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It's both economical and a gender issue. But I agree, the root causes are economical and solving them would help both men and women who face homelessness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 05:07 PM
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I can tell you child abuse is way more common and socially accepted than abusing your wife
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 04:54 PM
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So liberal women love fucking conservative married men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:56 AM
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Yeah by other men, so what? Maybe not oppressed but certainly at the bottom of the social hierarchy. People leave psych ward more suicidal than they went in. Being caged and drugged against your will is a traumatic experience. Abuse is common too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 10:47 AM
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The point is high mortality events affect more men than women. Suicide, wars, fights, crime etc. And as for social factors, unfortunately men have been pretty resistant to efforts to improve their health You really, really want to blame men for dying uh? Maybe lower the misandry a little. Women smoke as much as men and they drink also just as much adjusted by body weight. If you want to talk about unhealthy habits, women self-medicate way more often than men. A lot of women are addicted to benzo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:40 PM
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I don't get why Americans worship veterans. Killing people doesn't mean they deserve more welfare than a postman, for example. Secondly, support systems help. Women have more support than men for a multitude of inter social reasons so even though they are not homeless they are also not in a good position You just precisely explained why it's a gender issue. And also because most shelters are for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:59 PM
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It's both biological and also social. Notice how the gap gets smaller on higher income levels. Where men are not going to war, drying from gang violence, or workplace accidents! Yes, that's why the gap gets smaller. There is still a gap because it's also biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:51 PM
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Most victims of violent crime are men. They just failed to have money, sure, it's that simple. Let's not look at the systemic issues behind that. Let's not question if "failure to have money" is a good enough reason why someone should sleep on the street. Suicidal people are still caged against their will and drugged against their will in psychiatric institutions.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:47 PM
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This is just not true. Most of the states with abortion bans have exceptions for risky pregnancies, rape or incest. And it's not so difficult to spend a weekend in a state that allows abortions. In practice, the vast majority of women who need an abortion will be able to go to another state to get it. In 2023, there have been a whooping one million abortions in the US, compared to 600.000 in 2021, before Reo vs Wade was overturned. This article and the map illustrates pretty well how the abortio…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:32 PM
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Only mothers do worse than men in the workplace. Childfree women are doing well. Objectively, a pregnant woman is more costly for the company. That's why they do worse. Not because companies think women are less capable. Regarding healthcare, it's true that there are studies that show that women's pain is slightly less likely to be taken seriously. But it's not a big difference with men. Women are not oppressed, just disadvantaged in some areas. Men are disadvantaged in others. Men get longer pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 06:11 PM
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Women are so oppressed that when they have a problem, a national emergency is declared, but when men have a problem, nobody cares. I am a male victim of DV. Nobody declares a national emergency on my behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:52 PM
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How that process works depends on the country or depends on the state inside the US. Cherrypicking one post on the sub doesn't invalidate the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:33 PM
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Again, I’ll ask…if slavery were up to the states, would you say black people as a whole were not oppressed? How would this even work? What is the context of this? If we go back to 1850, yes, all black people were oppressed because even free states had discriminatory and oppressive laws against black people.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:20 PM
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Again, I’ll ask…if slavery were up to the states, would you say black people as a whole were not oppressed? No. I would say slaves are oppressed. Not black freemen.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 05:14 PM
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It's not women as a whole who are oppressed in the United States. Just women who want to have an abortion and can't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:31 PM
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How many women needed an abortion and couldn't get one in the United States? The number is not 25 million.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 03:29 PM
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Even if gay marriage was banned nationwide, it would still not be enough to qualify as "oppression". Maybe discrimination, but not oppression. Comparing gay marriage to slavery is ridiculous. I never said I was cool with abortion bans. I am just saying, abortion bans don't "oppress" women in general, just women who need an abortion and can't get one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:48 PM
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Holy hyperbole. Women are not forced to donate kidneys or forcibly sterilized. Abortion is still legal in most states. This will depend a lot on the country, and the individual judge. Some judges believe prejudice over evidence. This can go both ways. A lot of men end up in jail without evidence because the testimony of the supposed victim is considered enough. In the United States you can get away with rape and murder if you are rich, but usually not if you are poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:18 AM
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This is oppression of a small minority of American women who find themselves in this situation. Not oppression of women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:08 AM
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Women live longer than men because men are more likely to die young of unnatural and violent causes like war, suicide, drug overdose, fights, gang violence, workplace accidents etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 11:04 AM
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Getting laid off for being pregnant is not the same as getting laid off for being a woman. Not finding clothes that fit you because some parts of your body are very big or small hardly qualifies as "oppression". Men have this problem too. Just because some women are victims of crimes doesn't mean women are oppressed. Abortion is still legal in most western countries and most American states. still fighting to be considered human 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:54 AM
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Only 6 states ban abortion without exceptions. Only 11 states ban abortions with exceptions. 33 states allow abortions at least during the first trimester. Women in America are not oppressed, just in a minority of states. Even in those minority of states, how many women need an abortion? And for those women who need an abortion, how many don't fall within the exceptions? And for those who don't fall within the exceptions, how many can't go to another state to do it? The truth is abortion bans on…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 10:43 AM
