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27

This btw is what going to support services can sound like. That you can better understand "women's plight." If they believe you in the first place.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/07/26 07:21 AM
6

My first thought seeing this.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/07/26 09:17 PM
28

Ironic, the person I know who's been most passionate about the WC has been a woman. I'm frankly a bit envious. She's super passionate about it but I just can't get myself that excited for something I'm not actively taking part in.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 08:49 AM
16

Even the stuff that isn't smut is often things like "Feminine Revenge" and "Weird Girl" fiction which is...well it's either slop or actively concerning when someone says they like the title.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/07/26 04:47 AM
5

Do they really want to toss around genderization with the topic of dishwashing? That is not going to go well for them.
/r/EverydayMisandry08/07/26 06:14 PM
17

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/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/26 03:06 AM
11

And they wonder why male victims won’t speak up That's the idea, they don't wonder they want this outcome.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/06/26 03:00 AM
2

The patriarchy is already inside your skin.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/05/26 01:40 AM
6

Oh oof. I just removed those comments too.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/26 06:24 AM
18

By this logic do they think misogyny also causes misandry too? Or is this like a "we're special" kind of thing?
/r/EverydayMisandry12/05/26 07:08 PM
12

It's more to do with the fact that sub is poorly moderated than any actual content. Things are selectively removed and the sole active mod can take days to get to somethings and then goes at the queue with an axe.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/05/26 02:42 PM
21

My friend group has men ranging from 19 at the youngest to 40s at the oldest. The women in it are all closer to my age and my girlfriend is older than I am. The hell is this "you will never..." shit?
/r/EverydayMisandry30/04/26 05:52 AM
7

I'm aware, I've looked at that book before. Have to wonder who the Palestinians are supposed to be in this exchange.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/26 03:36 AM
22

Would not it be easier for everyone like this to self isolate on an island instead?
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/26 12:34 AM
8

What kind of menslib shit is this?
/r/EverydayMisandry29/03/26 06:08 AM
3

Butlerian Jihad when? When do we rise up and declare Jihad on the profane machines? As was foretold in Dune.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/26 10:40 PM
23

What, you're not invited to the weekly patriarchy meetings?
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/26 10:25 PM
4

Butlerian Jihad when?
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/26 10:24 PM
11

You shouldn't use AI to do ANY of those things.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/03/26 10:01 PM
18

This argument would only make sense if women were forced to get pregnant on a mass scale. Since that is the reason they're not drafted they would be made to contribute in that way. But they're not as it stands the draft is a societal obligation only one side has to follow.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/03/26 10:34 AM
37

"Reproducitve rights" was brought up last time someone made an exchange like you suggest. Which is...lol.
/r/EverydayMisandry23/03/26 10:19 PM
3

"Did you personally investigate every Wehrmacht solider to determine if they hated Slavs?"
/r/EverydayMisandry18/03/26 10:06 PM
3

Based on context it seems that "they" are the feminists.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/03/26 09:58 PM
5

Are the only two options you think are possible just a dichotomy of patriarchy-matriarchy?
/r/EverydayMisandry18/03/26 09:32 PM
54

Me watching eugenics enter a person's body the moment they're presented with an "acceptable target."
/r/EverydayMisandry02/03/26 12:59 AM
13

No there's just more people openly calling it out and trying to push back now. But it's not gone down if anything it's taken on a "defensiveness" to it that the perpetrators use as an excuse to double down.
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/26 10:40 AM
23

The error in their first line irks me.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/02/26 07:06 AM
21

My girlfriend treats me like a princess lol. I love her.
/r/EverydayMisandry15/02/26 01:54 AM
14

I'd say a good portion of her mentality with that quote comes from ignorance.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/02/26 08:38 PM
25

I will never forgive Atwood for that Godforsaken quote.
/r/EverydayMisandry14/02/26 08:15 PM
13

This conversation has passed through LWMA too. The concerns are largely the same.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/02/26 05:18 PM
6

I'm tired boss. I don't want more of this in the other direction, I just want it gone.
/r/EverydayMisandry05/02/26 10:40 PM
23

>Zoe Strimpel Does this count as a woman explaining our problems to us?
/r/EverydayMisandry26/01/26 01:01 AM
46

I'm uncertain how that island works but aren't there anti-discrimination laws in place?
/r/EverydayMisandry22/01/26 08:40 PM
83

Ironic that this sort of gotcha can be uno-reversed on the same woman saying it.
/r/EverydayMisandry18/01/26 07:36 PM
34

Incredibly rare moment where that sub actually calls out an asshole properly.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/25 08:44 PM
14

I cleaned my dorms bathrooms my first semester in college before I was allowed to apply for degree relevant jobs. The illusion I had that women were cleaner than men from growing up with an overbaring mother was completely obliterated. Guy's bathrooms were lowkey messy 24/7 with occasional disasters. The girl's bathrooms were like completely clean for 3 days then it looked like a literal murder scene. There is a reason that you're not supposed to 'hover' or flush sanitary items.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/25 07:51 PM
29

Who ever says this about toilet aiming skills has never had to clean a woman's bathroom.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/12/25 05:36 PM
3

Fucking true that, man.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/25 03:42 PM
2

You know the "witchy" types? Every spent measurable time with one irl? Just think of them as edgier tradcon "cottagecore" grifter women and it starts to make a whole lot more sense. They're just the other face of the same coin.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/25 03:42 PM
6

Mine made me a sub.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/25 03:13 AM
28

Why does this feel vaguely homophobic?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/12/25 02:50 AM
6

I have faith one day that island will be civilized.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/12/25 07:24 PM
29

This for the record is why LWMA doesn't approve relationship posts anymore. It's easy fodder for the whiners to say "SEE! They don't care about serious things! Look here's a post where they talk about things I find trivial!" And we shouldn't say "incel" and give the term legitimacy. Least of all in the same format as the trite "that's not feminism that's just misandry."
/r/EverydayMisandry09/12/25 02:59 PM
44

You think you'd be free of that under that system? lmao.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/12/25 02:53 PM
39

I'll never forgive Atwood for sparking this shit off.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/12/25 12:51 PM
9

You underestimate exactly how much misandry I see on the askreddit sub when this kind of thing is posed.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/12/25 12:11 PM
11

Let me guess, this was ask reddit?
/r/EverydayMisandry07/12/25 06:33 AM
11

RWBY is literally a feminist fantasy. Like that's it's genre, that's not me insulting it that is what the setting is for better or worse. The creative team intentionally loaded that sort of worldview into it at all moments. The very design of the setting's mechanics and writing is based around this. If I made a setting where magic is rare to the point of non-existent (semblances and dust are specifically said in story to not be magic) and four of the most powerful forms of it was male only I wou…
/r/EverydayMisandry05/12/25 04:33 PM
3

Btw, Sakura, big fan of your comments in that stupidpol thread a few days back.
/r/EverydayMisandry01/12/25 07:55 AM
18

He won't be happy you unbelievable chucklefuck because the experiment was unethical, you don't know the class or demographics involved, and the experiment used REALLY shaky procedures but that doesn't matter so long as it can reinforce your brain-baked worldview. And it's wild to claim this because female prison guards (and prisoners, assaults are common in women's prisons) are shown to be incredibly abusive.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/11/25 10:16 PM
3

Alexandra Kollontai predicted what they'd turn into she even criticized the ones that were around back in her day. Basically called them a bougie movement that wasn't interested in uniting anyone but rather in advancing the class positions of upper-middle and middle class women.
/r/EverydayMisandry30/11/25 03:08 AM
4

