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Is it, though? I'm sure she can still get to play slump buster to some Chad every once in a while. But that's not what she wants now, she's looking for not only a relationship, but also the commitment and the big rock, not just some hookup D. She wants a -man- ATM all to her own, who will give her an easy life in luxury, for the rest of her life - thanks to divorce laws. This makes her an inspin, an involuntary spinster. She can get dick, fairly easily, but what she can't get is commitment, so s…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/09/22 02:56 AM
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Yeah, that was a rookie mistake. They're good for a romp or two, but if nothing else, the day she wants to introduce you to her kid, is the day you pull the ripcord and sail away from there and her. And mind your prophylactics if you're not snipped. Both to wear them while doing the deed, and securing them after.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 10:14 PM
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I was married, I really believed in it, sought it out, got cheated on, tried to reconcile, depression, work and life falling apart, cheated on again, and finally caught sanity and divorced. Never marrying or getting involved in a LTR ever again. Now, I got "lucky" - my depression completely tanked my startup and wiped me out, so in the end, my ex-wife owed me money in the divorce. My friend was the one who convinced me to divorce, never let go of your friends. Never. Let. Your. Wife/GF. Drive. A…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/22 10:04 PM
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Well, you've heard all the bleating about how, unlike women, nobody gets to tell men what they can and can't do with their bodies. You know, with abortion etc? Never for even a second reflecting on the fact that men, unlike women, can be called on to not only risk, but outright sacrifice, their lives, with zero say in the matter. Oh, but of course, I forgot - Hillary did point out that women are the most impacted when their sons and husbands are sent out to die in wars. How foolish of me. How mi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 08:06 AM
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Hell no, while it's good that there is recognition that men are being demonized and maleness problematized, e.g., even in elementary schools where boys acting like boys are considered "broken", this is just more shaming and wanting men to "step up" and do the dirty work that our totally equal in every way women don't really want to subject themselves to. And what she is asking for will still be responsibility without authority, and I say fuck that. You want to be in the driver's seat? Fine, you …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 07:59 AM
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Isn't it funny that even from a woman who supposedly are speaking up for men and masculinity, all we are really getting is more demands that men "step up", sacrifice their life and health for others who neither deserve it, nor truly appreciate it. The risks, today, of actually doing what she suggests, vastly outweigh the benefits, and I'm not even talking about the risk of being hurt or killed while trying to protect some blue-haired freak, but of what society, the beneficiaries of your sacrific…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/22 07:44 AM
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You Sir, are a smart man.
/r/MensRights18/03/22 11:16 PM
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100% this. Nothing good can possibly come out of that. Indeed, do not go beyond the weather as far as non-work conversation topics while at work or in the company of people you work with. And even then, make sure you have a couple witnesses around, preferably none that have any reasons to harbor any ill-will towards you. And for the love of all that's holy, do not attend any non-mandatory social events related to your work, and under no circumstances whatsoever consume alcoholic beverages or any…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 11:13 PM
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You can never find such a woman. Current laws and social customs will always leave her with a significant advantage over you, should she decide to call on them. It's a loaded gun, eternally aimed at the head of any male married to, co-habitating with, having children with, or in some cases just meeting on a semi-regular basis with, a woman. You do not know which is the day when you'll hear the >click< of the trigger, and it's true that in some cases you, or her, will die before that day comes, b…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 11:01 PM
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Yeah, you can get all of that. Until she decides she wants something else, at which time the law and social mores leave, at her disposal, many, many tools with which to make you pay without receiving anything but abuse in return. Married or not, if a court figures you were kinda married if they squint just the right way - she walks away with half your shit, and possibly alimony to boot. Oh, and cice kids you have there, it'd be tragic if, at best, you'd only get to see them every other weekend..…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:52 PM
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Yes, it's all 50/50 and nice, right up until the moment it isn't. The thing being that unlike your gf, you come into that relationship practically unarmed, while she has, and always will have, the "I win, you lose" card, that she can play anytime she so desires. You say "gf", so I assume you haven't married her (yet), but, surprise surprise, "common law marriage" and variants of it exist in most jurisdictions. Meaning, even though you didn't make the mistake of marrying, she still gets to walk a…
/r/MensRights18/03/22 10:46 PM
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Oh, do feed the beast. By calling 911 and getting her into a 72 hour psych hold. How are you to know if she's serious or not? If she is, you did the right thing by calling, if she isn't, you still did the right thing by calling. What's she gonna do? Admit she was trying to manipulate you? Bitch you out for not risking her taking her life? Complain that you did what anyone will tell you (and her) is the right thing to do when someone is (claiming to be) suicidal?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 06:21 AM
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I assume that by "call her on it", you mean calling 911 and getting her into a 72 hours psych hold to contemplate either her very real suicide plans, or alternatively, her choice in method of emotional blackmail? Someone threatening suicide is way above your pay grade, it's best to always let the experts deal with it. WhenIf she comes back pissed as hell at you, just tell her how you couldn't stand the thought of her losing her life, and how you didn't think you should try to deal with such a si…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/02/22 06:13 AM
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Nah, not when she has to invent shit to be angry at you over like Lisa in that story. Then it's almost always them trying to justify, to themselves, why their infidelity is OK - it's because you are such an asshole, as demonstrated by your failure to read her mind, not going around grumbling and hating on the things around the house that are "your" chores the way she does (and feels) about hers, and any other little thing she can manage to blow up to elephantine dimensions and lay at your feet. …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/22 08:55 AM
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Probably that a couple years down the line, they will be just like this too, at least if you don't decide to live in their home country rather than yours. And this assuming that they weren't out to scam your right from the beginning, which isn't unheard of, either. Especially if they really were mail order, i.e., met through one of the matching agencies, rather than serendipitously while travelling to their home country.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/02/22 08:27 AM
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It looks like she's aiming for straight up prostitution, so that leads to the question: Is a prostitute a gold digger?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/22 08:39 PM
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Not only that, a profile posted on a sugar baby site. Some of the stuff I read just didn't make any sense to me until I realized I'd seen that last section titled "Basic info, Me, My match" before in a couple other posts here that were tagged as being from some sugar site. So here we got a 44+yo woman with kids wanting to be a sugar baby on a sugar baby site, who preemptively rejects anyone who include younger women in their age range. On a sugar baby site. That she intentionally went to, to pos…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/22 08:30 PM
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"Oh. Ohhhh... Now I understand - you derive your own value solely from the number of men who fuck you, or that you believe wants to fuck you. That explains soooo much about you, and your past actions and words. If it wasn't for your unprovoked, and failed, attempt to shame and put me down based on your own messed up values, I might even have felt a little sorry for you."
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/02/22 08:13 PM
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She clearly understands that as far as the vast majority of men is concerned, her being a single mom is a pretty large strike against her. It's also obvious that she doesn't really understand why that is, or the rest of what she wrote would have read very differently. The title is "About Me", but other than her being "a mother", she doesn't directly tell us anything about herself. Instead she tells us we need to "get to know" her to find out!? Why in the world would I waste time getting to know …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 03:25 PM
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I dunno, Sigourney Weaver in the Alien-movie where she's playing a GMO clone that's buff as hell comes to mind.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 11:02 AM
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There's no deception like self-deception.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 10:50 AM
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I know you need to clean the gutters and stuff, but I had no idea houses needed frequent mani-pedis, silicone injections or waxings.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/02/22 10:44 AM
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This is why you always are a sympathetic ear, someone who listens and understands when a woman has got a bee in her bonnet over something. If you are successful and come across as non-judgemental, ask "how did that make you feel?" at the right spots, in no time at all, most women will start telling on themselves. Pretty soon, you'll be swearing off women altogether, because you cannot love women and understand them at the same time. Look at other women, they understand women, and they freaking h…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/01/22 02:57 AM
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It's fascinating to read what they write and realize that she clearly believes that she's the sympathetic, hard done by one in the scenario she paints. And I'm sure this is the touched up version of events that eliminates most, if not all, that she thought would make her look bad. Yet even this highly partisan version of events will have any sane man running for the hills, swearing off women and looking for a monastery to join, before they're even half-way through her account. If what I've read …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 04:40 PM