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I can't tell if this is a joke or like you are trying to actually make a point
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:52 AM
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But if men didn't work at Door Dash, who would sexually harass you when you are hungry?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:50 AM
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I didn't victimize anyone. And you are not a victim. Yes, a lot of women in history were victims of oppression because of their gender. Not modern western women like you. And a lot of men in history were complicit in maintaining that system of oppression. Not modern western men like me History is history. Don't confuse it with the present day.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:47 AM
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https://www.bbc.com/news/uk-63061077
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:40 AM
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I am willing to stand with them, but I am not willing to steal their victim card for myself like feminists do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:34 AM
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It will probably never happen to you either I don't claim to be oppressed because other men are fighting in wars It's strange how women claim the victim card for things that happen to other women and not themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:14 AM
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r/antipsychiatry Plenty of people telling their story of being committed against their will for being suicidal. I guess you are going to tell me they are all lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:12 AM
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No, they aren't. Being a victim of a crime is not the same as being oppressed. And plenty of men and women live happy lives without being victimized.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:06 AM
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Did that happen to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:04 AM
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Why should I trust you, a redditor making a comment on reddit, but not the other redditors making posts about their experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 02:01 AM
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That's China in COVID times. Very exceptional statistic. Not extensible to the western world. I don't think men are oppressed either.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:58 AM
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Ok, the doctors hold all the power, in plural. The doctors who are all on the same team and have the same supremacist and ableist ideology towards the recluse.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:38 AM
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Lol. Okay, brain fart
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:33 AM
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The point is that the person prescribing the drugs is not the same as the person taking care of the child. There is a separation of power. Doctors in psych wards are prescribing drugs to the same patients they are controlling. They have the ability to drug and declare incapable (through diagnosis) people under their custody. In the case of the child, parents have custody, and a third party has the power to diagnose and prescribe drugs. It should be the same for psych wards. The doctor who diagno…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:30 AM
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Underage boys are also abused by adult men and women. Men are also sexually harassed by other men and women quite often When It comes to verbal abuse, women win. More men suffer verbal abuse from their spouse than the other way around. Men are more like to get killed by another man than a woman is. Men are still being groped and raped too, often by other men, and nobody cares or raises awareness about It. A black man is way more likely to get killed by a cop than a black woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 01:06 AM
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An attempt on your life is often enough for the court to decree involuntary commitment. Even if they need a court order to lock you in, once you are in, the doctor holds all the power. Again, it doesn't work if they are already homeless and on drugs. The best way to fight homelessness is to prevent it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:56 AM
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You are right, they are not conservative women, they are pick mes. And conservative men are just incels. And liberal women are just art hoes. And liberal men are the sissies. Is your worldview stuck in junior year of highschool?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:42 AM
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Anti-abortion laws are not made to kill all women. Your analogy doesn't really work.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:37 AM
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My original post said "people in psychiatric hospitals" in general, not just psychotic. You are deciding to focus only on psychotic because It fits your argument, while ignoring the rest. If they can say no, they are capable of making a decision. It's as simple as respecting consent. An apartment is also a home. It works way better if you do it before they become homeless.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:35 AM
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Yes, whatever medication the doctor prescribes, not whatever medication they prescribe themselves. Parents can't slap a diagnosis on their child so the court considers him incapable I wonder what your half sister and your mother has to say about that
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:21 AM
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1/3 of American women currently have high risk pregnancies and also live in a state where abortion is banned with no exception for the life of the mother? I would say less than 0,1% of American women meet those criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:14 AM
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This is stupid af. Liberal men catching stray bullets and conservative women getting scott free If you want to shit on conservatives, shit on conservatives, not on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:12 AM
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She got more votes than Trump. She didn't get enough votes to be president. Both statements are correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:10 AM
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People on psychiatric wards: For suicidal people or self-harm, freedom. Nobody should be caged against their will for being miserable. For people who are a danger to others: I don't think they should be set free. I don't think it's bad to restrain them when necessary. But they should have basic human rights. The right to body autonomy. The right to have a personality. The right to consent or not consent. No drugs against their will. That's a red line that shouldn't be crossed. And a lot of camer…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/24 12:07 AM
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Can parents just drug children with whatever drug they want? Can parents decide that children are still incapable after 18? Can parents drug a 17 year old against his will, fry his brain, and then claim he is incapable when he turns 18 because they fried his brain? In a psych ward, who makes the decisions for those considered incapable? The doctor. And who decides who is capable or incapable? The doctor. Judge, jury and executioner. Of course absolute power is oppressive. I guess it's easy for y…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:49 PM
