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Why not slutshame everyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 11:10 PM
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Circumcision is not ok to force someone to have. It should be illegal to have your child get one or force someone to get one. I know wayy to many guys who have gotten one and regretted it or hated their parents for giving them it. I hope its stoped soon.
/r/MensRights28/02/24 06:29 PM
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Idk was pretty head over heals with this funny cute nice guy… had guys who where hot but assholes hit on me and it did not feel the same at all as they mostly disgusted me lol:)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/24 07:27 PM
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Thats why i go to free therapy 9(norwegian flex)
/r/MensRights03/01/24 04:43 PM
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Btw it turned into a rumour that i raped someone… so fuck dont let it get to far, get it cleared but cuz the rumours are even worse
/r/MensRights03/01/24 04:43 PM
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That sucks… remember when i got accused of sexually harassing a girl as a girl half a year ago. People always listen to the one they claim is a victim without proof and never question it. Now after looping up in the fucking law guess what she just overreacted to me saying “hey lets everyone flash each other” at a party and it isnt actually sexual harassment… But remember people who take stance after just hearing a rumour with no proof is not people u want to be around, plus that bar just lost a …
/r/MensRights03/01/24 04:32 PM
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I always say, parents, therapy or friends work. And last resort talk about it on reddit with someone. Sadly many people cannot do aloot of those things so we mostly do last resort. It kinda works but you still miss the face to face…
/r/MensRights02/01/24 10:23 PM
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Feel u aloot, there is aloot of pandering to women in media nowadays. They might say oh but in the old days there where aloot of pandering and haloes put on men and maybe thats true but now its like the pendulum has swung to the other side and its affecting men aloot. Plus its so ingrained in most people from movies and such wich makes fun of female abusers and downplay how bad it can be for men.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:45 PM
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Most men i have meet tell me very traumatic thing that they have had happen to them and its terrible. Thing is if i ask them if they have gotten help its mostly or always a no they just got over it but some thing you cant get over alone… i wish more men would be told that therapy or by people around them that hey you can talk about it and it helps.
/r/MensRights02/01/24 07:41 PM
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If your asking me, i have no preferences height or cock size wise for me its more about style face and hair. I care about hair for me personally but there are girls that like short and buzz cuts. Just like how aloot of men likes women with longer hair and are less attracted to girls with short hair or buzzcuts. Its about your partners preferences and respecting them:)
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:17 PM
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I never mentioned adultery😭 i just said that if a woman loves her mans hair and he cuts it off you cant really blame her for feeling less attracted to him. Doesn’t mean she doesn’t love her anymore just that it takes some time getting used to. And plus like u would not feel less attracted to your gf if she got a bad haircut?
/r/MensRights02/01/24 05:13 PM
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I was never talking about when a buzz cut is needed or when he already has one😭 Im talking about when u get a bf witch you find very attractive cuz he has very nice hair. Then u come home after work and find he has buzzed it off. Can you really blame a woman for being less attracted to him since aloot of her attraction physically speaking where from his hair? Plus imagine you come home one day and find your girlfriend has gotten a really bad haircut even tho you said you loved her hair. I would …
/r/MensRights02/01/24 03:11 PM
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Buzz cut one you cant hate on as most guys would get the ick if their girl shaved their head too
/r/MensRights02/01/24 11:03 AM
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Idk im not good at reading people so i never really know where people stand in the social lather. But usually i like guys i have been friends with for a few months, and get rejected by them:/
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 08:12 AM
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Ngl autistic woman here and i also have problems getting guys😭
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 07:44 PM
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Fr so many men has rejected me.. its a hard hustle out there
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 01:15 AM
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Its shows you just maybe dont need or value a relationship that much, witch is fine. I think from my perspective as a woman i kinda value a relationship and monogamy a loot so i would probably question your loyalty and want to be in a relationship plus the fact that u are 27 and still haven’t been in one is also kinda a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 10:19 PM
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Sometimes i wanna feel hot without feeling put in danger
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 07:13 AM
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Its the same for women and men finding a partner you feel equal to is hard. And please look up the word equal in the dictionary i think you might need it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 09:37 AM
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Yeah the thing i say is you cant say it is what it is with male nature but condemning female nature saying its bad and should not be ok
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 09:31 AM
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Your complaining that men and women being not attracted to the same thing. Most girls are seen as less attractive if they have masculine traits like broad shoulders, they are tall or they have a masculine face same as men are seen as less attractive for being short and looking quite feminine. People are attracted to the differences in sexes so the standards are different so you get compare them directly to each other like a girl and a guy being short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 11:37 PM
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Its great to see a post thats less focused on personal experience and that is heavily leaning toward one gender to make them sympathetic. Also can the fact that there is more men than women have any affect on this data?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:03 AM
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I would say if you are ok with a woman wanting a guy that haven’t watched porn and also have a low-n count then i guess it is valid. The problem is that you can be the best lover for your partner if you communicate and talk to her, the best sexual partners most people have in their life are the ones they had the same one for such a long time you learn their preferences. Also most “chads” that have fucked a loot of women are ok in beed because they don’t really care about their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:51 AM
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I agree:)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:47 AM