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Oh yes, if she cheated with you, she'll have no problems cheating on you. Also, while it's great that her "friend" let the guy in on what the score really was, she did rather viciously backstab her supposed "friend". It's the same thing there, vicious backstabbers do not have a reputation for loyalty, so the next back to be stabbed might be yours. Really makes me wonder about this woman, if that's the best she can do in the friend department, that rather says something about her own personality.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/01/22 04:10 PM
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Nah, it happens. I've attended the wedding of an ex, we both came to the conclusion that we'd never work out and split amicably. Took some time apart right after, but have been cordial ever since. I knew the guy she ended up marrying, and he was a much better match for her than I could ever have been.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/01/22 11:44 AM
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You're conflating young single motherhood with out of wedlock births? I know that there are lots of people in stable relationships, and having children together, but who don't bother with marriage, all over Europe, but especially in northern Europe. That produces neither single mothers, nor thots on Tinder. Or even especially young mothers, for that matter.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:55 PM
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I can see trying out your partner's hobbies, music, books or whatever. It's a way to show interest in them, and see if you can share something more of each others lives and interests. It all turns to shit the second you stop being honest to yourself and others about your preferences, and start pretending. Nobody likes a pretender.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:38 PM
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The problem is that crazy is crazy good at hiding their crazy. Or just hiding things in general. You'll find any number of men who will tell you, will swear up and down on a stack of bibles, that before they said "I do", there wasn't the slightest hint from their fiancée to suggest married life would be any different from their pre-marriage experience. Only to discover that their wife is a completely different, and severely toxic, person from who their fiancée was.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:26 PM
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It's a very rough awakening, which is also why you will find so many who adamantly will refuse to open their eyes, no matter what evidence the world presents to them. It's just too big of a buzzkill for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:20 PM
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Nope, it won't disappear. There will always be those who think their Knighly deeds will be rewarded by the fair maiden. Only experience, their own if they're not so smart and that of others if they are, will teach them the futility of that approach. It's why places like this, that don't coddle or excuse poor behavior by women, are needed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:17 PM
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Definitely don't get yourself involved. First of all, no good deed will go unpunished, but there is also a good chance that you'll actually be assisting the bully/abuser, rather than helping the victim. If you think a serious crime is being committed you can always call 911 and let the police sort it out.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:12 PM
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They're hoping to score a Captain Save-a-hoe who will $woop in and make everything better. That, and they correctly figure that "I got bored and ditched him" may needlessly tip off her latest victim about what lies in their future if they stick around. Sadly, the poor things didn't get the memo that the Captain is just barely hanging on to life, on life-support and in a come, at your local hospital. Abused, brutally assaulted and near killed by the modern woman. Oh, and abused for real, not what…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/10/21 02:07 PM
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They're a class marker. If you have one, you have none. You can think all you like before getting your body graffiti, you'll still come off looking like someone who have no impulse control and no ability to plan or think about your future, unless your plan is to have the tatted up body part amputated in the near future. Plus, have you ever really taken a good look at a 10-20 year old tattoo? Have you ever in your life seen one of those that didn't look like crap? Yeah, no ability to plan or imag…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/09/21 07:46 PM
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It makes exactly the same kind of sense as high-end recruitment agencies. McDonald's can get away with a flyer in the window, there are tons of people who meet their general requirements. If, on the other hand, you're looking for the future CEO of a biotech company, you're looking for a very specific set of criteria and the flyer-in-the-window approach won't do you much good. So, you pay a recruitment agency to help you. They will have done 90% of the heavy lifting before you even contact them -…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 08:14 AM
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For fucks sake! Matchmaking agencies don't sell men! They are paid to use their experience and their access to eligible men/women to try to find the best match possible for them, it's not a fucking a la carte delivery service. The more and narrower your demands are, the more time the agency will need to spend to try to find someone who matches your criteria and who might be interested in dating you. They are not charging for the delivery, they're charging for the search. The lawyers she's retain…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 08:00 AM
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Why? The agency would still need to do the work of trying to match her with someone that fit her criteria, or as good an approximation as is possible. This women appear to suffer under the same misunderstanding as you appear to - she's paying a matchmaking agency for their help in locating someone that is the best fit possible to her criteria, AND who might be interested (=her matching their criteria) in her. She's emphatically not paying the agency 5k to buy herself a man, this is not a shoppin…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 07:47 AM
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Nope, not surprised at all: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ttw5a6xRj6c
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 07:39 AM
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Really? I have to admit to having a type that I try to stick to religiously, despite it cutting out more than 95% of women out there. For example, I could not possibly imagine having a serious relationship with a garden implement, and that alone cuts my options to below 10% of women out there. Then remove from that the ones with shitty attitudes, untreated mental illnesses, obesity etc, and there's not a whole lot left. Were I to filter those remaining at that point for frivolous things, and esp…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/08/21 07:36 AM
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Strong risk it's grounded in self-loathing due to something she's all too aware of, like, I dunno, just sitting home in her bedsitter reading books [while inhaling sweets and cookies] and not really getting much exercise, and what that tends to result in.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 12:27 AM
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Virgin @ 23 is.... Unexpected? Uncommon? But there are plenty of perfectly legitimate explanations, including the good old "saving myself for marriage". Zero experience dating or having any kind of romantic relationship @ 23? Now the spidey senses are tingling a bit. I'd say chances are better than 50/50 that there's some fuckery going on, but sheltered life with overbearing parents? Yeah, still possible. This, however, is someone who actively self-sabotages, and that's something different. Self…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/08/21 12:20 AM
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They're a class marker - if you have one, you have none.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 05:57 PM
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I've had one gf, ever, with a tattoo. She got it, without my knowledge, after we got together. We stopped being together not long after. I genuinely believe she thought I'd love her little surprise. In a way, I did - it showed me something I ought to have already seen in a way I could not pretend or wish away. Fucking graffiti.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 05:56 PM
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No, those septum piercings are a godsend, I tell you. They're there, smack dab in the middle of their face, and excepting current conditions with various face coverings in vogue, easy to see even at first glance. Tells you all you need to know about the woman, and allow you to move on without ever breaking cover. She's ghosted before she even knew it, or me. Perfect! Face and high neck tattoos are the only warning signs that are more obvious, but sadly, all too many of those who ought to wear th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 05:45 PM
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Then you carefully probe her a little on her hobby, and you find out that, no, she doesn't actually own any fishing gear, or if she does, it's either some cheap Walmart garbage or a gift from guy. Further probing will reveal that, no, she's never actually gone out fishing on her own, or even really on her own initiative. It was always just tagging along with a guy going out fishing. You could think "guy" in this context might include her dad, but the type that has a dad that takes her along on a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 05:22 PM
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Yeah, I'm sorry, I know, I know, it was selfish of me, but trust me, I really needed to take that whole container load of Fukitol to get through all the shit tossed my way. On the bright side, I'm now clean out of fucks and my growing fields lay barren and abandoned, so I'm unlikely to acquire any to give in the foreseeable future.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 05:09 PM
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That's actually one of the situation where the blue pill answer IS the right answer. "No, I don't own you or your body, you can do what you want with it" would work. Anything, really, that neither actively encourages her to obviously act or turn herself less attractive/unattractive, nor says to her you have an expectation of dictating to her how she should act or look. Because why would you want to be with someone you have to force to be beautiful for you, or to act in ways that pleases you? If …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/08/21 04:22 PM
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Yes. Yes, the ones who sprout that garbage usually truly think that.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 06:16 PM
