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Yep, in complete honestly pretty much transcribed and copy pasted. I think there's so much value in this specific part that I wanted as many people as possible to benefit from it, I do not take credit.
/r/seduction02/11/19 12:07 PM
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Hey dude, this video literally is a full step by step guide to solving your problems, just have faith in it and stick through the whole thing, I went from having your problem to solving it just by watching this shit for 40 min: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4At3IFc2Ank
/r/seduction06/10/18 05:18 AM
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The best way to handle these situations is always to head in with the intention of having fun and seeing where it goes. If you stress out and start analyzing plans, possible outcomes, options, strategies etc you're just gonna end up stressing yourself and coming in with a shitty low self esteem attitude that neither girl will dig. Just head there and focus on having the best time possible, be the best version of yourself. Talk to girl #1, talk to girl #2, talk to every single other girl, talk to…
/r/seduction02/10/18 10:52 AM
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100%. Hollywood movieslead us to believe that declaring your love to a girl in a letter and asking her on a date is a genius approach. Funniest and most interesting thing is that girls themselves eve would probably say they'd love this if you ask them. Put this into reality and you're "creepy", if you're lucky you get friendzoned, and she'll run off to the guy that sparks her deep primal needs and pulls her to her place without showing interest.
/r/seduction02/10/18 10:02 AM
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High schools are small circles. Even if you don't have mutual friends with a girl, if you start going around and doing COLD APPROACHES, telling girls shit like "hey you're really cute I wanted to come say hi", I'd say it's pretty likely that the word is gonna spread that you're some guy walking up to girls and saying they're cute and want to talk to them, especially because this isn't very common for a girl under 18. That being said, by all means you should engage and try to meet a girl if you t…
/r/seduction02/10/18 08:57 AM
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I'd say the issue you have is you rely on demonstrating your attraction to girls by literally telling girls you're attracted to them. This very very very rarely works, even if you're a relatively successful and attractive guy like yourself, that could easily get that girl if you knew what to do. I had this exact problem when I was 18-19 and it takes a bit of time and effort to get used to it and fix it. For us guys it's a logical thing. "You're attractive/smart/cute/funny and I like spending tim…
/r/seduction02/10/18 08:46 AM
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The problem I think you're having is you're abandoning the "frame" that originally attracted the girl. If you approach a girl with an attitude of confidence and assertiveness using high sexual energy and you manage to spark her interest, the reason why she's interested you is because in her eyes you're a confident/assertive guy with high sexual energy. She gives you her number and you schedule a date with her, she expects to get more of that abundance mindset that initially hooked her. She feels…
/r/seduction02/10/18 08:11 AM
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This is a great point that I think we all have to consider. There's a fine line between expanding your comfort zone, trying something you're not used to, pushing your boundaries and expanding your limits, versus deliberately forcing yourself to do unnatural things to try to become something different to who you are essentially.
/r/seduction01/09/18 12:41 PM
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You already have the 2 hardest parts nailed down: 1) She's into you 2) She likes dancing with you We both know that knowing Salsa you don't even need any sort of verbal game, just give her a really good dance with some good eye contact and a lot of smiling and this will set up the mood. When you have a really good dance with a really attractive girl and the song ends you can definitely feel that you're both feeling that little rush of excitement. Once you're here this is the EASIEST moment in th…
/r/seduction07/05/18 11:04 AM
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This is awesome to hear man! Doesn't matter what happens now, even if she never replies to your text and you never see her again, this was already a huge victory for you and you should be proud of it forever.
/r/seduction07/05/18 10:58 AM
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Yeah man, girls always like to openly talk about all these things. She might feel self conscious or nervous about some things, by having open comfortable discussions she'll feel like you respect her and value her consent. Later on you can even move further on into talking about what turns her on/what her kinks are, or anything like this, it's always better to keep everything on the table. If you have any insecurities or things making you nervous feel free to discuss them with her as well, girls …
/r/seduction06/05/18 06:00 AM
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Just tell yourself there's a solid 80 or 90% chance she'll react positively. If you've had success with girls from class that already means you're not inept with people/girls skills. It can be super scary but put it this way, who the fuck wouldn't like a stranger to come up to them and tell them they look pretty? (Maybe 10% of the girls) Another thing you could ask yourself is "What's the WORST thing that could happen?" Maybe she'll look at you with an unpleasant face and say something like "Tha…
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:49 AM
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Have you tried actually talking to her about it? She's a person. If you say you regularly meet up with her and watch movies and make out you must be at least to some degree familiar with her. Ask her how she feels in these situations, whether she'd feel comfortable doing more, what she'd like to do, if she's afraid of anything, etc. Trying to find some sort of magic sex trick to push through her boundaries seems not only unrealistic but also pretty silly to me.