And people are in disbelief that I left the movement a decade ago after my assault. This, shit like this.
/r/EverydayMisandry29/11/25 04:21 PM
7

One I knew in college would do things like "Hey guys, 10 at 4 oclock. Don't make it obvious." And then fist bump us afterwards. Another was the only woman I've met that could properly tell you the difference between a smoothbore and rifling. Or what a "houfnice" was. She also drank whisky and smoked cigars. I'm fairly certain if she was into guys she'd have her pick of them with interests like that.
/r/EverydayMisandry25/11/25 01:52 AM
14

...we do? Like the ones that are chill with guys are often fun to hang out with.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 11:51 PM
25

The book itself isn't misandrist exactly with the author's input but there's a disturbing about of women I've run into in lit spaces that unironically identify or admire the false accuser. Which is...disturbing at best. Like do you know how many times I've seen it brought up in the context of the "feminine rage" genre or in the context of a woman's revenge or power fantasy?
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 02:01 PM
26

Some of the book req subs here platform it too. I bailed on some for this reason. I don't know if this counts as self promotion but it's topical: r.booksuggestions removes misandry.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 04:49 AM
107

>Works for a men's shelter I can see which of the siblings is worth a damn. I will pretend this is bait, it'd be too on the nose if I didn't run into to people that unironically think this before.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 04:48 AM
45

"Am I a credit to my race too?"
/r/EverydayMisandry24/11/25 01:00 AM
10

"You mean she doesn't treat me like shit and actually likes being around me? No shit I'm gonna 'pick' her."
/r/EverydayMisandry23/11/25 01:01 PM
53

It matters to them because it gives them a monopoly on the conversation of sexism. If you frame it in such a way you shift men to the position of the afterthought.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/25 11:15 PM
24

Ah this shit again. Just saw it a while ago on an askreddit question almost word for word. There was a post on LWMA covering the same thing about a week ago. Shit's nuts and I have no idea why the misandrists are trying to play up this narrative all of a sudden.
/r/EverydayMisandry20/11/25 10:55 PM
47

Bruh...you don't have to have sexual contact with someone to be accused of it.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/11/25 05:55 AM
1

Twitch too, it's infamous for it even before the SA video.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/11/25 10:02 PM
13

Well girls wanted to be the knights in shining armor we get to be the damsels this turn
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/25 11:58 PM
20

Must have been a different 10 years ago for me. I don't remember this at all.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/25 06:44 PM
2

First link is a 404 now.
/r/EverydayMisandry22/10/25 11:31 AM
33

Giving women agency is muhsogyny.
/r/EverydayMisandry21/10/25 01:52 PM
15

While I don't think change petitions do much on their own this is at least a step towards the right direction. More guys are speaking out about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/10/25 06:49 AM
15

Fuck you, I'm using it more now.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/10/25 05:02 AM
19

Fun fact Dworkin was a zionist. Make of that what you will.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/25 06:25 AM
34

Interesting to me how easily segregation came back into vogue.
/r/EverydayMisandry11/10/25 06:22 AM
13

...That sounds like exactly what feminism is now.
/r/EverydayMisandry09/10/25 11:23 PM
18

Eh...what?
/r/EverydayMisandry07/10/25 11:14 PM
46

Reddit has been atrocious at enforcing that equally and there was that infamous leaked chat log where one of the admins said misandry didn't count. That's why these recent bans are so shocking, reddit would never have even tried to do this in the past.
/r/EverydayMisandry07/10/25 10:07 PM
2

Deflection will never end with them.
/r/EverydayMisandry06/10/25 12:22 AM
47

Based mom.
/r/EverydayMisandry27/09/25 07:03 PM
32

Not that I don't think it should be tried but I doubt they'll care. I can tell you that they are very tolerant of hate when it's expressed this way.
/r/EverydayMisandry24/09/25 07:03 PM
92

Men get diabetes and neuropathy and I'm still waiting on doctors to get off their ass and fix both.
/r/EverydayMisandry17/09/25 07:03 PM
10

They know, they don't care. The concept of "say what you actually mean" is either completely lost on them or they're fine with disparaging an entire group.
/r/EverydayMisandry12/09/25 08:25 PM
49

They never will. It's helpful to their narratives so they'll ignore anything to the contrary.
/r/EverydayMisandry10/09/25 05:23 PM
1

You know...I really wasn't expecting this twist today. But given how that sub is run it makes sense.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/25 05:49 AM
1

Isn't there a mod app process that appears in the upper right part of the screen? That's how I applied to others in the past.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/08/25 07:56 PM
55

You should see the rest of the tropes that cover things like this. The double standards tropes have some relevant ones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/25 06:06 AM
6

marmite A what now?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/25 09:18 AM
32

I already do this sometimes. It makes the cognitive dissonance hit harder in a way that might force them to evaluate it. Even if they reject it in that moment that's a seed of doubt planted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/25 04:32 AM
5

Any advice or stories to share by any chance? If you make it in be prepared for the possibility that your job might be off shored with no warning and a lot of the people you report to will be completely unqualified to so much as turn on a computer nevermind actually do anything. Ironically I changed to software because physical therapy (in the United States) is not in a good place and I wanted another way to go haha You are a physical therapist?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/25 12:24 AM
18

I'm trying to career change. It's just slim pickings in software right now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/07/25 08:26 PM
17

France is pretty infamous for that glaring hole in their system. Not the only one either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/25 08:58 AM
2

Seems to be the common human experience anymore.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/25 08:49 AM
3

Wonder who in the west still does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/25 08:15 AM
19

It is the principle of the matter. If discriminatory behavior is not challenged, especially legally, then people feel emboldened or at least permitted to keep doing it. It's less about the individual act and more about attacking the trend. I know France isn't as litigious as say the US or Canada but this is how civil rights were strengthened and protected over there.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/25 05:55 AM
32

Does France have anti-discrimination laws?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/06/25 04:26 AM
29

I got it when I was 21. The "highly recommended" services didn't take me seriously. At all. If anything most of them made matters worse. I had to figure all of it out on my own. I can't help but think, seeing all the endless support from both institutions and society at large that is directed at one sex but not the other that if I weren't a man...I'd have been allowed to get help long ago.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/05/25 05:02 AM
2

Norah Vincent probably. She was a woman who put her money where her mouth is and paid a steep price in her mental and emotional health.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/05/25 01:02 AM
3

You should see the reading suggestion subs too.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/25 07:19 PM
11

It's probably the biggest step towards it. I keep seeing posts on the ask subs and the reading/writing subs about "how do we get young men and boys to read more." The answers are always disappointing because your point is rarely addressed and when it is it gets dismissed by everyone else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/04/25 07:16 PM
3

Media gives me the impression of "consumable media."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 10:32 PM
31

The average man in real-life don't even what the manosphere is. And male loneliness epidemic existed way before Andrew Tate, the red-pill, or the Manosphere got popular in the 2020s. For fuck sakes even most Conservatives don't like the manosphere. Because these guys have finge views on gender. The issue is the "manosphere" has a fluid definition to these people. According to some of them this sub is a part of the manosphere. They like using it that way for the same reasons they won't shut up ab…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 03:25 PM
27

People love saying it doesn't exist one moment yet proclaiming they're "proud misandrists" and "It's totally justified". This is why I bailed on the 'suggest me a book' sub. Lot of casual but not explicit misandry but then came a cross a post with a woman describing herself as a "proud misandrist" and looking for books like that. The comment section was appalling because it did everything you just said. Like by denying it existed but the same users in different comments would talk about how "wom…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/04/25 03:17 PM
8

