we have about random science, tech, politics etc, it is always interesting.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:57 AM
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I dunno. I am 6'6" tall. I would quite like a girl on a pedestal.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 02:54 AM
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To be fair i went through a time when i did not care about dating either, at first i was going out and doing one nighters during my early 20's but after a while i just got to the point where it seemed boring as odd as that probably sounds. I ended up staying in and working on some project on the computer more and more. Only started datng again in my early 30's and this time i did it different. No more clubs, instead meeting people who i found interesting in some way. In all i went for about 6 ye…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/17 02:44 AM
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For me what worked was simply not giving a shit anymore, i stopped caring about what people thought about me, i pretended i was who i wanted to be, i kept a mental image of that person, and i behaved as if i was. I walked slower, i kept my chin up when walking. I just went around doing a lot of things on my own, more independence builds more confidence. I just drove to nearby cities or towns, caught the train, watched a movie, bought a few bits, explored some parks, read a book... whatever. Then…
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 03:07 PM
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Sounds like your goal should be to view yourself higher. Confidence is more important than any other thing for attraction. If getting more fitness/muscle or better fashion improves your confidence then go for it, but your best bet is to look up confidence building techniques and find something that works. (Everyone is different here)
/r/TheRedPill02/01/17 02:51 AM
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I do krav maga, its good. Quite quick to pick up the basics. Its not flashy like tae kwon do, but krav teaches you to just end fights fast.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/16 04:01 AM
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They would only argue that the men should play handicapped in some way to make up for the physical differences :P
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 09:00 AM
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My girlfriend is a Dr, she earns more than me. I have no problem with this. I am most certainly still the man in the relationship :) I think the problems come when people value money too highly, then having the difference in income can become an issue for people.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 08:57 AM
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I have worked in mental health. I would not recommend anyone enter a relationship with someone with BPD. Exceptions to this rule are people who understand the condition and know how to work with it. I actually have trained in dialectic behaviour therapy which is designed to treat BPD specifically, but BPD cannot be "cured" you can only curb some of the destructive behaviours to an extent. Even with what i know, i would not date a BPD girl, and i can usually spot them very fast. I do admire guys …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 03:34 AM
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I live in the UK, and grew up near London. (I live near Birmingham now) I was only stating my observations and past experience. I am sorry if things are not working out for you there.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 12:36 PM
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The only part that interested me was that her job was significantly better paid than his dream job (which must be high given it is a graduate job that is 'better' than the management position he had) and she pays 90% of EXPENSES? What kind of expenses do they have? gold plated toilet paper?
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 10:33 AM
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I see plenty. I am in the UK though, the ecosystem here may be different as i think gym culture is not that prevalent.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/16 10:18 AM
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How does a man 'follow feminism'?. I can respect the principles in equality. but I generally cannot get along with actual feminists, as to them 'equal' often means only the things they want to be equal :)
/r/TheRedPill03/12/16 03:44 AM
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I do not lift. Never have. Most of your post mirrors my own belief. It works. Fantastic post. Lifting IMO helps but is not necessary, the process many men seem to go through is more psychological and confidence building alongside the lifting and that has the bigger impact than the physical appearance IMO.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/16 04:46 AM
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If he gets a boner just from eye contact, he might be better off thinking about something very different.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 03:11 AM
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Imo, the "fight". It sounds like you got dragged into her game. I cannot imagine what the fight was about but the term fight implies you responded to her drama with drama.
/r/askTRP02/12/16 02:57 AM
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I will probably get down voted to hell, but I will play devils advocate. I think lifting is overrated. Confidence is the single most important thing in attraction for women. I won't deny that lifting can help especially for some as a means to actually build confidence. But I think its importance is overstated often. There are many things a woman is attracted to and focusing so much on one thing may limit you
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 03:54 AM
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Depends on what you enjoy doing. I would only pick software eng meet, or board games out of that list but that is just the things i enjoy doing. You imply your objective is to find friends, common interest is the best way to start i find. Also why are they the only things? Surely there are bars or other online student meetups.
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:26 AM
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Actually the bullying behaviour does not sound remotely alpha, the need to insult and belittle others is a sign of insecurity and confidence problems. My suggestion would be not to respond in the same way that he is treating you. Be the bigger man. Make him the fool by not rising to his baiting. If he does not make himself look foolish too easily, be subtle. I would tend to respond with jokes, ask him if he is flirting, or just be overnice. Insecure men often have issues with homosexuality, so j…
/r/askTRP13/11/16 01:17 AM
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Probably means more foreplay was needed, or she could be young/scared. Always overdo the foreplay, you should be the one telling her to wait and slapping her hands away. Tease tease tease, thats the key. Apologies if this is already obvious. No age/experience is mentioned.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:06 AM
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In online dating its just a numbers game, many just are flaky or even just after free meals, or attention. Dont invest into any much, just carry on getting numbers and setting up dates, if flaky... delete, less time wasted the better.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:01 AM
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Well stating she is fat would get you into a fight that just is not worth it. You could do as some others suggest go to the gym later in the evening. Take her to places where other attractive women are that may make her jealous. Or just go to the gym less, say it gets a bit boring without someone to partner with. (Excuse my ignorance of gyms but that is one of the aspects of trp i do not follow)
/r/askTRP12/11/16 02:57 AM
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Your first step should be getting some anti depressants from a GP. Then reading self-help type material on confidence boosting. Perhaps writting a list every morning of 5 things that make you a great human being. When you look around at other people, remember none of them are better than you. Confidence is vital. That is your first goal.
