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Fathers/CustodyAlabastercrab/r/MensRights21/11/15 07:40 PM
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In my state, the parents are not allowed to move without court approval.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 02:52 PM
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So glad to have gotten your approval!
/r/MensRights06/04/22 08:30 AM
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People aren’t trolls just because they disagree with you. Have a great night!
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:53 AM
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Try reading it again. I’m talking about my husband. I’m married to him. He has custody of his child from another woman. Thank you. Have a great night.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:42 AM
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Doubt
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:29 AM
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Oh please. I haven’t said anything outrageous. Do you think $300 in child support is enough to live on?
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:22 AM
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My husband had 50/50 custody from age 3 till 10. Then he had full custody. I don’t know what your excuse is, but like they say, excuses are like assholes, everyone’s got one and they all stink. If you don’t have some form of visitation/custody, you only have yourself to blame
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:18 AM
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Well reading comprehension isn’t your strong suit
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:16 AM
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Well, I’m pretty sure my real world experience counts far more than your pseudo man-hate-woman-man-hate-child-support fantasy. I mean serious, do you really think a Woman and child could live off 300 a month? Let’s raise that to 1000 a month? Rent, daycare, food, utilities, gas, diapers, clothes. Really? You’re a ducking moron.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:12 AM
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It’s right there. Go read it
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:11 AM
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Why wouldn’t you get to see your kid? Thousands of men see their kids and pay child support. This idea of men not seeing their kids is so outdated and not based in reality whatsoever. Every man I’ve ever known who had put in an ounce of effort to navigate the court system, has part to equal custody. Don’t be a deadbeat
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:10 AM
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That’s literally not what the comment said
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:02 AM
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Your child support is based on your custody time and your income. If you don’t have your kid, why? My husband had custody of his child. It’s not impossible, and neither is meaningful visitation. Just admit, you don’t want to give any one money to care for your child. Daycare is $1000+ a month, I guarantee your child support is less than that
/r/MensRights06/04/22 07:00 AM
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You make zero sense.
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:48 AM
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John galt would call you an asshole for procreating and not financially taking care of your children, both men and women
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:47 AM
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Alimony doesn’t apply to most situations. M husband only had to pay $65 a month for a child who lived out of state. So, no, child support isn’t enough
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:45 AM
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Women wouldn’t need social infrastructure if the men also “privately financed raising their own children “. But no, they have to be forced with court orders
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:43 AM
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Per haps it’s because that’s always men’s complaint. It’s more of a meet-you-where-you’re-at approach
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:41 AM
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Let’s see, pay someone 30-50k then get stuck paying for AND actually raising the kid for the rest of your life. Yeah, sounds like a no brainer
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:39 AM
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Why? It takes money to raise a child? Who’d have thought a kids gotta eat?! Amiright?
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:38 AM
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Well you’ll be spending much more than what you’re monthly child support would have been! Isn’t that you’re gripe?
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:37 AM
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Are you serious? Are you rich? I can guarantee you that if you get some chick pregnant and choose not to stick around, you will not be funding her entire life. She has to make up the difference. I swear, you men, have no actual experience with real world issues. Just your fantasy dream world that somehow you’re the sole provider of some single mother somewhere. I am married to a man with two other children by two other mothers and he paid 300 a month for one and a whopping 65 a month for the oth…
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:32 AM
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The majority of pregnancies are married couples. Why should the woman be punished for choosing to have children but not the father? What if the father chooses to stay home and not the mother? How could an employer possibly decide the future of a female just because she’s female? What if she can’t or chooses not to have children? An employer can discriminate against someone based on what they might be capable of doing with no regard to whether they can or even want to? Based on that logic, we’re …
/r/MensRights06/04/22 06:28 AM
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Dude, chill out. We were talking about statistics, numbers, that’s it
/r/MensRights13/08/21 03:11 PM
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You’re completely missing the point. No one is saying that it’s ok to beat your kids, no one is saying why people (women) beat their kids, nor are they excusing beating your kids. This conversation is about statistics and the fact that it stands to reason that any majority population should have the majority of cases, whatever they may be. Sorta like how we have a majority white welfare population because statistically speaking, there’s more of them. You can keep all your woman hate to a differe…
/r/MensRights13/08/21 03:00 PM
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Women are statistically the primary care giver of children so it would be expected that they’re the majority perpetrators, however if you think of it like that, then the men’s percentage is quite high
/r/MensRights12/08/21 04:33 PM
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Her husband is asking for an outrageous amount like this for spousal and child support.