I'm trying to soft-peddle what I'm saying, there's libs in here and I'm hoping they see what I'm getting at rather than feel attacked.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/25 05:38 PM
76

"Swing left" might be a reach. The data presented just shows that people don't like Trump which comes as no surprise. And with a lack of any real left-wing options people would normally just go to the dems instead but they're not popular either. In fact the only thing they have going for them (and foundationally all they ran on the last few elections) is that they're not Trump. This also isn't helped by the fact liberal and even actual left-leaning groups don't do a whole lot for men. The right …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/04/25 05:49 AM
168

When you're used to deafening silence a faint whisper sounds like thunder overhead.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/25 05:23 AM
24

If by "wave" you mean "since I started using this site" yeah I suppose so.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 06:43 AM
91

One of the students I used to tutor was bullied to suicide with it's use. The district he was in did fuck all about it because they didn't consider it a real insult. I consider it to be one especially considering it's often used to harass and bully ASDs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/03/25 01:13 AM
5

All the bait-y disingenuous ones with a lot of downvotes and the username has a lot of caps, that's him?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/25 07:57 AM
67

Well MensLib is a joke. It's controlled opposition meant to keep the discussion under the thumb of feminist theory, they won't help us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 10:27 PM
74

First time I'm hearing about this sub and I have to wonder how they managed to make AITA even worse.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/08/24 09:10 PM
1

Well the fact these questions are being asked is achieving that already, at least to those that will listen. You want to direct them here go for it as I've said we're already getting attention to it right now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 12:38 AM
8

The point is, if you read between the lines, is that means it already is hitting notoriety and volume.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 12:24 AM
26

There's people already bitching about all the posts on the two ask subs that mention it. Some claiming that it's a right wing distraction from Pride month (Lol. Lmao even.) While others are just shitting on the idea from a feminist angle.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/06/24 12:10 AM
3

"Critical" Lol. Lmao even.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/05/24 12:45 AM
17

Lmao this is just a rebranded "bowl of M&Ms" nonsense from tumblr like 10 years ago. They didn't even bother changing it up. So the same counters can be used. The argument can be applied to ANY minority group. Racial, sexual, ethnic, religious. It can also be applied to women. I know I can certainly make that argument to be a misogynist if I wanted to considering all my abusers WERE women. But I'm not so petty as to take my own hang ups and use them as a template with which to blame half the hum…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/05/24 09:00 AM
7

South Korea's doesn't shock me as much as it should. What's up with the UK though?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/24 09:04 PM
6

I don't care about it, gender is a waste of time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/24 07:41 AM
86

There's a reason there's an alt sub to that one now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/02/24 06:22 AM
22

Autism is a huge issue that needs awareness, until it comes to dating, then people pretend it literally doesn't exist Or they pretend it's a red flag. It's taken as a sign of the 'ick' even if they can't tell until the diagnosis is disclosed. It's also very common now for incel to be used as an insult for boys and young men with an ASD diagnosis. The words might as well have a one for one overlap with how it's used.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 02:18 AM
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Dipshit smoothbrains on reddit will still come out to defend her in droves. Last time it became topical on one of the ask subs it was shocking how many people were still acting like she was an innocent victim. I though it had become a more fringe idea; ha no.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/24 01:14 AM
29

There's a dark implication for consent in the case of assault here.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/12/23 04:07 PM
33

Because it forces them to look in the mirror and realize their responsibility to the problem. It also forces them to admit that shit isn't all sunshine and rainbows for men when their ideology requires that men be better off in general. It allows men to be treated as victims when the whole concept of privileged groups puts people into rigid categories that are either "have" or "have not" using immutable characteristics instead of class as a defining trait. It also breaks the idea they have that …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/23 01:17 AM
10

is Gordon Ramsay feminine? He certainly sounds like my mother in the kitchen...
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/23 08:28 PM
2

I hate that axiom because it's bullshit. It's meant to obscure and downplay the reality of male-female interactions. It's one of those things that people who think men in all areas are "privileged" as if societal roles are measured on a one dimensional axis. My greatest fear in a relationship is dating another date rapist in waiting. Or dating a functional diagnosis and not finding out how bad it is until it's too late. I've seen enough of these case second or third hand to be wary and know they…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/09/23 02:20 AM
9

Incompetent Male-Hypercompetent Female duo. Treasure Planet subverted it a bit with the goofy Doctor saving the day while the professional and highly trained female captain was rather useless during the climax. Double Standard Rape: Female-on-Male and Double Standard Abuse: Female-on-Male. Both for the same reason. It shows that heinous acts become acceptable and even fun when the target changes. If you're a man that's gone through either what are you supposed to take away from that? I want to s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/23 07:01 PM
1

I'm screwed then.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 12:45 PM
1

Because there have been subs like that in the past that the admins went full dumbfuck mode on and nuked for just being associated with other nuked subs even though the purpose was to do the opposite of the nuked sub.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 10:57 PM
1

Maybe. Not a lot of activity though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 09:04 PM
1

I'm shocked reddit lets that stay up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 08:41 PM
23

A bit of an aside to your question (I'll come back once I give it more thought), we should really make a subreddit for helping young men with this sort of thing. Most of the regular subs about this tend to get toxic.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/22 07:43 PM
2

That's more to our detriment than to our benefit
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/22 01:29 AM
13

Zero is still a higher number than negative numbers.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/22 01:47 PM
51

Not that it's particularly hard for the right to appeal to men that feel dumped on. All they have to be to draw in men is to not be openly hostile to them. It's a low bar but without meaningful ideological competition it doesn't have to be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/22 09:22 PM
1

This is why "in and of itself" was used.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/10/22 11:53 AM
6

No the dismissal isn't in and of itself "systematic" but that doesn't mean that misandry isn't systematic. It absolutely is. Think of all the institutional level things that are either double standards, advantages for women and against men, and all the control that certain groups have over keeping it that way (the textbook definition of reactionary). If you want to see if something is "systematic" you typically want to see how much it exists on an "institutional" level. Simple cultural trends wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/10/22 06:32 PM
14

MensLib could perhaps be best described as a radical feminist psyop "Controlled opposition" is the term you're looking for. It's to make it look like they care and do listen while it's like a suggestion box that doubles as a shredder. They neither care nor listen and do it entirely to deflect criticism. They only approach male topics with feminist lenses so you know right from the get go they are inherently not thinking about things from a male perspective. It's a space to support feminism as an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/06/22 08:34 PM
10

It could be a one off and the admin that did it will be facing the wall any second now.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/06/22 11:35 AM
6

Rape. I wish my rape was taken seriously so I could have gotten the support and help I needed right away instead I got mocked by help services and turned away from resources and shelters. After how they treated me like I was the guilty party I was too terrified to report anything to the police.
/r/MensRights27/02/22 05:56 AM
27

The DMV is an initialism of "Department of Motor Vehicles" in most American states and is widely known for inept and inefficient bureaucracy handled by low skilled and unmotivated state workers. Because most of the population has to deal with them for licenses and simple IDs most people are aware of what dealing with them is like. DMV has basically become synonymous with "pain in my ass". In an effort to avoid this unfortunate reputation some state DMVs have taken steps to either improve the pub…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/22 04:02 AM
38

And that will just run afoul of the "DMV" problem. What's preventing the same smear jobs happening?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/22 12:19 AM
14

