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DiscussionAlarming_Ask_244/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:30 PM
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Woman works at commercial business, encounters stupid people for the first time, blames one entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 04:12 PM
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One woman for every nine men, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 11:39 PM
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What is this from?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:58 PM
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It's been a while for me I'm pretty sure the big dating apps are way more than $14/mo these days. Like $30+/mo.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 10:51 PM
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The skills involved in finding versus building/maintaining a relationship are not the same. They intersect, but the venn diagram is far from a circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:42 PM
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It’s certainly no guarantee, but women have a much higher chance of success with this strategy than men do. “Okay we just started dating, time for you to start hitting the gym, dressing nicer, find a hobby and get a real job”. Plenty of guys want to do all that anyway and some romantic motivation is all they really need. I can’t imagine that working on virtually any women, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 02:21 AM
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Oh well if that’s what women say then reality can’t possibly be any different
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 05:12 PM
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>Because there are plenty of women out there that would happily go dutch with you This is simply not true. There are SOME but they are not plentiful or easy to find.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:26 PM
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>average It's technically true that the average woman (and man, for that matter) is fat, but the word "average" is also used colloquially to mean "normal" instead of the literal "mathematical mean of the data set"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 10:29 PM
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Post hoc rationalization
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:05 AM
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Disproportionately represented would mean over 50%...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:38 PM
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There are so many submissive men with kinks that involve *themselves* being put in discomfort or pain that there aren't enough dominant women to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 08:37 PM
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Thirty years ago, maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 11:01 PM
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I’d love a robot sex toy but I don’t think I could ever develop an emotional attachment to one. For men who think they can, I guess it all depends on what you mean by a “legitimate”replacement. I think that you are overestimating the value some men place on the “social currency” of having a real partner, but I also think that some men who would claim to want a robot wife are underestimating the value of a real emotional connection
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 07:39 AM
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ChatGPT
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 09:59 PM
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Idk I know which one I’d rather have
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/26 02:11 AM
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I am a 28yo man, 250lbs, 5'4 How much does your GF weigh?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 03:53 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 03:32 PM
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In this context, when men say good they mean “okay” and when women say good, they mean “great”. Case closed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:26 PM
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I think the average woman find men 3-5 years older most attractive. Which is not inherently a bad thing, but it does leave 18-23 year old men in a rough spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 03:03 PM
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Just hop on a dating app and filter through a few hundred matches? No extroversion required
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 09:30 PM
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Im a man with this fetish and it’s probably my strongest one. I can’t really explain why. I don’t hate women or want to hurt them in any other context. I would never do anything sexually to a woman without prior consent, but the fantasy of doing so does turn me on. When other men say that the idea of being the “perpetrator” in CNC role play makes them uncomfortable, it doesn’t compute in my brain at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:33 PM
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That’s not really what I’m looking for but tbh the only women I’ve ever met like that are lesbians.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/25 04:25 PM
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Women 🤝 failing to imagine that dating might be different for men, name a more iconic duo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/25 06:09 AM
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30 to 50% of Americans are stupid and/or deranged psychos who actively support whatever bad thing the rest of America wants to fix
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:20 PM
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90%+ of unattractive women are literally just overweight, including this one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:53 PM
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Trying and failing is a kind of experience
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:51 PM
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Every single man at some point in his life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 08:08 PM
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“I don’t want to hate women but I’m starting to” is pretty common in the early incel pipeline
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 03:25 PM
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What's your BMI tho
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:17 AM
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https://x.com/cimmerian_v/status/1884838064159351040 Stupid right wingers love to be wrong about classic literature
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:01 AM
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Men’s standards: be a woman. Don’t be fat (optional)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:09 AM
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Your question takes it as a given that the set of qualities that most women are looking for is a reasonable one
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:14 PM
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The internet and its consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 03:12 PM
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Kind of sad to be honest. 99% of them could find a good partner without much real effort but for whatever reason that's too much for them
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 06:02 AM
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Just focus on having a good time out with your friend. Drinking is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 02:25 PM
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"I don't get what's so hard about dating apps, just have abs and a lot of money"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:28 AM
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100-200+ dates? Damn, I should have been born an attractive instagram normie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 03:21 AM
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I may have posted this thought here in the past but sometimes I wish I was blind. It's really hard to find a partner that is both physically and emotionally/socially/mentally attractive. Being blind would eliminate the physical aspect and I could just focus on finding someone I click with
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:51 PM
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How are your trump coin returns coming along
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 05:18 PM
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It's not for everyone lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:56 PM
