AlarmLegitimate1386 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	How do I tell my wife I'm done?	Getting Started	AlarmLegitimate1386	/r/Divorce_Men	04/04/25 08:35 PM
0	Splitting assets	Spousal Support / Alimony	AlarmLegitimate1386	/r/Divorce_Men	31/03/25 08:25 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do I tell my wife I'm done? If I can give you any advice it's please curb the drinking. I relapsed after 13 years of sobriety recently. My drinking ruined my relationship with my kids. You don't want them to see you spiral down that hole. I quit when my daughter was 11. She was 16 before she told me she loved me again. I was blackout drunk every night though.	/r/Divorce_Men	17/04/25 09:20 PM
1	Input: Lost of Libido/Self-Confidence I'm hoping it does.	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/25 08:28 PM
1	Input: Lost of Libido/Self-Confidence I'm going through a similar situation. Was married for 20 years. Together for 24 years. Towards the end, I was experiencing that with my STBX. I'm 43. The woman I've been seeing is 30. The other night we were talking and she asked what my sexual insecurities were. I told her confidence, it's been the same person for over 20 years. Later that night we decided to have sex, or try. She's beautiful amazing body and personality. I ready. Nope, couldn't get an erection. Embarrassing as hell. She told …	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/25 11:02 AM
2	Did anyone else lose their sense of attraction? I'm going through the same situation myself. At the end of my 20 year marriage, I would get nauseous thinking about holding my wife. With sex I couldn't finish or keep an erection. I'm 43. I met someone new who gave that sense of attraction again. It was absolutely amazing. I thought everything was good. When the time came to have sex, I couldn't get an erection. She's 30, beautiful, great personality, but I couldn't do anything. It was very embarrassing. She knows past and the struggles I've ha…	/r/Divorce_Men	09/04/25 10:51 AM
1	How do I tell my wife I'm done? I'm wanting someone else. Noone in particular. I now I have the ability to feel affection inside. I don't feel that with her. I used to, but that's been atleast 10 years.	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 11:04 PM
1	How do I tell my wife I'm done? Ironically I used AI to analyze my feelings about my marriage. It was very insightful. It did give me ways to approach this. My kids are 19 and 23. 23 year is done with college and on her own. 19 year old is at home right now, but may go back to college. He has a college fund so not an issue. I moved into my cabin for now. I have been going to therapy myself for a few months. Wife suggested couples counseling. I feel we're past that. As far as explaining why I want to be done is challenging. I h…	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 09:48 PM