Alecstocker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	I'm so nervous around this cutie I can't even talk. My throat literally closes up.	Conversation	Alecstocker	/r/seduction	23/12/21 10:54 PM

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0	Once I realize a girl doesn’t find me attractive, she will no longer get my attention. Of course. But often they play a confusing game to keep you hooked. I'm a bit smarter than before though at least I think so.	/r/seduction	20/09/22 04:24 AM
1	I feel like as soon as I started getting good with women, I started hating most men out there. Same. I'm very grateful. This sounds awful what OP is going through.	/r/seduction	09/09/22 06:10 PM
5	Would you prefer a relationship or having a bunch of casual sex with tons of women ? Best of luck. I think it's a difficult path we all have to walk in finding happiness with someone. Everyone's journey looks different. Peace bro.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 10:45 PM
2	Would you prefer a relationship or having a bunch of casual sex with tons of women ? Good to hear. Did it get lonely? A lot of people my age just doing casual and saying it's fun. I don't know. I'm not into that. Are you in yr 20s or 30s or older.	/r/seduction	04/09/22 10:40 PM
0	What is it like to date or have a gf? Overrated	/r/seduction	29/08/22 04:17 PM
1	I slept with 56 girls in a year and this is what I learnt... We are totally on opposite ends of the spectrum but you seem happy doing the casual thing. And if there weren't girls around willing to do this it wouldn't be possible. Do you ever see yourself in a relationship? It doesn't get lonely? These are the first questions in my mind. I have a buddy doing what you do. He seems good but sometimes gets lonely too. And how old are you? 20s or 30s or older?	/r/seduction	29/08/22 03:44 PM
1	Why do girls do this? It's so sad the games that are played today. Only gets you farther away from true love and finding someone. Many girls and some guys expect all the work to be done by the other. Let's see how much they will do to get me. And there's often a long line. It makes people disposable and ends up with treating people so unkindly. Very sad state of dating.	/r/seduction	11/08/22 02:17 PM
1	Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virgin Agreed. Both sexes should value it and themselves more. I have friends and coworkers suffering from herpes and hepatitis and it's not worth it.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 11:39 AM
3	Milf [35F] was DTF until I [25M] told her I was a virgin It's not at all a bad thing to be inexperienced. Better than being a fucboy. Wait till you find someone that will be good teaching you the ropes. MILFs are usually in it just for the sex so maybe stay away from them. At least she made her intentions clear.	/r/seduction	03/08/22 11:36 AM
2	Help me heal guys!! I don't know why you're getting so many dislikes but I can tell you are a wise person who has put a lot of thought into all this. I think it's great that you have enough self respect and pride at 23 and are not just having sex to have sex. It's a culture of do whatever feels good and I hate that. What feels good often means trashing high standards or morals. Keep being strong and continue working on number 1. I am at 28 a bit lonely sometimes. Came out of a 7 yr relationship. Lived w her. Kinda …	/r/seduction	31/07/22 02:05 PM
20	Just had another ONS and I'm starting to doubt that the lifestyle is for me You don't have to worry about explaining yourself or making all your thoughts clear to every commenter. I totally understand your thoughts. They make sense. I think you just have to figure out what you want out of every aspect in life. Figure out what's in your control and work hard on that. There is so much we cannot control. I feel good to be single at 28 after a long term live in gf but sometimes I do wonder if I should get out there more. I'm not planning on sleeping w anyone that's not a re…	/r/seduction	29/07/22 03:30 PM
2	Do people really have amazing sex lives and adventurous stories from college? I feel like I'm missing out a lot! I was in a fraternity and orgies were common. My roommate was a college athlete and that alone at a big ten university got him access to the hottest girls. While it does happen a lot depending on what circles you run in personally I think it's gross for both sexes. Rampant diseases stopped no one. And stds were so common. It's stupid. I don't care how hot a girl is. I couldn't be serious with the greatest girl that made a habit of 4 ways etc. It just shows lack of self respect. I was in the mino…	/r/seduction	21/07/22 03:42 PM