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:43 AM
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Try it during the day! Especially if you're just getting started (and you have all this "technical knowedge" from books in your head that you're trying to remember to follow), somewhere like a bar or club with loud music where girls are all dressed up and in groups can be extremely intimidating. Try something like going to a park, open popular place in the city, or even a mall during the day. You'll see a lot of more girls that are alone and being in a public open space with daylight will make y…
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:39 AM
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I deal with this a lot going to Salsa clubs, where basically the sole point of going there is dancing. You get a lot of girls saying no to you, first thing is to identify if they legitimately don't want to dance or they just want you to go away. Using your common sense this should be pretty easy to determine. If it seems like the girl does like you but she doesn't want to dance it could very well be that she's shy or nervous that she'll embarrass herself. I usually just try and smile, raise my v…
/r/seduction06/05/18 05:35 AM
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Seconded. Having a sedentary lifestyle getting no exercise in and having a shit diet can destroy your sex drive
/r/seduction05/05/18 10:17 AM
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Try and pick up a hobby man. Worry firstly about having fun in life, making some friends, getting comfortable socially and feeling happy with your life and the rest will start to become easier. My 2 hobbies are Salsa dancing and Brazilian Jiu Jitsu. Both are great, super fun and have a good social aspect to them where everyone is positive and good to newcomers. I feel like Meetup groups and these things are a bit useless, actually taking a hobby/class will work out so much better.
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:39 PM
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Coconut oil. The one for cooking that comes in a jar. Yep, you heard that right. You can get a big ass jar for like 5$. Once you try that shit you're never even looking at lube again.
/r/seduction04/05/18 02:36 PM
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Of course a girl in a bookstore looking at biographies isn't looking to get laid. I'm saying they all have sexual interests in general in life.
/r/seduction03/05/18 03:41 PM
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You can find any approach that works for you but I'd strongly recommend to make it come across as flirty/romantically interested straight off the bat. You don't want the first thing of her to think of you to be that you're just a nice friendly guy that's up for a fun chat. That's a waste of time, you'll never get out of there anymore. It's ok for her to think you only came to talk to her based on looks. That's the truth right? During the conversation some interesring things might pop up that you…
/r/seduction03/05/18 02:32 PM
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The more times you approach the more you get rejected, and the quicker you'll get to the point where rejection unphases you. That third paragraph is so true, the regret of not doing it is millions and millions of times worse than the rejection.
/r/seduction03/05/18 02:07 PM
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Depends on what you would classify as working! Probably 80% get a positive reaction/start a conversation. 20% get FB or number.
/r/seduction03/05/18 01:19 PM
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This is great, totally support it. Similarly, I once approached a girl and she looked at me with some sort of disgust on her face and said "thanks but I think you should go". After this, I realised that that's probably the WORST that can happen, and it didn't even make me feel the least bit bad! From now on whenever I'm gonna approach a girl I remember the absolute worst that can happen is this, and I instantly get 0 fear. I guess this would be my version of the same thing.
/r/seduction03/05/18 01:12 PM
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Completely agreed. When I said she's still a human, it includes you've gotta treat her just like one.
/r/seduction03/05/18 09:01 AM
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Girls will generally like a guy who looks independent, mentally strong and confident, what you call "narcissistic". This is probably what you're like when you're in the flirting/hookup phase, which is likely the reason you're successful. Girls will generally not like a guy who acts clingy, needy, sees her as some sort of goddess and demonstrates way too much attachment. It's hard because when you fall for a girl you do see her as a goddess and naturally get attached to her, but if you show her t…
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:05 PM
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I'm a Salsa dancer. I do it very regularly both in classes and in nights out, and trust me girls love this shit, I haven't met a single girl who says anything other than it sounds sexy, she'd like me to show her, I look sexy when I'm doing it, etc. However, a lot of men I meet have this preconception that dancing is gay (even if it's a close body to body dance with a female partner, I met my previous long term girlfriend there/I've gotten thousands of numbers/and I've taken Tinder girls to the s…
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:38 PM
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Yeah for sure, you don't wanna stick to mall store employees for a long time, you'll become famous hahah. It's a good starting point though, afterwards you can move on to literally anywhere, mall open areas, parks, train stations, bookstores, open boulevards in the city. Find your own spots where you have the best targets/feel the most comfortable Anywhere where there's people means there's possible approaches.