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I have seen a fair bit of this yes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:48 PM
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My healthy bmi (19-21) kinky wife is out there somewhere and I have to find her somehow
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:47 PM
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I'm hoping it's a social network I can find a mutually kinky wife in, but polyamory/open relationships are super common so I'm pessimistic. It might lead to a fwb situation at some point though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:47 PM
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This one's pretty clean. There's nudity but no sex, and they have sanitizing spray for the equipment like a gym. As for gross, well, that depends on how much you like seeing the average person naked
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:45 PM
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This one's open to the public on fetlife, just a small cover charge
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:40 PM
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I've been going to a BDSM club for a few weeks. Nothing much crazy has happened, mostly just watching people who are some combination old, ugly, and/or fat whipping and tying each other up. Yesterday, though, I got to watch a couple attractive naked women around my age practice fire play on each other, which is basically like a massage where you tap the receiver with small torch. I got to try it myself, but the girl who did it to me was pretty fat, so it wasn't very erotic. It did feel good thou…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 10:35 PM
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It's sexist to treat one sex differently than the other out of fear. Okay, women first
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 03:17 PM
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Rightoids become experts in forest management when its time to blame democrats for something
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:58 PM
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<image> If a blue dots is above the red line, it represents a woman in this study overestimating how attractive men would rate their photo https://x.com/Aella_Girl/status/1880020621876478084
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 10:54 PM
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Is it better to have loved and lost or to never have loved at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 10:47 PM
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<image> Wise wisdom from @/FatBitchFucker
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:13 PM
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Men love quests
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 06:45 AM
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If he's a 4, then I'm a 6-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:55 AM
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<image> I look like a hotter version of this man, if anyone is curious
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:29 AM
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Anyone can see women getting socially accepted and included much more in social situations along with getting made fun of much less Tbh, I think a lot of women actually are blind to it. But it's an active choice to ignore it when it's brought to their attention
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:23 AM
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You could extrapolate that reddit and social media in general, tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:05 AM
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I think acknowledging it and being open to discuss it as a societal issue is all men can really ask of women on this issue. "Not outright denying it" is a good start
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 05:04 AM
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I think it's a problem for society as a whole to address
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:58 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:54 AM
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<image> There is NO male loneliness epidemic. Ignore everything you, as a man, have experienced and seen other men experiencing. Relationships are exactly as easy to find and maintain as they were in previous generations.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:46 AM
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Not while your father is there trying and failing to evacuate you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:09 AM
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<image> Everybody's been talking about birth rates, but maybe it's been relationship rates that have been the real problem the whole time?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 04:04 AM
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But as a child, would you want your father to stay with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:57 AM
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I saw so many people on twitter basically trashing her for leaving and saying shit like "well, **I** would have DIED with my child" and like... I'm an adult man. I love my mom. I would be so pissed if I couldn't escape a fire and she pointlessly died alongside me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 03:44 AM
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Fattie women, all you need to do is this one thing to excel at what you're trying to do Alas, that's where you're wrong. They're likely getting plenty of matches despite their weight
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:10 AM
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For national politics I'm inclined to agree, but you should be engaging with local politics regularly
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:41 AM
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I think it's a cropped mirror pic but idk
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:26 AM
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<image> Literally, unironically, 100% with-my-chest, this is my dream girl
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 01:03 AM
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huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:57 AM
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Literally a fake religion that is just based on feelings I mean...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:51 AM
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Technically using a logical fallacy doesn't mean you're wrong, it just means your argument is bad
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:49 AM
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There's a lot of churches with delusional religious people, especially in rural US
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:45 AM
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Nah, even for chad, very few women are on the average man's level
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:41 AM
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Men's purpose is to be asymptotically approaching 25.0 BMI while maintaining 10-15% bf
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:39 AM
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<image> Sure bud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 03:33 AM
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Sex feels good and validating. Even if you don't want to do it, it shouldn't be hard to understand why other people do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:42 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:03 AM
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He's got a better face imo, if he lost weight he would severely mog her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:02 AM
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My bet is he's a regular guy who goes like rock climbing twice a week and meets up with friends, but she's attracted to him so to her that basically makes him an international man of mystery
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:52 AM
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<image> to be fair, I had to scroll pretty far to find this, she seems to be mostly followed/replied to by men
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:41 AM
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coming home to my empty apartment after trying to keep another woman's attention: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:39 AM
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I've always hated drinking alcohol with food. Ruins the taste of the food imo
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:38 AM