Ok, what happened this time?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/02/22 11:52 AM
12

I like saying "It's like bashing your skull into a brick wall, you'll achieve nothing and walk away with brain-damage".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 07:19 PM
14

I can't keep up with these initialisms. What's TLM?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 12:15 PM
8

I've heard the promises enough to be a bit more jaded on this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/02/22 06:00 AM
3

Of course it has. Not even a mod post on why either. We should really make a alt of that sub to make sure it isn't coopted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/22 02:55 AM
1

Yeah she's why I'm surprised.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/22 01:52 AM
6

I will always be a strong proponent of mentorship programs Even for more than just social skills. Best experiences I had in education fit this sort of thing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/22 09:34 PM
26

I'm a bit surprised it's been allowed to stay up. I did write something on there but I overshared a bit and ended up deleting it. Still I'm happy others are using the chance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/01/22 08:45 AM
2

Perhaps, I treated her too harshly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/21 04:39 PM
16

There's also the issue of "positive discrimination" shutting out positions in jobs and education. Think of the demographic changes of people entering colleges and how some people think this widening disparity is a "good thing".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/10/21 09:39 PM
12

I'm just glad I won't be on my old campus for this. Social media I can ignore.
/r/MensRights01/10/21 03:51 AM
36

"We're a men's group" "So you support our group too right?" "No no no, only we can speak for you."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/21 01:48 AM
5

You shouldn't. If you're like me then I'd say you have plenty of excuse to but you shouldn't hate half of the world's population. You're just as bad as the rabid misandrists if you can't see past the surface level feelings.
/r/MensRights21/09/21 07:05 AM
5

...I think I'm stupid. I interpreted the question to be "the character changes sex in the story" trope and I was getting real confused by some of the responses until your's made me realize it was "make the character the opposite sex from the get go".
/r/MensRights10/09/21 05:05 PM
4

Doesn't this play right into the hands of their own boogymen and strawmen? No casual sex sounds really puritanical to me. The very people that support an abortion ban are likely giddy at getting a twofer.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 03:10 AM
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If we lived in a just world she'd be in prison for fraud afterwards. But I know better.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 02:51 AM
22

As well you should. If you're agreeing with everything someone says you should step back and reevaluate, just in case, no matter who it is.
/r/MensRights08/09/21 02:45 AM
7

Where you can still post but your content is either invisible to other users that don't have direct links or the algorithm pushes them so low they might as well be invisible. Reddit and Quora practice the same thing.
/r/MensRights31/08/21 07:52 PM
12

Bezos' wife helped him when the company was being founded and small time. Not sure about the Gates. Either way these are two men I'm not crying over. They're a pair of elites and a lot of their wealth is from the fruits of other people's labor and by being ruthless to the competition.
/r/MensRights26/08/21 07:23 PM
2

I've taken the stance that we're a counterbalance not a supremacy movement. The moment the things I care about are achieved my support stops or at least suspends until it's needed gain. When it continues past a tangible end-goal it just becomes an excuse to perpetuate and becomes reactionary identitarianism. Not like we haven't seen that happen before... The fine line I believe that should be walked. ​ howeve manny social and legal issues wouldn't exactly be solved under socialism One of my bigg…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/08/21 05:30 PM
5

Good, goooood. Let the solidarity flow through you. Unfortunately, there are many that would also call this particular area of advocacy to be itself IDPOL.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/21 04:00 PM
8

I thought I saw it somewhere else before this. You're a stupidpoler?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/21 03:00 PM
51

In what way are "pick up artists" supposed to be related to MR?
/r/MensRights22/08/21 03:11 AM
10

They can do it with any topic. I know a honey badger that's had her stuff nuked under the same policy. Most moderation is automated so they only look at keywords or the number of reports but coordinated false reporting is quite common and certain accounts are given more weight than others when reporting something. The rules are also incredibly vague which makes matters worse. As I said they lack nearly all transparency.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/21 11:11 PM
17

Yes. It's one of those social media bullshits. It has a very vague definition so the platform has a catch all excuse to remove anything they want. Its one of the things that makes Quora lack any reasonable level of transparency.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/21 10:13 PM
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It was heartbreaking hearing the stores of men who were abused as children for the sin of being bourn male over on qora it was pain full listen to there stories on reddit. I posted my stories on Quora a couple of years ago. Someone I know asked why I took them down. I didn't, Quora removed them for violating the "BN;BR" policy and didn't tell me. Which tells me one of their moderators intentionally removed them and it wasn't automated as you're usually told when something is deleted or collapsed…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/08/21 09:35 PM
1

Fight back against the disinformation feminists spread. Promote acceptance of men coming forward. Offer support when you can.
/r/MensRights20/08/21 01:08 AM
2

Case in point
/r/MensRights17/08/21 09:28 PM
8

Some people on another site described this site as the "preschool of the internet" and I'm tempted to agree with that statement.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 12:19 AM
7

How does she compare to further left people?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/08/21 12:02 AM
44

When we started complaining about men getting put on the register for stupid shit and wanted more leniency for them this is not what we meant.
/r/MensRights16/08/21 11:57 PM
4

I wonder if other men have formed close relationships with other men? A friend of mine I've known since middle school. Also a priest my family knew who was the first person to take me seriously after I told him I was raped by my then girlfriend. Everyone else I told, from school counselors to helplines, acted like it was a joke. Both of them have proven I can tell them anything in confidence.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 07:46 PM
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There's a post topping TrueOffMyChest right now whining about these subreddits comparing them to r/incels. The entire comment sections acts like the roles are reversed and the men's subreddits outnumber the feminist and misandrist ones, it's bizarre.
/r/MensRights14/08/21 07:35 PM
4

Evidence also shows that 80% of those who rape men are women. Gives me some very mixed feelings. On the one hand: I'm not as alone as I thought. On the other hand...I'm not as alone as I thought.
/r/Male_Studies14/08/21 03:22 PM
5

So does that mean they kicked Koss out on her ass?
/r/MensRights12/08/21 04:43 PM
2

I do really want cuddling to be fair.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/21 09:44 AM
1

I'm reminded of that notorious tumblr post that made the rounds at least once a year back in the day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/21 08:21 AM
3

They did that long before the sub got popular not they just coordinate it from there.
/r/MensRights08/08/21 12:53 AM
7

The orthodox have a few, they're just not the patriarchy everyone thinks about.
/r/MensRights07/08/21 11:26 AM
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I had a "sexologist" come in during one of those God awful seminars and say something similar along with "a man is still responsible if he is drunk."
/r/MensRights06/08/21 12:08 PM
1

awkwardturtle is a powermod and one of the most notorious examples. They are very guilty of the stereotype that power mods can and will subvert a subreddit to their own biases.
/r/Male_Studies03/08/21 07:25 PM
1

A notorious and stereotypical powermod
/r/Male_Studies03/08/21 09:47 AM
5

Can't help but wonder how it counts if you're not firmly in white or non-white categories.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/21 09:34 PM
6

I remember one telling me how after presenting as a man every one seems to be afraid od him or nervous around him. It wasn't big things it was subtle things that they could pick up on. Body language, word choice, how close people stood, the general etiquette towards them. I dunno how much of it was them reading too much into it and how much was just his actual difference of treatment. Though I wonder how much actually got to him because after the change in presentation he started being for lack …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/07/21 06:11 PM
24

My ex was a date rapist. I have in fact been told, more than once, it was my fault for "pushing her to that point".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/21 10:17 AM
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You don't get noticed when you met expectations and do everything right. You get noticed when you screw up.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/21 04:53 PM
17

