| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 27 | Tried to convince myself he was a HVMWow certainly not what I expected | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/22 06:30 AM |
| 56 | Recently married. Thanks FDS.We love to hear it sis congratulations ❤️ I get unnecessary hatred on reddit for just being a member of FDS it's ridiculous the reputation this sub has when it's purpose is for women to succeed. The goal is to be in a loving relationship. This isn't a sub to teach us how to be gold diggers, like i am genuinely confused why this sub gets so much hatred and the hatred is DEEP | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 10:07 PM |
| 31 | (TW) Her husband PEED IN HERThat's assault | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Boy BYE! Why do they always come back though? LmaoWe exchanged a few texts and he ghosted me again. But he did go out of his way to contact me. He is now blocked and I'm changing my number. You will have your day too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:42 AM |
| 2 | Boy BYE! Why do they always come back though? LmaoAs of 6 months ago he did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.Between him and Aba he looks more likely to be getting off a camel | /r/ExRedPill | 24/08/21 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Myron Gaines impregnates their guest in Fresh and Fit who is an OnlyFans girl.Funny thing is he is black from Sudan. Definitely has some self hatred issues. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/08/21 11:57 AM |
| 16 | QueenShe's the worst but I guess a broken clock is right twice a day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 07:58 PM |
| 68 | Be a queen ladies, a real king will follow.He didn't give up a kingdom he is 8th in line | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:31 AM |
| 26 | Notice how it only benefits the man (unless they get married)The name on the house. He literally brought himself a house lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:53 AM |
| 81 | Can We All Say Bravo To This QueenAnd they are the first to want to talk about polygamy when they can't even support one household let alone four | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 07:32 PM |
| 188 | Can We All Say Bravo To This QueenThis is a Muslim couple. Sure in Islam men get many rights but the man should always be the bread winner and he must provide for his wife, the wife has no duty to her husband when it comes to money. The wife could be sitting on millions and he would have no right to it. I hope this queen kicked his broke ass to the curve. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 06:13 PM |
| 6 | How do y’all feel about long engagements? I feel that if after 2 years of engagement y’all ain’t married, it’s not going to happy and it’s most likely doomed.In my culture as soon as you get engaged the next step is planning the wedding and its usually done within 3 months | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 12:16 PM |
| 9 | Boy BYE! Why do they always come back though? LmaoThat’s awfully specific | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 10:38 PM |
| 18 | Boy BYE! Why do they always come back though? LmaoI’m still waiting for him to come back so I can have my moment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 09:12 PM |
| 7 | This young queen is a inspirationSame lol I don’t see the issue here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/07/20 11:50 AM |
| 5 | Glad to see this sub survived the purgeMe too this sub has taught me a lot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 04:01 AM |
| 2 | Don’t Compete With Other Girls For A ManHe should’ve just kept it it himself like I keep my other dates to myself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 3 | Don’t Compete With Other Girls For A ManThank you sis! I’ve had very hard time dating in the past but I will no longer tolerate bullshit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 09:21 PM |
| 15 | Don’t Compete With Other Girls For A ManSome male lurkers have send me a couple of nasty dm’s lol they can’t stand that a woman would just walk away | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/20 06:28 PM |
| 4 | How regular should texting be before meeting up?Thank this helped I appreciate it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/20 07:33 PM |
| 3 | Bf yelled at me should I break up with himName calling in a relationship should be a deal breaker LEAVE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 05:06 PM |
| 5 | Y’all, stop wasting our timeMe too and guess what? He is currently in a relationship. Biggest scam. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/19 09:55 PM |
| 225 | Before FDS, I would’ve been okay with this. Now, I know better! I’m a queen and I’ll wait to be treated as such.I think you came on a little too strong. I think a man needs to offer to pay whilst on the first date. I personally wouldn’t bring it up first before we even met. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 09:23 PM |
| 9 | “JuSt gIvE HiM a ChAncE” is yet another way society bullies women from BIRTH into accepting subpar male behavior. There is absolutely NO reason to *give* him a chance. A man *earns* his chance or he gets nothing. “jUst GiVe HiM a ChAnCe” needs to die and never be said to a woman again.Preach it sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/19 04:12 PM |
