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swipe on absolutely everyone This is a quick way for the algorithm to shadow ban you. If your swipes out colossally outweight the swipes you get, the system removes you from the dating pool.
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 12:28 PM
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Ryan Gosling < Ryan Reynolds You are a #1 fan to the inferior Ryan
/r/AllPillDebate10/11/23 12:22 PM
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Mountain Dew is the superior soft drink hands down. Even Diet Mountain Dew ain't too bad. The fact that Pepsi and Coke dominate America is mind boggling.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 09:31 PM
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A man that is above average in looks, might get approached by a handful of women, but for the most part still does the approaching, and have something other than looks to bring to the table. To put it another way, it is what you picture the average man to be and be treated, only the looks threshold has gone up with the digital age. The "average" man is still below average by society's standards. Prime example being that the average male height is 5'9", though majority of women's preferences bein…
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:51 PM
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Frankly I don't think anyone should be banned, as shutting down the argument before it can even begin opens yourself up to mockery and criticism and in turn, weakens the argument. When the floor is wide open, and the opponent's argument still gets obliterated, not only do they have nothing to fall back on, but the results of said argument are made public for everyone else to see. This is why safe spaces were created in the first place, since those people couldn't handle losing an argument.
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:43 PM
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sex For Chad's, this is the date Chad-lites however do date to show off their personality, wealth, ect. Their looks got them over the hurdle, but the deal needs to be sealed
/r/AllPillDebate07/11/23 06:34 PM
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Except they don't. Most people can't measure to the inch. Yee old concept of "always leave extra", as most people undersize measurements. Fun game to play is to ask people to eyeball an inch with a measuring tape. Most will undersize it
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 06:51 PM
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Dating apps is the easiest. Slide that fucker all the way to 6'5" and deal with the aftermath later
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 04:29 PM
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5'10 can easily pass for 6' I am 5'11 and I had women, all on their own, say I am 6'1". Not my job to correct them
/r/AllPillDebate03/11/23 04:23 PM
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But that isn't made public, so nobody would know you been selected in the first place in that regard. If I fuck some girl on a one night stand, nobody is going to know. VS posting pictures on social media, and otherwise publicizing you have been chosen Furthermore, it has been proven that you can trick mate choice copying by simply having an attractive girl act like she is interested in you.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 04:11 PM
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Is that not the same thing? Marriage is still being selected by said woman
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 04:05 PM
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This is wrong The comment you made further down only illustrates how marriage deteriorates between the 2 people, it does not show how a 3rd person interacts Evidence shows that men become more attractive when they commit, since it shows that a woman picked them, therefore they have something to offer
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 04:02 PM
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Why not just lie? Most people can't tell the difference in height anyways. ​ But no, this is fake
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 02:59 PM
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Elementary school was easily the worst time in my life. Was the shortest dude in my class and undiagnosed autism to the max, with bullying with zero consequences. So fucking glad to be an adult.
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 01:46 PM
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This was probably in the early 2000's, back when "if they hit you, that means they like you". Public school is such a wild place
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 01:44 PM
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Not muslim, but science can answer this. Yes, and it has an established name "mate choice copying". It is basically the subconscious trait in that the easiest way for a woman to find a successful partner is by selecting one previously picked by others. Because people don't see what happens behind closed doors, the mental concept is basically "If this girl (who is of higher SMV) is with him, then he must have something to bring to the table that could also benefit me" It should be noted that this…
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 01:09 PM
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"There is only one word that describes America - Asufutimaebaehfutbw" - Joe Biden Truly an inspiration to us all
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:56 PM
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Link me to a post that says "if a woman lightly taps a man he's justified to murder her." You're right. Most of us were also taught to defend ourselves if struck. She probably should have thought about that preschool education before she took a swing
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:52 PM
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Lol what? Thinking about "having" sex with minors as an adult is creepy af. But are you really going to pretend high school kids don't have sex?
/r/AllPillDebate02/11/23 12:48 PM
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Of course, that's why dead bedrooms is a literal meme
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 10:19 PM
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No, it was more so nothing changed no matter how much I tried until I improved myself physically, which is my entire point. Nobody cared that I was financially independent, was educated, therapy did fuck all. The only time people cared about what was going on in my life was when I improved myself physically.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 04:11 PM
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Only one of those things help. I'll let you guess which one. I had this mindset in my early 20's. Went to college, became high earner, started going to therapy, was still hopelessly single. Started going to the gym, got my bald head taken care of, and suddenly women were hitting me up wanting to be with me. As for spirituality, I think sky-daddy has done enough damage. At this point in my life, I just pray he stays the fuck out of my way. - But I do agree that OP should work on himself physicall…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:40 PM
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7" Its childish, but this is the length of the average thumb/ring finger, which when you stretch them both out, supposedly represents the size of your package. My comment was from high school, but I work at a government office and have had adult women tell me the above sentence. Never made the connection till I heard that.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:32 PM
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Realistically so long as you don't have any deformities or mental illnesses, pretty much all of that is fixable. Short can be solved with shoelifts (assuming you don't wanna go the surgical route) Balding can be solved with hair transplant or hair system (been there, done that, changed my life) Small bone structure can at least be masked with a workout routine and bulk Only thing that will be holding you back is Ethnicity (assuming you live in a predominantly white area). Passporting can be an a…
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:25 PM
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As someone who likes numbers, this was extremely satisfying to read
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:17 PM
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I once had a crush call me "tiny-wrists" in high school because her thumb and ring finger could wrap around my wrist with room to spare
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:15 PM
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Not everyone has a donor area suitable for a hair transplant
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:13 PM
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You know fuck all about this guy other than he is ugly, but instantly assume he is also a shut-in NEET?
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 03:13 PM
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Coming from a single parent household, it literally isn't. The work from home era we have recently entered further incentivises it. But even if it was; how is that in any way the guys fault? From her own admission, he is trying to get help for his problems. A successful relationship won't work if a party holds the wrongs of the other over their head.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:11 PM
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Nah, they are all relatively successful, above "living at home" standards. Chad by my definition is being able to get laid on looks alone, where employment or personality doesn't matter.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 01:09 PM
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Its not, but at the same time, everybody is bashing the guy for "groping" when I heavily disagree. The relationship should have ended after the abuse. At this point she is choosing to stay even though things have reached the point where she despises her husband's touch.
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 12:25 PM
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My Chad friend is currently homeless, works as a drug dealer, smokes meth on the regular, and has 4 gorgeous women on the go The best part is one day I asked him how he does it. "It's just like Fable (the video game), when you keep them far enough apart, they can't cross the loading screen to meet each other"
/r/AllPillDebate31/10/23 11:53 AM
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At least you got the rest of your life in order bro. The younger brother looking up to the older one is a trope/expectation. Imagine if your younger brother mogged you in career, degree, and looks. Fuck that noise
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:20 PM
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Pretty much any "create a character game" can let you do that. Furthermore, lots of anime RPGs follow the "shy weak character turns strong" trope. Playing Baldur's Gate 3 right now as a dwarf with a cock as big as I am and fucking love it. Deep Rock Galactic is one of the top multiplayer games for PVE combat, also sports playing as a dwarf.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 04:16 PM
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Depends on the context I suppose. Would you rather a woman with a body count of 20+ who you knew was just for the sex, vs a woman with a body count of 1, but it was with a Chad who, along with sex, was public about the relationship, sent sweet messages/post/comments, and other openly affectionate things that you noticed you weren't receiving in the relationship? Though 20+ is a little high for me to be comfortable with, I could easily overlook it in exchange for effort. The latter is extremely m…
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 03:36 PM
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Power dynamic mostly. The ability to build a harem of ugly women is stupid easy for even an average man. For Chad(lite) men, the SMV difference creates a power dynamic that, for lack of a better term, feels good. If they find out, no harm is really done for your normal social life.
/r/AllPillDebate30/10/23 11:09 AM
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views them as a walking flesh light No, but there are other aspects to a relationship besides sex where body count can play a factor. Someone with a high body count obviously enjoys casual sex. To then say "I changed and want a settle down relationship" leaves high doubt, since adults tend to not change much at all past a certain age. The same goes for men, and women would generally be better off paying attention to body count. You really think some dude with 20, 30, 40 casual lays is suddenly r…
/r/AllPillDebate28/10/23 09:34 AM
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Working for minimum wage is literally a waste of time. My favorite example is, in my early days I worked coffee retail. We were allowed 1 free coffee and donut per day, and were expected to be on our feet all day working our ass off. I now work hybrid office/technical work, and I can goof off for hours, unlimited coffee, for double minimum wage. If you are unable to acquire higher paying work, collecting NEET bucks is a far better use of time
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 05:34 PM
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But none of that matters anyways. If you are attractive, literally nobody gives a fuck what you do/say. I have watched attractive dudes with attractive women, bust out a meth pipe and rail on it infront of them with zero fucks given. Attractive men being homeless and hooking up for a place to stay literally has a name in modern day lingo "hobosexuals" Of course, the same goes for women to a degree. An attractive e-girl with mental issues belonging to a psych-ward, will be treated better than an …
/r/AllPillDebate27/10/23 04:54 PM
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You......you completely disregarded my comment
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 04:51 PM
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Relationships != Flings/fantasies I would fuck a 10/10 woman if she came along with zero care in the world about resources or personality. Would never have a relationship with one, nor are they the women I go for in the real world.
/r/AllPillDebate26/10/23 02:17 PM
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If you are "a few feet away" then chances are you are a first responder. I'll back off if someone better suited than me comes along, but if I am the first one there, I wouldn't walk past saying "nah, someone else gonna handle this"
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:11 PM
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If that was the case, the number 1 cause for divorce wouldn't be because of financial hardship. Relationships are 100% transactional in some form or another. I dig the fantasy, but no one, man or woman, can get by on personality alone. ​ you aren’t going to starve if you don’t get a relationship Would you say the same thing to the women over at twoxchom, or the foreveralonewomen subs who complain about being single? Its none of my business, but I am allowed to have an opinion about it. There are…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 07:08 PM
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TF kind of question is this? I have jumped in to defend men getting assaulted. Don't know why it would be any difference than a woman.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 06:50 PM
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Acceptance. The blackpill is simply an understanding of the sexual nature of the world around you. There are many other aspects of life to enjoy such as work, hobbies, experiences, knowledge, ect. I have taken up a passion in photography and psychedelics. I also plan on doing some travelling when I reach my 30's. I'm not going to sit here and act like I am better than my natural urges, but simply the acknowledgement that there are other things out there helps I would also take a break from reddi…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 05:09 PM
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I agree that nobody should be calling anybody a landwhale. However, although the concept of products sounds demeaning, the sexual market is just that; a market. Dating/marriage is more akin to shopping than we care to admit, as its entirety lies on "What do you bring to the table" whether that be looks, status, resources, or personality (typically in that order). As I am sure you can agree, if the offer table is unbalanced, that leads to contempt. A growing number of women are complaining that t…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:45 PM
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You can’t change a person’s preferences are That doesn't mean you deserve those preferences. I enjoy eating at fancy restaurants, that doesn't mean I am entitled to eat at them without working and subsequently paying for the meal. If I decide to be lazy and quit my job, in what world am I still deserving to eat at said restaurants? Furthermore, women are demanding that men change their preferences all the time. Men cant even have a preference for weight without women creating a whole movement ab…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 04:05 PM
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women don't think they need to self improve to get Chad But thats my point though. Regardless of what women think, that doesn't change reality. I can call myself Chad, and act like I am the sexiest man in the room, that doesn't mean that a 10/10 stacy is my looksmatch or that I am infact a chad. If women are going around saying their looksmatch is Chad, but cant get one to commit, obviously chad isn't their looksmatch. Which, back to my point, everyone has a looksmatch, only the majority of wome…
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 03:46 PM
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it was illegal It's not. It is only illegal if you obtain something through catfishing (money), as then it becomes fraud. You could make the argument that using photos that don't belong to you could be a form of IP infringement, but that is even harder to pursue than jaywalking
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 03:39 PM
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But that doesn't really prove anything other than that men will sleep with anything or become the perfect setup for a scam
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 03:32 PM
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Not really. You never see attractive men complain about who they date, or complain that they aren't attracted to their looksmatch. The majority of complaining happens from women who complain that they cannot lock down there looksmatch Tall men with down syndrome I am highly doubting that one. I have never seen a downperson date someone higher than their looksmatch.....but that's a whole other conversation that will get me in trouble
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:53 PM
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Everyone has a looksmatch, regardless of how women rate men. If a larger woman finds larger men ugly, that doesn't change the fact that they are looksmatches
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:26 PM
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I wouldn't say it is a failure with genetics; but simply entitlement. It's a failure in genetics if you have an actual deformity like down syndrome. It is entitlement when you have the capability to change yourself/you life, won't, but still expect the world to be handed to you.
/r/AllPillDebate25/10/23 02:21 PM
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Fucking this I started balding at 17 badly that only grew worse with age. Had no dates in high school, thought I could (and did) get a high paying job and betabuck for happiness (which was horrible). I have a round head with fat cheeks, so bald absolutely would not work. Fell into deep depression, inceldom, suicide attempts, ect. Shit was so bad, I was even turned away from getting a hair transplant cause my donor area couldn't take it. Started wearing a hair system this past year and holy fuck,…
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 05:01 PM
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Lol, I actually had this happen Tried Citalopram in an attempt to fix my depression. Finally got a girl to come back to my place for sexy time for the first time since high school, and it would not work for the life of me. Couldn't help but laugh at the irony that I have never felt more depressed than being on these antidepressants. Pro-tip, anyone on antidepressants should try magic mushroom microdosing if they can handle being off them for a bit. It's what I moved too and is one of the more be…
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 04:41 PM
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Hot take, but at high school age, kids should be fair game to be smacked if they are starting shit. No kids, but I have a kid brother who, if a similar situation happened to him, I wouldn't hesitate to jump in. Kids feel to protected that they feel like they can do whatever since the law will back them up.
/r/AllPillDebate24/10/23 02:07 PM
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The way I read OP's post, it isn't "men should become unemployed" as his final line simply says "find the easiest way to make money". I took the post as "don't push yourself to do traditionally male roles" which is in fact having consequences, since as for the most part women also refuse to do these roles.
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 09:15 PM
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Before I improved my looks and got rid of my baldness, I was deep into incel culture (I still am a blackpiller) and struggled with dating, and I am a licensed engineer. I thought I was an odd duck being someone that both struggled with dating, and a successful career. But no, most people who I spoke too were either in trades, or tech (which is also a male dominated market).
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 07:11 PM
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But you are assuming that Incel = NEET, which is hardly the truth. It's like saying "If those millennials want a politician they like, they should get out and vote" meanwhile voter turnout rates for the west are higher than they ever been. Sure those who don't vote exist, but it is hardly a majority
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 06:48 PM
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If you ever actually stop to talk to any of them, you would find most have rather successful jobs as they push into their 30's Men at this point typically become beta-bucks. Even if you look at the stats, the amount of single men in their 30's plummet in comparison to single men in their 20's
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 06:43 PM
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Smoking in general is one of the best ice breakers. Plenty of conversations have been started by me asking for a lighter, knowing damn well I got one in my pocket
/r/AllPillDebate23/10/23 03:13 PM
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Lol, lowest of quality bait. From what I hear, it's actually fairly easy to get laid in the military.
/r/AllPillDebate22/10/23 06:14 PM
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Simply put, attributing an entire gender to solely be the problem, well claiming your own gender has none implies that you hate them enough to not think things in reality Which, if it helps, you can say the same about here in many aspects. That is Reddits flaw, as it traps people in echo chambers that brings out the worst in people
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 03:21 PM
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Doesn't change the fact that both were one of the most upvoted posts just this week putting on their capes You are acting like it is a bad thing?
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 02:59 PM
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Lol how do they not? Both represent just straight up hate towards men
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 02:57 PM
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But that's not how it works in reality to the point that Nice Guy is a literal meme. It is why the red pill and Andrew Tate rose to fame as much as he did. Even though his character sucks, the whole "be aggressive and it will work out" is much more effective than simping for women, which is typically what blue pill men do, then wonder confused why there attempts don't work out. That's not to say men need to act like assholes. But spending your time simping for women vs going in for the date, the…
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 02:33 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/fhbpY8nQpG Literally 2 days ago, one of the most upvoted posts this week Edit, let's see how many I can link before you reply, or I get bored https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/PklEKwfaiu
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 02:18 PM
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When the majority of posters openly talk shit about men, yes, it is an abuse of power. It's more like "WWAaHHH, men are calling me out for my toxic views, and even whimper telling me to take responsibility for my actions. This is meant to be an echo chamber damnit"
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 02:06 PM
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Not at all. Although Meeks is God tier in comparison, a chivalrous normie still has worse odds than a normie that brings on the pressure. Courting does fuck all
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:41 PM
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Lol "sense misogyny" My group chats from college contain borderline felonies, at work I would probably have been used in a learning segment for harassment. Only thing that has changed between these 2 examples was my looks. Only thing women can "sense" is looks
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:37 PM
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As a man that has moved all around the spectrum, if you are in the top, you know it. The way people (both men and women) treat you, complement you, pay attention to you. All of that fluctuates greatly once you are over that threshold. You simply need to compare the Bumble of both kinds of men to see the gross disparity. I use Bumble as an example specifically because the "friendship" function works the same way in that results differ depending on attractiveness.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:30 PM
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There is a reason why the bodyshame movement only targets women when, ironically, the same amount of not more body shaming happens towards men Just because men handle being called a fat fuck better than women, doesn't mean it isn't body shaming
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:22 PM
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Chivalry doesn't do that. Making a girl laugh and acting aggressively (for lack of a better term) towards getting a date is how you get ahead.
/r/AllPillDebate20/10/23 01:12 PM
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Majority of the comments and the video creator are single 40+ year old women "I wasted my time and hit the wall and now my looksmatches don't want me waaaah"
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 10:14 PM
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Absolutely. Currently the only people who actually know are my folks. Anyone else who knew me previously are under the assumption I got a no-shave transplant (I had talked a lot about it beforehand, however my hair loss was so bad, I was not eligible for one). As for touch, I straight up tell women that I do not like my head touched, and so far everything has been smooth sailing. Not to say I wouldn't own it if it ever came up, though I'm not in the business of waving it like a flag either
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 09:37 PM
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Same here bro, I read your story aswell. If you don't mind my asking, did you start before you got the wife, or was that a result?
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 05:41 PM
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who can’t drink until 21 The world isn't the US bucko. The rest of the world realizes adults are capable of making their own decisions. And simply due to a sense of pride. I was a late bloomer myself, so I wont judge someone for it. But at least recognize that it is a shitty situation, don't make up some moral conundrum to try to justify it. Be grateful that you have the resources others do not. At the very least I can say I felt shitty about it. Parents shouldn't charge for rent, but at the sam…
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 05:39 PM
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Did the facial exercises actually do anything? Got fat under my chin that I can't lose for the life of me.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 05:15 PM
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Started at 21: unemployed, hopelessly single, living at home, autistic, 2 suicide attempts, Norwood 3, 5'10" at 100lbs. Decided to start going to school to get my life together. By 24: Moved out on my own making ~60k. Still hopelessly single. Started working out By 26: 160lbs, still single. Hair moved to a Norwood 5. Time to do something about that By 27: Started wearing a hair system. SMV skyrocketed. Used the new found confidence to try to act normal despite autism by throwing myself into soci…
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 05:14 PM
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The problem with that is "hopefully". I do not know what things are like in your area, but where I am from, the 10 year outlook for attorneys is 39,200 jobs vs a projected 49,500 applicants. And I never said that one should simply stick to high school, but rather 2 year degrees, as well as apprenticeships, have much more comfortable risk/reward as well as typically better job prospects. Of course, as a successful attorney you will most likely make more than these 2 education classes, but you are…
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 03:15 PM
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Education is never "free" Putting higher taxation as well as living expenses aside, it still takes time of your life for a smaller possibility of a high reward. I have worked with countless people that have taken 4 year degrees, done fuck all with them, and ended up working trades. Even if it was completely free, they still lost 4+ years of financial growth which is huge. For me it would easily mean a quarter mil going poof to the wind going the uni route The worst part is that the majority of w…
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 02:23 PM
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Now here is a based comment Trades > College > University. Have better chances making more money at the blackjack table
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 12:55 PM
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I have used rocks as higher quality bait than this Thanks for the daily dose of copium though
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 12:53 PM
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Communication is absolute shit on dating apps. I have had well over 100 matches, and maybe only 5 genuine conversations, only which 2 are actually memorable.
/r/AllPillDebate18/10/23 12:49 PM
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If you have been on a date from Tinder, it is most definitely not over. Many people here would probably say you mog them at that point.
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:40 PM
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To do some quick maths, you have a 1.4% chance of both becoming a match, and getting them to respond to your opener (plus or minus the quality of the opener) I would say if you get a response you are a Chad, at least then you only need to beat the competition
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:33 PM
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If you happen to get a match (women only swipe right on about 7% of shown profiles, so at least you got that), you still need to deal with the fact that women only respond to 1 in 5 matches, and that 85% of users have more than 1 conversation on the go, with 20% having upwards of 11 conversations going at once. Not sure where you'd draw the line at Chad, but simply getting a match isn't it
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 04:24 PM
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Seems accurate. Common enough that everyone knows somebody, uncommon enough that it likely isn't you
/r/AllPillDebate16/10/23 12:18 AM
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Absolutely. My logic: Anything that is developed naturally, we can make better in a lab. With surgery, you can acquire the perfect nose/jaw/hair, ect. Diamonds made in labs are perfect in every way, vs when mined, there are imperfections. Guaranteed to be a bomb pussy, designed by presumably a whole team of pussy artists doctors who overseen the design, with someone who knows what a man likes. Would be the best sex ever with someone who relates like a bro.
/r/AllPillDebate13/10/23 04:56 PM
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Why would being online matter? If someone knows you are passporting, does that really matter? At the end of the day they are getting someone they deem attractive. Furthermore just because you are there, doesn't mean you are passporting.
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 05:30 PM
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28M here, I was single for the vast majority of my life other than a childhood friend I was g̶e̶t̶t̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶c̶u̶c̶k̶e̶d̶ ̶b̶y̶ had an on and off thing with. On my 28th birthday I decided to start hitting the gym, wearing a hair piece, swapped my glasses for contacts, wagemaxxed, forcing myself into pretending to be normal/social (I am autistic) and otherwise typical red-pill shit and honestly life has never been better. 30's is your peak my guy. If you have the funds for self improvement, I'd sa…
/r/AllPillDebate12/10/23 02:37 PM
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People in general suck at eyeballing. The average person undersizes estimating 1' on a tape.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 09:30 PM
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Nah you should have seen dudes post. We talkin going into the cervix and pokin 2 parts on the inside. Cause that's what women like. Edit: posterior and anterior fornixes, cause its here too
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 09:26 PM
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The teen love pill by far. I have experienced teen love. It was the highest of highs I have ever felt, despite logically the situation being complete shit. I have been in objectively better relationships with better people, but not once have I felt that high. I have been chasing it for over a decade, and I am actually unsure if I can feel that kind of love again.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:25 PM
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I would say racepill Even with the downsides of leg lengthening, it still exists and is relatively new, allowing for improvement. To my knowledge, there is no ability for a race change, which requires a lot more than just skin color