God forbid the media do something useful for a change.
/r/MensRights14/07/21 04:30 PM
15

Unfortunately it's not limited to "girls". There's a lot of self flagellating men involved.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/07/21 09:00 PM
5

First time I heard that as "forced envelopment". I've always heard it called "made/forced to penetrate".
/r/MensRights29/06/21 05:38 AM
23

Da ba dee ba dab aaa
/r/MensRights11/06/21 02:30 AM
3

Is it tinfoil hat if there's enough shining through the facade to hint at it? Just like how after occupy things really shifted gears and IDPOL worship got a kickstart from MSM. It was just dividing tactics to keep everyone at each other's throats.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/06/21 02:14 AM
11

There is no greater hate subreddit than AHS. I find it incredibly hilarious that it's shitlist can be used as a shopping list for some people though.
/r/MensRights10/06/21 11:49 PM
19

Hell, I've seen them call actual Marxists - ALT RIGHT. It's probably because a lot of marxists reject IDPOL wholesale. Something that a lot of people shrieking about the alt-right care a LOT about pushing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/06/21 07:24 AM
6

No, it's not shocking. What's really shocking is the complete indifference (if not outright callousness) that the general population displays towards it.
/r/MensRights07/06/21 06:06 PM
7

For many that's easier said than done. I was trying to see one through a hospital's trauma department. When I explicitly asked for a male one the offended "specialist" responded by threatening me with my area's equivalent of a 5150.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/21 05:32 AM
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It's the hardest part by far. Wading through the bullshit to find the good shit as the saying goes. Out of a dozen or so I tried in the past couple years I've found 1 that I knew explicitly rejected woke feminist ideas. I just wish I found him a lot sooner because if I had I wouldn't have waited 4 months before finally opening up to him about my rape and trauma. For his part he understood why I was so hesitant though.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/06/21 05:25 AM
1

"Boycotting" is the wrong word. I don't like their razors anymore and the atrocious ad campaign was the excuse I needed to defect to Harry's.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/06/21 11:34 PM
1

Would love to hear some men's experiences about reproductive health care! Depends on how much you want to hear and how far you imagine "reproductive health care" to extend. The definition might make anything I have to say less relevant.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 03:34 AM
1

I don't know if that is better or worse than being asked if you're making it up for attention.
/r/MensRights05/06/21 03:08 AM
2

The social media site for researchers is ResearchGate Can a non-post-grad use it?
/r/Male_Studies05/06/21 12:53 AM
7

If they don't already care about a sub acting like this, at least towards the "right groups", what will reports do to change their minds?
/r/MensRights02/06/21 08:53 PM
57

You think the admins care? They literally said that you can't be racist to white men.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 08:21 PM
59

It got thrown out and I don't know how I would even try to pursue it myself decades later.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 07:49 PM
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What's ironic, at least in my case, is my mother made a HUGE stink about not getting me circumcised to the hospital staff. The hospital did it anyway. So they wouldn't even listen to her about it either.
/r/MensRights02/06/21 07:15 PM
14

A lot of us don't want to deal with a mental health system that at best downplays our issues or at worst actively makes them worse. I've given up on trying to get help for issues because I'm not patient enough to go through 9 specialists to find the 1 decent one that's not going to try and tell me my issues are "incel talking points".
/r/MensRights01/06/21 07:49 PM
26

The furries are getting out of hand. Now we know of their long term plans.
/r/MensRights25/05/21 01:51 AM
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The problem is any men's subreddit will get this treatment, regardless of their actual political affiliation. Why? Because we're not tooting the horn of the established feminist narrative which means we're a threat to them. It doesn't matter what any of the men's subreddits espouse, we are the enemy by virtue of not following the grain and trying to advocate for our own change that doesn't align with their's. We are men and if we feel anything that's not self-flagellation then it's unacceptable …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/05/21 11:50 AM
4

First time? They do this sort of thing a lot.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 07:29 PM
1

That's not limited to them, though it wouldn't surprise me if the ones that did it before just decided to come together and create that sub to coordinate better.
/r/MensRights07/05/21 06:09 AM
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"against hate subreddits" It's a meangirls style name and shame, "go brigade them" kind of place.
/r/MensRights06/05/21 08:33 PM
2

Ignore him and keep doing what you're doing.
/r/MensRights06/05/21 07:44 PM
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The child needs to be removed from it's biological mother. A rapist, especially one that went after a minor, has no place being allowed near another child. If you do in fact have the child as your top priority you and that brainless court system should be coming down on her like the fist of an angry God, not letting her off scot free.
/r/PussyPass03/05/21 06:09 PM
4

Last time I heard this scene brought up I was told it was a march for rape and sexual assault survivors. I don't know what's real anymore and the different contexts vastly change things.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/21 05:18 PM
1

HA! Where? I went to dozens of "specific resources" all for rape and sexual assault and the absolute best treatment I got was empty platitudes and minimal effort. Most of what I got was mockery, belittlement, and scorn. After 6 years of trying I've given up asking and come what may I'm practically alone in trying to heal. So even if there's more than "absolutely nothing", it's negligible at best and it's not coming from feminists.
/r/MensRights25/04/21 07:00 AM
1

You're not paying attention if you think the only ones with issues are the terfs. This crap is happening on sexual orientation terms, racial terms, even religious ones. Literally any identity that can be paired with "woman" has this issue and it divides them. Why would you watch someone make a horrible mistake and want that for yourself? You're right about one thing "we could do better". We could certainly do a lot better than intersectionalism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/21 05:19 PM
0

Because when you watch someone fall into substance abuse you don't think "damn it could work out better for me". If it didn't work for them why the hell would it work for us?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/21 05:01 PM
2

That sounds a lot like intersectionalism which has become a massive problem for feminists, why should we adopt it too? Solidarity not intersectionality is how you create a united front. Otherwise you divide men against each other.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/21 04:45 PM
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While I'm not quick to go to bat for mods, least of all femmie ones. It's a fair point. However it is explicitly a feminist space and because of that even if the founders are idealistic or actually making an honest effort towards outreach there's far too many reactionary elements in the various parts of feminism that would make sure no one was deviating too far from the acceptable talking points. There's a reason a lot of feminists that actually are interested in the outreach just use egalitaria…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/21 02:21 PM
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because it promised to be more than that. As with many things controlled by internet feminists when men's issues are involved they promise much but deliver less than nothing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/21 12:49 PM
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So it's just a clone of r/menslib then. That is to say controlled opposition and empty platitudes.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/21 12:30 PM
5

It's worth noting that the wording in the requirements and restrictions of who can be president of the US were gender-neutral since the country's creation. Ironcially a woman could have technically filled the roll even when she would be unable to vote herself. Just a kind of interesting thing that I noticed when reading the description in history class.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/04/21 11:49 AM
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I know quite a lot of "MRAs" that would defect immediately if they truly perceived men to be in all places better off than women. We're a counter-balance not a supremacist movement. A movement should absolutely seek it's own obsolescence. Otherwise it will completely loose touch with what it was founded for.
/r/MensRights08/04/21 08:38 AM
1

Someone archive this.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 11:40 AM
1

Wouldn't stop them from doing something monumentally stupid.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 11:35 AM
1

Report her to the professor before she can make a slanted report. DO NOT WAIT. I was screwed over so badly for trying to let things calm down.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 09:49 AM
1

