Aitor2016 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I fucked up probably. Have a laugh, read what I done... You could’ve had a chance to save it when she asked if you were joking. That was not a great time to double down, unless you do it in a joking fashion. Like the other guy said, just be normal. No need to put her up on a pedestal.	/r/seduction	11/01/19 11:36 PM
3	Date tomorrow at a coffee shop - sit next to or across from girl? Unless you’ve gone out with this girl before, I would definitely sit across. I save sitting next to a girl for when she’s actually my girlfriend.	/r/seduction	11/01/19 11:32 PM
87	When To Go For A Kiss: a method to always time it right You guys are way overcomplicating this and will only cause guys on here to overthink and choke. Seriously, there will never be a perfect time to go for it, so just do it. Not saying this subreddit isn’t helpful to those with no experience, but my best results have come when I just let go of all the little mind games that seem to come up on here and live in the moment.	/r/seduction	30/12/18 05:30 AM
1	Why game doesn't work. On the part about only picking out women who already show attraction towards you.. This is would be great advice in a perfect world where girls made their intentions as obvious as we did. Some of my best pulls at bars and clubs have come from going up to girls who I was almost sure I was going to get blown out by. In particular one that said “I saw you when you came in and thought you were really cute”, but before I approached I was 99% sure she hadn’t even noticed me. You might say “well that’s…	/r/seduction	22/02/18 09:23 PM
1	What should I say to this?! I would normally not want to pursue any further, but this just seems like a high level shit test. The girl is a smoke and this is tinder, so I obviously just want to f-close.	/r/seduction	18/02/18 06:09 PM
4	My sticking point is "hooking" - I can open, but a minute or so in the interaction I feel that the girls don't have any interest in continuing the interaction. Can you help me hook better? What are you doing to spike their emotions? Remember, most of the time it’s how you say things, how you engage them. If a conversation goes something like you asking all the questions and her just giving you a response to that, the interaction is going to end soon. Expand on one of the topics you’re asking about. Talk about how it makes you feel. Begin to convey emotion rather than just logic. Girls are very emotionally driven so that in turn should engage her more.	/r/seduction	16/02/18 07:26 PM
5	My first approach Girls have a keen ability to detect bullshit. If you aren’t actually a “bad boy alpha” you’re just going the end up alienating.	/r/seduction	10/02/18 09:24 PM
2	What’s your go to bumble opener? And what’s your overall bumble game look like? I do both, go out to bars to meet girls, and have a tinder profile. I live in a relatively small city, so anybody who’s anybody will go to the same 3 or 4 bars/clubs. Having tinder has helped me in that if I match with someone, then see her at the bar that weekend, it becomes an easy opener instead of just a cold approach. Might be harder for an older guy though.	/r/seduction	09/02/18 07:19 PM
5	Finally managed to tell a random girl I thought she looked great and now I feel like shit You’re shooting your shot and that’s what matters most. I can’t tell you how many girls I’d talk to when I was younger that ended up saying “I could tell you were nervous and I thought it was cute” when first approaching them. Keep putting yourself out there and the nervousness and awkwardness will go away.	/r/seduction	07/02/18 07:31 PM
1	I want to hookup with my roommate. As others have said, this could be a sign that she only sees you as a friend. But doesn’t hurt to give her flirty compliments and see where they go. When she was showing you her nudes, a simple “holy shit you’re hot” could be used to see how she reacts. Depending on her reaction is how you need to proceed. But seriously, your living every straight guy’s dream to have a hot roommate that’s not your gf. Good for you man.	/r/seduction	07/02/18 07:25 PM
1	Would be cold approach work for a girl? I’ve been approached by good looking girls at bars before. One instance was this girl dancing with her friends and she basically just came up to where my buddies and I were sitting, pointed at the spot between me and my buddy, and sat down in between us. She looks at me and starts playfully using kino and after a quick conversation said she was going to another club. Looking back, I should’ve gone with her but they were going to a gay club and I wouldn’t have felt comfortable. Another time at th…	/r/seduction	01/02/18 07:01 PM
4	Does anyone else watch an RSD video and feel like they spent 20 minutes on someone rambling about some random shit and feel like they learned nothing? I have found Madison does this the most. Once he starts trying to make a joke, he’ll really cling on to it for as much as he can. I like Max though, doesn’t ramble as much and has quality content. I tend to watch their infield videos right before I go out, helps me calibrate and helps with openers.	/r/seduction	29/01/18 07:05 PM
1	How do I merge my online dating persona with my real persona? As RSD Owen says, calibrate calibrate calibrate. Do a “heat check”, in the sense of saying something that puts your intentions out there. If it comes off too strong, calibrate it back down. It all depends on what the girl is comfortable with and you’ll never find that out if you don’t take shots downfield. Like the other user stated above, stop guarding your ego so much. If the girl gets scared away by something you say, chances are it wasn’t going to work out anyway.	/r/seduction	26/01/18 09:54 PM
2	Should I surprise her or nah? Have you talked to her at all period? Since she works with you it should be easy just to make small talk. Her being from France is obviously a big part of her identity so she’d probably bring it up fairly quickly. You can then built rapport around this. I wouldn’t just start speaking to her in French out of no where. She will know you’ve probably cyber stalked her one way or another and will come off as creepy. Also, aim to be the guy that talks to everyone. You will gain momentum and become mor…	/r/seduction	26/01/18 07:23 PM