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It's not so much a matter of suppressing the instinct to protect women and children, nor should it - it's a good thing. It's to make sure to direct it towards those who deserve and appreciate it, and I'm not talking about "gee, thanks for saving me from certain death". Pretty much anyone even vaguely sane would be able to muster gratitude at that point. No, I'm talking about those having appreciation and gratitude before the fact, for the sentiment, for the small acts and gestures that show that…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 06:14 PM
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Correction: If she dropped 60lb, she would have fewer issues finding sex. The herpes will still limit her choices in that department, but the thirst is eternal. I seriously doubt the weight loss would offset having both an STD and a child for purposes of finding commitment from a good man.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:50 PM
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She has every right to fuck her own life up as much as she wants, and that's all fine. Her choices, her mess to live with. The outrage is the choices she made on behalf of her child. Robbing that child of a father before he was even born. Dooming that child to growing up without any useful role models, and specifically without even access to a father figure or someone to model being an adult male after. The statistics are pretty darn clear about the impact of growing up the way this kid will, an…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:45 PM
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That's the only innocent victim in all of this, and boy did she screw that boy over harshly. Whatever positive outcomes he may end up achieving will be no thanks to his momma, but you can bet your ass she'll be there to claim credit and there will be an all too good chance of him having been brainwashed by her into singing along with the praises of her "sacrifices". Yeah, she made sacrifices - she sacrificed her child on the altar of Me Me Me.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:36 PM
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She CHOSE some pretty shitty blokes in her past. She disclaims most, if not all, of her own responsibilities for her own choices and actions. And she chose to bring a child into her chaotic life without a thought to what doing so would do to that child. Only, in retrospect, that it diminished her prospects of having another thing she feels entitled to having. So what, exactly, really sets her apart from "the normal WAATGM entitled princess type"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:31 PM
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To me there is no issue choosing to be a single mom. How do you figure that? That's a decision, the consequences of which go way beyond her future dating prospects. In isolation, yes, it's a choice, for her, between her desire to have a child and her desire to have a good relationship with a man. As soon as you leave that solipsistic bubble of narcissism, suddenly there's a child doomed not only to grow up without a father figure in their life, nobody to model adult male or male partner behavior…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:23 PM
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This talk of "lowering standards" really misrepresents the situation. What she, and most other similar women, really need is realistic standards. Yes, those standards will, for sure, be lower, but framing it as "realistic standards" rather than "lower standards" highlights what the actual problem is - unrealistic standards. If a 1/10 insists on only dating 10/10:s, yes, they really DO need to lower their standards, but saying it like that paints it as a sacrifice on their behalf, as something ba…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/08/21 05:08 PM
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You're probably right about it being a shit test, but I'm on the fence about your passing criteria. While you may be right that doing as you suggest matches HER passing criteria, her even pulling a shit test like that would immediately disqualify her from anything even having a passing resemblance to a relationship.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 04:04 PM
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Why in the world would you want to go fight the guy that SHE cheated on you with? That guy owes you nothing, no loyalty, no fidelity, nothing. She, on the other hand, DO owe you those things, if you're in a non-poly relationship with her. So the only person in that situation that you'd have any reason to hold to account, and possibly fight with, is her.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/21 03:58 PM
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I'm obviously completely screwed since I'm not collecting any salary/wage at all, at the moment. I really hate this discrimination against us early retired entrepreneurs living off dividends from our investments. It's so unfair that I have no chance with 43yo divorcees with multiple children from other men, extravagant demands, and the personality of a kicked wasp's nest.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/05/21 08:46 PM
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Yah, that's the main tip-off that this is just a creative writing exercise on part of some simpy dude with little experience with actual women beyond mum and possibly siblings that have been keeping him at arm's length, growing up.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 09:15 PM
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If someone is a good person and able to be a good friend, then I would not exclude someone just because of an accident of birth. The real problem is that so many women just do not seem to be capable of having a male friend, or to treat a man not only as a human being, but also as an actual friend, and not rely on trying to exploit using "sex", flirting etc as a shortcut/cheat code to get their way or not to have to live up to the full expectations of a real friend. Indeed, some even seem incapab…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/04/21 09:09 PM
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Did you miss the fact she's Wiccan? Wiccan women = witches. Given this, are you really surprised that she looks like the wicked witch of the lard?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/21 01:21 PM
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The moment the idea of an open marriage or relationship is mentioned, it's over. Often it's over even before, but at that point, it's out in the open and can no longer be denied. The only rational response to such a suggestion is to end the relationship then and there. If you try to stuff that genie back in the bottle at that point, you'll find that he no longer fits, so all you will accomplish is added frustration and noise - if your partner have taken the thought of an open relationship so far…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/04/21 05:35 AM
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Um, dude. Even if you were correct in that this guy meant that, you're both waay late to the party. All women have been prostitutes of one stripe or another for at least the last 10000 years, and probably a hell of a lot longer. Just check out the experiments on primates where some type of currency is introduced - before you can even blink, the females of the species have begun trading sex for currency with the males.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/03/21 03:38 AM
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Something like that, emphasis on "a" woman. It's not like dating sites are overflowing with quality, the little quality that comes there tend to be gone in a hurry. It ends up being whatever the opposite of a refinement process is on those sites.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/02/21 08:39 AM
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Well, I'm 100% OK with having demands that you can't, personally, meet. For example, I'm partial to some nice T&A, but I can't really offer much along those lines myself. Nor would I want a potential date to have a 6" cock, just because that's something she likes about me. The why of height is a tricky one, I think part is biology, but nothing in biology says anything <6' is unacceptable, that's pure social contagion. Part of the reason is that most women just don't have a clue how tall 6' is, a…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 05:10 PM
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I suppose you can't negotiate attraction? Gotta wonder where it all comes from, though. Either way, she's an ass for having led him on for as long as she has, including letting him bond with her daughter. That was cruel.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 04:50 PM
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If you're serious about your height and not having women sniff around all the time, I can only assume you fell from the ugly tree, hitting every branch on the way down, no offense. Most women seem to be prepared to overlook a lot, if a guy is just tall enough, so what you describe sounds so alien to my experience. Then again, maybe everyone else where you live are >=6'5"?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 04:48 PM
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You're surprised at many women's lack of foresight and planning? Seriously? I mean, most women are perfectly capable of working out what a reasonable schedule for marrying and having kids look like. They're not stupid, at least not more so than the average man. What many of them are, however, is hard to please and unwilling to commit, the latter of which may sound ludicrous given how often we keep hearing it's men that have commitment issues. It is true, however, and it manifests as never being …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 04:20 PM
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Dunno what's with ThE CasE tHiNg, but what you say is the plain and simple truth. It's not even very hard to find examples, because just like people who survive high falls from airplanes without parachutes, and there are several who have, it tends to be noted and publicized. The problem is just that somewhere at this point, some people's cognitive train takes a curve too fast, and equates this sometimes happening with this being the normal outcome. Same curve taking skills that also leads so man…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 03:07 PM
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You misspelled meth.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/02/21 03:44 AM
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Well, there's always Mark Zuckerberg? Maybe Bill Gates, if she's open to an older nerd.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 04:58 PM
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Well, since you ask, do you think you can throw in some BPD and NPD to sweeten the pot?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 04:54 PM
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6ft you say? So, do I cut off my feet or half my head?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 04:51 PM
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Just be aware that its often a "I want kids now, I am running out of time" trap. Well, lets not forget "I need a father and provider for my and Chad's kid(s)." Plenty of those, too.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/02/21 04:44 PM
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Common law marriage, it's pretty common around the world, and exists in many states in the US as well. Basically, if the court determines that you've lived "like man and wife", then you'll be treated as if you were married. Exact conditions vary, in some places you pretty much have to refer to each other as husband and wife and present yourself as a family, in others a bit of cohabitation is all it takes. And then we have that Canadian dude who spent a bit of time in a summer home with his gf ev…
/r/MGTOW220/02/21 08:51 AM
1