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Because I am not American. Today is just Thursday. All the things you listed happen to men too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:35 PM
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They don't care about solving the causes of homelessness and the source of oppression. Charity is not the same as liberation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:31 PM
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Okay. Pregnant women whose life is at risk are oppressed in a small minority of states. Just them. Not women in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:28 PM
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Classic example of American ignorance about the outside world. Still men. And women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:20 PM
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Because they didn't get enough votes. Simple as. That's democracy. The idea that a politician is oppressed because people didn't vote for her is laughable. They are still paying child support. And that's in the US. In many Europan countries fathers can't give up custody like that. Why is there more hate on single mothers than there is on fathers who walked out on their children? There isn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:19 PM
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That's not pandering, that's helping people in need
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:12 PM
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Lol, if you really think middle class women have It worse than homeless people, it's pointless to debate with you. If they are capable of saying no, they are capable of making a decision. This is what I am talking about. Feminists fighting about consent and body autonomy women already have. These people have their consent and body autonomy systematically violated and you try to justify It. You can enter a psych ward suicidal and be slapped with a "psychotic" diagnosis because you don't want to t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:11 PM
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30% women, 70% men. Ok. Now lets look at those sleeping on the streets. 90% plus men. Most homeless people are men, and yet most shelters are for women only.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:57 PM
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Homeless people live better lives than most people outside the US No lol Also most of the issues in society are caused by men Also no. They are caused by a small minority of men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:52 PM
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I women were oppressed Kamala wouldn't be presidential candidate and Nancy Pelosi wouldn't be speaker of the House. There is 0 states where men can choose to not be fathers after conception. Women can choose in most states. Because women use the victim card to justify asshole behaviour, entitlement, misandry, legal privileges or receiving special treatment to the detriment of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:48 PM
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No they aren't pandered to. A small minority of politicians talk about their very real and serious problems. A big majority of politicians pander to women about first world problems or nothing-burgers. Drugging someone against their will is a flagrant violation of basic human rights. Yes, they are oppressed because doctors act as jury, judge and executioner. They have way too much power and way too little accountability, and they abuse it pretty often. Do a quick search on reddit about people ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:42 PM
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A lot of men also die because they can't get access to needed healthcare. Women live longer than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 10:30 PM
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When is this troll going to get banned? Literally all her posts are rage bait lol. Stop feeding the troll
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 09:07 PM
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Uh? We respond to women here because it's a debate sub lol. The point is responding. Why are you even here if you don't want to debate with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:58 PM
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I am skeptical of psychological therapy. I don't believe it's "scientific", or at least not as scientific as medical therapy. You can objectively measure blood pressure, cardiac frequency, blood concentration of white cells, red cells, minerals, proteins, hormones etc. You can objectively observe if a bone is broken. You can't objectively measure feelings, you can't objectively observe thoughts. You can't objectively define a psychological therapy like you can do the substance and concentration …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:50 PM
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You have said nothing that proves it either. Your anecdotal experience is not a reliable statistic. And your anecdotal experience is with American men. It says nothing about men from other cultures. Btw, why are you so angry? Chill. Your post history is full of hate. It seems that every time you have a bad experience with an individual man, you blame the entire male gender for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 08:33 PM
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Instead of looking at anecdotal evidence, why don't you look at statistics? Statistics say around 60% of heterosexual women usually orgasm during sex. That means 60% of men are good enough in bed to make a woman orgasm. Therefore it's not true that most men suck in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:30 PM
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Most men feel upset and emasculated when you try to guide them. Most men where? I live in Europe and I think most men around here and myself are progressive and open minded when it comes to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:12 PM
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Being 165 cm does affect your dating prospects, and it's not in your control. But there are a ton of other things you can do it improve your chances in dating that are indeed in your control. There are also a bunch of other things you can do to be more happy alone. This is how good therapy looks like, not gaslighting yourself into believing that your problems are not so bad or that you should just accept them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:56 PM
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Most men want you to feel pleasure too, but a lot of men don't know how to do it. Most men aren't receptive to women's advice anyway, they just get mad. I am sorry you had sex with men who are not willing to listen to your advice in bed. There are a lot of dudes who do listen. Maybe you should give them a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:10 PM
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Well they will have to get over themselves. At that point you are creating your own problems in your head. Just be grateful that she chose you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 11:02 AM
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Because social skills matter when courting a woman. They matter a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:42 PM
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Dude. A cock sleeve is designed to be placed on a cock. A fleshlight is not designed to go inside a vagina. This comparison makes no sense
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:24 PM
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I know what the clitoris is and where it's located. I have made women orgasm using my hands alone. That's because my first time having sex was with woman who was confident enough to teach me how to do it. Otherwise I would have no idea what I am doing. The things is, you can't expect society to educate men on how to be good at sex, because society is not going to do it. If you are in bed with a man and he doesn't know how to get you off, just tell him how to do it. Tell him where he has to put h…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 12:06 PM