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:10 PM
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Yes, but the problem is that it is easier for a successful 28 year old than it is a "successful" 21 year old, since women would rather the already established man than one studying to improve themselves. Its why every stat out there shows male singledom collapse sharply as men enter their 30's
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 06:03 PM
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Can confirm about the hair. Easily one of the best decisions to be made if your a 20's balding man
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:33 PM
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Couple of corrections I don't want to live past 65. When I become too old to live an exciting lifestyle, just waiting to die, that does not sound enjoyable to me in the slightest. I am very much in the camp of "better a life that is short and sweet" Secondly, the studies for weed impact on health is mixed at best due to the various ways of using it. Few studies exist for the difference between cigs and weed, let alone smoking vs vaping weed. Finally I don't think you are using cope in the way yo…
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 01:15 PM
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Depends on the individual. Some people enjoy the white picket fence with a wife and dog lifestyle. The question should read "Why would a formerly broke guy SETTLE now that he's financially stable and suddenly attracting women?" to which the answer is that there isn't, which is why post wall women get upset that they can't get a high value man. Even to those who want to settle down, I would rather someone that is fit with no kids.
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 12:45 PM
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Nah, don't listen to em. I'm a pothead and still landed a gf. If anything smoking weed got me talking to more women at bars compared to being sober lol I tip my bong to you sir
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 11:25 AM
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Nah, I'm a pothead and still landed a gf. If anything smoking weed got me talking to more women at bars compared to being sober
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 11:24 AM
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Cause having any sort of self worth is framed as "sexual insecurity" If OP thinks they deserve better than to be leftovers for someone with a high body count, then he shouldn't be forced to drop his standards just like women clearly don't. Of course, just like women who think they deserve more, if his self worth is over-evaluated, then he would need to live with the consequences of that
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:21 AM
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Can confirm, my boy Chad has absorbed enough energy to go Super Saiyan
/r/AllPillDebate11/10/23 10:12 AM
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Voted for you fam #teamroperdope1
/r/AllPillDebate10/10/23 01:11 PM
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The blackpill itself is rife with cope
/r/AllPillDebate09/10/23 04:33 PM
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social circles There inlies the problem with the dating dynamic in that the women you associate with have social circles to begin with. Women who have social circles have no use for dating apps and tend to avoid them (whether having no need, the stigma that is associated with them, ECT.) However, once you open that door, it is all downhill from there, at least in my experience entering my 30's. Every younger woman I got through a dating app had no/broken up social circle, or had zero interest in…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 04:31 PM
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You are still fairly young, so I wouldn't stress over it. I was living at home until I was 26 till I decided to reevaluate my life. Having disposable funds won't solve all your problems by any means, but it does lead to a comfortable lifestyle. Not having to stress about money is refreshing, and having a sense of self autonomy is good for the mental health
/r/AllPillDebate08/10/23 02:45 PM
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Do people actually pay attention to shoes though? or is it the placebo effect? Blows my mind the amount of money some shoes cost just for a stick figure with a basketball. Like man, you know there are some quality waterproof steel toes that actually serve a purpose
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:33 PM
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Shoe lifts sound substantially cheaper than an overpriced shoe
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:14 PM
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I personally find mind games like these to be stupid af. If you find someone you think you got a shot with, you don't really have anything to lose by approaching. To me it just sounds complicated playing some sort of game of to or to not approach. Though I don't understand dating dynamics to begin with, so who am I to judge Agreed about the women approaching point though
/r/AllPillDebate06/10/23 04:07 PM
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You are putting "stats" as if you didn't post a link to a dating site for people with overly large dicks https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4558040/
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 06:18 PM
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Again, the people here, and more importantly the stats disagree with that statement, but sure thing pal
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 06:10 PM
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They also aren't talking about 8 or 9 inches, but keep coping
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 06:04 PM
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Yes, but the issue is that "big" is subjective. Using your own example about breasts, we can turn to statistics to see that, despite what is promoted in culture, C-Cup breasts are the most preferred. What you are suggesting, is that any man who says they like large breasts must desire no smaller than G-Cups to be happy.....which of course is not realistic. Likewise, a "big dick" is regarded as 6.5". To say women like big dick, does not mean they want some 9" monster
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 05:31 PM
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Of course. I have made my fair share of mistakes too when it comes to the female body But when people try to bring you back down to earth and you just adamantly reject it by saying lol cope, you should probably stop and evaluate the situation
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 02:13 PM
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Ironic that you make up some elaborate reason that is all in your head (which it is, as you know fuck all about the other person), yet call the other person coping
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:20 PM
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People in the comment who are either female or have had sex: "That isn't how it works champ, bigger can, but does not always mean better" The stats: "most women regard 6.5 to be the best size" The Cels: "LOL COPE *proceeds to make an elaborate reason to ironically solidify their cope"
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 12:17 PM
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The biggest LTR ender is kids. LTRs on the surface is fine, but even if go to the deadbedroom sub, most of the problems there originate after having kids
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:07 AM
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Yes, cause all the bitches get wet for nunchaku skills Just wait till they see my katana skills, will be stealing chads wife in no time
/r/AllPillDebate05/10/23 11:05 AM
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The BFF setting doesn't require women to message first since it isn't a sex-based portion of the app. 2 women or 2 dudes can use it same as any trad app Even in that post, dude could have just looked at the "dating portion" to see if its disabled, as Bumble in particular records the date when it is disabled.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 02:52 PM
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Yes and no, it is simply different. Men for the most part are viewed as mature and responsible; that's why men have traditionally looked the best well wearing a suit or an authority uniform.
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 01:15 PM
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Men only consider that with thin women because it shows immaturity, which fits with a females thin frame Let's take an oversized T-shirt or sweater for example: On a thin woman, this looks attractive. This doesn't apply to just women; I can say as a straight dude, femboys can also rock this look and be deemed attractive looking. On a larger woman or a man, most people would agree this is an unattractive look
/r/AllPillDebate04/10/23 12:27 PM
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Well, I guess I would ask, do you look anything like the woman in the link you posted? If so, and you have all the qualities you already listed, then absolutely you deserve a man that looks and acts like that. If not, your choices are to lower your expectations, or stay single. If it helps, I would tell men who expect a virgin bombshell the same thing. I personally don't view "lowering your expectations" as a bad thing
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 10:19 PM
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Jokes on them, i'm into women with shorter hair
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 02:52 PM
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Like I said, I just through that number out without knowing where you live. I know you get the core concept of my point and are choosing to focus on this to dodge the meat of the question. But i'll reword it to allow us to focus on the core question. What do you have to offer to a top male? And by that I mean a man that is tall, fit, and makes a high income for your area.
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 02:00 PM
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I was just pulling a number out as a ballpark, it is obviously going to be different depending on where you live. My area it equates to the top 5% I will not tear any answer you give down. I think it's a reasonable question to ask when you say "I am entitled to this" "ok, why?" ​ And I think that is great type of relationship to have. I aspire to have a relationship like that myself. But let me ask, do YOU look like that? Cause I can tell you right now I don't have the same muscle mass as buddy,…
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 01:35 PM
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You ended up dodging the question and no one noticed, so i'll ask on their behalf What do you have to offer to a top male? And by that I mean a man that is tall, fit, and makes ~$100,000 salary. As to why that is considered a top male, only 0.44% of single men between 30 - 45 fit that category based on the US Census Bureau and NCHS
/r/AllPillDebate29/09/23 11:19 AM
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Single does not equal no romantic interaction. You can live off one night stands and still tell people you are single. This is also why Forever Alone Women exists for women who cannot attract a man (majority of which are over 30)
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 04:22 PM
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It's because romantic interaction is a core need. Even asexual people desire romance. You can't just change that, the concept is laughable. Are you insinuating that having a desire for a girlfriend and romantic interaction is wrong? I would be more inclined to believe a therapist would recommend the use of AI girlfriends as a "cope" that you mentioned, though as I said, that doesn't lead to long term happiness That was a $150 answer right there. Got any more therapist level questions? I'm workin…
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 03:55 PM
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Thats never how it works, but it is a nice fantasy though If your issue is that you cannot attract women despite no fault of your own, a therapist isn't going to magically change that, nor will they take the desire for female companionship away. If you enjoy pissing away money, then that is fine, but if you are going to therapy solely for imaginary coping skills, your money is probably better spent elsewhere.
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 03:27 PM
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Therapy in general only works if you are the problem and can establish a path to the solution. If you are a NEET, or your goals are unrealistic, or have mental health / emotional issues, then yes, therapy can help. This is the reason why everyone tells men to go to therapy, as they assume they are the problem If you are trying everything in your power to change things, you are a down to earth individual, and still not having luck, a therapist isn't going to come in and magically change your life…
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 03:15 PM
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coping isn't the same as finding a solution, nor will it lead to happiness
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 03:00 PM
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She straight up called him ugly, as "I thought that we'd have nothing in common" is a cope. Who tf thinks that by simply looking at photos and a snappy one liner? That is the purpose of talking and getting to know someone after swiping right. What she means is "My boyfriend wouldn't have met my looks threshold to give him the shot of getting to know him".
/r/AllPillDebate28/09/23 11:58 AM
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Desk job where I don't move for 8 hours 🙃 I don't eat a lot, so on the surface I still have a lanky appearance. My lung health however is already fucked 40's are gonna be painful
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 08:21 PM
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Truth. I lived with family until I was 24 and just the concept of being an adult kid made me feel like shit. Struck out and got a top paying job with my trade cert and moved out on my own. The revolving door of work / video games / sleep isn't happiness by any means, but it is extremely comfortable. COVID got weird though. Going ~6 months without seeing literally anybody is an odd mental state to be in
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 04:50 PM
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It is nearly impossible to BB in your 20's, as they will easily get mogged by men in their 30's who will naturally make much more with experience.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 04:12 PM
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Oh absolutely, don't get me wrong, I agree with you in that it is not fair in that there are haves and have-nots But, that shouldn't stop you from living life and pursuing where you want to be is all I am saying
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 03:30 PM
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At that point it pretty much becomes a you problem, no offense. You do not need to be rich to afford these things. You still have the option to begin changing your life around to get a decent job to afford the things that will enhance your rating
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 03:20 PM
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The difference is that a lot of those things can be changed. Hair transplants / systems exist, and surgery can fix facial issues. Height for the most part cannot. You can get shoe spacers, but the illusion breaks whenever you take your shoes off. Bone lengthening is the most expensive surgery one can get can has the potential for complications compared to facial stuff.
/r/AllPillDebate26/09/23 03:12 PM
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Cope Majority of deadbedroom posts revolve around the aftermath of having kids, which fucking obviously.
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 01:27 PM
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Shit bro, ill go hit for hit of whatever you are smoking to come up with a post like that
/r/AllPillDebate23/09/23 11:57 AM
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Lol what? Asian women are statistically the most desirable women. There is no social status losses if she is attractive.
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 03:25 PM
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Never heard that term before, but it makes so much sense. Pretty much. I am relatively new to Reddit. Feels weird to be able to spill everything out, sometimes I wonder if this is the real me
/r/AllPillDebate22/09/23 12:30 AM
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I dare someone to DM this dude and just give a full Stacy interview
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 11:22 PM
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difficulties women face in these modern times, particularly around dating and relationships Out of all the subs this could have been posted in, you chose this one? The one that more or less revolves around the difficulties men face in the dating market?
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:14 PM
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I mean, if it were me, I'd risk it. If someone asked me to give up half my remaining lifespan to be Chad for the rest of it, I'd accept that deal. Better a life that's short and sweet imo. Their are very few deals I wouldn't make the trade for. Outside of that, could you edit photos to make yourself taller? Sounds like you'd be a prime candidate to be a Tinder Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:06 PM
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I wouldn't put too much in the aspergers holding you back. I also have a confirmed diagnosis and am doing alright now. I had a rough go of it and blamed the autism until I improved my appearance. Still don't understand social cues or how it works in general, but have sorta been able to fall into positive situations and just enjoy the ride
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 05:03 PM
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Depends on the level of autism Level 1 (aspergers) is definitely possible to live an otherwise normal life. You might have trouble understanding it, but it is possible Level 2 or 3? Probably not
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:51 PM
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I am serious, not trying to be sly in any way shape or form. Sorry if I offended in any way. You have god tier money, there quite literally must be a way of surgery isn't your cup of tea, be it through professional photo editing, large toys to make yourself look taller, shoe lifts, ECT
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:40 PM
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All comes down to what matters more, becoming Chad or walking normally. If anyone asks, say you are a fuck machine and your legs are simply tired lol But seriously, have you looked into shoe lifts or buying a Jeep? Practically any bitch I came across got wet at the mere consideration of picking one up, and that's before I got the piece I know there gotta be a way to make you look like a giant bro
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:29 PM
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Like what? IMO money is the key, especially if spent wisely. I was in the darkest place and hardcore into the doomer mentality. Spent my money improving my appearance and my natural antidepressants and it has done me wonders. If I had trust fund money, my imagination would be going wild.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:16 PM
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Social experiment: Get long pants and stilts. How tall does Chad need to be before it becomes a negative trait
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:12 PM
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H = 5'11" = 6' F = 3/10 due to balding with low muscle density. 6/10 with my hair system D = 5.5" M = Top 20% in my city. Got my own place and a new car. QoL = solid 6/10. I live a life that is the definition of lower middle class. Mushrooms let me feel like I am riding 10/10
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 04:07 PM
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Pretty much I have friendzoned women that don't meet my requirements as a romantic interest, but have a good enough friendship that would just get complicated by a one night stand. Cant see why it would be any different for women
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 02:33 PM
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I can probably reach 6'7" with boots and lifts 7' is peak chad
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 01:57 PM
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when a man succeed financially , he shouldn't brag about it especially towards women Since when? IMO bragging about being successful financially is what gets women looking at you if you aren't strong in the looks department.
/r/AllPillDebate21/09/23 01:43 PM
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And this is why I hate when people say "source" as, in my experience, it just becomes a shit throwing match of whos sources are biased, and the quality of the conversation just goes downhill. I mean, i'll take a look at it, but I would be more interested to simply have a conversation about the topic
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 07:10 PM
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You should assume that I deal with statistics in a professional manner and have the capability to read a study and observe the conclusions of said study. Though I think that is quite the strawman if that is the only response you can give
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 06:42 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 06:14 PM
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https://www.researchgate.net/publication/329327914_Almost_every_woman_thinks_she's_hotter_than_the_average_Differences_in_self-assessments_of_physical_attractiveness_between_women_and_men This study finds that although both genders do it, women are far more likely to do it than men
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 06:14 PM
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Anyone who uses anecdotes to quantify an opinion has already lost anyways. Assuming they are lying is irrelevant at that point. But I fail to see why the 2 are mutually exclusive. The core message of the blackpill is that looks matters most and personality matters least. You can have sex and still recognize that and the other issues men face.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:36 PM
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I humbly disagree. Learning curve? Of course, it takes time to get to know someone, know their quirks, ECT. But to me, this isn't a "hard" task by any means. Getting into a relationship doesn't mean you need to suddenly make big changes about yourself. It only becomes hard if you have other personal issues to deal with and want to bring them into the relationship. But if you are just an average guy, you are better off in a relationship than not if you cannot identify any major personal issues.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 05:10 PM
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Ok, you got a bunch of shit wrong here Starting from the top, the whole manatee thing was more ritualistic, than because they didn't have a woman. It is my understanding that when they accidentally caught one in their nets, they needed to sexually appease it to ward off evil spirits. Its strange you'd pick a centuries old comparison to modern day problems, but you still got the reasoning wrong You can see by women's dating standards and requirements in a male, that the gender that is the most un…
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 04:57 PM
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Being happy in a relationship takes a lot of hard work It really doesn't. Well I would agree that chronically depressed people exist and have much bigger issues than relationships to work on, I would wager that most incels put the time in to work on themselves and still get very little to show for it. If you actually stop and talk with these people, you are quick to find out that many of them hold down relatively middle class jobs, or attend the gym regularly, and still struggle with singledom/l…
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 02:17 PM
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The sad part is it doesn't even matter. Not so much in this sub, but in others, I have spoken with people making fantastic money working in IT and STEM, and were incels
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 12:40 PM
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Social Justice for literal decades "Being LGBT isn't a choice! We were born this way, we can't change who we are, and we are proud of it!" Social Justice now "Hey ugly dude, why don't you just make the choice to be gay?"
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 12:36 PM
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It is because women on average overrate themselves and then get mad at the reality. I was talking to a woman in this sub (femcel vibes, good convo none the less) who couldn't figure out why she couldn't get a high value man because she was "sexy, fit, and fertile" She then proceeded to compare her bodytype to a woman that is easily over 200lbs. She told me I should lower my standards and asked for pics of the women i'd like to date. I sent pics of an average women, nothing special, and said I da…
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 12:16 PM
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This is 100% the alternate timeline where Hillary Clinton had made president.
/r/AllPillDebate20/09/23 12:08 PM
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30's get weird. Glad I suffered this long, teenage me would be losing his mind with how things turn out
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 08:51 PM
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Don't have too. She checks in on me by asking for hundreds till her baby bonus comes in. Definitely dodged a bullet, though in her case, more like 4
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 07:45 PM
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That's where your job comes in, to communicate and weed out anyone who is looking for a quick lay vs an actual relationship. Women are and forever will be the gatekeepers to sex and (to some extent) relationships. Sure you will have plenty of men wanting just sex from you, but to say you can't find ANY man wanting to try to form a relationship with you is just silly. At the very least, women are guaranteed their looks match on dating apps. Sure it is more difficult to lock a more attractive/succ…
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 05:54 PM
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Simply the fact that, on dating apps, you can have hundreds of men interested in you in under an hour. You having horrible luck because you choose to not look and hope fate just gives you a man with zero effort on your part, is not the same as a man doing everything they can and still end up failing.
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 04:17 PM
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Women have access to unique grants and financial opportunities in these male dominated careers, where men do not. Jobs are paid to hire women in these roles in the form of tax breaks and, in my country at least, can have a portion of their pay subsidized to encourage hiring, that men don't have. You don't need a study to simply look at the advantages women have getting into these programs and a career afterwards. Anecdotal experience literally doesn't matter. As all you have done was bring up sh…
/r/AllPillDebate18/09/23 01:47 AM
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You are dodging around the point. Women get preferential treatment in trade programs and in the workforce, that is a proven fact. The reason women are not taking these classes or jobs is their own choice. Certification boards wouldn't exist if people could just "lol imma do it anyways". As someone who actually works in these industries, you actually have zero idea what you are talking about and have zero proof. Again, you have zero idea what you are talking about when it comes to the hours invol…
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 08:51 PM
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Because, as one of your own sources stated, one of the reasons why men make more and, as you put it "offered better opportunities" is because men generally take on harder types of work, furthermore, men work longer hours than women and are more willing to get paid overtime rate. Most of the male dominated roles are that way BECAUSE of the long hours involved, particularly trades, technology, and high managerial roles. There is zero preference for men simply because of being men. The reasons are …
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 06:11 PM
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Even if you zoom out of job prospects, why are the trades and technology courses in colleges VASTLY male dominated? You can't even make the argument they are being discriminated against, when nobody is even trying to pursue those jobs. It is even easier for them to do than men, given the vast amounts of women-only financial aid offered for these types of programs in particular.
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 05:32 PM
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This is also because of pride and expectations I am a high earning male, and post this often on socials. I have had countless women (mostly single moms) straight up ask for loans which more often than not ask to be turned into gifts. Many of these women are just old ads from high school, so I don't really know any of them Out of all the men I have on social media, including a few of my closest friends, not one has straight up asked me for money. It is also statistically proven that there are mor…
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 11:14 AM
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None of what you posted attributes that women receive less, simply for being women. With regards to your pewreasearch link for example: "Much of the gender pay gap has been explained by measurable factors such as educational attainment, occupational segregation and work experience." "Even though women have increased their presence in higher-paying jobs traditionally dominated by men, such as professional and managerial positions, women as a whole continue to be overrepresented in lower-paying oc…
/r/AllPillDebate17/09/23 11:01 AM
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I think you are the one that is coping in that; why the hell would someone think "I don't want X, because Y is better" when the option of "Why don't I just take both X and Y" exists I have a girlfriend now because it is someone I don't want to lose, but well single, it seems foolish to take the first option when the second one exists
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 12:04 PM
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As someone who has fucked a lot of fat chicks in my time, better options don't mean jack
/r/AllPillDebate16/09/23 08:25 AM
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That's basically how he worded it. "I'll take your money, but the results won't match your desired outcome Honestly, it hasn't been much of a big deal. The vast majority of people in my life don't know, and I have been having a better quality of life these past 6 months than I have in the past 10 years. To those that do, don't treat it as a big deal. There was a point in my life where I was hard into doomerism and the blackpill, contemplating suicide (still got the handgun as a momento), ect. Fr…
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 09:17 PM
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Just be careful with Fin, heard it does funny stuff to your balls, though also heard it's a myth. Regardless, my life has never been better with my toupee. In the event you become as worse off as me, I'd recommend giving it a go. Easily bumped me to at least average
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 07:26 PM
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Don't qualify. Not only will surgeons not even look at you until you are over 30 (28M), but they took microscopic photos of my scalp and deemed id be too far gone by that time. Was sitting at a Norwood 5ish, they projected me to be a 6 by the time im 30. Well they said they could still take my money and do it, by the time everything is said and done, I still wouldnt have a full head of hair
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 07:10 PM
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Bro, I wear a toupee and have a girlfriend that knows. I'm all for looks make the biggest difference, but some of these thoughts are right out to lunch.
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 06:52 PM
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Saying you are getting bullied at 22 is low iq
/r/AllPillDebate13/09/23 02:41 PM
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Yes and no Yes, simply because it should. It is essentially a victimless crime. I do not think it will solve incels problems however. Most incels just want companionship and to be valued, to be looked at like a man. Prostitution will not fill these voids.
/r/AllPillDebate12/09/23 06:11 PM
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True representation (equality is how you are treated, representation is actors in media) will never exist because minorities are just that. Outside of hispanics/blacks, there are 10 whites for every asian, and it only gets worse from there. I don't get upset that I don't see asian/indian movies with white characters. Acting like asians/indians have zero movies featuring there race is just an absolutely goofy ass take
/r/AllPillDebate11/09/23 12:19 PM
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"There is nothing gay about getting your dick sucked, you're only gay if you're the one sucking the dick" - Master Oogway
/r/AllPillDebate10/09/23 10:10 PM
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Wtf? Where did that come from No, simply stating that in terms of weight, this is who I'd consider my bottom preference in appearance. But I would date objectively "uglier" if it meant thinner. As for calling you ugly, I have zero idea where tf you are getting that idea. Furthermore you are the one who called yourself "fit" in another post. If you are calling her appearance tied with yours, then I'm sorry but you are not fit I would never call somebody ugly, as it is not in my nature
/r/AllPillDebate09/09/23 10:43 PM
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Why do people push feminism, socialism, racism, ect.? Nobody is realistically expecting change, but to instead highlight the issues that men face in the dating market, and that it is only going to get worse. Being told you are getting phased out just because you are a male, and that you have zero worth without plastic surgery or should remove yourself from the gene pool, and have that societally be considered ok is fucked up. Saying shit like that about any other feature of people is grounds for…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:03 PM