1	I’m in love with my coworker who’s taken. Do you have any advice? Hey I don't want to see you hurt. It's one thing to be head over heels with someone who has a gf but then the guy is unhappy and feels stuck due to financial reasons living together or is miserable but afraid to end it etc. And on top of that he's NOT a flirt. I was that guy...in that situation and had a crush at work. At the time had a live in gf almost 8 yrs. There was a girl I liked at work but I never flirted. I didn't cross that line. After we broke up the work crush had moved away. But whi…	/r/seduction	25/06/22 02:59 AM
4	"Kiss and fuck" Man you're a good dude. I have younger sisters and I would be proud to have someone like you date them. You didn't take advantage of a hot willing female and that certainly is rare in this day and age. As for how to act. She's prob embarrassed and should be. Just act like it never happened. Be friendly and nice. Don't bring it up unless she does. And just act like it was nothing. Just say oh don't worry about it.	/r/seduction	26/05/22 01:02 PM
1	Is it normal to be sexually attracted to older women? I love to hear a 23 year old be mature. You definitely think things through. She's lucky. I'm 27 and four years ago I wasn't as well spoken as you. I usually go for girls my age but that hasn't worked out greatly as of late. I only stuck to that cause it is the norm. But like others here say you like what you like. If I found a cute 40 yr old interested in me I'd prob go for it. A lot less drama. And if she wanted a young guy more likely not a gold digger like my ex.	/r/seduction	19/05/22 05:31 AM
2	For the haters I agree with you 100 percent man. Doing things old school is the best. You have to make an effort and conquer nerves and be brave instead of just hiding behind social anxiety. It's normal to feel nervous. It's like any anxious feelings are always chalked up nowadays to crippling anxiety. Most nervous feelings are normal and human. I never have done dating apps and never will. It's not as genuine. You can't hear the tone of their voice. See their facial expressions. They can't see you. Cold appro…	/r/seduction	17/05/22 11:34 PM
3	In your experience what are the things that you did that made girls chase you Lol. But ur prob serious. I get it. Many are equatable to snakes.	/r/seduction	03/05/22 03:30 AM
1	A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating apps Same here. They ask me for the truth but really don't want to hear it. The problem is a lot of these male catches have so many options that they don't want to settle down. My sister was with one of these catches awhile back. She held off on sex for 4 months knowing he prob had others. He came after her like crazy. Flowers. Attention. Just lavished her with texts. Calls. Gifts. I think that alone is a red flag at the beginning imo. But once she got physical he ghosted her. So he is one of those g…	/r/seduction	26/04/22 04:59 PM
1	Why do girls keep going to the toxic guy who ruins their mental health but not the one who is willing to take care of them? My question is if she's so average how does she have all these awesome successful suitors including you. Her personality must be amazing. Also girls often are self destructive. Self jeopardize anything that has to do with a good caring loving guy. They love the bad boys. Ask my little sister.	/r/seduction	23/04/22 04:08 PM
2	Should I let this one go? Hey you're right. It is hard to tell. Mixed signals suck. When she's back just ask her to lunch or coffee and be clear. Do you want to get lunch Wednesday at noon. Time and day laid out. If place decided even better. Like do you want to grab a quick bite to eat Wednesday at noon at red robin? Then her answer will be telling. If she is unclear then let her go. Plenty of other girls that will be excited and happy to go out with you. Good luck.	/r/seduction	20/04/22 01:18 PM
1	How to approach in social media to random girls through DMs? Hey if you see someone cute just be like hi I'm whomever. Can I get yr number? My buddy is 3 for 4. He gets numbers like crazy. Just an average five foot eight dude but very confident. Maybe if too nervous try to strike up conversations any way possible. Do you know of a good dry cleaning place? Anything to hear her voice (she may sound like a chipmunk lol) and you can tell if she's nice or not somewhat.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 09:33 PM
1	How to approach in social media to random girls through DMs? Read my answer below.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 08:59 PM
1	How to approach in social media to random girls through DMs? Agreed	/r/seduction	18/02/22 08:49 PM
2	How to approach in social media to random girls through DMs? See my answer. You are too young. Don't go to apps.	/r/seduction	18/02/22 08:48 PM
5	How to approach in social media to random girls through DMs? I do understand that apps are the thing nowadays. But man...try to do the real life thing as much as possible. It's just more sincere and more likely to work because you can't catfish. You talk in person. Meet in person. All that more likely to build a foundation. That being said...if online, just be casual. Never compliment their looks. My sisters hate that. Just be friendly. Don't talk about sex even jokingly. Say hi. We seem to have similar interests. Ask questions about hobbies. Tell them so…	/r/seduction	18/02/22 08:47 PM
