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Aiyon/r/MensRights13/07/14 03:32 AM
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You give them money: "sorry, no likes here." Someone posted about how they had tinder gold and were getting no likes. within 5 minutes of it running out, they got a "you have likes" notification
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:20 PM
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A thing I have noticed more and more as time passes, is that a lot of men especially in TRP spaces, view sex as something men do to women, not with. So it's not a double standard in their eyes to judge a woman for doing things with other guys, that he also wants to do. To them, she's not choosing to do those things with those guys: She's "Letting" them do those things to her. It's a perspective rooted in ownership, not connection. It's why you see comparisons to inanimate objects (lock & key) or…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/25 02:17 PM
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Look, he's not saying that cheating is something women are inherently predisposed to! That's why he keeps digging his heels in and shifting away from the question when asked to confirm he doesn't think women are inherently predisposed to cheating. It's also very funny because... "shitty people rape people" is uh, the case? Men who rape women aren't doing it because they're men, it's because they're rapists. the vast majority of rapists being men is something that we should be examining as a soci…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:37 PM
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No, what you said was women will monkey branch to more desirable men And they responded by pointing out that no, shitty people monkey branch regardless of gender. The fact you didn't say the exact works "female only" doesn't mean that the way you word your arguments doesn't carry subtext. You're in a debate sub, you cannot be surprised when people contest your method of making argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 09:12 PM
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Fear of your partner cheating on you if she's successful is still fear of her being successful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:37 PM
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You could argue that men would do it just as much it not more than women would it they had equal opportunity. Which would make it a human trait, not a "woman" one. Which was their point...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 08:36 PM
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Difference is men don't deny shitty men exist uhh... yes. plenty of men do. regularly. It's almost like "being shitty" and "covering for shitty people" isn't a gendered trait. It's just a human one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:58 PM
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Because that's not the same thing at all. Women who don't have any women in their friend group is a potential red flag because they've managed to make every woman they know cut them off as a friend or keep distance. Whereas when guys say "I don't want to date a woman with male friends" what they usually mean is "because i don't trust her not to fuck them" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:56 PM
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It is, but by and large being gay and effeminate wouldn't be a problem if women didn't "punish" men for it. I mean, I don't think I agree with this take. The bulk of the abuse and harassment guys got for being effeminate back in the 2000s when I was in school, was from other guys. It was present even in all-boys schools. Perceived homosexuality is a cultural stigma, not a gender specific one. We've always just kinda put people who are "different" down. It's all a product of the endless feed of r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:53 PM
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Also a lot of the time the bio is “if you wanna know about me, message” And I get it, but also in the moment I don’t have anything to tell me you’re worth the effort of learning about. That’s what the bio is for
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 01:38 AM
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This just in, all women die by 50. More at ten
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 08:51 PM
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well what should count as expressed sexuality? openly talking about who you want to shag, or going out on the pull and getting props from your mates for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 04:39 PM
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There are countries where women literally cover their entire bodies because they're told that if they don't, it's their fault when they get assaulted. When the bar for women "expressing their sexuality" is "visible skin", its hardly surprising a lot of women meet it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:49 PM
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it’s just that women can control it better either due to fear There definitely is a factor of how society literally pushes the whole "as a guy you don't have value unless you're sleeping around" and "as a woman you lose value if you're sleeping around" ideas. Because people grow up hearing that and internalise it. It's also rough because they're actively contradictory for straight people. Guy have to want sex. But too much and they're creepy, fuckboys etc. not enough and they're passive losers, …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:46 PM
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You're literally demonstrating their point here lol, that people's attraction varies. That "6/10" is a 9/10 to someone else, and a 3/10 to another
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:43 PM
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Why would you be nice to someone who is mean to you lol Not fucking you isn't "mean" though. If you're being "nice" to try and get in someone's pants, and then call her a slut or a bitch when she rejects you, you were only ever nice on the condition it led to sex (to be clear the "you" here is general. not you)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:42 PM
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I have a group of close friends, that I adore all of. But dear god, I would not date any of them, for varying reasons. One of them is a walking "um, actually-", and I like making stupid jokes that die if you analyse them. I would strangle him to death within a month lmao One of them is gorgeous, but the most emotionally unavailable person I've ever met lmao. Great fun to hang out with when we do, but a pain to make those plans with, and would be infuriating to try and co-ordinate with all the ti…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/24 03:41 PM
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I think this is part of their issue tbh. A lot of posts I see here, have really distorted ideas about how life is for the opposite sex. And so their entire logic is based on that lack of understanding
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:54 PM
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This is actually something that took a lot of getting used to for me. I'm not ugly, but im not notably good looking or anything like that. So I kept struggling to reconcile how friends and people I knew would tell me I looked good or compliment me and my outfits/hair/etc., with how invisible I was to people, especially romantically. And it came down to that while I may not have been unattractive, I was never the most attractive person in the room, and so if someone's eyes were wondering it was v…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 12:49 PM
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I'm kinda impressed. You found a way to make "yes" a 118 word answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:36 AM
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"With consent > without" is a pretty consistent rule yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/24 11:07 AM
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True! And then use the fact that the men she's dating treat her badly as proof women want "chads" who will treat them like shit, and that's why they can't get laid It's like a misogyny onion