| 6 | How to get your power back from a LVM?Once the power is gone you’ll never get it back. Move on girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/19 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Cardi B Gave Her CHEATING HUSBAND $500,000 in Cash for His Birthday.Didn’t he just recently get attempting to cheat? Lol didn’t he fake getting hacked to hide the fact he was messaging the SAME girl he cheated with? Cardi is a joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 03:16 AM |
| 17 | A nice Latina fetish 🤮Yaaas don’t let Bob fetishize you sister | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/19 03:14 AM |
| 9 | Men who are bums know that they are bums. They don’t respect women who settle for bums even if they are the bum.She’s petty like me and her response was to laugh and tell me good job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:56 PM |
| 13 | Men who are bums know that they are bums. They don’t respect women who settle for bums even if they are the bum.Glad someone is as evil as me lol I only told 1 of my friends what I did as I knew the others would judge me immediately | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:54 PM |
| 38 | Men who are bums know that they are bums. They don’t respect women who settle for bums even if they are the bum.I had this exact situation happen to me. As soon as he got a good paying job he ditched me for someone else. Played with my feelings and life for a whole year. And you know what I did? I reported him to ICE because he is an illegal immigrant. I did it out of anger. I don’t regret it. I reported him like 3 months ago and ICE did nothing. Call me a bad person if you must but he lied and lead me on for 1.5 year and in the end he tells me he never loved me even though he said “ I love you” all the t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:18 PM |
| 18 | This guy kissed me but he warned me he has a complicated thing going on-do I even text backGhost him. It’s not worth the disappointment. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 07:15 PM |
| 6 | WHAT 👏THE👏FUCK!! Wife walks in on husband Jerking off to pictures of their 13yo Daughter!!This and I would move as soon as I could. I can totally see a murder suicide type of thing happening. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 10:51 PM |
| 9 | WHAT 👏THE👏FUCK!! Wife walks in on husband Jerking off to pictures of their 13yo Daughter!!If I were her I would tell everyone except my daughter. Even his family members I would do NOTHING to protect this predator in any way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 10:48 PM |
| 7 | Poor thing says she's ready to give up and she absolutely shouldHe met someone he likes better 🤷🏽♀️ she needs to move on and start dating multiple men, you can’t place all your eggs into one basked because as you can see from that post only disappointment awaits you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 10:39 PM |
| 142 | And I oooooopI saw this on r/tinder he thought he was carrying the conversation when all he did was ask open/closed questions. She had the perfect response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 10:47 AM |
| 22 | 4 years together, he ignores me, I break up with him. 2 years later some-what begs for me back with having a SO. Planned for a chat to discuss what we discussed. Thats was 2 months ago. He keeps asking to see me to talk but when I asked he was busy for 3 weeks and couldn't meet 🙄 This is the answerGet your elephant back and BLOCK HIM. I lost a really cool Japanese fan that my dad got me like that, I ain’t never getting that back. Never gift a man anything. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/19 09:41 PM |
| 6 | My friend called me a homophobe because I told her I would never date a Bi-manFair enough. I don’t hold any prejudices views for anyone. This is just my dating preference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 10:07 PM |
| 10 | My friend called me a homophobe because I told her I would never date a Bi-manSame here I would date a bi-woman but not vice versa and yeah I’m sure I come across as an hypocrite but I don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 08:13 PM |
| 28 | How do you shut down sexual talk? How do they respond?Block. Move on. If he respected you and wanted a relationship he wouldn’t do that. All he wants is sex block him sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 06:37 PM |
| 17 | My friend called me a homophobe because I told her I would never date a Bi-manI have found men attractive but after finding out they were bi the attraction disappeared | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 05:53 PM |
| 47 | Tinder is just too ridiculous for me. How do I meet men IRLThe clown emoji is very fitting lol. Block him sis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 05:19 PM |
| 18 | The evolution of a pick meI was MAD till point 5 lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/19 05:13 PM |
| 9 | Advice on dating a cop?I don’t think UK cops are as problematic as US cops it’s like comparing a butterfly to a grizzly bear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 06:26 PM |
| 6 | Advice on dating a cop?Exactly it’s really concerning when a man has multiple guns. When I’m angry I can be pretty emotional not saying I would wave a gun around but the times I have been upset I’m glad I didn’t have access to a gun. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:48 PM |
| 25 | Why I don't pay on datesI always reachfor my wallet and 90% of the time I get stopped. He said to flip a coin? Hahahahahah I would’ve agreed and refused if I lost lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:46 PM |