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me trying to find a wife: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:36 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:36 AM
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I don't think missing out means that it's 100% over for you, but I do think that some level of romantic exploration/success in your teen years is an extremely important milestone in developing confidence as an adult
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:17 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 01:15 AM
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I relate, to an extent. I don't really care about having those except insofar as they would be a mark of her presence
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:29 AM
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I think you were fine lol but I'm not a mod ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:27 AM
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<image>
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:20 AM
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Two wrongs don't make a right
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 12:20 AM
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I'm watching a vtuber reacting to/reviewing two other vtubers flirting on stream. It's making me think about flirting as a concept. How did you learn how to flirt? How should an adult virgin/incel/introvert go about learning how to flirt? One of the things I hate about flirting/approaching women is feeling like I'm "targeting" her, singling her out, etc. I think I need to broaden my scope and focus on socializing well with everyone at the function so that when I do start "targeting" a girl A) I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:20 AM
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Ohhh I see, stuffed versions of actual animals lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:10 AM
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Actual animals make great gifts?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:52 AM
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Any good sex bot should be good enough for a massage, too, imo
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:35 AM
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No but I think it's cute when girls do. I wanna date a squishmallow girl
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:33 AM
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No more than men can be. It would be misogynistic to treat them special
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:20 PM
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They're not the only ones
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 11:02 PM
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Women say it, just not out loud. Actions louder than words, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:57 PM
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slippery slope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:10 PM
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I'm not red pill but 99% of the time on this sub I do speak in terms of male/female. I recognize and respect the rights of trans people to identify however they want to, but 99% of interactions between people in my life happen between cis men and cis women, so it's rarely relevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:59 AM
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The real question is, what percentage of men who struggle with dating fail to meet reasonable hygiene standards? We all know some men (and some women, for the record) who are slobs but still date. The real reason "get better hygiene, take a shower" is such common advice in dating subs is the just world fallacy. People subconsciously want to believe that life is fair and if a man struggles with dating, it's because of something he is doing to deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:06 PM
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That's not how it works with any other kind of trauma. That doesn't work for, like, veterans and fireworks for example
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 04:19 AM
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What flavor
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:28 PM
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I’ll take your word for it, I’ve never experienced this as the smeller or smellee
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 10:27 PM
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A quick shower, maybe, but I don’t think that’s really true for a normal shower
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:58 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:35 PM
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How would this be an obstacle if he showers every time he goes out?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:34 PM
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New insecurity unlocked
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 09:33 PM
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From what you've indicated in this thread, anyone pressuring you to lose weight is delusional and you should utterly ignore them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:26 AM
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She looks the best out of all them but she's also probably the least fat
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:07 AM
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<image> All two of the women I have dated/slept with in my life were way above average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 06:05 AM
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I think you just aren't differentiating between "ugly" and "not your type"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:55 AM
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That shirt color looks terrible with his hair and skin tone, this guy's gotta wear dark colors 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:52 AM
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I'm way hotter than that white guy, social anxiety is all that stood between me and chad-lite life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:51 AM
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Are we psychically connected
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:42 AM
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Good luck, genuinely. It seems like handicapping yourself for little to no gain, though
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:38 AM
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People will point to outliers to deflect
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 05:37 AM
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My PP is safe from fat women, but unfortunately, thin and average women are also safe from my PP
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:18 AM
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>Both genders have burdens of performance Maybe so, but I maintain that this one is uniquely male. No guy is ever going to care that his wife struggled to date in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:07 AM
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Hence "least worst" option.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 04:04 AM
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Being an entrepreneur isn't cringe but most entrepreneurs are individually cringe, and the rest share that association
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:54 AM
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Woman mostly for novelty. Assuming I'm born in the west still lol
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:54 AM
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>that jaw They might not be completely looksmatched but they're pretty close
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:53 AM
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He's not that ugly. He's like perfectly average
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:52 AM
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Here's a uniquely male experience: if I ever find a partner, I will probably have to lie about why I've been single for my entire twenties, including three years living alone in a major city. Telling the truth about struggling with confidence and socializing is only going to diminish me in her eyes. My best (least worst) option will be to say something like "I was focusing on school/career the whole time". I'll also have to lie about dating apps, if the topic ever comes up. "Oh yeah, my male and…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/24 03:47 AM
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Sleeping with 1000000 people is definitely worse than happening to catch an STD the first time you have sex
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:26 AM
