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Ah right, I misread the original book you mentioned (as she also wrote Surrendered Single) - you probably won't find that much of use in Get the Guy, but I find his take on women' psychology pretty interesting. I'm fairly sure he's got videos that cover marriage, though.
/r/RedPillWomen05/09/16 07:03 PM
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Get The Guy by Matthew Hussey (if you want to try Audible for free the book is available on there). He's also got videos available on Youtube. I felt Surrendered Single didn't really add much to what he covers, but the ideas are very similar so I'd skip SS and go with GtG directly.
/r/RedPillWomen04/09/16 09:33 PM
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Yeah agreed, I just feel as though sometimes people obsess over the word and its (sadly) poor reputation rather than the ideas, and that they actually often agree with a lot of ideas supported by feminism (I mean even RP men are kind of feminist by sometimes wanting women to split the bill... :P)
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 08:55 PM
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I've seen a few of your posts pop up and considering myself a feminist, I can tell you that feminism should indeed be about gender equality and for women to do (mostly*) what they want without being pressured into anything. If someone says they're a feminist and don't adhere to this view - I personally believe they're not quite a feminist. A lot of people take issue with women not being strong or independent, because it used to be that they did not have the choice to be so in the past. Thankfull…
/r/RedPillWomen29/08/16 07:59 PM
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As you pointed out, women may have to give up their careers for a family. What a lot of women fail to understand is that they have to take responsibility for the choices they make. If she wants to pursue a PhD and a career and be established before starting a family, that's fine, but she also takes the chance of not finding enough high-quality men (who are also interested in her) by the time she achieves her professional and academic goals. This is definitely true. I see all these "can women hav…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/16 03:36 PM
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I'd agree with that. I think the real issue with educated women is when they constantly remind you of it (humble brag or not), because then your captain (or anyone around you) might feel as though they're competing with you, which is harmful to you both. The problem would likely disappear if you went for someone who's more educated than you/is in a higher-level position, though. Sure, being less educated would mean access to a larger pool of men as the more educated you become and the fewer educ…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/16 02:51 PM
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I'm actually really struggling with that question because I can't think of situations where it may have happened. My first instinct is actually to initiate the offer of help and anticipate someone's potential needs. If you try to bargain for my help with something, it'll have to depend on the specifics of the situation, but I don't usually take kindly to this, because I feel if I have to pay back for something, then there must be another way of getting it. Guilt-tripping feels like blackmail and…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/16 09:41 PM
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Thanks for the suggestions! I've read the Cultivating a feminine frame of mind article, but didn't feel it gave enough specifics as to how to apply these. I'm currently reading Surrendered Single, and so far, so good :) Thanks for the link to The Feminine Woman, will have a look now! As for your advice on people remembering how you made them feel - I'll keep that in mind, it definitely holds truth!
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/16 09:03 PM
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Thanks for the reply, much appreciated Learn how to be feminine. If you believe you can, you can. You don't, you don't. => What I essentially need is help rewiring my brain. I have no female role model as I usually am one of very few girls, and most of the girls around me are not particularly feminine either, so I don't really know what's really feminine anymore/what should be put forward or not, if that make sense, hence my request. I believe I can, and that I have the qualities needed, but at …
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/16 08:51 PM
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Edit: men will find out that you're intelligent when they come to you, but you have to let them come to you and find out. You can't aggressively boast your intelligence (like a man) and still expect to be seen as a feminine potential lover. They don't want to compete with women, they're competing with other men to get the best women. Thanks so much for your reply! "The difference lies in your attitude" = Nail on the head. My self-esteem and confidence were always pretty low, so being competitive…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/16 07:14 PM
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Because I genuinely don't know. Apart from giving in to sex too early, I can't really think of a anything else. I wasn't overcommunicative (only texted towards the end of the day to ask how his day was and he was generally happy to reply within the minute), I helped as much as I could when we were together, maybe he just didn't like me that much. I offered to go for coffee and he said he was busy with work and had plans in the evening and there was no reschedule, so I got the hint, wished him go…
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/15 06:03 AM
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He had the surgery before I'd met him, so I helped as much as I could (finding places nearby, then doing the washing up when we'd cook at his) - never mind, as you said, time to move on :)
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 08:33 PM
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Definitely true! Shame I let myself like him this much, but it was probably a blessing in disguise!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 08:11 PM
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Right, probably not much it seems! More seriously, I don't know, I don't feel I really had a chance to show him who I really was, so may not have come across as the most interesting person due to mostly being at his and not really wanting to make myself at home too much. I was good counsel when he got his PS4 and played it for a little bit, I guess, and I showed I could help in the kitchen? Wrong: almost certainly gave in to sex early (it seems so obvious now reading RPW, but I'd never thought a…
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 07:02 PM
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Yep, RPW has definitely taught me a few things I may have been doing wrong!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 06:04 PM
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My reasonable side says the same. My stubborn side says keep trying. I'll try to move on, thanks for the input!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 06:03 PM
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Yeah, that wasn't an option, but not for lack of trying (he made the effort of going out the first two dates, but said he wasn't well enough afterwards). I tried to invite him round a couple of times so that I'd get the chance to do just that, but no luck. I only discovered RPW last week, so now I know better than to give in so early! ;) As for the contact, now that I think about it, it was after we had sex. Shot myself in the foot, really, haha.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 06:02 PM
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I'm a decent cook and I really enjoy cooking for others. He let me help him cook but haven't had the chance to cook him a full meal.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/15 05:32 PM
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