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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
3	How do I even start?		Alert_Ad2744	/r/Divorce_Men	24/02/25 05:05 PM

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1	How do I even start? Thank you. This is good advice. There is not really any urgency. It is something I have been contemplating for a while now. This post is my first attempt at fact seeking. In September, my daughter starts Kindergarten. That's gonna save me $1k a month and will be my opportunity to stash some cash away. I am fine with being patient, and I want to make sure my kids and I come out ok on the other side of this.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 02:39 PM
1	How do I even start? Marriage is hard. The kids aren't so bad. I think I do pretty well as a father. The fact of the matter is I am not in love with her. I married her because she got pregnant after just stopping birth control out of the blue. We had been together for barely a year and had never even talked about kids. I think deep down I resent her for it. I thought I would learn to love her over time but to me it just feels like she has digressed into a needy teenager. It's like I have 3 people that can't support …	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 01:44 PM
1	How do I even start? Thank you. I realize I will always have to pay. But the long-term costs are much less. I do not want to just blindside her on this. I have brought up counseling in the past and it always gets brushed off. My plan is when I am ready I am going to bring it up one more time and if she refuses I'm going to ask her for the divorce.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/02/25 01:30 PM