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I don't see it. Women are still pretty much different from men
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:12 PM
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Bro, I don't think you understand. Our brain is still the same as caveman's brain. For a caveman woman the optimal strategy to reproduce is to find a guy with good genes who is willing to fuck her and a man who is willing to take care of the children. Those men don't have to be the same person. Same for modern women. The optimal evolutionary strategy is to get pregnant by attractive dudes and be a single mother and then find some loser who is willing to take care of her kids. They are not copyin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 10:01 PM
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They didn't prefer it, they just had no other option. A woman needed a man to provide for her. Now women can pay their own bills and they can show their true preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:55 PM
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And women love to be lied to
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:51 PM
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They are not copying men. Women have always wanted to fuck hot dudes. This is something that both genders have in common, not something women are copying from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:50 PM
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So what? Why do you keep bringing up men when this post is about women's dating strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:46 PM
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The only reason a dude needs to be interested in a woman is that she is interested in him. That's it. Of course if you ask us we will massage your ego a bit. We won't say "because you are the only woman who is willing to fuck me", we will say "because you are kind and smart".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:44 PM
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Women do settle. Women settle for a man who is willing to commit to her. Of course they still fuck hot dudes before settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:33 PM
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Did you watch the video? The whole point she is making is that "smashing" is not worth it if he is not willing to commit or be exclusive. From the perspective of a man, having sex with an attractive woman is always good. From the perspective of a woman, having sex with an attractive man isn't always good.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:18 PM
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Ok, they can get laid. If that's all what they are looking for, it works for them. If they are looking for something more, it doesn't work for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 09:05 PM
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Where is the question? You didn't even specify it. There are many variations of the question. Without minimal context, choosing "man or bear" doesn't even make sense. If you are not lost, why are you even in the middle of the forest? Are you just hiking? Why would it even be dangerous to encounter a man in a hiking trail? He is just another hiker like you. If you are looking for mushrooms, a man is probably looking for mushrooms too. If you are hunting, a man is probably hunting too. Whatever is…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:02 PM
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Actual loneliness. Young men have less friends and less female friends than their parents did. Plus online interaction has largely substituted hanging outside with friends and real human touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 06:04 PM
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Okay, we went from "every woman who is extremely desirable" to "every woman who is hot, single and posts on instagram a lot". I would try to be even more accurate. "Every woman who is hot, single, posts on instagram a lot, and her photos are usually in revealing clothing". Basically your analysis is that instagram thots are indeed also thots in other platforms. What a revealing discovery. if you want a hot one you're probably going to have to accept she did this No, you just have to start lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:44 PM
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https://retractionwatch.com/2015/07/21/to-our-horror-widely-reported-study-suggesting-divorce-is-more-likely-when-wives-fall-ill-gets-axed/ Read this
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:36 PM
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If I've ever known a woman who is extremely desirable, currently or at some point in her life she has done something in the sex industry, sugar baby, sold nudes, cam model, stripper, onlyfans, or escort. I think it's so common, that if you want a hot one you're probably going to have to accept she did this. Average women don't have the opportunities to make lots of money doing this, so I don't judge them unless it's currently going on. Sorry, but this is not an universal thing. Idk if it's somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:34 PM
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What about people who don't even want children
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:27 PM
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"Dating standards" includes a lot of different things Shallow standards (looks, social media) are pretty high. Exclusivity/effort standards are pretty low. If you want to raise your exclusivity/effort standards, you have to lower your shallow standards. The 10/10 male model is splitting his attention between the dozens of women chasing him. He is not going to prioritize you. If you want a man that takes you seriously and not a fuck buddy then maybe look for something more average.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:20 PM
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The problem is that in the modern world "having other things going for you" is harder than ever. Young men are significantly more lonely and more poor than their parents at their age.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 05:00 PM
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The woman in that video is an 8 at least. And the fact she doesn't want a situationship or a hookup makes her a 9 already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:58 PM
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What kind of standards? She is talking about not accepting situationships, not "standards" in general. I 100% agree with that. Women shouldn't accept situationships. On the other hand, I don't agree with raising shallow standards. Too many women judge men by their Instagram profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:56 PM
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That's like saying jacking off is enough for men and we don't need women. The problem with jacking off and AI girlfriends it's the same. It's not a real substitute for an actual woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:47 PM
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What they do is flock to handsome dudes. That doesn't mean an average dude can't get picked if he makes more effort and he has other things going for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:42 PM
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I agree
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 04:13 PM
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Who cares about an internet debate? I am not shameless enough to tell a rape survivor that their experience is "still not as bad as other thing". Nobody is forcing you to debate her. If you are going to say that it's better if you don't say anything. And if you still want to make a point, there are better and less brutal ways to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:51 PM