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By a country mile That isn't even including my more influenced weight preference. Nabela is overweight plain and simple, to the point it shows in her face. On a personal level, I dated and truly loved a slightly uglier woman (mostly acne troubles) that weighed in the double digits. I remember you saying you were fit. So either you consider Nabela fit, or you are more attractive than her. I am curious as to which one you think
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 08:08 PM
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https://reddit.com/r/amiugly/s/yidI71kAh3 I'd say right around here. Slightly less in the face if it meant thinner bod
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 07:17 PM
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Good for them, glad they both are happy I personally wouldn't be happy with someone like that, but that's only because I have a high preference for weight (lack thereof), and no amount of money in the world could change that. Having preferences is a far cry from an onlyfans star look alike. Wild how the only options are someone overweight, or a top model.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 06:52 PM
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I wouldn't even say its that. I was raised by a single mom, and I can still recognize how shitty of a deal it is. I think these people are people are simply bluepillers who either never had a problem in their life and are in a successful marriage, or are cucks that would take the deal just because they cant get anything better. "If my wife cheated on me and I found out my child wasn't mine, it wouldn't mean a thing, my wife is awesome" - real comment
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 02:31 PM
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This is why we need men's rights, as neither I, nor OP indicated we were from the USA. Places like Canada and the UK have even worse policies. Yet we are seen as demons for requesting paternity at childbirth to avoid these situations all together.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:26 PM
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I have dated women 5 years younger than me. One of my favorite relationships was with a woman 1 year older than me. I am no Chad by any means, but age makes little difference if it is looks you are after. Lol what? Most people in general don't want kids, least of all people who are not ready to settle down.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:18 PM
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But he isn't in every stretch of the imagination. The mother can, at any time, file for a court order to have his name stricken from the birth certificate if she gets a new man and/or the bio father comes back. He is entitled to zero visitation rights, and even if they came to an arrangement, the mother can strip them at a moments notice if a more permanent man or bio dad comes into the picture If the bio-dad happens to not want the relationship, the step-father may still be on the hook for chil…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 01:13 PM
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Firstly, this is a traumatic experience, why is this guy (or men in general) expected to be suddenly immune from the symptoms of that? Treating people differently is par for the course. In anycase, what is the alternative? If you don't have intentions to not care for a child that isn't yours, why continue having contact? That is just delaying the inevitable.
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:50 PM
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It is fucking wild reading the comments If you disagree with the fact that men shouldn't be responsible for children born out of lies, that you suddenly have zero parental rights too, and now need to share with another man; prepare to be called an incel that never has had sex, to crawl back into your basement, berated for any problem you have ever posted about on reddit, or you are brain dead for falling for an obviously fake, incel power story based on the sole fact that he got a new girlfriend…
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 12:13 PM
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Dude is a chad though. Left his cheating ex and hooked up with a co-worker in just a month, as he should, dude deserves it
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:57 AM
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It isn't even just women. More white knights in that post than the crusades
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 11:56 AM
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That is not true, especially to those who know how the system works. Swiping right on every woman lowers your Tinder score, which effects how often you appear on the platform. If it gets too negative, it results in a shadowban With that said, I would more so suspect this to be scammers looking for grannys money, if not worse
/r/AllPillDebate08/09/23 10:59 AM
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Japan, South Korea, and Brazil are common places for passporting and have a lower human trafficking rate than the USA
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 11:48 AM
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I don't believe I ever said to pick better men. You seem to have this really bad habit of putting words in my mouth. As a matter of fact, literally nobody in this sub said to pick better men. When you get past the far gone blackpillers (which shouldn't be the reflection of any group, as every group has their own) the general message is to date within your league, which for the most part women refuse to do. If you are constantly getting immediately burned by a particular type of guy, obviously th…
/r/AllPillDebate07/09/23 12:33 AM
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I never said it was, simply that her standards are exactly where they should be in that it is an offer, not a demand. If all that is true, then you should have men banging on your doorstep. You don't strike me as all that friendly, but my reddit persona is also vastly different compared to irl. If you are having trouble with the men you have your standards set at, I would suggest lowering them.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:36 PM
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pays for every date Assuming your tastes, this implies that he is a high income earner masculine Typically from a woman this implies strength or in shape But, does this mean you are willing to take a hit in the looks or financial department for your male interests? Furthermore, you still never answered my question of what implies you deserve that? As, from somebody that has a girlfriend, yes I pay for every date, but she at least offers. I decline because she is heavily in debt, but the offer is…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:50 PM
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I mean don't get me wrong. The blackpill itself and "minimum looks matter more than anything" is a solid point. But when the question comes of "well, what are you going to do about it" and the answer is "Nothing, White Chad will just take my girl anyways" I can't help but shake my head
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:15 PM
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Good looks are in fact bringing something to the table, both from a sexual nature, and a pride nature or "showing off their man/woman" People in general go the extra mile for people they are interested in. Chads will not do this for someone if they think they can do better, just like Stacys won't just bend over backwards for an average guy. Of course, personality/interests and financial ability also play a part in long term compatibility. Minimum standards varies from person to person, but the q…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 07:10 PM
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The real question here is what do YOU bring to the table. Simps do these things because they generally have nothing else to offer in the looks or long term employment department. They treat Stacys this way because they are the most attractive woman that has paid attention to them. All this combined creates a man that in a nutshell, lacks confidence. Despite how you are framing it, there is still a massive power imbalance and it is not healthy for the long term of the relationship. Likewise, you …
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 06:41 PM
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You mean the people who gave up on life and keep saying "its over" are having a worse off time? Who would have thought.
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 05:03 PM
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Severe limp by far "I could have gone pro if it weren't for my bum knee" "Hiking accident, got this fighting a bear" "IED in 'Nam"
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 01:45 PM
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Exactly, however I am not sure what it is like in your neck of the woods, but where I am from, speed dating events are a thing of the past. It is a fairly routine post in my areas sub about "where to meet people" from both men and women, with the most common answer being "go to the bar or volunteer" Which causes issues, as depending on the context of the post, it suddenly turns into "umm, nobody at a bar or volunteering is looking for romance, just a good time". Which then leads into women compl…
/r/AllPillDebate06/09/23 10:12 AM
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But you can do that as 2 single people can you not? For loans you can have your spouse as a co-borrower to have both of your incomes evaluated. For accumulated assets you are going to be evaluated at your household income come income tax season vs individual income as a single person. Plus in the case of a house, you can just add them to the title.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 03:14 PM
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To my knowledge marriage is only economically worth it if you can claim the other person as unemployed and a dependant. Outside of that, it is a tax hike for 2 working adults
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 02:35 PM
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divorce if still legal could happen for a dozen other reasons Yes and no. Biggest 2 reasons people divorce is infidelity or money matters. At least with money matters, both parties know about it and are generally on the same page about making things work or not With cheating, all it does is waste the other parties time in an already failed relationship. Even if nothing changed and people still considered cheating, if policy encouraged divorce over just straight up cheating, id consider it a win
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 02:34 PM
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Absolutely. Not everyone in this sub hates women, simply just the fact of how promiscuous society has become. Loyal women who want lasting relationships should be rewarded if that bond is broken, just as loyal men should be as well. Furthermore, this would increase the amount of single, loyal women on the market. Nobody is forcing 2 people to stay together, but if policy pushed cheating men into calling off the relationship instead of cheating, it would free these women up instead of wasting the…
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 02:28 PM
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Which, there should be nothing wrong with that. Good women should be rewarded just as good men should be rewarded.
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 02:23 PM
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You are acting as if being in a relationship is a bad thing. But again, nothing of what I said insinuated that women should be forced into relationships. In a society that is more secluded than ever before in human history, you seem salty at the fact of incentivising committed relationships over sleeping around?
/r/AllPillDebate05/09/23 01:24 AM
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Lol in what possible way did you get that from my post? Providing incentives for desired behavior is nothing new. Nobody is holding a gun to women's heads, or passing laws telling women to be in relationships with men. We currently offer financial incentives to have/adopt kids, move to Arctic areas, recycling, donating, ECT. Nobody is saying you need to do those things. I hate the cold, so I'd never move to a snowy environment, but the incentives certainly add appeal to it. Furthermore this help…
/r/AllPillDebate04/09/23 03:04 PM
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TLDR: UBI in the form of financial incentives for marriage and socializing in general as well as more socializing opportunities, combined with financial decentives for infidelity There are many problems with socializing in the modern era beyond inceldom. Romantic socializing in a person to person setting no longer exists, primarily because in person socializing is problematic if you are a career person, and because, for women <30, socializing is substantially easier with online dating. We need t…
/r/AllPillDebate03/09/23 04:59 PM
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only 65% of MIT graduate students have had sex.” Why is this being presented as a low number? If you graduated from MIT, you obviously have above average IQ. So 65% of MIT students are both intelligent, and Chads. Id be interested in seeing who in this forum has gone to an ivy league college, but we all know the answer. Seems like a cope
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 05:10 PM
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I can promise you that behind closed doors, they talk mad shit if you are in the clique. Source: I have a job, am in the clique, and listen to these types of conversations daily, including about people that quit over a year ago.
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 05:01 PM
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You will almost never find cases that extreme. Women (and people in general) are highly competitive. The whole criminal routine works for women in their 20's, as you can be a criminal at any age, but the likelihood of you being a high income male in your early 20's is slim. However as you age, the goalpost shifts. If you are Chad level, then sure, this works, and if the woman is trashy, then sure. But outside of that, money is all that matters at that point. There is is nothing more humiliating …
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 12:14 PM
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High Inhibition traits turns off females? Here's a story. Last summer I was standing outside of a bar, absolutely piss tanked having a joint to calm my stomach. I don't know what I looked like, but I must have been clearly hagared for how I was feeling, ain't no way I looked presentable. This woman came up for a lighter and started chatting me up with her friend. I was honestly just focused on staying alive. I turned to her and said "Im really sorry, but I drank too much with my buddies in there…
/r/AllPillDebate01/09/23 12:01 PM
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Well yes, but we are talking about long term commitment, which OP seems to be mistaken with general sexual attraction. Dude says himself that he "ended things", implying the women already passed his looks threshold for a smash. If you are dating someone where you have nothing to talk about or in common, you are in for a bad time for the long term I have broken up with women for this reason, I have had amazing after-sex conversations with woman, and with some, my immediate thought is "Can you ple…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 04:11 PM
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As others have said, generally women have sky high standards for woman and that is a fact. Every study on the matter found that most women find most men unattractive. You can talk about interests/personally, but you cant even get your foot in the door unless you pass the looks threshold. There are very hot girls that I have ended things with because they were boring or annoying or dumb or anything else of the sort. That doesn't mean that they weren't attractive. For long term commitment it didn'…
/r/AllPillDebate31/08/23 03:52 PM
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This is actually really based. Even at the lowest level, you are not telling those people to kill themselves or their life is over Not sure why people hate you as much as they do
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 01:46 PM
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I'm assuming you are an adult, so it's entirely up to you friend. We can debate about who has the worst life or genetics, but that accomplishes nothing, as someone worse off than both of us has accomplished much more than both of us combined. My advice would be to go to school in trades and get a relatively well paying job and live your life. But if you wanna lay down and die, the harshness of life is that nobody is going to help you but you. Likewise if women is your goal, I'm sure your attract…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 01:01 PM
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Again there is zero proof of that. Women are not that shallow. But again, the higher the number rating, the more likely you are going to stumble upon this type of behavior. The lower the number rating, the higher the likelihood that you will get long term commitment and appreciation. At least IMO. As for divorce, the biggest culprit is children in general. Financial cost combined with the life impact are the sole cause, not some random Chad. If you go to r/deadbedroom, the majority of people the…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 12:43 PM
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And I fully get you, I didn't get my first gf till I was 27. There are many things I wish I didn't do, including getting into drug dependency. What is a betabux? I say that because whenever money comes into the mix everyone just calls it that. There is no appearance issue outside of race that cannot be changed with money; I myself fixed my lifelong baldness issue, wanna fix my teeth next. We can even make people taller without shoelifts, how fucking cool is that?! But is using money to improve y…
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 12:05 PM
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But that isnt true. I mean, i'm not going to lie and say the blackpill isn't true either, as it most definitely is. But, every source out there says male singledom collapses as you age, with your odds of being single 30+ being under half of what it is when you are 20, which is also reflected in this forum as most men on here are <25 So the question then becomes "Do I play the game now? Do I hoard my resources and wait until my prime? Do I rope? Do I succumb to a life of neetism?" Does this make …
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 11:24 AM
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The problem is that there are many people on here that think that is there only options, which highlights the bigger issue
/r/AllPillDebate30/08/23 10:56 AM
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A better example was a post I seen floating around of a girl leaving a doctor for one of his co-workers that makes more because she "knows her worth as a model" Otherwise to use this with broad strokes is a cope. If wagemaxxing and betabucking is how you plan to get by, finding a low income mid girl is substantially more rewarding than shooting for a HVW, but imo that statement stands regardless
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:47 PM
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I find the going trend is that women put zero effort into the conversation. I have gotten ~100 matches in my OLD career and have gone on dates with maybe 5 memorable people.
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 04:38 PM
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Likewise, you have those that live and breath, stress and have literal mental breakdowns about climate change. Maybe acknowledge that climate change exists and what people as a collective can do about it, but also learn dancing
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 02:33 PM
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Hear that fellas. If your girl fucks well looking at you, you are a Chad
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 12:10 PM
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Just because you have the advantages, doesn't mean you don't see them for advantages or how the world works. If a millionaire knows that the poor is getting fucked over, you wouldnt say "aren't you a millionaire?"
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:59 AM
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Low-key I find the trans era funny as hell It is showing time and time again that men make better women than women do
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:44 AM
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I would say being an incel perse doesn't affect your music tastes, or at least just as much as general depression does. Country love songs are the absolute worst, but I personally enjoy A Lovely Mess – Front Porch Step, which is a depressive love song
/r/AllPillDebate29/08/23 11:11 AM
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They do, just not for the same reasons, and at a heavy discount. Charlie Sheen said it best "There are 2 kinds of people that pay prostitutes; Those that pay for the sex, and those that pay for them to leave" Even with Tinder you still gotta do all the couple shit if you wanted another round someday. Also paying for Tinder is an outright scam.
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 06:22 PM
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The fucking irony This entire post can be summed up as "Dating Chad isnt easy, feel bad for me" When every single solution could be summed up as "Don't go to Chad rich guys"
/r/AllPillDebate28/08/23 01:27 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/AllPillDebate/comments/16148dt/how_do_women_have_dating_privilege_when_men_are/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=2 This is you posting how men would rather younger women than women 30+ But even then, you yourself do not want a below average man. I ask again, why are you shaming men's dating preferences when you yourself do the same
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 05:43 PM
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My point is that I can say the same about women though, even more specifically you. You posted that you wouldn't date a low value male, well also complaining that high value men don't want you.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 04:47 PM
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So then where are we at with this? As I am well aware, and so that's why I don't do it. Both from a common sense standpoint of being used, but also that it is a waste of a perfectly good swipe that will overall hurt your rating otherwise Shouldn't this just be a rule for everyone? Why are you asking the question when you already know how it is for the opposite gender?
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 04:30 PM
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If they are smart yes Swiping on men you realistically have no chance with is just a pump and dump waiting to happen, which is a shame since then it turns into "Why are all men horrible (for not living up to my sky high recommendations)" Not to say men aren't the same way. Online dating suddenly gave everyone sky high expectations due to the unlimited pool of choices, when they probably don't deserve that. You made a post the other day asking if it's wrong that you wouldn't consider a man workin…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 02:07 PM
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You probably meant this to be a dig at men, but this is actually solid advice Swiping right on everyone will get you shadowbanned on every dating platform
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 01:57 PM
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Most issues can simply be solved with moneymaxxing. Skin color or severe mental conditions is the only massive hurdle men face. Outside of that, height can be solved with shoe spacers, baldness/bone issues can be solved with surgery (pretty sure even height now) Moneymaxxing in itself is a form of attraction, so really it is a sort of double boost if you put it towards your appearance. In my experience, owning a Jeep (the worst vehicle ever made) lowers the looks threshold drastically since wome…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 01:27 PM
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I think you already know the answer to that question. If a dude can't pull with drunk women, there is a problem
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 01:23 PM
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But that's the danger with any echo chamber though. There is a special spotlight on the incel outliers; meanwhile you have women who literally say "kill all men" or that "lonely men should just kill themselves" that gets praise and zero attention from outside groups.
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 01:13 PM
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Frankly dude was doing it wrong from the start Dating traditional HVW is nothing but a pain. Unbelievable amounts of drama and bullshit. The issue here isn't the money, the issue is that I am assuming she is attractive enough that she knows she can get a HVM who enjoys blowing money just as much as she does. Frankly any woman that has a business degree is an immediate nope for me, as generally they are stuck up and hardly worth the effort. Couldn't help but laugh at the car comment. Women have t…
/r/AllPillDebate27/08/23 01:05 PM
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No I agree with you. Dating for men in their 20's suck as many times it is out of their control. After 30 though, there really is no excuse that isn't his fault. Every individual controls their financial destiny. Having a minimum wage job will hold an older man (or anyone for that matter) back in the dating market, but for that, they have nobody to blame but themselves.
/r/AllPillDebate26/08/23 11:13 AM
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I mean, +1 for passport bro, though dude sounds super fucked up borderlining unbelievable, so id say you dodged a bullet. But passport broing is extremely rare, I am assuming dude must come from money to be able to even afford to do that. This dude is the exception, not the rule. My other statement stands about Tinder. If you make one, you WILL get an overwhelming amount of matches, regardless of what you look like. That unfortunately is the rule according to the stats on the matter. Just becaus…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 07:07 PM
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ZERO male attention I want you to go make a Tinder right now and put the worst pictures of yourself at 26. I bet you will be swimming in matches by the end of the day And before you say "Online dating isnt real life", 40% of romantic relationships are formed online through apps Furthermore, I imagine you have feet and can speak, what was stopping you from making the first move on a guy you liked?
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:48 PM
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Why don't men want to date me most men are unattractive
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:40 PM
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You ignored all of my points with regards to men and are basically saying "but what about me" Maybe if women stopped chasing high value men and focused on finding a man closer to their looksmatch in their 20's (which has been the case for thousands of years), women in their 30's wouldn't be in this situation. Of course, it isn't all womens fault, society also has a part to play. Men dont even start their careers now till 25-27 due to educational needs, let alone be established. an average lookin…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 06:34 PM
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why does it matter? Being discriminated against because you are short should be wrong regardless of age. It would be like calling a woman fat. Doesnt get better with age, though the difference comes in that they can still attract men for sex and companionship, where as this man cant even do that
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:50 PM
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Not many: https://www.businessinsider.com/dataclysm-shows-men-are-attracted-to-women-in-their-20s-2014-10 But then the question comes as to why should they? You got men here in their 20's, having zero luck with women as their attractive counterparts are killing it. Then when they reach their 30's, and become financially stable with successful careers, now that they are deemed high value by society, now you want them to start dating women the same age as them? When these same women never gave the…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:45 PM
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If you want more proof, here is the POV from a transgender man who is contemplating detransitioning because of the treatment of other women: https://www.reddit.com/r/NotHowGuysWork/comments/1600yek/transgender\_man\_describes\_the\_male\_experience\_and/
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:31 PM
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Statistics beg to differ: https://www.reddit.com/r/HolUp/comments/t8tkbi/bumble_released_its_female_users_height/ https://qph.cf2.quoracdn.net/main-qimg-7477d281d553131cfc7214b882f2cc40-lq https://www.eviemagazine.com/post/only-15-women-interest-58-men-dating-apps-according-survey As to your second point, this isnt a debate about morality, but the statement stands. If you are a woman that isn't gorgeous, routinely going after a gorgeous men, and continuing to get played, maybe you need to wake u…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:28 PM
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5/10 girls are the best imo. Much less drama and expectations than 8 or 9's Out of all the women I have dated, the only girls I truly loved were all 5's and down to earth
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:08 PM
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You can make the same if not worse argument about women though. Many women insist that they do not date men that are less than 6' tall. When you look at men that are not married, not obese, at least 6', not even including job status, that only accounts for 6% of the male population between 20 - 25: https://igotstandardsbro.com/results?minAge=20&maxAge=25&excludeMarried=true&race=0&minHeight=182.88&excludeObese=true&minIncome=0 The reason it is easy mode, is because women can still get sex on dem…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 05:05 PM
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I'm surprised, as if that was the case, you wouldn't see the stark amount of 20's male singledom, furthermore if you look at stats, men are still dating women younger than them by a large margin. This whole problem started because men can no longer be successful in their 20's anymore. Most men's careers don't even start till 25-30. The only thing younger men can latch onto to get ahead is looks, which if you don't have looks or money, you are at a massive disadvantage. Personally, I find as I am…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:31 PM
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Well yeah, that is just high school kids having zero concept of the real world and thinking 25 year olds are old men. I personally don't take any dating opinions from anyone who isn't old enough to drink.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 04:16 PM
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I think that is a small factor, but I think OP is pretty on point. If I am a middle class male in my 30's, why tf would I date a woman the same age, possible single mom, when I can date a woman in her 20's? This is why you see all of the "Where are all the good men at" posts from typically older women.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:25 PM
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But that is how it works, though id never use the word haggard to describe somebody. Fact of the matter is that part of your ability to get older men is because of your youth. After you reach an older age, your dating circle will decrease and your ability to get successful older men will decline. Likewise, it is no different in that part of the male dating issue results in women preferring older, established men. Only for whatever reason, women are praised for saying "Men dating younger women is…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 03:16 PM
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It sounds like you have a bigger chip on your shoulder than "does my buggy eyes make me ugly/never began" Im a bald baggy eyed autistic dude, changed my appearance to cover my flaws, and completely changed my life. So for me it isn't a cope, but rather a requirement to start my life. Likewise if the goal is to get a gf, it isn't a cope if it gets you the end result. I'm not arguing that Chads have it much easier in life, and the blackpill is absolutely correct; but I assume you are going to work…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:45 PM
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Being handsome and average are 2 different things, but my statement stands about using glasses to help take the focus off (I use glasses similarly to hide the bags under my eyes) People are generally more critical of themselves, especially in a negative mental health stage, so it is hard to actually say where you stand on things; but the whole "it never began" is simply a mindset without actual deformities, coming from personal experience.
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 12:18 PM
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There is no real set number of flaws, especially since flaws are viewed differently. Recessed/No chin can be covered with a beard, likewise balding can be fixed with enough cash. Acne problems can be fixed with make-up if minor enough. I would say the only real doom is actual deformities/conditions (severe acne/moles, overly round face, abnormal nose/lips, ect.) I would make the argument that simply having buggy eyes doesn't make you ugly if you have everything else going for you. Might be worth…
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 11:27 AM
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It's easier to get with in terms of using manipulative techniques, correct? Why are adult women encouraged to be strong, independent women; yet when it comes to their dating preferences they are viewed as children that can't make decisions for themselves? "Yeah girlboss, the world is yours, your body your choice.....except your dating options, that's our choice" Sounds pretty misogynistic if you ask me, especially since the only "manipulative tactic" is rolling up in a Jeep Wrangler
/r/AllPillDebate25/08/23 10:59 AM