1	Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately after Lolol	/r/seduction	17/02/22 03:51 PM
3	Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately after Lol. Exactly. 🙏	/r/seduction	17/02/22 02:18 PM
11	Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately after This comment reminded me of a hot chick in college that every guy wanted but she was aloof. One night she gave me a bj and then the next morning she insisted on taking me to church.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 02:07 PM
58	Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately after If super religious sounds like she really wanted you but then felt really ashamed thus having to block you. To ensure not tempted ever again. Don't sweat it man.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 06:17 AM
51	Had sex on first date, got blocked immediately after A "goody two shoes"...that has sex on the first date lol.	/r/seduction	17/02/22 06:13 AM
1	Valentines day for the one's in bond might be a day to plan to dream big and to play it cool. Cool	/r/seduction	13/02/22 07:17 PM
3	Valentines day for the one's in bond might be a day to plan to dream big and to play it cool. Don't get down. It's not that great on the other side. When I wasn't single it was filled with years of her never appreciating all I did and expecting too much. All the fake social media posts made it seem like she was thrilled on VD though. Enjoy single hood. I'm much happier and will be on monday.	/r/seduction	13/02/22 07:15 PM
5	How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against you Exactly. If the girl felt threatened by OP why invite him over and sleep w him a total stranger that yr friends "warned" about.	/r/seduction	06/02/22 10:49 PM
135	How to deal with close female friends who you find out are warning women against you Maybe they don't think you're creepy but just a player? If you actually feel they are two faced assholes then ditch them and find new frds that won't betray you. Friends who stick together and accept your quirks and flaws and embrace the good.	/r/seduction	06/02/22 05:14 PM
1	[deleted by user] The longer you wait the chances don't go down. Do you mean some guy might snatch her up before you? Just find a way to talk to her any chance you get! Since you work together I'm sure you ll bump into her in the break room? Parties? Just say hi and then if you see her again start a casual normal conversation. Like how are you. How's work going. Just relax and be chill. I reread it. You talked already. Just wait till you are alone and do it. Or give her yr digits. It's very hard for all of us dud…	/r/seduction	05/02/22 01:26 AM
6	Going up and talking to an attractive woman as a newbie is legitimately hard. Instead break up the approach into easily digestible goals Sounds good. This is achievable and builds confidence. Good tips. Thx bro.	/r/seduction	04/02/22 06:03 PM
2	What’s wrong with people on the sub? That's the sad part. We all have power to help or ruin someone's situation. I hope people can see through bs and hate. I feel scared for the young like teens.	/r/seduction	03/02/22 04:35 PM
0	What’s wrong with people on the sub? 😆 lol	/r/seduction	03/02/22 03:44 PM
1	What’s wrong with people on the sub? Lol. I'm unsure. Maybe not.	/r/seduction	03/02/22 03:22 PM
6	What’s wrong with people on the sub? Agreed. It is miserable and hateful 99 percent of the time but the rare gem of a positive and sincere commentor or someone who seems to benefit from advice is the draw.	/r/seduction	03/02/22 02:42 PM
21	What’s wrong with people on the sub? I take reddit with a grain of salt. Some are here just to argue or troll and it's such a turn off. Try to weed through haters and just find that one comment that supports and helps you. The only great thing about it is the anonymity. You can ask so many personal questions that are hard to ask your inner circle of friends. I have to admit that there was one time this summer that a comment really opened up my eyes to something I never would have seen that way. In the long run it turned out they we…	/r/seduction	03/02/22 02:38 PM
-6	I asked her out, she said she doesn't know me much A lot sure are. I hate one sided conversations. A lot of even cute girls nowadays are cut from the same cookie cutter. A lot just addicted to sm and buying stuff and complaining about everyone. My last couple of dates all that way. That to me is boring me.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 07:39 PM
9	I asked her out, she said she doesn't know me much Did you really say she's boring? She's prob pissed low key. Seriously.	/r/seduction	01/02/22 04:32 PM