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Not always, but the vast majority of women care more about what your face looks like than about your height. I have never met a handsome short man that had trouble getting laid. However I have met plenty of ugly tall men that get 0 female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:35 PM
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Short hair doesn't necessarily age a woman. But the hairstyle of the photo you linked definitely does. That hairstyle is popular among middle aged women so it makes you look older.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:27 PM
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It's a secondary part of looks. The most important part by far is your face. Women will always choose a short handsome man over a tall ugly man. The only real "height requirement" is that you are taller than her, which is true for most men. You don't have to be 6 feet.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:23 PM
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What most women want is a handsome man. Some women are honest about it, while other women lie saying that they focus on personality. Same as men. What most men want is a pretty girl. Some men are honest about it, some men lie saying they focus on personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:18 PM
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Do you also wish you looked 10 years older?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:58 PM
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For example? Not saying you are wrong just curious
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:48 PM
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Uhh depends on the woman. Those might not be a strict requirement, but they definitely help a lot. Specially looks. Height and money are not so determining.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:42 PM
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If looking 10 years older is adorable, then yes I guess that hairstyle is adorable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:26 PM
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Women on Tinder and women irl are not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:22 PM
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What women say they want and what they actually choose is different. Men observe what women say and we observe what women do. We are smart enough to realize that actions matter more than words.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:20 PM
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Why are you arguing with a victim of sexual assault about their experience? Sometimes empathy and shutting up is more important than winning an argument. Holy shit you guys are autistic as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 12:02 PM
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A bear does not rape, coerce, drug, pressure, blame, black mail, kidnap, or torture their victims. They only defend themselves from danger, and hunt for food. The problem is when a bear thinks you are danger or food. If you are lost in the forest, a man can help you survive, find shelter, or find a good pathway. A man can be a positive help, neutral or dangerous. A bear can only be neutral or dangerous. Most men are more likely to help you than to kill you. Most men are not psychos. A random man…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 11:59 AM
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Laziness Depression Lack of self awareness All of the above
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:52 PM
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I wouldn't cut off my female friends for my girlfriend either, but I do agree on some reasonable limits. If I am going to hang out with a female friend, and my girlfriend asks to join us, I am not going to tell her she can't join us. I am not going to sleep in the house of a female friend as a guest if my girlfriend is not with me. I am not going to dance with a female friend or any other woman that is not part of my family. And of course I expect my girlfriend to follow the same boundaries and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:39 PM
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There are different kinds of blame. Blame by action and blame by negligence. Those are not mutually incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:24 PM
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Fair point I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:23 PM
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You are moving the goalposts. We were talking about violence, now you talk about assertiveness. What are violent men in business called? Fired.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:02 PM
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I was joking
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:55 PM
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Women aren't in a place socially where they can just state their case and threaten violence if they don't get their way. Men aren't either. Unless you are talking about highschool. I assume you are talking about the adult world. Even in highschool a boy can only get away with violence against another boy, not against a girl. Women have no choice but to practice diplomacy and tact at all times, we can't use the threat of violence or social dominance without risking our jobs, our relationships, or…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:53 PM
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It's literally a psyop lol. Women have convinced men that doing stressful stuff and extra work they don't want to do makes us "leaders". Very convenient for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:40 PM
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I am not talking about you, rather the first comment of this thread
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:29 PM
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Tbh most of the things that make a man feel masculine in a relationship happen inside the bedroom. The male-dominant female-pasive dynamic only remains in a sexual context in modern society. I guess other things that make me feel masculine is traditional stuff like paying for dates, buying flowers etc. The problem is that this type of masculinity is expensive lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:25 PM
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Maybe some men do. I don't. First, because I am going to notice you are full of shit fast if you handle me a jar that is not even closed tightly after you didn't even attempt to open it more than once. Second, because I don't want my girlfriend to treat me or see me as a child. That's also why I take care in doing at least half of the housework. Women are also guilty of this. It's annoying when women expect us to lie to them like we lie to a child. No, sorry, I wouldn't love you if you were a wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 06:03 PM
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"The kitchen floor is still dirty"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:58 PM
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Because they are Republicans, or because they are loyal to him, or because they share his agenda, or because he agrees with part of Project 2025. That doesn't mean he hired them for being part of Project 2025, or that he agrees with everything in Project 2025, or that he agrees with the abortion ban specifically. Trump panders to religious conservatives, but that doesn't mean he governs for them. Getting rid of Roe vs Wade was something a very large majority of Republicans wanted fervently, not …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:44 PM
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It wouldn't because press sources are anonymous. Nobody is going to know who leaked it. Let's say a receptionist who works in the abortion clinic tells a friend about it. The friend tells more people. Someone leaks it to the press. Or maybe the taxi driver who takes them to the abortion clinic recognises them. He tells his wife. His wife a friend. Etc. Or let's say a family member slips out and tells a friend. There could be multiple, diffuse leaks, without a clear culprit. It could even be poss…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:26 PM