| 16 | Any dating tips for a 16 years old kid?Keep your sex life private. I think having sex at 16 is way too young but people are different. I wouldn’t advice the dating multiple guys till you’re like 18. I think you should enjoy your youth and not worry about relationships. Sorry if this isn’t the answer you were seeking. Also don’t ever feel pressured into sex. I lost my virginity when I wasn’t really ready for it, I just let it happen and the guy pressured me into it. I wish I was more assertive. If it doesn’t feel right don’t have sex … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:08 PM |
| 26 | Why I don't pay on datesI expect a guy to pay but if he doesn’t I pay for what I ate and BLOCK HIM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 05:07 PM |
| 33 | May We All Have This Kind of ConfidenceI’m actually embarrassed for her, her bio shouts for valuation. I’ll giver her a pass for being 18 I mean I was dumb at 18 but never desperate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 10:08 AM |
| 40 | Advice on dating a cop?Umm I would advice you NOT to date cops. Most are abusive narcissist and if ANYTHING ever happens you better believe his cop buddies will cover up for him. I just think it’s a bad idea do date a cop. I also find it uneasy to be around a man who has access to a gun 24/7. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/19 10:04 AM |
| 11 | OLD profile of the week: pickmeishas - just because they will marry you, doesn’t mean they are a catch 👌🏻You should’ve matched with him and got more information out of him, then contact his wife link her his OkCupid profile | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 02:06 PM |
| 3 | Really new to FDS and need your adviceI waited 6 months before having sex with him he told me constantly that he loved me, he was just a good liar. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/19 07:07 AM |
| 3 | Is this harassment?Move out before he murders you this is a bad situation. Please explain it to your landlord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:59 PM |
| 11 | Have you ever been honest about a guy’s unsatisfactory performance in bed?Mind blowing sex 😉 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:37 AM |
| 22 | Have you ever been honest about a guy’s unsatisfactory performance in bed?Never. I always wanted to save his feelings. I would lay there feeling nothing for like 20 minutes but he wouldn’t even ask if it was good or if I came, he didn’t care. I told myself I would never put up with bad sex after him, I’ve yet to sleep with anyone he actually made me think that I didn’t enjoy sex when he just sucked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/19 02:09 AM |
| 53 | Why do men think this is an okay way to START a conversation?Wow and what kind of response does he expect block him pronto Also who watches porn at 8.48AM? That just tells me he’s been jerking off all night and hasn’t gone to bed yet | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 02:29 PM |
| 12 | Really new to FDS and need your adviceSo you fuck all of your friends do ya? Tell them that you love them so ya? Piece of shit. I was actually floored when he said he loved me like he loves his female friends. I’m glad it happened though he taught me a lot, which is never to trust a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 12:18 PM |
| 17 | Really new to FDS and need your adviceI don’t think he knows how to tell you that he isn’t into you. If a man wanted you, you’d know. Cut ties sis. I wasted 1.5 year with someone like that but in my case he took my virginity and kept telling me the loved me but in the end and after 1 year he told me he meant it in a friendly way. Don’t waste your time like I did. If he wanted you he would prioritize you. Also don’t wait around for him date other men! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 10:39 AM |
| 16 | Fuckwit husband wants 2 "hall passes" because his wife got raped by 2 men. Then suggests a 3some to help her get over it.How can someone be that stupid and insensitive. What a sadistic fuck. Leave his ass it’ll only get worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/19 07:41 AM |
| 15 | If he has a picture like this on his profile RUN SIS BLOCK HIMI don’t think it’s appropriate for dating profiles | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 04:37 PM |
| 40 | If he has a picture like this on his profile RUN SIS BLOCK HIMI’m pretty petite but I feel like if it came to a life and death situation I’d be able to fight him off | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:20 PM |
| 174 | If he has a picture like this on his profile RUN SIS BLOCK HIMI always swipe left straight away when a guy displays a gun or a weapon on their profile like there must be really something wrong with you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 01:29 PM |
| 25 | If he has a picture like this on his profile RUN SIS BLOCK HIMTrue that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 01:24 PM |
| 10 | Nope... no red flags here at all... 😒I’m glad they post it I don’t care how cute they are I always swipe left | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 08:39 AM |
| 56 | Nope... no red flags here at all... 😒I don’t know why they think it looks cute to post pictures with guns I find it frightening and it shouts psychopath to me. Don’t get me wrong I like guns for self-protection but to be posted you with it on social media is weird... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 05:37 AM |