Hello time traveler from the past? Tattoo removal clinics is a booming business, and have been for at least a decade.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/02/21 10:57 PM
5

Under 5 you say? I'm assuming this Smart man is under 18, then? Otherwise he's gonna catch statutory rape charges, and anything else they can make stick. CP if she sent him any nudes. Any modern "21-year-old" woman with that low of a body count will actually be a young teen with a fake id. Or, an actual 21-year-old with a seriously fake body count.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/02/21 02:49 PM
5

No no, that's just her anti-slut defense. When the flak gets heavy, you know you're over the target! That said, even though this is the case, you're still better off ejecting and parachuting to safety. Otherwise, you put yourself at risk of regret rape. The fact that we have to treat these supposedly adult humans who society otherwise trusts to be able to vote, take rational decision about their lives and make up their own minds, like 3yo children whose minds can be swayed any which way when it …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/02/21 01:25 PM
1

Too true.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 08:16 AM
21

I think it's simpler than that - she most likely asked if they would still date her. And the truth is that many men would, but what they absofuckinglutely WON'T do is marry her, but she likely never asked about that. Instead she just assumed that dating->marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 08:11 AM
15

Yeah, no shit she only heard that it was all hunky-dory to be an ex-whore. First of all, anyone trying to tell her something she didn't want to hear on the subject would immediately be labelled an "incel" and/or misogynist, and promptly ignored. Secondly, as you pointed out, on just about any larger forum on the internet catering to women, chances are that someone trying to respond to a question like that with the actual truth will be silenced and banned long before she'd have any opportunity to…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/02/21 08:06 AM
4

I'm sure you are correct that she's a stripper and a hypocrite, but for you, my friend, "dancer" is really all you need to know, to know to not get involved. It doesn't matter if we're talking a prima ballerina, a highly paid "modern" dancer working with rap/pop/whatever stars, or what have you. In my experience and that of the people I know, they're all bad choices for partners. Unlike strippers, prostitution may not be part of the job description for them, but promiscuity is very common, as is…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 04:39 PM
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You might get lucky and find a girl who's actually sane and really just "doing this for now to pay for college" (aren't they all) but for the most part there are usually some massive issues related to childhood trauma/emotional problems with someone who takes their clothes off for a living. Stop right there, buddy! No. Just no. There are no women who, in your words, are ``actually sane and really just "doing this for now to pay for college" ''. None, whatsoever. No matter what they try to tell y…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/02/21 04:12 PM
1

Yeah, I think I can work with that. I'll open up an (offline) document and doodle around a bit and see what I can come up with.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 02:55 PM
1

Not quite sure what points you'd want to see expanded, but I'm certainly open to the idea, time permitting. (I'm in early retirement, but I still keep busy, lol.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/01/21 02:54 PM
1

And those guys are far from being the worst off, they only happen to be the hardest to avoid seeing.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 05:36 AM
11

Speak for yourself. I take my promises seriously and consider my word to be my bond. If I've committed to a monogamous relationship, then you better believe that I'll stick to that, even in the face of temptation and offers to the contrary. Been there, done that, never broken my word. In fact, just as the current trend in women's behavior is leading humanity to despair, I think the same can be said for many "modern" men not holding themselves to even their own word. Instead we get excuses and ra…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/01/21 05:34 AM
1

...and now imagine how desperate things must be for men, who don't generally have the option of prostituting themselves. What are THEY supposed to do when starvation is knocking, if women claim prostitution is their only way to survive when it happens to them1? 1 Oh, I'm sorry, I forgot - Nobody cares if a man starves. My mistake.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 03:28 PM
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Total economic collapse, with the rest of society following closely behind? Corruption, murder and starvation? Or, as we who've seen it all happen before call it: The easily foreseeable and frequently documented consequences of trying to implement communism.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 03:13 PM
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It's worse - they're asking for the government to cover their income lost due to the pandemic, just like everyone else. However, unlike everyone else who works, these women do not deduct and pay the taxes that funds such safety nets from their income. So basically, they're demanding the coverage of an insurance that they refuse to pay the insurance premium for. Gosh! Entitlement from women?! Who could have foreseen that? Never mind that what they're doing is illegal to begin with. Guess other cr…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/01/21 03:07 PM
1

Those scrotes will simply place another woman in the crosshairs. ...and with the use of a single word, she reveals who she is, and what her actual motivations are.
/r/MGTOW30/11/20 12:26 PM
2

Nono, you misunderstand. Awesome is the Chad she is currently being a cum receptable for.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 12:07 PM
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Ahahahaha... Yeah, I've known several Heidis, the ones who don't end up alone and miserable, tend to end up married and miserable - usually to someone they really consider beneath them, whose life they also will make miserable. Back in their more youthful years, I'd ask how come they kept breaking up with the guys they started dating, and it was, without exception, always some minor issue that they'd magnified beyond all rhyme and reason to this huge fault they just could not live with. Trying t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/11/20 01:41 AM
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Ah, finally someone who gets it! The guys on here going on about dumping any girl that won't put out by date #3 are clearly looking only for hookups and quick, easy sex, and as a result, most of the women they end up with will be sluts and thots. If that's all you want, then great, more power to you. If, however, you'd like to meet someone who might actually pair bond with you, the easy cc-riding women is exactly what you want to avoid, in favor of the ones who will only turn the relationship se…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/10/20 05:30 PM
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Not sure if this would better qualify as weekend-content, but it's Friday, so here goes... Could you possibly imagine a man demanding that his wife compensate him for the years of him bringing home the bacon, if after all that time his wife started earning better? Can you imagine the feminist outrage if he did?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/10/20 06:03 PM
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They've learned that their past relationships were "toxic", but they've neither thought about how they ended up in them, nor even exactly what it was that made them toxic. Other than "man bad". So if they don't know what it is in themselves that is attracted to the toxicity, nor what their own role in it was, it'd be surprising if they actually learned anything from their experience. So instead they latch onto a guy who is pretty much the opposite to what really attracts them, thinking they've l…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 06:22 PM
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Or just too picky. That said, if having a good marriage and a traditional family with children is your goal, then you best believe that you need to start looking for and vetting candidates pretty much from your teens. The best prospects will disappear off the market quite fast and by the time you're 25 or so, most will either already be gone or be looking for someone younger than you. Your only hope at that point is basically to catch someone with a slightly broken picker and/or who is bad at ve…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/10/20 06:01 PM
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And you should thank them for it! It's like when they list "no hookups, no ONS", "no drug users" etc - there's a reason they feel compelled to write that in their profile, namely that it's something they've been doing, a lot, in the past. The thing is, change don't come easy. If they have a history of drama, hookups, drug use or whatever, that's what they know, that's what they're accustomed to, and barring some serious introspection, therapy and/or serious efforts to change, that's what they'll…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/10/20 04:48 PM
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Much as I'm happy for your newfound freedom, I gotta say that giving up meat for pussy seems like a really, really shitty deal. I refuse to believe there exists pussy good enough to give up meat for. Even setting aside the way it'd chafe me to have someone trying to dictate to me what I get to eat.
/r/MGTOW14/10/20 03:01 AM
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Ba-dum tishh...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/10/20 05:19 PM
13