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:46 AM
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That’s great. I didn’t say “you”. I said a lot of men. There’s a reason “she’s a slut” is such a common putdown directed at women, whether true or not. The idea that she’s easy, is pretty universally acknowledged as a derogatory thing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 10:35 PM
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You think men "slut shame?" Yes. Repeatedly, openly, and very often publicly "Women also do this", id have given you. "Men don't"? fuck off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:35 PM
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Because a lot of RP men call women easy if they're openly interested in sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 05:32 PM
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institution of family is nearly destroyed, and women almost stopped having children. Is this because women have more rights? Or is it because wealth and resources have been siphoned into an ever smaller group of elites, and people can't afford to settle down and have families?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/24 02:20 PM
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Oh yeah that part also cracks me up. the whole reason i found this sub was the "Marriage material vs hookup material" thing, and the amount of guys who seemed to think that if a woman wants to marry you, she no longer wants to have sex baffled me, because she was talking To her boyfriend. who she has sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 04:52 PM
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Not really. You're trying to make a statement about 100s of millions of people, based on a sample size of 7 The OP showed us 7 good results. They didn't show us how many that was out of. They said that they didn't encounter anything, but I could just as easily grab my 4 worst convos on bumble and ignore the 2 decent ones that happened during the same period, and say "see, it's awful"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 02:51 PM
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He sees marriage as a transaction that guys lose on, because like a number of rp guys here he fixated on the traditional dynamic where the man financially supports the family, ignoring not only how that isn’t really a thing any more, but also how the woman did plenty of work on her end of things,m
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 11:01 AM
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So just to be clear: you got off on making women do sexual things they didn’t like or enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:44 AM
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I mean I’d be okay with a six but that’s cause my self image sucks and I think I’m like a 3-4 lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:42 AM
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82% of women partake in casual sex and the majority do it it again. Let’s say this is true. what % of guys do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:39 AM
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What’s funny to me is I see the “hoe phase” stuff being described as something people do from like 18-29, then they hit “the wall” and start wanting to settle down and make a guy provide for them But like… I spent 18-22 in a committed relationship, 23-26 trying to find that again when it didn’t work out, and only really started sleeping around (infrequently) as i approached 30, because I was more confident in myself and who I was, but also because I’m no longer rly looking for a long term relati…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:38 AM
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Nuance, almost as difficult a task as not telling women their lived experiences are incorrect. I see it now, nobody has ever successfully gotten laid by hiding their shitty aspects. Thank you, idk what I’d do without big strong men like you to correct my foolish womanly imaginings
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:30 AM
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People who aren’t able to transition dying, says something about people regretting transitioning? You really gotta think about your arguments more
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 10:21 AM
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I mean trans ppl do complain about the shitshow that is dating while trans. They just mostly do it to other trans ppl who will get it It’s uniquely weird, trying to navigate the safe area between “will call you slurs / attack you if you tell them”, and “will fetishise you”, because if you say up front, some people swipe specifically to harass you / to fulfill a fetish they have. But if you don’t, some people freak the fuck out when you tell them because you “lied”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:13 AM
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Oh you mean “doesn’t work well as a response”, what with it not rly being the point of the question / being such an outlier scenario? That’s so fair, my b for misunderstanding :) Ty for the chill clarification, much preferred to the edgy lil fella below lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 01:06 AM
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You seem like a pleasant person. What's the joke here, that its funny because a group of people that is harassed and targeted constantly for existing, has a high suicide rate? Interesting how people who bring up the 40% thing never talk about how it drops off massively for people in supportive communities, or with access to treatment, etc. It's also about lifetime attempts, not how many people actually do it. So yeah, incredibly weird to try and use people's deaths as a gotcha to an argument it …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:56 AM
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The regret rate is somewhere betweeen 0.1 and 0.5%, not accounting for people who regret it due to outside factors like harassment/abuse etc. The regret rate for laser eye surgery is 10 times the regret rate for gender affirming care of any kind. People are 17 times more likely to regret having children The guy in that video is sad about how he's treated as a guy, but not because he transitioned. It's not transition he regrets, its the mistreatment. sources on the regret rate being <1%: #1 #2
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/24 12:17 AM
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Yeah, a fairly attractive woman got 7 matches in a couple hours by swiping on everyone" isn't the cutting takedown people think "I found 7 men who don't suck, therefore women never have to deal with shitheads"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:02 PM
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So like... I don't have the energy to respond to this in the way it deserves, but I wanted to say thank you. This ended up being an oddly nice conversation. I don't ever really expect that on reddit, let alone this sub with its constant weird hostility. I think one of the sad parts about being an adult, is losing that chill time where you'd just talk about life with people, it's always "what happened since i last saw you", and then you have to go before you talk about anything beyond the last 2 …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:30 PM
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And yet all of the comments I make to this effect get downvoted by guys who have no counterargument but also hate the idea of accepting women don't have perfect cushy lives, because it makes it harder to blame their struggles on us lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:24 PM
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Ahhh, im sorry, that's actually one of the reasons im so hesitant to move out of the city I live in. My social life isn't amazing but starting over would be worse. I will say, there's nothing wrong with going to events solo, even if i fully get the anxiety. I stopped giving a shit about if i seem weird or awkward at some point and that made it a lot easier for me x) I'm 29, definitely feeling the "aging out of clubs" thing. I want to chill and play boardgames. It was one thing when it was £20 fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:23 PM