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Not very church like of him tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:25 AM
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Probably some kind of unicorn who likes me back and shares some of my interests and hobbies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:24 AM
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99.9% for fun, 0.01% for the off chance that we fall in love, get married and tell people we "met online" but don't specify where
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:06 AM
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I would flirt with women in these threads but they're just going to look through my comment history and get turned off lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:59 AM
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First, I'll wonder if I'm dyslexic. Then, eh, whatever, chlamydia is curable with antibiotics, so what's the worst that could happen? (disclaimer: I've never had chlamydia)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:57 AM
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Do you know any men who are craftsmen (potters, carpenters, etc)? Are they knee deep in offers from women? Do you think this is an example of survivorship bias?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:48 AM
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Only if you enjoy it
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 04:11 AM
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Are ladies nights feminist?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 12:24 AM
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Like what?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/24 03:10 AM
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Funny how the tone changes at this point in the argument
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 11:14 PM
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You lucked out, there’s probably only like 100 dudes who fit those criteria
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:51 AM
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likes me Female Attractive (optional) Not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 01:50 AM
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Good evidence in this thread to act on these beliefs if you have them but then take them to your grave
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/24 02:59 PM
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Have you dated any men that were friends with you for months before they asked you out? Have any of your female friends done so?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/24 04:21 PM
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Sounds like she could use a little exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/24 10:48 PM
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For me, I think "the best relationship possible" involves sharing porn with each other. I like porn, a woman who's truly compatible with me would probably also like porn. Most of the porn I like is drawn or written, though, so I don't think it has the same negative effects you think traditional porn does
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 06:09 AM
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Talking to a woman without wanting to have sex with her is the opposite of simping.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:45 PM
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One side obviously has it much easier lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:34 PM
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Another guy just went for an unoriginal dinner date that was cliché Another time she bumped into her friend who was on another bumble date making things awkward Womens' dating problems include being taken on dinner dates and running into friends. Truly they have it so hard :(
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 08:32 PM
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Even if you really had a connection? There's always someone better?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:17 AM
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Cute
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:04 AM
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Out of it being too invasive or just not wanting to get nicked? I feel like a partner would have easier access for one thing, it's hard to reach down there
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:04 AM
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Can't argue with that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:01 AM
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This type of response is honestly surprising to me. I expected the responses to be either "no I don't want to shave at all" or "sure, less work for me". I didn't expect multiple women to say "yes I do want to shave but I prefer to do it myself"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:54 AM
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Free spa day for you then
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:45 AM
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I wasn't really thinking in terms of "would it be embarassing for a bf to this", moreso "if you find it rude/wrong/imposing for a bf to want his gf to shave, is it less rude/wrong/imposing if he offers to do it himself"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:33 AM
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Yeah it really represents the universal real answer which is "it depends on your partner"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:21 AM
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This is encouraging lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:20 AM
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What if you don't like it better natural?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:20 AM
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It seems like it's generally seen as a negative for a man to prefer his partner to keep their body hair shaved. Ladies, would you view a man who wants his partner to keep shaved better if he offers to groom her himself? Like, "oh I'll give you a spa day every couple weeks, draw you a bath, wash your hair, and shave everything myself." I think that bathing each other is cute and intimate, and I generally dislike body hair on women so it seems like a win-win
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 02:05 AM
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What’s horrendous about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 04:56 PM
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I prefer the term “hopeless romantic”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:16 AM
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I was playing an erotic furry text RPG full of sexual deviancy of all kinds the other day, as one does, when I unexpectedly found myself following a quest line where you meet nice, cute, shy, introverted girl who likes to reading romance novels and baking. It was a slow burn where you talk and flirt, go on walks and hold hands, then go on candle lit dinner dates and eventually get married and have kids. This experience made me feel incredibly sad and lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 09:03 AM
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Would your male friends and relatives feel safe expressing that opinion to you, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:51 PM
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Huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 07:18 PM
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The segment of men who want a traditional relationship but still want to split the bill is much much smaller than the segment of women who want an egalitarian relationship but DON'T want to split the bill
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 06:26 PM
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Maybe in Bumfuck, Tennessee but in civilization it’s neutral to positive
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 03:30 PM
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Says the woman who just made an entire thread ranting about basic men
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 06:39 PM
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Ask about her interests "So... uh... you like travelling? And uh... dogs? And The Office?"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:57 PM
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Where I live dating apps are saturated with men. It's like 9 men for every woman on an app. Oh you also live on Planet Earth? What a coincidence
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:51 PM
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We agree that most men aren't attractive enough to pull that off. we disagree that any o f the other things you suggest are going to do anything, because we've been doing them for years and they don't work. Men should either become attractive enough to "pull that off" or just get off the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:41 PM