Similar thing here, I worked hard, I got screwed over by a woman, but lucked out post-divorce, and then took early retirement in my mid 30s. My ex resents the fuck out of me for becoming well-off AFTER the divorce, so she got nothing (less than nothing, actually - she ended up having to give me money in the divorce), but I have very, very little to do with her now. Other women I occasionally have had flings with seem to love it at first, but then they tend to sour on it, when the realize that a)…
/r/MGTOW03/10/20 05:47 PM
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So, basically these mugs have outsourced the chilling out at home, not doing much, to their wives, and now they're big mad at you for not doing the same? Sigh...
/r/MGTOW03/10/20 05:19 PM
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If a woman is on a hookup app, that fact in of itself make her not of marriageable quality. Which is why few, if any, women who have high MMV and any serious desire whatsoever to get married will go on the apps. Instead, what you get on the apps are the ones always destined for spinsterhood, and the ones who could have married, but are actively seeking out spinsterhood. Of course, many in the latter category later realize that they made a mistake, and that spinsterhood isn't all it's cracked up …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 12:50 PM
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Nope, not it. The reason they live longer, aside from side-effects of testosterone, is that they outsource all the hard and dangerous jobs to men, hell they even outsource the bulk of the volume of work to me. No wonder that they have healthier bodies later in their lives - they avoided many possibilities of injuries, including those arising from overwork, that men were forced to face since their teens. No wonder they're a majority of those left alive, they passed on all the dangerous jobs and t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/09/20 12:38 PM
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Yeah, hardly anyone but a gold digger would go along with a wedding if they didn't sincerely believe that it would last. At the same time, we have solid statistics showing the actual outcomes of "following your heart" that ought to have prevented anyone from coming to any firm beliefs about the outcomes of marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 08:02 PM
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Her shoulder looks like someone used it as a notepad, doodling shit while talking on the phone or something. I mean, really - tattoos are not so much a romantic/sexual turn-off, but more of a general tag put on undesirables. Or as someone I know put it: Tattoos are a class marker, if you have one, you have none. Of course, when applied to an otherwise somewhat attractive woman who you might have been interested in, it IS a turn-off, but it's a turn-off even outside the romantic realm. If they we…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/09/20 07:46 PM
1

Well, I certainly agree that abundance does not equal a hole in the soul, so we're OK that far, at least. No, the issue I have is with self-awareness and need. Also with investments. If you're a slave to the pussy, you're not free, pretty much by definition. If you can't do without pussy, if you must ensure that you always have easy access to pussy, then it follows that you, like any other addict, will structure your life around ensuring access. That is what the guy I commented on sounds like. H…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 07:51 PM
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I would disagree. It's not a "shaming tactic" to point out what appears to be a tactic grounded in a fear of creating attachment, and I'm most definitely not suggesting any need to settle down. I find, however, that it's immensely helpful to avoid deceiving yourself about your motives and motivations, exactly because it allows you to look clearly and soberly on your life and your actions. I've myself done the whole enchilada, including marriage, betrayal and divorce, and only through luck did I …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 07:03 PM
1

I was talking to/about the person I commented on, and not to assume his gender or anything, but it seemed he was a cock-owner, not a pussy-owner, and that zie was chasing pussy.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/20 06:11 PM
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I'll go full armchair psychologist on you and say it actually sounds more like you've got this huge gaping hole in your soul that you're misguidedly trying to fill with pussy instead of doing the hard work of trying to figure out what's really missing in your life and deal with it. If you were truly OK being on your own and doing your own thing, you would neither be trying so hard to convince yourself that everything is great as it is, nor would you be so dependent on the continous validation th…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/09/20 12:52 PM
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Oh, so you've checked out the photos of them, then?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 06:11 PM
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They blow a fuse when you do it. Even when you're basing your evaluation on the textbook definition of "slut", most women will violently protest the use of the term, especially when it's applied to them. This despite them privately using the term without hesitation when talking with their BFFs about other women. And despite these other women not nearly matching the definition as well as they themselves do.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 06:05 PM
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You know what? I'm perfectly fine with that. I love cats, so knowing there will be a whole lot of cats being fed the fanciest of feasts by alcoholic spinsters actually warms my heart.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/09/20 05:46 PM
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Stupid guys prefer stupider women, that's probably true. The rest? Not so much, because with a stupid partner you always end up either having to handle most non-trivial stuff yourself, or to clean up the mess she makes trying to take care of it herself. Nobody, however, like disagreeable or quarrelsome women, especially those who are also unable to admit when they're wrong.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen13/09/20 11:40 AM
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It's porn. Guy see it in porn, but fail to realize it's scripted fantasy, and want that for themselves. Guess same guys who watch Superman and really, REALLY want to fly. I've tried threesomes, and it's not all it's cracked up to be in reality. If you bring a 3rd into an existing relationship, not only can the actual act become awkward, but there's potential for all kinds of shit afterwards. If you are the 3rd being brought in, you may escape most of the post-act fallout, but even during, you're…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 10:33 PM
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Wish I had the secret sauce to help others do the same, but I basically lucked out, even if it didn't feel like it at the time. Also, nothing would have come of it, if not for my friend. Value your friends. Never let a woman drive a wedge between you and your friends. Friends are the ones who ground you and center you, calls you on you BS, and encourages you when you have doubts. You often can't trust a woman to be there when the shit truly has hit the fan, other than as the flinger of the shit …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/09/20 03:42 PM
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I don't think it's that. It's more that "everyone else" is going to college, and women tend to follow the herd, even when it's rushing towards a cliff's edge. The college slut years is a happy bonus for them, and also a reason for not going into any field of study that requires them to spend serious time on studying once they're there.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/20 08:08 PM
21

Suppose I am, too. In my 20s, especially the first half, I really thought getting married, having kids and that whole deal was what I wanted out of life. While I never had much trouble meeting women, it became increasingly clear that most of the similarly-aged women I met had no interest at all in settling down. I did meet 30+ women that seemed pretty keen, but between the age difference, them very obviously being in a hurry to have kids, and that sweet, sweet smell of desperation, I quickly bow…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/20 08:01 PM
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And as usual, not a god damned word about what she offers to make her worth the attention of the kind of man she's looking for. Unless, of course, you fall for the whole "men's right activist" LARP even though she admitted to being a gold digger earlier in the same sentence, and previously made it abundantly clear that your resources is the only thing about you that she cares about. Combined with the requirement of long term, she's basically an ugly escort on a subscription plan. Which brings up…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/09/20 05:37 PM
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You really gotta wonder what kind of man it is that a woman like this is looking for?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 03:34 PM
2