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Point me to where I said "men shouldn't enjoy sex". I'm literally talking about something that causes sex to be less pleasurable for you. You're right, overusing a vibrator can also be bad for you for similar reasons. Nowhere did I say it wasn't, you just jumped to assuming I'm a hypocrite. men need to perform a sufficient dick and make her feel good etc. It's so weird that "sex should feel good for both parties" is asking too much in your eyes lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 06:15 PM
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Yeahhh. It's definitely a factor. If i'm chatting to someone and they go "Oh yeah, I'm super into Factorio and Cities Skylines", my first thought isn't misogyny. (it's autism, ba dum tiss) Whereas if a guy is like "Oh yeah i played that hogwarts legacy game, and im super into stellar blade", im just waiting for the words "woke mob" to leave his mouth
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:17 PM
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If you finish work at 5pm, and you have no commute (WFH being a thing now), assuming 1h for dinner, shower, teteh, etc. and that's speedrunning those things... that means staying up till 2am. But also, "No friends" sounds like gaming is coming at the expense of your life outside of it. And I don't mean that to say "no friends? skill issue". I know how rough the loneliness epidemic is and im sorry youre in that situation. But 8h at home gaming isnt putting you in situations to change it, ya know?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 03:14 PM
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There are people that consider 1h a night as excessive gaming. And that goes for people who haven't neglected any responsibilities and have done anything and everything that needs to be done. There are fringe people who think anything other than being completely teetotal is "excessive drinking", but if i said i left my ex because he "drank excessively" you're going to understand I probably mean "getting day drunk regularly". When people say "excessive gaming" they mean "when you do it so much it…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 01:43 PM
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and made entire conspiracy out of it. You claimed that someone saying "men in gaming spaces constantly being misogynistic, makes women think gamers are likely to be misogynistic" was a conspiracy. And brought up the whole "It's just trash talk thing" as though bigoted trash talk isnt still bigotry lol The issue of misogynistic abuse is specific to women, yes. People don't tend to be misogynistic to men. Because that's how words work. The question was why don't women seem to want to date gamers. …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:55 PM
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Plenty of women engage in trash talk too. We're talking about guys specifically being weird and misogynistic There are guys who will start being gross and horny, or trash talking, the second a woman starts talking. There's plenty of examples of it lmao Plenty of them Trash talk is one thing, but plenty of people actively target women for being women. Everyone knows this is a thing, its weird to try and claim it isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:43 PM
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There's a subreddit specifically for women who game, and there's regularly posts by women about guys being shitty to them in gaming spaces. And even then, guys semi-regularly show up in that sub to try and dismiss women's complaints or to talk over us.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:35 PM
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"Based on 0 evidence, your partner ignoring you is somehow probably your fault" Any reason for that assumption other than "women (tea emoji")?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:34 PM
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Neglecting your responsibilities to game, blowing off quality time or plans with you, etc It's like gaming. But ya know... excessive. Quite a simple concept really
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:33 PM
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Right? There's a bunch of chains in this sub that devolve into "women don't have hobbies, all they do is scroll social media and be vapid" this is why they can't get a GF, not the gaming. It's the rancid vibes coming off their attitude lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:28 PM
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I don't consider gaming a turn off. But if someone tells me they're a gamer, its a mild red flag nowadays because of how openly misogynistic and hostile a lot of guys in gaming spaces can be. But even then, it's not the gaming that's unappealing, id love a partner i can drag into my MMO bullshit. (Babe its 3am on a Tuesday, time for raids >:3) It's the misogyny. And unfortunately I've had too many women tell me horror stories of guys they bonded over gaming with, who seemed good at first, but th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:27 PM
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I mean it does, and it's reversible (by doing it less). It's primarily psychosomatic but like, enough guys have talked about having issues as a result of jerking off too tightly, too often, that its not "a myth"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:24 PM
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It's all good, tone is hard in text, and this sub really does feel like its designed to just get people arguing about the most inane gender stereotypes
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 12:22 PM
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No, the issue isn't men masturbating frequently. Death Grip isn't about frequency. It's about how guys often use too much grip when jerking off, and numb their ability to get off without that level of grip/tightness, making sex less pleasurable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:15 AM
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I was about to say yeah, Death Grip. Which then means that they can't get off from sex because it's not tight enough
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 10:14 AM
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I've met very few women who dislike games. What I've met, is women who dislike men who game because of how men treat them when they're playing games. I mean, it's pretty infamous at this point how toxic online games are for women. If you have a feminine name, or dare to speak on mic, you risk being hurled abuse or weird sexual comments Countless women have stories of guys in gaming spaces only hanging out with them to try and get laid, and getting really mean or rude when they realise she's not …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:58 AM
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I think if I can't trust my partner to hang out with their friends without cheating on me, then I don't want to be in a relationship with them. Exes, I'd be alright with because they're over, ya know? They broke up. But ex-FWBs I think is different. There's no feelings to need to rekindle, just attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:40 AM
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When I say it's funny, I don't mean it's bad. I think it's kinda cute. It's just amusing because we've been so conditioned as a society to, when someone at the bar suggests a drink, assume they mean they'll get you one. So someone subverting that by just getting their own drink, is funny to me
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 09:33 AM
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It just feels like he's trying to manufacture love rather than find it organically If he spends enough money, or hires the right people, it'll get him a girl to fill the void in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:05 PM
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I'm trying to engage with this thread seriously, but i can't stop cracking up at the idea of going up to someone at the bar and being like "Hey. First time?" "Yeah" "The purple rain is really good, I recommend it" "...thanks?" "No problem buys self a beer so you come here often?"