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Do you mean a woman’s body count?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:43 AM
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What does n count mean? It is how many times she has orgasmed with a guy or is it in total so stuff she did alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 01:42 AM
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Well that you not the majority as the majority of well educated people date well educated people regardless if they are a man or a woman. For me i always love a woman thats educated and can keep my mind stimulated. But its up to you who you chose, but i think we all would like a person who works hard compared to a person that doesn’t
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:51 PM
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Fr! The couple of times i have watched porn i never really got off to the video more to the tittles and the things that happened before the actual scenes. I can never imagine how men get off to juts pictures, maybe that why they are so stuck on thinking we women get off to pictures because they cant imagine only getting off to a scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:38 PM
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Well to thats i would say that well educated men probably would prefer a woman with the same intellect as him
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:27 PM
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Well most of the time women now a-days get smut from ao3 and those sites have no pictures only text. So its not really relevant for women as most of them don’t even look at the cover after buying the book
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:25 PM
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YEAH! Women get off by imagining a scenario and men get off by looking. Thats why the porn women like is built up while men can get right into the fucking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:23 PM
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The only thing is that women more often care about face and less the body. You mentioned girls not liking overweight men but there is a study showing women prefer a man with an above average bmi. And when talking about the skinny guy you got to remember that the same they feel comes from themself as women has been shown to not care as much as other men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:21 PM
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When it comes to looking at i think women more often look better than most men
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:10 PM
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Humans are pretty equal at first but i think women will be more forgiving of a mans looks after getting to know him
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:09 PM
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Well its always been true so i don’t really know what him saying it has to mean. But maybe more people will realise it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 04:08 PM
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I can relate to how they both seem lacking and lack the word of change. The red pillers turning guys out to fuck boys leaving a woman with their child, or simply not doing anything even to it might be wrong just because you don’t want to seem negative the blue pill. Thats how i would describe them or the red pill just a bunch of dudes jerking each other off thinking they can see the world in truth wile just saying the same shit back and fourth again or a gain. Or the blue pill with feels like pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:34 AM
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Well clothes are for people to wear, a good portion of people are fat and they need clothes too, i think the brands are just trying to sell the most clothes. As for the dating standard its more likely to be the fact that most people are overweight and some obese so there aren’t a loot to go around if everyone liked only thin people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:26 AM
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Oh no you can look it up. Its really rare true but it does happen there is always the exception
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:52 AM
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Hmm maybe but you cant get mad at the child support because thats primarily there for the child and to help it. School sucks for men and family laws can be really bad at times. But how does these relate to dating and not just marriage family and gender differences?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:50 AM
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Well there are some really attractive women that will date very average men so it could be like you hit the jack pot but except for her you only attract average women?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:30 AM
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Hope you find the anime girl of your dreams💖🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:23 AM
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But these are my observations as a woman. But i think they still hold true for both genders
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:20 AM
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I think its depending on how a persons selection is, for example i have been in mostly girl groups and they lust for any boy that gives them attention, but i have also experienced that in all boys group they guys seem like simps for any girl that gives them attention. But for the guys in mostly girl groups they usually just fucked around and never found a girl than meet their standard for a relationship since they had so many options and those guys where average, same for the girls in all boy gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/23 09:17 AM
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I want to say also thank you for having this discussion with me and i hope we can keep having it as i find it quite enjoyable (I’m quite the sucker for these things) I do agree that monogamy is the best solution for a man and a woman in a relationship as it gives the most benefits to both parties. An open or polly relationship will let them exert their “biological urges” but they also risk the main reasons you stated as to why a woman and a man wanted to be together, paternity and loyalty. To th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:42 PM
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Thats such a quirky post of you to make silly not very calm while writing this💖🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:22 PM
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And also i wish i hade the options that the post it telling me i have:)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:21 PM
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They don’t need male prostitutes we women call them pickup artists and Fuck boys🫶
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 11:20 PM
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Looks matter for me personally I’m a face then body then height type of person. And the only time i have outright stated than i did not ever want to date someone was if they where an insane person or seemed like they where interested in someone else. Women have a larger scale on what they find attractive you its likely that you are someones but i would recommend if you are overweight to lose fat and gain muscles, a body recomposition, and get better social skills not with women but people i gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:58 PM