/r/askTRP11/11/16 03:50 AM
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I am only going by the quotes, but "debate" implies presenting opposing views equally rather than suppresing/brainwashing. I would be up for that debate, if it was near where i lived :)
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 01:56 AM
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I actually partly agree with you, i also agree with equal rights for all :) However i do believe that working towards even the smallest changes can take a lot of work and require passion. For most people it is easier to drive that passion when it is something that relates to them personally. It does irk me sometimes though when people demonise another group in attempts to raise awareness of an issue, but sometimes to get an issue raised it does need dramatisation in this era sadly.
/r/MensRights12/09/16 11:53 PM
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Actually what i meant was that legalising this would make the women safer compared to how they are currently. Right now their position can be tantamount to slavery. With legality their profession would have rights under law and their employer (or pimp) would have to provide contracts of employment, and a governing body that would check that the business is following those laws. Also taxes... More for the government :) So they can be happy too.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 01:41 PM
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I will preface this by saying i am actually in favour of equal rights for both genders and i do not believe they need to be cross-purpose. I actually do find the law in this article to be quite poor. Mainly because it is simply unnecessary. Women disclosing all sexual partners carries more social stigma than a man doing the same, but at the same time... It is obviously wrong to have a child and have the wrong man paying for it. My answer would simply have any legal question of paternity 'require…
/r/MensRights03/09/16 01:33 PM
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You are correct, there would be many who would have issue with it, and that may well be a common reason, there would also be religious reasons also to consider. My issue is with the safety of the women mainly, and if men who 'only want sex' are going to pay for prostitutes instead of dating a women who may potentially want more, then i think it would be beneficial to both parties.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 01:03 PM
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Ah, so countering thier games is maybe more apt. That would also mirror my own thought. I actually do not believe women have the power when it comes to sexual marketplace as you call it however. Due to societal constraints the women will not want to be seen as a slut and thus you are choosing which woman you want. They have to wait for you. They will have to accept you of course but that is in your power too (excluding a woman being unavailable for an obvious reason, but you can tell that before…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:16 AM
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Ok, this sounds like your approach is to beat a Woman at their own games. Would that be accurate? I am not saying that is wrong by the way, it is a valid strategy and should work provided you have confidence and put in the time to practice. I am essentially a visitor to this subreddit (i visit many, mainly out of curiosity) and i agree with a lot of the principles of the red pill, (mainly the psychology aspect of men being emasculated right from school)
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 12:29 AM
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Without being able to see the chat log, i cannot comment on whether your eviction from the group was just or not. I do not see a big problem if a woman wants to join a mens rights group if she believes in that cause. The problem is most groups that claim to support the rights of a group of individuals, usually just devolve into hate groups and achieve nothing at all.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:36 PM
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Odd, on one hand you state porn is for losers who cannot get sex. On the other hand you claim women can get sex easily, implying it is easier than it is for men? That would mean the power is in the hands of the women right? Is that not against the philosophy of this subreddit?
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 11:15 PM
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Some might, but really it would be a pro feminist act. If prostitutes had a legal standing, a place of business, a contract of employment and a union to make sure the women were not being treated unfairly or doing anything against their will... Illegal sex trade would loose business, sex trafficking would be dramatically reduced. The women would have the control and the choice, the exploitation would be lessened
/r/TheRedPill02/09/16 10:52 PM
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Quite a shocking post, and really that is actually counter to most feminist views also. True feminists seek equality, not dominance of either gender. Sadly there are many who are very extreme in their views to the point that they do not even realise they are no longer actually a feminist. (at this point they are simply man haters) The article itself has a lot of dumb in it, it must be said. Men and Women BOTH having birth control options is equality, it is what feminists have wanted. Would you t…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:49 PM
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I wholeheartedly agree with this, I have always gone by these principles too. I used to actually think i was a sociopath, but i used to just purposely go with an opposing point of view to play devils advocate just to get people thinking, especially people prone to black and white thinking (i still do that actually). I speak my mind on any topic, and i am not going to conform to common belief on anything just because it is the normal socially acceptable thing. That said, to touch on something /u/…
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 10:35 PM
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This could be a matter of confidence perhaps? Even if you are confident in work/life etc, is your confidence maintained when meeting women? Confidence trumps all else in my experience, you can be a 6'6" attractive bodybuilder/model, but if you open your mouth and seem unsure of yourself... You fail. By contrast a shorter average looking guy who walks like he owns himself and talks with confidence... Wins. Confidence really is the most important thing, don't get me wrong, height, looks, muscles, …
/r/TheRedPill01/09/16 06:15 PM
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