Don't they usually want security and doormen to NOT get involved with this sort of thing for liability reasons?
/r/MensRights07/04/21 09:23 AM
2

A TON of wiki pages have been completely white washed after that minor outrage from feminists a few years ago. There are groups of users that patrol certain articles to make sure they have the "right" biases.
/r/MensRights07/04/21 04:24 AM
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That's been their MO for years. They just had the pretense to sweep it under the rug before.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 04:18 AM
17

Damn I just saw this on r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates and then on r/stupidpol. That second one moderately shocks me. Is this solidarity?
/r/MensRights06/04/21 02:46 AM
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Something tells me they wouldn't care about minority men either.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/21 02:31 AM
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I've given up and I'm sick of trying. Good for you though to find someone decent.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/04/21 02:22 AM
5

Domestic Violence I should also include sexual offenses in that. The UK is infamously bad at dealing with female-on-male incidents properly as it is.
/r/MensRights06/04/21 02:17 AM
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This will probably do wonders for male victims in DV situations...
/r/MensRights05/04/21 07:40 AM
53

Well the first woman saying men deserve happiness deserves some credit.
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/21 07:11 AM
1

You joke but we already have shit tons of catch22 and Kafka traps in play by these nutcases.
/r/MensRights05/04/21 07:08 AM
1

It's the problem mod doing it again isn't it?
/r/MensRights04/04/21 04:42 AM
2

You managed to find a therapist that's able to help?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/04/21 03:01 AM
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We're already in a witch trial phase though and it's a lot more wide spread than just "rape culture" frenzy. Not that it makes it any better but it's just a portion of the overall zeitgeist.
/r/MensRights04/04/21 02:35 AM
1

We stand for men, we are by definition not woke because men are a "privileged class". We'll get nowhere trying to appeal to the insanity that is a wokie.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/21 08:49 PM
10

You're lucky we don't want revenge. That's exactly what they want and that's exactly what they're doing.
/r/MensRights03/04/21 08:42 PM
5

There's a disturbing number of men that are not only ok with it they encourage this sort of thing. How exactly should we address that?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/04/21 08:36 AM
10

That's called entryism. Used to just refer to physical spaces (like voting subdivisions in a given area) but it's come to mean any kind of infiltration or invasion of a given space with differing values from the invading group. I remember describing it to someone and they asked me if I meant "imperialism" and honestly, I think it's become exactly that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/21 11:48 PM
1

Pussy pass denied. Unfortunately they still gave her a women's sentence. That is to say she's serving a much smaller sentence than if she were a he.
/r/MensRights02/04/21 02:55 AM
1

The bit in the title? "Canada is the most anti-male country in the world", why else would I say this? Though I'd disagree with her. Canada's track record with this is abysmal, especially considering who they drove to suicide for daring to try and help men, but the worst offenders are Iceland and Sweden.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 08:32 PM
20

An absurd amount of scholarships that are genderlocked are for women with most of the men's only ones (if not all of them) being sports related.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 04:55 AM
8

I made an edit just before you asked this. The source also has a degree of falsehoods in it. Namely a mention of a pay gap but the overall situation is covered.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 04:47 AM
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So you know how one of the things femmies like to push the most is quotas or affirmative action-like initiatives to get more women in places? At what point would you say they become irrelevant or their original purpose is moot? Well in Iceland those programs have resulted in women being the vast majority of college students and by extension graduates. You'd think, logically, that this would mean that the gender imbalance would warrant a reversal or at least neutralization of such policies right?…
/r/MensRights01/04/21 03:25 AM
6

True but that's not what I was in disagreement about.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 02:37 AM
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Erin Pizzey also became a pariah because she suggested domestic violence wasn't one sided and suggesting we have men's shelters too. Though I'd disagree with her. Canada's track record with this is abysmal, especially considering who they drove to suicide for daring to try and help men, but the worst offenders are Iceland and Sweden.
/r/MensRights01/04/21 02:32 AM
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Depends on who you ask. From our side of it I've heard men call them honey badgers, amazons, and even "based moms". But feminists call them "pick mes", "grifters", and "traitors".
/r/MensRights31/03/21 11:09 PM
18

It's run by a notorious powermod that likes to infiltrate men's spaces to control and denigrate them. It's a feminist minded sub first and foremost. It's both astroterf'd and controlled opposition. Nothing meaningful will ever come out of it and it's basically a place for femmies to claim "see we care about men too!" just to offer empty platitudes and to deflect from real issues. So nothing new when feminists act like address men's issues. No one who takes any of the other men's subs seriously t…
/r/MensRights31/03/21 09:32 PM
2

Country? They live in a completely different reality. They don't deal with this in the same way or on the same level. If he spoke out against this social media would crucify him for making a scene.
/r/MensRights31/03/21 03:00 AM
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It's because she thinks she was agreeing with me so she didn't understand why I was "trying to argue". My opinion was that cyber-surveillance was draconian and dystopian and she agreed. What she got testy about was that she had no idea what she was talking about when she started going on about how it was dystopian. For example, a small one, thinking "global/local" means "around the world/where you are" and not "the scope of the variable". So when a program uses a "global" to keep track of a valu…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 07:55 AM
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The grandest irony for me is my sister (who is a linguist by profession) watched a single episode of Black Mirror (the one with bees, I don't watch and she said it had mechanical bees or something) and thought she knew how programming works and she acted like she not only knew what she was talking about but claimed my attempts to correct her were "mansplaining"...even though I have two degrees related to computer science. It wouldn't be that egregious if she didn't ask my opinion and advice on s…
/r/MensRights30/03/21 04:27 AM
1

And it's only going to get worse.
/r/MensRights28/03/21 08:55 PM
4

I don't consider misandry and man-hate as feminism. I tend to judge a group not by what they say but rather but what they do. I also find this excuse very much a "No True Scotsman" especially when moderates of feminism allow the radicals to run the show with nary an action and barely a word to stop them. It was feminists that protested men's summits to discuss men's issues like mental health and plummeting school performance. The nonsense in Toronto comes to mind. The only people to condemn it i…
/r/MensRights28/03/21 07:21 AM
5

Not even remotely. Even if it was a joke why the fuck would you say that to someone's face in counseling after just being told they were raped?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/21 07:18 AM
13

I've literally heard a woman tell me mine helps "balance things out". This was in a group counseling session. There's plenty of people that have enough cognitive dissonance to think this is acceptable.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/21 06:40 PM
10

Oh look even less reason to use this digital cancer.
/r/MensRights16/03/21 04:30 AM
2

My question is what will that point be?
/r/MensRights16/03/21 03:01 AM
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Imagine extending it to other demographics. "Most black victim crimes are perpetrated by blacks themselves" Even if it's true doesn't make it less of a problem or the victim any less of a victim.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/03/21 11:57 PM
1

This is just "bowl of m&ms" with a new set of clothes.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 03:43 AM
53

There's more than that. People kept asking why I didn't fight off my abuser when she was a lot smaller than I was. My retort is always "And how would that look to everyone else? I'm fine but she's bruised? Would they even think to ask me what happened?"
/r/MensRights12/03/21 11:59 PM
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Can't wait for the day we actually start making progress with this and the feminists act like they were responsible for helping us from the start.
/r/MensRights12/03/21 06:11 PM
6

But is it surprising?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/02/21 05:08 PM
25

Reminds me of that meme "whoopsie doo, here comes the glue".
/r/MensRights04/02/21 02:44 AM
1

And what about the forced sterilizations they get to experience now instead?
/r/MensRights01/02/21 04:20 AM
3