Nah, the material may have had a certain worth before you started going at it, but once you did, its value dropped to that of scrap or firewood. As for your "labor", competent labor may command premium prices, but incompetence commands negative prices. So there really is no minimum above the scrap value of the material minus transportation costs which means you may still end up having to pay someone to take it away for you.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 03:25 PM
2

Gee, she fell from the ugly tree hitting every single branch on the way down.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 03:08 PM
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Incidentally, a truck stop bathroom is also where her kid was conceived...
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 03:05 PM
2

She's probably repeatedly told him how strong and independent she is in the past, so he decided to take her word for it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 02:32 PM
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Oh, I've had variants of that conversation on several occasions with different women. They think nothing of friendzoning their orbiters, but let me tell you they do. not. like. being on the receiving end of a friendzoning. lol I try to lay it on pretty thick with the "I cherish our friendship and wouldn't want to jeopardize it", "I'm afraid it would destroy our friendship if it didn't work out", "I think of you more as a friend", "I love your like a sister" etc
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 02:14 PM
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And even if not, it most definitely changes how everyone else sees you. Sex work may appear to pay well, but that's because you haven't considered the full picture. Sex work cuts you off from a lot of well-paying jobs. Sex work cuts you off from most of the good partners. Sex work complicates getting and holding even many medium-tier jobs. Having earned the kind of money sex work often pays also creates unrealistic expectations for earnings at future jobs, as well as tempting you into untenable …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 02:05 PM
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18 with 3 kids?! Even if it's twins and a singlet irish twin, it's a pretty early start. No sex before marriage? So she married at, what, 15? then quickly had three kids, then divorced? But religious, so divorce is out - I guess she must have forgotten to mention she's a widow? Also, she's a dead broke homeless midget fatso that is so ugly she don't want her picture published, and she wants to move in with you? But religious, and no sex before marriage, so what are we looking at here? Co-habitat…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 11:40 AM
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Yeah, me too. Can't put my finger on exactly why, but the possibility of it being a woman just didn't enter my mind until I saw what sub it was and double checked.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 04:24 AM
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Well now, the bad boys aren't likely to pay her bills, are they? This chick is desperate for some hard cash, right now, hence the absence of outrageous demands and shit tests in her profile.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 04:21 AM
3

Giggles in early retirement. So far, my income from investments still widely exceeds my normal month-to-month spending, so my nest egg keeps growing even now.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/08/20 04:15 AM
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Well, that's fantastic - that means the trash takes itself out without prompting. If not throwing perfectly good money into the dumpster fire that is entitled women make me low value, then call me Bargain Al. The women I'd consider high value don't play stupid games like that to begin with, fortunately. In fact, if you pulled shit like expensive dates on them on the first couple dates, they'd think you were trying to buy them and be put off by it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/08/20 05:57 PM
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Oh really? Is that based on some manga you read? Divorce rape in Japan is even more brutal than in the west, why do you think so many Japanese men refuse to marry? There isn't even such a concept as shared custody of children after divorce. Custody and full parental rights go to one, and only one, parent, and I'll let you have a wild guess which parent end up with it in 90% of divorces. 40% of men never, ever, see their child again after the divorce, and even if granted visitations, there are NO…
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 03:08 PM
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Oh yeah, you're absolutely right, I really should have mentioned the disastrous effects (for you!) of divorcing a SAHM. Even if you had an agreement that she'd go back to work once the kids turn X, if she files for divorce before she actually go back to work (even if the kids are much older than X at that point), the divorce settlement will still be based on you providing 100% for her and in practice, her earning potential if she did get back to work, is rarely considered. So expect hefty alimon…
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 02:55 PM
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There was no third option, and my response was not meant to convince you, as you're a lost case either way. I just didn't want your nonsense bs to stay uncontested and trick others into giving it any credence whatsoever.
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 02:39 PM
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That's ignorant bullshit said either by people too dumb to actually check, or by people with an agenda. Yes, earning a bit more can put you in a higher tax bracket, but the way the tax system works, that only means you pay more taxes on the part of your income that exceeds the limit of the tax bracket. All the rest of your earnings are taxed as before. I.e., no, you don't ever, ever lose money by earning more. That's just not something that can happen. The usual REAL excuse for having a wife be …
/r/MGTOW09/08/20 01:49 PM
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The statistics and prison roster tell a different story.
/r/MGTOW205/08/20 07:01 PM
2

Nah, Polly want's the entire box of crackers.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/08/20 09:32 AM
5

That is ALWAYS the correct response. If a woman ever comes to you with a request to separate, divorce, "open the relationship", "go on a break" or any other such request, your marriage and relationship is already over. Rather than argue, reason or, God forbid, beg, stop and THINK. She just nuked the relationship from orbit. Separation is just a preamble to divorce, and even if she were to come back to you from the separation and not move to make it permanent, how can you possible ever trust her …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen31/07/20 06:23 PM
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It's so amusing, really. You keep seeing the statistics, and if not, a lot of feminist will be sure to tell you about it, that says more women than men graduate from college. What they are always careful not to mention is the major they're graduating in. Meanwhile, we keep hearing about all about how women in STEM need more support, how STEM programs need to recruit more women etc etc. As if the problem is with the STEM programs, or that they discriminate against women. Nothing could be further …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen27/07/20 07:54 AM
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The thirst is real! Yet, how someone who've lived such a rough 32 years would believe that any famous cheesecake would contact her out of the blue, looking for romance is just.... absurd. Does the woman not have a mirror in her home? Then again, her falling for the first scam kinda tells us she's not exactly Mensa material to begin with. Also, of course, now that she's been courted by Vin Diesel, I'm sure she'll adjust her dating requirements accordingly. It may have been a total scam, but her h…
/r/MGTOW24/07/20 01:54 PM
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Uh-huh? And how, exactly, do you propose to find that hole in the dark? Remember, there are plenty of fat folds there to provide dead ends, and in the dark, how will you tell one from the other?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 12:15 PM
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Gotta love the way they completely ignore what men might want to get out of the whole marriage thing, and what opinions (blue-collar) men might have on the topic of women who have accrued insane amounts of debt to finance educations that open up jobs that pay less than many jobs that only require a high-school diploma. So we have Johnny Plumber, who earns a pretty darn good salary and got there without having to take any student loans. Why would he want to marry Karen who have a Master's in Gend…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/07/20 12:02 PM
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A tatted up, over the hill, harlot with multiple crotch goblins wondering why no good men will want to sign up for turning a ho into a housewife? Yeah, I'm stumped, too. It's probably like she said - she's too intimidating. I sure as hell would be scared to catch something off of her. Never mind the potential for attempted baby trapping and/or divorce rape.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 06:23 PM
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Smoker: Even though she is morbidly obese, she doesn't have the restraint to stop smoking. Disgusting! If she had the restraint needed to stop smoking, she would not have become obese in the first place, nor had four fatherless children to care for. Restraint just isn't her thing, it seems.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 06:09 PM
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Where many of you seem to want to see doom & gloom, I see hope. Here's a young woman who wants a husband and a family, and who have not (yet?) cheapened herself or ruined her ability to pair-bond for life. Many of her contemporaries, if not most, have already made terrible decisions that will follow them through life, racked up tons of baggage that will make any future lasting relationship difficult or even impossible, and permanently impaired their ability to be a committed partner in a relatio…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen23/07/20 05:55 AM
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She expects someone to drop 13 big G's but not to date and fuck them. Not at all, check the last line - she's happy to "share the results" with anyone who makes a large donation. So it's straight up prostitution, and only the haggling over the exact price remains. All the rest, her being a "sweet girl", her abusive relationship, the kid, is just advertising/PR. I.e., lies and half-truths.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/07/20 03:03 PM
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How much are men being expected to compromise? All the way, friend. All the way.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 09:41 AM
1