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And there are also thousands of 5'4 men with normal photos and normal bios that you also didn't match with. Your guy got lucky, most don't
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:28 PM
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Good lighting, good angles, showing hobbies, showing pics at events or clubs when we’re trying our hardest to look good, et Is this what you think the average woman's profile loos like? You could take any 10 women's profiles and you would be hard pressed to find a single hobby among them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:22 PM
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I did that. It didn't change anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:09 PM
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I had two female friends take over my account, once. They took and chose all of my pictures adn and wrote most of my profile. I stildidn't get any matches
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/24 03:05 PM
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It's easy to be comfortable while single when you know you can find a relationship at the drop of a hat.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:30 PM
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A fire hose that you have complete control over lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/24 03:28 PM
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I see no problem with pursuing escorts if you can mentally get past the fact they’re interested in your money and not for who you are. For a lot of men, it’s a boner kill. I would not be interested in a relationship with a guy who has had a history of escorts though. These two opinions seem contradictory
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/24 11:19 PM
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Neutral sex IS unwanted sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 05:46 PM
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His imagination is available 24/7
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:46 PM
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Humans are naturally hardwired to desire sexual variety
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/24 03:15 PM
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If the average woman rejected men more, she would still likely find a relationship. If the average man rejected women more (whether that's rejection women who approach, which never happens, or more likely simply approaching women less), he will likely never find a relationship. The two situations are not comparable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/24 07:26 PM
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The definition of “Infidelity” isn’t “finding sexual pleasure anywhere but your partner”, it’s about breaking your partners trust. That’s why it’s called sexual infidelity, and other types of infidelity exist. Marriage, or LTRs, are agreements and they don’t all have the same terms. If two partners agree that they shouldn’t watch porn and one does so, then that’s infidelity, but if two partners agree that they can have sex with whoever they want on the third weekend of the month, that isn’t infi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 04:18 PM
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If anything it should make it easier to find an LTR, because people who are not serious about dating but seek LTRs for sex will be removed the dating pool
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:54 PM
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Don’t threaten me with a good time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:48 PM
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“ it reduces the motivation of people to get into relationships”. Self report? I would be lying if I said that having sex wasn’t one motivating factor for wanting a relationship, but it’s not the only one and not the main one. I want love, romance, a best friend, a partner. Even if I was having all of my sexual desires satisfied by friends (or escorts or strangers or whomever), I would still want a relationship just as strongly
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/24 05:47 PM
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It's reassuring to see another normal looking guy struggle on the apps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/24 11:49 PM
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The wealthy or European youngsters, anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:28 PM
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Another way to put it: most men will never have a woman feel sexually attracted to them in the same way that men feel sexually attracted to women (lust)
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:26 PM
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I'm amazed you have more than one person in your life who even knows who John Carmack is
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:21 PM
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Ugly guy: "we have nothing in common" Hot guy: "omg we have so much in common he likes the beatles"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 07:05 PM
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"How did you solve it?" "By solving it"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 12:09 AM
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No, but I am correct in this case.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 11:24 PM
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That's not what that means lol. I grew up religious, I'm perfectly aware that "fear the lord" means "FEAR the lord".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:44 PM
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Has to fear the Lord and love the Lord Religious brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:41 PM
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Religious brainwashing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 06:22 PM
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Who said anything about 5'4" 160lbs? That's a 27.5 BMI, not 22.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 05:01 PM
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A 5'4", 128lb, 22 BMI woman is not fat
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:43 PM
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It's true, a woman with a 22 BMI is weeks away from death /s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/24 03:02 AM
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The two are not mutually exclusive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/24 04:09 AM
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"For every man doing hard work to improve his appearance there are two women doing easy work to improve theirs". Wow, profound
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/24 05:28 PM
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In a "we're all gods children with beautiful souls" kind of way, sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/24 01:49 PM
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You, for some reason, in response to lonely men desperately seeking a crumb of platonic or romantic connection: "fucking sex fiends"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:28 PM
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Perhaps you should be consistent in your principles then
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/24 08:54 PM
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Consent was not being discussed
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 04:50 PM
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Time to change your flair lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:52 PM
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"For men, sexual performance pressure is sexual performance pressure. For women it's [list of things that aren't sexual performance pressure]"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:43 PM
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Women 👏 don't 👏 wear 👏 make 👏 up 👏 for 👏 men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 02:42 PM
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aw you're so cool and edgy
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/24 01:38 PM
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The supreme court doesn't care about the constitution though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:48 AM