Implying feminists are capable of looking past double-think
/r/MensRights01/02/21 04:13 AM
10

Unfortunately Judge Judy is an entertainer and not representative of the American justice system as a whole. If only her attitude was more common, still have to count the small victories as they come. Nevermind that she is right regarding the lack of a court order in regards to custody alone. I don't know where people get the idea that the custody defaults to the mother even with the heavy biases in the system.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 09:51 AM
35

Might want to upload a back up to someplace else besides google docs. Google is starting to remove or wipe stuff from drives without informing users and given their stances...
/r/MensRights30/01/21 09:41 AM
5

My point was to counter the post I was replying to, since they seemed to think an accusation automatically means guilty.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 12:45 AM
119

Doubt anyone would open the blouse of a woman who collapsed in church. You'd be wrong. We had a woman collapse in the church I went to as a teen. Multiple people, including the priest and deacon, were familiar with resuscitation techniques. (The deacon was a cop in his day job, not sure why the priest knew what to do too probably required by law in order to be allowed to keep an AED in the church). They straight up stated the woman's bra had to come off because of the metal wire. They followed p…
/r/MensRights30/01/21 12:37 AM
17

The court system literally assumes a men is innocent until you can prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that he is guilty. The idea is to let a guilty man go if the only other choice is to condemn an innocent one. This is the very foundation of due process and anything even resembling a civilized nation.
/r/MensRights30/01/21 12:03 AM
17

You just have to look at their "did you know" section. If you pay enough attention you'll notice a lot of signs of intersectional feminism and agenda pushing over actually interesting trivia facts. Then just read into any hot button topics or "controversial" pages. It gets even worse. The femmie edit group got introduced and stuff started going to hell.
/r/MensRights29/01/21 11:08 PM
2

Thanks for setting the record straight.
/r/MensRights21/01/21 08:46 AM
2

Amon did nothing wrong
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/01/21 07:21 PM
1

Contrapoints can make decent points about other things. But I don't pay enough attention to that channel to say much beyond contra's made comments suggesting a literal interpretation of "eat the rich".
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/12/20 02:24 AM
3

Nevermind there is a vested interest in smearing this man no matter what he does. People act like he's an intellectual satan.
/r/MensRights15/12/20 06:23 AM
9

"Becoming". I've heard people say it's "becoming" for the last decade. My man we are there.
/r/MensRights15/12/20 06:21 AM
1

Out of the breadtubers and social media active ones? Or like in general?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/20 06:09 AM
1

You mean all of them?
/r/MensRights15/12/20 05:39 AM
4

Vaush doesn't understand At this point the best thing to do is ignore him. He just makes left wingers look unhinged and deranged. There's better people to give attention to.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/12/20 05:38 AM
43

It's been true since I was entering middle school. I remember seeing a pamphlet on why boys were falling behind and getting lower grades. One suggestion was it was because teachers were giving them less attention and grading them harsher. That was back in 2005.
/r/MensRights15/12/20 04:57 AM
1

Making a known abuser a face of women's rights and "all" gender-based violence victims. It'd be funny if it wasn't so incredibly sad and disheartening.
/r/MensRights14/12/20 02:07 AM
5

I read the title and I was thinking "Oh great another one" but then I read the name in the picture and though "Oh this wank again".
/r/AntiFeminists13/12/20 12:29 PM
10

I've heard things like this about her on and off for a few years. But every time it comes up it becomes more prominent since she remains sane while anything radfems touch becomes more whacked.
/r/MensRights11/12/20 07:49 AM
1

That is not a sub name I would have expected with this sort of topic.
/r/PussyPass11/12/20 04:52 AM
2

I had to read about this nutcase and her manifesto in college. It disturbs me how many people unironically think it's a profound and important work.
/r/MensRights10/12/20 03:19 PM
10

Finally some good news. If it wasn't a loaded suggestion I'd say cross post it to r/UpliftingNews but it'd probably start a shit storm.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/20 01:25 PM
1

I stopped bringing them up so much outside of places like this because last time I did, it ended up with someone doxxing my sister in retaliation.
/r/MensRights05/12/20 11:46 AM
15

In my defense when I send "you up" I'm not interested in lewd I want to see if you're free for multiplayer.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/20 07:02 AM
3

You'd think this would seem less obnoxious to parrot as the years go on, but it;s just as annoying as when I was a kid.
/r/AntiFeminists04/12/20 04:09 PM
49

Patriarchy is a conspiracy theory
/r/MensRights04/12/20 03:49 PM
1

I keep hearing "pick me" used in places but what's it mean?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/20 11:12 AM
2

Even if we were to assume that was it's first meaning it has since mutated to mean everything from "nerd"/"geek" and "loser" to being used as a insult/slur for people with ASD.
/r/MensRights04/12/20 11:10 AM
2

I'm more in favor of a gender neutral term that's more descriptive of the behaviors. It wasn't fair to try and smear men with it why would the reverse be better?
/r/MensRights04/12/20 11:09 AM
22

Sounds depressingly and personally familiar.
/r/MensRights03/12/20 01:27 PM
4

Makes me think there should be a group for creators like us to constructively talk about making things from our perspectives. Not necessarily a subreddit but some kind of medium to share things we create for feedback and criticism in a healthy way. If we just used the ones open to us here it runs the risk of the inter-subreddit drama or entryism. Might open opportunities for collaborations to happen.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/20 02:29 AM
0

So what it sounds like is you don't like enforcement and application of clear double standards.
/r/AntiFeminists29/11/20 02:02 AM
5

I thought it was 51%?
/r/AntiFeminists28/11/20 10:04 PM
6

Given recent trends with wikipedia I can't say I'm surprised just disappointed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/11/20 07:51 PM
36

I don't feel hate for her, I feel pity. I feel kind of bad for her.
/r/MensRights28/11/20 05:12 AM
85

To be fair it was a rag long before that.
/r/MensRights28/11/20 05:11 AM
1

Who Peterson or Brand?
/r/AntiFeminists27/11/20 06:20 PM
2

Well she's no Christina Hoff Summers but at least she's raising above the typical thing we think of when we hear "radfem".
/r/MensRights27/11/20 04:06 AM
3

Sounds really familiar about what was said about my own generation.
/r/PussyPass27/11/20 03:50 AM
2

What going on the NeedAFriend subreddit is like. If a post has F in the title expect it to have like 20 replies in the first half hour. If it has M in it no one responds to it. The difference is if you respond to a M one you're actually likely to get the OP talking to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/11/20 08:34 PM
3

LVM? Is it so hard to type out things?
/r/AntiFeminists25/11/20 04:07 PM
23

You know they won't. Only male-on-female sexism is noteworthy, no one cares when it's the reverse. Especially not social media companies, it'd be bad for their image.
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/20 07:07 PM
5

At least they actually gave her a sentence in the double digits...
/r/AntiFeminists19/11/20 07:05 PM
3

I remember my college advisor whining that a studio I was researching and planning on interning with had a gender ratio of about 60/40 in favor of men. He claimed it was a problem for the industry that the studio was so "heavily gendered against women" and that "sexism is likely rampant". As you can guess I requested a new advisor. I thought it was an absurd thing to latch onto, even if his conclusion was true (it's not) that premise and logic is wildly absurd but that's the kind of bias people …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/20 06:28 AM
12

I'm trying a lot right now to not make a dirty joke.
/r/AntiFeminists11/11/20 12:38 AM
3