Heey! I like cats!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/07/20 04:54 AM
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How many women gaining weight have you met that would say that, rather than "it's my body and I'll do what I want with it", and then go all in on stuffing their snout? That, or vehemently denying cause and effect and instead blaming their thyroid or something?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/07/20 09:36 AM
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So what you are telling us is that he already knows you're a prostitute, and now you're worried he'll balk at finding out about you also being a whore and that he's sharing STIs with random Johns? Well, sweetie, given what you claim he already knows about you, he'd have to be pretty stupid+ not to assume that you're also turning tricks on the side. I guess that if he kicks up a fuss, you'll just have to remind him that, unlike your other Johns, when it's his turn, it's a freebie*. * And hope he'…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 02:07 PM
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She seems nice! Not looking for just sex So, you're looking for sex AND other stuff! Great! I love sex and other stuff. companion for dinners, drinks, activities and fun. Hey! What do you know! I eat and drink too! And, I like to do stuff and have fun! We're like... twins separated at birth, or something! Only without the incest. Sense of humor is a must. Yeah, I saw your pic, I can see why that's a necessary prerequisite for someone to date you. I'm 5'6 my pics are fairly current At 49, a decad…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 01:24 PM
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They know that cats, unlike dogs, are discerning creatures who won't be fooled by superficial acts of friendliness or pasted on smiles. I have an old tom who has been with me for 15 years and a large number of women, and if he shows signs of not liking a woman I take home, she's usually trash in one way or another. Mind you, in most cases, I'm fully aware that the woman in question may as well be something the cat dragged in, and in most cases won't even be around for breakfast afterwards. There…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/07/20 04:17 AM
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If he had any sense of self esteem or common sense, he would not have been in this situation to begin with. First off, who in this day and age is willing to go along with the whole no sex until marriage scam? That ALWAYS means no sex FOR YOU until marriage. Meanwhile, she will have done any and everything under the sun. In a few extreme cases, she may not actually have done PiV or anything else potentially hymen-breaking, but only Bill Clinton would believe that all of the other shit she did was…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/07/20 08:04 AM
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The difference that you seem unable to grasp is that all of the restrictions in who can get who come, ultimately, from the women. A man at the top has the choice of all the women below him BECAUSE the wast majority of the women below him will want to get with him. He'd most likely be willing to get with a good woman who is above him, as well, but the thing stopping him is that most of those women will reject him. Conversely, the woman at the top is blocked from the men below her ONLY by herself.…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 06:21 PM
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So, basically, you still haven't learned anything from what you've read? I guess it's OK, some people can only learn the hard way, and can then serve as warnings for the rest of us who are able to learn from mistakes without having to personally make them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 05:59 PM
22

Yah, as bad as a divorce is when you don't have kids in the picture, it's 10x as bad if you do. 100x if she quit working to be a SAHM, because then you'll get royally fucked over alimony as well. And that's just about your money. With children, she'll also have a way to keep jerking you around and ruining your life until they turn 18-20, and don't think for a second she won't use the kids and your access to them as a weapon, or that she won't try to poison their minds against you. Conversely, ch…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 05:53 PM
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As it's been said, a man at the top has his choice of all the women below him. A woman at the top has her choice of only the men above her. A man's increasing financial and social circle success brings more options to the table; a woman's increasing success only limits them. This is BS. A woman at the top could get most guys below her, the problem is not that she's not wanted by those men, the problem is that she is unwilling to consider anyone she considers beneath her, socially, economically e…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/06/20 08:34 PM
2

No shit! I once was young and foolish, and ended up marrying a girl. She ended up cheating (no shit!), and after that, I realized that not only was I gonna go through that shit ever again, but sometime after the divorce, I realized that my life was actually better now that I could do what I wanted. No longer did my time and activities revolve around someone who Just Could Not Spend A Second On Their Own. Instead, I'm able to do what I want, pretty much when I want it, without a lot of hassle. Al…
/r/MGTOW16/06/20 08:58 PM
13

Sadly, these days women come pre-broken by society and schools. Even if they haven't hoed around yet, they've been told that doing so is right and just and "a phase every women go through". Even if you manage to snag a virgin before she's had a chance to hoe around, if you create conditions where she feels free to speak her mind, she'll tell you that she regrets not having her turn on the cc and envies the other women who did. As in, this is your wife/fiancée/long-term girlfriend straight up tel…
/r/MGTOW15/06/20 03:44 AM
13

Even if she is, chances are she'll cheat on you, sooner or later. If you were daft enough to marry her, she will then proceed to divorce rape you when you find out and take her to task for the betrayal. And God help you if any kids were born while you were married. (They don't even have to be yours. Unless you did a paternity test and contested fatherhood within a fairly short window after birth, you'll be on the hook for child support, no matter who the biological father is.)
/r/MGTOW15/06/20 03:26 AM
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There are layers upon layers to peel if you want to get a good answer to that. The goals and principles of communism and socialism sound really good, and much of it actually even survives a quick, casual examination by someone who isn't very well informed or good at critical thinking. Much of it resonates with someone who operates from a nurturing/care taking perspective, and most women are more or less hardwired to be nurturing and take care of people. Also why you see so many women work in, e.…
/r/MGTOW04/06/20 04:31 AM
9

Prostitutes. Prostitutes, the lot of them. The only difference is their price, some being delusional and/or entitled enough to price themselves out of the market.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/20 05:21 AM
3

It's not anyones right to tell anyone else where to go or what to do Nobody is claiming he, or anyone else, has the right to prevent her from going. If he locked her into a closet to prevent her from going, I don't think anyone would be on his side. And tell me, if you think this is controlling, do you feel the same way about "being exclusive"? That's also a boundary, usually enforced with the same kind of consequence - end of relationship. What he did was spell out his boundaries, and the conse…
/r/MGTOW18/05/20 03:47 PM
1

Доверя́й, но проверя́й - Trust, but verify is about as close as it gets. Look, we KNOW this is female nature. To deny or try to ignore it is foolish, and is only going to backfire and end up biting you. So adjust your expectations and behavior accordingly. We know that showing weakness is going kill female attraction, no matter what they tell us, so we display no weakness in front of them. We know that if you get injured, laid off or get seriously ill, you cannot expect loyalty from a woman - sh…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/05/20 01:04 AM
1

Of course not, men are only looking to have children with women who are wife material. With all others, they want to avoid children at all costs. So the fact that none of all the men you've dated wanted to have children with you, only tells us that, to them, you were good enough for sex, but not good enough to start a family with. Sorry if that bursts your bubble, but like many other women, it seems that you conflate sexual market value with marriage market value. This, btw, is how alpha widows …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 10:42 PM
5