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Well for the 4 point i may have wordet it out that way because i am a woman but my wording being feminine of masculine as nothing to do with my actual point. For the 1 point my counter would be that the idea and law of marriage was made when men had more power over women so it doesn’t make any sense for it to be against a mans best will (at least for the time) 2 it might be that we don’t have those studies yet so i might have some wrong in not having all the studies to prove it. still it does be…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 10:40 PM
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Well its made a loot of younger girls i know get into really bad relationships and it made it also that older single mothers where more likely to find a coparent
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:15 PM
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Yeah maybe but from what i have read it seems they are more conservative in those places and most people therefor are more interested in dating within their culture or race
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:10 PM
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No its ifstudies.org its actally shows men have a greater chance of happiness if they have only one partner but the same if for women and now the decline might not be that steep there is still an decline in reports of a very happy marriage. Experience help you get women but it doesn’t guarantee the happiness you will have with that woman. You might say you can get a better woman with more experience but you are losing the sacredness of the sexual experience. You also get a higher chance to cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:09 PM
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Well that might be true but you can also argue that they where seen as easy targets since they know little about the culture or the language
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:30 PM
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What is the difference of the women in the west and the women other places what makes them datable?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:14 PM
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And if you suffer from the sadness of missing out get therapy sleeping with people is never the solution to a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:11 PM
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The problem with that statement that experience aid men is that its wrong as you can see for studies it affects men as well not just women. You are taking this from your perspective and not looking at the data on it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:10 PM
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The thing is that your thought process is only your thoughts and goes agains the statistic shown, if a person, men and women, wait until marriage or have fewer partners they are happier and less likely to cheat. You might feel that way but thats your perspective against thousands of others.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:07 PM
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Well another point is that if you don’t practice self control you get worse at it, so if you never practice self control you are probably never gonna have self control later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:03 PM
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Well another point is do you want marriage that has low standard or high standards. Do you want a man or a woman that would be with almost anyone or someone that would only be with a very select partners. I will chose the last option
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 06:00 PM
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The problem is that you are in a extremely broken situation worse than mist single parents still being in love with BM so its really hypocritical of you to criticise others who probably at least aren’t in love with their past partner. Seek therapy and don’t think about dating as you are now you will only hurt yourself and the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 03:01 PM
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Also you have no right to say you cant date a woman with children and have ones of your own thats very hypocritical of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:55 PM
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And i would not recommend to anyone to date you or for you to date just give up on it for a while man
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:54 PM
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Not if i have one from before but I’m too young to be taking care of children right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:52 PM
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Well after what she described I’m a little bit jealous he seemed like a good as hell partner. And yeah you are totally right.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:45 PM
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Well there are just fewer women in this world so they are in higher demand. Also more women date only women compared to men that date only men. So it makes it so women have more options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 02:43 PM
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Yeah, he might have other qualities but for a father of your children you want to be the most important woman in his life and his children with you to be that as well. Op should realise she has a loot to offer and should not take feeling like second place. He just don’t seem to be a man you want as a father or as a spouse. Ending up as a single mom is incredibly hard and you should not take such a chance if there is such a big risk involved in it
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 11:09 AM
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FNF is not a podcast representing good moral values for men its a podcast where men make exuses and try to make it ok for them not to have controll over their bodies ( like cheating) or make them feel better over women. Most of the statements they make are factually wrong or they take a small pice of the hole fact just to make men feel better and look better towards other men and brainwashing women in believing that. Leave that man if he keeps watching that stuff, the man FNF is making is a man …
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 11:03 AM
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Be open and honest with your partner of you are going to do that, and be open that you have sleept with a loot of men before. Its up to you and how you want to take your faith
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 10:55 AM
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What if you had a male friend you rejected and is best friends with still clearly interested in you still, he would hate that why wouldn’t to be the same way around. I pray that you dont stay it its like what you said dont waist your time on a man that wont compromise for you
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 10:53 AM
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Leave him please he is not a good man!
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 10:51 AM
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He is not prioratising you his wife, thats not what a traditional man should do. You still have your youth to look forward to and do you want to spend that on a man thats not considerate of your emotions thats not a good leader of a home. What if you then have kids and he prioritises hers over yours sometimes that will be shitty. Also when you are in a relationship its your job to not get yourself in a position that can make you cheat, and he doesn’t seem to be as wary of it and quite frankly ho…
/r/RedPillWomen31/05/23 10:45 AM
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