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| 3 | CMV: No one needs sexIn the same fashion, you could say that a human doesn't need to be "free" to live. He could live in solitary confinement all his life on water and bread. He'd still go apeshit long-term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Sense of humor.Sense of humor is a complement to attraction. It doesn't create it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/16 05:48 PM |
| 8 | TRP, if women aren't as visual as men, then why would they be attracted to muscles the same way men are attracted to boobs?The halo effect makes a lot of women believe they are more attracted to a man's personality than his looks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/16 01:16 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Nice guys aren't rejected because they are nice to get sex, they are rejected because they use niceness instead of being confident.Confidence is a generic, overused word. Being submissive turns women off. Being nice doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/16 04:28 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "Confidence" doesn't make someone more attractiveI don't disagree with your POV. Actually, I think it's the most interesting response so far. A lot of people make it sound like an ugly, awkward guy with a shit job and no ambition can be a hit with women because he believes in himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/16 12:37 AM |
| 0 | CMV: "Confidence" doesn't make someone more attractiveIf I think I can take on prime Mike Tyson (having no boxing experience whatsoever), am I "confident" or just a jackass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/16 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Are men less picky when it comes to finding other men attractive?"He's funny, I can't believe he doesn't get laid." Are you serious? If I see some ugly fat guy who's hilarious, I'm still not going to assume he's a hit with the ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/16 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Is "hypergamy" a myth originated from wildly exaggerated claims of sexual encounters by young men badly socialized when it comes to sexuality?OKCupid study forget is that while the women were picky about how they rated male attractiveness, they did eventually communicate with the men who they considered average to slightly below average in appearance. My theory is this: attractive women rarely message anyone, because they don't have to. The women most likely to be proactive on these sites are the uglier/fatter ones. Women who fit in that category are obviously not going to message 6'2", hunky Chad with a six-pack. They'll pick lesser … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/16 08:16 PM |
| 1 | Are men less picky when it comes to finding other men attractive?Saying someone is attractive does not make you a homosexual. Would you be OK with saying prime Brad Pitt or Sean Connery were handsome men? Doesn't mean you'd grant them the access to your butt. Women call other women beautiful all the times and they aren't all lesbians or bi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Debate: Are men admired for being quality human beings, while women are admired for their beauty?Richard Ramirez was handed much, much more pussy on a silver platter than the average nerdy computer scientist who makes 80k a year. So no, being a quality human being doesn't make you more appealing to women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/16 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Do you feel sorry for women in abusive relationships?To be frankly honest, I stay far away from these women because I know it would never work out in a fictional universe where we'd give dating a try. I know one of "them" at work. No way in hell I'd ever give her a look for a serious relationship. Regardless.. are you retarded or what? How about you attack the argument instead of the poster? Are you five-years old? As for your final point, I don't feel sympathy for them the same way I don't feel sympathy for some guy who sticks his hand on a burni… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel sorry for women in abusive relationships?I know. That's also the people I referred to in my post. Girls who love bad boys are completely aware of their sexual market value. They know most guys would drop on their knees to please their every need. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 07:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel sorry for women in abusive relationships?Typically it means a lack of self-esteem This is a myth. Bad boy lovers almost always have big egos. In fact they'd be the more likely to call out low-status men on being losers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/16 06:51 PM |
| 2 | How Common is the Knowledge of Divorce Rape?To be fair, on paper, leaving your wife for a 22 year old bartender sounds dumb as shit. Most female bartenders I've met in my life had massive egos and definitely weren't LTR material. Some of them were most certainly jumping from one alpha cock to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Being overtly sexual does not guarantee successSince when are alphas awkward? Anyway, if your looks get your foot in the door, you'd have to be more than a bit awkward to turn a woman off. You'd have to be socially retarded, aspie-level, I mean. The importance of "personality" in attraction is way overstated. A guy with a 1/10 face will never be "charming". The same way a hunky, muscular guy isn't getting turned down for a fuck for being slightly dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/01/16 07:05 AM |
| 15 | If life gets better for men as they age, why is the highest rate of suicide in men aged 40 to 44?Many men have their lives destroyed by losing half their income to alimony/child support. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/16 06:35 AM |
| 1 | The Nice Guy / Asshole DichotomyI agree OP. "Charisma" is proxy for "displays high value". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/16 01:34 AM |
| 11 | Attraction is all there is...Agreed. Women are often oblivious to the power of the Halo effect. If a man is attractive, everything he does or say will automatically be more interesting. And funnier too. Hence "I like men who can make me laugh!". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/16 01:31 AM |
| 0 | Why do single moms receive so much praise?What does that even mean? Do you think most fathers actually impregnated the woman on their first sexual encounter? People with a bit of good sense would take the time to get to know their partner before even thinking about having kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/16 07:37 PM |
| 4 | Why do single moms receive so much praise?Normal women don't get pregnant the first time they fuck a guy, do they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/16 05:39 PM |
| 8 | Why do single moms receive so much praise?Why give birth to a child the father doesn't want then? It's a recipe for disaster. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/16 05:32 PM |
| 3 | How to Pick up Girls Without Game...100% Guaranteed"Game" is a crock of shit on so many levels. Relationships born from mind games are doomed to crash. The longest relationship I was in, started on a date where I was really shy and nervous. No BS "alpha" behavior was needed because she found me attractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/16 07:17 AM |
| 3 | [Question for all pills] How would you feel is someone had a crush on you?I've never been straight-up hit on by a woman, but it happened twice with gay guys. One of them objectively attractive. It's flattering as long as you don't push it and are cool with the reality being that I'm straight/not attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 05:48 PM |
