AlecCorbett Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
56	9 Signs of Male Insecurity That Turn Women Off		AlecCorbett	/r/seduction	02/04/17 06:56 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
0	Sexual Desire and Objectification Meh its fine. I appreciate these kinds of discussions. I just worry that lately a lot of people have been diluting the message here. I don't know if people realize this but a LOT of guys that come here need help with confidence. And I don't think posts like this help. But maybe that is me. I also think our understanding of ethics has changed a lot since then. In particular, we have changed our culture to not think that sex is bad for women. And I think that is important. Women should be expected…	/r/seduction	20/08/20 05:14 AM
3	Sexual Desire and Objectification A lot of it is based on some of the Ideas by Todd Valentine as Well as some of the actually reasonable Ideas by Owen Cook. I think that, even if you want a long term relationship, it is worthwhile to learn some form of pickup/seduction etc. etc. so you don't feel like you need to be with your gf/wife out of necessity. A lot of these techniques, the proper ones at least, teach you how to be a better person and a person worth staying with.	/r/seduction	20/08/20 02:40 AM
5	Sexual Desire and Objectification I'm so confused . Is this a pick up subreddit? Isn't the whole point of this to mostly help guys meet women and have sex with them as quickly and efficiently as possible? Anyway. I have long since argued that pick up is perhaps the way of objectifying women the least. A central tenant of pickup is accepting rejection and only pursuing women that have a sexual interest in you. PUAs are doing women a favor by taking on the risk and burden of developing a sexual relationship. We go through the reje…	/r/seduction	20/08/20 12:12 AM
1	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance What does that even mean???	/r/seduction	13/06/20 01:01 AM
1	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance This isn't about my own personal thoughts. I'm just in a situation where I am under a lot of scrutiny and can' do stuff like this.	/r/seduction	13/06/20 01:01 AM
1	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance I work a job where I can't do illegal things. It is what it is.	/r/seduction	13/06/20 01:01 AM
3	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance Its illegal unfortunately.	/r/seduction	12/06/20 03:39 AM
10	If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chance How much money we talking here....for scientific purposes	/r/seduction	12/06/20 12:51 AM
4	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. I don't think you could be further from the truth. Welp. I can speak for the seduction community as a whole that we are all for putting in the work, just in strategies that work. On a side note "Just be yourself" is by far one of the easiest sounding strategies ever. It seems so great. you don't have ot do anything, just be yourself! Except if you are yourself and you dont have the confidence to attract women, what do you do? Instead of saying "just be yourself" give actionable tasks that any gu…	/r/seduction	04/05/20 04:38 PM
3	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. Literally OP is not an incel?	/r/seduction	04/05/20 03:21 PM
5	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. Just be yourself is bs advice that has no meaning. What you are imagining as "just being yourself" is often not what the guy really is. You think its easy for men to be confident when it isn't.	/r/seduction	04/05/20 03:20 PM
1	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. And yet it worked	/r/seduction	04/05/20 03:19 PM
2	Finally got laid, push and pull technique was the best. For the people saying that this is manipulative. Us guys would'nt have to do shit like this if it didn't work. If you could be attentive and available to women and still have them interested in you then we most certainly would but sadly too often they lose their attraction when this happens.	/r/seduction	04/05/20 03:19 PM
3	How to Text Girls You Meet in Real Life (from opener to her coming over) nop	/r/seduction	16/03/19 03:25 PM
5	How to Text Girls You Meet in Real Life (from opener to her coming over) does it really? as an utter failure in game i am jealous	/r/seduction	16/03/19 05:49 AM
1	Is it ok to just want casual sex? Honesty, I have no idea. But it is a thought I have been entertaining. I guess I think of it this way. If I were to make the pitch to a woman to have casual sex what would I say? We are busy. We are adults. Lets make our brain explode in dopamene pleasure and then go our merry ways.	/r/seduction	15/03/19 11:02 PM
1	Is it ok to just want casual sex? Did it ever occur to you that casual sex benefits the girl. A LOT more than the guy. They get to live their own lives. And not deal with having a baby. They get to be single and have sex with other guys (easier for them). They get to enjoy trying and experimenting. You are doing them a favor by wanting casual.	/r/seduction	15/03/19 04:21 AM
4	The odds are good, but the goods are odd. In my experience it is complicated. If you meet a woman and are immediately nice and kind to them, they will get suspicious and wonder why. This is especially try if they are younger and used to attenion. I think the gist is that they think you are trying to get them to like you. Also kind guys are kind of safe and non threatening, like puppy dogs. So they might like you but won't be attracted. The thing is that attractive qualities, humor, compassion, drive, assertiveness, charm, and confidence…	/r/seduction	12/12/18 04:02 AM