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The point is that his agenda is not the same agenda as the Heritage Fundation or the Christian fundies. The Republican party is a big tent party with many factions. Trump is not part of the ultra-religious faction. He is not even religious. His real support base are extremely wealthy donors , xenophobes, oil money, and industrial magnates that are being harmed by Chinese competition (like Elon Musk, for example). His agenda is to lower taxes on the rich, close the Mexican border, and impose tari…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 05:02 PM
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Yes, I think so. No I don't think the media follows the vacation plans of rich people in general, but they do follow the private lives of rich media personalities and their families. I don't think if a Trump family member goes to Canada to get an abortion some paparazzi is going to follow her. I rather think someone is likely going to slip away or rat out to the press. Maybe a family member, maybe someone who works at the abortion clinic etc. A lot of people hate Trump and they wouldn't miss an …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:56 PM
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A lot of people have worked closely with him. Some call him a moron, some call him brilliant. He is ignorant. But there is a difference between ignorance and stupidity.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:51 PM
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I would say he is average IQ. Low IQ criminals don't get away with their crimes and they don't win presidential elections.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:50 PM
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He was smart enough to win the Republican primaries and the presidential election. That's what matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:45 PM
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This subreddit is also about politics. Gender issues are very related to politics nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:26 PM
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It's not a response to anything. It's just another political talking point that is parroted without much thought. Feminists should try a little exercise. Each time you are going to blame "men" for something, replace it with "conservatives". Much more accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:14 PM
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Trump refused to accept the results, not Republicans. And even when Trump refused to accept the results, he still lost the election, and he was still forced out of the White House. And Trump won't be able to run again in 2028 because of the 22th amendment. The disorganized mob that stormed the capitol was not a serious threat. And they only managed to break in because Nancy Pelosi refused to properly secure the perimeter of the Capitol with enough police officers. The question remains whether it…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:06 PM
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Because he needs a majority in Congress to pass his agenda
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:18 PM
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Ok, but the media will likely find out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:03 PM
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And he lost the election partly because of that. Blatant hypocrisy has a political cost.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:03 PM
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Conservatives: Trump "says it like it is", except when he says something bad, then he is joking. Liberals: Trump always lies, except when he says something bad, then he is telling the truth. You are both full of cognitive dissonance. The funniest part is that you can notice the cognitive dissonance of the other side but not your own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:00 PM
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That's not a statistic. And plenty of majority-male subreddits are liberal. Most subreddits are in fact male-majority and liberal. Plus reddit is not real life
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 02:52 PM
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Almost like there is a difference between spamming political posts in non-political subs and making one political post in a subreddit that includes politics.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:27 PM
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Men don't like no fault divorces? Please give me a statistic backing that claim. Also show me proof that Trump wants to ban no fault divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:21 PM
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He literally said he won't pass a federal abortion ban
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:07 PM
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Making abortion illegal for the general population also makes it more difficult for him and his family. Not impossible, but more difficult. And more scandalous and difficult to hide too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:05 PM
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>If those stooges will help him with that he will help them That's a huge assumption. Why would he return the favor? Passing a national abortion ban would be a huge headache with a huge political cost in the midterm elections. It's not worth it just to appease some fundies that can be easily replaced.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:03 PM
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He doesn't have to live forever, only 4 years more. Which is not unlikely. Even if Vance was president, I doubt there is enough political momentum for a federal abortion ban. Republicans know it's unpopular and their seats would be at risk.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:56 PM
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So mean :(
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:50 PM
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That's not really a difference, princess.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:35 PM
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they aren’t required to stop talking to each other just BECAUSE you don’t want to read it. Yes, they are literally required to stop talking about politics in subreddits where politics are banned by the rules. Not because I don't want to read it, but because most people who browse those subs don't want to read it either. The problem is the mods don't enforce the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:28 PM
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Why would he go along with it? He has said multiple times that he doesn't want a federal abortion ban >He can't run for president again anyways. So he can do whatever he wants. He doesn't have to follow the agenda of his campaign donors.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:20 PM
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I would say that's precisely the intent of the system. Rich people can do whatever they want and get away with it. The only difference is that Trump doesn't hide it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:19 PM
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A lot. Sometimes I mute them but sometimes they are interesting subs and I don't want to miss out on the interesting stuff just because of the political spam.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:14 PM
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I do go to political subs, when I want to talk about politics. The annoying part is when political spam infiltrates subreddits that are not supposed to be political.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:07 PM