Sure I have to stay with only one woman but wow, she's really great. Almost all of them are "really great", until that fateful day when the mask slips and you find out she's not. The only real difference between women is in how good they are at tricking you into believing that they're somehow different from all other women. You may luck out, and never get seriously ill/injured, never have career setbacks, or her never meeting someone better that she thinks she can monkey branch to. That, however…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 10:24 PM
4

women with zero baggage are out there. You crack me up, you really do! The only way you're gonna find a "woman with zero baggage" is if you're raiding kindergartens, and arguably, then they won't be women anyway. By 18, most women already have enough baggage that they're gonna need a sugar daddy just to afford the excess baggage fees.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 09:53 PM
3

Umm, define great physical shape because these women are over weight. Well, a sphere is the most perfect geometry any object can have, so being spherical, or a good approximation thereof, should therefore be a great physical shape. Yes?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 09:43 PM
2

With the guys doing gangbangs, of course. Since you're not doing gangbangs, they're not interested in you. Perhaps harsh, but there you are. Basically, word goes around, and young college women gossip like crazy. If you are attractive, or perceived to be by the other girls, and have established a reputation for being a good lay, non-judgemental towards their sluttiness, and proficient at keeping your yap closed about the goings ons, even girls you never would have suspected of being sexual freak…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/05/20 01:14 AM
20

Listen kid, you're young and naive, and that's OK, we've all been there at some point. I would, however, recommend that you listen when more experienced guys talk about their hard-earned lessons. If you do, maybe you can avoid paying full price for your own education. It's always better to learn from other's mistakes than to insist on making the same damn mistakes yourself before you learn. One of the first lessons you need to learn, and will learn, one way or the other, is that you DO NOT know …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/05/20 04:01 PM
3

Gee, I wonder where he got that from? *looks at the boy's official dad and the failed cross-dresser that he married* Good taste in women doesn't exactly run in that family...
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 04:44 PM
2

Of bloody course we will. As bad as this is, what's worse is that it's not particularly uncommon. Hell, the boy is not even a shoe-in for simp of the year, never mind decades or centuries here. Keep in mind his official dad is the guy who wanted to be his ugly and masculine mistress' tampon, only to later marry her, after divorcing his, objectively, beautiful wife and arranging for her to meet with an unfortunate accident.
/r/MGTOW08/05/20 04:38 PM
3

So what, she knew he was adamantly against even the consumption of porn, and here she is, having participated in creating porn. She claims to have "forgot" about having done this, but the only logical conclusions we can draw from that is that she's either lying about not remembering, or her past is so sordid and depraved that her "just" participating in porn was so tame and insignificant, in comparison to the other, seriously fucked up, shit she was doing, that it ended up being forgettable. Eit…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 02:08 AM
3

No, an escort is a highly paid prostitute. A whore, yes, but an expensive whore. A woman who uses tinder for hookups is a cheap whore, pretty much as cheap as it gets - although you'd be a fool to think the price is zero, it never is. So no, a woman is not an escort for using tinder for hookups, but she is a whore. A low-rent budget whore. Similarly, if you allow someone to record you having sex for them to later view and "enjoy", then what you are taking part in is producing and distributing po…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen07/05/20 01:43 AM
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That, and who the hell wants an Apple phone in the first place? Nah, that's her status signalling to her friends. Soon she'll want you to get a flashy car and whatever other conspicuous consumption she thinks will impress her friends. Kinda tips you off that she's not really interested in a relationship for the person, it's more about keeping up appearances with her idiot friends.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/20 12:42 PM
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Lessee, here - #1 is a bit on the extreme side, especially given #3. #2 is both reasonable and generous, go much higher, and you may as well skip the whole wedding thing and just go straight to giving her half your shit, since paid bonding won't be something she's capable of anymore. #3 is not unreasonable, if that's what you're into, but pretty hard to accomplish at the same time as #1. So the only joke here might be the combination of #1 & #3, other than that, it seems like reasonable requirem…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/05/20 11:50 AM
1

That's what I said.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/04/20 11:21 PM
2

Big surprise there! Women acting like crabs in a bucket, that's completely new and hasn't ever been noticed previously... Women lay a lot of shit at the feet of men that truly belong with other women. For example, you keep hearing them complain about that it's so expensive to keep getting new outfits for parties etc, while men can just put on the same old suit every time and it's NBD. When have you EVER heard a heterosexual man say as much as a peep to a women about her wearing the same outfit t…
/r/MGTOW19/04/20 11:19 PM
1

I don't think it's really the long-term you object to, it's the getting yourself entangled that sucks. Unlike when I was young and dumn, I would no longer want to co-habitate, or have any financial involvement, including children, with a woman. But having a long-term relationship means you don't have to go through all the bs that is the current dating market, instead you have someone you can call when you're free, meet up with and do something fun, but the morning after you or she goes home.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 06:39 PM
1

They do. It's called being a woman. There is no known cure except submission to a good man, but that's misogyny.
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 06:27 PM
3

I hope your printed out the pic and put it up somewhere.
/r/MGTOW15/04/20 05:52 PM
2

Lets see... Sticking with my height and have all the delusional superficial hoes filter themselves out right at the start, OR costly and painful procedures to make your legs disproportionally longer than what looks "normal" for that size body just to satisfy random superficial demands of deranged hoes who will just jump to the next superficial demand to reject you? Yeah, that's a tough call, bro.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 05:38 PM
1

You'd have to ask the wamen about that, they're the ones with the stupid self-defeating demands.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 05:33 PM
0

Speak for yourself. I've dated my share of shorter girls in my younger years, true, but I've since stopped. Sure, it used to be lots of fun holding them up while fucking them standing with their feet never even getting close to the ground. Or, still standing, turning them around and eating them out while they could barely lick the head of my cock. Most other sexual activities standing up (without you lifting them up) are out, however. The real problems start (and don't they always?) when you sta…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 05:31 PM
1

In theory, yes, you could still grow an inch or two, but I'd say it's fairly unlikely. Most reach their final height during their teens, but the growth part of puberty doesn't start or finish at the same age for everyone, just like puberty itself doesn't start at the same age for everyone. That said, as someone 6'3" let me tell you that every time I travel, I envy shorter guys. My feet always end up hanging off the end of hotel beds, and seats in airplanes, buses and many cars are decidedly unco…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen15/04/20 05:08 PM
3

You forgot the most important part - MDIT is a fucking lie 99.99999% of the time. I don't know how many things women and white knights accuse "men" of doing, that, when even casually examined, it turns out a majority of men don't do, never did and have no plans to do in the future. Sure, some men do those things, but so fucking what? When the hell did everyone with a set of XY chromosome become responsible for every action taken by every other person possessing a set of XY chromosomes? Do you ap…
/r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre15/04/20 11:04 AM
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Gotta remember that she haven't really matured much since she was about 16 or so. That explains the astrology, the filters and the godawful spelling and punctuation. Plus, I see no mention of any post-HS education either, and believe me, if she had any whatsoever, it'd be plastered all over the place.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/20 01:54 AM
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It's nice of her to throw in her 13-year old daughter into the deal. Makes it kind of a twofer. Doubt the kid is really very intelligent, though - most likely she's just smarter than her mom, which is hardly an accomplishment to brag about.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen10/04/20 01:49 AM
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