/r/MensRights23/07/21 04:38 PM
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You must not be up to date on Kelly Clarkson’s divorce
/r/MensRights23/07/21 06:24 AM
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You would abandon your children?
/r/MensRights05/07/20 05:01 AM
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Yes, but she doesn’t decide the amount. The state he lives in has a set percentage they take. He’s upset because he has to support his kids, just like everyone else
/r/MensRights05/07/20 05:01 AM
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He’s working to support his kids, as he should be. And he gets another check during the month. It’s no ones fault he makes shit wages.
/r/MensRights05/07/20 05:00 AM
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That’s a two week check and he didn’t even work a full 40 hours a week
/r/MensRights05/07/20 04:58 AM
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You fucking twat! Men's rights doesn't mean you have the right to use violence against someone or that you aren't responsible for your own fucking actions. This is the kind of shit that gives this sub and "movement " a bad name. Man the fuck up and walk out the door for fucks sake. You don't beat someone unconscious!
/r/MensRights10/01/18 07:58 AM
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In California you're required to go to mediation, did you explain this all to the mediator? What was written in the mediation report? At these ages , the mediator would have spoken to your children separately, what was in the report about that conversation? Did you request a trial as outlined at the bottom?
/r/MensRights02/10/17 01:00 AM
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You're expecting reason from the unreasonable
/r/MensRights18/06/17 06:04 AM
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Be proactive. File for joint custody/visitation and file to establish child support. Spend as much time with your kid as possible and don't pay a dime more than required
/r/TheRedPill09/04/17 07:10 AM
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I don't know man. 18 years co parenting with crazy sounds a lot better than 18 years in the pen
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 03:39 PM
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He now has full custody by default as there is a protective order in place. Prior to this video the court didn't believe or couldn't substantiate his claims of abuse.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 06:27 AM
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Same here in California. Every garnishment comes with instructions and doesn't allow for more than a 50% deduction
/r/MensRights30/10/16 07:04 AM
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50/50 custody doesn't mean no support is paid. If one parent makes significantly more, they will still pay child support. In my case, my husband had primary custody and when we looked into filing for child support we were told we'd still owe her support. Granted it was less than $100 a month, but that really pissed me off. So we decided, obviously, not to persue it and hope to god she didn't find out that she could still collect
/r/MensRights30/10/16 07:02 AM
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Most states have guideline support and that is probably what he is paying. My state factors in income and time spent with the kids. If she is able to cancel on him that implies he has no court ordered custody arrangement. This is vital, not just regarding support but more importantly it provides him time with his kids. Theoretically, she can't cancel those times. There is no getting around guideline support, it is what it is. But he absolutely needs to get court ordered visitation to protect his…
/r/MensRights03/08/16 01:23 AM
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This was never a "would you rather " debate, nor for me was it a pro or anti circumcision debate. Your words are pointless because you are arguing against a position I never stated nor implied. Circumcision is almost standard practice in America, hence the reason why women would come to "expect" or prefer it. Is cutting ears a centuries old practice where almost every woman you see has their ears cut? No? I didn't think so
/r/MensRights27/07/16 01:08 AM
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Jesus Christ! I wasn't comparing them to defend circumcision, therefore you're whole little speech was a waste of your time. And for the record I didn't even compare them someone else did. My point is that circumcision IS COMMON IN AMERICA. That's it, end of story. Now be a good boy and say by golly, you're right!
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:03 PM
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It amazes me how many of you don't understand or can't comprehend what I was actually saying. Never once did I state I was pro circumcision, I stated it was common
/r/MensRights26/07/16 05:52 PM
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How can I change my mind when I never stated I was pro circumcision? Do you not comprehend what I've written?
/r/MensRights26/07/16 05:48 PM
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Um no
/r/MensRights26/07/16 08:06 AM
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Thanks!
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:58 AM
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Wait, I just repeated your words back to you. I missed the sign that said Welcome to the Twilight Zone, I always do. Have a good night
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:56 AM
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I haven't been subjected to female genital mutilation but I can understand how horrible it is. You cannot. Furthermore, I can apply those same feelings to the anti circumcision cause. Are you sure I lack empathy?