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I'm not saying that no women struggle with dating, simply that it is significantly less common than it is for men. Obviously neither of us is going to convince the other by saying "actually it's X% of women and Y% of men", but I'd bet if you asked your social circle what dating has really been like for them throughout their lives, the men would report a lot more struggle than the women, in aggregate.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 08:03 PM
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I see women who don’t think it’s normal to not be able to date at all This IS downplaying dating for men. Yes, yes, most men eventually find a relationship or two and eventually get married, but it's certainly normal for men to go long spans of time without being able to get dates even when actively wanting to do so, and it's unquestionably more common for men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 07:56 PM
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It's not the same lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:40 PM
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Most South Korean male youth wear makeup and are gamer nerds. They serve 18 months in the military. Most North Koreans work their asses off in fields and don’t own a computer. They serve 10 - 13 years in the military. It's the 21st century. No serious military conflict is going to be decided by who has the manlier and tradpilled soldiers.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 12:31 PM
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Women like her are the reason men aren’t willing to discuss their feelings and struggles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/24 03:59 PM
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Women feel like they have to be charming?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/24 05:23 AM
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Trying to get “man over bear” supporters to say “it’s hyperbole, women wouldn’t/shouldn’t literally choose the bear” has been like pulling teeth
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 02:32 PM
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That's just naive
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:58 PM
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Despite appearances, the supreme court has no idea and/or doesn't give shit about what is or isn't constitutional
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 11:31 PM
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Downloading french duolingo ASAP
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/24 06:25 PM
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Men face the same potential outcome with fewer initial options
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 03:49 PM
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What percentage of the male population of your school would you suppose that offender comprises? More or less than 1%?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 03:53 AM
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The vast, vast, vast majority of men have never committed a rape and are not "48 hours in the woods" away from doing so
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:17 PM
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Do you seriously live your life under the assumption that the only thing keeping Bill from accounting from raping or murdering you is the presence of witnesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:13 PM
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How many grizzly bear encounters have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 08:11 PM
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True crime has poisoned the brains of any woman who would pick the bear
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 05:25 PM
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Casual relationships are a type of relationship. Should we draw you a venn diagram or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:49 PM
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Imagine one day a new 19 year old intern comes in with the appearance and personality of a 30 year old. He looks old for his age, talks about politics and art and harry potter or whatever millenials are into, drives a modest car, volunteers at the soup kitchen, maxes out his Roth IRA and goes to bed at 9pm. Would you be willing to date this person? If you say yes, then you're not really opposed to dating younger men. If you say no, then it isn't really the "childish" behavior of the regular inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:46 PM
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Having a fling with an attractive woman a decade older than me is the WORST thing I can imagine /s
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:41 PM
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Consider two scenarios: 1.) Early 20s man goes to bar, meets a woman. They are mutually attracted to each other, have things in common, hit it off. He finds out she's actually 18 but he doesn't immediately cut contact and just starts dating her like he would another early 20s woman. 2.) Early 20s man has a thing for 18 year olds, prowls around college bars, ignores all the older looking women and only tries to proposition the young ones. If he finds out a girl he's connecting with is actually 25…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:40 PM
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It's incredibly hard to find a relationship OR sex as a young straight man, so only having the one problem seems like an unmitigated improvement
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:13 PM
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Your experience may be an outlier. I've frequently heard of the opposite experience occurring: bisexual women who are used to having an easy time dating men (don't have to approach, don't have to put in as much effort, lots of potential suitors), then start dating women and learning that it's not a walk in the park to try to do so, even as a woman. I'm not a bisexual woman and I haven't exactly done any scientific studies, so I can't tell you which is actually more common, but I can say that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 04:12 PM
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Have you seen a woman's first message lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:12 AM
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Stop treating chatgpt like the fucking oracle of delphi. It did not say that 21% of women are age 18-35 because it consulted the available data. It said that because it sounds like a string of words that make sense in that order.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 05:33 PM
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This is just sex negativity from men. If you don't view sex as a degrading act for the receptive partner, you don't have this problem. In other words, skill issue
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 03:26 PM
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Exactly, so if there are fewer good, normal weight options, then their value as partners will increase proportionally
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:58 PM
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Show me someone with a 30+ BMI and I'll show you either an obese person or a bodybuilder. And there isn't a bodybuilding epidemic, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 11:57 PM
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Which men? The podcasters themselves? Maybe. The listeners? Probably not
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:37 PM
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Is everyone who doesn’t fit your preferences shitty or just that group? I’d appreciate it if all the fat chicks got off the apps so I didn’t have to filter through them but I don’t think that makes them shitty people
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 07:32 AM
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Exactly. Game for women can be as simple as "put a single ounce of effort or interest into the conversation"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:08 PM
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That's not game
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:05 PM
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You don’t have to date ugly guys but don’t pretend that filtering out ugly guys is a safety measure
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:03 PM
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Do you think ugly guys are more dangerous or something? Standards have nothing to do with safety vetting
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 02:26 PM
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Isn't "women and society" a longwinded way of saying "men and women" or just "society"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:57 AM
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I don't think my feminine female friends would appreciate being called butch