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My only advice is to stop playing a game you have already lost. Well I would agree that a lack of social life in your teens has an effect on who you are as an adult, the real question should be "by how much?". I personally think, both personally, and statistically, to call it quits in your 20's is shooting yourself in the foot and a bit of an overreaction. Without getting into the whole spiel, I would say it is absolutely possible to get life together in your 20's and have a normal life. Will yo…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 06:51 PM
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Dating (and life in general) isn't a morality contest The sad reality is that being a master manipulator accomplishes more in life than taking the moral high ground. You see this in the job market all the time, being attractive and being able to use body language effectively can easily get you jobs you are otherwise unqualified for.
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 12:56 PM
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He decided to be distant and live his own life then I got disillusioned. STILL burned out due to life. Life just got too exhausting to maintain it. This is exactly what the blackpill is about. You are acting like it was your decision to end things and that it was your desire that faded. In reality you got pumped by a Chad and he left when he got bored. ​ I’ll take a couple cats and a studio and a job. Why not try dating an average guy with decent morals instead? Not to say attractive people dont…
/r/AllPillDebate24/08/23 12:45 PM
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By enlarge yes, and this issue is by no means as bad as male singledom. But the overall issue stands that women entering their 30's have a smaller dating pool than that of their 20's, where men who are successful in the job market typically stay the same or even grows (this is why many say men hit their peak at 35, where for women, 30 is called the wall) Some are happy with that and settle down, but a growing portion of females are not willing to settle for a (below) average man, which leads to …
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 08:25 PM
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You could say same thing about men there right? Not at all. The difference between the 2 is that attractive women visit butler cafes by choice, because the dudes there are fucking gorgeous. They would rather a temporary fling with an extremely hot male followed by returning to their single life or their female roommate, than to be in a relationship with a male more suited to their looksmatch Every single video you see of a maid cafe typically shows the men in there as unattractive and socially a…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:28 PM
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The collapse in modern day relationships have nothing to do with the impacts of child bearing. You can still have successful relationships without the need to bring children into the mix. Meanwhile if there was some sort of incentive to have kids like guaranteed income, it wouldn't change the fact that most women would choose artificial insemination via Chad rather than forming relationships with a (below) average man. All of your points are valid, however, counter argument: You need kids to con…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 07:02 PM
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Because I seriously doubt that they have all stopped liking men Its not hard to see that happening down the line. You already have countries like Japan and Korea having collapsing birthrates and singledom exceeding that of the west. Korea even adopted the concept of women dating women, but still identifying as straight. ​ if they can't have Chad. The problem is bigger than that. The whole Chad problem really only affects women in their 20's since men are naturally attracted to younger women, jus…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:23 PM
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People find different things attractive, and attractiveness also goes beyond looks. Except it doesn't. Putting aside the fact that women have similar traits they find attractive to men, 93% of attraction and communication is nonverbal, and every study on the topic proves it. For long term compatibility sure, but unattractive men cant even get their foot in the door, and for attractive men it doesn't matter if they are just looking to smash
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 03:05 PM
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Sounds like you need better friends. Anytime a guy tells me he thinks a girl might be interested, I encourage to strike up a conversation and shoot their shot. If it doesn't work out "Fuck her bro, on to the next one"
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:56 PM
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That is a bold claim to make that 60%+ of men are socially isolated, socially anxious, unconfident, internet addicted men. Have you ever actually talked to any of these people and see what their lives are like? Of course, this sub in particular is a bit more likely to find the stereotypical NEET, but many of the men in these sorts of forums (Doomer, ForeverAlone, shortguys, ect.) is working an entry level career job and are average in looks. To assume that every man who has long term dating issu…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 02:45 PM
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Its funny you use this example, as most bluepillers imo are left leaning. Many accept social concepts like "drug addiction is a mental illness", "the rich need to pay more taxes", "homelessness is a national emergency", "We need to care for our disabled, buth physical and mental" They will accept every social safetynet and program, but as soon as you mention the male loneliness and suicide epidemic, it is suddenly the mans fault and no social assistance should be given
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 01:04 PM
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Blackpillers and incels obsess over looks, image, etc, while their lives go down the drain. Even if looks-wise they're completely normal and could actually have a decent life if they weren't chronically online obsessing over manosphere cults. Bluepillers do the exact same thing. You have attractive bluepillers that simply pretend that their looks didn't give them a massive edge in the dating market and that "everyone can succeed with a good personality" More importantly, you have unattractive/av…
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:22 PM
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Idk man, I met my current gf on bumble, and i'm balding at 28 and wear a toupee to get by. Blackpill is absolutely true; the argument come in at if you should still try, or just roll over and die
/r/AllPillDebate23/08/23 12:04 PM
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Lol massive cope Women love high IQ NT men. IQ by definition is your ability to solve problems and is directly tied with your money making potential. Both of these combined influence your ability to dominate all areas of life as well as self confidence. Even dudes with aspergers can slay with lower IQ women if they play it right and are semi-attractive. To me, you are mixing up IQ with Educated; educated women generally dislike educated men as, imo, modern day education and universities breeds a…
/r/AllPillDebate22/08/23 10:00 PM
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Could you link the thread?
/r/AllPillDebate21/08/23 12:27 PM
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But you admit yourself that you did soft looksmaxx, so you did improve yourself in some capacity
/r/AllPillDebate20/08/23 04:14 AM
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Oh! Not likely though. Chances are all of these people have the same amount of experience with women as you do....zero. You don't see your local group of nerds slaying women with just comradery alone
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 10:58 PM
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Well yes, Chad can pull with any kind of photo In this comments defence, most Tinder photos do in fact suck. Most people's dating profiles suck in general, combined with being cookie cutter among one another. Tinder made me realize that, regardless of gender, most people are in fact the exact same
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 10:56 PM
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open up more opportunities to date and have sex. Forgive me if I'm missing the point, but is the TLDR of this "if you can't attract women, might as well suck dick"?
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 10:46 PM
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I couldn't imagine a more oof moment. Imagine going to your local card shop to play MTG with people like you only to get mogged by a Chad. I use this example since people suck and don't play video games in person anymore
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 10:23 PM
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It 100% is and this is the most based comment I have seen. Simps not only hurt themselves, but society as a whole. Twitch, Onlyfans, and the influencer market as a whole is Simp driven. This in turn gives women unrealistic perceptions of themselves and breeds insecurity when the dream so much as hints of crashing (this is why instagram hid the like bar for awhile, since because women became use to this much attention, any slip from that like-ratio caused huge insecurity issues when faced with re…
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 03:27 PM
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"All my friends with girlfriends left me" "I doxx people for fun" Maybe take a look at yourself before you blame other people
/r/AllPillDebate16/08/23 12:22 PM
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The purpose of no fap are for people who feel the need to bust one at work or their grandmother's funeral. If you have an uncontrollable urge to the point it is self destructive, then you need to get that in check. Otherwise there is no harm in busting one out every now and again. It is no different than weed or alcohol. Want to get silly the odd time? Perfect. If it is all you can think about and is how you spend your time 24/7? Yeah, you should figure your shit out
/r/AllPillDebate15/08/23 06:28 AM
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But why would they? Men as a whole aren't picky creatures. If you are a sub5 male, you could say the same about average dudes that fuck fat chicks as a hobby. "If he had standards, there would be more to go around" Men will always fuck down if given the opportunity. Unless you have some kind of pack mentality (which even that is iffy) you will never see a dude say "you know what, think I'm gonna take one for the team and say no, this guy right here deserves a shot" when given the chance.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 01:02 AM
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This never happened. Sticking to a marriage maybe, but young men were always encouraged to play the field. You think modern day sex culture is bad today, just think of the early pin-up era. Militaries around the globe even adopted sex culture in recruitment drives, telling men if they go to war, they will come back as a Chad hero. If you were sub5 and <25, it's not like it would be a world of difference back then compared to now.
/r/AllPillDebate13/08/23 12:55 AM
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I find it really depends on the woman. I remember being in a relationship with very attractive woman with a super toxic, femcel style personality. I never felt valued, was high maintenance, never did anything outside of browsing tiktok/netflix, and overall made me a worse person with a hostile personality and I ended up taking it out, made me hate my family and treated my best friend like shit. I am now dating a mid chick that has made me into a better person, the person I want to be in life. At…
/r/AllPillDebate07/08/23 02:03 PM
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Let me rephrase again. If you are telling this guy he is doomed, what should he do? Since "try anyways" is apparently the wrong answer. Like women are individuals with multiple different tastes and preferences No they are not. Individual tastes maybe, but women are strikingly similar, to the point I found it funny that they all strike the same poses, same speech type, even in online dating, many even have the same type of bio. I would say there are only a handful of personality types that are on…
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 12:33 AM
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You act like homemaking is some strenuous task. Dishwasher, dryer, and washer do the vast majority of the work. Unless you live in a mansion, or one of you absolutely destroys the place, it doesn't take long to do. But, you cool doing mowing/raking/weeding of the lawn every weekend, doing the home repairs, walking the dog, fixing/cleaning the car(s), shovelling snow in the winter, chopping firewood (location depending) and all the other statistically proven chores that men do, for us as well as …
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 12:23 AM
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I'm actually pretty libertarian. Most of your solutions sound like liberal answers. My solution is to demand from the government higher wages so that people have enough income to go to social places. To demand shorter working hours so that you have time for social integration. This is partially why the odds of you being single get lower with age, as by this point you are probably working a 9-5 making a decent living once you are in your 30's. With that said, if you have no post secondary and wor…
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 12:15 AM
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I work as an electrician. That would be unsafe and numerous OH&S violations. Jesus no wonder you don't have kids
/r/AllPillDebate05/08/23 12:01 AM
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What's your solution? Sit around, wait to die, being bitter at the world, wishing you had it as easy as a Chad? Fuck that, I'd rope before that ever happens again.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:53 PM
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You had a chad best friend, so you weren’t that isolated from the start. Victimization is funny like that. I learned it a bit too late, but better late than never. Like… I just don’t understand how people as optimistic as you just assume that there’s an infinite amount of people waiting at our doorstep to be invited in So you go find them. Start going to public social events, go to a bar and simply say hi, dating apps are starting to cater to people who simply want to find friends. I was introdu…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:38 PM
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You like role reversal? Cool, I'll stay home with a baby working a nice work from home job, and you can work a nice 10 hour shift doing a trade in the elements, or moving the bricks, or any other traditional man job that has the higher workplace injury rate :) I'd take that deal in a heartbeat
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:25 PM
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So you learn it. You don't have to understand it (I sure as fuck don't), but as you keep doing it, you start to identify patterns. Despite the modern idea, most women are exactly the same. I used to have this exact same thought process, to the point I was relying on my Chad best friend to help break the ice. I tried this for 8 years with zero results, finally got tired of it and got my shit together. Within a year I got my romantic life on track. I can never do or understand it as well as Chad. …
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:17 PM
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You don't feel bad about doing these things because the majority of people are doing that too The majority of people are trying to find a partner as well. Well singledom is high among people in their early 20's, it sharply declines with age. Where I live is irrelevant. Am I sour that people in this world are born into wealth? Absolutely. That doesn't mean I just stop doing it. That thought process wouldn't change regardless of where I lived.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 11:01 PM
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Even then, it's a bold claim to make based only on a single study. This study was made in 2019. In 2023, only 36% of all females in the US report as single, let alone voluntarily (I couldn't find anything that has a hard number) Furthermore, it seems silly to me to say "because this is an estimate of how things are going to be, I'm not going to try at all" as if that was the case, there is no point in living given how many studies said global warming would end the earth by X date
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 07:39 PM
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the blackpill hurts if you’re not a attractive man Oh, im not doubting that It was more so the millionaire driving a Hyundai Sonata worrying about an alternator that was my first guess, unless you just have cheap/shitty taste in cars, I don't think you are a wealthy Chad baller
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 07:17 PM
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That is based on a single study from a financial analyst that is female. Not exactly what I would call a source, as the vaccine debate is more cloudy than that.
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 07:08 PM
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I mean, based title, but on the list of things that have never happened, this never happened the most
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 06:37 PM
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All of the men here calling dating "impossible" are more so mad that the dating field isn't fair. Which on one hand I do get; you wouldn't want to play a game that you felt was unfair when the other players have an advantage, especially in dating where the odds are heavily stacked if you are a sub5. A game like that isnt fun or enjoyable. You'd feel like shit playing a game of monopoly if everyone else started with double money and 3 free properties. On the other hand, thats life. I still work e…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 06:30 PM
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auto repairs are not reoccurring tasks car needs maintenance about once a month You are contradicting yourself firstly, but I fail to see how housework is considered labor in women's eyes, and is proof how easy women have it, especially with the conveniences of modern technology. Cleaning a moderately sized home should only take a few hours a week at most, especially with the advantages of washer/dryer/dishwasher that do the hardest parts of these tasks. Compared to cutting grass/cleaning the ya…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 05:54 PM
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Hope you are having a nice day as well friendo Not longer an inc3l or doomer. Took the red/luck pill and am now living the perfect life after a decade of major depression and inceldom in my teens / 20's. Still humbled from my past experiences, so I get what men entering this stage of life are going through
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 04:06 PM
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-Has to do the majority of housework (cook, clean) Men are expected to do the majority of home/auto repairs, and other heavy duty tasks, even if the woman knows how to do these things. -Does the majority of childcare and expected to have kids -Have to work a regular job. (Most men aren't willing to provide for a women fully and let her be a stay at home mom) Men generally work higher paying jobs as we dominate the trades/technology sector, so it only makes sense to have the lower pay partner sta…
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 12:44 PM
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Who hurt you? The generalizations in this post are wild Even when you look at the literature on the topic, men have much less dating standards when it comes to women. Most of the stuff you stated, women care way more about in men. Furthermore, in terms of "unpaid work" in the relationship, men actually do more than women
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 12:22 PM
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I'm impressed, and it makes me reconsider my outlook on loneliness in people. I wish you all the best on your quest for inner peace
/r/AllPillDebate04/08/23 12:45 AM
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The people who spout this are the same people who get enraged when a millionaire says "money isn't everything"; as if it's not the same fucking thing
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 12:10 PM
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I stand corrected
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 11:38 AM
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And have you achieved this sense of fulfilment? Or happiness? I guess, do you see the end of this path leading to the rope? And furthermore, would you be ok with that? I'm not in charge of people's bodies, and believe people can do what they want. It is just extremely depressing to see guys (especially those in their early 20's) that really aren't that bad, not even trying and assuming it is over.
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 11:35 AM
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My guy, 1 inch is 2.54cm. 178 / 2.54 is 70.07 inches. 12 inches in a foot. 70.07 / 12 is 5.839 feet
/r/AllPillDebate03/08/23 11:30 AM
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To be clear, I'm not saying it is easy, or fair. For anyone sub5, it is absolutely an uphill battle. Lord knows I have been through some extremely dark times. I have the gear for a painless death and have played it over multiple times. But, what's the alternative? If you stop trying, it's likely the same destination. If you are depressed now about being single, it's not going to get any better with age. The odds of being single go down sharply with age, with only 25% of men over 30 being single.…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:59 PM
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178cm is 5'8". The male average is 5'9", the blackpill "ideal height" is 6'2". Plus he gets the debuff of being not white and autistic
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 03:33 PM
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I'm assuming you are still fairly young. As you approach 30's and 40's, friends become few and far in between, both anecdotally, and the literature supports it. These are the ages where it will really show. Lonely older men get crippling depression, lonely women end up growing depressed and bitter. Men get the short end of the stick as men's spaces are non-existent, where women can frequently join women's groups.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 03:19 PM
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Indeed, Asperger's is included in the new modern day level 1. Which is exactly my point. I would go so far as to say most people won't even notice. If anything they will attribute you to being quiet, shy, ECT. 93% of attraction is non-verbal. I'd be more worried about appearance and confidence than the simple fact of Asperger's.
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 02:54 PM
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This sub cant handle that average / below average dudes can be romantically successful
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 02:08 PM
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Which, you are exactly right. My point is simply that being autistic (assuming they are level 1 or even 2) isn't the death sentence so many people seem to think it is. It wouldn't surprise me that some of the normies that people interact with, are on the spectrum. With that said, echo chambers like this tend to cloud the cost benefit analysis, which, is post is a perfect example of that
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 01:58 PM
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This isn't a gender competition. Women flocking to men with a high body count, then wondering why she got pumped and dumped is equally as dumb as a dude simping for a high body count woman sneaking around with an 8/10
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 12:02 PM
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people in general do not like autists I'm not sure what your idea of an autist is, but most don't go waving it around like a flag. Most people simply think you are a bit odd at most (in my experience). The amount of people who think autistic people eat lego all day and don't have jobs, or an otherwise normal life is both infuriating, and makes for a neat cover I suppose. has serious risks. Like what? They say no? Oh no, the horror. You know what does carry risks? The depression, self esteem issu…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 11:42 AM
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I'm serious I don't know if you're serious, or simply unable to respond with anything meaningful
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 11:18 AM
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Are you autistic? As you have zero idea wtf you are talking about. Socialization (a sense of love and belonging), is a core need, being autistic doesn't make you immune to that, and is part of why people struggle with being autistic in the first place. If someone is sick and bedridden, you wouldn't say "well, give up on showering, you are just going back to bed anyways"
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 11:13 AM
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Socializing is a core need for humans both male and female. A lack of socialization can lead to various mental health issues. Belongingness, love, esteem, and self actualization are all necessary in life to avoid serious mental complications. What you are essentially doing is telling someone not to shower and to use the time for better things
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 11:03 AM
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Men are 3 times more likely to be on the spectrum. Part of the reason why we dominate the trades and technology fields
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:56 AM
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Depends on the level. I am 28 and diagnosed with level 1 autism. I have a successful romantic life with 5's or 6's that are thin. In the looks department I am nothing special, 5'10 and a skinny-fat of 160, required a hair transplant as I was balding. The only specific thing that will make you doomed is a defeatist mindset. As uncomfortable as it is, push yourself in trying to seek out connections, build confidence in yourself. Simply being autistic isn't the be all end all. EDIT: Autistic people…
/r/AllPillDebate02/08/23 10:53 AM
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For a lot us here it isn't just a "cold" There is no way to tell that due to the anonymity of reddit, nor do I think this defeatist mindset is always the fault of the individual. I have talked to many attractive men both from here and the doomer sub. The blackpill itself breeds this mindset, since you get guys thinking "well, I am only 5'9, no point in me even trying since the internet told me I have no chance. I am just making the point that, it is this mindset/trama in and of itself that makes…
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 04:53 PM
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False hope is entirely dependant on the individual, and is part of the flaw with trying to have a discussion on these topics in an online space. You very well could be the most hideous creature on the planet and realistically have zero chances in dating. However, simply being autistic isn't the be all end all, or being <6ft, or being bald, ect ect. Using your terminal illness comparison, some dudes here simply have a cold and think they are dying. Is it false hope to say "Hey, maybe make some li…
/r/AllPillDebate01/08/23 04:15 PM
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Average men do more both paid and unpaid work than women in a child containing relationship, combined with generally more difficult/unsafe work and generally have many more on the job injuries than women. Also because of this, men generally make more than women since we dominate the trades and technology sectors, so if you are looking for who should be the stay at home parent, you'd choose the one who makes less. (Also because of this, men are 3x more likely to be autistic) Though this arrangeme…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 12:36 AM
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There isn't at the base level. We are highly social creatures, to the point that socializing is a basic need. Love, belonging, acceptance, self-esteem, all of these are needed to be a perfectly healthy individual. People who don't get those, often develop social/mental issues. You often see this in other social creatures like dogs, cats, penguins, monkeys. If you are 35 and have never had a partner, it is very likely you have developed a warped view of the world and need help. What I find fascin…
/r/AllPillDebate31/07/23 12:24 AM
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Seems like a bit of a straw man. American gyms in general are flawed with the whole influencer movement. Being a dick for click seems to be the only thing Gen Z is capable of in the TikTok market. The lesson here is to avoid anyone who has a camera out, men or women.
/r/AllPillDebate30/07/23 01:52 PM
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TLDR "I will hate evil......only because I cannot be evil"
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:54 PM
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This is what the redpill touts. "after you been rejected 100 times, you stop feeling afraid of rejection and that in itself makes you appear more confident."
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:50 PM
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Some aren't virgins. On the smaller scale, most cave and visit prostitutes. On the larger scale; dating has evolved rapidly even compared to 10 years ago. Back when I was in college, Tinder was just popping up and was associated with whores/fuckboys, now it is a part of life. If you were born in the 90's, this is our old man stage where the world is confusing and has changed drastically.
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:45 PM
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Most incels are just normal dudes who are unlucky in the dating market for what could be multiple reasons. I have personally spoken to several that are average in looks, have successful careers, are extremely intelligent, ect Sure you got stereotypical blackpillers, perhaps more than average. But i'd be willing to say at least half are just normal dudes you'd see in everyday life. It's why I hate labels, as all it does is turn it into a stereotype
/r/AllPillDebate27/07/23 01:28 PM
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As a former baldcel, everyone should look into hair systems or transplants. Took me from doomed to chadlite almost overnight. The science is cool, but depending on the timeline, you are just replacing baldcel for agecel. Late gen Z might benefit, but that's about it
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 09:11 PM
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Diamonds are readily available; we can make them in labs, and lab made diamonds are perfect in every way. Doesn't stop the diamond cartel from making a killing (literally) over natural diamonds
/r/AllPillDebate26/07/23 09:06 PM
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And ill admit, the sub you linked is interesting. However, when you turn to forums like Incel.is, the picture changes quite drastically. If I am being perfectly honest, you are probably the first blackpill I have talked too that seems reasonable
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 07:09 PM
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Doesnt that just make them red pill? I thought blackpill just means it's over and there is no point, your fate is sealed and that it is impossible to succeed unless you are a Chad.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 06:54 PM
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Didn't realize the blue pill was in such shambles or how feminizing it is on Reddit. I am a big Jordan Peterson guy, so that's where I am coming from. I don't agree with dudes like Andrew Tate for example, but holy shit. But no, I was referring to the fact that echo chambers are bad and that blackpillers should at least try.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 06:42 PM
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You know, on my quest to find blue pill sources, found to have related more to the red pill sub. Who would have thought Statement stands though
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 06:30 PM
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Which is fine, though i'd be hesitant on getting all of your data from an echochamber. Every pill under the sun has their own list of studies and sources. IMO it just turns into a shitslinging match about who's sources are biased when you have 2 echo chambered people battling it out. As for anecdotes vs studies, and a big problem I have with the blackpill community, is that the running message is "Well, because these studies say I have the odds stacked against me, I shouldn't try at all" which I…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 05:08 PM
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Nobody is saying Danny Devito, but in the real world, you can constantly find short dudes that are in relationships; whether it is with a thin attractive woman, or an overweight ugly woman Which, is the goal to be a relationship in general, or be in a relationship with someone desirable? Furthermore, in my experience, and having lived it, people will say they done it, without actually having tried it or making it a part of their daily lifestyle.
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:56 PM
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Yes, but many have tried and succeeded. How many you find all depends on the subs you visit, as well as breaking from the internet and seeing those around you. ​ Knowing when to give up is a good thing I'm not arguing with that, but what comes afterwards? If you are trying, you have a reason to still get up in the morning at the very least. If not, then what? Not having a reason to get up in the morning sounds like the real psychological torture. I am only coming at this from the perspective as …
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:50 PM
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What personal attacks or anecdotes have been thrown at you? What data are you using? I can say the same thing about blackpillers 🤷
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:38 PM
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"There is nothing I can do to change my life path, I'm gonna be a loser forever" -provides a list of things to try to improve yourself/your life- "Don't be condescending" Don't get me wrong, I completely understand the feeling of hopelessness, and perhaps that feeling is the excuse in and of itself, but the fact of the matter is the commenter is right; if you are doing nothing to try to improve your situation, than you only have yourself to blame. I would ask that, if you aren't trying to improv…
/r/AllPillDebate24/07/23 04:28 PM
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*starts launching my shit at my crush*
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 04:29 PM
2

