Alafran Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	18-year-old her and 20-year-old me. Don't want a gf Just go get some frozen yogurt and if you are vibing move to the park or a nice place in your city and make a move you know	/r/seduction	29/11/16 12:16 AM
1	What term do you use ? "hang out", "go out", "date" ..? Depends on what you want. If I'm looking at a girl as gf potential, I'll say date. If trying to hookup, something more casual feels appropriate.	/r/seduction	23/09/15 04:37 AM
1	24 , male virgin , not sure what to do... I just got home from 6 months in SEA. I'm sad.	/r/seduction	11/04/15 12:46 PM
1	What's the etiquette when pursuing more than one girl, being monogamous at what point do you say "Hey I'm seeing someone" Just commenting for visibility. I'm in a somewhat similar situation and would love to see some more discussion on this topic.	/r/seduction	13/03/15 02:47 PM
5	A Facebook Gem about "Nice Guys" I was a chronic nice guy growing up. I always thought that if I told girls they were pretty, talked and listened to their problems, and did whatever they asked of me then they would start liking me. This is a stupid fucking idea because it is manipulative as all hell, and incredibly dishonest on top of that. It's manipulative because it made the girls feel guilty for not liking me, and dishonest because I was lying about my wants and intentions. Yet it is still easier to just bitch about women b…	/r/seduction	22/09/14 12:24 PM
4	Falling for a girl too quickly New is always better	/r/seduction	16/09/14 03:57 PM
1	How do you get past being a virgin? If you really feel that way then you should go for it man. Report back and let me know how you are in 6 months.	/r/seduction	12/09/14 03:46 AM
1	How do you get past being a virgin? If you really are happy most of the time, that's awesome. But if I'm right in the assumption that the unhappiness you are feeling due to this circumstance is bleeding over into other facets of your life, then you really need to find a way to move past it.	/r/seduction	12/09/14 03:08 AM
3	How do you get past being a virgin? You can't expect a girl to make you 100%. You have to be 100% and looking for a person to make you 200%. I think you should really just focus on you. Also, it seems you are really putting sex on a pedestal. You need to stop that, because your expectations are totally unrealistic. Sex is cool, sex is fun, and when shared with someone you love, can be an amazing emotional experience. But by every standard you are completely setting yourself up for failure. Sex is not a cure. Sex is not a crutch to…	/r/seduction	12/09/14 02:39 AM
2	How do you get past being a virgin? I'd actually recommend taking a break from girls. You need to work on yourself. If you can't love yourself, how could you possibly expect anyone else to love you? If you are telling yourself that you aren't looking for love, and that you just want to hookup, it just doesn't work like that. I guarantee that if you got laid tonight by a 10/10 chick, you would feel even worse than you do right now because absolutely nothing will change and you will hate yourself for it. I seriously recommend readin…	/r/seduction	12/09/14 12:29 AM
4	If you don't kino, expect to be friendzoned 90% of the time. You honestly just sound like a cock	/r/seduction	05/07/14 06:05 AM
1	If you don't kino, expect to be friendzoned 90% of the time. Relevant username	/r/seduction	05/07/14 05:57 AM
3	How to properly k-close after a dinner and movie date? Personally I don't like doing group dates or movie/dinner dates, but since you are probably committed I think you should excuse yourself from the group with the girl for a minute after dinner and before the movie, kiss her, return to group and proceed with the date. With kisses there really is no perfect time where it is just going to happen. You have to make it happen. With a group it becomes much harder to make it happen though. I wouldn't want to do it in front of a group of friends, and she …	/r/seduction	12/05/14 10:54 PM
10	Seduction: she's married and I am too Talk to your fucking wife before you destroy your life over pussy	/r/seduction	20/04/14 05:13 AM
9	How do you show intent without coming off as creepy/unattractive? Kino is how you show you are interested. If you aren't doing any kino they may be weirded out by your sudden advances.	/r/seduction	28/02/14 02:31 PM
4	How do you let someone down gently? That's the pussy way. Be a man and tell her what you want her to hear.	/r/seduction	28/02/14 03:18 AM
20	You wanna get laid? Then put your balls on the table right now Oh God stop	/r/seduction	26/02/14 07:12 AM
2	FUCK. Will I ever succeed? Look, I'm no expert at this myself, but you may want to take a step back and just work on your inner game. I think that's how you will solve your catch-22. Detach your value from your success with women, and women will come.	/r/seduction	15/02/14 06:31 PM
6	I'm falling in love again... All I'm seeing is excuses to forever wallow in mediocrity	/r/seduction	09/01/14 05:36 AM
1	[Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? I'm 17 and graduated high school early, so there isn't much opportunity for me to meet girls my age.	/r/seduction	08/12/13 03:21 AM
3	What was your very first approach like? Saw a girl I thought was really pretty (hb9) and decided that there was no reason not to because I would never see her again, right? The approach went amazing. Got her number, 2 days later I took her to see a movie, which was a horrible idea, but whatever. Basically the date went horrible and I never saw her again. Except every single day walking to and from class. God that was awkward.	/r/seduction	24/10/13 06:01 AM
9	Be a fucking value giver Always leave the campsite in better condition than when you got there. In this case, the campsite = women.	/r/seduction	29/07/13 08:17 PM