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 03:55 AM
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People are saying it in this very thread, bro
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/24 05:23 PM
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maybe we can take turns /s
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:08 PM
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women have responsive desire. This isn't libido
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/24 04:04 PM
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I’ll never get understand stranger dates. You don’t know anything about them This is like saying "I don't understand going to art class, you don't know anything about painting". The point of art class is to learn to paint, the point of dating is to get to know each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 06:27 PM
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You can only (successfully) advertise the traits you have that are positive, not the ones you WISH were positive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/24 12:16 AM
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Same as everyone else
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/24 03:44 AM
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Then you'll grow out of your ben shapiro phase
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:43 AM
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Okay grandpa lets get you to bed
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 01:40 AM
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Religious indoctrination from birth is bad mmmkay
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 12:49 AM
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Does having sex with someone you’re actively dating count as hooking up?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/24 12:07 AM
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Todays society would look down on someone using a sex robot, but consider how different todays society is from society 50 years ago and imagine how different it will be in another 50 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:56 PM
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“I’m sure people who spend $500 on a video game console so they can repeatedly shoot and stab people pose no threat to society whatsoever”
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 03:53 PM
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You gotta make something work for you if your face ain't doing it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 11:00 PM
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Of course it's a gradient, but it doesn't matter if there's a gradient when a woman's selection criteria is filtering for a single type
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:59 PM
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Selection bias
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 10:56 PM
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Pathetic, waterboarding wouldn't get this out of me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/23 01:56 AM
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why would you marry someone you aren't willing to merge finances with
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:31 AM
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What? Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:28 AM
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Women don't know how lucky they are to be able to date decent men who aren't swarmed by potential partners. They don't believe this is true. The only men they're willing to date are the top fraction who are also swarmed by potential partners, so women feel like its an even playing field.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/23 02:27 AM
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"A Guide for Men -- How to Ensure You're Alone Forever"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 07:35 PM
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not in real life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 04:19 AM
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Maybe for blind people
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:53 PM
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looking up at you its joever for short kings RIP
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:56 AM
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The only reliable sign women show of attraction towards a man, short of explicitly stating her interest, is her continued responsiveness to his escalating advances, ie he approaches and she responds positively, he starts flirting, she responds positively, etc, etc. All other potential signs women use, consciously or unconsciously, are effectively indistinguishable from kindness and politeness.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 07:55 AM
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Surprised not to see astrology mentioned yet. Few things make me lose respect for a person faster.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 07:31 PM
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I like Taylor Swift and believe in astrology 🎵 one of these things is not like the other 🎵
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 05:45 PM
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It's true that alcohol reduces anxiety and makes socializing easier, but it also makes socializing more enjoyable even for non-anxious people with no trouble socializing. It's a win-win.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:43 PM
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I have zero interest in going on a date with someone I don't already know and haven't vetted. True crime and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race. Getting coffee with someone IS vetting them, or at least the first step in the process. ​ Someone being physically attractive is not what I consider "the basic level". Your brain makes that judgement before you're even aware of it. It may not be the highest priority after weighing all factors, but it's certainly the most basic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 09:48 AM
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you know absolutely nothing about me other than my looks/appearance Yes, but this is not a bad thing. It's simply an invitation to get to know each other. The entire subtext of a cold approach is: "Hi, I find you physically attractive. If you find me physically attractive back, then at least know we are compatible on the most basic level. I would like to invite you to the process of finding out if our personalities are also compatible (aka dating)".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:21 AM
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many women are highly intuitive. if women you don’t know are getting creeped out by you a lot, there might be some truth there. Highly controversial toxically masculine ultra sigma red pill hot take incoming: women aren't psychic
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 05:13 AM
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... are they? I've seen a lot of men shamed for not being able to get a woman off, I'm not sure I've ever really seen the reverse.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 12:23 AM
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The vast majority of men don't even have enough experience to gauge good vs bad performance from a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:35 PM
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Men should just pull themselves up by their bootstraps
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:23 PM
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Anecdotal, but I've never had a sexual encounter where a woman volunteered any information about how they prefer to have sex. All of that was either completely nonverbal or had to be drawn out by me asking. If I either wasn't good at reading their responses or didn't care enough to ask/try, they probably wouldn't have gotten off, and because all the burden of good sex is on the man, I would have been "at fault". TLDR: women need to advocate for themselves if they want to get off. you can't just …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 11:17 PM
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Virtually every scientific study on happiness concludes that the number one most significant predictor of people reporting higher happiness is strong relationships, whether its family, friends, or romantic partners. The aspiring writer with a desk job and long happy marriage who never got that manuscript finished is going to be happier than the lonely successful author like 99% of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 06:11 PM
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Being ugly is behavior in the abstract sense, I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:55 PM