11	So should I take it as an annoyed expression? First off I wouldn't let any of this bother you. Girls esp cute ones are on sm for the attention. I have sisters. Trust me. No way she would actually show the world her morning face without having taken several pictures with make up on and different angles. No way. Your compliment is the exact kind of attention she was hoping for. She screenshotted for that reason to show off to friends how gorgeous she is. Don't sweat it. I agree don't give her what she's seeking so easily. Only because it just…	/r/seduction	27/01/22 04:56 PM
1	So is hitting on people while they’re at work always bad? Cause if you like a specific person and that’s the only place you know where they’re at, what then? No. Gotta try. Don't overthink. Your gut is usually correct. Don't psych yourself out. Read my comment to your original post. Girls try to avoid eye contact generally unless they think you are attractive to them.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 04:51 PM
1	So is hitting on people while they’re at work always bad? Cause if you like a specific person and that’s the only place you know where they’re at, what then? I don't think it's bad at all. I see a lot of posts like this recently. If you read my posts and comments I'm all for it. Exactly. If it's a specific girl. That's the place you see them then no choice. Not like in college where you see them all the time in different places and parties. There is absolutely nothing wrong with it.	/r/seduction	25/01/22 04:47 PM
1	How to stop being intimated by hot girls? Lol	/r/seduction	22/01/22 11:15 PM
1	How to stop being intimated by hot girls? Exactly. Many hot girls and guys I'm sure. But at least half are crazy or have serious issues like drugs, bad with money, gold diggers etc...	/r/seduction	22/01/22 11:13 PM
1	She said she's not trying to see anyone after first date Don't sweat it. Also when a girl says she's not that type of girl it often means she is...you probably dodged a bullet.	/r/seduction	21/01/22 11:29 PM
1	Am I bad if I just want sex? Sounds really lonely and sad yet bro a lot of guys would kill to be in yr shoes...hope you find a cool wholesome and beautiful girl...🙂	/r/seduction	20/01/22 02:43 AM
1	How to compete? Hey man. You got this. They might go for the athletes but usually they are f boys. No matter how hot the girl is once they have her they ll look for the next in line. These girls will get their hearts broken. Some won't care. The ones that do will see that regular guys are the best. Just try talking to any girls for practice. They might have cute frds.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 11:42 PM
2	Am I bad if I just want sex? You get sick of it? I'm not into the casual sex thing but some of my buddies are. None of them talk about the downs. What are some of them bro? Everyone glamourizing FWB or one night stands. Sonetimes I feel like the odd man out lol.	/r/seduction	19/01/22 11:28 PM
1	Can you hit on waitress, cashier etc. Lol.	/r/seduction	08/01/22 06:40 PM
1	Do as much small talk as possible Proud of you. Not easy.	/r/seduction	25/12/21 10:35 PM
3	Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response? I agree. Even the most amazing ones doubt themselves but within a certain degree is acceptable.	/r/seduction	22/12/21 07:17 PM
3	Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response? We can at least agree it's immature.	/r/seduction	22/12/21 04:57 PM
5	Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response? Well I guess let the first time go. If she keeps doing it just say something like you know other girls hit on me but I don't feel the need to tell you. I don't flirt back. I'm respectful enough to not tell you either. So why do you feel you have to tell me?	/r/seduction	22/12/21 04:04 PM
22	Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response? Also trying to make you jealous shows such insecurity. Don't go down that road.	/r/seduction	22/12/21 04:04 AM
0	Girl brings up other guys hitting on her. Best response? Good for you. I hope you gave them yr digits.	/r/seduction	22/12/21 04:03 AM
1	How to snap a girl your interested in? Lol. Totally. It's bs. Like you get a false sense of knowing someone.	/r/seduction	21/12/21 04:26 PM
1	I’m a reformed fuck boy who’s had sex with way too many women over the last 10 years and I fell in love after 5 minutes of meeting my new girl How old are you? Congrats. Great feeling...	/r/seduction	14/12/21 12:49 AM
1	Terrible Oneitis, how to get over this? Hey dude. I feel your pain. You are not abnormal at all. I broke up with my 7 year gf and I'm starting to look at my freedom and possible girls. I have a huge crush on someone I work with but I've never talked to her. I can't seem to find my voice. I get so nervous. She has said hi and I ignore her. I'm 27 and wonder what my problem is. She probably thinks there's something wrong w me. I'm totally cool talking to other girls. I'm in the same boat. I also think about her and what it would be like…	/r/seduction	10/12/21 02:50 PM