| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 16 | How to leave/turn down a guy or say STOP? HELP! | SEEKING ADVICE | Alarmed-Tangelo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/07/20 12:46 AM |
| 0 | How would you have handled this situation? Random man I just met on okcupid is an expat in Spain. I talk to him he demands I change my whatsapp photo then asks for my social media (I don’t have any). | MALE DEPRAVITY | Alarmed-Tangelo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/20 01:44 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 12 | I hope he picked herI feel like this is the red pill women version of "STFU", just in a different post. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/20 02:24 PM |
| 1 | I ain't gonna fall for that shit again🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 02:21 PM |
| 11 | This is me not settling for less :) I’m glad I did it. You ladies can do it too!Omg same experience. I'm going to start doing this after the first attempt. I had this one guy who contacted me after three years after I ghosted him for explicitly saying he only wanted me for sex. He contacted me a year later. I asked him what he wanted from the conversation. He gave me the same answer. Then, he created a second instagram account just to talk to me for the same reason THREE YEARS later. We talked for two weeks. How desperate can you be? OML | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/20 05:06 PM |
| 11 | Always put yourself first, ladies.Holy crap wow. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/20 04:02 PM |
| 3 | HVM Stories and Experiences SharethreadThis is so cute! I'm excited to read the rest of the comments :D | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 10:44 PM |
| 33 | 6+ years with a man and no ring?Honestly I don't see how this is funny. It's sad to me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 10:42 PM |
| 1 | And this is how you spot HV relationships: 💚🚦💯I love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/20 03:49 PM |
| 26 | You've got to be kidding me. This is just unacceptable.I will never understand why people think this is ok? Like if she keeps posting pictures of you that you don't want shared that's one thing... but deleting her Instagram, most likely filled with her memories too because you're jealous she spends more time on it? It sounds so controlling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 06:32 PM |
| 18 | Not me, but my heart aches for this girl. “My boyfriend displayed my nudes on a wall of women he and his friends have slept with. I feel like my life has been ruined”This is why you should never send nudes to anyone. God, that's so horrible. I don't understand what the thought pattern is that makes this ok. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:04 PM |
| 15 | Broke up with BF over Instagram girlsGood for you! I feel we live in such a sexualized world now where that kind of stuff is so easily accessible. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Maturity red flag?I don't think him liking Disney movies or video games makes him immature. Video games are fine, it's just when it becomes an addiction that it's too much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 01:07 AM |
| 10 | Can HV traits cancel out LV traits?That sounds like a lot of red flags especially with the son and ex wives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 12:18 AM |
| 5 | Thank you FDS! I found a HVM and I'm very very happy! I never believed it could be possible for me to love myself.So happy for you :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 08:18 PM |
| 3 | 🥺You need to feel love from within yourself first. If you don’t love yourself, it’s hard to see other people’s love for you. Try self love meditation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 01:01 PM |
| 3 | What’s the thing about FDS that you struggle the most with ?Not getting attached too fast is my biggest one... I stopped dating for awhile to work on myself and my friendships before going back into the dating scene because sometimes I feel I attach to people too fast because of loneliness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 12:54 PM |
| 6 | Ok Ladies I need some advice for my "situationship"Seems like he's just going along with it and is waiting until something better comes along. Honestly, stop talking to him. There are so many red flags. The biggest being his lack of effort. You are 25 years old with your shit together. He can suck it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 02:02 AM |
| 9 | What’s your opinion on flirtatious teasing?Honestly, if he's already making you feel uncomfortable and it makes you feel he's condescending you, don't do it. I feel as women we are constantly told to take shit to be polite. If you don't like the way someone treats you especially if you have no obligation to them, just stop talking to them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 04:44 PM |
| 25 | Be careful on the Internet, especially if you use OLDAlso if you decide to give out your number, let it be a google voice number. I almost had to file a harassment case against a man who contacted me from 5 numbers, contacted all of my social media, my Snapchat twice etc.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 01:05 PM |
| 7 | I have decided to swear off love and stay permanently single, and I have never felt happier or more relieved in my life. This sub has helped me a lot getting there. So, thank you ❤️This is so great! I'm around the same age as you. I'll be 26 on Saturday. And, I feel the same exact way as you. My sister is getting married in September and one of my best friends is getting married in December. I'm a part of both of their weddings, and I couldn't be happier for them. I haven't had the same success as my friends, especially with online dating. I've been a run around for low-value men for a while now. Texting me late at night, making plans last minute if someone else cancels, c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:16 PM |
| 10 | Ugh. And some people really believe this is okay.'Hit'? Now he is saying domestic violence is ok? WTF | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 10:31 PM |
| 43 | Superficial men and comparing womenI once drove 10 hours to meet a guy, brought him food, gifts, etc. He told me that no one had ever treated him like this to him. He said I was very special to him. After I didn't have sex with him, the next day he made it his mission to make me feel horrible. Constant very exaggerated looking at other women. I told him a story about one of my friends and he asked to see a picture of her. He looked me in my eye and said, "She's prettier than you." Don't listen to them. They're most likely insecur… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 09:37 PM |
| 30 | Story time! I saw the ice cream post earlier today and thought I’d share this story with you ladies 😆Aren't men more obese than women? Men are more likely to be obese and overweight than women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/20 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Imagine being this delusional...What the heck? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 10:08 PM |
| 10 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?The best part is when he says the same exact thing as you but in different words right after you said it. https://gph.is/1EggkUr I have this problem in real life especially older men (I'm 25). It's annoying as hell. I would normally call them out on their bullshit, but feel like I can't at work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:26 PM |
| 4 | How often do you expect to hear from your partner?Do you communicate with him other than texting? Do you Facetime or talk on the phone? I would expect to hear from them at least three times a day while he's working: once in the morning before work, break at work, and at night after work. If he's off work, I would try to call them or video chat at least once a day. Simply because everyone is glued to their phones now. Unless he is doing a technology detox, there is no real explanation other than he doesn't feel like talking to you. You are not b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 09:20 PM |
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