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Demonization of male sexuality is extremely real. Once you recognize this, you start seeing it everywhere. A completely identical statement or conversation can be acceptable from a woman but "creepy" from a man, simply because people see male sexuality as inherently negative, a bad thing that women allow men to do them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/23 03:54 PM
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Sadness that turns into anger. The sadness is still the root cause. Happy secure men aren't logic-ing their way into misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:13 PM
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because that’s literally the only solution. This is ridiculous. You can only come to this conclusion by refusing to even make an attempt to imagine potential solutions
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/23 04:06 PM
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I wish
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 04:05 PM
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Nature, by definition, doesn't do anything by intention.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:36 AM
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Some things are more than the sum of their parts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:14 AM
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I don't think sexual is the right word but there is an intimacy to it beyond what I feel when hugging other men. I don't think there's any harm in that as long as you don't go out of your way to hug your female friends too much, try to hug female friends you're not that close with, or otherwise somehow make it weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 12:03 AM
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North Carolina? Actually maybe some prices are too steep
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:25 PM
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I don't think it's entirely their fault. Due to a lot of different factors, going out regularly to build and maintain a social network requires more effort, more time and more money for less of a return than it ever did in previous decades.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 04:22 PM
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It made think that perhaps, guys dropping back on approaching has actually begun to affect a balancing reaction....? It would be nice but I'm not holding my breath. Tell us where you're finding all these magical approaching women, though, I'll head there tonight
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 02:22 AM
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I think it's both, ie she knows her fat friend is less attractive than her but in group bias leaves her unable to realize the extent to which that's true.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/23 12:40 AM
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You also see it when women talk about their friends. Men will say "I have a buddy Steve who's average looking and struggles to get dates", and you look and its an average looking guy. Women will say "I have a STUNNING and GORGEOUS friend named Susan and SOMEHOW she struggles to find a man" and you look and she's a 4
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:12 PM
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Caring about your genetic line and being in a relationship are not synonymous
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 11:10 PM
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An ugly famous rich man marrying a beautiful nobody woman (aka, par for the course) doesn't prove your point that beautiful famous women are frequently marrying ugly nobody men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:55 PM
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Hypergamy is a trend, not a law of nature. Some women will deviate from the trend, including some famous women. And the fact that you call them "flawless" women just proves my point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:52 PM
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I'm not really familiar with famous/non-famous marriages, but from a quick google they all seem pretty matched to me. You probably just like the way women look more.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:44 PM
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Or maybe they lack proper social interaction where they can organically meet new women. This is the root cause of 99% of the issues discussed on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:03 PM
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Yeah I'm sure there's no overlap at all
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:02 PM
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Women have a massive in-group bias evaluating other women, so of course you think women are usually the better looking half of a couple.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 06:01 PM
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Normal people don't care about their genetic line, they just want to be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:39 PM
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... and also according to men's own lived experience
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 05:25 PM
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attractive It just so happens that all the things described in OPs post contribute to what a woman finds "attractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/23 02:25 AM
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You can't walk into a bar, look around at everyone drinking, and conclude that most people *outside the bar* are alcoholics.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 08:34 PM
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And yet I bet I'll let you know when my masters thesis doing a meta-analysis on the masturbation frequency of the different genders is ready to publish
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:47 PM
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And the female sex toy industry is worth literally billions of dollars And yet I bet if you counted how many times each gender actually masturbated, with or without toys, the entire female population would be outnumbered by merely the teenage male population.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:11 PM
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There's a whole sub for HL women All twelve of them don't really outweigh the entire male population. There are almost zero male prostitutes There are many male prostitutes... 99% of them are for other men. It's a statistical claim. The vast majority of men have a much higher libido than the vast majority of women, and *some* women having higher libidos than most men doesn't disprove that fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 10:09 PM
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Many women I know, would have sex with some of you guys if you brushed your teeth, shaved, got a haircut, put on clean clothes, and got some therapy. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:55 PM
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Say "men are hornier than women" to a mixed crowd of normal people, and you'll get a dozen responses like "actually women are just as horny as men", "actually men are just conditioned to be more open and women more reserved", "actually men only say that until they get with a woman who's hornier than they are". I have heard of all these in real conversations.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 09:45 PM
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That would justify women prioritizing indicators of safety, not indicators of wealth/status.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 01:58 AM
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No one should be shamed for immutable characteristics - whether its a womans "loose" vagina or stretch marks, or a man's hairline or height. That said, there's nothing wrong with being attracted to and seeking unnatural physical features. We have more ability to control our appearance today than any point in human history, we should take advantage of that more (within moderation). I don't want a woman to ignore her attraction and settle for me, I want to *be* a man who is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 12:19 AM
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This is the answer. Studies show and women readily admit that, to women, attractiveness is more than physical. It's no wonder that there's a mile of difference between in attraction towards "the older guy with nice clothes, a house, a car, and disposable income" versus "the old looking guy in my class with none of those things"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 08:13 PM
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