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 07:03 PM
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My experience of “Lower your standards” has been “just pity fuck the guy who calls you a slut for not wanting to ride his dick”, ngl
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:17 PM
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Guys get shit for not having sex. Women get shit for having it. nobody ends up happy because they’re mutually incompatible goals unless you’re gay/bi lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:16 PM
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Once again I find myself baffled that men come in her and go "women are irrational idiots with no self respect who exclusively date rich, attractive, abusive criminals" And like... I'm starting to see why y'all can't get laid. At least the "bad boys" and "chads" they hate so much have the braincells to pretend they don't hate women long enough to get somewhere lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:50 PM
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I just really like the "(Therefore feminism bad)" bits in their excerpt. It has the vibe of a 4th wall break, like a misogynist Deadpool. It completely ignores the third, much simpler and logical explanation: A lot of shitty guys don't reveal that they're shitty till you're already dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:45 PM
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"If you don't want to fuck an abuser, you're not normal" uhhh, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 05:40 PM
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So they just made it more cringe?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:04 PM
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A lot of guys very much seem to operate on the idea that they are "owed" a relationship, or at the very least sex. Because it's always framed as something women are denying them, not as something they haven't managed to attain
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:03 PM
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Hasn't worked yet. I've been single since pre-COVID, the pandemic really exacerbated my anxiety and massively set me back. Getting better but still not fully back to how I was I went on a date a couple months back though. We realised we didn't have that spark, but it was a nice time. If I'd given up, even that much wouldnt have happened
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 01:11 PM
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I mean “makes dating apps less viable” is not the same as “disqualifies” you. People dated before tinder. They went outside to meet people
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:29 AM
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Women: “I am a woman, and I don’t feel like this” PPD Guys: “you are incorrect, women are a monolith” Yes yes I know, one anecdote is not proof of anything. But it does refute the claim of “all”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:27 AM
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Yes. That’s why they said most, not all. Also, plenty of bad people hide their awful side till after they’ve got you jn a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 10:26 AM
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If you don’t rape your wife, you’re a hero 🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:58 AM
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that particular guy has a lot of self esteem issues (and from our interactions it sounds like life has given him reason to, so I can only fault him so much, shit sucks sometimes), so his perception of stuff is that only rich attractive guys get laid No amount of engagement seems to shift that, but good luck
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:57 AM
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It’s also missing the point. Rather than addressing the root issue (your partner isn’t aroused) by say, taking steps to fix that (engaging with what turns her on to get her in the mood), just tell her to let you stick your cock down her throat. The lack of erogenous zones in the throat heightens the experience for her That’ll really improve your love life, joyless head from someone who isn’t in the mood for sex. Edit: I just realised this guy is literally asking for the Breaking Bad handjob
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:51 AM
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No but you don’t understand. I came clothes shopping with you. So if you don’t hop on my dick you’re a bad partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:46 AM
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It’s so fascinating seeing guys simultaneously justify behaving in ways that make sex with them sound incredibly unappealing, then complain that women have no interest in sex
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 08:45 AM
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Yup. Guys here claim that women as a whole want these things. So a single anecdote counters that. Whereas individual examples of women doing x, doesnt mean no women dont do it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:45 PM
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It's almost like *women aren't a monolith. And the women who say they dont like those traits, aren't the ones dating those guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 08:14 PM
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It's crystal clear what women are into. Is it? Because women keep commenting on here saying that's not appealing to them and being told they're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:20 PM
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Not well? Good to know
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 01:07 PM
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It’s almost like people aren’t monoliths and generalisations are stupid regardless of your gender
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 11:27 AM
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Agreed on the last part. But I stand by "if you don't want to pay for a sex worker's baby, wear the damn condom" for the rest :P Abortion costs are irrelevant if you don't get her pregnant in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:51 PM
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but we are very charitable towards women A lot of women would disagree. I think we're just more conscious of the shit that comes our way than what the other half of the population deals with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:50 PM
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I actually said "you should consider the context and behave appropriately" For example, if it's the cute barista at starbucks, don't ask her out while she's stuck behind the counter, because she has no way out of the situation if she isn't comfortable, since she's stuck at work for however much longer
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:28 PM
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Sneak into the staff area under splash mountain to bone down? Sex tourism
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:03 PM
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Also, a lot of those women work for someone. They get less than half the money they make, in exchange for the "protection" that comes from working for them. (read: if someone tries to avoid paying, or does something to make you less valuable and tarnish their income, not actually protecting you) We've hit advanced redpill in this sub lately. I know the infamous "rape is fine actually" post was 8 years ago, but "It's okay to intentionally get sex workers pregnant and let them worry about terminat…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:03 PM
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6 figures is minimum This just isn't true. The vast majority of people don't earn 6 figures, and yet plenty of people who aren't traditionally attractive have girlfriends. You've decided that you're not going to succeed, and are using that as an excuse to not try. As long as you blame 100% of your difficulty dating on women, you're saying that 0% of it is in your power to change
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 07:00 PM
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TBF I think where I'm struggling here is, I must have missed the council meeting when we decided to, as a monolith, ban men from approaching us. Women don't all think the same. Some are fine with being approached, others aren't. So if you don't know someone, the safer option is to leave it be. But respecting that a lot of women don't want to be randomly approached, isn't "handing your balls on a platter"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:51 PM
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the ick? betabuxx? At some point you're talking in code I promise you, though, your doomer attitude is doing you more harm than your looks. 45k is not poor, it's working class, something most people our age are. in a society where woman dont even tolerate single ick from a man I thought you said that women will overlook anything if a guy has money or is attractive increases the longer a female observe and learns about my behaviour If you want actual advice Get off the incel subs. Stop calling wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:35 PM
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Apparently he "listened to females and became genuinely decent person" lmao The use of "females" makes me doubtful
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:16 PM
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A woman getting an abortion is contingent on her having access to an abortion. That costs money, which a lot of sex workers don't have to spare, that's why they're doing sex work. "I don't want a child" is a perfectly valid reason for an abortion. But we're not talking about that. We're talking about you consciously choosing to do something that could get someone pregnant. If you actively choose not to do something that would have prevented a pregnancy, and then a pregnancy happens... sorry budd…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:15 PM