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I just told you I mute political communities, so politics shouldn't appear in my feed, even when I browse r/all. No, I am not looking for political conversations. I am literally muting them but they show up again in subreddits where they shouldn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:02 PM
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I don't think Trump is an useful idiot. He is a lot of things, but not an idiot. And his ego is too big to be the puppet of anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:56 PM
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I usually browse r/all. I mute political communities but even non-political subreddits have become filled with political posts in the last weeks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:52 PM
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This is just a brag disguised as a sociological analysis lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:58 PM
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Because women have higher expectations. For a man, if he gets laid, it's a positive experience. A woman needs to get laid with a man who is "good enough" (looks-wise, personality-wise, sexual performance etc.) to qualify as a positive experience
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:44 PM
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How do you expect men to know what you want? Be confident enough to guide a man during sex and you will have a good time. We don't come pre-programmed to be good at sex and every woman is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:21 PM
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How do you expect men to know what you want? Be confident enough to guide a man during sex and you will have a good time. We don't come pre-programmed to be good at sex and every woman is different. Something might be a turn on for you but a turn off for another woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:19 PM
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Let's seize the means of reproduction comrade
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:08 PM
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>I know lots of men who say they only want a tiny, skinny woman with long blonde hair that is curled, nice nails, and a certain elegance in her walk (basically supermodel women) You know a lot of douches then. Men are usually way less picky than women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:07 PM
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Why are some men asking for pity from women because they can't get laid? What the fuck is this pathetic display of lack of self respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:04 PM
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For what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:43 PM
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We try
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 12:39 PM
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Honestly, as a man, I will tell you. If you are unconfident, good. If you can't find a job, stop looking and give up. If you can't get laid, give up. When the competition does worse, I do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 11:55 AM
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Money is power, correct. I actually agree that in relationships where the woman is financially dependent on the man, the man usually has more power. However these kind of relationships are not common nowadays. The most common case is that both men and women work. Men are significantly more likely to suffer loneliness than women. https://thehill.com/blogs/blog-briefing-room/3868557-most-young-men-are-single-most-young-women-are-not/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:00 PM
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You can't. If men are desperate for sex they can't be equal partners. The only way for a man to be an equal partner is to realize that self-respect and healthy boundaries are more important than getting laid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:36 AM
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I have no problem with women having their own jobs. Can you just focus on the actual point of the post instead of trying to find some ulterior motive behind it? The title reads "nowadays women usually have the upper hand in relationships". If you disagree, you can state why. Whether this is a problem that should be changed or how it should be changed is a different discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:15 AM
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It's my own experience, what I see in my family, what I see in my friend's relationships. If there is a conflict, the woman gets what she wants and the man has to appease her. And if he doesn't appease her, it's over. Women are rarely willing to admit they did something wrong, apologize, or do something they don't feel like doing for the sake of their man. There is no primary parent. If mom is working less then dad is bearing more of the financial burden. Mom might be contributing more with her …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:53 AM
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Yeah, I am some kind of evil misogynist who wants to subjugate women. That's definitely not a caricature you made up in your head
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:14 AM
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>Which brings up another good point. When those situations DO come up, one side is going “you know what? I acted selfishly” and the other side is going “you normally don’t tho, and I’ve failed at it too” and there is understanding and forgiveness. Except it's always the man who has to apologize first. And they usually don't do it because they are actually sorry, they just do it because they are afraid to lose her. This is how it actually works most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:57 AM
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Feminists have been talking for years about power dynamics in relationships. Please have a little consistency. Yes, every relationship involves conflict and power dynamics. And also love and affection. Those are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:50 AM
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Yes, it should be an equal partnership. The point of the post is that it usually isn't. It's not about how I view relationships, is about reality. I don't view relationships as a "battle of power", I just acknowledge the reality that relationships involve conflict, and when there is conflict power dynamics are unavoidable. And normally when there is conflict the woman gets what she wants because she has more power in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:43 AM
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I don't see how that means men are more dominant. Men are also poorer after divorce. They can lose half of their assets and have to pay child support. Men are more likely to remarry, ok. Again I don't see how that means women are somehow less dominant. This seems completely unrelated.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:40 AM
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A lot of women are dating or talking to a ton of different dudes in short periods of time. That doesn't mean they are fucking them, but they like to keep as many options as possible. It's difficult to find a woman who is willing to give that up and be fully exclusive. If they’re avoidant, they’re not with anyone You think avoidants don't date?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:32 AM
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I wouldn't say avoidants, just the person who needs less from the other. Less affection, less time etc. The stereotype is that this person is the man, while women are more clingy. If this stereotype was true, it would also be more true that men have the upper hand. So I am just trying to refute that stereotype. I wonder where this stereotype comes from. I guess it's because so many women are chasing top 10% men, and those men are so used to female attention, that they don't value it anymore. So …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:16 AM
