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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Was there ever love?After all the pain you went through with your wife, her comment on how she was tight on money, without (enough) of yours gave me a little chuckle. This is when you must feel you are coming out the other end! | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/06/26 12:57 AM |
| 1 | This is just brutal, getting divorced in a few weeks.What you won't discuss is what you really have to solve. All this other stuff 'she's so nice' stuff is just wailing into the wind. You're focusing on what doesn't matter if you want to move forward, fix the real stuff not whether she is calling you every day. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Advice on holidays / birthdaysTime to start defining your limits. You should really start with no visits to the house for her and completely shut off yourself from any ‘her’ centered events: bday, Mother’s Day, etc. Your kids are adults except for the youngest - they should decide their participation, not you. Only engagement I would have with her is dropping off youngest off if he chooses to attend. Right now she is getting her choice of interactions with someone she betrayed with prejudice! I wouldn’t be part of her life i… | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Enforcing BoundariesGot it, yeah, you're on the ground, I'm not. So you're saying your kids know that you could see all of your wife's communication up to the moment she disconnected icloud just before she left? This is just such a solid foundation for them never doubting your choices about the relationship and that would provide next level clarity for them about who their mother is as well. Personally, I could not be in the same zip code with someone who continued to share lies about the depth of her treachery to … | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/25 01:27 AM |
| 2 | Enforcing BoundariesYeah, do what you need to with your circle and kids. What I'm referring you mentioned in the '18 days and she's out' post and in several of your comments were you had cloud access and essentially 'God mode' on being able to see her communication until she disconnected when she moved out. That said I've seen you comment a few times that you never shared that info with her and corrected her version of events when she was revising history. You're separated, virtually certain to divorce, you know ev… | /r/Divorce_Men | 31/05/25 12:59 AM |
| 3 | Enforcing BoundariesI still can’t believe you haven’t confronted her on all you know. Why would you allow that lie to go unchallenged especially since you still let her come around. Why let anyone in your circle believe that her ‘truth’ is the truth? You have near independent adults in your house they should know very clearly, their mom’s story is not true. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/05/25 02:35 PM |
| 5 | She is officially outBreathe, enjoy the moment and then launch! Kind of weird to think of it in this context but this is your DAY 1. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/04/25 09:24 PM |
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