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I mean, I have no idea what you look like so I can't comment either way on your appearance. But your personality isn't exactly blowing me away so far lmao See what I said above about weirdly derogatory attitudes being offputting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:12 PM
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would imply someone doing something against them Such as say, choosing to go without a condom when you know you could knock her up, then trying to dodge out of supporting the kid if you get her pregnant?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:06 PM
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If you don't want the consequences of knocking someone up, take steps to knock her up If you don't want to use a condom and she gets pregnant, that's called fucking around and finding out.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:04 PM
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It's not reading comprehension. I'm fully aware that you're saying women collectively. And I'm saying assuming that 50% of the population don't mean what they say is going to lead to more negative results than positive. If you approach a woman and she shoots you down, take the no. If she was playing games, that's her loss. If she wasn't, you don't come off like a creeper Why would you want a partner who can't communicate in such a basic way
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 06:03 PM
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My main aversion to it is literally just that there's a bunch of prep involved. I'm ace so i'm not particularly actively interested in sex even if I enjoy it. So having to do homework first is... offputting lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:59 PM
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How's ignoring what women tell you and insisting you know better working out for ya bud? So curious
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:58 PM
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Dude is in a bunch of threads replying to women telling them "nuh-uh". I clicked his profile cause his reply to me had that vibe and im so un-shocked. A lot of guys on this sub seem less like they're looking to discuss or debate, and more like they just want someone to justify how they already feel about women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:58 PM
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"If a woman tells you she has boundaries, ignore them. This will make her into you"?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:57 PM
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I mean cold approaching is taken negatively from anyone if they're disrespectful :/ The mian thing I would say is to not be too... blunt with it? IDK the right word But like, if a guy comes up to me and says "Hey, you're hot, wanna go on a date some time" that's coming on a little strong for me (tho that might just be my anxiety) Whereas if a guy does your example and goes "Hey you're really cute and I like your vibe, would you want to go for a coffee some time?" im like "okay, i know he's inter…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:56 PM
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I swear, it goes down the same way every time on here Guy: Makes generalising statement about women Woman: contests that statement Guy: immediately becomes hostile Like, the way he talks about women is so telling he has no idea how many snakes have slithered in your tunnel ??? i know your kind ??? you sound like a far right nutjob to me. Most women are these days. I can't stop cracking up at this part. Ben Shapiro, advocate for sexual liberation. Most women I know skew left, because the right ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:50 PM
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...okay? You do realise this isn't a dunk, because what you're doing is drawing attention to how some guys can't even pull that off.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:47 PM
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I feel like dating apps have ruined people's perception of what dating is meant to be like. I reinstalled bumble recently, and so many guys have profiles that tell me nothing about them, if it says anything at all. So I have nothing to go off but how they look. Honestly, im sticking to trying to date in meatspace. It's slower, sure. But waaaay less exhausting
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:46 PM
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Here's the problem with your logic. You're asking people to prove a negative. Examples of people getting a partner, despite red flags, does not mean that nobody has been rejected for their personality. Your examples are also really weird. Hitler Serial Killers Hitler got to power by being charismatic. Serial killers, it's pretty common knowledge that they are weirdly charismatic and that's how they get their victims. I knew this guy. He was gorgeous. Like, easily a 9/10, maybe a 10 on a good day…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:44 PM
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Can I borrow some of that straw? My horse is getting hungry This weirdly derogatory attitude towards women is probably what's getting you rejected. I can't imagine wanting to go out with someone who thinks so little of me
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:36 PM
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...are you trying to meet women at parties? Cause if so then yes, you're gonna meet extroverts My idea of the perfect guy is someone i can be low energy and cosy with while we play/watch nerdy shit. Women aren't a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:32 PM
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No? The nice guy trope refers to a guy who is only nice to get with you, and then the minute he realises you're not interested, becomes hostile and aggro. The "fuck you, i was never into you anyway, bitch" types. "Nice Guys" are different from guys who are nice, in that the former has to keep telling you how nice he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:31 PM
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TBF "Hurt" is usually due to a lack of prep / being too tense. Which can be a lack of practice, or just not being in the right headspace to relax enough. But yeah, YMMV depending on the person, but there's definitely some level of pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:28 PM
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TBF, Men on PPD love to speak for women too, so at least it's consistent
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:27 PM
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Also, I think a big factor is that people are comparing piv to anal as like, "that act and nothing else" Anal for a woman can also mean a toy (vibe, dildo, etc) in the vagina, so it's basically a 2-for-1 deal at that point People who think there's nothing for women to get out of anal, are uncreative
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/24 05:26 PM
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If you always have an excuse for why every piece of advice won't work for you, then yeah, of course you're doomed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 05:10 PM
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I'm not saying everyone conforms to it, but there is that social pressure, is what I mean
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:19 PM
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It's not "nothing you do will make you more attractive, you'll be uglier at 30" it's that if you feel like you're unattractive in your 20s, waiting till you hit your 30s like that's gonna magically fix it, is a pipe dream. You have to make change to see change
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:16 PM
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The issue is that men are raised to feel like expressing empathy is weak, and women are raised to feel like its an obligation. So you end up with guys who want to open up and be supportive / ask for support, who can 't. And women who burn out on always being there for people and then throw it back in someone's face when they hit break point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:08 PM
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The idea that nobody wants to fuck nerdy guys, seems to be a byproduct of the idea that nerdy women don't exist. Whether that's in gaming spaces, media fandom, etc. you still see it a lot. Dedicated women's spaces for nerd hobbies regularly have people posting about guys excluding or patronising them, or outright being hostile. And that's the catch. Nerdy guys who don't make me feel like shit for existing in their nerdy spaces, are great. I have this one friend who will ramble at me about grand …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 01:05 PM
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And according to some men here, women are the source of everything bad in their lives. The fact that some men and women can't do nuance, doesn't refute the top level claim
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:57 PM
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...yes. It does. Because he was those things when she starting dating him. She left him for other reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:16 PM
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Women are cautious around men they don't know, because of the consequences of if that particular guy is one of said maniacs. That doesn't mean we think all men are predators, but we are aware that if the man we're alone with IS one and something happens, we will get run through the muck and accused of lying, blamed for how we must have done something to cause it, etc. It's not worth the risk a lot of the time. And when I'm walking home alone at night, I'd rather be cold to a guy who had good int…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 12:14 PM
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Oh you'll find some very interesting takes on relationships in this sub, for sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:59 PM
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Yes the modern dating scene is deeply horrible. Stop blaming the fellas who just have to survive in the mess ladies make. stop blaming men the mess ladies make