Is that specifically for rape? As last I checked it is 80% - 90% rape cases being that the accuser themselves points the finger at someone they know. Rape cases rarely have witnesses and lineups
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 02:53 PM
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How do you "honestly mistake" a rape accusation?
/r/AllPillDebate21/07/23 02:32 PM
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I'd believe it. Realistically if you are an average dude that simply doesn't know how to talk to women, or what you are doing wrong, with feelings of depression and loneliness; it's not hard to be sucked into a community just to find belonging and relatability, even if you have no real reason to be there. Blackpill is a lot like a cult in a way
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 11:54 AM
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To answer your question, Tinder is more situated with women looking for one night stands. IMO, as a below to average dude, I have had vastly more success with Bumble in comparison (I have slept with zero women on Tinder, where as I have laid/relationshipped 10 women off Bumble over my 2 years of using it) With that said: (identify as transage/agefluid) It sounds like you need help bro. I at least hope you are staying safe and smart out there and don't do anything dumb
/r/AllPillDebate20/07/23 11:47 AM
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Famous people is a bit difficult, since looking good is, by enlarge both part of being famous, and has economic factors. All of the famous people I was attracted to pretty much look exactly the same But I suppose Kelly Clarkson comes to mind (based on a sole google search)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 08:40 PM
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Lol what? Getting a home is easy if you are tradesmen and area dependent. I'm 28 and house shopping now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:24 AM
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High class ones maybe. The average onlyfans take home is $200/month, I doubt they'd be willing to the expense on already little take home. But yeah, I said that too at one point. Changes real quick when you catch them roleplaying online. But that's the funny thing about preferences, everybody got them, and I commend your ability to have that line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:32 PM
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How does sex work being easy mean it's somehow trashy? Why can't you think of it being easy as a benefit? Because any woman can do it combined with how easy it is. Anybody can move bricks or flip burgers, but I at least admire the work involved. Furthermore, not to say all, not to say you, but all sex workers I have encountered are pretty low on the intelligence scale and addicted to drugs, which is why it is such a preditory industry, and not the kind of women I am attracted too. Going back to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:19 PM
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With that said, all sex work is not equal (op even uses the term "soft" sex work) Would I date a girl posting bakini pics? Absolutely, that isn't sexual Would I date an art hoe that posts photos of lingerie or tasteful nudes? I'd have a hard time, but at least the conversation portion is out. So for the right person I could probably deal with this. Full on dildo riding, dick rates, flirtatious messaging? Gotta say, that's where I draw the line.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 11:00 PM
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I don't. I'm sure as a person, you are a wonderful, individual person. Could I build a friendship with a sex worker? Absolutely, and I have done that. Would I help a sex worker in need? Of course, with the same limits as I would anyone else. Would I consider a relationship, build and further my life, possibly have kids with a sex worker? No, I'm not into getting cucked. Do I think it is trashy? Yeah sorry. It's not hard, mentally maybe, but the physical act of showing your body isn't a hard job,…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:49 PM
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Oh I don't doubt it. But we all make mistakes on who we date in college. I wouldn't judge someone for feeling experimental in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:14 PM
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It's becoming increasingly normalized For low quality women maybe. The only women I know who do onlyfans are single moms, larger women, and chronically single women. Professional women (mid to late 20's) in my social circle do not and think it is trashy. Same goes with sugar dating. Onlyfans in and of itself is a terrible side hustle unless you are in the top percent. Most only earn less than $100 a month. Bad enough that id need to hate a glorified stripper, let alone one that makes terrible bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 12:10 PM
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Tell that to women on Tinder. Whether or not it is the reality of why they are on there, the amount of profiles that say "Not looking for no games, looking for something real, no hookups" comes almost as close to the line "I heard you like bad girls, well i am bad at everything"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 11:05 AM
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Gotta cast a wide net. You miss 100% of the shots you dont take
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 10:52 AM
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My favorite relationship was with a mid girl with the personality and fashion sense of an opossum. Plus fat men/women can pass as attractive if they lose weight, hot men/women do not remain attractive if they get fat. If I had to choose between the 2 options, probably A
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:29 PM
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The problem is when the incentive is gone for men to welcome gold digging behaviour (the woman gets old in either mindset or looks), they end up getting dumped for younger women, since rich men can pretty much bag any woman that they want. This is the group of women that then start the "Why are all men dating outside of their age range" debate. It is quite comical actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 01:36 PM
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I'm not trying to spin anything. I'm not red pill, if anything I am closer to blue pill. So what exactly are you disagreeing with me about? Do you now think women should be the ones taking the blame for poor decision making? Im not saying go blame the men at all Your literal original post said men need to hold high value men accountable, which there is no reason why we should, since women are still the gatekeepers at the end of the day. Literally nowhere did I say or even imply that ugly women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 04:19 PM
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Again, why? Women are the gatekeepers to sex, that is already well established. Women are the ones ultimately making the decision to have sex without taking the proper steps in finding out if the feelings are genuine or not. Again, you wouldn't blame the 3rd party for cheating nearly as much as the spouse that made the stupid decision. Making bad decisions has forever been the fault of the decision maker, relationships are no different. That still sounds like a her problem and you are making an …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:56 PM
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Men tend to play women and even lie to them so they don’t know any different than what they’re being shown. So do women suddenly take none of the blame in being naive? This use to be solved in the past by people waiting till marriage to jump in the sack. Well I wouldn't advocate for that, the general purpose still applies in that the longer you wait, the less likely you are of being played, not repeating the same action of jumping in the sack immediately after meeting a top man. As the saying go…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 02:48 PM
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Why should men blame men when it is women who are making the decisions to date these 1% men? Maybe women should be teaching women not to go for these top men in the first place and learn to build a relationship before jumping into the sack on the first date? Or maybe after being burned once learn to date within your league instead of exclusively going after these top men Its like saying you should blame the 3rd party when a spouse cheats.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:42 PM
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Seen a study that said relationships cost over $6000 a year on average divided between 2 people, though typically the men take the higher share of the cost. Was once told to look at relationships like a game. "Well others are playing the game and potentially losing it all, and need to start back at square one, you are grinding your resources. When you eventually start playing, it is gonna be a piece of cake with how much you have saved up." Made me feel a bit better about the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 07:11 PM
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That's not how that saying works. What am I sowing? Good times and sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:53 PM
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Keep things fresh. Travel, share life experiences, keep dating, get involved in each other's hobbies, visit a sexual therapist. Also don't have kids if you aren't capable to make time for each other. Number one complaint I hear from both sexes in LTRs is that there partner doesn't wanna do anything with them no more or that the bedroom is dead.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:49 PM
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Highly doubtful. Maybe for younger guys, but once you are in a poly relationship, especially in the career stages of your life, you find out how shitty it is in the grand scheme. Relationships are fucking exhausting if you are a man that puts effort in, which gets especially true as you get older. I'm still fairly young, and even then I get tired just talking to multiple women as friends. Dealing with polyamory issues like jealousy, needing to keep everyone entertained, seeing everyone on a regu…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:37 PM
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I have yet to see a single post about a man openly saying he preys on women less than 20 on PPD, so I highly doubt those views match the majority of men on here. You are always going to get people over the top in any forum you visit, and if you base your entire world view on those extreme people, you are going to have a bad time. As for the youth aspect, both genders are likely to resent the other if one person wants an exciting life and the other wants to settle down, so I fail to see the point…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:12 PM
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Guy here who has dated younger women; we do not date them just for their bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 02:59 PM
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Confidence isn't even my problem. I know I am at least a semi-attractive dude. I'm not a dude that can bust open an amazing one liner, but I can at least talk to women if I have something to go off of. My only issue (that can't just be me) is finding the next steps. I would love to know what people do for work that are able to also do classes on the regular. I am also in a rough spot since I am on the search for new friends. I was in a situation where my friends from high school were holding me …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:37 PM
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Thanks for taking a curiosity, as I am looking for advice and tips. I am 100% open to meeting people in person. The question then becomes "Where do you meet them?" Realistically the only real answer to this is bars/clubs are the only socially acceptable options. I have heard people say "take a class, or do volunteer work", which sounds great for unemployed/part time people, but when you work a 9h/5d schedule, finding the time to do that routinely enough to get noticed feels impossible. Then ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 03:02 PM
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No I am 27 and on my own, full time career, not sure where I sit financially but i'm gonna say at least top 30% locally. Getting passed the first hurdle of getting noticed and dating apps is still a struggle
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 02:23 PM
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Lol what an incel take. I have been approached at a bar multiple times by women and I am by far not the top percent of men. Likewise to say women become instantly disloyal when out on the town with girls, is such a clown take
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/23 12:30 PM
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Actually the tentacle stuff is apparently made for women. I have spoken with numerous women at conventions and was involved with a girl, all of which tentacle porn was their thing Obviously it didn't work out. How does the average gent compete with a tentacle monster 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 04:58 PM
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Such a good son for putting up with that cramped spot for a 5 hour drive edit: why are the top 14 stories about incest?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:16 PM
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Depends on what you view as extreme though. If you look at the content japan puts out for example, the most popular content is just wholesome herams with over the top attractive women. A bit outlandish yes, but you will rarely see content that shows men treating women roughly, let alone hitting them. Even with traditional porn, women are twice as likely to look up hardcore terms compared to men. I do agree that an overindulgence of porn is a problem, but I do not think it makes them more violent…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 03:14 PM
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Therapy only works if the subject is willing to change, which funny enough is the same reason why women typically fail if they fall into the "I can fix him" trope. That was literally one of the messages of the book/movie and why the ending was what it was if you haven't seen it. and absolutely, i'm not discrediting your preferences. I just find it funny that men are viewed with deplorable kinks and sexual desires when that is far from the case in reality
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:44 PM
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I would make the argument that men's interests are actually tamer than women's. Of course, you will always get deplorables that look up sick shit. I would say men much rather wholesome content that shows true love with a side of titty. It's why the term "Came for the porn, stayed for the plot" is a literal meme. Where women mostly go for strong men/creatures, Men are typically more spread out, some like strong women, some like weak women, some like creature women, some like talented women. ​ suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:35 PM
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The tentacle porn bit is actually for the women, not the men. I have come across many women on my travels where this was their kink
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:26 PM
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Wild that being a traid wife is hell, yet being taken advantage of by a sexual psychopath (50 shades of gray) is considered preferable
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/23 02:20 PM
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It's actually hilarious how accurate this is as I age. As I'm entering my 30's, the amount of women that took advantage of me, abused me, ex's that cheated on me, never gave me the time of day, now hitting me up once they got 3 kids and single is a mindboggling change in my life. Imma take a note from the women's book and not settle till I find my best 💁
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 08:32 PM
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You are under the assumption that "good" men are willing to wait 3 months for sex. In reality, the men women want are already talking to multiple women. For highly desirable men it really is "First cum first serve". Ironically the men who would be willing and happy to do this, the average woman doesn't give the time of day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 06:17 PM
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So again I would ask the question at what point do adult women get to make their own decisions. For the record, I'm not saying this is a good idea on average. But, every relationship is different. I know a handful of these situations that work, and those that don't. As adults we run into situations with consequences every day. It is our job as adults to make the right choices and ultimately live with the consequences. I fail to see why relationships are such a taboo adult decision for women base…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 10:28 PM
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So at what point is an adult able to make decisions for themselves? As talking to an adult "like your little brother" seems fairly demeaning imo. I can't imagine working a full time job and possibly moved out on your own (like I was at 18), yet still be told by some random 3rd party who I could and could not date. On a personal level, anyone that has reached this point in their life gets my respect as an adult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 07:52 PM
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I am in Canada, which culturally is just America with snow. And no, I have pitifully low standards, as do most (western) men. Funny enough, I actually just ran into a woman at my workplace talking about how spending money getting nails done is "the equivalence of therapy".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:58 PM
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For a group so set on freedom for women, y'all seem pretty controlling of women's bodies when it comes to dating options. If 2 adults consent to whatever relationship they want to be in, I fail to see how it is anyone else's business. ​ Because is there really a difference between how 16-18yr olds look? I have met women in their 20's that looked 16, does that mean they shouldn't date at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:58 PM
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So does that mean if a woman is 25 you shouldn't council them from making poor decisions?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:50 PM
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Most people graduate at 17 let alone 18
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 05:47 PM
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Came for the drama, left with big brain financial advice. What a sub
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:46 PM
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I assume what OP means is that men will opt for friends with benefits or prostitution if they cannot get a healthy relationship. Sex is a healthy part of a relationship. Well I think the "hardwired that way" line is BS, I personally would feel odd if my spouse didn't have any sexual desire or didn't think I was attractive. But, going back to OP's point, I would much rather a below-average woman that I had a healthy relationship with than some gorgeous super model that provided sex on demand
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 02:08 PM
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The women who receive the attention you described are the ones with full "wannabe model/influencer" public image : fake eyelashes, huge fake nails, inta-make-up, skinny club style dress and heels, etc. You know exactly which ones. Sorry, but you are mistaken if you think the average semi-attractive women doesn't have the "public image" you described. I work in a laboratory, and even then over 50% of the women here have what you described, minus the dress and heels, with several having social/dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:36 PM
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"Instagram" women displaying their attractiveness and physical appearance in a certain way These are most women in the west. Almost every semi-attractive women up has a few bikini shots of themselves on instagram. On Tinder it is very likely the opening photo is them at the beach. This is especially true for people in their 20's (like myself) where social media plays such prevalence in life for many. ​ If men don't want to compete on this field they should simply play somewhere else. This is wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 01:06 PM
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Attractive to mid-attractive women are often approached to be brought out to private clubs, yacht parties, and expensive trips by top tier men. Instagram/tinder is relentless for these kinds of offers. It is to the point where many women on tinder will openly say "must have a boat", at least in my area. Anecdotally, I am friends with an unknown instagram cosplayer who just last week was offered a seat at a nightclub in my city, VIP all drinks paid for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:48 AM
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There are people in this very thread saying if the child cannot survive on its own then it is free game to be aborted. So there are obviously people out there who hold these views, whether or not anyone in your social circle has them depends on the circle. Statistically you are only 4% more likely to find someone that says abortion should be completely illegal. Though you probably don't discuss abortion in your day to day.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 10:05 PM
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I think there's a compelling argument for making an early cutoff for abortion (after start of second trimester) This is the camp that most people are in but always somehow ends up being the vocal minority. It is only the far left/right that make the extreme abortion cases. The average person, even statistically, would agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/23 06:20 PM
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Why are you only referring to women? Because nobody cares who young adult men date, as it should be There is hard data to back up the fact that males under 25 have a higher rate of accidents than any other group in reference to insurance providers. But yet, we still let young men drive. Should we raise the age to get your license to 25? Age of consent is a whole other bag of worms that, just so we are clear, is unappealing to me. With that said, most countries view 18 as being an adult, regardle…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 09:21 PM
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We are still talking about the same age groups though. As adults, people have different life goals and values, whether or not your life paths are the same. I work as an engineer and I have met people that know vastly more than me, and likewise I have worked with people that don't give a shit. That's part of being an adult interacting with other adults. So should the high school mentality exist until women are 25? No alcohol, no onlyfans, date only within 3 years of your age? Again, after 18 I fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 08:22 PM
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And you are telling me people who are 25 aren't focused on impressing peers, seeking out adrenaline and fun and figuring out who they are as a human being? If that's the case, then you have never been to a university. At the end of the day, people who are 18-20 are able to do things far worse to their lives and career prospects than choosing who to date. If adults aren't able to make their own decisions, than in your view I would ask how old do women need to be to be able to make their own decis…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 06:25 PM
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How is there any more room for abuse or control than from a guy who is 20? or 25?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 05:05 PM
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It's not like that changes a whole lot after 18 IMO. I know people who are 25 and can't call a doctor's appointment for themselves, and people who are 30 and still live at home. I'd rather date someone that is 18 and has real life goals, rather than someone who is 27 and has zero goals whatsoever, or absolutely silly life goals and expectations. As for talking points, if we have the same interests, I don't see how that can change with age. I might have a few more stories to tell, but that's abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 04:26 PM
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Because I can? If I connect with someone that shares the same interests as me, age shouldn't really be a factor since we are all consenting adults. Drinking age in my country is 18/19 area dependant, so it's likely i'll probably meet them in a bar which even further adds to that. I would also make the argument that most people in that age range (the university age range as I call it) are more or less the same in terms of goals and values.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 03:55 PM
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(even though most creators dont make it big) That is mostly because the market is flooded combined with little to no effort (I personally know a few "failed" onlyfans models) If you aggressively advertise and/or play games on twitch, it is quite easy to break out and become popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:38 AM
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27M I aim for 19 - 27. With that said, if a muscle mommy ever wanted to pick me up at a bar, I wouldn't say no. More about looks/personality than age imo (within reason obviously)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/23 11:34 AM
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You removed your comments some quick for someone who is so confident lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:50 PM
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There is zero way it wouldn't have been picked up, as you clearly used enough to deal real damage. Any cop worth his salt should know you don't need eye surgery for being maced. Mixing bleach doesn't change the fact that the chemical you used was still caustic. Try taking a law class. You may have deleted the post, but it literally started with "the last guy that negged me..". I'm not gonna debate the sudden change in story, but I do hope you are careful with that, as you can find yourself in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 05:10 PM
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Bleach is a caustic chemical, which is considered a deadly weapon in every American state, Canada, and the UK. In Canada and the UK, mace is also considered a weapon, but that's irrelevant at this point. Given the severity of his wounds, you were lucky police didn't take it and test it. Lol the entitlement. No, negging (saying something you found offensive) is not considered an arrestable offense. Criminal harassment is the level of stalking.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:46 PM
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"Let's respond to something harmless, by assault with a deadly weapon" You are lucky you didn't get arrested or decked. Seek help.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 04:20 PM
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I can't find many stats with regards to the Iraq war. There are however stats with regards to the Vietnam war The amount of women raped during the Vietnam war ranges between 1,500 to 30,000. For the sake of debate, let's use the high end of 30,000. The amount of US casualties were 58,220 confirmed. Rape is a horrible crime. But to try to use that as an excuse to call fallen soldiers "culling the herd" is deranged
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:40 AM
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They know it’s just spontaneous sex and will go right back to dating the same men when they get back to the US. This is you in a previous comment with regards to female sex tourism. Now all of the sudden If (men) were marrying these women, I don’t think anyone would care or make a big deal out of it. You are literally applying a double standard to this sort of behavior, and is exactly my point when it comes to double standards with these topics. They also diss American women every chance they ge…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/23 12:27 AM
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No, I am comparing toys to toys, and AI to AI Women owning a dildo (or any sex toy) is fairly normal in today's world and is generally accepted. Many women (not all) even make the claim they prefer it over actual men. Meanwhile, men owning the equivalent are, generally, viewed as creepy. You will be hard pressed to find any man who says it is better than the real thing. My point is that this double standard shouldn't exist, and when it comes to AI, people acting like this is a male only thing is…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 09:07 PM
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Seems to be plenty of men around to me 🤷
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:42 PM
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You act as if women don't visit and take advantage of poor countries. Places like Jamaica are frequently visited as a place for women to get their rocks off.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:40 PM
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They used to be sent off to war to cull the numbers I'm glad this is how our fallen solders are remembered by /s Pretty toxic mentality you got there.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:37 PM
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I don't believe I ever said that, but all right. I was using the umbrella term of "toys" for both genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 08:34 PM
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I can really only speak for what I see here, as this is the only forum I am a part of for these sorts of topics. Which, based on what I see here, women do have a problem with this behavior and view it as creepy, predatory, or whatever the case may be. I only bring up this behavior as an example, since women also travel for sex, and doesn't get nearly as much flack in comparison, if any. Just an example how men get a double standard for these sort of things, and it generally only comes from women…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:40 PM
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Compare toys to toys That's exactly what I am doing. Comparing male toys to female toys, and comparing female AI to male AI AI which is its own category (that women can also use, as you just said). Which again, I would ask why the conversation is even being had? I seen many posts complaining/putting down men for, as this post puts it "replacing women with AI" when current trends and forums show that women will do this, if not more-so than men. It wouldn't surprise me that when this sort of tech …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 04:05 PM
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I still don't see the difference. You can take a trip to the Replika subreddit to see men and women alike discussing the technology about their AI "partners" Whether it's AI involved or not, I'm simply pointing out that there seems to be a double standard. Women replacing men with toys is viewed as empowering, where men doing the same is viewed as creepy and a cope
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 03:32 PM
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Meanwhile, for men it is seen as coping. I suppose it all depends on how many men transition. If it becomes widely adopted, it would really only be women who call it a cope. No different than passport bros now really. Men don't really give a shit if that's how a man gets his rocks off. It's really only women that have a problem with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 02:54 PM
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I fail to see how this is just a men's only thing. Given the fact that more women are ditching men in favor of toys, I would think both men and women alike would be making their perfect AI companion that also deals with those sorts of needs. ​ and sadly men with robot wives are unlikely to get any respect from anyone (except maybe for being brave enough to admit they have one without shame). Again, this seems like a double standard. If a woman says she doesn't need a man, and that her toys do th…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/23 02:24 PM
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You can go to your nearest crack den and find a dude with 3 baby mommas easily enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/23 06:42 PM
3

