AlCastIt Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
22	I can get the dates but I am not creating the spark on the date, looking for advice	Fundamentals	AlCastIt	/r/seduction	29/01/25 02:22 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Got dumped after 4 dates - met on Hinge Got to keep trying. It might not be a you issue, might be a her issue. Either way you will never know, and that is ok. The sooner you shake it off and get back out there the sooner you can find your person, or people.	/r/seduction	27/05/26 05:52 PM
1	Performance anxiety It happens sometimes. You can always eat her out. You could have her grind on you, that helped me one time to get up. And if all else fails, talk to a doctor about ED pills (depending on your age it might be worth it for peace of mind).	/r/seduction	07/04/26 06:25 PM
0	Is it worth paying for Tinder? Before asking yourself should I pay, ask what else can I do to improve my profile. Even if that involves paying money for things outside the app; like new clothes, professional photos, a vacation for yourself that you take fun photos on, gym equipment or membership, a good haircut, etc. Once you have your profile on point, then you can think about paying for premium.	/r/seduction	23/10/25 01:53 PM
1	Do you think “confidence” is overrated in seduction? Confidence is definitely not overrated, but people often confuse what real confidence is. Quiet confidence does exist. There are magnetic people with loud personalities, and there are people with equal magnetism that are reserved. You are thinking of bravado. Bravado is only attractive in certain situations. But confidence is always attractive.	/r/seduction	13/10/25 02:18 PM
2	How Do You Flirt and Build Sexual Tension? how do you get to Carnegie Hall? Practice	/r/seduction	01/10/25 12:56 PM
3	How can I start dating when I’m average looking and autistic? An average looking person can become an above average looking person with a little bit of work. Narrow down your style and become the best looking version of it. Work out, get that testosterone flowing, it''ll help with your mood and naturally attracting women. Lower your standards, stop going for 9 & 10s until you can pull a solid 6. They are more fun anyway. Plus you are young and 6s can become 10s really easily in the next couple years. Conversation can be tricky, it is best to be authentic a…	/r/seduction	15/07/25 11:48 AM
1	How long after a breakup can I start making a move on my crush? don't use the word crush just ask her out	/r/seduction	14/04/25 06:30 PM
2	Does bodybuilding really increase my chances twentyfold? bodybuilding implies building tons of muscle, you don't need to be shredded. You just need to work out enough to get the testosterone and endorphins flowing in you. This will improve your mood, it will improve your health, and testosterone literally attracts women.	/r/seduction	20/03/25 05:26 PM
27	Machiavellian tactic (for aesthetically challenged folks) Y'all play too many games. Stop imagining scenarios, just talk to them.	/r/seduction	11/03/25 11:41 AM
3	How to escalate with awkward nerdy man Lean into him, put your head on his shoulder. Do that move where you hold his arm. I am going to assume he is completely oblivious, so you may even have to tell him to kiss you.	/r/seduction	21/02/25 12:56 PM
34	I did it, I gathered the courage and got defeated, again. take that woman off the pedestal man.	/r/seduction	14/02/25 06:31 PM
0	How do I get over my fear of talking to girls? Go to a convenience store, when you check out say "hey hows it going" to the cashier. Say something benign like 'crazy weather recently'. After they finish ringing you up, say 'have a nice day'.	/r/seduction	31/01/25 08:22 PM
1	I can get the dates but I am not creating the spark on the date, looking for advice Thanks, this is the kind of advice I was looking for.	/r/seduction	29/01/25 06:11 PM
2	I can get the dates but I am not creating the spark on the date, looking for advice Thank you for this, it is what I needed to hear.	/r/seduction	29/01/25 06:10 PM