| 4 | This made me lol halfway through with the older women feeling bad for the female actor!Thank you haha I felt like he wanted to scam me as the bill came he kind pushed it towards me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/19 02:45 AM |
| 15 | Challenge! Get your shit together December!Like gurl don’t you want me to enjoy the Christmas season | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 10:32 AM |
| 30 | Second date and he already asked for exclusivity?I wouldn’t believe him if I were you I suspect men speak to multiple girls. Don’t believe him. To ask for exclusivity on the second date is a huge red flag. Sure he can really like you or be extremely possessive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:30 AM |
| 37 | Challenge! Get your shit together December!You lost me at no sugar lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 09:28 AM |
| 39 | Reminder: if nobody knows you’re together, you’re single, sis.Or you are the side piece | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 09:50 PM |
| 10 | This made me lol halfway through with the older women feeling bad for the female actor!This exactly happened to me before. We went to a really fancy restaurant and he ate loads of food. The bill came to like £230. And yup he’s card for declined. I didn’t eat much so my bill came to about £60 so I paid for what I ate apologized to the waiter and walked out. I don’t know how he got out of that sticky situation. Yes, a guy should always pay but we should also always carry cash ready for situations like this. I couldn’t have walked out like the girl in the video I actually really felt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Does your to-be murderer deserve politeness?I’ve been thinking about getting some sort of a bug spray but it’s such a scary mindset to have | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 09:41 PM |
| 12 | Does your to-be murderer deserve politeness?They don’t. In the UK if someone breaks into your house you’re expected to flee. If you stand your ground and fight back you can be charged with assault. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 04:24 PM |
| 23 | Does your to-be murderer deserve politeness?Unfortunately where I live in England it’s illegal to carry pepper spray or a taser, it’s illegal to carry any kind of weapon that is intended to cause harm. I’m pretty much a walking target. The way I keep myself safe is that I’m super aware of my surroundings and always keep a good distance from anyone who is walking towards me or is across the street from me. But if a man decides to attack me there really isn’t much I can do other then to try and bite him. All this self defense classes we get… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:38 AM |
| 17 | Does your to-be murderer deserve politeness?Yeah I read that too sick bastard he violated the poor girl in many ways | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:33 AM |
| 0 | What to do if men don’t approach me?Try OkCupid/hinge and once you like someone move it to ig | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:14 AM |
| 51 | Does your to-be murderer deserve politeness?This sick fuck raped her too used a condom and left it behind. A real amateur. It’s scary to think how easily men can kill and rape women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:08 AM |
| 70 | Does your to-be murderer deserve politeness?Does this moron think a lone woman at 1AM wants to stop to have a conversation with some random man? I’m sure he was talking at her and not to her she must have been terrified the first time he spoke to her. I sometimes walk home from the train station at 10pm and my heart is in my throat most of the time even though my house is a 3 minute walk, every man I see I don’t care if he as a cross the street it scares me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/19 05:07 AM |
| 92 | Read the comments and learn what not to do in a relationship. Don’t ever give up your family/friends/career/hobbies for a man. A HVM will not expect you to compromise your entire life and personality to fit his.Why are women expected to compromise and give up on dreams for their “husband” why is that a socially acceptable thing? It almost like it’s what expected from us. What happens in the end? The husband leaves us with the kids while he chases younger ass. All I see is a bunch of dumb bitches in the comments. Honey put yourself first. I just checked their sub rules and it says no feminism lol imagine hating yourself that much | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 04:05 PM |
| 22 | take less than zero shits about these scrotesIt’s crazy how resourceful men can be to abuse women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Ok I’m logging off OKC dear god help usTell him good luck with that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/19 03:53 AM |
| 1 | Not today, ShanayHe blocked me the one time I tweeted him lol I’m surprised he even saw my tweet I think I asked about donations he took and bam he blocks me Well she got was coming but now I feel like this mans business will be ruined | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/08/18 05:02 PM |
| 1 | Not today, ShanayI am blocked by the person who posted on twitter I’m assuming it’s Shaun king. Can someone tell me the context? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 17/08/18 04:44 PM |
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