Same. As I guy, I want zero interaction with the butthole, whether it be someone elses or my own.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/23 02:16 PM
0

How? College is the minimum for most if not all G7 countries. In Canada, you are in for a rough time without at least college.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 11:49 AM
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Doesn't that all come back down to "You just need to communicate more" though. You can as nuanced as you want with it, but at the end of the day, that IS the solution. If you are not communicating because you don't want too, sometimes the solution is to simply to it more if your only problem is nervousness and confidence. Throwing yourself into those situations help people become more comfortable with it. ​ Its just when things don't go according to plan or someone does something wrong Same deal…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 11:08 AM
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Why would you switch jobs every 2 years? It is my understanding that the longer you are with a company, the more valuable you are, and more power when it comes to salary negotiations
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:33 PM
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Do research for your projected career path and avoid university if you can. With a 2 year technology degree I currently make more than people with a 4 year degree in a similar field. Many others I know are simply unemployed due to graduating and finding nothing in their field. Enjoy your friends and never lose contact with them. Once you are older, making friends becomes a lot more difficult. My personal experience, it feels impossible to meet new people, however I know many people, men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:32 PM
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Same things I would like from a good friend, but simply from a romantic interest. I think we can all agree those things are different when coming from a romantic interest in comparison. Furthermore, the thought that you are taking up space in someone else's mind is always nice. The most basic example; I have buddies all the time tell me that i'm doing the right thing, doing good in my career, I even have friends tell me I look good/great, ect. It feels different when you have a romantic interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:57 PM
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That's the beauty of the argument. If you are a woman waiting for an attractive/wealthy guy, that is considered normal If you are a male waiting for a woman who thinks you are a catch, you are a misogynist that preys on vulnerable women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 12:10 PM
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The problem is that women aren't interested in a man with an average lifestyle either. The average man in this 20's, with a good career, will be able to afford an apartment for themselves, and an ok vehicle. Even here, I have seen many women point out that these are all things women can achieve by themselves. So the question gets asked "What do men bring to the table?". The answer is either good looks, or an unrealistic career/income level. If you are just an average guy, trying to get into a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 11:12 AM
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Maslow never made it a basic need. Only the bottom 2 categories are considered basic needs (Food and Security) He stated that reproduction is a basic need, which obviously it is for a continuation of a species. Relationships (Tier 3 and up) are psychological needs (needs for growth), and NOT basic needs for survival. He states that relationships in general are required to fulfill this, which can come from family, community, religion, ect. Nowhere in the literature does it say you must have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/23 01:14 PM
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I would say it would be vastly more reliable and worth the money than existing dating apps, which are more or less a scam in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 06:41 PM
9