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:56 PM
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Sure, but then it comes back to people assuming the worst possible interpretation. Which suggests a wider issue with how they see women’s intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:54 PM
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I mean, she was the one who went on her dates, so I imagine she knows what happened.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:32 PM
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I don't even think its just that. If you're interesting, then talking about yourself can be interesting. I'm a huge TTRPG nerd and so if im on a date and he's gushing about a campaign he's running and how that's been going, im like "ooh yes tell me more" Whereas I do not remotely care about football, so if he's doing the exact same thing about a team he likes and getting to go to one of their games, how they've done in the league this year, etc. Then I'm waiting for the bill so I can go home I g…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:32 PM
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Pretty much. Though people act like looks being such a big part of getting dates represents a shallowness on the part of people dating. But in practice, its because dating apps are so shallow. Most of what you have to go off is appearance. Especially with guys, so many have barebones profiles. So it conditions you to initially approach for shallow reasons, which you then have to overcome. It's why Tinder so often ends up leading to one-time hookups for people instead of relationshisp
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:28 PM
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Nah, they've gone the "when men do it, its called abuse. When women do it, its considered funny" route. Which is half true? But it's not that simple in practice. There's also a discrepancy in "crazy" partners
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:22 PM
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I mean I'd have said "better to be in a relationship with someone where you're not constantly fighting or punishing each other".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:21 PM
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My argument is based on taking what was said at face value. She could have said that he is more than just a hookup, but she made it either/or. Either a hookup or a husband, yes. Not "someone I have sex with" or "someone I marry". You and several other guys here are seemingly refusing to acknowledge the casual part of "casual sex". Do you think that when people start dating they stop having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:57 PM
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But why are you seeing it as "getting thrown" sex. This is what I don't get. Do you think women value you solely for either your body, or what you can provide? Do you not think you have worth outside of that? I don't mean that as a dig, so sorry if it comes off that way, tone is really hard in text. What I mean is that there is more to you than just the physical. And if someone only wants you for shallow/vapid reasons, you deserve better. Yes, there's women who hate their husbands. There's also …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:55 PM
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What context am I taking things out of? We're talking about what people mean by "Marriage material", no? Because you can't debate whether or not its an insult without establishing what the phrase means.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:18 PM
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Well she does, but not with him. Based on what? She didn't say anything about other guys. That is purely extrapolation. "You're not the type of person I would have casual sex with, but I'd be in a relationship with you" The kinda person I want to date (and have sex with in said relationship) is very much not the kinda person I want to have casual sex with. Because if i think someone has the potential to be a partner, I don't want to get off to a bad start by hooking up before any interest is exp…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:07 PM
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She didn't see him as a hookup. That doesn't mean she wouldn't have sex with him. They're dating, they WERE having sex lol. To women, a "hookup" is a casual thing, no emotional attachment. She was saying she doesn't want empty sex, she wants an actual relationship. The only reason for your takeaway to be "she isn't into him sexually" is if you think that being married and getting laid are mutually exclusive. And if that's the case with someone... don't marry them?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:41 PM
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"I don't want casual sex with no emotional attachment, I could see myself marrying you" is backhanded?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:16 PM
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Why is it so weird for me to be charitable and assume good intentions, when the original poster felt bad for upsetting her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:15 PM
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She may have truly meant it as a compliment, because, to her, communicating that she wants to relegate him to a provider role is a positive thing. But why do you guys see "marriage" and immediate think "relegated to a provider". There are plenty of relationships and marriages where both parties contribute. She said she sees him as marriage material, not that she wants to be a tradwife
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:53 AM
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In my experience from the other side, the jerk isn't a jerk at the outset. That's the thing I think a lot of "decent guys" miss. My best friend's ex is awful. But he wasn't awful when they got together. he played the part of a lovely guy, to get her. And once he had her, was when he let the mask slip. And that's also why women are suspicious of "nice guys". Because often the "nice" exists solely to get in our pants. So the guy whose flaws are obvious on the surface, feels like a safer bet. Becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:32 AM
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then romance movies and books are porn for woman that can cause all the same problems in a relationship that men watching porn can cause. And I think this is true tbh. Both have a problem that if you let it become a replacement for real connection, it can consume you and stunt your ability to form those connections I love romance stories but I also understand that’s not how real life romance usually goes. I’d love if it did, but I’m realistic about it
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:03 AM
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Nope, nerdy women exist. We’re just hesitant to admit that sometimes because of how weirdly hostile nerd spaces can be to women. You’ll find someone who shares your dorky interests eventually 💜 (definitely not just saying this to convince myself lmao)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 09:00 AM
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A fantasy romance is fantastical and self serving? I’m shocked Of course these books are one sided, it’s a fantasy. Like how superheroes are a power fantasy, and so they get to be badasses who kick ass and take names. We don’t think those books are realistic, we like them because sometimes unrealistic fantasies are fun
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:56 AM
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The majority of men LOVE giving oral sex. I need to visit the circles you move in, because this really isn’t my experience of guys. I believe they exist, but not where im crossing paths with
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:55 AM
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I think most people take it for granted Isn’t that the issue, then? Not that women aren’t doing things in return, but that those things are just seen as expected. Same with the stuff guys are expected to do We’ve turned romance into a todo list for both parties, and are surprised there’s no passion in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:51 AM
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Part of that Is, I think, the constant barrage of propaganda from stuff like social media claiming it’s “feminine” for guys to want that stuff, or that letting a woman pamper or treat you is somehow emasculating The “fellas, is it gay to-“ jokes exist for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:49 AM
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What is the purpose of a debate space when the conversation consistently goes Women: “this is what women mean” Men: “no, this is what you mean. We see through your tricks”. The replies to me aren’t engaging in conversation, it’s just a rotating list of excuses why their lack of sexual/romantic success is women’s fault
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:43 AM
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So many of my interactions on this sub are just “I refuse to consider any possibility for my romantic failings besides women being out to get me” It’s just red pill but with a blue filter
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:41 AM
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God so true. I’m mad at myself for not picking up guitar sooner, the gulf in my ability to play violin Vs guitar is insane, because I started the former so young
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:37 AM
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And this is what I’m trying to get at. I get that that’s how guys read it, but it’s not what she was trying to say. The intent was more akin to “I couldn’t settle for just a hookup”, not “I wouldn’t sleep with you if we weren’t dating”
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 08:31 AM
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Typically this is not the case, the woman saying this would usually never hookup with the "husband material" guy. But the woman in question is dating the "husband material" guy. They are* hooking up. Regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:03 AM