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:41 AM
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Because that's not the norm here! Circumcision is! These are facts not opinion. But it is standard for men to like boob jobs. And fgm is the norm in other countries. Please don't project sjw opinions on to me
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:39 AM
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Well now you're reaching . Besides, you can't teach something you haven't yet learned
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:22 AM
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Well, you were the teacher here now weren't you
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:12 AM
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And to answer your specific question, sure, I don't care what preferences a guy has.
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:11 AM
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That's the point I'm trying to make, cutting off ears and rape and cut labias aren't a thing in the western world, circumcision is. So are breast implants. And actually labiaplasty and vaginaplasty are becoming a thing. My original point is and was, both men and women have physical preferences
/r/MensRights26/07/16 07:09 AM
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Wow, ad hominem and straw man in the same post, you're really good at this! I'm not quite sure where I stated I was pro circumcision but hey thanks for playing. Have a good day
/r/MensRights26/07/16 06:51 AM
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Oh please. First, perhaps you should practice what you preach, but hey, it fits the MO for this post doesn't it. Second, you can't compare circumcision to cutting off ears. To do so is just a tad dramatic, I mean, they aren't even on the same plane. Whether right or wrong, one is extremely common, almost expected and the other is not. Maybe he should have compared it to breast implants, that would have been a better analogy
/r/MensRights26/07/16 06:36 AM
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Well now you're being dramatic
/r/MensRights26/07/16 05:39 AM
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Isn't it standard to rate women based on looks? I mean, I see it in practically every post in this sub. I don't see the problem here. Just like guys, girls have preferences too
/r/MensRights26/07/16 05:34 AM
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You can't have surgery until you're an adult. You'd take hormone blockers and estrogen/testosterone depending on your gender
/r/MensRights25/07/16 03:21 AM
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I don't think they are getting hormone blockers after the first doctor visit. It's certainly not done in a whim
/r/MensRights25/07/16 03:19 AM
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California has an online calculator you can use to get an estimate of what you might pay. http://www.childsup.ca.gov/resources/calculatechildsupport.aspx California calculates support based upon the wages of both parties and time spent with the child. If your income goes down it is reasonable to assume that the support would too. But don't forget, you are paying less than guideline now so it may not go down at all. You also need to consider whether the other parents income has gone up or down as…
/r/MensRights20/06/16 01:32 AM
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He's fucking reading something that doesn't even seem to be his own opinion.
/r/MensRights19/06/16 03:49 AM
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And yet "toxic masculinity ", misogyny, and anti-feminism is well rooted in the Islamic religion and culture.
/r/MensRights13/06/16 11:56 PM
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Complaining isn't proof of a lack of action. Under your premise, she'd still have to prove something that she wouldn't be capable of proving.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 07:24 AM
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Thank you for your service
/r/MensRights12/06/16 01:32 AM
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And fantasies about getting fucked from behind by a shemale. Can't find one post about kids or an ex and if you notice he hasn't gone into detail anywhere in this post nor any of his replies. I sense a karma whore
/r/MensRights12/06/16 01:29 AM
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You can't prove a negative. I mean really, how can you prove someone hasn't paid you?
/r/TheRedPill12/06/16 12:54 AM
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Can I play devils advocate for a minute? 1. Don't you have a custody order in place? 2. If she's "taking him to his step-dads" doesn't that mean the same as she's keeping him home?
/r/MensRights12/06/16 12:42 AM
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In my state you can ask the court to grant something along the lines of first in line for babysitting. If granted, she would have to ask you first anytime she needs a babysitter and could only find someone else if you said no
/r/MensRights12/06/16 12:38 AM
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It gives the impression that there is more to the sentence than just that: "Tell the judge, xyz". For all we know, he's taking a play out of the vindictive ex book and is manipulating the kids. It happens everyday. The courts don't know you and can only take things at face value. Kids don't need to be coached on the truth so when there is even the slightest indication that the kids are being coached, it raises red flags. Courts don't think the same as normal people do. Things you may think are a…
/r/MensRights15/04/16 01:04 AM
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You aren't allowed to coach the kids and tell them what they should say. If things are bad there is no reason to prompt your kids, they'll say the truth when asked, unless of course one parent is telling them what they should or shouldn't say, hence the reason it's frowned upon to discuss these things with the kids.