Is that really the case though? I would actually argue that OP is a bit out to lunch with this concept of "average". I mean, I would describe myself as struggling romantically, and I'm sitting at 6'0" 160lbs and make ~60k USD yearly. Though I am also Canadian. Is the bar for the average American male really that bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:56 PM
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and for women sometimes it cna be kind of disconnected and you need to really start up the engine and get er going before you can ride the bike For you maybe. I have met many women who self described themselves as "having the mind of a teenage boy". In terms of kinks, most women I have been with have had 1 or 2 that made me question their inner demons. At my workplace, it's the near retirement women who are the worst. Walking HR violations with some of the things they say. Everyone is unique, an…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:30 PM
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5’9-5’10 white man who’s overweight, their choice of fashion is a graphic T-shirt with jeans, they don’t exercise or eat healthy, still live with their parents, and have a medium salary of around $40,000. Jeez, if this is the bar for an average man, then I must be well above average. Thanks for the confidence boost OP
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:48 PM
3

Was told by a girl I use to date that the perfect nice is someone who is nice, but also still capable of roasting them to hell and back. When put that way, it is easy to picture someone that is "too nice"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 05:24 PM
2

Gonna drop a hot take and say the easiest way to get laid with attractive women is by going to a party carrying a dime bag of coke/meth. But to date as a life partner, not a chance. With that said, if I met someone that had a history of meth use, but got cleaned up, id say absolutely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 08:15 PM
3