29	The odds are good, but the goods are odd. At first I thought this would be a salty comment but it is quite self aware and valuable so I appreciate that. So a couple of things. You are right about male validation. But I don't know if you yourself experience or can empathize with that. It is a powerful feeling. However, a lot of us are physically attracted to women because we are. Their personalities are sort of irrelevant. No personally, I have come to realize that some women are not worth the hassle. I actively look for ways to test and…	/r/seduction	11/12/18 11:20 PM
1	Why are more women interested in you,if one woman is? I don't get laid at all but i have money so i go to strip clubs. I went to one and did an experiement. One night I treat one girl like a princess. I throw 100$ at her on stage got a ton of lapdances and everything. The next week I did this to another girl. They look very similiar and have similiar personalities. In both cases i noticed that the girl i spoiled was busy all night while the unspoiled one didn't get anyone. No lap dances or tips or anything. I asked some of the guys and they thought…	/r/seduction	06/10/18 04:30 AM
2	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. I'm glad	/r/seduction	23/09/18 04:44 AM
16	Female lurker insight to cold approached and catcalling. No one here is trying to harass women or make them feel uncomfortable. We are trying to have relationships with them and make them feel better. In fact many of the men that come to this subreddit are lonely and insecure and are looking for a way to solve this. Here is the flip side to being a male, especially in a public space. You are invisible and no one cares about you. No one talks to you. No one holds doors for you. No one asks you out. You can go years. Decades even, without being asked ou…	/r/seduction	22/09/18 02:22 PM
1	I'm quitting night game for the time being. Considering Meetup groups. I'm 31 soon to be 32. Am I too late?!	/r/seduction	19/08/18 05:42 PM
1	I was obsessed with learning ‘The Game’ years back when a friend of mine who was always scoring chicks left and right wrote this over to me on text. I saved it on notes exactly 3 years ago and thought I’d share it with you guys. nope. I'm sorry i was a bit salty. I guess i meant that I am not in a rush to get close with girls. I just wanna hook up	/r/seduction	14/08/18 12:55 AM
1	I was obsessed with learning ‘The Game’ years back when a friend of mine who was always scoring chicks left and right wrote this over to me on text. I saved it on notes exactly 3 years ago and thought I’d share it with you guys. so i want to get good. I don't mind putting in the hours. Do i read the fucking book or not	/r/seduction	14/08/18 12:53 AM
1	I was obsessed with learning ‘The Game’ years back when a friend of mine who was always scoring chicks left and right wrote this over to me on text. I saved it on notes exactly 3 years ago and thought I’d share it with you guys. So does the book actually work.	/r/seduction	11/08/18 04:01 AM
3	I was obsessed with learning ‘The Game’ years back when a friend of mine who was always scoring chicks left and right wrote this over to me on text. I saved it on notes exactly 3 years ago and thought I’d share it with you guys. so are you getting laid or what? Op I am all down for self improvement and being genuine. And I genuinely don't really want someone in my life right now. I genuinely don't really want to be my real self. Since I genuinely don't want to get to know any more women. I mean if I could say stupid pickup line and be a fake person, get laid, and then leave, that would be ideal. If there is an easy way to do it I'd like to know. I am reading models and it is like. That is cool, but I don't want to show …	/r/seduction	11/08/18 04:00 AM
1	How To Text Girls -- Done For You (With Examples!!) FWIW, I was being a bit pessimistic but i hope you get the point. At times it can seem demoralizingly difficult to text women. And men are all different. We have different preferences. Some of us are naturally more attractive than others. Others have to work and use techniques. Change a few sliders and the reusults are massively different. But definately there are a ton of guys that are dissapointed with how they deal with women and need help.	/r/seduction	27/05/18 06:17 PM
13	How To Text Girls -- Done For You (With Examples!!) Think about this from the typical guys perspective. We go out and attempt meet women. Half the time they reject us outright, in humiliating ways. If we continue, they will often times keep us at a distance. Sometimes other males come in and push us away. We get called perverted, predatory, dangerous, etc. etc. Lets say we actually get her number. Which has like a 1% probability. Half the time they never even respond. If they do respond it is often anemic one word answers. If not that, often time…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:05 PM
1	How To Text Girls -- Done For You (With Examples!!) So how does you telling us this help? Could you offer a way of texting women that will result in us being able to better date and attract them?	/r/seduction	26/05/18 05:15 PM
11	When a Girl Says "Work for me" This is annoying as sin because they also say "No means No". I'm fine with rejection, but I'm not fine with playing these games. I would rather move on and talk to a girl that is more grown than that. .	/r/seduction	13/05/18 12:34 AM
1	For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys. Naw I'm not a sociopath since I'm too open with my feelings. I wish I was though. The ability to conceal one's emotions well enough to get people to do what you want is essentially my ultimate goal. Or just don't have emotions whichever one is better	/r/seduction	27/04/18 12:37 PM