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Traveling itself is a commitment. If we plan a vacation together we commit to spend time together and be loyal to each other for the duration of the trip. It doesn't have to be a long-lasting commitment, it just has to last for the duration of the trip. I didn't say I want to date anybody else right now. The point of the post is not to ask for unsolicited dating advice, it's just to show that men have to deal with disloyal and avoidant women too. This stereotype that men only want sex and women …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:08 PM
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Uh, I would think spending hundreds of dollars and traveling thousands of miles to see each other is a little more than "a verbal commitment". You are just upset that she didn't want you as much as you wanted her. No, I am upset she couldn't even uphold a one week commitment. I am upset at her disloyalty, her lack of consideration and her contempt towards me. There is no leverage Emotional attachment is also leverage. Sexual desire is also leverage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 08:33 AM
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If she doesn't desire to spend time with me it's fine. If she doesn't want to commit it's fine. If she desires to spend time with me, we make a commitment, and then she changes her mind and breaks the commitment, it's not fine. I am not talking about long term commitment either. I am talking about one week. I planned a one week vacation with my then long distance girlfriend. On the 4th day she went on to hang out with a male friend without me because "she needed space". She couldn't even wait 3 …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 07:45 AM
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Okay, but those 10% of "hoes" are having sex with a lot of men. Which means as a man the probability of finding a woman who is willing to sleep with you who is in a "hoe phase" is much larger than 10%. And on top of the "hoes" you have the avoidants. These women are not fucking a lot of different men, but they are not willing to give you anything beyond casual sex either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:59 AM
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Wow. Now demanding basic loyalty, consideration and respect is "making her comply with my desires", like I am some kind of dictator, when in fact it's just following basic rules of human relationships and caring for a person you are supposed to care about. No, sometimes it doesn't come naturally. A woman can desire you sexually and still not be willing to give you time or loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:35 AM
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Ok, keep living in LaLa land dude. I wish I could sill have that naive view
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:12 AM
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I don't demand they change, I only demand they take me into account, instead of just being selfish, just as I am willing to take them into account. Sorry but I just fundamentally disagree with this idea that everyone should do whatever they want all the time without taking others into account or caring how it affects others. Everybody agrees friendships demand time, effort, loyalty etc. so why is it a problem to say that relationships also demand time, effort and loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 04:49 AM
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What the hell is "date casually" if not casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:07 PM
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There will be a point in a relationship where there will be a conflict and power dynamics will come into play. No couple is always going to agree on putting the needs of their significant other first.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 03:04 PM
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>So what relationships work out? The ones where it’s not about power but if finding shared values working together, finding compromises AND figuring out how to put the needs and desires of the other person before yours. And in turn they are doing their best to put your needs and desires before theirs. This is very idealistic. Humans are selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:55 PM
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I don't like that women have the upper hand, but I wouldn't like that men had the upper hand either. I think society should strive for equality. I didn't attempt to "debunk" domestic violence against women either
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:28 PM
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You don't demand anything from your girlfriends? Loyalty, time etc. The truth is not pretty, but the truth is that no relationship is 100% equal and there is leverage on both sides. Most of the time you don't see it but when there is a conflict it becomes noticeable. The leverage is usually not explicit but implicit. Basically "how much it would hurt me if this relationship ended".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:22 PM
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That's true. However, this is irrelevant to the power dynamics of the vast majority of hetero relationships, because the vast majority don't involve physical violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:08 PM
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I am not upset that men don't have the upper hand anymore. I never said I was upset about it. Stop putting words in my mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:03 PM
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Lol. Some women do care, some women don't. You have to find one of the good ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:01 PM
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Female on male domestic violence is heavily underreported Even if male on female DV is more common, that doesn't mean FoM DV should be taken less seriously. It doesn't justify the double standard. I don't see how this gives women the upper-hand though. Women are still less likely to be the primary breadwinners and make more than their partners, more likely to face threatening abuse, more likely to be raped by their partners, Threatening abuse and rape is a small minority, it doesn't affect the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:00 PM
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The answer is no. That's not my conclusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:54 PM
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You are 32. Most women who are 32 don't want casual sex. A lot of women who are early 20s do want casual sex and stay away from commitment. It's the infamous "hoe phase" people talk about in social media.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:45 PM
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What should be normal and accepted? That women have the upper hand in relationships? Double standards? Unfair and biased divorced proceedings?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:34 PM
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Ok, but the percentage of female abusers who use weapons is larger than the percentage of male abusers who use weapons. Mostly because men don't need weapons to physically dominate a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:26 PM
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A small minority of women are dating a man who hits them. The point of the post is "usually" women are dominant. Bringing up a small minority doesn't refute the general trend. For the vast majority of hetero relationships physical strength doesn't matter when it comes to power dynamics because the man is not going to use it against her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:22 PM
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Physical strength actually means male abusers are more likely to use their fists, while female abusers are more likely to use weapons, causing more damage. It's tricky.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 01:20 PM
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