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That sounds more like men objectifying women than women objectifying men, though. Like, I get that a lot of men primarily see women as sexual conquests, and the romance aspect is a bonus. But that doesn't mean that women desiring the romance aspect of things equates to her not viewing guys sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:47 PM
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Generally, I'd agree. But dude literally said "Women go for jerks that treat them badly instead of decent guys".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:44 PM
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It is not healthy to have nothing but objectification for men. Thank god I don't, I guess? Yes the modern dating scene is deeply horrible. Stop blaming the fellas who just have to survive in the mess ladies make. It's so weird for you to get on a moral high horse at me, and then turn around and go "the state of modern dating is exclusively women's fault".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:36 PM
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The OP came to reddit because she was confused by it upsetting him. She explicitly didn't mean it as an insult.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:35 PM
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If it was with a stranger or a friend, I'd agree. But she said it to her boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:33 PM
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The thing is the original post was about someone in a relationship. Why should be saying "I think you'd make a good husband for someone else" to her boyfriend, as a compliment :/ She clearly meant it sincerely, because she came to reddit confused why he was upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 11:33 PM
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It means until I get bored with this relationship and decide to take you to the cleaners NGL, what I hear here is "I think I'm boring, and so a woman wouldn't stay with me if I wasn't rich". You're projecting your assumptions and insecurities onto others as intent. And because you're approaching it so cynically, the people you're getting somewhere with are going to be equally cynical, and reinforce that belief. Because otherwise you're saying that 50% of the population have no interest in a long…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:36 PM
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It's not weird to throw away a 2.5 year relationship because your partner said something she meant as a compliment but you read as insulting, vs sitting down and talking it out like adults?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:28 PM
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...this whole post is full of people reaching so hard to assume the worst out of everything women say to them, its genuinely kinda sad that the modern dating scene has been so ruined that everyone is so cynical :/
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:27 PM
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Do you mean the OG post OP is referring to, or the top level comment on this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:16 PM
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And men don't?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:03 PM
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You don't know the situation, yet you know her intent. okay
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 10:01 PM
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She is with him. Thats what dating/marriage is??
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:28 PM
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This whole "discussion" is women saying "when I say husband material, I mean I see a future with you" and then guys going "nuh uh, you mean you dont think im attractive"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 09:03 PM
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Yeah. I didn't notice the lack of link, but I saw the post explicitly mention that one so I figured it was implicit context. All good :)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:02 PM
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I’d never take advice on sex from a bunch of virgins and spout it here either. True, that's what /r/sex is for (ba dum tiss) Here's the thing. I have dated. I have had hookups. Just because I'm ace doesn't mean i'm inherently sexless or repulsed by it. "Would I have sex with you" was v much a question on the table for a lot of my relationships, because otherwise I can only date other ace people. And like... there's a lot of allo people who are really cool, and who are great in bed. If anything, …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 08:02 PM
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According to who? Because women keep saying that they mean this a compliment, and yet guys will insist that no, its meant as an insult. You finding it insulting is one thing. But steamrolling the women telling you what they mean, to tell them they mean something else, seems weird to me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:58 PM
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I don't feel personally attacked, lol. Because I don't really date guys any more. Partly because I got sick of attitudes like this one, it became exhausting having to reassure them that I'm into them, or that I'm not going to leave or cheat when someone "hotter" comes along. etc Your inability to trust potential partners is a problem you're going to deal with, not me. Rather than accusing women of "gaslighting" you, take a step back, and try to actually confront why you don't trust someone you s…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:57 PM
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The original story that prompted this post, the OP said: I realized how he understood it and tried to clarify it but he is still the same this morning. He told me he needs space to think for a while and left the house.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:53 PM
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Ok, now respond to the other half of the comment that you ignored. How are you gonna handwave away the opinions of my friends who aren't ace lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:53 PM
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As I said to the other guy, I have friends who aren't ace genius. And I've talked to them about their relationships. I already snarked about communication being a hard concept for people on reddit, but I didn't think "Having friends" was lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:52 PM
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Why? For one, I might be ace but I have eyes, dude. I can appreciate when someone looks good. But also, my friends who are in relationships aren't ace. We do talk to each other. I know communication is this alien concept on reddit, but friends can do it too, not just lifelong partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:49 PM
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Yes. Settling DOWN. That's WHAT MARRIAGE IS. It's genuinely fascinating to me that a woman can tell you "I could see myself spending the rest of my life with you", and your takeaway is "she doesn't find me attractive". I'm asexual, and I still can't imagine spending 30+ years married to someone I don't see an allure in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:43 PM
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This just sounds like "nice guy" rhetoric to me. I have a number of friends in their 30s, and they're settling down, some with people they met in their 30s, others with the same people they've been dating since their early 20s or even teens in one case. The women didn't stop looking for people they're into... they just started getting more serious about commitment. It's so weird that women will try to tell you how they felt, and you tell them how they meant it. THAT'S why "Stacy" passed you up f…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:41 PM
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I didn't say he's not allowed to feel stung. I said that the response should be to communicate, not to throw a tantrum. Ok in the moment he was drunk and got emotional, still kinda immature but alcohol can do that. But he was still being weird about it in the morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:36 PM
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because we understand that is the reality for a sad number of marriages. But assuming that about your partner seems like a really cynical outlook towards someone you, 5 seconds ago before she said it, you thought loved you. Even if you have that concern, the guy in that post freaked out and didnt want to talk to her for over a day. Why not just go "do you not find me physically attractive any more?" and she goes "what? why would you say that, i just said I could see myself marrying you" and you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:32 PM
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it means she values you only for what you can provide, Isn't that an assumption, though? You're operating on the logic that women only see a stable future with guys they're not passionate about, which seems like a really cynical way to live. When I say "hookup material" I mean "hot, but not someone I have any serious interest in". When I say "husband/wife material", I mean "not only am i attracted to you, i could see us building a future"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:29 PM
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Doesn't that go both ways though? If its a situation where women mean something different to your immediate reaction to it, you're also being indifferent to her intent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:27 PM
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No. That is not how we fix these things. Something awful happening to her isn't "karma" or "justice". And it won't suddenly change her mind, just reinforce her "we're the victim" complex. Honestly that comment comes across really sketch, dude.