/r/seduction30/04/18 12:09 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:25 AM
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Bro I'm 160cm and I have a buzzcut because I lost almost all my hair by the time I was 20. I can't change either of these things, but I can change some other things, like going to the gym to at least not be fat on top of all of this. Control the controllable, don't worry about things you can't change.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:25 AM
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Happy to hear this :)
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:23 AM
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100%. Even the library/bookstore cashier or employee, she still probably reads a lot.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:23 AM
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It literally is surprising. Once you get the taste of success you realise how this whole thing is way more effective than you would've ever guessed before you tried it.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:23 AM
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In some cases I can see how this is right. If you see that tall, blonde, perfect body, perfect makeup, expensive clothes girl with a bitchy resting face, chances are most guys have been scared to approach her and they usually go for the slightly uglier girl next to her.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:22 AM
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Awesome man, good luck, anyone can do it!
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:20 AM
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On Tinder if you see a 10, it's super unlikely she'll match you, she probably has a line of 100 guys who are hotter than you who are desperate to throw their dicks at her face. In the mall if you see a 10, at least you have some opportunity to try something.
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:20 AM
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Yeah man we're in the exact same situation. The thing is, as long as you always have the shitty but reliable Tinder sex to get back to, you'll probably never feel the strong need to do something else. Maybe just delete Tinder and force yourself to not use it and cut contact with all your old fuckbuddies, at some point you'll start feeling a lot of sense of urgency to actually fucking do it since otherwise you'll be on a dryspell. What I said to another guy here I think would be useful for you, j…
/r/seduction30/04/18 06:19 AM
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You just have to immerse yourself. Take 3 days in a row and go to the mall or whatever and just make it your goal to approach as many girls as possible. The more constantly you're doing it, the quicker you'll get to the point where you don't give a single fuck. You'll never feel as nervous/scared as your fiest time, every time will generally be a tiny little bit easier than the one beflre that.
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:17 AM
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I started in malls, especially hitting on the employees of retail stories. Whether it was a clothes shop or any other shop I'd walk up to the girl (obviously only if she's not busy) and say "Hey I actually don't need anything from this store, I just thought you were attractive so I thought I'd come and say hi" Wait for hee reply and follow up with "Are you studying fashion?"/"Are you the manager here?"/"What do you do in your life besides selling shoes to people?" Try to build up conversation fo…
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:15 AM
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See my other reply.
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:11 AM
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See my other reply.
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:11 AM
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I set up my profile with some really good photos. Some of them in the gym, some od them doing Jiu Jitsu, some of them with some kids in my family, basically trying to show that you have a varied interesting life, also have a funny/slightly sexual or flirty bio. After doing this for a while I found the best strategy was just to take on a really cocky/arrogant sort of personality over the texting, always with a lot of teasing and just acting in general like you're sure you'll get laid with her any…
/r/seduction30/04/18 01:11 AM
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I feel like online dating does half the work for you. Gives you the opportunity to advertise yourself however you want, puts you in contact with a girl that already likes you, and lets you calmly think through everything you'll say. It's easy to be the king of seduction when you can think through everything you're saying and all she's seeing is text. The downside is that after doing it consistently for over 2 years it started feeling very repetitive, getting laid with a Tinder girl meant nothing…
/r/seduction29/04/18 01:22 PM
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Thanks!
/r/seduction29/04/18 01:12 PM
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Fair enough, that's a much more positive outlook. Thanks!
/r/seduction29/04/18 01:12 PM
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I feel like it's definitely better to start off with something specific to the girl/the situation (like the books in this case), but I feel it's beneficial to say that she's cute or attractive beforehand. You're basically upfront putting on the table that the main reason why you came up to her is because you're romantically interested, I think if you come up and talk about books she might be thinking you're just a friendly guy that wants to have a casual book conversation. Escalating it to somet…
/r/seduction29/04/18 08:58 AM
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Thanks man :)
/r/seduction29/04/18 08:53 AM
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