They lose face if they admit to being wrong so they have to double down.
/r/MensRights05/11/20 03:37 PM
37

The democrats need to reject wokeness in general. IDPOL is cancerous and so many issues can be tackled if they are examined in an even handed way without assuming bullshit like "privilege". So many men's issues are swept away because a lot of privilege theory proponents take it to mean that since men are a "privileged class" we don't face massive inequality too. Instead of looking at race why not just look at socioeconomic factors? Wealth inequality is a big problem and it affects every race, se…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/20 03:04 PM
1

It's not the Radfems I'm concerned about. Convincing them is harder than trying to convince a KKK member about the error of their ways. I'm concerned with the moderates. The ones that listen to the shit Radfems spew and let them run the show. There's still hope to convince some of them about the legitimacy of our concerns.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 03:03 PM
9

True, but this makes it really easy for the extreme feminists to look at the moderate ones and go "See! They're just as dangerous as we say they are!" Why take the risk and give them the ammo either way?
/r/MensRights03/11/20 02:36 PM
30

Man come on. I know what you feel and why you're saying it. But really, this is the sort of thing that feminists latch onto to try and discredit us. They will take it 100% seriously and think we really do want to off people at every opportunity.
/r/MensRights03/11/20 02:26 PM
48

A huge chunk of this site too.
/r/AntiFeminists03/11/20 09:03 AM
70

And people will still say he deserved it.
/r/PussyPass03/11/20 05:22 AM
2

Nope.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 06:52 PM
394

The British legal system is wildly biased against men. Just look at their "made to penetrate" bullshit. This is not at all surprising.
/r/MensRights02/11/20 11:15 AM
284

The Sun said the decision was a “stunning victory for press freedom” and that it had stood up and campaigned for victims of domestic abuse for more than 20 years. So then why are they backing up an actual abuser? What a joke.
/r/PussyPass02/11/20 11:13 AM
115

What...what could possibly be wrong with that answer? That's the exact same thing I'd be grateful to have.
/r/AntiFeminists02/11/20 08:37 AM
17

r/Mensrights or r/menkampf
/r/MensRights31/10/20 06:16 PM
166

I had no idea that sub existed until today. Shouldn't say I'm surprised considering how easy the swaps are.
/r/MensRights31/10/20 05:34 PM
70

So did they just take an outcome and assume that was the "natural" state of things. Or did I miss more of it?
/r/MensRights28/10/20 06:21 AM
13

We as a culture are socializing them that way. Especially the last couple decades. It's not universal but it's really overwhelming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/10/20 10:24 AM
2

Oh I remember last time I heard that said about me. I was at a group session for rape victims.
/r/MensRights27/10/20 12:22 AM
8

I'm not sure this is a Men's rights issue. Right because a family court system that is openly biased and corrupt when it comes to dealing with boys and men is not a "men's rights issue". It may not ONLY happen to men but the fact feminists don't give a shit when the victims are men means men's rights activists need to stick up for it.
/r/MensRights25/10/20 09:30 PM
5

I had to read this nutter's manifesto in college. The teacher unironically thought it was profound. Should really cross post this to r/PussyPass since she more or less got away with it.
/r/MensRights25/10/20 08:54 PM
4

It was probably from an auto-ban bot looking through your post history and preemptively hitting you.
/r/AntiFeminists24/10/20 01:46 AM
31

I heard about the whole thing from one of the doctors but the two departments involved never made a public statement. All I know is that the health center, who's employees are comprised entirely of women, were chastised for "promoting toxic masculinity ideals". Besides it was just 1 poster it's not like anyone that didn't already care was going to notice.
/r/MensRights23/10/20 12:08 AM
53

"Women's and Gender Center" You didn't ask about the second one but I might as well. ODI = Office of Diversity and Inclusion.
/r/MensRights23/10/20 12:00 AM
90

The health center at my college put one up kind of like this "It's not unmannly to admit you need a hand when things get really bad. Even heroes call for back up." They were told to take it down by the W&GC and the ODI. Hopefully they start sticking a bit more.
/r/MensRights22/10/20 10:53 PM
19

And of course men are going to be allowed to see everything their female coworkers earn too right? right?
/r/MensRights20/10/20 09:27 PM
3

The hell do you mean "becoming"? It's already at that point and has been for 2 decades. When I was in grade school there were no male teachers, they were all in high school and even then they were severely outnumbered. Not including the gym teacher I think I had 3 male teachers outside of college.
/r/MensRights19/10/20 01:36 PM
94

Feels like extortion
/r/AntiFeminists19/10/20 12:32 AM
24

It's funny that they didn't "believe women" when the accusation was leveled at Biden. I'd have a bit more respect if they were at least consistent.
/r/MensRights19/10/20 12:01 AM
4

I found my new favorite term for wage gap myths and spending disparity.
/r/MensRights16/10/20 10:44 AM
12

Imagine thinking you can get away from politics on reddit. Man, even on subreddits that have nothing to do with politics I see it everywhere. It's surreal to wander into a photography subreddit and see them spieling about BLM and police violence or going into a video dame design subreddit and have a post talking unironically about "playing a game with nazis makes you a white supremacist". It's next to impossible to escape it on this site.
/r/MensRights15/10/20 06:45 AM
4

Nothing at all surprising. Looks like run of the mill posturing, victim-blaming, and sound bite myths. I don't really expect a lot more from general reddit threads on topics like this. It's not in vogue to support "privileged" victims.
/r/MensRights14/10/20 02:18 AM
8

My only question is why anyone was debating this in Among Us of all things?
/r/MensRights14/10/20 02:05 AM
8

Is it really that surprising though? Given how much in-group bias they have and how they demonize the out-group? They are heavily based in identity and rhetoric with a big dose of "boogyman" mentality, not exactly a good combo for tolerance and understanding.
/r/MensRights13/10/20 03:45 PM
32

If any one sees this and she actually does make a rape claim this would be an 120mm AP round to her case. It would put a HUGE amount of doubt on her story and even the "automatically believe women crowd" would start to question her. Hell it might even be used to prove she lied in a counter case. She's not only a terrible person she's a complete moron.
/r/AntiFeminists13/10/20 02:47 PM
1

sexuality , societal pressures and feminism I really hope you're in high school or it's equivalent.
/r/MensRights13/10/20 07:39 AM
9

>British That's why. Britain has some of the most backwards rape and sexual assault laws in the western world. The entire basis of it is founded on a double standard. Not to say that in practice it's much better than any other place. Paper or practice the double standard is very real.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/20 10:56 PM
3

It'd likely go through an ebb and flow period as it has in the past, especially since it's tried to weave itself into practically all aspects of social justice and civil rights.
/r/AntiFeminists05/10/20 05:30 AM
1

" She decided to not listen music made by men, read books made by men, or film directed by men" That's some next level rhetoric.
/r/MensRights05/10/20 04:52 AM
17

Lest we fall into thinking women are the enemy.
/r/AntiFeminists01/10/20 09:22 PM
9

Only 8 months? Damn even when women face consequences they get off light.
/r/MensRights01/10/20 03:57 AM
9

"So I went and did more research like you requested" "And what did you find out?" "The argument for the wage gap is even weaker than I thought" ​ You could also ask him why don't people have a hiring preference for women if they are cheaper to employ. If they are just as qualified as men in all circumstances and it costs less to hire them, then why don't people just hire them instead of men?
/r/MensRights29/09/20 09:58 AM
13

If you could find a social media site that wouldn't ban you on site for saying it.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/20 05:18 PM
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