/r/MensRights13/04/19 06:35 PM
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OK, I knew the SJWs, White Knights, and Feminists that lurk this sub would get bent out of shape You know those terms don't actually mean "people who disagree with me", right?
/r/PussyPassDenied28/09/16 03:26 AM
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You say you will not hesitate to state facts, yet you make statements that medical professionals disagree with, and therefore would logically be considered not factual. Incorrect. If you have a healthy and functioning male body then chances are you have a mental illness. Yes. It's called Gender Identity Disorder. It's recognised by psychologists as an actual thing. The reason trans people see a therapist, it's to confirm whether they actually have GID, not to "fix" them, right? The point isn't t…
/r/MensRights19/12/15 04:58 PM
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I totally get you. I can be way too blunt. But sometimes you have to tread carefully to avoid coming across differently to what you mean :P
/r/MensRights18/12/15 04:12 AM
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Before I address this comment, I was hoping to reply to one of your other comments but it makes more sense to me to put everything into one so you don't have a bajillion messages :P A child should be sheltered to some extent until they're capable of handling larger problems. Sexuality and gender assignment shouldn't come up at 8 years old. Let the boys play with dolls if they choose and the girls play baseball but don't push it on them. I actually personally agree with this. I've spent the last …
/r/MensRights18/12/15 03:24 AM
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It's fine, they could have at least linked to the original for context
/r/MensRights18/12/15 02:44 AM
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You are still not a woman any more than he is Peter Pan or the other characters he dresses up as. He changes his appearance and that is all. The only difference between a post-op trans person and someone who was born that gender is that the trans person is sterile. Which is actually something people are still trying to find workarounds for. The implanted hormones are not a natural part of you. Except they are. The only difference is how much of those hormones your body generates naturally. The h…
/r/MensRights18/12/15 02:35 AM
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As someone on a computer science program, you'd be amazed how many of the Asian students don't put any effort into work. We had two of them in a group project, they didn't assist with a single session. They sat on the row next to the rest of us and chatted while on their phones. Even if we tried to involve them they didn't do what they were asked to.
/r/MensRights18/12/15 02:10 AM
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Just FYI it's a parody
/r/MensRights18/12/15 02:07 AM
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It's a pisstake of a "48 things women hear" video.
/r/MensRights18/12/15 02:06 AM
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the vast majority of pedophiles are wrong Based on convictions. And we've seen countless evidence for how hard it is for women to get convicted.
/r/MensRights17/12/15 11:25 PM
1

Well considering they called an MtF transsexual anti-women, they're clearly not the brightest spark. They just go into full tumblr mode, so nobody takes them seriously
/r/MensRights13/07/14 02:41 PM
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This is what I was leaning towards. You guys seem a lot more open towards an alternative view.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 02:40 PM
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Nobody takes her seriously. The feminism society couldn't even get The Sun banned on campus. They wanted to ban it because of page 3, and the uni just went "If people want to read it, they can. It's called free speech. If you don't like Page 3, don't read that paper."
/r/MensRights13/07/14 02:37 PM
1

Regardless, I think we should stop looking at it from the perspective of men's issues and women's issues. Man or woman, you're a person. So let's look at it that way.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 02:34 PM
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What I find odd, is that people seem to not only hanging more labels on each other, but more specific labels. Like, apparently Black feminism is a thing? I thought we'd moved on from race-specific stuff. -_- I don't understand what's so hard about just being a human. Why is anything else important?
/r/MensRights13/07/14 04:58 AM
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Tell me about it. The president of the feminism society at my university is completely anti-men. My flatmate passed her one time, not knowing who she was, and because he's a friendly guy smiled and said hi. She went "don't talk to me you pig" and sped up. I wish that was fake but it's not. It is hilarious, though. The only feminists I've ever met who were actually for equality always called themselves egalitarians.
/r/MensRights13/07/14 03:40 AM
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I was on my iPod and couldn't read the article so went off what his explanation at the start was. If they were laid off because the company went bankrupt then fair enough. I thought the people in charge of the film had just fired them instead of paying them. So like, terminated the contract as soon as they finished the work.
/r/MensRights28/02/13 05:15 PM
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No, but if they give you a job, they shouldn't be allowed to sack you without paying after you do the work, since you were promised that pay. That's why you did the work.
/r/MensRights27/02/13 09:49 PM
1

Yeah, "like a brother to me" tends to be a reason why they're IN the friendzone, not past it.
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