Wild. Whenever I ask for someones secret spot, i'll either get a lot of hims and haus and get hit with "Oh you know, around" and then refer me to some super public stocked fishing lake
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:21 PM
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But that's the problem isn't it? You never go to the populated spots, you try to find the hidden spots with little competition. Likewise, if you ask a fisherman where he goes to catch his fish, most will tell you to piss off to keep the spot for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 08:05 PM
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It's all about standing out. Even if you are a tourist, you will get looked at a lot if you are white (at least in asian countries). Even an average male looks good in these countries. If you are tired of not getting noticed, it can be one of the best ways for some people. Doesn't need to have some secret ulterior motive.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/23 06:16 PM
1

Most men who are cel (not the extremist kind) are more into relationships than sex. You will see a lot of them pay for prostitutes just to feel something, but they mostly just struggle forming relationships, at least from what I seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 07:26 PM
0

That is disconnected from value though. In your experience, it sounds like she was out of the "experimenting phase" and knows what she wants, referring to point number 2. She doesn't want to do anal with you because you are a 10; she wants to do it because she is already open to it, and you are good at it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 03:09 PM
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If your butthole is a no-no area with a 5, it suddenly doesn't become different with a 10. Compatibility between partners is important for a healthy relationship, if you weren't open to it before, that won't change (and imo actually goes down with age). The reverse is also true. A woman with a freaky rape fantasy is going to be happier with a 5 that is open (and good at it), than a 10 that prefers straight missionary.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/23 01:23 PM
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RP/BP organizations can't exist because anything related to men is viewed as bad. Just look at how many people laugh at the simple notion of Men's Rights. Movember (which also collect and donate money towards men's health, like feminism) is viewed by many as misogynist. Men are routinely told they are not allowed to have "safe spaces". Any and all GOOD male icons are bashed to hell. How can you expect any sort of group like modern day feminism to exist/succeed given these barriers? ​ Feminists a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 03:07 PM
1

"Would most of the men identify as being introverted? Dislike small talk and not need much external stimulation?" Not at all, at least not by choice. Their are the issues that are already talked about here with regards to women having a larger pool of men to choose from, and that women are more financially stable, so being successful doesn't mean nearly as much as it use to. Another large issue I have observed is the need to move for work. Men are overwhelmingly more likely to need to move for w…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 02:11 AM
1

The only issue is that it isn't just me. You can delve into any of the male depression subs and see that many of them that share this mindset are very well educated, who are capable of if not already making these numbers if not more. Who are simply tired from that lack of purpose and socialization. To think that it is only broke or uneducated men who have this issue, is simply wrong. On the topic of life without a purpose, I see it as a growing issue overall. It's already been well documented th…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:36 AM
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For the record, I'm in full support of that I only included it since those are the main demands of down with the patriarchy, as well as directly related. Increasing the amount of sex with non-LTR will obviously increase the number of procedures performed.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:21 AM
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Look at the "down with the patriarchy" rhetoric. The ability to sleep with whoever they want, and abortion on demand. This is exactly what women ask for. The happiness of it depends on the person, which given the size of the "are we dating the same guy" page, shows that this is a very mixed bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 07:09 PM
2

Let's not pretend that a large portion of people only do this just to flaunt wealth and status. Which is part of the reason you see people (mostly men) selling off the new corvette once the mid-life crisis wears off. You also see groups of young men who try this, realize you need more than money just to get into the dating market, and immediately regret it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 06:11 PM
1

I did it. ~75k/y job, student loan paid off, and I been playing with this thought for awhile. Living single for ~10 years really builds a savings account. More often than not i'm trying to figure out what I am working for, what I am saving for. My day will end the same, whether or not I own a nice house or a nice car vs an apartment and a cheap sadan, so what's the point? Chicken and rice for the week costs $20 tops, and jogging is free. Being worried about doctor visits sounds like an american …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:59 PM
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Not like that's any different for women. It's part of the reason you are seeing women in their 30's / 40's complaining that men are choosing women in their 20's. Though id consider employment to be a bit different. You can fuck off for 10 years and re-enter the workforce; especially if you got your education done early on. I'd say it really only hurts when you are in your late 50's and want to retire
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:28 PM
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Most men who I know that have power tools just end up collecting dust unless they work in that industry, and end up on marketplace after the newness wears off. A cheap amazon drill-set gets me by just fine, especially if you live in a city. Saying "for yourself" doesn't really mean anything though. I know my worth, I personally have accomplished my education and career goals. I don't need to work for another 30 years to prove that to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 05:01 PM
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For what purpose? Living the hikkikomori lifestyle is dirt cheap when you take dating out of the equation. You don't need a fancy house, you don't require a fancy car, fitness/nature is by enlarge free. Men typically don't have the desire to drink expensive drinks or eat at restaurants. Even if you are a competent man who wants to eat healthy, cooking chicken and rice is fairly cheap. Even if you are well educated with a good job, at some point you gotta ask yourself "what am I working for exact…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 04:44 PM
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The women here will tell you it is your fault and that you should be better. The men here will say women just want to be in a harem with chads.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 12:52 PM
1

Wouldn't say it to a specific man and how fat women are as a group is brought up far more often. Doesn't matter. If I were to say that about fat women as a whole (even the term "fat women" is frowned upon), I would be shaking the hornets nest, and possibly banned from the majority of subs if I said that on here. There is way more positivity than negativity with regard to female bodies. You can just take a look at Lizzo to see the immense amount of support she gets. The people giving her shit abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:24 PM
1

I wasn't really referring to looks when I made the shallow statement. Maybe it's just me, but I have never been rejected for my looks (at least not directly anyways), nor have I rejected anybody because of theirs. My comment was more so tied to unrealistic financial expectations some people have. I also was coming into this from the position that I almost exclusively use online dating nowadays, so a large portion of looks-match is presumably already handled. I do however think rejecting men over…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 06:07 PM
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You yourself were giving men shit in another post by saying most men are fat and can't look after themselves. Men are given shit about height all the time, furthermore being an overweight male has far more consequences (both health and societal wise) than being an overweight female. Even being an underweight male is worse than being an underweight female. I would like to see how the existing body positivity movement is geared towards men. It is generally societally acceptable to rip on a man's w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 04:18 PM
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I would argue that looks dont even matter all that much. I'm someone that does rather well for myself. In a woman I don't care about her job, or her looks, frankly only a good personality and the ability to look after themselves is all that matters to me. Some of my favorite relationships were with 5's or 6's that I could simply relax with and enjoy myself. Made me want to put the effort in. Dating 9's and 10's is just way to much work for the (lack of) reward. Attractive people are typically sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 03:39 PM
1

I would say the least painful way is for either party to just explain their position and (ideally) not be shallow and provide a realistic reason for the incompatibility, so that the "losing" party can improve on themselves if possible. Can only speak from the male perspective, but myself and other men here have been laughed at, ghosted, or given some ridiculous reason like "You looked taller in your pictures". For me, I had a girl walk out because she was under the notion that I owned a boat due…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/23 02:52 PM
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"Stop getting your opinions and thoughts from uniformed men with podcasts." Gets facts from boyfriend Women disproportionately get custody for kids during divorce and that is a fact, despite 70% - 90% of divorce being initiated by women, with the top 2 causes being a lack of connection and issues with traditional roles (aka, getting bored), which also tips the scales in who gets the house at the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/23 05:19 PM
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