/r/MensRights15/04/16 12:17 AM
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My husband stuck his dick in crazy. I've had the unpleasure of having to deal with her for the past 16 years. Trust me, I know all about it.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 11:31 PM
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I really feel for the guy but he just proved on camera that he's talking to his kids about court and custody and instructing them to "tell the judge". These were huge no-no's in my husbands custody proceedings.
/r/MensRights14/04/16 08:15 PM
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The mother wasn't willing to do any of that, like I said, maybe if she was a decent person.
/r/MensRights09/04/16 05:37 AM
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The judge in my husbands custody case gave the following rationale in denying the mothers attempt to gain 50/50...... Demanding 50/50 implies the time spent belongs to the parent, not the child and shows concern for what the parent gets, not the child. This, in turn, doesn't allow the child any time for itself to do activities it chooses. My stepchild was 12 at the time, involved in sports and different youth groups, had friends in the neighborhood, etc and her mother lived 30-45 minutes away. S…
/r/MensRights09/04/16 05:15 AM
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It's the woman's fault for causing the man to want to dump her! Duh! Oh and let's not forget, it's her own fault for getting pregnant and not wanting to kill her baby. Let's face it, if she had an abortion, she wouldn't be a single mother, she'd just be single
/r/TheRedPill31/03/16 07:43 AM
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The concept of rights, in and of itself, has always been something I'm interested in. After witnessing my husband go through family court and deal with a horrific ex, which in turn changed my opinions on my own parents situations, I find it important to not only support men but to also counter the ideas that my daughters are exposed to throughout society. I find it equally important to teach my son how to deal with how society will treat him as I do teaching my daughters to question what society…
/r/MensRights17/03/16 06:13 AM
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At my sons school there is a black man that picks up a white boy everyday after school. I mean, I scratched my head a little, but I never thought to call the police
/r/MensRights17/03/16 05:59 AM
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Congrats! Often times men feel defeated but the key is to keep trying and never stop advocating for your children. Don't let one or two or three defeats end your fight, you must keep going. Eventually they see the truth. My husband has successfully navigated family court for 17 years, it was hard and emotional. He had setbacks but he never gave up and has had full custody for the past 8 years.
/r/MensRights11/03/16 08:57 PM
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No one should have to register for the draft.
/r/MensRights24/02/16 01:07 AM
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Awe shucks. Is that your trp pick up line? I'm flattered
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 04:21 AM
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I thought lurkers didn't comment, cause you know, they just lurk.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 03:10 AM
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I (f) was in the car with my kids (boy, 9 and girl, 17) when this report came on the radio. (we live in California) I muttered "that's bullshit" as we were pulling into a parking spot and my daughter asked me what was wrong with the subject. I said boys and girls are allowed to have their own separate clubs. Everyone is allowed to form groups and control who is in them. The girls can do any activity in their group that they want, there is no need to force their way into the boys group.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/15 06:26 PM
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I think he's getting some bad legal advice or New York has some fucked up custody laws. He should have fought harder to clear his name and he should be fighting damn hard for his child. My husband gained custody of his child with a bogus dv on his record and he successfully navigated family court for over ten years without the benefit of a lawyer
/r/MensRights11/11/15 12:55 AM
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"Co-operation is infinity better then conflict." The point is, it's not cooperation when you are forced.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 07:32 AM
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I've written and rewritten my response to you 5 times and the more I think about it the more pissed off I get. So I'm just going to say, good luck. Stay strong, keep your emotions in check, play the long game, and always be there for your kid. Every situation is different and most of them are fucked up. It sucks balls, this situation, especially if the mother is a vengeful bitch . There is so much advice I could give but I don't feel like writing a book. When it comes time for the court order, g…
/r/MensRights16/10/15 06:51 PM
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What a sick fuck. I hope she rots in jail
/r/MensRights15/10/15 02:37 AM
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The teachers I know make six figures. A second grade teacher....yeah.....six figures....at a public school
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 06:10 AM
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While I don't agree with the "women are paid less" issue, your take on the situation is false. The issue claims that women who are doing the SAME job as men are paid less for that SAME position. Its not an issue of women are in less paying jobs than men, its that they are paid less for the same job
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:51 AM
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