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| 1 | Approaching 2 500 women without ANY ResultsNice hustle bro. If you want quick results, get a coach. Maybe Dave Perrotta, his books have helped me. A coach can tell you exactly what areas you are underperforming in. If you are not willing, then read some books. I'd advise Models, then take your interest from there. Main point, to improve you need to Act, Assess, then Adjust. Assess by learning. So far you have done too much acting. Best of luck | /r/seduction | 13/08/25 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Simple basics: 4 common characteristics of guys who do well with womenLow body fat + good fashion. That's all I'd change in your estimation | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 03:09 PM |
| 15 | He Thought Women Would Always Chase Him... Until This HappenedIt is a good reminder of why you should focus, that's what I got from it | /r/seduction | 07/02/25 08:50 AM |
| 1 | How to go beastmode and change your dating lifeCompletely correct man. The fact that so many people call this bs just shows how lazy they are. The only thing I'd add is to set an end goal, and set weekly goals to achieve that end goal. | /r/seduction | 04/01/25 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Wearing sunglasses at a club. Weird?Hey man, I tried with and without, and I feel without works better for me. With the glasses, I might see a girl, but then to approach her, I need to go above and beyond just looking in her direction. It feels kind of weird, like there is a barrier between me and her. Going without glasses, when I look in the direction of a girl, or especially on the approach, I feel more connected to her, which makes the interaction smoother. Basically, sunglasses are like condoms. Why use them if you don't have… | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 08:47 PM |
| 2 | How to get good at fundamental aspects of Pickup like not ejecting from set etc.I'll give you a really methodical solution, why not: Write a set of weaknesses in your approach Select a weakness from the set of weaknesses that you believe is good Select a corresponding solution from the set of potential solutions Do five or ten approaches on overcoming that weakness. Write a report for each approach and what was weak (do some light reading to get some ideas, like a chapter of a book you have read that is relevant or this subreddit). Write at least one potential solution to t… | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 11:31 AM |
| 1 | FIRST CLUB MAKEOUTanti slut defence | /r/seduction | 08/09/24 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Freshmen at college, I am an idiot who needs helpDepends on what you want, I'd say make your main focus on getting to know and socialise with people, and make getting girls a smaller (but still important) goal. E.g. go to a party and focus on getting to know people. But also experiment techniques to improve your game whilst talking to sets. This worked for me because gaming and having social skills both help each other. What can make it fun is to have a friend who is on a similar seduction journey who can help analyse your successes and failur… | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | My Greatest Field ReportWow, really good work. There is not much more to say, haha. Do you just meet women in bars, or also other places? Absolutely no offence intended, btw. Bars and night game in general is clearly OP for volume, i.e., you can quickly do trial and improvement with just bars. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 09:07 PM |
| 1 | You need to spend money to get laid!I mean, okay? I don't really know what you want to be told. It is a fact that the more resources (e.g., money, time) that you have, the easier it is to seduce. No one said it is fair or that everyone has an equal shot. Some babies are born and die the same day, some people drop dead whilst walking down the street, and some people are born in sucb a shitty life situation that they'll never have a desirable romantic life. It is what it is. | /r/seduction | 17/07/24 12:29 AM |
| 2 | Another Bar Lay (3 approaches, 1 bar)10 is a lot, damn. The most I've done is 3 once at some function, and I think the only difference that I personally did there was to basically split my attention between the target and her friends, reducing attention spent on her friends as I became comfortable with her friends. If you disagree with my thoughts, then let me know. Also, I'll try to approach larger sets. And absolutely no problem on the comments. Users like you and u/57pickup who post field reports are the jewels of this subreddit… | /r/seduction | 16/07/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | What could I have done to be a better wingman in this set?You could not do anything more. He just couldn't dunk the alley oop that you set him up for. No problem, though. The time to give advice if he cares is during the day. Next time you talk, ask him to put aside his ego and then discuss this. If he wants to improve, he'll be pretty grateful to you. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Another Bar Lay (3 approaches, 1 bar)Really nice job, man. I'm also logging my approaches (not here), and soon, I'll reach your level of game (take that as a compliment). I still haven't done solo night game. Have you tried opening larger sets? | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:10 PM |
| 5 | Another Bar Lay (3 approaches, 1 bar)Yeah you do not need to say that you did not read all of that, it's easy to tell | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 08:07 PM |
| 4 | You need to spend money to get laid!Sure. And it is the woman's choice whether they want to associate with you. Game is game. | /r/seduction | 15/07/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Soon I'll Be 32 and I've Never Kissed, Held Hands, or Had Sex with a Woman. Is It Too Late?Why are you here then? What set of words could convince you if you have an excuse for everything? | /r/seduction | 14/07/24 10:57 PM |
| 1 | Logical man's guide to flirtingCan you send it to me as well | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 04:24 PM |
| 2 | How I faced a hard rejection on a bar approach and what I learnedGood job. I'm also writing field reports. As you continue with trial and error, you will surely improve. | /r/seduction | 13/07/24 02:58 PM |
| 1 | I have a sudden love for older womenSure thing fella | /r/seduction | 04/07/24 06:58 PM |
| 2 | I have a sudden love for older womenOkay, I think my view is skewed because a lot of the pubs that I have been to don't have a dance area. There is the type of "bar" that you are describing, but people here refer to it as a night club since it converts into such at night. I'll try to see if these types of bars exist where I am at. I'll also take your advice into account, thanks! Edit: Okay I just went and checked out bars, and thankfully there are several. And some of the places that I and others call a night club are called bars.… | /r/seduction | 02/07/24 07:36 PM |
| 3 | I have a sudden love for older womenInteresting report. I guess this is the US. In the UK (where I'm based), there are way more pubs than bars, so you need more social game for that. Anyway, that's not the point. I wanted to ask: is that bar a place where you can dance as well, like a small dance floor and music playing? If not, what type of bar was it? And how do you feel about bars vs. nightclubs? | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 08:48 PM |
| 10 | The Summer That Will Change Everything For You (Even If You’re Shy/Introverted)Okay, keep looking for excuses to fail. Just don't pollute this subreddit at least | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 06:54 PM |
| 8 | The Summer That Will Change Everything For You (Even If You’re Shy/Introverted)I think that their culture is pretty conservative. | /r/seduction | 28/06/24 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Help my friendHow old are you guys Are you sure that he is not in the closet or something | /r/seduction | 19/05/24 06:54 PM |
| 1 | 24M How to meet girls IRL?A refined version of this should be a pinned post | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 12:04 AM |
| 2 | How can I turn my dating life around by 30?Ahaha, that's some trial through fire type shit | /r/seduction | 14/03/24 05:52 AM |
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