| 28 | Question for TRP Men who think women have it easier than men: Does this still apply to ugly women?So basically, you're living the life of the average man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/16 06:01 AM |
| 1 | The "red pill" split personalityRedpillers are certainly not alpha. Otherwise, they would naturally attract women (i.e. not resort to online communities for help). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/15 07:32 AM |
| 7 | What makes us think a woman is promiscuous?They're usually extroverted, tend to drink and party a lot.. They also tend to have a big ego for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/15 07:11 AM |
| 6 | Game/Status can make up for LooksI'm beginning to think that game doesn't even exist Agreed. LOL if you think a 1/10 can get a 9/10 using "game". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 10:41 PM |
| 3 | Game/Status can make up for LooksIf you aren't a model...then either put a paper bag over your head in shame and pitty ("women suck, they only want Chad!") or fucking do something about it and BECOME Chad. That is all. You can't "become" Chad. Unless you found a natural way to increase your height and change your face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Attraction creates confidence (not the other way around)That's the point. Some people have poor confidence in dating because they've only had shitty experiences so far. You can believe in your worth as a human being and have self-respect, but it doesn't translate to confidence in anything you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 07:19 AM |
| 2 | Attraction creates confidence (not the other way around)Confidence in a given context comes from success and positive feedback. If I'm a shitty boxer and get my ass handed to me in every fight, I'm going to lose confidence in my ability to box. Unless I am delusional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 06:34 AM |
| 0 | Attraction creates confidence (not the other way around)Were they successful with women because they were "confident" or because they were high status? There's a slight difference here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 05:11 AM |
| 0 | Attraction creates confidence (not the other way around)If I told you, that you were evil, you would only believe me if you felt you were evil. If you don't think you, yourself are evil, then you would think my comment is ridiculous. However, just because you think you are X, it doesn't mean you also believe people see you as X too. If I think I'm the hottest guy on the planet, it would be still be pretty stupid and unrealistic to assume 100% of planet earth will think I'm hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/15 04:41 AM |
| 7 | Women’s hypergamy contributes to humanity much more than men’s polygamy.I'd say hardly. Low-life thugs and serial killers have the upper hand over "average looks, average job" everyday man merely because they're "exciting". Children of such men are more often than not raised by single moms. It is well documented that children raised by single moms are more likely to have alcohol/drugs addiction issues and turn into hoodlums. Dumb people tend to have more children and I'm afraid it isn't good news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/15 03:25 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The "ugly guy" who gets laid left and right with attractive women is a mythSurely you haven't been on the Misc. plenty of foreveralone, jacked dudes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/15 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Question for men: Have you ever had firsthand experience with hypergamy?Guys want hot girls, even the hot guys. It has seldom to do with wanting someone more attractive than yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 03:44 AM |
| 2 | Question for men: Have you ever had firsthand experience with hypergamy?You think a lazy 9/10 female with no income and a general bitchy attitude has "higher value" than a 7/10 CEO, self-made multimillionaire man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/15 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Do Female Incels have it the Worst?What do you mean? Even the ugliest specimens have men willing to screw them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/15 01:00 AM |
| 3 | What does "feeling entitled" mean to you? Can anyone name a single person who actually believes that sex or relationships are "entitlements"?The whole "entitlement" accusations are BS most of the time. Do people even know what "being entitled" to something means? It means expecting things to be handed out to you without lifting a finger. A guy who's depressed because he has been rejected a hundred times by women isn't "entitled". He's being proactive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 04:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: In order to attract women, you have to treat them like peopleBeats me when people refer to "knowing how to talk to women" as if they were either mentally retarded or a superior group of human beings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/15 04:53 AM |
| 3 | CMV: TRP dating strategies only work for well endowed guysThat's a crock of nonsense. Unless we're talking about extremes (say, under three inches), penis size has little influence on attraction. I doubt women would want to sleep with a guy with a 1/10 face just because he has a big dick. And I don't think they'd turn down a roll in the hay with '95 Brad Pitt because he has a 4" wiener either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/15 04:46 AM |
| 7 | CMV: Women are attracted to "personality" but not the way people say (wish) they are.Keep on reading. Doesn't matter. The typical "bad body language" is far from as common as people would like you to think. I always walk as straight as an arrow and make eye contact, even when I feel like gutter trash. 95% of the population wear a mask on a daily basis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 12:38 AM |
| 11 | CMV: Women are attracted to "personality" but not the way people say (wish) they are.Confidence can be sensed immediately No, it cannot. Outside the Internet, people with low confidence are not systematically whiners who complain about everything and diss themselves publicly. You can tell if someone is an extrovert, but you can't really tell if they have good self-esteem. Being an introvert doesn't mean you lack confidence either. I see hundreds of people daily because of my job and very rarely do I ever bump into people who display low self-esteem body language (in fact, I can'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 12:30 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Women are attracted to "personality" but not the way people say (wish) they are.But are you ugly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/15 12:03 AM |
| 1 | How do you feel about the "two rules"?Women who will be attracted to something else than your looks will be the toxic/whorish ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/15 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Personality matters.Outgoing women also give out the impression that they'd be easier to bed/less of a prude, which CAN and often DO increase attention from guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/15 12:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do people think ugly men have it better than ugly women?But do they care about them beyond a 1/10 looks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/15 07:30 PM |
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