AintNoOneThing Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Should I save it? I just came out the other end of making the same decision you are making, and it was a mistake for me. What is "best" is what is true and honest, IMO. There will likely be increasing damage to yourself and those around you as you try to hold the illusion together under increasing pressure. Generating a tense and toxic environment does no good for anyone regardless of a noble intent to provide the appearance of stability. The reality will bleed through and do great harm to all involved. Including…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/18 07:46 PM
1	Should I save it? You have already decided, and are asking us to help you feel better about it or help you try to make more sense of it. You are going to feel like crap even if it is the best move for you. Its unlikely that you will feel 'settled' about the choice anytime in the immediate future - but that does not mean it is wrong. You can be a good father without being married. Many men do it.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/07/18 11:33 PM