1	For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys. Chasing happiness is for the weak	/r/seduction	27/04/18 12:35 PM
-2	For the beginners, introverts, nerds, bad looking guys. Some thoughts. Yes yes of course. But I only really want to work out so I can look like an instagram model since I have body insecurities Um yeah. I'm an optimisitc nihilist that can't stand spirituality and loves science. We are all going to die and life has no meaning. But it doesn't matter since I can dance on someways. I have people I know. And I tell my parents I love them. But I have to realize something. None of my so called friends want to get to know me. My family doesn't understand me …	/r/seduction	27/04/18 03:19 AM
1	A Rant from a girl: Why it isn’t working for you… A couple of things. A lot of guys here aren't looking to get into relationships or really have strong female friends. Maybe some are, but that isn't the focus of game. Game is to build attraction. This is why a lot of techniques can be the same from girl to girl. But also why an expert knows that you can't do the same thing. My personal stake is to focus more on yourself and how you deal with your feelings than to try to do the same thing each time. Women as you say are individuals Getting rejec…	/r/seduction	03/04/18 02:04 PM
1	what do I do when I meet a guy at a bar and he reaches out after we part? do I make a move or wait for him? could it just be friends? ahh Most of the guys that frequent this subreddit are here to share advice about how to meet girls at bars. And, while some want romance, a lot are just here to sleep with them. So bear that in mind with some of the advice you are getting. We actually probably want to see this dude get with you as more than friends so we are going to encourage you to go for it.	/r/seduction	17/03/18 08:59 AM
1	what do I do when I meet a guy at a bar and he reaches out after we part? do I make a move or wait for him? could it just be friends? ahh Go for it.	/r/seduction	17/03/18 08:55 AM
1	Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world. Why are you asking. No one that knows will really tell you. Less compettion that way.	/r/seduction	16/03/18 04:00 AM
1	Discussion about why some women dislike shy guys At this point. If an attractive woman were to say that to me, I would assume she is really high or joking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/18 03:51 AM
1	Discussion about why some women dislike shy guys This could perhaps be the most true thing I've ever heard.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/18 03:50 AM
1	Can we discuss SeekingArrangement.com? I have done seeking arrangement for one date, but I made the decision to wait a bit until my financial situation is better but I really want to try again. My situation. I'm 31 single. I'm not wealthy, but I'm getting there. I make in the mid six figs, but I have some debts I'm dealing with. Financially, however, things are going my way and I strongly think i will have an above average net worth very soon. I've researched and most sugar babies make between 1k - 3k in allowance and I could afford …	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/01/18 03:44 AM
1	9 Signs of Male Insecurity That Turn Women Off I actually think confidence test is a better world that sounds less spiteful.	/r/seduction	07/04/17 11:58 PM
1	9 Signs of Male Insecurity That Turn Women Off no i just found this and thought it would be interesting	/r/seduction	03/04/17 02:28 AM
3	9 Signs of Male Insecurity That Turn Women Off I am always wary about posting youtube vids with ads in them. But this actually seems quite spot on and jives well with what I have been noticing lately. The thesis is that showing you are confident shows you can protect a woman and this makes her feel safe and sparks attraction.	/r/seduction	02/04/17 06:58 PM
1	Older guys (30+), how do you do this but also keep from being a social misfit given that most people your age are married and/or have kids? Welp not getting laid much but I am excited for the next decade or 2. Esp since I'm going to have MONEY . Now I don't mean to say that this means that I am planning to throw cash to impress girls but it will make logistic and shit a whole lot easier. Also I'll just be able to do more things. Go on more interesting dates. Etc. etc. I spent my 20s focusing on myself. Now I have so many skills and experience that I'm not as needy, more confident than ever, and just more capable (And interesting I t…	/r/seduction	02/04/17 09:06 AM
3	Be Unrealistic I like this philosophy	/r/seduction	02/04/17 08:29 AM
10	Boredom is why you're beta Everything but number 3. I'm literally breaking no 3 rn. Ask the NSA	/r/seduction	02/04/17 08:26 AM
0	You aren't bothering anyone when you approach and here's why Bother all strangers and give good karma	/r/seduction	05/11/16 06:39 PM
3	You aren't bothering anyone when you approach and here's why Meh. I still rather get rejected a bunch of times than live a life where I didn't try.	/r/seduction	05/11/16 06:39 PM
-6	You aren't bothering anyone when you approach and here's why Downvoted. Not constructive. The way I see it is as follows. This subreddit is about giving men confidence to approach women and enrich their live. Just because some women don't see it this way doesn't mean they should ruin it for others.	/r/seduction	05/11/16 06:38 PM
1	Field Report: First Nightgame out. You should come hang out with the dc group hmu for details.	/r/seduction	09/04/16 02:17 PM